[FINAL PART] Faith's parents attempting to learn Korean and frustrating Angel | K-DOC
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이웃집 찰스 라이베리아여섯가족 Air Date: 2016.5.24
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I agree. As an African father myself raising two daughter's in England. When my daughter's were the age's of Faith and Angel, myself and my wife were the one doing dishes' not our daughter's,
@Pato and Pato I’m curious is your wife a white English woman? Most people of African descent living the diaspora raise their children to do house work from 7 years on. It’s teaching them life skills and to be independent from a young age. I have friends in their 20s and 30s whose parents did not have them do anything chores or housework and they don’t know how to cook or clean their homes properly!
@@midori4760 balance is the key. Let them be children aswell.
@@b.livgirassol6293 I didn’t say they couldn’t be kids and do chores at the same time. Having grown up in a Caribbean country I’m speaking from experience. At Fate’s age I helped my
mom with chores but I also had plenty of time to play too.
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I have african parents and it isn't like that by us.
Not every african household is the same 😅
@@ahgavlive4517 Oh I agree! I can only speak to the ones I’ve met and interacted with. Plus my own personal experieced😊
I think this kid is really bright. Considering she know English, Korean and probably their native Liberian languages too. I think she’s just having trouble mentally but once she gets the help she needs, she’ll thrive!
I heard bilingual children struggle in the early years of school, because they are working their brain so hard trying to speak both languages. Once they get past the road bump though they excel more in academic because they worked their brain so much in early adolescence. I think it’s a blessing for the child’s future to be able to speak these languages fluently.
@@Ashley-cr4ow Absolutely!
@@Ashley-cr4ow it's like having assignments due for two different classes at the end of the week. For some ppl, you take on one completely and then the other, while other ppl try doing both through out the week. if i ask you on wednesday what you've gotten done, the second type won't be finish with either.
however which ever way you learn,being multilingual actually stimulates brain and makes you a more flexible thinker.
As a toddler I used to speak lingala, portuguese and french (my mom is part congolese and part angolese)
But as I grew up in France only lingala and french stayed with me lol
I can understand perfectly lingala but speaking it is hard, but since french is also a latin language it's a bit easy to understand other latin languages, so learning portuguese now will probably be easy
@@narudayo5053do you have any tips on speaking lingala? im congolese too but there’s not many sites the offer lingala as a learning option
I’m not Korean but I love watching this show
Me too.
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This episode put SO MUCH into perspective 🤩🤩 Faith's mother seems to really understand her daughter struggle and also vice versa..
This channel is just making me miss the days when kbs would post whole subbed episodes of my neighbour, charles
Mom's passion, dedication, and effort are great. It deserves so much respect. Super mom!👏👍
At 6:17 she said “and the children don’t know if they’re (the parents) are going through hard time in the house or whether there’s difficulty.
ohhhh ok ok tysm 🥰🥰🥰
For the translator, from 6:15 -6:20; "the children don't know whether is hard time in the house; whether you're going through difficulty, they don't know..."; meaning children will still expect their parents to buy them toys/gifts/sweets, etc. even when the parents are struggling (maybe financially).
Hopefully dad can help out with housework and relieving some of the stress from the women, some things gotta change around here.
I don't think It will happen
unfortunately the lazy uninvolved husband is the norm in many african countries
The best way for kids to learn languages is to have friends. By banning friends, her mom was limiting her growth.
Washing dishes at faiths age is not uncommon in Africa especially in Nigeria. It's a common believe that children(especially girls) have to learn chores at a very young age so it will be easy for them growing up( and for girls in their home). It's not a bad thing as most people think we don't use the whole day to wash dishes there's time for that and time to go play with friends. It became a part of me that I can't be at home and my mom will be doing things that I can do. She don't cook or wash or clean the house when I go visit them.
However, she washes the dishes AND the clothes and she’s also, along with her mom, cleaning the house. Add to that teaching her parents Korean and not being allowed to go to her friends house to play. She also takes care of the baby sometimes. It’s a bit much for an 8-year old, especially when both parents are around and the father does not have regular work. These are all already difficult but she is also in a country where she’s not proficient in the language and, probably because of this, having difficulty in school. That’s a lot of pressure for such a young child. (I just realized she was even younger. Her Korean age is 9, international age is 7 or 8.)
It's not a bad thing at all. Better to start early than later. My friends still can't cook and they are adults. I feel ashamed to see my mom washing dishes I could wash myself. It becomes an issue if the kid is doing all the house work at a young age and still has to study and teach the kids. Start small... dishes only or cooking only.
its not only to learn chores so thats its easy when growing up but its like the children's duty to do housechores , also parents expect children to do housework since they provide food,shelter and clothing and yes doing dishes is not alot of work but washing clothes for other children, its better if she washes hers only
Yesss thank you
@@riaconradt2554 if you think that it's too much then you defenely never been to Nigeria lmao. It's very common. What i only would like her mother to do is the give her more time to play and study.
it seems all fathers does is go to work and relax when they get home. More men need to step up and help with chores.
Faith is strong girl ❤
I pray the parent would have all it takes to raise all their kids well.
Thanks kdoc ❤❤💕
The father irritates me to the core. He needs to contribute more to the family and let kids be kids
Both of them irritates me.
I find that African family episodes very interesting would love to see more of them thank you very much 👍🏻
So, the only thing this panel could offer them is “thoughts and prayers”.
As most of emigrants these parents think how to earn money, to get the visa, to survive in a foreigner country: they weren't educated to raise their children giving them opportunities to develope their skills. They use ask the children too much house chores, and they have even too much children: in this way they haven't enough time to dedicate to each child and the oldest will suffer, as we see, lack of attention, lack of helps, lack of parental love.
It's rough, but it's not terrible. It's not like they live in a rough place, they live in south korea. They have to make an effort to learn the language and adapt. Handouts make people complacent, and the father is already showing a certain level of comfort, as the mother and faith seem to be pretty much carrying the whole family. He's trying, but he could be trying harder.
I agree...and private lessons for Faith is not a handout... training in a particular field is not a handout... it's different to be receiving help from the govt as opposed to searching all over for jobs with no luck or some it's probably taxing on the father who feels helpless, the jobs he's doing are not reinforcing the paterfamilias archetype which most African cultures still go by that's why in this family Ms. Martha seems to be carrying the load and winning for the family, but this show could have located so many services, they specialize in that stuff and I'm sure they have a budget that could cover it or make a deal ..one language or ballet center can get 15 minutes of airtime that's enough to create a surge in any business that deals with children... parents want their children to have the best so I do agree with you on that one...these people could have offered services first and prayers later
It was to exploit and paint a bad picture of African people its often practiced in white supremacy its sad asian are like that .
@@peggyclio1199 they are ecaping war , how could they clearly think , they are trying to keep there children safe.
I really like this show . Also , the editor is really funny lol 😂😂
Omg editor is on another level 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love this family i wish them nothing but success
We should pray for them as well.
Yesss I’ve been waiting for the next part, thanks for translating for us😄
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Omg I love this channel so much I can’t believe I’m so early
aww this channel is so loved 💖
I’m really glad this channel featured this family. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless everybody.
I've been washing dishes and baking cakes since the age of 5. My mom wanted me to learn early so that I can become self sufficient and responsible. Fun times. It takes 15-30 mins to do the chores and it's better to start early than later.
I agree
But faith legit does everything
@@onuspromis7166 House chores are harmless. Besides, doing it at a very young age (like her) has a lot of benefits. I'd know, because I was in the same shoes as her.
The problem is to pass the university exams, children in korea spend a lot of time studying from a young age. She is already having difficulties at the moment, she need at least more time for school
@@Kimeesunshine i agree she needs more time , not to mention shes coming from a diffrent ciuntry were she was living in hell trauma can cause you to not be able to consintrate her and family need theropy .
omg I love this channel so much🤗
Wow this family is so cute! Moving from thier native country to start fresh in another one is hard but thier hard work and determination will pay off . Wish them all well into the future. Plz give us updates
Wow this is so good I hope theirs more to come with the show 🙂😆
The father NEEDS to do something for his family.
He has very poor English and Korean, lacks social skills, and is injured 😔.
If you read this Mr. Jerome (I think that is your name), be more helpful to your wife who is having a stressful time.
Take Faith's books and learn Korean, talk with her using the language, I've heard there are community centers that offer free help to learn Korean right there in Korea, MAKE FRIENDS!!
Be a "housewife", take care of your children and listen to them because both of you as parents are unaware of their hardships.
Being like this after 9 years staying there is going to affect your kids unimaginably, and you don't have to take your children to every single academy, just let them pick one skill and that would be great.
Take care 💖
He's doing the best he can do. That's ALL that anyone can ask for.
@@WashingtonDC20032 I am sorry but he needs to learn better Korean so that he can get a better job. That's the problem, you can't be comfortable staying like that no matter where you live.... you need to always improve for yourself and your family.
@@zraj3433 But you clearly can see him out there trying to find a job and doing what he can do. People need to stop being so judgmental of others and just focus on yourself and your own life. I don't know the man at all as I stated but I know people and I know trauma when I see it. He looks like he has a ton of trauma inside of him and that in and of itself takes away from your mental so he's functioning with some considerable challenges.
@@WashingtonDC20032 What about the wife? She seems to be extremely stressed and needs more help with the house but you are overlooking this too. She's working , taking care of the kids and the house. If she can keep it all together then he needs to step up and deal with his trauma because it's not helping with the actual situation. He needs to find ways to improve his mental health otherwise he will continue to struggle and remain like this.....
He can literally go on the Internet!!! So much learning of korean on here!!
Thanks for showing this family's perspective. It can be very difficult to adapt to this culture. All of us foreigners have to come to terms with the idea that the way things were at home arnt how they are here. I imagine it's much harder for a family.
Good job to these parents for trying to make things work.
I just found this channel today 25/11/2021. And I have already watched about 10 videos already. Keep up the good work🤗
I'm so glad I found this channel.
Wow im early, i love this channel, and i love the person who writes the translation.
awwww 🥺
Editing every each is hilarious lmaoooo . Honestly I just feel like going there for a visit that is all and faith and her siblings are too cute oh my goodness
im honestly liking the editor so much- she/he is an icon irl i just know it-
Faith will always be in my heart ❤️❤️
I love this family!~~ I wish them only the best~
Editors - this is overall an excellent series of programs. There has not been a dull or repetitive episode any of these kids-focused stories. I am always sorry when the finales are released. Am so looking forward to the next series of stories. Like many others have stated, we would grateful for Longer durations. If this content were on TV, I would gladly pay money to watch. Seriously, you *all* are that good. So glad that the parents situation and point of view were presented before this series ended. The mother especially received a lot of negative judgment - and even some hate - before this last segment aired. Just goes to show that it is a dodgy thing to try to judge anyone without having context for behaviour. Like any other caring parents, they make mistakes, and after they learn better, they strive to do better. The love that they show in their eyes for each other is not something made up for the cameras. I wish them all the best. And, of course, thank you, Editor and team for these delightful videos!! ❤
My co-worker was from Liberia. She too left the country due to the war. She came to the US with her family. She worked herself up. She was a working single mother raising 3 daughters. She was able to buy her own house and car. When she tell me stories about her life, it made me realize how grateful I am for my parents and their hard work.
This is so good
That person who did the traduction is funny and honest 😌👌🏾
At 6:14 she said ‘children, they don’t know when it’s a hard time in the house (When things are rough at home; maybe money’s low or something)’. You did I good job with the subtitles though!🌟
I love this emission 🇫🇷
I remember this family, sorry to see they r still struggling with integrating into the culture/ language, I'm sure at home they r not speaking Korean is part of the problem
this is adorable...
With love from Russia. Thanks for your channel
the editor is an icon, heyyy 👋🏾
I want to moisture and condition her hair soooo bad!!!
Ok the editor the editor i Stan
I’m crying.
한국에서 행복한 삶이 되길 바래요^^
The baby is too adorable, I can't.
6:15 she said they (children) don't know wether it's hard time or not. 😂
6:15 she says, “but the children don’t know what goes on in the house” meaning they don’t know the adult problems such as rent, etc,.
My son take his plate and cup to the kitchen wen his done eating, arrange his toys, take his dirty clothes to the laundry bin, brings my Fon and tv remote wen ask to and he does it like a num now, his just two yrs old... as a Nigeria it’s so normal.. especially for the first child
But these aren’t complicated tasks for a 2 year old, i just think she should have more time to play with friends and go over to their houses also to study korean
Fate’s is so quiet now, i miss her energy🥺🤍
I was also learning Korean with the parents! 누구게 = who am I. 개구리 = frog. ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 저는도 한국어를 배우고 싶어요!
About doing house chores l agree although at home l didn't do coz my mum spoiled me but when l went to my grannies l would clean, wash cook and l think when l have kids they will start as early as they can
at 6:15 she said "and the children they don't know whether it's hard time in the house. they don't know. whether they going through difficult thing they don't know." :)
Being African I know it may be hard to understand our accents sometimes lol for the part the editor didn’t understand I think she said “For the children whether it’s hard times in the house they don’t know, and they don’t know whether you’re going through difficulties either.”
In Africa it is very common for kids around Faith’s age to wash dishes and do chores around the house,especially as a girl child.Kids in our local areas work even more harder than those in city’s.Such that kids in the local area are seen as hard workers.This is essentially well valued by others.By this kids esp girl chid grow up to be more hardworking at home including the possession of good skills to handle their families when they are much older.When I was very little I used to handle chores around the house by the time I was 12 I could cook and take care of the house when my Mom travels for work.I actually feel Faith is a very energetic and playful child that is a major reason why she is always tired at school.
Yes, but you as well as the mother keeps forgetting, that they are not in Africa.
Whenever i see faith I remember the young adult video where faith popped up😂😂
انا سعيدة لأجل هذه العائلة لأنهم يسعوا الأفضل لأجل أبنائهم 💚
Her friends are awesome
angel my favourite girl ❤️
I start doing dishes and helping around the chores when I was 13. My mom was pregnant at time so I volunteer helping her. After 18 years, I am 29 and helping them still hehehe
cheer up!!
Its good they are putting an effort to learn Korean~
Very low effort.....
I mean they had been there 9 years at that point. But like many places if you find an enclave of people from the same place as you when you first get there, you'll stay around and deal with them and they in turn have services for you so you never see the need until it's way later. Living in a diverse city like New York you notice that.
Even more so in a up until recently homogenous country like Korea because you automatically find people who are from the same place you are since they'll immediately stick out to you or are the ones who say they're there so you feel comfortable.
Editor and your team is this really it😪 no more faith 😭💔
Faith basically takes care of her younger ones and does every chore. Because it’s common in African households doesn’t mean it’s ideal or “a good upbringing” or should be encouraged. Her parents are overworking her and she’s just 9yrs. It’s also reflecting poorly in her academics. Children never asked to be born tbh so first borns being the “second parent” is highly unfair and unnecessary. Also the whole notion that it’s a child’s “duty” to do house chores because the parents provide is very silly, they chose to be parents. I agree children should start learning chores at a young age but not because it’s their “duty in the house” its so that they are able to stand on their own two feet when they’re older and know how to take care of themselves as adults. But what Faith goes through is draining and would reflect when she’s older(looking tired, dull and not really full of life).
I love this family, is there away to reach a contact person for them? I would like to help out ❤️
Thank you for your generous heart. It goes a long way and I hope your contribution reaches them.
@@jackien404 thanks a lot sadly I got a response from the editor that there’s no contact person for them, it’s a bit sad so I’m just hoping they share their Instagram or other social media handle someday.
Wow. Faith and her siblings pretty much grew up with these hosts and this show, huh?
I hate you.... I punched my laptop
Yep
@@salmaomarelmi XDD
I hate you I almost have a heart attack I thought bugs appeared 💀
@@EllieOK no because It has a crack on the top left now, and I just bought it ;(
I hope things work out for this Liberian and Nigerian family.
I could watch a whole series about this family and the small comedy interjection (3:08) is a bonus. Thank u for these videos
is no one gonna talk about the editing?? 😭
Faith has to do so much but I love this fomily❤❤❤
The way I’m over here watching this like I understand and not even paying attention to the translation captions 💀
Angel is a whole mood
Ohh its so good ,K-Doc how ur day today??
6:16 "And the children, they don't know when it's hard time in the house...when they're going through difficulty, they don't know"
She was basically speaking on child innocence; as kids, we might not be aware of the challenges our parents are facing because they either keep them from us or when they explain them, it is difficult for us to understand.
Btw, if you need help on deciphering African accents in the future, I'd be happy to help!
Faith’s mom is a married single mother.
The editor who put subtitles really took their time with editing tho 🤣
The ending had me proud because i was nervous
They moved to Korea? Why? What foes her parents do?
The husband looks so tired and zoned out. I think they all could use a vacation.
The man sounds Nigerian but the wife sounds like Ghanaian. Watching this show, exposes the reality of living in a country that you have to learn everything afresh and also being parents with kids on a limited means. Africans are resilient. Proud of the family 👪.
They are Liberian
why did they reproduce so much if they can't afford to take care of the children or manage to get the children on appropriate level
i think that's bad decisions
You’re assuming they had a good sex education. I do think that avoiding is obviously the better choice but let’s not forget we don’t have the same opportunities
@@Zainab-bf6dy but then why come to korea which is expensive for raising children? in my home country of uganda it's much cheaper to raise a bigger family.... like they should have some sense. especially with unemployment how are they gonna feed them? makes no sense. it's just common sense, not even sex education.
@@Zainab-bf6dy i'm just curious though how did they even come to korea? maybe it's on the job seeker visa but like still who approved them?
My thoughts exactly, it's so frustrating.
I know life of African at korea. it's very difficult. they almost can't find job. it is not for skin. first reason is visa. second is languege.
They robbed faith of her childhood
At 6:18 she said “the kids don’t know whether it’s a hard time in the house, they don’t know.” Basically she’s saying the kids don’t know if their parents are struggling financially so they’ll ask ask them to buy this or that
I bathed for my grandma at the age of 8 it normal in African for kids to do chores at young age but in other countries it different and also I love Korea and am a fan of Koop and kdrama and kdoc 😇😊
LOL THE PROBLEM is that the father isnt helping
1:36 I totally disagree !, for example in France, teachers says "you have to speak your mother's language at home and not the language that you children's learn at school, they will learn the language in school !" Thanks to that your children's gonna be fluent in 2 language and they gonna be bilingual ! School have to learn to children's how to speak their language but parent have to speak their mother's language !!!!!!
C'EST vrai il faut être fière de sa langue maternelle le reste on l apprend à l l'ecole. Par exemple pour moi y a des expressions qui existent dans ma langue que je ne pourrais traduire en français ça perd tout son sens
That's not really true, or at least wasn't true when this video was shot (~10 years ago). I have French Chinese friends who were told to only speak French at home
Je n'ai jamais entendu ce discours en France ? Après à l'échelle d'individus c'est possible mais les institutions/medias c'est tout l'inverse. Il y a beaucoup de recherches réalisées sur le domaine de la transmission de la langue et en France c'est un des pays d'Europe ou elle se fait le moins bien. J'ai fait mon mémoire dessus et c'est malheureux de voir les discours culpabilisant que les parents ont reçu, qui vont jusqu'à hiérarchiser les langues et dire ''ne parlez plus votre langue à la maison pour mieux vous intégrer''.
@@domoniadjou4728 tout les professeurs avec qui j'étais de la primaire jusqu'à maintenant, lycée 1er, mon dit de parlé ma langue maternelle à la maison car c'est a l'école de t'apprendre la langue du pays. Après cela peut être différent en fonction de l'école que tu fréquente, mais normalement ils on tous ce même discours.
@@lilicapusine3363 c'est super, tu as eu de la chance ! Les personnes que j'ai interrogées du nord, centre et sud de la France sont unanimes sur le discours en défaveur de leur langue première. Après ... Il y a des langues qui jouissent d'une vision positive et d'autres au contraire. J'espère que les discours changeront pour s'uniformiser vers l'encouragement de la pratique de la langue première.
4:54 BAHAHAHAH THIS IS SENDING ME
at 6:17, she basically said the children don't even know when its a hard time (money wise) or when they're going through a difficult time
why faith's brother always sleep?
Oh non c’est le dernier épisode :(
Why are they in Korea?
it's soooooooo obvious that fate's father needs to be doing more. his wife is complaining that her whole body hurts, does he feel as much sympathy about that as she does for his swollen hand?
I'm a little bit late cuz of online class;)
i miss taking classes 😞