They didnt notice you were crying They didn't notice you were sad They didn’t notice you were tired They didn’t notice you were alone They didn’t notice how attentive you were They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are... They didn’t notice how you actually try to make others smile They did notice you failing grades They did notice your unattractive They did notice the mean side of you They did notice all your mistakes They did notice all you flaws They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them. But you stayed strong You kept going on You never gave up on hope You never let then take you down And you know they wasn’t good enough for you And that’s what make you stronger not mine but u can spread it to make someones day :)
@@milkqx You do realize you aren’t special, they aren’t even specifically talking to you. This message isn’t even directed to you, so I’d recommend you to pipe down and go back to eating your dinosaur nuggets. 🙏
I am that friend, I always like to say these things like this to my friends "I'm a parasite you can't get rid of me" "the only way to get rid of me is to throw me away yourself" and alot of my friends only see me as positive almost never sad just a hyperactive person. I also have huge attachment issues and am scared to be left by people, so even if someone hurts me, I shrug it off and stay with them. I even am toxic to myself due to my dark humor of self insult humor. My parents are worried and want me to get new friends, but I'm too scared to lose people. Even if my friends hurt me or not the best I didn't want to lose them, I was sort of the joke of the group and I made myself a joke, I joked about my pain and trauma and it even disturbed people around me. My attachment issues are even worse because I'm not social and if I loss friends I'm scared I won't make more. I am self distructive and like to mentally harm myself as a joke and sometimes my friends don't realize and accidentally make it worse. I've been this way for years. I feel like I'm venting it's weird and awkward, but if people read this, I I don't know.. Thanks though I will end it here, though.
I am not a psychology expert or anything but I have been through what you are currently. I also don't know the actual you but from my experience, aslong as you keep it light, fun and sutff, it is not bad but actually a good coping mechanism. Tho I can see it being harmful for your psyche if left unchecked. All and all...I hope you are having a happy day!
dude, i have a friend that just insults me, and then we laugh about it then i insult her back, we about and have fun, its diffrent when you mean it in a funny way.
Just sometimes they cry and they dont show it. Just the fact that they are just Idk. also idm that when they shout at the sad ppl and they made revenge The happy person on the left needs oscar Edit: i edited my comment bcus i want to?
Me and my bestie at a mall Me : bestie..it’s time. Bestie : >:D *me getting phone out and plays a song* I WOKE UP IN A NEW BUGATTI Both of us in the cart : WEEEEEEEE
Please tho, dont stay friends with someone who constantly berates and belittles you and says mean shit to you. Its a very toxic relationship :'D im sure yknow what i mean by this
This is literally the most toxic but sweet dynamic. One has a low self esteem (most of the time) and the other has anger issues. When they get close they help each other out with each others problems and it's just so wholesome
omg that's the dymanic of two of the main charachters in a book that I'm writing except one is traumatised and has a sickly distorted self image and one has ocd and anger issues
The most painful is when u keep being toxic and when u change and start actually needing them.. they replace u (happened with me my bestie was always there for me and I was the ignoring one now she replaced me)
To be mean to you? Or you are the mean person? If its the first one gezz dude thats weird if its the second one I think the other person Will get tired of your shitty personality
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
It really depends tho. The negative person might want to be a better person because of the effort the positive is doing. It can also be that the negative will have a soft spot with the positive but still rude and everything with everyone else
it depends because the person could have a bipolar disorder or they just are really stone-hearted, and what i mean by stone hearted is that they most likely just didnt have the best life and have a lot of trust issues, so they unintentionally push people away too
Same but cousin but he loves me and hugs me [in a cousin brother way] I love him :) He's an old grandpa tho ☠️ [he's in his 20s and I'm not even 15 ☠️]
@@_n3ptun3s.angel_thats still a toxic friend ship, me and my bsf have been friends for 6-7 years also and we don’t do that .. ik everyone is different but that is js plain toxic
It's a really sweet thing to have people who accept your flaws. Just be sure to return that favour when they need it and appreciate them. Being friends with someone who constantly antagonises you is mentally exhausting. If you truly see someone who cares a lot about you then you must also put in the effort to care for them. Friendship can never be a one sided thing
Don't be surprised if she hates you one day. Don't expect someone to love you forever when you are so cruel to them. We are human beings who love and hate. We are not robots. We also want those we consider to be our friends to love us. Be kinder to her so that your friendship don't become toxic. One hand doesn't clap.
god? you dont even know the trauma i have 2years ago and im still doing today? you dont know ill die if i dont have a inhaler, when i vomit i cant stop? Im not trying to be rude but when im nice im always called "Rude "@@Azurewithgogos
I can relate. But in a way, it makes a person feel accepted by them. That no matter what happens, they'll be there. That they genuinely wants to be your friend. ❤ Edit: Woah ty for the likes :00
Like my bff if i close to someone (girl) she gonna mad at me and i still smile also i cant do anything she so easy to mad like prank and she also mad if i have friends (girl) at roblox too i want to end the friendship but.. i likes to be bestie with her because it been 4 years friend with her..
Ngl that is literally me😂 My friend : "You are dumb" Me: "I know" And a bunch of other insults all I respond with is I know because if you target my insecurities I will not defend myself 😊
I have a friend who is slowly becoming my bestie and i really hope our friendship turns out as nice as this one ❤ UPDATE: Me and that friend are now like sisters. Me and another friend got in a fight and because of that that friend became really close with me!
I’d like to put this comment out there even with the chance that nobody will see this. If you have a friendship where your friend OPENLY INSULTS YOU, that is not healthy in the slightest. If you both understand it’s a joke, and your friend will stop if you say your uncomfortable, that’s one thing, but this is another. This is not a friendship. This is toxic. If your friend treats you like this, you need to tell an adult and get out of the relationship. This will never be okay. As someone who’s been in these relationships several times, they are INCREDIBLY damaging to your mental health and trying to “wait for them” is only going to make it worse. You cannot fix them. They do not want to be around you, and if you try and make them want to be around you, you’re only going to make things worse for yourself. Please take care of yourself. I love you.
Yk I might really use this advice, I used to be in a amazing relationship with this one girl- then it turned toxic after *one* time I just snapped because she kept pushing my buttons- and wouldn’t take my apology (mind you I was “apologizing for saying j wanted to (off) myself) for saying what I said. Like- I get you were upset but it’s not ok to try and force somebody to say sorry for something like that- at that time that’s when they need you the most-
Thank you. I have a friend that has other friends and they basically bully me everyday calling me names like rat and more, and they just looking for attention. Well one day I had a comment about crying in general about her messager/her dog and they took it as I wa saying it to them and we had a fight about my opinion and her other dog/guard was bullying me the whole way. Mean while she having a okay life as I suffer with grades, being in a more advanced school,social anxiety, people hating me , my body , and more. Am I wrong for doing this?
It feels nice to be just yourself with a close friend. you can show your ugly side to them without expecting any disgust or hate. It sounds relaxing to let yourself loose
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago. So be careful who you make friends with and surround yourself with people who want to succeed and become a better version of themselves
@@aaangel4103 it's also important to realize that if your friend hurts you or hurts others, you should leave them. Its also important to keep a strong mind and realize, that their not a good person. And unless they want to change or you make them open their eyes, they will still and become a bad person. So, good job on leaving them. Even if it took a long time.
@@FunnyNFunky me and my friends are polar opposites. And I have emotion swings 24/7 which means like I’m happy, and then the next second I’m angry. Yeah, you shouldn’t fight all the time, but you will argue with your friends that’s just how humans are.
I had a friendship like this.. they spoke shit about me behind my back calling me dramatic and stuff. (I was the one refusing to leave their side, but that drew the line for me, they honestly didnt care when I left) 🙁
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
I'm the person on the right. My friend...well, doesn't appreciate my loyalty. But she doesn't notice my joyfulness even when she insults me. I have anxiety and cry alot but I don't cry around her cuz I want her to think I'm a random person who she can dump her feeling on while still running along ❤ Please thank that person in ur life, we have feelings as well and we are sacrificing them for others
ok, but when the person kept saying negative things to the other pne who wanted to be their friend. . STORY TIME!!: so i started talking to a guy cause i had a feeling he liked me (in reality my bsf had the suspicion and i just agreed even though i didnt think so) so i talked to him online and sometimes at school, one day i ask him if he likes anyone, he says no, i say "okay-" and leaves to go to my bsf and her bf, he has been showing signs he likes me so its not a random guess school is near the end we're about to graduate, i tell him that im gonna make sure im his friend, and like in the video, i didnt give up on being his friend like the oc in the video. one day i feel very emotional and detached so i took a break from talking to any of my friends, it took months but i started talking to them eventually, the only one i didnt talk to was him, why? because i wanted to give him space and i was scared, because i sort of liked him a bit. weird. i know. but like, recently, i find out, my bsf's bf (who is also my friend) tells me that the guy actually did like me and another girl (lets call her K, even though i dont evem know her 💀), i was surprised, he tells me that the guy actually told my bsf this but he didnt want to hurt the other person's feelings when he decides who he likes, NOW IM HAVING EXISTENTIAL CRISIS IF I SHOULD TALK TO HIM AGAIN 😭😭😭 edit: i lie to myself when i 'like' someone, its either, they have something i wish i could also have, or i want to be them. he is just my friend, he is more distant but i still talk to him, man, misunderstanding and theory can be such a influence edit 2: goddamn thats long 💀💀💀💀 edit 3: got notified that this got a like, soooo- MORE STORY TIME! a few months ago after school started again, me and my bsf (lets call her nika) started noticing this girl kept hanging out with N (lets call her A, turns out i knew K girl and my best friends bf actually misinterpreted their convo) we later find out they were dating 2 weeks after our graduation last school year, they broke up Aug 9 and i think for school reasons, me and niks saw them go to conference yesterday, probably because teachers heard rumours about a student in our section dating someone from the other section
I have a friend at school and when she doesn’t know something I know I say that she is dumb but she doesn’t take it seriously 👍 but when I don’t know something she knows then I pretend I know it because I’m afraid that she will do the same thing I do to her and my anger issues will get triggered 💀
Да,поэтому я ушёл.я не хочу это черт возьми слушать,моя само оценка и так была низкая но после такого "замечательного" человека в моей жизни мне стало ещё хуже до желания умереть,потому что я :скучный не интересный ,тупой,просто тварь,извеваюсь над ним,мне нельзя доверять ))),я просто очень устал от этого,что на меня постоянно срываются ,и я хочу уйти и я пытался но тут сразу же прилетает угроза самовыпелом, что человек напился таблеток и в больнице,я в шоке и пришлось остаться ещё на не много.поэтому если вы хотите сделать человеку плохо и что бы он ушёл дерзайте ❤❤🤗
As a bipolar person, I've always been told im a monster, and other rude stuff. Because I always hurt people with my words. Although, atleast I have a friend whos happy and tells me to calm down 😅
I'm not bipolar but I have trouble regulating my emotions and I mostly cry for them, but when I'm annoyed I snap at people, And I've had a friend call me a donkey behind my back because of it, My friends are also okay with it but I do apologise just incase😅
Always! ALWAYS! Check that your words aren’t hurting the other person! Don’t just do this once but constantly! You don’t want them to feel like sh*t! For example me and my friend group call each other sl*t, sl@g, pig, hippo, whale, gorilla, fat ect We all are okay with it. Everyone finds it funny. This is good, this is okay. Nobody’s hurt by this. We do check that they don’t mind. On the other hand, I had two friends who had this ‘banter’ and one of them always took it WAY to far. (I was not aware this was that bad until they stopped talking) Person A would try to express their feelings about it upsetting them and Person B basically ignored them. Person B did not check if Person A was okay with it and after a while Person A got fed up with the constant verbal abuse from Person B. ‘You can never do anything right’ ‘This is why your mother doesn’t love you’ (Their parents spilt up and their mother for some reason refuses to talk to them…) ‘Your actually a huge disappointment to your family, they just don’t tell you because you’ll become more of a burden then you already are’ ‘You know that person doesn’t actually like you, there faking it because your always too sensitive’ ‘Careful (Random Person), don’t let your dog near them! They will eat it because their Chinese!’ IF Person A had made it VERY clear that they were okay with this, this wouldn’t have been a problem. There were okay with it at first. But very quickly, they found it upsetting and frustrating. Person A stopped saying ‘mean’ things back, they tried to stop the banter. But Person B just kept going…
@@glassyappleLeave them or did you say to them that it hurts you? If you haven't you should, if you already have multiple times, make some real friends if they go too far. ❤❤
This reminds me of my own friendships, with me usually being the one on the right. Sometimes its not a great idea to get into a friendship like this one. Sometimes it isnt worth sticking around someone who degrades you, remember that.
If u r strong enough,and sure that the person is the good friend, you need to be strong and brave , as soon you melt their heart and feelings, you will got the sweetest friend, but don't leave them
@@H0shiiStaryou shouldnt try Always ro befreiend that Person If shes Always being Rude to you and other stuff you deserve better and If you still try to befreiend that Person you will become the victim oneday .. Thai also happend to me so i know what im talking about
@@Mark.maxxiaobecause the friend is sticking with them even though they're toxic as hell, and they're likely only staying around because they know that basically nobody else would put up with their toxicity, so they'd feel bad for leaving the toxic person.
@@vesperthe_planet oh hello? Im sticking with her ,and still want to be her friend, because i know she would never leave me 😓 .. she's kind , truly.. everyone can change
Me with my bestie we are over here like 1 year without talking with each other. We are still the same as the day we met and still get along like peanut butter and jelly lol❤
My best friend is the introvert that always ignores bullies and never gets angry Im the extrovert that always gets into fights,has anger issues and is always energetic 🔥
I actually hated when I was in this type of friendship I was the person always taking insults left and right to point where it was so mental draining and when asked them to stop they just laughed it off 😕
It kills me that the English use this Spanish-speaking song for their problems, since it represents how much a man likes his addictions and his falling in love.
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. why would I cry? I'm just mentioning how stupid it is to use this song to vent. It doesn't surprise me that education in the United States is noted to be backward.
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. O M G!!! you are so right I should def cry abt this because a strong, mature (prob minor) told me so!!!! Now excuse me for a moment and let me mope in sadness due to me having an opinion that's wrong to you o7
I’m exactly like that character! ❤ I’ll try my best to make u happy 😁 but annoyingly being nice got me into toxic friendships, but hey, I made people happy!
I think we are the same person- The same things happen to me and this friend you have is just like my friend Alex . I'm glad to have such a friend like him...
(i relate to her bff.) No matter what,How much i care for them,How much i do for them,How i try to cheer them up,How much i hold in my thoughts and my tears,They always push me away.I might annoy them,I might Be Useless,I might be Clingy,But cant you ever have sympathy? Dont you know how hard it is to make friends? Ive Had this problem since my Shitty Childhood,I just want people to understand me.Their action towards people DO affect them.I was soo happy back then,Now it caused me to be lonely and Un-Social.I thank the soo called ''hEarT BroKeN'' people,for causing me this problem.
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I need a friend like that in my life 🥹
Me toooooooo!
we all do ❤ some of us have them already
and I'm that friend :D
Me too❤
Same i cry all the time bcs i fight with them i feel pain and more..
They didnt notice you were crying
They didn't notice you were sad
They didn’t notice you were tired
They didn’t notice you were alone
They didn’t notice how attentive you were
They didn’t notice how sweet you actually are...
They didn’t notice how you actually try to make others smile
They did notice you failing grades
They did notice your unattractive
They did notice the mean side of you
They did notice all your mistakes
They did notice all you flaws
They did notice that you weren’t good enough for them.
But you stayed strong
You kept going on
You never gave up on hope
You never let then take you down
And you know they wasn’t good enough for you
And that’s what make you stronger
not mine but u can spread it to make someones day :)
Cringe.
@@kroxxroad814you mad no one’s ever said this to you?
@@milkqx You do realize you aren’t special, they aren’t even specifically talking to you. This message isn’t even directed to you, so I’d recommend you to pipe down and go back to eating your dinosaur nuggets. 🙏
@@milkqxright
@@kroxxroad814bro mad when they have no friends 💀
I am that friend, I always like to say these things like this to my friends "I'm a parasite you can't get rid of me" "the only way to get rid of me is to throw me away yourself" and alot of my friends only see me as positive almost never sad just a hyperactive person. I also have huge attachment issues and am scared to be left by people, so even if someone hurts me, I shrug it off and stay with them. I even am toxic to myself due to my dark humor of self insult humor. My parents are worried and want me to get new friends, but I'm too scared to lose people. Even if my friends hurt me or not the best I didn't want to lose them, I was sort of the joke of the group and I made myself a joke, I joked about my pain and trauma and it even disturbed people around me. My attachment issues are even worse because I'm not social and if I loss friends I'm scared I won't make more. I am self distructive and like to mentally harm myself as a joke and sometimes my friends don't realize and accidentally make it worse. I've been this way for years.
I feel like I'm venting it's weird and awkward, but if people read this, I
I don't know..
Thanks though
I will end it here, though.
I am not a psychology expert or anything but I have been through what you are currently. I also don't know the actual you but from my experience, aslong as you keep it light, fun and sutff, it is not bad but actually a good coping mechanism. Tho I can see it being harmful for your psyche if left unchecked.
All and all...I hope you are having a happy day!
@@gomicgamer1245 thanks
People say that they wish they had friends like that, but if they did, it would really damage the "friend's" mental health
I was the friend.
true.
Fr I am that friend .. they don't appreciate me now , do they?
dude, i have a friend that just insults me, and then we laugh about it then i insult her back, we about and have fun, its diffrent when you mean it in a funny way.
@@margarethmarc3500x 2
Just sometimes they cry and they dont show it.
Just the fact that they are just Idk.
also idm that when they shout at the sad ppl and they made revenge
The happy person on the left needs oscar
Edit: i edited my comment bcus i want to?
That is true and it’s very sad
@@kawaiigalaxydarling772iSlay ikr
Each individual person reacts in a different way 💀
@@stfukys_wdym
Not true. My friends tell me to kms and I laugh. Not because I’m mentally Ill but because it’s funny. Not everyone is the same.
Me and my bestie at a mall
Me : bestie..it’s time.
Bestie : >:D
*me getting phone out and plays a song*
I WOKE UP IN A NEW BUGATTI
Both of us in the cart : WEEEEEEEE
that sounds kinda fun
@@pillownfannyveryepicfrit is lol
I got dirty mind for a second
@@realiebeaniebro me too as a Gemini we are dirty minded💀
@@Raman_Arts_what do zodiac signs have to do with this 💀💀
I feel like this friendship isn’t normal
Same...
If anyone needs a friend like this I’M RIGHT HERE!!!
Edit: anyone asking to be my friend in the reply section, Ofc I’ll be ur friend!! 🫶
Thank You ❤❤
💓
CAN I BE YOUR FRIENDDD??
@@Oreoxzi OFCC 🫶🫶
Please tho, dont stay friends with someone who constantly berates and belittles you and says mean shit to you. Its a very toxic relationship :'D im sure yknow what i mean by this
With the person I text the most we aren’t rlly friends, we just insult eachother and then talk crap abt pple we don’t like most of the time 😭
same-
frienemies?
Bestfriends in a nutshell 😂
@@Lily_Grace112yea
That's also me and my bff
This is literally the most toxic but sweet dynamic. One has a low self esteem (most of the time) and the other has anger issues. When they get close they help each other out with each others problems and it's just so wholesome
Yesss!
Literally me and my bestie-
This is so real
That was me at my best friend before when I was a with no friends
omg that's the dymanic of two of the main charachters in a book that I'm writing
except one is traumatised and has a sickly distorted self image
and one has ocd and anger issues
The most painful is when u keep being toxic and when u change and start actually needing them.. they replace u (happened with me my bestie was always there for me and I was the ignoring one now she replaced me)
Honestly, can’t blame her
@@_forest2182 exactly, there's only so much a person can take
I hope your friend doesn't end up traumatized, strength to him/her!
As a Bipolar person, I have pushed away a ton of people with my words.. I wish I had a friend like that..
I'm here
hello 👋
Same here i have bipolar as well so
as the person i am i honestly would be that person :D
I can be your friend, if ya want :>
Me when I meet my bestie:
Our brain: **disappears**
Literally
I BFF was upset bc of bullying when I first met them, so I gave her a Starburst and it made her so happy we became friends!
@@kaylynn_azraelStarbucks always helps❤️🩹
😂😂😂😂
Fr tho lol-
I have a cold heart...
But my bestie make my heart melt😊
But sometimes i felt alone and my heart is so dark and cold
I wish for a bff like that :((
Same😊
Same
To be mean to you? Or you are the mean person?
If its the first one gezz dude thats weird if its the second one I think the other person Will get tired of your shitty personality
How to get in a toxic friendship in 27 seconds:
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
It really depends tho. The negative person might want to be a better person because of the effort the positive is doing. It can also be that the negative will have a soft spot with the positive but still rude and everything with everyone else
it depends because the person could have a bipolar disorder or they just are really stone-hearted, and what i mean by stone hearted is that they most likely just didnt have the best life and have a lot of trust issues, so they unintentionally push people away too
@@xjamezxx Yep!
@@xjamezxxthat's not an excuse though?😭
I am the only one who thinks that that kind of friendship isn't normal??
no, i think it too
Nah, unless they were just joking and the other person was okay with it
Same
That used to be mine, but now mine is fine
I have this friendship and I really love it
This is literally me and my brother 😭
Why is the song giving me happy memories and I’m also crying because the years are not happy anymore
Me and my brother be like:
Same😃
Same 💀
Same tho😅
same
Same but cousin but he loves me and hugs me [in a cousin brother way] I love him :) He's an old grandpa tho ☠️ [he's in his 20s and I'm not even 15 ☠️]
toxic friendship alarm
that’s me and my best friend and we’ve been friends for 6-7 years 🤭
I dunno we’re both but it depends on our mood who we are 😚
Ikr
@@_n3ptun3s.angel_still toxic
@@_n3ptun3s.angel_ sorry but that's still a toxic friendship 🤷♀️🤷♀️
@@_n3ptun3s.angel_thats still a toxic friend ship, me and my bsf have been friends for 6-7 years also and we don’t do that .. ik everyone is different but that is js plain toxic
Now that’s a good friend right there
It's a really sweet thing to have people who accept your flaws. Just be sure to return that favour when they need it and appreciate them. Being friends with someone who constantly antagonises you is mentally exhausting. If you truly see someone who cares a lot about you then you must also put in the effort to care for them. Friendship can never be a one sided thing
That one friend that accept every complaints and insults: 😊
Omg ty, I never has so many like before😭❤️ usually, no one notice me
thats me lol
jeje
Mee
Thats me
me
Don't be surprised if she hates you one day. Don't expect someone to love you forever when you are so cruel to them. We are human beings who love and hate. We are not robots. We also want those we consider to be our friends to love us. Be kinder to her so that your friendship don't become toxic. One hand doesn't clap.
I would never hate her , never in my life
I'm sure their friendship got better after the conversation shown in this video!
could be bipolar r anger issues!
@@cwatzeditz that doesn’t matter. You should at least have the human decency to apologize once your in a clearer mindset
god? you dont even know the trauma i have 2years ago and im still doing today? you dont know ill die if i dont have a inhaler, when i vomit i cant stop? Im not trying to be rude but when im nice im always called "Rude
"@@Azurewithgogos
As a genshin fan i thought the person on the left was scaramouche help-
the kindest friends go through the most pain..
I can relate. But in a way, it makes a person feel accepted by them. That no matter what happens, they'll be there. That they genuinely wants to be your friend. ❤
Edit: Woah ty for the likes :00
Like my bff if i close to someone (girl) she gonna mad at me and i still smile also i cant do anything she so easy to mad like prank and she also mad if i have friends (girl) at roblox too i want to end the friendship but.. i likes to be bestie with her because it been 4 years friend with her..
@@Subto_tofujfoI can relate
“ your useless !”
“ I know ! “ broke my heart
Edit: dang y’all not to be that person but I forgot about this comment but thanks for the likes
me too 😢
Same 😭
Ngl that is literally me😂
My friend : "You are dumb"
Me: "I know"
And a bunch of other insults all I respond with is I know because if you target my insecurities I will not defend myself 😊
me when my friends insult me 😁👍
@@animeramen3834weak ngl
I really need a best friend like that in my life ❤🥹
I have a friend who is slowly becoming my bestie and i really hope our friendship turns out as nice as this one ❤
UPDATE: Me and that friend are now like sisters. Me and another friend got in a fight and because of that that friend became really close with me!
Same
Good job! I'm glad you guys got close!!❤
I’d like to put this comment out there even with the chance that nobody will see this.
If you have a friendship where your friend OPENLY INSULTS YOU, that is not healthy in the slightest. If you both understand it’s a joke, and your friend will stop if you say your uncomfortable, that’s one thing, but this is another.
This is not a friendship. This is toxic. If your friend treats you like this, you need to tell an adult and get out of the relationship. This will never be okay.
As someone who’s been in these relationships several times, they are INCREDIBLY damaging to your mental health and trying to “wait for them” is only going to make it worse. You cannot fix them. They do not want to be around you, and if you try and make them want to be around you, you’re only going to make things worse for yourself.
Please take care of yourself. I love you.
I’ve been in a friendship likes this and I still stayed, even tho I damaged my mental health for her. I regret it, but at the same time I dont
Yk I might really use this advice, I used to be in a amazing relationship with this one girl- then it turned toxic after *one* time I just snapped because she kept pushing my buttons- and wouldn’t take my apology (mind you I was “apologizing for saying j wanted to (off) myself) for saying what I said. Like- I get you were upset but it’s not ok to try and force somebody to say sorry for something like that- at that time that’s when they need you the most-
Thank you. I have a friend that has other friends and they basically bully me everyday calling me names like rat and more, and they just looking for attention. Well one day I had a comment about crying in general about her messager/her dog and they took it as I wa saying it to them and we had a fight about my opinion and her other dog/guard was bullying me the whole way. Mean while she having a okay life as I suffer with grades, being in a more advanced school,social anxiety, people hating me , my body , and more. Am I wrong for doing this?
The opinion was- “ Crying is okay , but not for dumb reasons or your constantly crying”
I have a very hypocritical friend 🥲
I’m that friend but I will cry a bit if they yelled 🙂
Good example of Uzi and N
Same as my friend before he left me
Stay strong :>
As he should
@@ChildeRailMeI want to laugh but I feel like I'll go to hell👁👄👁
@@ChildeRailMeWHAT IS YOUR NAME- 😭💀
CHILDE SIMP?
@@livelovellama😅i laughed at this so I'm going😢wait i already have it it's called homework/school/bullys/ex bff
It feels nice to be just yourself with a close friend. you can show your ugly side to them without expecting any disgust or hate. It sounds relaxing to let yourself loose
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
So be careful who you make friends with and surround yourself with people who want to succeed and become a better version of themselves
and yet I still put on my other personality around my closest friends (they're not irl friends, just internet friends)
@@aaangel4103 it's also important to realize that if your friend hurts you or hurts others, you should leave them. Its also important to keep a strong mind and realize, that their not a good person. And unless they want to change or you make them open their eyes, they will still and become a bad person. So, good job on leaving them. Even if it took a long time.
@@zombikitkat that's still okay, as long as you want to, you can. It entirely depends if you want your friends to see another side of you.
“What happened to your mom and dad?" This sentence is so painful.
Deku and Bakugo every time on screen:
Bro if u both argue with eachother but don't joke around that aint besties 💀💀
Not everyone gets along with each other-
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. ur supposed to get along with eachother with your friends is my point :/
@@FunnyNFunky me and my friends are polar opposites. And I have emotion swings 24/7 which means like I’m happy, and then the next second I’m angry. Yeah, you shouldn’t fight all the time, but you will argue with your friends that’s just how humans are.
thats toxic bestie😭@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r.
Who argue?
I had a friendship like this.. they spoke shit about me behind my back calling me dramatic and stuff. (I was the one refusing to leave their side, but that drew the line for me, they honestly didnt care when I left) 🙁
Yeah, i made a friend in the sixth grade and didn’t notice all the red flags. She was messy, had F’s, didn’t want to graduate HS, was rude, spoiled, didn’t take care of her hygiene, didn’t want to listen to advice, and always crap talked others and acted like a pick me. 3 years went by and she hadnt changed, i ghosted her a week ago.
@@aaangel4103 I'm glad you made that choice
I HAVE a friend that's angry like that i always do anything to comfort her (SHE ALSO ASK THESE QUESTIONS!)
Your art looks edible. No words. Just. Yes.
DID IT SAY "ME GUSTA MARIJUANA"?
I'm the person on the right. My friend...well, doesn't appreciate my loyalty. But she doesn't notice my joyfulness even when she insults me. I have anxiety and cry alot but I don't cry around her cuz I want her to think I'm a random person who she can dump her feeling on while still running along ❤
Please thank that person in ur life, we have feelings as well and we are sacrificing them for others
It’s not good for ur mental health pookie , try distancing her from u and when she asks why u do tell her how she treats u
@@kawaiigalaxydarling772iSlay which is why im going to counselling:(
@@CailyPaws SAME ✨️ not for that reason *ONLY* tho
no same and i love her so much but it hurts so much
I’m the one not backing down but sometimes they hurt me mentally in these friendships it makes me cry everyday.
I’m this friend it helps not fight but I feel like it supports the other person
ok, but when the person kept saying negative things to the other pne who wanted to be their friend. .
STORY TIME!!:
so i started talking to a guy cause i had a feeling he liked me (in reality my bsf had the suspicion and i just agreed even though i didnt think so) so i talked to him online and sometimes at school, one day i ask him if he likes anyone, he says no, i say "okay-" and leaves to go to my bsf and her bf, he has been showing signs he likes me so its not a random guess
school is near the end we're about to graduate, i tell him that im gonna make sure im his friend, and like in the video, i didnt give up on being his friend like the oc in the video. one day i feel very emotional and detached so i took a break from talking to any of my friends, it took months but i started talking to them eventually, the only one i didnt talk to was him, why? because i wanted to give him space and i was scared, because i sort of liked him a bit. weird. i know. but like, recently, i find out, my bsf's bf (who is also my friend) tells me that the guy actually did like me and another girl (lets call her K, even though i dont evem know her 💀), i was surprised, he tells me that the guy actually told my bsf this but he didnt want to hurt the other person's feelings when he decides who he likes, NOW IM HAVING EXISTENTIAL CRISIS IF I SHOULD TALK TO HIM AGAIN 😭😭😭
edit: i lie to myself when i 'like' someone, its either, they have something i wish i could also have, or i want to be them. he is just my friend, he is more distant but i still talk to him, man, misunderstanding and theory can be such a influence
edit 2: goddamn thats long 💀💀💀💀
edit 3: got notified that this got a like, soooo-
MORE STORY TIME!
a few months ago after school started again, me and my bsf (lets call her nika) started noticing this girl kept hanging out with N (lets call her A, turns out i knew K girl and my best friends bf actually misinterpreted their convo) we later find out they were dating 2 weeks after our graduation last school year, they broke up Aug 9 and i think for school reasons, me and niks saw them go to conference yesterday, probably because teachers heard rumours about a student in our section dating someone from the other section
I have a friend at school and when she doesn’t know something I know I say that she is dumb but she doesn’t take it seriously 👍 but when I don’t know something she knows then I pretend I know it because I’m afraid that she will do the same thing I do to her and my anger issues will get triggered 💀
So don't say dumb to anyone 😇👍
Well.. I also have pressure in my life. So, your not alone
Me too
This is a real Bff 😢 I need one bff like that 😭
I feel like people these days are just friends with others to bully eachother, I wish everyone were actually friends
Usually when someone is acting happy when they’re being treated rudely it means they have lost it not like angry it’s just hard to explain
I wish i had a friend like that. But all of them takes it seriously.
Bro im crying. That's what it felt
I smell a toxic relationship
Same with my friend
I want a friend like that.
That friend looks like he hides sadness because he doesn't wanna bother anyone to get worried with him
How to make you're friends leave you:
Да,поэтому я ушёл.я не хочу это черт возьми слушать,моя само оценка и так была низкая но после такого "замечательного" человека в моей жизни мне стало ещё хуже до желания умереть,потому что я :скучный не интересный ,тупой,просто тварь,извеваюсь над ним,мне нельзя доверять ))),я просто очень устал от этого,что на меня постоянно срываются ,и я хочу уйти и я пытался но тут сразу же прилетает угроза самовыпелом, что человек напился таблеток и в больнице,я в шоке и пришлось остаться ещё на не много.поэтому если вы хотите сделать человеку плохо и что бы он ушёл дерзайте ❤❤🤗
@@vetrygan125_ Bro write that in short I ain't reading all that💀
@@NaitikSarveTL:Dr some friends don’t know how to communicate and respond through jokes. But they’ll be by your side til the end.
Now that is the definition of a best friend and a real friend
And a toxic friendship
Dude.. Are you in a toxic friendship? I wish the best for you please get out of that situation.. ❤❤
The left side is like my friend when shes angry or tired i understand when this happens
HELLO MY FELLOW MALAYSIAN I HAVE JUST FOUND U AND U ARE SO UNDERRATED LIKE WHAT?! I'M AM SUBBING RN
As a bipolar person, I've always been told im a monster, and other rude stuff. Because I always hurt people with my words. Although, atleast I have a friend whos happy and tells me to calm down 😅
I'm not bipolar but I have trouble regulating my emotions and I mostly cry for them, but when I'm annoyed I snap at people, And I've had a friend call me a donkey behind my back because of it, My friends are also okay with it but I do apologise just incase😅
I am that happy friend i always want to cheer someone up but they always let me down 😢
Literally tsukki and yams in haikyu
this is Toxic, pls be nice to your friend because they’re a rare person.
@@-3mo- Broski. I love the analysis but this isn’t a fictional character. This is a human and we don’t know why they are being a bitch
@@-3mo- it doesn’t justify her actions if she’s willingly not trying to be a better friend
@@-3mo- Yeah but she doesn’t treat her like a friend, she treats her like a punching bag
@@-3mo- she didn’t just push her away, she was full on insulting her
@@-3mo-that doesn’t excuse her actions these ‘friendships’ could damage their friends and their mental health.This isn’t healthy this is toxic.
Always! ALWAYS! Check that your words aren’t hurting the other person! Don’t just do this once but constantly! You don’t want them to feel like sh*t!
For example me and my friend group call each other sl*t, sl@g, pig, hippo, whale, gorilla, fat ect
We all are okay with it.
Everyone finds it funny.
This is good, this is okay.
Nobody’s hurt by this.
We do check that they don’t mind.
On the other hand, I had two friends who had this ‘banter’ and one of them always took it WAY to far. (I was not aware this was that bad until they stopped talking)
Person A would try to express their feelings about it upsetting them and Person B basically ignored them.
Person B did not check if Person A was okay with it and after a while Person A got fed up with the constant verbal abuse from Person B.
‘You can never do anything right’
‘This is why your mother doesn’t love you’ (Their parents spilt up and their mother for some reason refuses to talk to them…)
‘Your actually a huge disappointment to your family, they just don’t tell you because you’ll become more of a burden then you already are’
‘You know that person doesn’t actually like you, there faking it because your always too sensitive’
‘Careful (Random Person), don’t let your dog near them! They will eat it because their Chinese!’
IF Person A had made it VERY clear that they were okay with this, this wouldn’t have been a problem.
There were okay with it at first. But very quickly, they found it upsetting and frustrating.
Person A stopped saying ‘mean’ things back, they tried to stop the banter. But Person B just kept going…
Same thing with me my parents are divorced and my friends make mean jokes about how my dad is absent
@@glassyapple that’s so messed up! I’m so sorry they have been saying that, it’s really insensitive of them!
@@glassyappleLeave them or did you say to them that it hurts you? If you haven't you should, if you already have multiple times, make some real friends if they go too far. ❤❤
I confronted them a week ago, they said they wouldn’t make those jokes anymore, but thanks
Literally me and sister i don't really care if the word hurt me
people who just wished they had a friend (like this)
This reminds me of my own friendships, with me usually being the one on the right. Sometimes its not a great idea to get into a friendship like this one.
Sometimes it isnt worth sticking around someone who degrades you, remember that.
If u r strong enough,and sure that the person is the good friend, you need to be strong and brave , as soon you melt their heart and feelings, you will got the sweetest friend, but don't leave them
Yes, there is a chance of that. However, if it ever feels like a loosing battle, people need to put themselves first.@@Mark.maxxiao
@@H0shiiStaryou shouldnt try Always ro befreiend that Person If shes Always being Rude to you and other stuff you deserve better and If you still try to befreiend that Person you will become the victim oneday ..
Thai also happend to me so i know what im talking about
how tf did people not noticed that her/his friend just felt pity them? 💀sorry, it do may sound really rude, but its obvious guys omg
From where? 🤨
@@Mark.maxxiaobecause the friend is sticking with them even though they're toxic as hell, and they're likely only staying around because they know that basically nobody else would put up with their toxicity, so they'd feel bad for leaving the toxic person.
@@vesperthe_planet oh hello? Im sticking with her ,and still want to be her friend, because i know she would never leave me 😓 .. she's kind , truly.. everyone can change
I may have a cold heart but sometimes it melts for people that don’t notice
POV : I'm that friends and I can't hate my friends
Me with my bestie we are over here like 1 year without talking with each other.
We are still the same as the day we met and still get along like peanut butter and jelly lol❤
Lol mine is like 4 years and we are still the same
I seriously need a bff
I wish had someone like that:)
You so lucky to have this friend with you my all friend leave me alone in this hard life 💔 i wish have one like her💔
As they shou- well if ur gonna treat them like that it's obvious they will not to be rude at all but unless u do that I feel bad.
I relate to this but im the best friend who stays positive about everything
My best friend is the introvert that always ignores bullies and never gets angry
Im the extrovert that always gets into fights,has anger issues and is always energetic 🔥
Woah im very energetic with my friends, never gets angry, my friend is the opposite :)
@Strawberryo-o fr
I actually hated when I was in this type of friendship I was the person always taking insults left and right to point where it was so mental draining and when asked them to stop they just laughed it off 😕
wish I had that kind of friend
now that’s a real friend.
And a toxic relationship.
It kills me that the English use this Spanish-speaking song for their problems, since it represents how much a man likes his addictions and his falling in love.
Cry abt it
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. why would I cry? I'm just mentioning how stupid it is to use this song to vent.
It doesn't surprise me that education in the United States is noted to be backward.
@@666loly cry abt it
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. O M G!!! you are so right I should def cry abt this because a strong, mature (prob minor) told me so!!!! Now excuse me for a moment and let me mope in sadness due to me having an opinion that's wrong to you o7
@@Lun4r_th3_.T1g3r. I'm not going to cry for such an immature
You guys are lucky to have a bsf like that, mine just left me.
I have that one friend who calms me down and buys what I want, but I don’t need to. ❤
This kinda seems toxic but as long as the friend doesn’t mean harm it’s alright? Ig
Yeah , as long as you want to be their friends, you should never leave them
This is the complete opposite of me, my friends make fun of me as much as they want because they know I have no one else.
aw, im really sorry for you i hope you’ll be able to make new friends! please tell someone abt this
A bipolar and someone with no self esteem, a friendship that will probably last for a lifetime
This friend....he has a good heart
People keep ignoring the fact this is toxic 💀
Yeah, I'm the positive friend, but it's tiring to be put down all the time
@@Klain2I try 2 be postitive but my friend is js toxic and rude, and I can't js hold it in, even when I'm kind he js gets annoyed anyway
@@jxllobunzzz Well, good luck to both of us
I’m exactly like that character! ❤ I’ll try my best to make u happy 😁 but annoyingly being nice got me into toxic friendships, but hey, I made people happy!
Fr reminds me of inoske and tanjiro 🤭🤭😭
I hope have friends like that ☹️😥
People who love their bestfriend🖤🖤🖤🖤🦈
👇🏼
How can I love someone that doesn't exist?
@@definitelynotsoultane Step 1: exist!
@@Itz_Izumi_PopstarYT uuh... Im not a ghost 😀
@@definitelynotsoultane Rules:
Exist
Exist
Exist!
@@Itz_Izumi_PopstarYT BRO OK WHAT'S RULE N°2 ??
Mensaje:
Si te dicen cosan como "eres fea o tonta" que no te importe porque solo tu te conoces y sabes que no lo eres asi que valorate❤❤❤
I think we are the same person-
The same things happen to me and this friend you have is just like my friend Alex . I'm glad to have such a friend like him...
I always need a friend because in school im alone..... 😢
I wanna be your friend :D
(New subscriber)
Okeh!
(i relate to her bff.) No matter what,How much i care for them,How much i do for them,How i try to cheer them up,How much i hold in my thoughts and my tears,They always push me away.I might annoy them,I might Be Useless,I might be Clingy,But cant you ever have sympathy? Dont you know how hard it is to make friends? Ive Had this problem since my Shitty Childhood,I just want people to understand me.Their action towards people DO affect them.I was soo happy back then,Now it caused me to be lonely and Un-Social.I thank the soo called ''hEarT BroKeN'' people,for causing me this problem.