My dad used a Canoe paddle to push me out of the boat in a 100 feet of water with no life jacket at 4 or 5 years old when i stood up in the canoe. After I was in the water he told me how to dog Paddle. Later on I did mile swims and Red Cross Lifeguard
@@hanskloss1331 so true, once though I wish I had a helmet on while out with my friends on my bike. Came home with a big ole knot on my head that day lol
You're right we do need both unfortunately many don't get both and it shows BUT in many cases it eventually pans out n they still have great lives and lifestyles.
The reality is that is a mother and father are not the only ones who participate in raising a child. A child should and does have many influences in a good upbringing.
Can't you people come up with something original? It's always the same old story children need "BOTH" parents. Well, obviously in a perfect world but guess what? It's not a perfect world. There's a lot of children that do just fine with one parent. Obviously, that's not ideal but it's life. Sometimes the father or mother passes away. What about those kids? Are you saying they need both parents to survive? What exactly are you trying to say to the children who have lost a parent?
As a former swim teacher who taught kids from ages 1-14, yes. We practiced jumps with the kids. You would tell the kids to put their hands together like so: 🙏 Then you would grab those hands with one hand and push them in with your other hand on their back. This was of course for the younger kids who started out sitting on the wall. You would try to get them to push off the wall of the pool with their feet while sitting as a precursor to the jump into the pool, but for those who were too young to understand or were too scared this is how we did it. We generally tried to make it a fun experience for them so that they would want to keep swimming and improving. 9/10 times a kid who was scared would love it and jump in over and over again after their first time whether they were a sitting down or standing up student. The other 1/10 get used to it after about 3 sessions usually and are fine.
Actually the studies have shown it causes men who are less successful both professionally and socially. It can also lower iq in children because it creates neurological stress.
@@384.commander you can be the strongest man in the world and not a single thing you can do about a man a billions of dollars richer than you telling you you have to die for their bottom profit margin.
you cannot help them conquer anything if you give them mental damage, they will no longer look to you as a protector, but as someone they resent, not always, but you dont know what kind of mind your child has until you've messed it all up and they need therapy, a good father would get in the water himself! and show them it's okay, and bring them in the water in his arm so they know , hey water is safe, i'm with my dad, i'm good, then you teach them to swim, this is lazy meat head parenting, it's disgusting. i dunno how all your apes think this is fine, this is how you break a childs mind. not grow it.
I had a fear of rollar coasters when i was younger so my dad fourced me on one and he road it with me now i love rollar coaster (it was mt everest in disney)
@darkusjenkins2021 This how I learned it. No vests. My dad is still my hero, will always be and no one comes even close. RIP. 😢 It's not what you do it's how you do it. There's a difference between discipline and abuse. Deep, calculated thought and fatherly love is the deciding factor. The key is simple. Dont do anything for your personal benefit. Always put their needs first. They need to have skills-survival or otherwise-, they need to have proper work etiquette, to be respectful, bold, quick witted and adaptable. If they aren't. This world will chew them up and spit them out without second thought or remorse.
This… this is real parenting! Sad that fathers like this are going extinct. I learned to swim the same way, only he jumped in after so he could join the fun.
Exactly what they needed. Kids (and some adults as well) need a push at times so they break through comfort barriers. The kids were even smiling afterwards.
Now this is what I call on the job training lol. My pops did me the same way without a life jacket. Kids are way too soft today. Need more dads like this!
Doing this teaches kids to avoid all instincts. All emotions including fear is valid. Being afraid to jump in is a reflection of the child trust in their own ability to cope with facing the unknown. Hes not teaching them any process to move through the feelings...just avoid your instincts don't listen to instincts jump right in....this makes for all sorts of risk taking behaviour in youth and adulthood due to a lack of working out their own steps to learning!!! Hes repeating a process he was taught from fathers who also lacked this ability. Time for change people!!
Wow you beat the odds. I know 3 people who have fear of the water from near drowning experiences. 1 of them was initiated by thier parents. Least they saved alotta cash by selecting a shitty care home for them.
@@tiarnanquinn5403 My dad jumped in the water right after he threw me in. I wasn’t going to drown. I HAD a fear of water before he threw me in. After that I LOVED water. I became a lifeguard and swim instructor. 😀
Exactly, @JW-do9wq. Staged or not, that's the thing. Dad could have easily helped them if needed. It's not like he threw them off a pier and couldn't reach them. People today try to treat boys like girls and girls like boys. 🤦
Thats a good dad right there, reminds of me of my old man, he taught me to be strong at a young age, and after seeing this world for 42 years, Im very glad he did.
So a dysfunctional wreck with zero risk assessment skills, increasing their impulsivity and recklessness without regard for the safety of themselves or others. Alternatively, they will grow up not trusting anything or anyone because they are in fact scared of everything. Because the human mind is a lot less simple than "if this, then that."
Or truly traumatized with PTSD from tall men, boats, water, people who don't respect boundaries, trust issues, what's IN the water, feeling like NO must not mean NO, that adults suck... etc 😢 Not saying baby them. I am saying approach it better. He was strong enough and big enough to put one in each hand and dip/dangle them each in the water.
Yep ! I remember my first dunk in the swimming pool at 3 years old. When I resurfaced I had a little captain turd in the back of my swimming trunks 😂😂😂😂 Thanks Dad !!!!!
@@XB10001 they will see it's not bad and do it themselves next time. He just sped up the process. Even birds push their young out the nest if they don't want to do it on their own.
Or they'll grow an underlying psychological block where they can't do anything on their own without daddy to do it for them. Just covering all possibilities
@@cjohnson_you think somebody needs therapy just because they are acknowledging the potential opposite effect? I guess wilful ignorance is better? Bizarre.
Thats how uncle taught me. Except he was drunk and I didnt have a life vest. I also only learned how to doggy paddle from that experience. I still cant swim that well😂
They had life jackets on and look how they reacted? They didn't cry, they laughed and didn't panic. This is dad's style and they're tough lil guys for it. They'll be great swimmers.
Lmaooo, all daddies did this to us in the 80's without a life vest, my daddy threw me in a random lake at a family reunion, not one person came to my aide but I learned how to swim real quick 😂
My Dad did this to me at family camp out. Out of no where. We were fishing in a row boat. Middle of lake. Things were good. THEN. I was sinking. I learned to dog paddle. The following summer my brother took swimming lessons at a school. I think my Mom had her say.
You MUST BE black too because that's what happened to me bro 😂😂😂. No vest, everybody looking and talking, I swam to the edge and realized I was alive. It was on a popping after that
I disagree, depends on where you live, how often you get outside vs how much time you spend on social media. The MGTOW and "Red pill" garbage is all bark and no bite. Being a blatant asshole doesn't mean a guy is tough, it shows their egotistical and act hyper-aggressively like an undisciplined child. You should explore the world a bit it opens your perspective and gets rid of unhealthy ignorance. Or get into self-defense, been traing in JKD, Kick-Boxing, and some Muyi Thai since I was 13. Teaches you how to stand your ground without needing to act like a caveman and gets ride of bitter petty anger. Get out more dude, the world isn't as fucked up as you think.
That’s how I learned how to swim, sans life vest. The lifeguard asked him what he was doing and Dad laughed and replied, „Teaching her how to swim. She‘ll figure it out.“ It worked.
Reminds me of when my dad taught me how to not need training wheels. He put me on a mountain bike on top of a large hill and pushed me down it. I learned how to ride a bike without training wheels in 0.5 seconds…. Love you dad
Did the same with my son, also got him a dog because he was terrified of them. After a short period of him being unsure of the dog, Porridge was his name, they were inseparable for over 15 years.
Birds push their babies out of the nest. Bears abandon their cubs at 2 y/o to fend for themselves. I think a little push into water is the least of their worries. Lol. Besides… now theyre not afraid anymore. 🤣
Exactly @smithandwestin651. It's not like he threw them off a pier and couldn't reach them. People these days try to treat boys like girls and girls like boys. There are countries over seas training their kids to fight/defend themselves at that age, and people in the US crying about this, this. 🤦
True story....Me and my sister learned to swim at a very young age by this exact method. It was the early 1970's and we were on vacation in the Florida keys. There happened to be a bunch of Navy guys at the hotel we were at hanging by the pool. They saw me and my sister afraid to go in the pool and told my drunk father (they were intoxicated as well) "just throw em' in....if they drown..we can probably bring em' back" ....we learned to swim that day....no life jackets either !
Lol..my parents had a vacation home in the lower Keys and that's where I learned how to swim at 5..lol I got sick of the water wings Because they hurt your arms so I just basically taught myself..lol the GenX way😂😂😂
I didn't have a vest when my dad did it to me. I think I reacted the same as these kids, surprise, anger, smiles, and respect. I became a lifeguard and adult instructor and now handle top 100 company business strategic planning.
@@jetta.silence6356That happens when you get abused with no teaching. My dad proved he was a weak man by taking everything from me and giving me nothing but disrespect and broken promises. I do the work, I pay the bills, I clean the home, I sacrifice my life, and all I get is a door slammed in my face. That’s what kills hope. What made me harder is healing from that trauma. A lesson never taught is trauma never healed.
No, because they have a tiktok 'mom' and a simp dad! Mom forced dad to make this video for views because she saw other people on tiktok making money that way
I got the same treatment from my older brothers but there was no life vest or life jacket involved. I was grabbed and tossed off the boat and into the lake . I was scared to death and splashed my way back to the boat to be hauled in and told "See ! You can swim !". I spent the rest of the day jumping off the boat myself and learning how to float and swim properly.
@@mbuck253did children not swim 200 years ago? Edit: mb, I just learned that swimming was invented in the 1900s. Nobody swam before then, they just walked on water.
@@mbuck253 I know for a fact it happened. It's part of slave's oral history. That's how they used to try and teach their children to swim. It happened to my stepmother in the 1940s and she almost drowned.
As a dad, I think that this the way sometimes. However a better way would be to jump in yourself showing your kids that it is safe and fun and then encouraging them to do so as well. By forcing them, you are robbing them of the learning opportunity to face an obstacle and decide on their own to overcome it.
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My dad used a Canoe paddle to push me out of the boat in a 100 feet of water with no life jacket at 4 or 5 years old when i stood up in the canoe. After I was in the water he told me how to dog Paddle. Later on I did mile swims and Red Cross Lifeguard
How far is the real fucking asshole
Your father is an asshole
My dad did that too but I was able to get out of the bag!
Yes it was too much you don't do that unless they're ready you're wrong for it and you're awful for doing that
That’s how my dad taught me except I didn’t have a life vest😂
Right. We didn't even know there was such a thing. Only, my brothers left me to sink or swim on my own.
Haha. That part❤❤
Same for me. I ended up being recruited by 5 Division One Universities for a full scholarship on the swimming team.
True 🤣
@@JohnDoe-hu9veJesus loves you ❤️ and the only way to heaven
Mothers are afraid of their children hurt and fathers are afraid that their children won't be able to do anything. Love for mom & dad ❤❤❤
it’s true they need both!
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The well said 100%
And seems like the mama is taking the video :) I love them both!
Both parents have roles for bringing up children.
The older son almost cussed his paps. 😂😂
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And MY ! EARS! HEARD!!!😳
...Bro Your So...
FUCKED UP!!! FOR THAT...!.🤣
AND YOUR! THE....WORST!🤣
Lil man wanted to say something else lol he was mad for real. 😂😂😂
"Youre the real!" That got me laughing😂
Damn they had lifejackets on the Titanic, how old are you?
@@DirtyDan806you got the wrong comment
😂😂😂😂
Jesus loves you ❤️ and the only way to heaven @@DirtyDan806
@@coachladee0075Jesus loves you ❤️ and the only way to heaven
Give me a break...we all had Dads or Uncles that taught us that way- minus the vests. This generation needs more of this
Yah but my dad would have cannon balled after and jumped in to. Hard to do with that watch.
I rekon
and I never had a helmet for my bike or skateboard ! also I was given a BB gun at 9
Absolutely!!! I’m Gen X Zane we would lay down in the back of the car against the rear window lol. A seatbelt? What’s that?LOL!!!
@@hanskloss1331 so true, once though I wish I had a helmet on while out with my friends on my bike. Came home with a big ole knot on my head that day lol
This is one of the best examples of why having both a mother and a father is so important in a child’s life
those kids seem to talk in a different language as soon as they got in the water 😂
I absolutely LOVE the difference between a mother’s way to raise and a father’s. We all need BOTH! ❤
You're right we do need both unfortunately many don't get both and it shows BUT in many cases it eventually pans out n they still have great lives and lifestyles.
The reality is that is a mother and father are not the only ones who participate in raising a child. A child should and does have many influences in a good upbringing.
Can't you people come up with something original? It's always the same old story children need "BOTH" parents. Well, obviously in a perfect world but guess what? It's not a perfect world. There's a lot of children that do just fine with one parent. Obviously, that's not ideal but it's life. Sometimes the father or mother passes away. What about those kids? Are you saying they need both parents to survive? What exactly are you trying to say to the children who have lost a parent?
Calm down Karen
@@HappyLeighim guessing you didn't have a dad
EXACTLY what they needed!! Look at their smiles!!
As a former swim teacher who taught kids from ages 1-14, yes. We practiced jumps with the kids. You would tell the kids to put their hands together like so: 🙏 Then you would grab those hands with one hand and push them in with your other hand on their back. This was of course for the younger kids who started out sitting on the wall. You would try to get them to push off the wall of the pool with their feet while sitting as a precursor to the jump into the pool, but for those who were too young to understand or were too scared this is how we did it. We generally tried to make it a fun experience for them so that they would want to keep swimming and improving. 9/10 times a kid who was scared would love it and jump in over and over again after their first time whether they were a sitting down or standing up student. The other 1/10 get used to it after about 3 sessions usually and are fine.
Agree 100%, exactly what those boys needed:)
That's called being a GREAT parent. Tuff love builds strong men.
Strong men create easy times easy times create weak men weak men create tough times and so on brother 👋
Actually the studies have shown it causes men who are less successful both professionally and socially. It can also lower iq in children because it creates neurological stress.
@@carolallison9685 don't believe everything you read on the Internet. Probably written by a weak man with no backbone.
@@384.commander you can be the strongest man in the world and not a single thing you can do about a man a billions of dollars richer than you telling you you have to die for their bottom profit margin.
@@384.commander add the name of the person who quoted that. Don't take credit for something heard on joe rogan
“Bro you’re so, You’re the Real”! 😂
Doesn’t matter what anybody thinks they’re his kids. Period.
100%!!! I’m Gen X and I think that we all learned this way minus the life vest
He's right there with them, if he thought they'd be hurt he'd be in the water in a nanosecond!😂
Best answer
Lol thats certainly not always true, hope you dont find that out the hard way.
The "they're my kids" mentality is how you end up beating you're children and justifying it in your head 😂💀 boomers need to check themselves.
Nothing wrong with helping his kids conquer their fear.He is there present paying close attention to make sure they're safe.
you cannot help them conquer anything if you give them mental damage, they will no longer look to you as a protector, but as someone they resent, not always, but you dont know what kind of mind your child has until you've messed it all up and they need therapy, a good father would get in the water himself! and show them it's okay, and bring them in the water in his arm so they know , hey water is safe, i'm with my dad, i'm good, then you teach them to swim, this is lazy meat head parenting, it's disgusting. i dunno how all your apes think this is fine, this is how you break a childs mind. not grow it.
There are better ways to help kids conquer their fears.
I had a fear of rollar coasters when i was younger so my dad fourced me on one and he road it with me now i love rollar coaster (it was mt everest in disney)
No parent is with them..... they threw them overboard.
For. Views.
@@candacerushing6882Like?
"BRO" "Bro you're the real" 🤣
Never forget my grandpa kicking me into the deep end of the pool 😂
Best way is to face that fear. Dad was in control. Kids were safe. Thumbs up to dad
When they insult you with a compliment ("you're the real!") lmao, you know you're a good dad 😂
😂😂😂
Compliment? LOL. Hardly.
"Your the real dad" hahahha kid wanted so bad to call his dad a name then remembered his dad is the only one that could save him at the moment. Lol
That’s how daddy do it, he knows those boys can swim 😂😂❤❤
Kids: " Dad, I can't swim."
Dads: " Not with that attitude." Yoink.
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Yoink is crazy 😂
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THE WAY I SCREAMPT WHEN I READ "Yoink" 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great dad, he did not put his kids in any danger both little guys had life preservers on. Great job!
What's in that water?
@@BLKSaiyanCopyKatTwo kids with life vest seem to be in the water unless I missed sumn
@@rnwire1491 you know exactly what I mean 🤣, what else is in there that we can't see 🙄
@@BLKSaiyanCopyKat naw u right lol
@@BLKSaiyanCopyKatfish
I Luv this‼️ Respect to this Man for helping his boys face their fear but also being their to protect them!🤞🏿💪🏿💯
They weren’t expecting that !
But their fear quickly turned around to a fun time .
I doubt they’ll ever forget this moment .
😂😂😂😂
He did what he needed to do as a father for his sons. The world is not kind to weaklings.
They will never feel safe with him again.
@darkusjenkins2021
This how I learned it. No vests. My dad is still my hero, will always be and no one comes even close. RIP. 😢
It's not what you do it's how you do it. There's a difference between discipline and abuse. Deep, calculated thought and fatherly love is the deciding factor. The key is simple. Dont do anything for your personal benefit. Always put their needs first. They need to have skills-survival or otherwise-, they need to have proper work etiquette, to be respectful, bold, quick witted and adaptable. If they aren't. This world will chew them up and spit them out without second thought or remorse.
@@darkusjenkins2021 nah they had on life vests. He wasn’t stupid.
What made a scripted video? That's what fathers need to do?
@@darkusjenkins2021 I’d feel pretty safe with my dad if he was strong enough to pick me up one handed and throw me 😂
Nah he did real good. He made sure they were good and assessed the situation. W dad
Exactly. They were never in any danger.
that was abusive.
@@bunjijumper5345 not even the most liberal of snowflake beta households
@bunjijumper5345 how was that abusive?
@@bunjijumper5345nah. You just had soft parents dat didn't prepare you for the real world
This… this is real parenting! Sad that fathers like this are going extinct. I learned to swim the same way, only he jumped in after so he could join the fun.
100% Perfect move. Dad knew there was no danger and needed to teach them the same!
Bro really picked them up like some Grocery bags😂
😂😂😂 I love this! 😂😂😂
His muscles tell me he has done a lot of grocery carrying. Me too
😂😂😂
He had to pick them up, those grocery bags had 2 legs each and one on the left was ready to boogie bag out of there.
😂😂
My dad threw me into the water, but we didn't use life jackets. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly!
My Mom is the one who threw me in. Lol
Dad's Advice: Swim like your life depends on it.
You know he throws them in their pool all the time! They'll be tough kids not afraid of much
I almost drown lol
Right before he threw me in, he said the famous, "you'll either sink or swim." Well, I still can't swim and I was traumatized as a child 😢😂😂😂
Exactly what they needed. Kids (and some adults as well) need a push at times so they break through comfort barriers.
The kids were even smiling afterwards.
Great parenting is what I saw. He taught them how to confront their fears and sometimes you just gotta jump in. Saweet ! You go dad !!!!
Now this is what I call on the job training lol. My pops did me the same way without a life jacket. Kids are way too soft today. Need more dads like this!
He is an awesome dad. Don't allow them to develop that spirit of fear
@@ML-ks2ljsounds like a grape problem not a swimming problem
@@ML-ks2lj
What a wuss
@ML-ks2lj dad didn't sneak up, just pushed them past the hardest part. These boys are gonna grow up to be men and not confused.
Doing this teaches kids to avoid all instincts. All emotions including fear is valid. Being afraid to jump in is a reflection of the child trust in their own ability to cope with facing the unknown. Hes not teaching them any process to move through the feelings...just avoid your instincts don't listen to instincts jump right in....this makes for all sorts of risk taking behaviour in youth and adulthood due to a lack of working out their own steps to learning!!! Hes repeating a process he was taught from fathers who also lacked this ability. Time for change people!!
Someone's woke....
This is too cute ☺️ I love it ! The little one couldn’t even get a word in before he was tossed in 😂
I love it. He’s right there in case there’s a problem but teaching them to go for it is a good life lesson.
That kid was about to use some choice words to describe his father, then wisely checked himself.
Is that even his father, "bro" 🤗
😂😂😂
I thought The Rock didn’t have kids
@@adav5533touche I noticed the bro but just thought that's what parents allow these days.....but you could be right 😅😅
One kid called him "bro" and the other called him "Dad"! @@adav5533
My dad threw me in the deep end of a pool. No life vest. Years later I became a lifeguard and swim teacher 😊
Damn. You didn't drown?
@@fierdrages6523I know right 😊
Wow you beat the odds. I know 3 people who have fear of the water from near drowning experiences. 1 of them was initiated by thier parents. Least they saved alotta cash by selecting a shitty care home for them.
Exactly
@@tiarnanquinn5403
My dad jumped in the water right after he threw me in. I wasn’t going to drown. I HAD a fear of water before he threw me in. After that I LOVED water. I became a lifeguard and swim instructor. 😀
Those kids had a blast and you know it 😂. They will remember that forever and be thankful
The kids are smiling and laughing. They're having a great time. That's how my grandfather taught me to swim.
They look like they’re smiling afterwards. If they were in danger, dad is right there to help them.
It was staged
@BobSmith-kd6lq everything is staged according to some.
Exactly, @JW-do9wq. Staged or not, that's the thing. Dad could have easily helped them if needed. It's not like he threw them off a pier and couldn't reach them. People today try to treat boys like girls and girls like boys. 🤦
Thats a good dad right there, reminds of me of my old man, he taught me to be strong at a young age, and after seeing this world for 42 years, Im very glad he did.
I got thrown into the middle of the pool and told when I get to the edge I'll know how to swim. He was right, love you dad!
That’s a good dad. Those kids will grow up with no fear of anything.
😂😂😂
So a dysfunctional wreck with zero risk assessment skills, increasing their impulsivity and recklessness without regard for the safety of themselves or others.
Alternatively, they will grow up not trusting anything or anyone because they are in fact scared of everything. Because the human mind is a lot less simple than "if this, then that."
Or truly traumatized with PTSD from tall men, boats, water, people who don't respect boundaries, trust issues, what's IN the water, feeling like NO must not mean NO, that adults suck... etc 😢
Not saying baby them. I am saying approach it better. He was strong enough and big enough to put one in each hand and dip/dangle them each in the water.
Umm fear keeps them alive lol
@@rootstriker1618 nah, you sound gay
Lot more men would be successful if they had dads like this
Using brute force with a smile ????
@@yasminagroenstein5564 It's the only way with boys.
@@yasminagroenstein5564yup. Spoiled brat adults usually never got beat enough as a kid
@@yasminagroenstein5564you wouldn't understand, you're not male.
Yep ! I remember my first dunk in the swimming pool at 3 years old. When I resurfaced I had a little captain turd in the back of my swimming trunks 😂😂😂😂
Thanks Dad !!!!!
Kevin Hart's Dad in the background like "I almost lost you there huh? "
He did the correct thing a father is supposed to help you get over hurdles.
No, he didn't. The real leason is to build the courage to jump by yourself.
@@XB10001 they will see it's not bad and do it themselves next time. He just sped up the process. Even birds push their young out the nest if they don't want to do it on their own.
@@XB10001yeah, they saw nothing bad happened and they're fine, they'll jump in and out all day long and for the rest of their lives now!
@@NelsonJ1exactly
He threw them over the hurdle..whaaaaat
Back in the day, we didn't have a life vest. Good job Dad.
Yea we did your dad just didn’t do it in the middle of the ocean 😂
Back in my day, we didn’t have a boat
In this day kids don’t have dads.
@@leveragebeverage2705😅😅
@@leveragebeverage2705 The kids dad was literally the main character of the video...
The way he picked them up so casually 🤣
Bro you're the REALLLLL, DAD!!!!
How can you think this was too far? 😂😂😂😂
The kid even said, "you're the real". Sounds like a win for FATHER'S ❤
😆 right?! I heard that as a compliment 😅
He did say that 🤔 dad you’re the real.
He called him a weirdo, not real...sounds like he wanted to call him something else 🤣😂
@@dasmilingoddessni tf he didn't call him a weirdo. You should go wrk for CNN wit dat spin.
@@g-mode5047 pipe down your parents hated you so here you are
My dad threw me twice as far without a vest. My safety protocol was to 🏊♂️ 😅
They gonna remember this in 15 years 😂😂
I can't remember how my dad taught me, but I trusted the old Frogman.
Their reaction lets you know he didn’t go to far!! “ you’re the REAL!!” 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Lol… the “bastard” part was silent. bRo
No, they were abt to cuss because they were in shock
They wanted to say something 😂
I’m sure they were in shock but I don’t think they were super mad just more so surprised which I can totally get
No, this is awesome. We need more fathers like this. This was perfect , won't be scared anymore. Stop asking stupid questions.
They were wearing life jackets and they seem to trust their dad despite knowing that he's the real
Or they'll grow an underlying psychological block where they can't do anything on their own without daddy to do it for them.
Just covering all possibilities
@@JohnnyAllan-vj7sj The comment section isn't therapy ..go find a couch 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Until they jump in without a vest 🏊♂️
@@cjohnson_you think somebody needs therapy just because they are acknowledging the potential opposite effect? I guess wilful ignorance is better? Bizarre.
He shows them he is there for them. They trust him
Thats how uncle taught me. Except he was drunk and I didnt have a life vest. I also only learned how to doggy paddle from that experience. I still cant swim that well😂
I did the same thing but jumped in with him to show from example.
"Real men teach by example," my father said.
That would have been better. You are right.
Sounds like a communist ok good point, there are multiple ways that a MAN raises a young MAN.
@@tomare6479 you sound like your bottom is hurt.
You will understand after you get past 12 and start becoming a man.
That’s how my cousins taught us how to swim, no water vest, just pushed into the deep end of the pool & told to swim or drown…
Yes. If he had gone in too, he would have right next to them.
He knows they’re safe, that’s why did it! Good dad.
They had life jackets on and look how they reacted? They didn't cry, they laughed and didn't panic. This is dad's style and they're tough lil guys for it. They'll be great swimmers.
I love how the little one just keeps his mouth shut! Lol!
That's how I learned, my Dad did the same thing. Needless to say, I spent the rest of the day swimming. Thanks Dad!
There is hope for future generations if kids are treated like this.
Loll agreed!
"Toxic masculinity" 😂😂😂 I chuckled right away when he dropped them in lol
He threw them in like shark bait 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooo, all daddies did this to us in the 80's without a life vest, my daddy threw me in a random lake at a family reunion, not one person came to my aide but I learned how to swim real quick 😂
My Dad did this to me at family camp out. Out of no where. We were fishing in a row boat. Middle of lake. Things were good. THEN. I was sinking. I learned to dog paddle. The following summer my brother took swimming lessons at a school. I think my Mom had her say.
Hush😂😂
You MUST BE black too because that's what happened to me bro 😂😂😂. No vest, everybody looking and talking, I swam to the edge and realized I was alive. It was on a popping after that
That’s right! No harm was done to these kids. Too many SOFT so called men in this world, let’s give them a chance to change that.
Excatly..its a shame the way alot of men have become..
No means yes, boys;-)
@@runarvollan"There are no successful societies ran by women boys. Why would you take advice from one?"
Thats y there tooo many gays when men are too SOFT
I disagree, depends on where you live, how often you get outside vs how much time you spend on social media.
The MGTOW and "Red pill" garbage is all bark and no bite. Being a blatant asshole doesn't mean a guy is tough, it shows their egotistical and act hyper-aggressively like an undisciplined child.
You should explore the world a bit it opens your perspective and gets rid of unhealthy ignorance. Or get into self-defense, been traing in JKD, Kick-Boxing, and some Muyi Thai since I was 13. Teaches you how to stand your ground without needing to act like a caveman and gets ride of bitter petty anger.
Get out more dude, the world isn't as fucked up as you think.
That dad keeps you on your toes 😂
I couldn't have done it better myself. Those kids weren't hurt or traumatized. They just needed that little bit of a push.
I was taught the same way but without a life vest, ain’t nothing wrong with that as a father!!!!!💪🏾
While camping. WITHOUT a vest. In the middle of a lake while fishing. I learned to dog paddle.
I was sinking fast. I miss my Dad so much.
That’s the real! ❤ that’s what we been missing from this world. No different than a bird teaching the baby birds how to fly.
He said I aint raising no punks😂
They’ve got life jackets on, perfect parenting
Mothers are for bringing kids up. Dad's are for dragging there kids up. 🤟
🤣🤣
That’s why children need fathers in their life, to push them in when they are scared!
And then realize oh, that thing i was bent outta shape about wasnt actually a big deal at all.
Yep. You can either jump in on your own or the world will throw you in. Either way we're getting wet.
Kids: No no dad I can't swim
Dad: sorry me neither, I skipped leg day guys 🦵😂
That’s how I learned how to swim, sans life vest. The lifeguard asked him what he was doing and Dad laughed and replied, „Teaching her how to swim. She‘ll figure it out.“ It worked.
Reminds me of when my dad taught me how to not need training wheels. He put me on a mountain bike on top of a large hill and pushed me down it.
I learned how to ride a bike without training wheels in 0.5 seconds….
Love you dad
Did the same with my son, also got him a dog because he was terrified of them. After a short period of him being unsure of the dog, Porridge was his name, they were inseparable for over 15 years.
Birds push their babies out of the nest. Bears abandon their cubs at 2 y/o to fend for themselves. I think a little push into water is the least of their worries. Lol. Besides… now theyre not afraid anymore. 🤣
How many of those birds and bears die? Humans are lucky to have the mental capacity to come up with different solutions to problems.
Birds are can fly they are made to fly humans arent fishwr are made for walking on land not the same
Exactly @smithandwestin651. It's not like he threw them off a pier and couldn't reach them. People these days try to treat boys like girls and girls like boys. There are countries over seas training their kids to fight/defend themselves at that age, and people in the US crying about this, this. 🤦
"Dad you're da real"! 😂
It's funny how he picked them up and threw them into the water like they were bags of potatoes...😂😂😂
Perfect way to learn .....Good Job Dad...makes me miss mine 😢
Feeling this comment.
You are ssooo right! 😂🤣🥹🥺😫 I miss the Old Man RIP Pops 1962-2022
True story....Me and my sister learned to swim at a very young age by this exact method. It was the early 1970's and we were on vacation in the Florida keys. There happened to be a bunch of Navy guys at the hotel we were at hanging by the pool. They saw me and my sister afraid to go in the pool and told my drunk father (they were intoxicated as well) "just throw em' in....if they drown..we can probably bring em' back" ....we learned to swim that day....no life jackets either !
Lol..my parents had a vacation home in the lower Keys and that's where I learned how to swim at 5..lol I got sick of the water wings Because they hurt your arms so I just basically taught myself..lol the GenX way😂😂😂
I like the intoxicated part
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Hehe
And still excellent advice was given out
That’s terrifying, I’m glad you survived. Similar maybe far from exact.
Me too 🙋 Thrown in while fishing in the middle of a lake. Six years old. I CAN swim. Thanks Dad. I miss you.
Yep me too That's how my dad taught me how to swim and I wasn't wearing a life jacket either😂
I didn't have a vest when my dad did it to me. I think I reacted the same as these kids, surprise, anger, smiles, and respect. I became a lifeguard and adult instructor and now handle top 100 company business strategic planning.
Future hard nosed hard working no nonsense men right there.
Bullshit. Losing trust now. Strong men ?. That's what's wrong with men. They can't trust.
I’d bet my bottom dollar these boys will never have pronouns
Nope future " I have trauma" soft boys.
@@jetta.silence6356That happens when you get abused with no teaching. My dad proved he was a weak man by taking everything from me and giving me nothing but disrespect and broken promises. I do the work, I pay the bills, I clean the home, I sacrifice my life, and all I get is a door slammed in my face. That’s what kills hope.
What made me harder is healing from that trauma. A lesson never taught is trauma never healed.
No, because they have a tiktok 'mom' and a simp dad!
Mom forced dad to make this video for views because she saw other people on tiktok making money that way
Dad was on stand by to save they ass , dad your the real 💪💕
Those boys will remember that fun day for the rest of their lives and then do their children the same exact way 😂
I got the same treatment from my older brothers but there was no life vest or life jacket involved. I was grabbed and tossed off the boat and into the lake . I was scared to death and splashed my way back to the boat to be hauled in and told "See ! You can swim !". I spent the rest of the day jumping off the boat myself and learning how to float and swim properly.
Children have learned to swim that way for hundreds of years 😂😂😂. At least they had life jackets 😂😂
Hundreds? Easy there! You sure it’s not just decades? Hundreds is such a long time!
@@mbuck253did children not swim 200 years ago?
Edit: mb, I just learned that swimming was invented in the 1900s. Nobody swam before then, they just walked on water.
@@dinnerboons1504 😂
@@dinnerboons1504omg…really??? Water has only been around for like 150 years…DUHHH!
@@mbuck253 I know for a fact it happened. It's part of slave's oral history. That's how they used to try and teach their children to swim. It happened to my stepmother in the 1940s and she almost drowned.
On point, I know my father pushed me to do things I didn't want to do at the time. Made me a better man today.
Sometimes can be good, sometimes not, depends.
That's garbage. You would have been you no matter what he did
He wasn't teaching them how to swim. They know that. He was teaching them to push themselves when they're scared. It worked for me.
Old school parenting at its finest! 😂
Look at the smiles on their faces.
That should say it all.
Well done dad.
❤️🙏❤️🇦🇺❤️
Mistake telling dad, no I'm not! Dad's was like, oh yeah son? Time to make you Marines.
Ooh Rah!
I was launched through the air bro that was nice 😂
As a dad, I think that this the way sometimes. However a better way would be to jump in yourself showing your kids that it is safe and fun and then encouraging them to do so as well. By forcing them, you are robbing them of the learning opportunity to face an obstacle and decide on their own to overcome it.