4 Ways to Accept Others for Who they Are - Building Healthy Relationships | Swami Mukundananda

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  • čas přidán 22. 09. 2023
  • Accepting others for who they are - One of the secrets to leading a happy life is to let go of your expectations with others - Your Friend, spouse, parents, or any acquaintance.
    What kinds of expectations must one give up to maintain healthy relationships?
    How do we accept others for who they are?
    Watch more to learn as Swami Mukundananda explains it in detail in this 17th episode of the Art and Science of Happiness series.
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Komentáře • 125

  • @rajatkumarmahapatra7142
    @rajatkumarmahapatra7142 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Obviously it helps us to establish healthy relationship. The most important point is that it helps to maintain balance of our mind that leads to maintain our spiritual practices without any distraction.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      That's a great point! Healthy relationships will help us to practice spirituality.

  • @nikita6995
    @nikita6995 Před 10 měsíci

    Jai ho Swamiji ki🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤

  • @puspanjalipatra1001
    @puspanjalipatra1001 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wonderful ✨😍 message from great👍👏 swamiji 😊

  • @amitkumarsahoo7670
    @amitkumarsahoo7670 Před 10 měsíci

    Hare Krishna, Hari Bol 🙏

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you very very much Swamiji🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @user27342
    @user27342 Před 2 měsíci

    Radhey Radhey🙏❤️

  • @madhumitasahoo3055
    @madhumitasahoo3055 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very beautiful explanation by Swami Ji 🙏🙏♥️

  • @ethanhunt246
    @ethanhunt246 Před 10 měsíci +1

    It was a very helpful lecture. Thank you very much Swamiji. Radhey Radhey.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @achachila1
    @achachila1 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thanks Dear Swamiji...

  • @vidyavenupawar6364
    @vidyavenupawar6364 Před 10 měsíci

    Stop expectations, with empathy and compassion build relationships. Especially Agape love, which is pure selfless love like God, unconditional and undemanding will make to have deep relationship with spouse, kids, relatives, immediate families, neighbors and with colleagues. This video outstanding...Swamiji's explanation really took my heart

  • @gourisankar845
    @gourisankar845 Před 10 měsíci +1

    In relationship understanding is most important and don't raise expectations towards others, give ur best in relationship.....

  • @dalerafferty2605
    @dalerafferty2605 Před 10 měsíci

    Swami Mukundananda ji offers many discourses with spiritually charged messages we can apply to our daily life. Here he is sharing with us that giving in relationship is key to harmony.

  • @chaitrachoudri
    @chaitrachoudri Před 10 měsíci +8

    Each of your discourse takes us so deep into human psychology, and helps us understand ourselves better

  • @hariharkripalu
    @hariharkripalu Před 10 měsíci +3

    Such a wonderful explanation by Swamiji. Most of us are struggling with this issue. Keeping expectations from others which is making our life hell. Thankyou so much Swamiji for this wonderful explanation.

  • @7marve
    @7marve Před 8 dny

    One of the best ones

  • @sprajapati2011
    @sprajapati2011 Před 10 měsíci

    wooah woaah wooah swamiji
    I am truly speechless
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @sushreesangita365
    @sushreesangita365 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thanks for sharing the secrets of healthful relationships.

  • @anupabasnet3363
    @anupabasnet3363 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Radhey Radhey Swamiji i am your great fan as just listening to you i feel positive and happy.Thankyou Swamiji for your videos 😊

  • @BholeBabaRamShyamSeva
    @BholeBabaRamShyamSeva Před 10 měsíci

    Swamiji beautifully explained the the root cause of unhealthy relationships is expectations - if we can let go of expectations and learn to empathize and understand others, that will lead to a healthy relationship

  • @anjalimishra-yc8mz
    @anjalimishra-yc8mz Před 10 měsíci +1

    when we expecting others we are disappointed when things not done according to us and that is the reason we feel sadness thankyou swami ji

  • @shivasharanmamma8808
    @shivasharanmamma8808 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Swamiji I feel very fortunate to listen your lecture. You always touch my heart with every words uttered by you are full of emotions.

  • @sushamanayak4032
    @sushamanayak4032 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wonderful explanation by Swamiji . We should not expect any thing from others . .we should maintain healthy relation with all .

  • @tejaljasani9231
    @tejaljasani9231 Před 10 měsíci

    Such a beautiful explanation for resolving any conflict in a relationship!

  • @sanjaybhati6823
    @sanjaybhati6823 Před 10 měsíci +1

    A very meaningful topic, we don't know where we are making mistakes in relationships.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      Yes - This knowledge can turn around our lives!

  • @sabitasatapathy3967
    @sabitasatapathy3967 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Very beautyful video. Swamiji clearly explained how we realise the healthy Relationship in life. Expectation of perfection of others is matter our activities. Accept the challenge and situation in excepting from others in positivity. Change our mentality and focus on our limitation changing statement of others.

  • @sapanbiswal2343
    @sapanbiswal2343 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very very nice motivation for every one in their common day life

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      Agreed! We cannot escape people interaction - so better become wiser at that!

  • @superteq2017
    @superteq2017 Před 8 měsíci

    This is an eye-opening video

  • @bhavanithillai
    @bhavanithillai Před 9 měsíci

    Hara Hara Mahadev ❤🕉️🇮🇳♥️

  • @anitaramanna7506
    @anitaramanna7506 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Like plants, we can also in relationships when working together at work or while doing seva can thrive when we have companionship/love and respect for each other we can help to grow each other’s journey and bring out the best in each others, at the same time not to expect to have perfect behavior from others. Let’s move forward together to higher kind of Love !!!

  • @akadigaming4922
    @akadigaming4922 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Mutual understanding gives strength to relationships and make it strong ☺❤🙏

  • @manoramadas9882
    @manoramadas9882 Před 10 měsíci

    Expectation leads to frustration. For a healthy and harmonious relationaship ,we need to change 'should' perspective and foucs more empathetic towards others. Wonderful explanation By Swamiji. Thank you.

  • @kalashinaik9828
    @kalashinaik9828 Před 10 měsíci

    Radhey Radhey sawmiji

  • @muthukiliyan7701
    @muthukiliyan7701 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @diptyraninayak7481
    @diptyraninayak7481 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The problem of relationships is a modern issue due to a decrease in the level of tolerance and increase in expectations from others. Now people are more conscious about their rights and privileges they should get but neglect the feelings/ respect of others. Swamiji says here arises the problem in relationships.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      So true - we ought to pause and think about the other person - instead of being extremely self-centered!

  • @madhusmitadash6439
    @madhusmitadash6439 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Better relationship are very important in life. Main evil in our relationship is expectations. Root cause of expectations is selfishness. We need to get rid of the expectations.

  • @Zenith681_JpC.bstno.x
    @Zenith681_JpC.bstno.x Před 10 měsíci

    Radhey Radhey Swamiji!!🙇‍♀️☺️✨

  • @jharanadas3523
    @jharanadas3523 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Love is God ❤

  • @anweshaacharya3769
    @anweshaacharya3769 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wonderful

  • @sumitmukherjee2898
    @sumitmukherjee2898 Před 10 měsíci

    Radhey Radhey🙏🙏🙏

  • @vrindavishwanathan6019
    @vrindavishwanathan6019 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Awesome explanation.... guru ji....Let Go .....it helps a lot...I have been practicing this now and it's just blissful....that change or choice u make helps not only us but the relationship too...u feel hmmmmmmm.....ahhhhh😊😊😊😊

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      That's great to know! 😇🙏Thanks for sharing your experience!

  • @vrindaneel2172
    @vrindaneel2172 Před 10 měsíci

    Giving attitude and empathy will help us build long lasting and healthy relationships. Thank you so much for guiding us!

  • @sailajabaral9782
    @sailajabaral9782 Před 10 měsíci +1

    We should try first to understand then to be understood, rather than judging or expecting anything from others we need try to be perfect.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      So true - we are mostly focused on our needs and likes.

  • @lingarajpradhan2989
    @lingarajpradhan2989 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wonderful vedeo ❤

  • @santoshkumarmahanty6671
    @santoshkumarmahanty6671 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Nice watching

  • @santoshsahu3357
    @santoshsahu3357 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Expectations leads to frustration. These are premeditated disappointments. Expectations of perfection, Expectations of equal people's actions, Expectations that Others should know my mind, Expectating reciprocations all four types of expectations are due to selfishness. Relationships are not business contracts. Rethinking about the expectations, changing our thinking process can lead a better relationship. Thanks swamiji for amazing explanation ❤❤

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      Wonderfully expressed! Agree on selfishness aspect. 😇🙏

  • @manchitraut1985
    @manchitraut1985 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you Swamiji
    With your continuous teaching
    This world definitely be a better place

  • @amit4006
    @amit4006 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank You, Swamiji, for teaching us how to build healthy relationships today. EXPECTATIONS ARE THE BIGGEST EVIL IN A RELATIONSHIP.

  • @krishnatulsi4749
    @krishnatulsi4749 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wow, Pujniya Swamiji has imparted much truly valuable knowledge here.
    I adore every nugget of this priceless information. I particularly liked the idea that we need to alter our should statement among these lovely insights. We shouldn't anticipate anything from anyone because in every relationship, expectations only lead to disappointment. I appreciated Swamiji's straightforward advice on how to keep up a healthy relationship.
    I'm at a loss for words to express my gratitude to you, Swamiji.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      Indeed! Truly priceless gems of wisdom! 😇🙏

  • @homegarden9685
    @homegarden9685 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wonderful Video Swamiji ,thank you so much 🎉❤ it was so deep and will keep contemplating it so that I can do my best in its application in my life. We all have those qualities in us but we become selfish and keep ourselves as vips .We forget our own mistakes and keep highlighting other imperfections. Pehale appane grireban mai jhako ,this I keep telling to my self 😊

  • @geethavijayaarjunan8002
    @geethavijayaarjunan8002 Před 10 měsíci

    Radhe Radhe

  • @saffroned3699
    @saffroned3699 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Yap when we learn to give without expectations we receive unexpected surprises

  • @v1k2s3
    @v1k2s3 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Expectations lead to frustration so we need to let go expectations

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      right - and we will become a happier person!

  • @spiritualismmotivation3660
    @spiritualismmotivation3660 Před 10 měsíci +1

    We should not make expectations 😊😊
    Thank you swamiji

  • @hadinayak1424
    @hadinayak1424 Před 10 měsíci +1

    We should not expect anything from others. Expectations always not fulfilled. For a better relationships we should get rid the expectations.

  • @sushantakumarmohanty4625
    @sushantakumarmohanty4625 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Expectations are usually about the other party to confirm to our viewpoint. Expectations can not always be fulfilled. We should not expect perfection from others. Expectations strain relationship. Selfishness is the root cause of expectations. To be happy, learn to give more than you take and to love than to be loved.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      Great point - to be able to give more than we take - we need to assess ourselves on this aspect - it would be probably proportional to the level of our SQ.🙏

  • @MD-ol9tt
    @MD-ol9tt Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very good

  • @sandhyadas6323
    @sandhyadas6323 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Very nice explanation by Swamiji. In a relationship understanding each other's problems, situations, necessities and expectations are vital things. It is very practical that all the problems arise from too much of expectations. So to live a peaceful life we should not keep too much expectations in anything or any one.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      True - we are lacking empathy!

  • @sudhasarangi3067
    @sudhasarangi3067 Před 10 měsíci +2

    For a long lasting and harmonious relationship, we have to avoid "should" expectation.

  • @OFFICIAL_DIBYANEE
    @OFFICIAL_DIBYANEE Před 10 měsíci

    ❤🙏🙏radhe radhe

  • @user-us6fi8rh4r
    @user-us6fi8rh4r Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @earthlyeasel7807
    @earthlyeasel7807 Před 10 měsíci +1

    🙏❤️

  • @naveenrunfit7760
    @naveenrunfit7760 Před 10 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @krushnachandra4038
    @krushnachandra4038 Před 10 měsíci

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @subhamdas1477
    @subhamdas1477 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The disappoint among any relationship is expectation which is for our own selfishness.🙏

  • @vandanamahajan4826
    @vandanamahajan4826 Před 10 měsíci +1

    🙏

  • @bedtimestorybybharativerma2718
    @bedtimestorybybharativerma2718 Před 10 měsíci +1

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @lal_harsh
    @lal_harsh Před 4 měsíci

    1. Expecting Others To Be Perfect
    "Be Lenient When It Comes To Judging Others, But Be Strict When It Comes To Judging Ourseves."
    2. Expecting Others To Do Certain Action/Behave In A Certain Way
    3. Expecting Others To Read My Mind
    3. Expecting Reciprocations

  • @meenachauhan3703
    @meenachauhan3703 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Expectations lead to frustation.

    • @JKYogAdmin
      @JKYogAdmin Před 10 měsíci

      Agreed - we need to change this attitude. 🙏

  • @dr.uthrasundar7937
    @dr.uthrasundar7937 Před 2 měsíci

    Reframe thoughts of entitlement with Empathy. Expectations spoil healthy relationships as they are pre meditated disappointments. Never expect all people to be perfect as it is impossible even with us. Accept people as they are. Never expect others to read our mind. Only God can do that. Dont crave for reciprocation. Agape Love is what God showers on us. It is selfless filled with compassion for us. As his parts lets nurture such genuine love and be ever empathetic making God feel proud. Give Give and Give

  • @nirmala8518
    @nirmala8518 Před 10 měsíci +1

    If there is no reciprocation in a relationship, how can it survive? The giver will soon get tired of giving & giving....

  • @snoopanoop7705
    @snoopanoop7705 Před 10 měsíci +1

    🙂

  • @suvarnamani5344
    @suvarnamani5344 Před 10 měsíci +1

    🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐

  • @manjushreerath
    @manjushreerath Před 10 měsíci +1

    Be lenient when it comes to judging others and be strict when it comes to judging yourself. Be perfect yourself, don't expect that level of perfection in others. Accept other's limitations, their likes and dislikes to have a harmonious and joyful relationship.

  • @teppalatejanand
    @teppalatejanand Před 10 měsíci

    06:36

  • @marcr2204
    @marcr2204 Před 10 měsíci

    Guru ji. My heart says Krishna is real but my mind says he is not real. it makes me cry if someone says he is not real since i cried so many times just thinking his name, why do i have this conflict in my mind?

    • @user-tq8dp1dk2l
      @user-tq8dp1dk2l Před 10 měsíci

      Shri Krushn exists💚💚💚 and you will also realise it

    • @rinus9234
      @rinus9234 Před 10 měsíci

      The heart always says truth.. lord Krishna is real , it is not fake

  • @_jay_hanuman447
    @_jay_hanuman447 Před 10 měsíci

    my parents and grandparents are mental idiots disgusting arogant people around me eated my mind bc m unse chhutkara nhi le pa rhi 😢