The Worst Pickup Artist on Tik Tok

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Komentáře • 4 121

  • Decheka4
    Decheka4 Před 6 měsíci +19434

    Let's face it. The only thing Chris is picking up is a charge for harassment.

    • franco herrera
      franco herrera Před 2 měsíci

      @CrustyDustyTrash 100% you wouldn't say creepy and harassment if the guy was good looking and had a smooth voice. Yes he's painfully unaware of her lack of intrest and his conversational skills but it's not a crime to try to have a conversation.

    • Fernando Garibaldi
      Fernando Garibaldi Před 2 měsíci +1

      @CrustyDustyTrash being weird/creepy is not harassment.

    • Mumtaz Mayambala
      Mumtaz Mayambala Před 3 měsíci +1

      some of you people clearly have not tried to talk to a girl in public. although most people don't use pickup lines, this is how most interactions go, guy says "hi" girl says "no" guy says okay and moves away. i know there are creeps out there that make it difficult but don't call someone a harasser for being awkward when talking to people.

    • Mumtaz Mayambala
      Mumtaz Mayambala Před 3 měsíci +1

      what he did wrong was filming them and not bluring out their faces, but otherwise he is a awkward guy with no game. he approaches women and tries to woo them, when they say not interested he moves away.

    • Arturo
      Arturo Před 3 měsíci

      American by any chance?

  • kiki- drawer26
    kiki- drawer26 Před 6 měsíci +2300

    Props on the man who 3rd partied. Even just entering a conversation is a lifesaver. The man on the camera probably isn't a threat but you just never know

    • PrettyIn Pinky
      PrettyIn Pinky Před 17 dny

      @Edward Bustos eewe

    • Edward Bustos
      Edward Bustos Před 3 měsíci

      @Nalyk nue is actually usually successful and much better at conversation lol. The picking up girls videos is still kinda cringe tho

    • Ryan Hernandez
      Ryan Hernandez Před 3 měsíci +7

      @RJiiFin More like "We're the biggest predators in this area."

    • Blue Birdie
      Blue Birdie Před 4 měsíci

      Hell yeah

    • RJiiFin
      RJiiFin Před 4 měsíci +15

      @Nalyk "We're the BearBros"

  • Justin Sahl
    Justin Sahl Před 6 měsíci +1428

    Whoever edited Cody's tooth falling out at 5:33 is undeniably a comedic genius

    • WeirdBoiPete
      WeirdBoiPete Před 5 dny

      I lose my shit every time I see it 💀🤣

    • Black Pearl
      Black Pearl Před 3 měsíci +2

      I laughed sooooo hard omggggg😂😂😂

    • Artelo
      Artelo Před 4 měsíci +2

      Shit caught me off guard 😂😂

    • Agnes
      Agnes Před 4 měsíci +3

      @Bruh he doesn't, the editor is credited in the description for anyone curious!

    • 22. Longfist
      22. Longfist Před 5 měsíci +2

      wait ok so i get that people say that but is that real ? or does he have a fake one ???

  • Lauren's Video Journal
    Lauren's Video Journal Před 6 měsíci +2642

    is no one talking about how he's just recording them without their consent? if someone did this to me AND POSTED IT i would feel so violated

    • Sarah Pace Sings
      Sarah Pace Sings Před 20 dny +1

      Notice the fellow cringey f boys in this comment thread. Literally every person saying, "jUSt DOnt gO oUtsiDe THen" is someone to run away from lol

    • Cyber1ifeConnor
      Cyber1ifeConnor Před 22 dny

      @TheGhost nope you are so wrong it hurts, its public so its not illegal... dont speak on stuff you CLEARLY know NOTHING a out

    • debate nothing
      debate nothing Před 3 měsíci

      Not illegal.

    • TopR6Shotta
      TopR6Shotta Před 3 měsíci

      @TheGhost no you can record people on public property

    • Cynister
      Cynister Před 4 měsíci +3

      @Jack Reid "If you don't want to be filmed while a strange man is harassing you, just don't go outside!"

  • Kennedy
    Kennedy Před 5 měsíci +286

    the IMMEDIATE regret on these girls faces for responding even for a second is too relatable

    • Ka Wag
      Ka Wag Před 22 dny +1

      @Lexi Gifford Exactly! And a woman doesn’t have to be a 10 or young, happens to me daily at work.

    • Lexi Gifford
      Lexi Gifford Před 3 měsíci +4

      @Jo Ys it really is that deep... But ok dude. Getting approached by a random creepy dude that's recording you is very unsettling and he as far as I can tell picks out women who are alone. Not an ideal situation. Women get hurt and harassed every day. Be kind ❤️

    • Jo Ys
      Jo Ys Před 4 měsíci

      It's really not that deep. You look 30+

  • Brittaney Owen
    Brittaney Owen Před 6 měsíci +22960

    Nothing gets women like telling them their groceries are unhealthy.

    • Tabitha Sol
      Tabitha Sol Před 4 měsíci

      Or asking them dumb questions like “are you on the phone”

    • The Electric Cheese Productions
      The Electric Cheese Productions Před 4 měsíci

      I might do that just for fun

    • DHext
      DHext Před 5 měsíci +1

      Once had a Russian guy approach me while I was grocery shopping b/c he saw me eating chips before going into the store. Approached me to offer to give me half a sandwich b/c "as a man" it was his duty b/c chips are unhealthy for you. Yep. Literally had everything in this vid happen to me and then some.

    • Midwest Muslimah
      Midwest Muslimah Před 5 měsíci

      GO WATCH *GLOW*

    • Kamila K.
      Kamila K. Před 5 měsíci

      @Demodiums no

  • Bratty Andie
    Bratty Andie Před 6 měsíci +823

    imagine having a whole tiktok dedicated to making women worry they're gonna get kidnapped today

    • Bratty Andie
      Bratty Andie Před 4 měsíci

      @Phatty no you're right, if they're under 5'7 i know they're totally safe and incapable of harm.

    • MiroredImage
      MiroredImage Před 4 měsíci +7

      @Angel Floyd? We know what you're saying, it's obvious. We're just saying it's an unhelpful perspective to have since it puts women at risk to just assume a dude like this coming out of nowhere is toootally going to be safe just cause he "seems" harmless

    • Phatty
      Phatty Před 4 měsíci

      if this is actually how you think, you need meds. every place this guy tried horribly to flirt with a girl, was very public. also just based on how this dude looked in the mirror, I'd say hes about 5'6 or 5'7. like yeah the dude sucks dick at flirting and walking up to random women is a pretty stupid idea unless its like a club or other social setting where people wanna mingle, but if you genuinely think that WHENEVER a guy talks to you, its because he wants to do some heinous crime, then you seriously need to see a doctor and get on some meds.

    • Angel Floyd
      Angel Floyd Před 4 měsíci +1

      @Bratty Andie not doing this 😂 you get exactly what I’m saying and u know what ur doing.

    • Bratty Andie
      Bratty Andie Před 4 měsíci +6

      @Angel Floyd yeah you're right, people never use innocent imagery to put people at ease but go on

  • lurklingX
    lurklingX Před 3 dny

    this whole thing is *terrible* . i got to the "future wife" target one and my arms curled up to my head, the cringe was so hard. THEN i look at cody and the hard cringe is more severe than his others. yup, i feel u bro.
    (the girl that had the 3rd party there - i think she was afraid he was a serial killer or abducter. i don't blame her.)

  • lurklingX
    lurklingX Před 3 dny

    trader joes: that one killed me. "that's kinda unhealthy" tossing out unwanted criticism of her food choices *are you serious* ???? and she looks amazing, i think she's got it handled!! then he tells her "children eat that". dude WTFFFFF (sadly, i'm not sure this is a joke, i have heard people say the stupidest shit, insulting shit, and they think they're killin it. sjfaljfd;as)

  • Addy Grubb
    Addy Grubb Před 6 měsíci +564

    Chris should take some pointers from Cody: "Excuse me?" "Yeah?" "Nevermind"
    That's the way to do it, leave those poor girls alone 👍🏻

    • Sgt Z
      Sgt Z Před 2 měsíci

      Cody and the rest of you let the joke fly completely over your heads reacting like this guy was serious. He's obviously trolling. Y'all stoopid for believing it lolololol

  • Kaitlynn
    Kaitlynn Před 6 měsíci +14708

    That girl hiking was being nice because she didn't want to get fucking murdered on a mountain

    • Nick Peterson
      Nick Peterson Před měsícem

      also, I'm sure a single girl who gets stopped by a guy would actually love for them to be charming and attractive...she gave him a lot of chances and he just got more and more awkward. she passed the vibe check with flying colours in my opinion

    • Isabella
      Isabella Před měsícem

      @Justin Domnick So he can follow her genius 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

    • maggie watson
      maggie watson Před 3 měsíci

      @Delilah Drummond im so sorry that happened to you

    • Hailey S
      Hailey S Před 4 měsíci

      @Justin Domnick men will kill women for ignoring them or turning them down after they approach them. So now what genius?

    • Justin Domnick
      Justin Domnick Před 4 měsíci

      @Hailey S really y’all so dense and overthink everything if you think someone’s going to kill you don’t talk to them..😂 keep moving tf

  • John Walker
    John Walker Před 6 měsíci +157

    An observation:
    Some of these pickup artist guys are really keen on enforcing female beauty standards on women because their attraction to and interactions with women pretty much revolve entirely around looks in the first place. So when "Confident Chris" is hitting on that one girl in the grocery store, that part of himself that is typical of these types of guys slips out when he comments about her getting something unhealthy to eat. Dude just couldn't help himself to the point that he shows concern that she might gain a little weight or something right in the middle of hitting on her.

    • Jadin Ellis
      Jadin Ellis Před 3 měsíci +5

      @Ryan Hernandez yeah. I don’t think there’s much psychological depth to it, like a subconscious desire to enforce female beauty standards.

    • Ryan Hernandez
      Ryan Hernandez Před 4 měsíci +2

      @Jadin Ellis It's called negging isn't it

    • bon
      bon Před 4 měsíci +5

      @Jadin Ellis no im pretty sure they hit the nail on the head there lmao

    • Jadin Ellis
      Jadin Ellis Před 5 měsíci +6

      Neat theory, Freud

  • B T
    B T Před 6 měsíci +30

    Cody on behalf of all women thank you for your thoughtful critique of this creepy weirdo! Just that you have the awareness to understand how uncomfortable this kind of thing can make a person feel is so nice and rare!

    • Max Rice
      Max Rice Před 5 měsíci +2

      @S Armstrong pretty sure that was a joke..

    • S Armstrong
      S Armstrong Před 5 měsíci

      nice virtue signaling, but you realize he told the kid to keep on doing it in the end right....... at least you made sure to tell some people that you are on the 'right' side

  • Mitch Liam
    Mitch Liam Před 3 dny

    I never cringed so hard in while

  • Ry Christo
    Ry Christo Před 3 dny

    Love the flying tooth Cody 😀

  • Jen Thompson
    Jen Thompson Před 6 měsíci +3092

    This guy must have a humiliation fetish. It’s the only way I can rationalize these sad attempts.

    • Midwest Muslimah
      Midwest Muslimah Před 5 měsíci

      GO WATCH *GLOW*

    • beeggae
      beeggae Před 6 měsíci +1

      @Mariam Abdullah Thanks, best of luck to you as well.

    • Mariam Abdullah
      Mariam Abdullah Před 6 měsíci +1

      @beeggae oof anxiety is the worse, I wish you the best 🙏🏽

    • beeggae
      beeggae Před 6 měsíci +6

      @Mariam Abdullah Fucking hell. I'm a dude with anxiety and bad when comes to interacting with people whenever my mood is shit. I can't imagine how scary it must be for women in general to go through these scenarios, to force yourself to have a pleasant attitude when you 've had a crap day out of fear of something really bad happening to you if you behaved otherwise. Hope this made any sense lol.

    • Mariam Abdullah
      Mariam Abdullah Před 6 měsíci +15

      @beeggae yeah, there's plenty of dudes like this irl. Most women will tell you they started getting approached/catcalled/hit-on by grown men by the time they started going through puberty. So yeah it's believable that he's 100% like this irl, he just has the self awareness of a tumor and decided to post it for the millions of people who think his behavior is acceptable bc they do it too.

  • Kinley Quist
    Kinley Quist Před 6 měsíci +52

    Ah yes. The two things all women want. a lurking stranger implying they would like to be wed, and offering them a $2 cheeseburger. All good relationships start this way.

  • Glyn
    Glyn Před 6 měsíci +71

    I'm gonna unironically say that social media has ruined people because just because you can film someone, doesn't mean you should ❤️

  • Sophisticated Nebula
    Sophisticated Nebula Před 6 měsíci +49

    What's pretty interesting is that he seems to be following *exactly* what these online pickup artists teach.
    The forced confidence, the "teasing", the "high value" mindset, everything.
    He's just doing it in such a bizarre way that the connection isn't apparent immediately.

  • Jenny Rodriguez
    Jenny Rodriguez Před 6 měsíci +28

    i cannot make up my mind if this guy is just doing a bit or if he is THIS oblivious and awkward. i consider this like borderline harassment and people are encouraging him in the comments. the fact that he has to blur a lot of the women's faces tells me all i need to know lmao

  • Damian Silvers
    Damian Silvers Před 6 měsíci +9879

    Chris is pretty confident when it comes to judging what people are eating

    • Laci Rae
      Laci Rae Před 5 měsíci

      that is a good point.

    • winnieblaster
      winnieblaster Před 6 měsíci +13

      The most confident Chris was during the entire video was saying that those groceries were kid's food

    • a Small Green Dot
      a Small Green Dot Před 6 měsíci +31

      Chris doesn't eat, he feeds off rejection

    • Austin Gibbs
      Austin Gibbs Před 6 měsíci +9

      😆 TRU

  • BethmBAM
    BethmBAM Před dnem

    And my man did field work

  • MarloMarz
    MarloMarz Před 5 měsíci +7

    As a socially inept person I can tell Chris's social ineptness is viscous.

  • BethmBAM
    BethmBAM Před dnem

    “This is like performance art” 😅 subscribe 🚀

  • San Y
    San Y Před 4 měsíci +8

    I think he's confident in posting his disastrous failures at picking up girls

  • Patterrz
    Patterrz Před 6 měsíci +6529

    If this random guy stopped me out in the middle of a hiking trail with no one around like that i'd just assume i'm gonna get murdered

    • princeparkook
      princeparkook Před 3 měsíci

      yep

    • Nyx
      Nyx Před 4 měsíci

      It's likely the only reason she was being so polite and friendly, hoping that he wouldn't go crazy and murder her when she rejected him

    • Midwest Muslimah
      Midwest Muslimah Před 5 měsíci

      GO WATCH *GLOW*

    • kam
      kam Před 5 měsíci

      @leftism is for slave owners did u just read half of the comment and replied with this

    • zensationally
      zensationally Před 5 měsíci

      I would make a fake excuse to get me out of the situation

  • sunflower
    sunflower Před 6 měsíci +2

    i’ve been approached by “aspiring creators” similar to this twice before and i can’t tell you how terrifying it is to have a camera in your face and them not take no for an answer.

    • Nah Im good
      Nah Im good Před 4 měsíci +1

      I’m so sorry that’s happened to you, I’ve had the same thing happen but without the camera

  • emily
    emily Před měsícem +2

    The amount of guys in the comments trying to one up women's experiences, or just blatantly calling us crazy for being scared of situations like this just shows the ignorance alot of men have about what we have to deal with our entire lives. If I was alone on a mountain and a guy came up to me trying to hit on me, my heart would be pounding out of my chest, and I would just be hating myself for ever going out alone. I know because I have felt that EXACT same way in similar situations. And all you can do is try to politely escape, but the whole time you're just wondering "is this guy about to drag me to a back alley and r**e me?". So yes, it IS that serious, and it IS valid to have those fears.

  • Ry Christo
    Ry Christo Před 3 dny

    7:28 😂😂😂😂

  • •
     Před 6 měsíci +1

    You can tell Cody has been taking the criticism to heart and is really improving on it. This video seems a lot more real and I’ve seen the content be more diverse lately. Keep it up

  • Adriana
    Adriana Před 6 měsíci +4037

    Getting approached like this is annoying at best and terrifying at worst

    • zaria monèt
      zaria monèt Před 5 měsíci +1

      @༺ GUTS ༻ I don’t like being approached at all lmfao I have a bf💀

    • Gilgamesh4238
      Gilgamesh4238 Před 5 měsíci

      @Faze Mac If thats the case that people decide what it means to them then guess I cant really falsify that so ill take your word for it.

    • Faze Mac
      Faze Mac Před 5 měsíci

      @Gilgamesh4238 black pill simply brings truth and reality to the surface. However one decides to react to black pill is up to them. Some are reactive and negative. Others are proactive and positive. Their viewpoint depends on many other factors as well

    • Gilgamesh4238
      Gilgamesh4238 Před 5 měsíci +2

      @Faze Mac Although, I will agree some aspects are true like looks DO matter to an extent for sure and some redpill shit like focusing on yourself is very good advice but it gets bad when its treating women like objects or monoliths and for some reason it gets tied with right wing reactionary views.

    • Gilgamesh4238
      Gilgamesh4238 Před 5 měsíci

      @Faze Mac Its not tho, im short af 5'4 and i've still gotten more dates and slept with more women than old friends(toxic) who believed in red pill and black pill bs. They'd treat women like shit then wonder why theyre not getting laid, say im too "nice" to girls but then they cant even get a date

  • linear space station
    linear space station Před 6 měsíci +3

    i’m pretty sure that a few weeks ago someone tried to do this to me. the guy came up to me and talked exactly in the same way that these guys typically do, saying “excuse me i just had to tell you you’re beautiful” and then trying to start a conversation, and talking in that rushed way. i really hope i don’t end up on tiktok xd

  • Maram Hesham
    Maram Hesham Před 5 měsíci +1

    It's so sad that literally every single girl/woman I know have had creeps approach her! It's part of being a woman living on this planet. Just sucks.

  • Vinyl-Cath
    Vinyl-Cath Před 5 měsíci +3

    Reminds me of a time when this man wouldn’t leave me alone coming off the train, then proceeded to walk straight into a dense metal pillar and tried to pretend it didn’t hurt. I was scared but it was also fucking priceless karma

  • Lucky GoldFish
    Lucky GoldFish Před 4 měsíci +1

    Dude, no woman is going to be okay with getting picked up like that when they are hiking. That's literally a serial killer setup 😂

  • Sheridan Francis
    Sheridan Francis Před 6 měsíci +5607

    The girl in the white hoodie adjusting her clothes, crossing her arms, and moving away. All these women are giving so many “I’m uncomfortable, please go away” signals, it’s almost like an entry level body language class.

    • DC
      DC Před 3 měsíci

      Why are you doing signals if your mouth and mind work?
      Use your words.
      If it doesn't work with that man try a man related to you.
      If they are unavailable try a police man.

    • misomal
      misomal Před 4 měsíci

      @wegan merner that’s a bit of a stretch lol any girl would be uncomfortable

    • Jessica Partida
      Jessica Partida Před 4 měsíci

      @leftism is for slave owners of course it does wtf.

    • Seri~
      Seri~ Před 5 měsíci

      @Edwin Pena if they lash out or reject they'll be called rude or Karen , cut the cr@p and stop defending d0gshxts like these

    • wegan merner
      wegan merner Před 5 měsíci +14

      @Edwin Pena while I completely agree sometimes the fear of offending them and in turn them lashing out/getting loud or violent overrules your desire to stand up for yourself and tell them to leave you alone. Strangers are scary sometimes especially when their encroaching your personal space.

  • Luca the Bunny
    Luca the Bunny Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love how Chris had to check himself out in the mirror while flirting with a married woman... got to make sure the teddy bear camera is still filming lol!

  • Dana Lyons
    Dana Lyons Před 6 měsíci +3

    I also doubt these women knew they were being filmed, let alone having their faces uploaded to TikTok. So many levels of uncomfortable

  • Daniela
    Daniela Před 6 měsíci +1

    the self-conscious prank made me laugh out loud instead of just blowing air thru my nose, great video cody!

  • Na ya
    Na ya Před 6 měsíci +1

    I like how you can see the light leave Cody's eyes as he goes through every stage of grief

  • sera
    sera Před 6 měsíci +6142

    i feel bad for anyone who ever had any kind of interaction with that guy

    • Sad -
      Sad - Před 6 měsíci

      @Arlo_Slater honestly i know right they getting dumber each second

    • Sad -
      Sad - Před 6 měsíci +5

      @DC7 ikr and he doesn’t know how uncomfortable and probably cautious they are, and he posts it online. These poor girls man

    • Bit
      Bit Před 6 měsíci +1

      He hid the camera with the teddy bear, I think.

    • sera
      sera Před 6 měsíci +1

      @Yuno~ i would like to see that ngl

    • Yuno~
      Yuno~ Před 6 měsíci +9

      I kinda hoped the guy who was standing there watching the girl gets hit on would try to save her or argue with that guy honestly i was disappointed, also i wish one day he would get his ass kicked from a girl's partner that he was hitting on cuz he needs it.

  • Let’s Really Talk
    Let’s Really Talk Před 4 měsíci +3

    I was at the store with my husband, he ended up walking to another aisle while I was picking out strawberries. All the sudden this really old guy comes over and whispers in my ear, “You want to share those strawberries together “ very creepily I might add. It startled me and I was like “What did you just say”? Anyway my husband comes walking back and he notices him and you could see the “Oh shit, look on his face” bc my husband is a 6’4 former Marine. I tell him what happened and when my husband looks over at him, the guy try’s to play it off and tells his friend “Hey you want share a strawberry with me” lol his friends face was priceless like dude no, don’t drag me into this. My husband told him you need to get lost, and don’t come around her again or there will be problems. The guy immediately leaves the store.
    So Karma is a bitch, because he thought I was alone. This guy is going to fuck up too, and come across a woman with her man their and it’s not going to end well for him

  • H.E. 5
    H.E. 5 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Love Cody. I feel like he had fun with this video and the audience can tell.

  • Whitney Allen
    Whitney Allen Před 4 měsíci +1

    Listening to this guy is like taking financial advice from someone who has gone bankrupt multiple times that it’s telling you how to avoid bankruptcy!
    AKA -
    “I have never succeeded, but I failed so many times that I know what not to do.”

  • Tory Shea
    Tory Shea Před 6 měsíci

    This actually makes my skin crawl. Ive experienced this and its kinda dreadful when you are approached out of no where by some man, whom you do not know, and hes giving off EXTREMELY creepy vibes like that. Its scary when you dont know whether to ignore them or keep talking, because you never know what someones intentions are. So just LEAVE US TF ALONE PLEASE.

  • Kinzey Branham
    Kinzey Branham Před 6 měsíci +4162

    This man is literally THE REASON women feel uncomfortable going places alone

    • RealLifeSupermann
      RealLifeSupermann Před 3 měsíci

      Please tell me y’all heard at 7:43 that someone said what were you for Halloween before the guy actually said it🤣🤣

    • CancerSquad
      CancerSquad Před 3 měsíci

      @Eupo based on every study on the subject I can find. From police numbers to stoping harassment organizations.
      You must be really really stupid to claim having an education on that and yet failed to produce on serious study to prove your numbers.

    • hamoIQ
      hamoIQ Před 3 měsíci

      @Kinzey Branham these people you’re trying to show logic don’t have common sense and they think that women don’t go through these experiences because they haven’t seen it. The majority of people do agree with you

    • CancerSquad
      CancerSquad Před 3 měsíci

      @Eupo 25% for men 60% for women

    • CancerSquad
      CancerSquad Před 3 měsíci

      @Eupo its not I juat gave you the numbers in america

  • Shino Aburame
    Shino Aburame Před 3 dny

    WHy’s the thumbnail girl looks like kelsey 💀💀

  • sweetbabytays
    sweetbabytays Před 5 měsíci +1

    the fact that his entire page is made up of this & he’s getting thousand of views on each one. you can feel the uncomfortableness the entire time. makes me feel so bad for the girls

  • Jonathan Trumble
    Jonathan Trumble Před 6 měsíci

    “I’d like to have you in my freezer” made me laugh quite a bit. Cody’s delivery is always top tier

  • Joel Spooner
    Joel Spooner Před 4 měsíci

    When Cody said "let's watch it again and analyze it ,"' I almost died from second hand embarrassment ☠️

  • yarreux
    yarreux Před 6 měsíci +3919

    ah yes the “be polite as possible and dont show any signs of rudeness or this strange man might hurt me” response. a staple for women unfortunately. and i think a lot of pickup artists interpret it as successfully engaging them in a conversation despite them showing every sign of wanting to leave

    • Inexena
      Inexena Před měsícem +1

      @Josef Benjamin I’m an Arab woman in an Arab country, and it’s the exact same thing for us here. Every time a guy approaches me on the street, sometimes they even block my way and try to talk to me despite me being extremely uncomfortable.. it’s fucking terrifying. In that situation I feel like if I offended him in any way I’d be in danger. I don’t think your feelings being hurt matters more than our safety and well-being. Just saying.

    • Olivia Lillegard
      Olivia Lillegard Před 2 měsíci

      ALONE IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE and mens greatest trigger- rejection. i was so scared for her i know she was lowkey scared too

    • Xoxoevol
      Xoxoevol Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yup cause look at that poor girl who was rude and got shot !!! Smh

    • juno
      juno Před 4 měsíci +18

      @Josef Benjamin well ig you’ll have to live with it cause your feelings don’t outweigh someone’s life lmao

    • Josef Benjamin
      Josef Benjamin Před 4 měsíci +1

      @Sisi x from my perspective, as a man, being treated like a "snake" until proven otherwise is like being called guilty until proven innocent. It feels accusatory and, if you were in my shoes you'd feel the same.
      Imagine being made to feel like a criminal by the opposite sex just for being born who you are, and because of what a few men have done to them in the past?
      On the other hand, because I have the capacity to put myself in your shoes, I get why you and a lot of western women feel the way you do about men.
      It's a catch 22. Perhaps you'll deter violence from men who are rejected by saving their ego, but the consequence is you also push away good men.

  • Breanna White
    Breanna White Před 6 měsíci

    Feeling like a hostage, looking for the nearest exit
    SPOT ON Cody! That’s exactly what it is. Also looking around for the nearest person to come over & help. And the internal battle I have of feeling extremely uncomfortable but not knowing if I’m being paranoid about it or not.

  • Cassie L.
    Cassie L. Před 6 měsíci

    I’d love to watch an entire documentary of that guy getting rejected over and over again. There’s something profound to learn from this, but I’m not sure what.

  • eden
    eden Před 6 měsíci +1

    "I saw you looking in the freezer I wish I could have you in my freezer" really caught me off guard but summed the interaction up perfectly

  • textlingo
    textlingo Před 6 měsíci

    I’m always shocked at how many of them give him their names. I think a lot of women need to train the “introduce yourself” instinct out of our heads just to be extra safe. Who knows, he could somehow find your socials with just your name and picture with enough time and BOOM you’ve got a stalker. The self preservation instinct that makes us automatically be nice to random men that approach us can cause more harm than good if you’re not careful. I always think that ignoring them no matter what is the best thing to do. Or learn basic sign language and pretend to be deaf (it sucks we gotta resort to this but it works🤷‍♀️)

  • Yami Yugi
    Yami Yugi Před 6 měsíci +7165

    I feel awful for these women getting approached by random men ruining their time and creeping them out 💀

    • Jaqen H’ghar
      Jaqen H’ghar Před 4 měsíci

      @Guerrero Azul you should watch it again.

    • Your Mother's Favorite
      Your Mother's Favorite Před 4 měsíci

      @lanikin lywalker yeah because men literally raping and murdering women since the beginning of time never actually happens right

    • Midwest Muslimah
      Midwest Muslimah Před 5 měsíci

      GO WATCH *GLOW*

    • alien
      alien Před 6 měsíci

      @Hal hal idk why you guys keep defending Chris when he's obviously being creepy. But when a man gets harassed you guys would quickly side with the man but when a woman gets harassed you guys would just dismiss it and say dumb stuffs like "if he were handsome and rich it wouldn't be a problem" like someone already doesn't feel good and ur here making them feel even more horrible. Like bruh the women out here getting stalked and stuff and you'd still say stuffs like "it's because he's not handsome and rich"

    • alien
      alien Před 6 měsíci

      @Hal hal just stop defending Chris already Chris is obviously harassing them. You don't even know how much women has to deal with these type of stuff if they reject men they would get mad at her that's why. Why do you think attractiveness will make a difference?? Just stop justifying creepiness these women doesn't wanna be a part of this video. that's it end of story all of you are wrong

  • Elizabeth Dillon
    Elizabeth Dillon Před 6 měsíci +3

    Sad to see so many women in the comments saying exactly what I was thinking to. Really wish the world wasn't like this. Stay safe out there ladies ❤

  • rockandrollfantasy86
    rockandrollfantasy86 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I just want to go up and say "Hey, honey, is this guy bothering you?" But I don't want to scare her more.

  • Water Champ
    Water Champ Před 5 měsíci +1

    Chris has had an absolute howler, he's putting up consistent stinkers with his pick up attempts

  • Judah Riggins
    Judah Riggins Před 3 měsíci +2

    This guy has zero charisma. It makes me feel good about myself

  • Rebecca Hampton
    Rebecca Hampton Před 5 měsíci +1

    If I was the first women in the video hiking I’d be really scared. You know how many women are attacked, assaulted, even killed on hiking trails. I’d be so worried that this guy would be following me or try to physically attack me when there wasn’t anyone around

  • alaska washington
    alaska washington Před 6 měsíci

    honestly, I’m only 40 seconds in and that first girl Hannah already has so much more patience then I would in this situation. it is so weird and uncomfortable to me that people just come up and start a conversation with you (especially in such an awkward and invasive way) while you’re very clearly occupied with your workout. 😭

  • Karl Buhr
    Karl Buhr Před 6 měsíci

    Dude, your cringe reactions had me in tears laughing. I enjoyed that so much.

  • Dāvis
    Dāvis Před 6 měsíci +1

    Cody, hands down one of your best vids in a while. Keep it up king!

  • looneytoons
    looneytoons Před 6 měsíci +5276

    let's all give a round of applause for cody for being brave to watch these terrible videos for us

    • spirits s
      spirits s Před 6 měsíci

      You blind or something? You’re watching this shit with him.

    • Kokomii
      Kokomii Před 6 měsíci

      👏👏👏

    • Georgia Maier
      Georgia Maier Před 6 měsíci

      W

    • N-word Heelflips
      N-word Heelflips Před 6 měsíci +2

      fuck that I blame him for sharing these clips so we have to see them too

    • Sofia Mona Holzer
      Sofia Mona Holzer Před 6 měsíci +1

      i read that as a round of apple sauce laugh out loud

  • Britt B C
    Britt B C Před 6 měsíci +1

    I would love to see a part 2 of you reacting to more of these tiktoks!!

  • Blondie
    Blondie Před 6 měsíci +5

    And no ones gonna talk about how cody thinks that this guy is wearing a teddy bear on his head to film 💀💀

  • JackDangles
    JackDangles Před 3 měsíci

    I love this. This shows why you really shouldn't cold approach and hit on random women. It's just not how normal interaction or dating works at all. Guys need to learn to stop doing this as a method of meeting women.

  • Curt Johnston
    Curt Johnston Před 3 dny

    Kody.. I hate you for this one. Not as much as those women hated being approached by this guy, but still

  • Loaf Mather
    Loaf Mather Před 6 měsíci +3819

    I can feel the women’s fear in these videos. I’ve been in this situation so many times and it’s just so awful. I can’t imagine how embarrassed I’d be if one of those guys was literally recording me. These poor women :(

    • Fred Marec
      Fred Marec Před 2 měsíci

      you're probably 12 wtf you talking about

    • allen castle
      allen castle Před 4 měsíci

      @Just a random Dude incel spotted

    • ávante
      ávante Před 4 měsíci +1

      @Just a random Dude you're mad weird for that, just don't go up to people filming them while making them uncomfortable

    • NJ PC
      NJ PC Před 4 měsíci

      Is that you, confidentchris?

    • 輝くshine
      輝くshine Před 5 měsíci

      @Just a random Dude n-no???????? wtf

  • Lance Uppercut
    Lance Uppercut Před 5 měsíci +1

    That dude had the conversational/flirting skills of someone who just sustained a life threatening concussion, that just rocked his prefrontal cortex and wiped out all the higher executive functions of the human brain that separate us from lizards. "H-h-hi! Are you a mate or unhh w-wife? I like want taste green, the sun is hot?"

  • Jeedan
    Jeedan Před 6 měsíci

    watching the pick up artists ones is a straight endurance test for me, I swear I can only make it 40 seconds a time before cringing out and needing a break

  • けいこ
    けいこ Před 6 měsíci

    What Cody said about someone working out with airpods on definitely don’t want to be talked to is so on point but I feel weirded out by not addressing how creepy this guy is

  • Carina Fichera
    Carina Fichera Před 5 měsíci +1

    is nobody gonna talk about how codys tooth literally flew out of his mouth at 5:35 and just magically reappeared lmfao

  • Celery
    Celery Před 6 měsíci +5094

    I feel like some men don’t really understand that a lot of women are afraid of them . Like if she clearly doesn’t want to be approached or continue the conversation it’s going to be hard for her to feel safe exiting the conversation, not fearing the dude will become angry at being rejected or follow her home. I know most men have good intentions but a lot don’t, and women always have to take extra care to avoid confrontation. Just putting that out there

    • Winston Marlowe
      Winston Marlowe Před 3 měsíci

      @ВоIuga 🅥 thank god

    • Midwest Muslimah
      Midwest Muslimah Před 5 měsíci

      GO WATCH *GLOW*

    • Rudra Rana
      Rudra Rana Před 5 měsíci

      @l u v o r i a yeah well out of 100000 people in UK 36 rapes take place. That's like 0.036% of population indulging in such act 👍

    • l u v o r i a
      l u v o r i a Před 5 měsíci +1

      @Rudra Rana
      Statistics

    • Rudra Rana
      Rudra Rana Před 5 měsíci

      How do you know a lot of men have bad intentions?

  • Braying Mule with No Free Will
    Braying Mule with No Free Will Před 6 měsíci +4

    I'd be fucking terrified to approach a girl like that, let alone say hi. I prefer to look straight ahead and pretend she doesnt exist. The less we acknowledge each other's existence, the better for me

    • Ben L.
      Ben L. Před 6 měsíci

      "ah yes, the wall looks very wally today"

  • 1any._.thing1
    1any._.thing1 Před 5 měsíci +4

    the thing that still blows my mind is that 'i have a boyfriend' has not once gotten a guy to leave me alone. since i'm bi sometimes I half-lie and say 'i like girls' because that has a slightly higher success rate, but dudes do not know how to just fucking walk away.

    • pit
      pit Před 15 dny

      @Maia Straus really?

    • Maia Straus
      Maia Straus Před 3 měsíci

      im a lesbian and when i say that, i usually just get the "so threesome?"

    • Adam
      Adam Před 4 měsíci

      I promise you 99% of guys will fuck off if you immediately shit your pants when they start talking to you.

  • UdoADHD
    UdoADHD Před 5 měsíci +1

    I think that’s the point. He never claimed to be good, he’s just trying to be confident. 😅

  • UndeadAirwaves
    UndeadAirwaves Před 6 měsíci

    As soon as this video ended I felt all my muscles untighten. This one was really very painful.

  • Daniël v. A.
    Daniël v. A. Před 5 měsíci

    I'm someone who doesn't have the confidence to talk to any random person in public
    But I'm still so glad that I'm at least not bothering anyone by being like that, like how do these people not see that what they're doing is just really weird

  • Christian Kastoun
    Christian Kastoun Před 6 měsíci

    i love you cody, but this was hard to get through. nothing about you but watching these men gives me physical pain

  • Katie Hambrick
    Katie Hambrick Před 6 měsíci

    The next time this situation happens to me, I’m just gonna immediately start screaming. And see what happens.

  • Kagan Rice
    Kagan Rice Před 5 měsíci

    He really took "move to the next one" as a personal challenge

  • Çatal Hüyük
    Çatal Hüyük Před 6 měsíci +2745

    Dangerous for her. This is how women get abducted and murdered in parks. Chris is creepy af.

    • bgot throw
      bgot throw Před měsícem

      @Ivy Well at least you admit you’re a trash human being for being prejudice. Funny how woke people use the SAME EXACT justifications that racist would use against black people. Treat them differently or with caution because a small minority of them do crime. As a minority this exactly is why I get tired of all the virtue signaling BS because when I see y’all get the opportunity to shyt on all whole group of people, you’ll do it when it’s culturally popular. Bigotry is alive and well

    • d
      d Před 2 měsíci

      @Summit313 nOt AlL mEn

    • Your Mother's Favorite
      Your Mother's Favorite Před 4 měsíci

      @Summit313 oh look, a "not all men" guy trying to act like women aren't getting murdered by men since the beginning of time🤡

    • Google name
      Google name Před 4 měsíci

      @Nоt RiскrоII 🅥 stop this shit

    • Jesper Eurén
      Jesper Eurén Před 5 měsíci +1

      @Ivy kinda sus that summit keeps defending this guy too. No shit it doesn’t apply to all men, but how’s a girl suppose to know?

  • Anthony Moulton
    Anthony Moulton Před 6 měsíci +2

    at 5:33 you can see cody literally cringing his tooth out

  • Let’s Really Talk
    Let’s Really Talk Před 4 měsíci

    I was at the store with my husband, he ended up walking to another aisle while I was picking out strawberries. All the sudden this really old guy comes over and whispers in my ear, “You want to show those strawberries together “ very creepily I might add. It startled me and I was like “What did you just say”? Anyway my husband comes walking back and he notices him and you could see the “Oh shit, look on his face” bc my husband is a 6’4 former Marine. I tell him what happened and when my husband looks over at him, the guy try’s to play it off and tells his friend “Hey you want share a strawberry with me” lol his friends face was priceless like dude no, don’t drag me into this. My husband told him you need to get lost, and don’t come around her again or there will be problems. The guy immediately leaves the store.
    So Karma is a bitch, because he thought I was alone. This guy is going to fuck up too, and come across a woman with her man their and it’s not going to end well for him.

  • uncle tham
    uncle tham Před 6 měsíci

    What an absolute stud. I am learning so much! What am I supposed to do after I get the harassment charges? Apreesh what you do, chris!

  • Aya Bo
    Aya Bo Před 3 měsíci

    6:28 Whoaaa... Imagine being approached by a dude with a teddybear on his head. The girl hiking at 0:14 must've thought she's about to get murdered.

  • Angela Plasencia
    Angela Plasencia Před 6 měsíci +1

    Cody's tooth flying out at 5:33 is my favorite part. Dying

  • Good little Ghost
    Good little Ghost Před 6 měsíci +1

    I always say “what?” Or “excuse me” like I didn’t hear them even though I am VERY aware there is a man approaching with this energy. It’s unpredictable energy and it’s unnerving so the “what??” Is me just asking the universe, not the person. Like “what do you even want from me please leave me alone”
    If a guy legitimately surprises me in a store I’m more freaked out and get defensive.
    The mental eyeroll this whole video because it’s too relatable

  • Syd Hendrix
    Syd Hendrix Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is the type of cringe that has me closing my eyes as hard as I can 😣

  • M Sd
    M Sd Před 6 měsíci

    Stuff like this is why I always keep my headphones on when I’m out alone. And yet some creepy guys won’t even be stopped by that. Sigh

  • Lauren Erickson
    Lauren Erickson Před 6 měsíci +1433

    As a woman, this gives me the woooorrsst feeling, both secondhand and firsthand. Like leave me alone, I literally just want to exist.

    • John Maris
      John Maris Před 15 dny

      All women are not the same

    • Adam
      Adam Před 3 měsíci +1

      @Elijah Gavin I highly doube he approaches women with the awkward ass energy this guy does, and even more so I doubt its a woman hiking alone with her headphones in in the middle of nowhere.

    • Elijah Gavin
      Elijah Gavin Před 3 měsíci +2

      There’s a guy who approaches women the same way but he’s 6’6” and conventionally attractive and the women light up and are super receptive 💀

    • Ben Dikok
      Ben Dikok Před 3 měsíci +1

      Y’all really saying this just because he’s not an attractive or confident man. Women are fine with other women or hot men approaching them, just not ugly men

    • Adam
      Adam Před 4 měsíci +3

      @Queen Shianna I feel like the most common thing is women trying to coax men into asking them out. Idk man it feels to me like women are petrified of rejection. At least in heterosexual dynamics, can't speak for anything else.

  • Rukeyuhade
    Rukeyuhade Před 6 měsíci

    This reminds me of the time I was on a greyhound to go see my boyfriend & some guy sitting across the aisle got my attention to show me a note that said "you're cute :)" I was like "ahaha thanks" like... how exactly do these guys expect us to respond??

  • doe eyes
    doe eyes Před 6 měsíci +2

    Hannah was giving him the "please dont hurt me" smile, while trying to slowly back away.

  • Aryan Akhlaghi
    Aryan Akhlaghi Před 4 měsíci +1

    "What if he develops a severe drinking problem" had me in tears

  • Luca the Bunny
    Luca the Bunny Před 3 měsíci

    "You look like my future wife" scene gave me uncomfortable chills lmao

  • Keaton aka Kay
    Keaton aka Kay Před 6 měsíci +1169

    Just a friendly reminder, we’re not polite to guys doing this because we care about their feelings. It’s because we are terrified that they will react poorly or violently if we are too blunt. Most of us women have learned that the hard way.

    • Conrad Korbol
      Conrad Korbol Před 17 dny

      @PrettyIn Pinky ok, well, now I have heard one.
      I can’t use I haven’t heard of it happening before now.
      And I can’t say you shouldn’t be scared. I do think the fear doesn’t match the statistical significance.
      Sorry that happened to you.

    • Conrad Korbol
      Conrad Korbol Před 17 dny

      @Sarah Pace Sings yeah, it must be hard to have no source to back you up your claim and think your anecdotes have more basis than mine.
      It’s pretty interesting that you have unreported crime statistics and this isn’t large enough to have it’s own percentage.

    • PrettyIn Pinky
      PrettyIn Pinky Před 17 dny

      @Conrad Korbol I was sworn at and punched for saying I wasn’t interested. So….

    • PrettyIn Pinky
      PrettyIn Pinky Před 17 dny

      I was punched, in the face for saying I’m not interested! Called a stuck up bitch and punched by a random dude 🙈 Some people are psychos

    • Sarah Pace Sings
      Sarah Pace Sings Před 20 dny

      I dont care how late I am, Conrad thinking he got the last word on here made me laugh so hard. I'm so sorry to the other people he was arguing with, jesus lol

  • Djflyx 1
    Djflyx 1 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I love how these dudes have 0 self awareness.

  • Jahnik Williams
    Jahnik Williams Před 3 měsíci +1

    The first clip with Chris was insane, how did he think that was a good first line?