Father Treats One Son Better Than The Other, He Lives To Regret It.
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The fact that the other son helped him is just showing how much he cares about his father even when his father did not care about him.
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I love the mother. She’s so supportive. Always treat others how u want to be treated.
Also, who else loves Matthew’s rent? “It how it affects yous
@@highanddry1943 You mean Matthew's love and affection? Not to mention his home. You are also right about the mother. She's so supportive of treating others how you want to be treated.
The best moment was .... When the two brothers hug each other ❤️🥺🥺💞💞
I like that part.❤️
@@deannaroberson8012 Me too!!
@@deannaroberson8012 RIGHT ON!!!
I like that part ❤❤family always is family 👪
The sad part is that I can relate to this, I was mistreated by mom!!! & now that I'm a mom & I don't treat my boys the way my mom treated me. This brought tears to my eyes...I just wished that my mom treated me the same way she treated my light skin sister!!
Wait you treat your kids the same as your mother treats you
@@darkenedsoul3425 I think she meant that she treats all her boys the same, not favoring one over the other
U treat them the same as ur mother treated you, or you treat them equally??
there's a difference-
@@socialcat4748 they treat the equally
@@IsaacElPandita I appreciate u for saying what I meant....I was typing too fast
I hate parents who mistreat their children because they're different.
Ikr
ok
“Different”?
Dude, Matthew is fricking Dr. Burke from Greys Anatomy
Ikr
This is message for all parents to hear: Never ever treat one of your kids differently or more then the other. Don’t favor one kid over the other. Don’t treat one of your kids better than the other just because they’re different from one another. You should always show and treat your kids the same amount of love.
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All children should be loved equally l hate when parent treat one child like diamond and the other like garbage smh l saw that everyday around me ,thank God none of my kids can say l love one more than one
True and try not to show favoritisim
I don’t get how parents can treat their children differently. How cruel
@@angec590 and then when the mistreated sibling wants nothing to do with them they whine with ''but we're family''
so so true I was treated like garbage since the Day my mother had me I've ran away from my mother alot when I was a child I've always wondered why my mother had me in the first place and looking at this video for the first time made me cry because even at the age of 48 going on 49 my mother still can't look at me let alone sit down at the dinner table with her or witching TV together the only ones that picks me up when i brake down and cry is my sister's and Aunty's.
@@athenasidiropoulou128 ye all r family but idk why they mistreats Their y'all family :"O
Never allow your past anger to keep you from your future happiness 💯🙏🏾
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This is why you don't treat your kids differently or have favorites. I'm so glad my mother never treated me or my brother different. This is a lesson everyone to learn. Treat your kids equal. 💯
@@kvaasli same sometimes
@@kvaasli You should not be sharing it on the internet
@@kvaasli I am deeply sorry that is happening to you, it shouldn't be like that at all 😔 I hope one day, your mother realize that it is not right and apologize for screaming at you
@@lavender5368 It's ok for her to tell us how she feel. If others aren't ok with it then I am. I don't mind listening to how others feel because you never know what others might be facing in everyday life. All it takes is communication and understanding 💯
Exactly! I agree!
When your a kid the biggest thing that hurts Is being compared with your siblings and seeing your sibling being treated different than your sibling
Yeah that's happening to me right now, I'm definitely lower on the list than my siblings
Exactly. Parents need to treat their kids equally.
@@AbandonedBee Put yourself high on that list. You are a star. God Bless You
My father used to always shower my older brother with love and he used to always beat me and put me down and make fun of me and scream at me while my brother was his golden child I never mattered like i was just a burden to him but now he does not matter to me he is not welcome in my life
@@blackraven2062 wow I'm sorry for what your father did to you as a child like really and tbh I don't blame you for disowning him since he treated you so bad compared to how kindly he treated your brother.
Honestly, when they were grown up, the "Nerd" looked more athletic. Major switcheroo
I agree
Me too
That is very true.
The nerd looks like an athlete and the athlete looks like a nerd.
The athlete had major down grade💀
My grandmother used to say you never know who may have to give you a cold glass of water
She is a Smart Lady
This is so true. My mother used to tell me the exact same thing, because you never know who you will need to turn to for help. Therefore, show kindness to everyone. 🥰
Your grandmother is so so so so right!!!! Thank God
@@CherokeeAnglI say the same thing. The one you diss will be the one you will miss.
@@ei511I agree to the power of INFINITY ♾️♾️♾️♾️. I think I will use that expression one day.
Don't let how others treat you change your character....
I really agree with you on that, but God knows it’s hard to do, but I’m really trying
@@deeniemcgahee3203 it is hard, all you need is to try
@@lilmiss_kay1026 but some people should try to chance their bad habits.
I needed that
I can relate
Never show favoritism, always treat each child equal, you never know who or what they may become in life. Always build up and encourage, life and death is in the power of your tongue. Be supportive and proud of your children inspite of their difference.
That's the best lesson, never favoritism on the same common person. Later going to regret that choice and later to show treat everyone in the same level as equality, not always rely on the favorite person.
The one that you mistreated the most is always the one that comes back to help you, so you should never treat your kids differently just because they’re different. All kids should be loved equally.
I disagree people treated me badly I am not coming back I got to treat myself good etc.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 I agree with your sentence, I would never in my life help a person who mistreated and used me.
You're absolutely right Tiffany. Just because your kid is different to what you hoped they'd be, that doesn't mean you should mistreat them and regard them as a disappointment. Everyone is their own unique individual and should be respected for it.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 I'm Right With You on This One.
@@dcmuggamuga407 Same Here🗣️💯
"I don't see how you can have so much love for somebody who treated you so bad." I don't see how you can abandon the same person who favored you, provided for you, and well, put more thought and effort into your sports career than he did for your brother's medical career. Something is wrong here.
It happens a lot and the favourite can be the backstabber.
He probably was concerned for his mother's future.
I think it was bcus of the way he treated his brother
It's cause Dakota was selfish and didn't see his parent's problems as his problem's so that's why he wasn't gonna do anything for them.
Something IS wrong, yet that's exactly how it happens sometimes! By coddling and spoiling children, you don't teach them to value anyone but themselves! They come to see their needs as paramount and other's needs as immaterial. That's why coddling & spoiling is so bad for kids.
Jesus loves you😊
Learn to treat equally, that's all.
Imma treat everyone poorly now
@@modestobeltran9202 That's not what the person is saying. Simply treat people with respect!!! Also with dignity. Not poorly. Respectfully, regardless of status!!!!
Karma sure haunted that father for the way he treated Matthew. Shows how karma can haunt one.
8:11 she's such a pure heart and kind women
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Well doesn’t this trigger my childhood completely? 🥺...Only I wish my dad would have acknowledged it sooner...He didn’t fully acknowledge it, but I think he tried in his own way, may he Rest In Peace...
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My dad was only with me in half my life my mom broke up with him because he cheated on her and then also when he wants to come back in my life and when I get to pick who I wanna live with which obviously gonna be my mom because she’s been there most of my life I barely even had a dad
My dad was with me and my mom until I was five then he abandoned me
I'm sorry to hear that happen to you, Jenny!
@@Renzo_Anime ethnic hungry
When I was much younger I experienced the same thing with my dad. He treat some of his children better than some. It was heartbreaking it still affect me
My step dad when he was alive used to do that to me and he just pass away couple of weeks ago but today I thank God almighty for his support into and protection over my life and also I base in the UK with my family of three children born in the UK hallelujah!!!
Wow this really touched my spirit, I too was treated like this as a child and couldn't understand why until many years when my Mom was about to pass away, that she really thought in the end that my other siblings would take care of her and I was the one who stepped up to the plate and took care of her until she died and did it from my heart while everyone else had other things to do. So the moral to my story is Never lose yourself and drown in your feelings and not do the right thing by no-one because of how others treat you because in the end God will Bless you for doing everything from your heart......Smooches💖💖
Wow I'm so sorry about your mom
yeah me too im very sorry for ur mom this deserves more likes
My dad used to treat me like I was not a person to him, and he used to call me names that hurt me, and now I am glad it's ended because my mom had enough of it all from my dad, and after forgiving him. I learned to be more understanding, after a while. Things changed for me, and my dad got to hear me sing to him for the very first time ever I sung this song called this too shall pass, I even the same song to my sister and mom, because I wanted them to be healed, and I sung for my new church too and my old one, what matters to me is that no matter what you do it still matters to God.
Not gonna lie the ending where the brothers hug it out and the brother realised his mistake that was a bro moment
You mean bruh moment not trying to be rude
@@erikadoesstuff9657 No, that was a bro moment
The dad: you’re my last hope.
Me: No, there is another.
Which other one-?
@@angieyonaga3278 …
@@angieyonaga3278 bruh
@@angieyonaga3278 ITS MATTHEW PINK CHEEKS
@@burnerguy3 pink cheeks 😭
I'm literally going to cry. This is so beautiful and so sad.
I swear somebodys chopping onions in my house🧅😭
I like how he is more interested in sports than actually studying
But for being surgeon you don't have to become sportsperson 🤣🤣🤣😅 you have to learn & apply it
@Faze S twitch exactly for being surgeon you don't have to play football
@simplyastria I like how Matthew is more interested in studying than he is in sports.
The meaning is never mistreat your kids different because you never know when you might need a helping hand from one of them
Should it not come naturally, otherwise it's just give n take based on one's need
I like how it came full circle to show how love goes beyond that of what we been shown but a unmeasurable kindness
I would teach dad a lesson. Let him lose everything, and I would help him start from the bottom with only the necessities in life. Parents aren't always the best.
That dad didn't deserve anything from Matthew and should be left to figure out his problems himself🤔🤔matthew was really nice but I probably wouldn't do the same😎😎😂😂
This one hit home bad ,real bad! Had me in tears Bec was me & now I see it in one of my son's & he lets love lead the way & IAM so proud of him
Saw the title of this clip, i was immediately furious. I have 2 sons, I love and respect them copletely, I am not rich, nor are they. They work so hard to provide for their families, I could not wish for better people to carry my family name forward,
My older brother and I are totally different people. I look back at how my dad made so much of an effort to make sure that he knew about the different things that we were interested in, and made so much of an effort to highlight them, and make us understand each other. I can only hope to rock it like the old man does!!
Yall, i think i cried more tears then all the water in the pacific ocean😭
Me toooooooooo
Mega jernos knou ou hav a problm
How sad! Children should all be loved the same. We raised 3 children, one girl & 2 boys & they’re all grown now. But I thank God that we never were partial to one more than the other. I had such a hard life growing up; abuse, starvation & shabby clothes because my parents were very poor. When I grew up with a family of my own, I determined in my heart to see to it that they each had what they needed & even if it was one of their birthdays, I always made sure the other two got a little gift so they wouldn’t feel left out. We dearly loved our children equally & that’s how it should be. This video brought tears to my eyes. 😭 I pray for all neglected & or abused children in this world. 👏😭
Each child made different but what's not different is love
The boy's dad: Sorry son, I couldn't get you anything.
Me and my sister cracking up like he didn't even STUDER WHEN SAYING IT EITHER! XD
“It’s matchew”
Bless you
😂
He is Nigerian, calm down . Am Nigerian too. Racist! Mtcheeeeewwww
@@mr.ademasters3812 how is that racist❓
Matt is a biblical name
@@mr.ademasters3812 BRO HOWS THAT RACIST
I thought my mom treated me differently, but later in life I understood why she didn't let me do what the other did. There was a calling on my life. Sometimes parents are not giving instructions on how to raise a person of the cloth.
Thank you so much for reminding me that holding grudges won't help but will continue to leave that wounded scar in your heart open until you start to forgive. I have been on this journey for a while and could never find it in my heart to forgive the father of my children for leaving me and our two children, though I tried to forgive him, but this video showed me i have to let go and everything will fall into place. Hala all the way from Lesotho in the Southern part of Africa.
This child came out from you.. when you want to love we love them all❤️❤️
That message is sooo true in every way. Lord knows my children are different.
I wish all parents had seen this video. Thx guys it's so touching
I cried so much at the end when they hugged I'm still crying right now.
I love how Dakota listened Matthew’s conversation on the phone and changed his mind around. 🙏🏾❤️
The father: He's not answering
Me: Maybe because the phone is not on
Haha
The phone is on i am pretty sure voice mail works even when the phone if off (ok people i am just saying please dont get triggerd and start saying mean things)
@@sirusblack2789 off*
@@HiHi-cd6xi thanks
@@sirusblack2789 is* don't*
Sorry if I sound rude for correcting you 😅
I actually cried I swear 😭😭😭
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What matthew said was DEEP
He really called his son a nerd🤯🤯but for real always have love to all your family members because some might not feel loved...
If I was called a nerd, I would take that as a simple ✨c o m p l i m e n t✨
That would REALLY make the guy who called u a nerd ANGRY
@@NanikoA lol
Same my mom use to say if they call you a nerd that’s fine cause nerds are smart
Ye bc there basically saying ur smarter than them 😎
Seriously, I thought nobody else looked at it that way, like I do, NERDS are gonna probably save our world.
Dam I almost cried when he said he was gonna pay the bills
I've lived the same life I'm 56 years old and I've always been treated in the other two girls.
I can feel his pain for sure
This is what it’s like to have a very strong relationship with your family.
I don't know where to begin. Because someone "sticks to the books", he's "different". Sadly, stuff like this is far too common!!!
Your children should be loved and respected for who they are not what you think they should be. Don't live your dreams through your children. Let them realize their dreams and support them for having one.
I know what it means to be sidelined by a parent but being that the mum cared for both regardless is good and it should always be like that
Amen. Love should always lead the way. Never shows favorites with your kids. Each of them comes from you and are special. One may excel more than the other, but that does not mean he or she is less of a child. Love them equally.
Thank you
I don’t care if my son isn’t athletic and likes to study, I would love to help him study. Studying isn’t my thing but I don’t want him to grow up with the same mistake I did. Never study and cheat or fail.
Is that what happened to you?
Cheaters always stay on top. Tell your son to get the bare minimum to pass school and enjoy his life while he can before he inevitably slaves himself in a 9-5 job, even with straight A’s.
When the mom said so what are you working I got a FRICKING add for some random batteries and I laughed so hard
I really love you guys videos! They are so inspiring! Keep up the great work!!!
It's about that time, we get to see someone who's their parent's favorite coming to their senses of doing things outta love, not being selfish or greedy.
Dad: "hey superstar"
And then he gives Matthew a pen when he gets clothes
This is the most beautiful story I ever watched...
So you're telling me, the "Pro Basketball player" is shorter than matthew, the medic
Wasted potential,both could've been athletes😔😔
Both good
You know Nate Robinson is 5'7/8 being athletic doesn't mean you're a Giant.
Homie went superstar to nick eh 30
I mean, the skill matters. Not height. Nate Robinson is an example. Who knows though
Why didn't they just go halves in helping the parents, the one that had been treated bad as a child was so sweet
The young man that was the nerd, I really enjoy watching u act, u put a lot of feeling into it and it shows, I feel like you’re gonna go far!!! Be blessed
I appreciate seeing this video and seeing the outcome. Sometimes, you don't get that type of closure because the person doesn't see what they were doing as being wrong. I loved this video.
2:01 YES UR PERFECT THE WAY U ARE LOVE YOU DONT HAVE TO CHANGE FOR ANYONE GOD MADE U LIKE THAT NOBODY CAN CHANGE DAT!!!!!!!!!! 😭🥺
Amen! :)
This is the best character that the actor who played the doctor has had.
Wow the kid even is smart that he made a time traveling machine at the end
I was treated like that from my mom, but now she learns that I was her first pride and joy she came to understand that I was her world. To this day she always loved me no matter how hard life was.
I was 8 years younger, but I was treated as the elder child- especially when my sister and I got into a fight . . . Huh?
We parents need to love our children no matter how there are... There are our blood.. l love this message ♥️
It hurts to see that some parents actually treat their children like this
I am so sorry to those people 😭😭😭😭
‘’No matter what he’s still my dad’’
True words
Well in my house , the opposite scenario happens 😔, everyone scolds me for not studying as much as my sister
Everybody be hating on the dad, but the dad actually apologized to the best of his abilities, and learned a good lesson
The apology seemed half assed to me. In a moment of desperation, you can act kind and remorseful. For all we know, he’s going to go back to being the same dickhead father he was ten years ago.
@@quantasium I see your point.
0:38 woah 😐 dad 😐 it’s 😐 a lot 😐 of 😐 clothes 😐 I already 😐 have 😐 a lot 😐 of 😐 stuff 😐
this is one of the most beautiful ones yet
Just because your son is a nerd, doesn't mean you don't get him anything.
Right, everyone?
Indeed what on earth did he get him a pen like wtf
When my son was little he would come gushing about the latest thing, and I realised that if I didn't watch and learn about what he was interested in, what he was talking about would be gobbledygook flying over my head. Luckily I already loved dinosaurs and scifi/fantasy genres so that helped. He's 21 now and I'm still doing it!
2:51 bruh Matthew has a better job than Dakota of course he can help you. He also doesn’t hold a grudge against you where as Dakota doesn’t even care about you
In life u reap what u sow the other son had a good heart for is dad although he treated him very bad show no love and pick side that how people stay in this real life this is not just a video it's my life story watching this video bring tears to my eyes but love conquer it all
And in the end the brother ends up giving him life lessons
“He’s YOUR son” gotta be one of the most heartbreaking line I heard
Plot twist: After dakota decided to pay the bills instead the dad started being rude to matthew again XD
Lol true
@@zraefy2924 ikr
That would be sad
@@see-wh2vg no its fax
He is humble because he's in need. People like the Dad usually only change because of situations not because they grew out of it. Always it's a tragedy that makes them see the light.
I’m crying thank you for makeing this 😭✝️✝️🙏🏾
I was mistreated as a kid from my mom and stepfather I had a ruff childhood
How many poor people have watched this and said that they can relate to this. I feel bad for those people and I hope their lives are OK.
As a child this teach me something I look forward to more videos like this
This brings back so many memories of my childhood. My sister and i. This one really hit home. But it helped me to be a great Mother to all my children's the same. Thanks so much for your video's.
Mathew: I will pay the bills
Dad : thank you soooooo much
Me: he only be forgiven him cos he be paying his bills
What does sooo bad mean ???
Not as long as I have breath in my body will I ever let anyone treat my kids differently.
Plot twist: he just didn’t want to pay for the meal.
maybe its low bat too
Plot twist:Dakota don't wanna help their parents because of what they did to his brother Matthew
@@richer783 o yh
Every child deserves a parent not every parent deserves a child.
Absolutely no way I’ll ever have that type of forgiveness and I’m a Christian 😂
I'm one to and I agree its gonna take years for them earn my forgiveness if I had a father that were to do this to me.
When people mistreated people for no good reason they will reaped what they sowed and that's the cold hard truth and that's real talk.
If I were that dad I would be so proud of the nerd who loves to study, because honestly, I do not study that well.
Most definitely that’s why u should love all your kids equally no matter what