How I spent my b'day alone | thoughts on turning 27 | Goa birthday vlog - majorda & uthorda beach
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- So finally my bday vlog is going up after almost 2 weeks ;P sorry for the delay guys, but yeah here I share my thoughts on growing a year wiser. About the constant reminder that I am getting older, the constant taane that I should get married already. it is annoying to know how Indian society would look at you like a failure if you are not married by 26-27. your family does not care if you end up happy but that you are married by 27(it is even more unfair that this age does not apply to guys) to tell others that their kids are married. no matter how much I do, my relatives can't get over the fact I am 27 and unmarried and it is heart-shattering.
anyways this is my last vlog from the Goa series. Thank you for watching!
How I spent my b'day alone | thoughts on turning 27 | Goa birthday vlog - majorda & uthorda beach
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Happy belated Birthday ❤️🎉
Thank you for this Upreti
Discovered your channel through your Instagram reel few hours ago and started watching your Goa vlogs and just finished watching all 4 vlogs and I just wanna tell you. You are a very very beautiful person, I'm so proud of you for doing this for yourself. Even though parents think marriage is something that makes us feel worthy, it is not entirely true as you said, it takes alot of time and effort to find a right person until then we can be a right person for ourselves and that's enough. You are not doing anything wrong, you are doing great Aastha.🌻❤️
Thanks for taking the time to see them Ranjana! It means a lot, all your words… thanks for the reassurance you know how much it means to hear it from others too that we are on the right track! Thank you for being so nice here! ❤️
You are looking cute😊I got married at age of 28. One friendly advise to you is make sure you are financially independent even if you get married. Secondly when u choose a person make sure u spend enough time with him to know him and his family too... He should not be a Mamas boy who makes decisions according to mom...he should be goodhearted person
Thank you Jovita! 🤍 thank you for the advise. I will keep in mind :)
u r so organic n genuine person..i really like how u don't hide ur flaws and feelings ..its so rare now a days.
🥹 thank you for saying that and being here to watch these vlogs!
Wish you a very happy belated birthday!! 🎂🎂 After watching your journey and your blogs, I’ve too promised myself a solo trip on my birthday next year! 😊
Watching your videos make me feel that I’m not alone. We all are in same boat. 😊
Thank you Jahanvee! And commnet like yours let me know i am not alone, thanks for taking the time to leave a kind comment :) oh that’s greattt!! Have a great trip all the best :) carry pepper spray :P
Hi Aastha, I know how it feels. I'm also turning 27 next year and this is exactly what's going on with me. So yeah, just take your time :)
Taking time…
Aastha marriage has two sides sometimes u long for family other times u enjoy the freedom not having to worry about feelings of ur betterhalf. Don't rush it will happen when it meant to be
I knowww it’s just i can ignore it, i ignore a lot of things in life. But oh god people have no chill they have to bring this up everytime! I wish they just people be and let them do whatever they want. Single married who cares as long as one is happy
@@AasthaDhami yeah I feel u, people got no chill, even if u marry then they ask for good news grandchild
@@ajitbandgar7682 hahahahahhah yesss who bhi hai
Astha age is just a number. Never do marriage under pressure of the society because at the end of the day you have to live with that person. Marriage is a big commitment.
Woi to 🥹🥹 just annoyed
and within one year boom she is engaged with the love of her life
Haha, I know how the universe plays its magic!! ❤︎ I remember so clearly sitting alone in front of the beach reading “Big Magic” it was talking about manifesting. I closed my eyes and was manifesting happiness hard, I think Mohak was the answer to that 😅 but anyway I am just a romantic who likes to overthink 😅
It's ok Aastha take your time 😇
Happy belated Birthday 🥳❤️
Hehe thanks for saying that :)
Hey!! Really liked the content.. also you have quite a mature take on life..liked that too❤
Glad you liked it!! 🤍🤍🤍
Honestly i didn't expect the video to be this beautiful and heart touching bcs its a new channel
If i talk about getting older,I can relate to your situation,as im also turning 26 next month😓. Birthdays before 25 are celebration but now when im saying goodbye to my 25 its very heart crushing and making me feel that soon im going to be old because this mf time is moving so fast.
But If i talk about relationship, frankly speaking i cant say much about that, since i havent met someone my type for a long time now. People always say that you will eventually bump into the person you wanted or someone even better but dhami i also think the way you think, why should we need someone to live life happily. If you're independent then do whatever the hell you want, goa jao, manali jao, puducherry jao, bali jao, zindagi jio khulkr bas thats what matters.
Btw i will follow you on instagram, i also have a traveling yt channel, but i havent posted anything for two years, what to do im a lazy guy😁
First of all thank you for taking the time to let me know how you feel about this whole going deeper into our late twenties. Time is moving fast it feels, but when you look back it just seems everything happened so long back. Yeah like keep moving, keep your heart open and expect good things to happen. That’s all. I hope you start posting :P since i am failing at making vids nowadays:/
Imagine a girl out there, making u feel good about your body.
Aashta does it so good🎉 🎉🎉
So proud of you girl. Wishing you nothing but adventures and happiness.
Khush raho. Videos banathe raho ❤
Hehe we all have great bodies they help us stay alive! 🤍 thanks Vyshnaviiiii 🤍🤍🤍🤍😘😘😘😘 i will keep making you don’t ever forget to watch okay? Deal?
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Happy level up day ❤️❤️ happy birthday Aashtha 🎈
Hahaha level up sayad hua hai, life feels difficult:P
@@AasthaDhami yaa but ur upcoming days will gives u more nd more happiness 😊
@@AasthaDhami I'm also planning solo trip ... kindly suggest some places
@@RohiTSingh-db4sv yr mei to goa hi gayi hu for solo but pondi, jaipur, Rishikesh seem safe and easy
Loved the way how you were so fearless.
Love your comment 🥹🥹
Hey!! aastha you always inspire me 💕
Hey shweta! I was staring at your comment for so long I don’t understand how can i be inspiring but when people tell me this it does feel good :) thanks
@@AasthaDhami actually thank you aastha I was thinking for the solo trip for so long and after watching your video I am planning one solo trip for me and guess what my birthday is also coming 😅
@@shwetatripathi7696 hahah then we have a greta opportunity to push ourselves for the tripppp!!! Do it shwetaaa you will love it 🤍 btw happy bday in advance
Happy Bday!.....this too shall pass
Thank you! :)
hey ur words made made scene to me, but a birthday line for u - Please don't overthink..! laugh and live today😀
Thank you for saying that :)
Ur n amazing person.. happy belated birthday 🎂.. stay happy always
Hhahha i am an okay person thank you you tooo
One more reality of India
If you think you can start dating after 26 or 27 then you are thinking wrong my dear !!
It's happens only to 0.001% girl out there but very rare !!
Single of that aged girl tends to involved in an arranged marriage (99% chance)..
But yeah if your parents support you to date with full freedom and choices then yeah you can find love if you even start now!!
One of my girl friend got married around 31 coz she told her parents that until she find love she won't get married ...
So don't worry and all the best I hope you will find someone because when you travel a lot then you will find many solo travel gud guys out there especially in kedarnath , manali, etc
Hhaha pretty this is so sweet! My parents are medium chill. So i get all freedom but then i know they aren’t happiest with my decision to stay single. I just want to leave things as it is now, not get worried about things I can’t control :P
❤️❤️ happy birthday!
Hehe thanks Mitali :P
happy birthday aastha ❤️
Thank you :)
Belated Happy birthday with a wonderful trip....💥💥.....
Thank youuu
Happy Birthday Aastha 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊.
It was on 12th oct :P but thanks
@@AasthaDhami OH
Belated Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday Aastha 😔😔
Thankssss
You are 27??? Can't imagine it. I was wondering you just 24
haha I am 27
Belated happy birthday 🎉💥
Thank you so much 😀
Happy birthday ❤
Thank you
Happy Birthday cutie
Thanks :P
Happy birthday to you Babu
Thank you chotu motu cutu babu
Happy birthday 🎂🎂🎂🎂💐💐💐
Thanks aunty
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It's okay aastha, It's fine!! You don't have to if you don't want to... Most of people live their life like a race, I'm here to tell you if you listen to your heart then you will find it like trekking... by the way love your content, I'm starting my podcast releted to content creation, can you be my guest on it?? and remember whether it's your life or coming to my podcast, make sure you choose what you want to do and not other people's voice in your head... love love your content... byeeeee
haha bilkul let me know when you start it :P haha yes listening to my heart but the noise of the society does make it a little difficult. thank you for being here!
I'm highschool dropped out so i know very well how society do it's dirty job to you and to your mental health but with time i have learned that whenever i need anything important in my life they are never there, sometimes just someone who can say ki yaar koi baat nahi ho jayega... Jaroori nahi ki sab time se ho, to please you do what you think is the right for you kyoki zindagi agar bat tar ho jayegi to society sirf maze legi, they won't care only... Aur ham jaise log to fir hai hi ek dusre ka honsala banne k liye 💪 And don't think too much about them, wo karo jo sahi hai aur uss time karo jab aapko lagta ho sahi hai
@@AasthaDhami are yaar mughe to kal sham mein kisi ne bola hai ki tere jaise life meri hoti to main suicide kar leta ab tk, obviously i felt very bad, i cried a lot but i know mar jaunga to main unko sahi sabit kar doonga to main to besharmo ki tarah unke samne bhi rahoonga aur mehnat karke apni life ko better karke aane wale waqt mein unko chidhaunga bhi... to bolne do unko ki aap apni life ko kharab kar raho ho, time ja raha hai, let me put it very clear to you that kuchh der ver nahi huyi hai, you are just 27 aur abhi to youtube bhi suru ho gaya hai jaldi 10K fir 100K pata nahi life kitni achhi aur kitni mazedar ho jaye who knows... To please aap swasth raho aur mast raho aur khud k liye decision par trust Karo..!!🤟
And about podcast let's do that also whenever you are free, i have dmed you on insta and my handle is @officialconclusion love to here from you and take care of yourself, byeeee.
happy birthday gbu
Thankssss
belated happy birthday
thank you Satyajeet! :)
Heyyy when you will post next video??😩
Soon i hope
Arranged marriage sucks !!
You will see that potential guy is so gentleman ,cute and blah blah but after 1 or 2 years of marriage that attraction fade away and you will start regretting not for the activities but in an mental level !!
No couple share this reality as they try to pretend everything is cool and fine infront of society!!
You will never find anyone saying bad stuffs regarding this concept around you but when the reality hits you personally then only you will realise!!
The most advantage of love marriages are that when the partner disrespect you or cheats you you have that full freedom to get separated without those aunties or relatives dilemma in your personal life but sorry to say those are totally burden or restricted in an arranged marriage no matter how Independent and financial stable you are !!
These r not the fact but reality of how Indians live in society!!!
Achhe achho ki Watt laag jaati h!!
Okay this scared me even more! I agree should take time before making this big of commitment. But even in love marriage you can get separated but i know what you mean, more taunts incoming in that scenario
One day not far from now Aastha will get a lot of followers and we will miss the replies 😕
Hahahahaha aastha thinks that day will take a lot of time till then aastha will try her best to always reply :)
Sach m 27 k hu gye?
ha yrrr
@@AasthaDhami happy Birthday 😊
Still you are looking prettier than 22 years old girls ❤️
Ummm everyone is pretty in their own ways no matter the age
An arranged marriage is a good thing. I do not know why you afraid of? I had a very good guy for you, unfortunately he got married two years ago. Anyway, some other better opportunity is going.
If i marry someone he wouldn’t be flirting with someone else midnight :P also arrange marriages are arranged it’s like arranging everything in a lab to get an output, the chemical reactions will be there. I am talking about long terms, feeling alone in someone else’s company is a fear
@@AasthaDhami It very depends. You even do not need to live with husband at the right arrangement. You just secure yourself financially keeping the freedom for love and entertainment. A candidate I mentioned provided all these benefits.