Safaree Apologizes To Erica On Their Anniversary 🤧 VH1 Family Reunion: Love & Hip Hop Edition
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- Safaree and Erica might be celebrating their second wedding anniversary, but their love is NOT what it once was. 💔
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People, NEVER forgive a person that is trying to fix with words what they ruined with actions.
Damn right!!
Message, you are so right.
You are so right!
Boom 💥🎯
You are dynamite for saying that!!!
I wanna feel his sincerity, but his actions need to be much louder than the disrespect he subjected her and their kids to.
Yup.
Fuck his sincerity he needs to be left
@@zebracookii1019 Right!!! 😡
Same, I was hoping they would work it out, but at this point I don't think he will do anything to save his marriage. This isn't his first apology to her 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah they are just words, talk is cheap, actions speak louder than words, I feel for Erica I really do.
*Narcissists'' keep you in their web by doing the hot/cold tactic. Leave you out in the cold so long that any sort of warmth(affection/apology) will make you feel good for the time being. If she needs a reminder, I would play this entire last season. Safaree is very calculating, coming dressed in white(naturally associated with innocence/angelic). I hope she leaves b/c kids can pick up on this negative energy.*
You just said everything in my mind.......🙌
Spot on take!
This girl waited all day to make this comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Worry about ur family and uplifting for others. Instead of giving negative comments and advice you don't follow....SMH
Tht sounds like my son father he hates the name narcissist tht I call him I no longer deal with him I'm into self love when you done your done move in silence I tell ya if you can take yu can have him no beef this way just #GodGoalsAndGreatful
He could be a dismissive avoidant..rather than a narcissist. The way he says he can't communicate and shuts down etc. They usually hate conflict too.
SAFAREE comes off as being very immature .. and watching it is annoying
🙄Right these women are his storyline.
I see why Nicki treated him the way she did. She was the grown up in their relationship.
Safaree fooled me cause I thought he was cool guy who was funny and sincere but he ain’t SHIT.
Nope it's women like Nikki and Erica
He's immature and selfish, and his words are just empty at this point. He needs to show he's changed
@@platinumheart_ uh no.
I know the feeling , it’s so hurtful when somebody hurts you and says they have no excuse no reason but an apology.
this hurts more than actually having a reason
Hearing his apology did not sound really genuine either. He sounds like he knows what he should say/needs to say at this point since he knows his time is up.
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Yup
You want excuses? Some ppl dont know why they do the things they do because its habitual due to not being held accountable. So an apology is a step in the right direction
If Erica knows what's good for her, she will forgive this man and never take him back.
Agreed.
Yesssss!!!
This is the one right here.
Ty ty ty
Amen!!!!!!!🙏🏽
The way he pursued her for so long and then did her so dirty is upsetting and a bit disturbing. He wanted Erica badly, and when she returned those feelings he showed his true colors. Forgive but never forget.
You hit it right on the nail
It just goes to show there is a difference between being seduced and pursued by men. Men like to chase and hunt. It’s all a game and a conquest to them and it seems like when they’ve conquered you they start showing their true colors . It’s like cat and mice . It’s very sick and twisted and cynical in a way but very exhausting and makes love and companionship a little less appealing and desirable in my book . Not all men are the same but who the fuck wants to go through this shit when this is or seems like half to majority of the dating pool. The dating pool has pee in it literally lol 😂
Nah. He was pursuing her skin colour and hair texture. It's just typical of black man pathology, they worship eurocentric features and have children with these women in order to erase their blackness. She got the same black man.
@@Mindful.Movement.01 cat And mouse ,just saying .
I did agree with all your statement 😊 so be nice .
@@thesilentwarrior6769 lol 😂 yaaasss thank you. Shame on me and I’m in the process of becoming a professional proofreader lol 😂 go figure. I just literally laughed at myself. I get to relaxed on this damn CZcams. Good looking out
Apologies mean nothing without changed behavior but it’s a start when it’s pure.
Not to mention humble
@Lireta Miah No❤️
Amen!
Safaree is so full of it imo. He's only "Sorry" because he see's Erica looking good not giving af about him and could actually be completely done. That's the only reason for his apology smh
Exactly. Narsisistic behavior.
Nope that's not true. She needs to apologize as well but she won't
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 I'm not in their lives so I'm not too hip on what she's done to him, but in the past year his behavior is unexcusable.
Not only his behavior but I distinctly remember him saying to her that his life was about him and only him, not even the little girl.
He was partying in Jamaica when their son was born in NICU. I'm sure whatever Erica's done to him, is a mole hill compared to him and his antics. A narcissist never changes, they just change out their victims.
@@SaraBellum777 you say you're not too him on what she done to him? That automatically describes what type of person you are excusing her manipulative behavior and she will manipulate her children in the process as well
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He tweeted that marrying her was the biggest mistake, there's no turning back from that. Plus it's the fact that this grown man needed another grown man to see the error in his ways.
He was right though him marrying her was the biggest mistake and he regret it people warn him about her he didn’t listen
@@trishamurray4329 Yet here he is, in her face apologizing to her. The last scene was him saying he wasn't gonna sign divorce papers AFTER tweeting what he did
We all know that tweet was not a mistake nor was it an accident and last but not least he cannot take it back.
I feel like Erica had a glow when she met him and got pregnant by him with their first kid and now she constantly looks depressed and upset , like he took that glow away from her eyes and left sadness
Yes
Traumatized. He TOOK the best out of her.
He ruined her. So sad.
That's all he wanted to do....take her glow. He's a vampire! These types love to steal your shine. It gets them off
I've noticed that also
My advice to Erica is to leave and never look back, I remember how cold, mean and dismissive Safaree was towards her, this was just an act coz of the backlash he was getting and it was messing with his bag. Don't waste your time with this overgrown child, life is short and you deserves better Erica ❤️❤️❤️.
You are so wrong. The only person who was being mean and dismissive is Erica herself. She was controlling and had a nasty attitude everyone warned Safaree about her but he was too immature to listen. And if you talking about overgrown child it's actually her
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Leave and go where with her two kids and the lhh check she can’t afford it hence the storyline
Or work on her marriage and herself why is divorce always the first answer?
He doesn’t want her but doesn’t know how to get out of it.
I can't even take safaree seriously.
Exactly me either! He's only "Sorry" because he see she's looking good and could actually be completely done. That's the only reason for his apology smh
I can't either. Like I really cannot.
Me neither. He is so cringe
Isn't this like the 30th time he apologizing?😭
Yep shows how smart she is. It won't b long b4 this is apology # 31.
I'm rooting for her to break free from the toxic cycle.
It’s time he puts those words into action. You can apologize until you’re blue in the face but a true apology is backing up what you say. If I was Erica I wouldn’t take him back. He has shown time and time again that he doesn’t care about their family. Okay you can be a jackass to me but when your child’s life is hanging in the balance and you’re off partying that just shows he doesn’t value his family.
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Yeah you can leave all you want to but you will never have another eggplant 🍆🤣
@@thesilentwarrior6769 y
You really think… she cares about a “eggplant” ? Grow up
@@thesilentwarrior6769 that's a lie
Erica Can Forgive Him, But She Needs To Let Everything Go And Heal For Her And Her Child. Thats It Thats All !!!
*Children
If a man can treat you poorly when you are carrying their child, when stress could harm the baby??? Then he is not a good man at all. Unacceptable. Drop him sis.
True but it can change .
He is very immature . safari just needed time to grow 🪴
@@thesilentwarrior6769she gave him that ,she n he need to just co parents
@@thesilentwarrior6769 isnt he like 40???
Wtf are you talking about
If I was erica I would've been like naaaw everybody can sit back down I didn't invite this intruder😅. But seriously they better off separate, he doesn't care enough to secure her happiness with him.
I appreciate his sincerity. However, changed behavior is the BEST APOLOGY! Apologies are the START not the finish
I’m crying at the fact that she’s dressed in black and he is dressed in white. What kind of weird symbolism is this? 😂😂😭
Yin and yang
👀👀😂
Duality
I sort of shed a tear during this scene. Imma explain why. By watching this video I truly got to see how easy it is to be sucked back into a narcissist’s trap. This is how they keep you in and hooked. I’ve gone through this so many times and this is also why my outlook on women who have been in domestic violence relationships has changed in a major way. I have so much more compassion, empathy and love for women who been through that more than I did before. Before I couldn’t understand it or understand why they went back to their abuser but now… now I see why.. I went back to my abusers (yes plural) time and time again because they did ths.. apologized and my abuse was never violence but it was constant verbal abuse, manipulation, psychological, emotional and mental abuse. Everytime my abuser did this I was sucked back in just that easy because at the end of the day (before I broke free of this stronghold) I felt I had to prove I was worthy of love and kindness, I had to work hard for it and hold on and make it work and make the other person see that I really did care by fighting for love aka “proving” I was worthy . It was so easy to keep getting sucked back in and going back to my abuser. Now that I have started my spiritual and healing and journey and looking into therapy I see these patterns stem from my traumatic and abusive childhood and not being loved and made feel worthy and so while I’m healing these toxic patterns are coming to light and my third eye is being open and so many great revelations I’m getting and so many things I’m healing from and also learning about myself. I said all that to say while I would truly like to believe safari is really sorry his actions are going to have to match his words and in this instance I could really for once surprisingly put myself in Erica’s shoes because in a way safari is showing narcissistic behavior. This isn’t his first time apologizing to her in front of the whole world only to go back and fuck up and hurt her again. I’m not saying she don’t love herself cause I don’t know her but I know when I didn’t love myself or thought I didnt deserve better I kept going back to my abuser/narcissist because it felt good and FAMILIAR AND COMFORTABLE at the time as bizarre as that sounds … it’s hard to explain. I hope Erica makes the right decision for her mental health, her sanity, her children, but more importantly for herself. Sending love and light genuinely and sincerely to all the women who have been apart of this type of abuse. It’s not easy . It’s not easy to get out, leave and stay gone and even if you mess up and go back … be kind to yourself.. give yourself grace .. some of us have abandonment issues to work on as that could be apart of it as well. None of us are perfect but we are all worth love and I still have to keep reinforcing and telling myself I’m worthy of love even when I don’t feel it because of how damaged and broken and traumatized I am but I’m worthy of the blessing and the things that will come on the other side of me working on myself and really going deep and healing those deep rooted parts of me and my subconscious minds. Ladies you’re worth it. To the woman reading this I love you and you’re not alone.
I needed to see this so badly. I didn't "Go back" to him, but I did slip up after a night of drinking and we had a one nightstand. I feel so horrible. I know I have to forgive myself, but it's driving me crazy. 😔 God bless you my Sister.
@@MonicaMontgomery_ don’t be so hard on yourself. It happens. Give yourself grace and be kind to yourself. It’s not easy. Soul ties are real. In due time that said person will be out of your system and hopefully out of your thoughts
Reading this almost made me cry bc it took me back to the time I was dealing with my BD who constantly hurt me over & over & over without an ounce of care. He didn't care that his WORDS/ACTIONS were HURTFUL; didn't care about the tears he saw me shed on numerous occasions bc of his ACTIONS. I could tell you some situations that would have you like WHAT. Like they say We ALL have a STORY; WOMEN especially. I was deeply DEPRESSED behind the pain he caused me, even thought about committing SUICIDE especially after he had the audacity to tell me he he REGRET having a child with me. I knew the best thing 4 me 2 do was 2 leave him alone but it was easier SAID than DONE & he not only KNEW it but also PLAYED on it bc he knew how hard it was 4 me to walk away. He knew how much I loved/cared about him. He kept taking advantage of ME & taking me 4 GRANTED. He just figured he could continue 2 do WHATEVER, HOWEVER, WHENEVER bc he knew how hard it was 4 me to leave him alone. The last straw came from him DIS-RESPECTING me once again through his ACTIONS & I just said to myself, "that's it, enough is enough, I'm DONE" & I put him out my house for the FINAL time & I've NEVER looked back. It was very HARD 4 me 2 do & I went through the DEPRESSION stage; cried almost EVERYDAY after the fact, but even though I was in so much pain from having to finally set him FREE as well as MYSELF, I knew I'd much rather experience the pain I was in WITHOUT him than the pain I was in WITH him. I had 2 REMIND myself that I DESERVE better & I can DO better. I still LOVE him & MISS what we use to have, but that's about it. I don't miss the LYING, CHEATING, VERBAL ABUSE, PHYSICAL ABUSE, or ANYTHING along those lines. I have 2 keep in mind that NONE of that is WORTH going back to no matter how much I still LOVE/CARE 4 him. I just Thank God 4 the STRENGTH he gave me to be able to FINALLY let go once & for all bc I definitely couldn't have done it on my own. I encourage ANY woman who's going through something similar, to LET GO & LET GOD. It'll definitely be DIFFICULT but at the same time, the HURT/PAIN will only CONTINUE if you DON'T no matter how many times he tells you it WON'T & if you have a DAUGHTER(S) then you really have 2 set a good example 4 them bc they not only watch what we DO but they also watch what we ACCEPT/TOLERATE & they're going to grow up thinking its ok 4 them to be treated the SAME way 4 a MAN if not WORSE so we as WOMEN really need 2 be MINDFUL of that. BLESSINGS & LOVE 2 all.
@@Mindful.Movement.01 Thank you so much, you're God sent. Many blessings to you.
@@T-thatsme thanks for sharing your story. Definitely an inspiration. I’m glad you came out of that. I know it wasn’t easy but you did it because you chose you first and that’s the most important part of it all.
He put her through a lot. I wish I could give her a hug.
She also put other women though this kind of pain. I know it was back in the day and DJ Envy was wrong too. Im just saying, Karma doesnt forget.
@@SpiritualLifeCoach43 the internet never sleeps. I still feel bad for her. She has matured a lot.
@@ofeibea I don't like to see anyone in pain either. We also need to learn our lessons and stand by our values and boundaries. When you know your worth, you don't tolerate mistreatment and low vibrational people 🙏
@@ofeibea ofcourse she did. I would hope her kids changed her. But Ms karma never stops. They both decided to make a career on television. Making a fool outta yourself for everyone to see and have an opinion on. The choices some make for a buck.
My grandmother always said when you look into someone’s eyes you will recognize who they are . Unfortunately he’s too much of a narcissist to realize that her whole body language and her eyes have revenge written all over it .
Yup , We scorpios . Revenge is our natural instinct.
@@Forever-Yanee I have a moon in Scorpio , an I’m the same way 💯
@@Forever-Yanee ok I'm good , y'all can stay away with y'all revengeful heart .
@@thesilentwarrior6769 dont do nothing to make them revengeful 😂😂😂
I’m tired of Erica and Safarees story line. Just let it go
Thank you. These people are not good for each other . Enough already. Being together shouldn't hurt this much.
Just because you love or are in love with someone, does NOT mean that you should BE with that person. When people show you who they are BELIEVE THEM. Forgiveness does not always mean stay together. And that's all I'm going to say.
When you really really love someone, those feelings just don’t go away. It takes healing and distance. Time to be without the one you wanted to be with. Hard to separate your mind and your heart.
I see pain & revenge in Erica eyes . He’s gonna get him back for everything he did to her #Scorpio
*Right, once you cross a Scorpio, they always get the last laugh in the end. I can't wait to see it.*
@@ClaireHaire my ex is a Scorpio he gonna come back for revenge for something that was from the purity of my heart.
@@ClaireHaire some Scorpio’s are crazy
Gott that correct!!! # Scorpios and the thing is me as a scorpion when I care I care and when I don't I don't!!! And ppl can't take that idc part!!!
@@ClaireHaire Always!!!
Safaree is a reflection of what Erica was in the past. Erica is just looking at herself in the mirror. Sad part is they have children. They have to work on themselves and their relationship for their children.
Erica was immature. This man is a malignant narcissist. When Safaree invited Rich to his bachelor party, I was done. What man invites another man who was in a passionate relationship with his future wife. He enjoys keeping her in this turmoil.
@@may8043 Erica was also a narcissist
Safaree is very immature. Remember her arguments with Cyn 😳. Based on Safaree and Erica's public dating history I'm not suprised their relationship is where it is now. They both have a lot of growing up to do. They need to leave that reality TV alone
You're so right. Karma plays no games.
@@may8043 A MAN THAT DON'T WANT YOU.
Safari don’t like Erica, and it’s okay they don’t have to be together, it should be a lesson for both of them
Safari just isnt marriage material. Many men and women arent. These people should know their lane and stay in it.
Never listen to words. Idc who it is. Always listen to actions. I live my life by this.
Vh1 overestimated how interesting this couple is. They keep having the same conversation over and over no matter what show they’re on. He doesn’t love her and she doesn’t respect him, but the bills need to be paid.
An apology cool...but I don't believe he OR she will change
THANKS! Both are stuck in their ways. Both have healing and correction that needs to take place. Like she said: INTENSE work. I just don't see this happening 🤕
Correct
@@celestewatts5482 exactly!
How many apology videos is Vh1 gonna release of this mannnn🤣It’s giving mimi and Stevie all over again
Listen Erica......this is YOUR HUSBAND. Not mines and not the comment section. In life we go through shit and we have to make sure we do what is BEST for OUR FAMILY. Yes he is wrong but I know through PRAYER and LOTS OF therapy/counseling to get to the root of what is really going on with you two yawl will be great. Either great co-parents or Hubby, Wife and Family. So, take all the extra help you two need to be better YOU's! OK! Stay Blessed
Dm her this
I hope he actually meant it ‼️‼️‼️and stands on it .. men are very manipulative
He didn't mean it. The shaderoom posted this clip and Erica commented that it was all a lie.
@@LanieLaniee wow that’s crazy
@@LanieLaniee not shocked at alllll...he's trash.
Safaree is not ready for a true relationship. He's going to be apologizing a lot to Erica. All this responsibility is something he never expected, and he feels that having a family is detrimental to his showbiz status to pulling booty calls. He's just not ready.
No. Erica is the one who is not ready for a relationship look at Rich, Bow Wow and Cyn her toxic behavior is the main reason why it keeps happening to her she needs help
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 Well, it could be both. Based on how they handle their issues as they have so much work to do on themselves. Erica is right about working on communication, but Safaree seems like he wants to keep Erica pacified so he won't feel guilty by smashing other women.
@@DatTruckinGuy no she is not right about communication he tried to do that several times and her nasty irratic behavior still shows out of place she's the one that still want to keep Safaree pacified so she still won't feel guilty for what she has done as well
@@DatTruckinGuy and by the way he never had once had sexual intercourse while they were still together
I agree , we don't know both sides but I truly think Erica wanted a real relationship with Safaree, for her to go to the next level and marrying this man says a lot, but I think they both have issues they need to work on and both need to own up to them.
You just know someone is hurting when tears come out instead of words
Shoutout to the women who are focused on growth. To the women who handle their business, are working through traumas/triggers, and loving themselves through the process. The women who strive for top tier in every aspect of life, and nothing less. I hope you have an amazing day.💪🏾💯
I’ve been in a marriage like this for years and It becomes a constant cycle you are never happy
I just don’t think he wants to held down to one person and be 100% in a family unit. He wants a wife and kids and then goes a parties and has relations with other women then come back to a “Happy home”
He’s apologizing so he can keep her on the back burner for narcissist supply! Safari is a player & a damn good one at that. Erica just needs to heal & move on with her kids! He’s for the streets
Let that buzzword go. 🤣 jeeeeeeezz
"The Perference and The Dusty", a tale as old as time.
What’s Most Hurtful for her I think is knowing they can’t go back to how Safaree treated her During her Pregnancy , like that’s when she needed him the Most and he Treated her like she was Nothing to him ! That was suppose to be a Precious moment for her and sadly it just wasn’t 😒😔 Safaree knows he is Losing her or has already Lost her and that is why he is Sorry Now, but I think it’s too Late 😢🤷🏽♀️
I seriously hope she never goes back to him... he's nothing but trash, I know Erica has done shady shit in the past to other people but this shit safaree did is totally unforgivable...imagine seeing your husband grinding on other women on social media while you're pregnant with HIS baby and y'all haven't even had a normal conversation in a while
Safaree is a clown. He wants a family but doesn’t know how to keep one.
So kick him while he down. Way to go. That’s like saying she wants a man but doesn’t know how to keep one. It’s silly. This man never been married nor had children before Erica if anything he can learn to want his family.
You telling me they still going back and forth with this marriage 😂I thought they were Co-parenting and that's it.
Safaree had Erica’s whole heart in his hands.. he took it.. threw it on the ground.. then stomped all over it. Erica really loved him.. he’s the only person Erica has ever been this vulnerable and patient with anyone on Love and Hip Hop.
Wishing them both a healthy relationship don't give up on you family ❤ 💙
You are that chick that would let a man bash in your face and then feel bad bc you bled on his jordans. Seek professional help for your codependency.
Erica has done some messed up stuff to people as well but she doesn’t deserve this pain. No women does at all and we gotta always remember we are worth more than we know. I think it was bad timing for them to do the show more her. She showing so many different emotions that I’m sure now she is still trying to heal from her marriage. Women that been through this can see the extra drama is hurting her she don’t need to deal with that now especially on a show some things can be fixed behind closed doors if it’s truly meant.
She caused another woman this exact pain for years. Ask DJ Envy wife!
@@tynikagrant6995 she did but that still don’t mean she deserve to hurt, I’m sure it crossed her mind as well what she did and that probably made her hurt more. People do change and I believe she changed once she found love, but that can’t erase the pain she caused another woman
@@angiegarner58 Agree with everything you said. You have to be careful what you put into the universe because it might come back to you 🤷♀️🤷♀️.
@@tynikagrant6995 Sometimes you live right and wait on that special someone and yet he still does these low down dirty things to you. I’ve never been with a married man my entire life but my husband was sleeping with other women left and right.
@@tynikagrant6995 I agree with you, in time she will find peace she just really need to heal herself for her first then her babies.
Disrespectful behaviour. Apologies. Trauma bond. Hot and cold emotions. No disregard for somebody’s feelings. Doing things to look better to outsiders.
I have seen this (and experienced it) before and as terrible as it is for the children, these two are better apart in my opinion. I feel sorry for Erica. I didn’t have children with my ex partner and so it was easier to walk away.
Me too and tbh at first I had no sympathy for Erica but now I do because this is what raw and real narcissistic abuse feels and looks like and it will have and keep such a strong grip and hold on you and it’s hard to breaks away and you can see it. Yes karma serves and has everyone address and Erica ain’t always done the right things either nor is she a victim but this a different kind of abuse that safari is putting her through and it’s not always visible to people like domestic violence. It’s just sad cause I been there many times and I will never forget
@@Mindful.Movement.01 100%. Once you’ve experienced it, you look at things differently because you have a better understanding. She has acted terribly in the past, but she had a very messed up childhood. Not saying that Safaree didn’t (I don’t know about his childhood), but out of the two, he puts her through lots of hurt. Just as he can sense that she’s progressing with her healing, he’s back again to try and negatively impact that. More apologies to make her think that he has somehow miraculously changed. Very dangerous territory. She will waste her life on him if she’s not careful.
@@laurens4479 yessss I’m so glad you mentioned this because I’m sort of scared of the slippery slope myself with me doing my soul and healing work and progressing cause it’s like men particularly narcissistic men .. it’s like they got some kind of radars or antennas that go off when they sense they are no longer in our vortex of our mind and thoughts and have progressed and moved on then boom 💥 out of no where here they come like pop goes the damn weasel and shit lol 😂 but I have made a vow and a promise to always remind myself of the trauma hurt and pain they have caused me if they ever (which some have already) try to come back around besides I believe in rebirth and this new woman that is being born and shedding old things and people that no longer serve her it wouldn’t be the same and I wouldn’t want to be around or go back to anyone who brought out the worst in me but also try to test me or bring out the old me . I now walk into situations designed to serve me and my highest good. I learned the hard way to stop looking and going back to what’s familiar cause it ain’t shit back there but rejection, hurt and trauma . If I go back it would be like a junkie who just went through rehab and then go back and get back on drugs after being in rehab 6 months to a year .. all that work for nothing. 🤷🏾♀️
@@Mindful.Movement.01 Speaking from experience, I would advise against going back. I was with my ex for 12 years in total and we split up for two years once and then got back together. Worse mistake I made. He became emotionally abusive towards me and it was a horrendous time. After him I had a break from dating for about four years and the next person I attracted was an even bigger narcissist than him. I would concentrate on your healing journey and really spend some time soul searching and working on any issues you might have from childhood. If you need to heal your physical body, I recommend the full body detox from Highfrequenctea. I have dealt with health ailments since being around narcissists (this seems to be a common theme) and this detox is helping to heal me. A narcissist pretty much never changes. You’re better off staying far away from them and taking a break from men to concentrate on your healing. You will then naturally attract the right person for you.
I see everyone blaming Safaree. Yes he did her dirty, but she also needs to improve her her violent attitude. They both need some growing to do
Him coming to her apologizing warmed my heart. This right here just proved that i’m way too forgiving cause i’d be the type to forgive him and let him back into my life🤦♀️! This is helping me learn through myself but him apologizing without her having to be the first one coming to him about it is one step to growing from this.
My dumbass 😂😂😂🥱
Safari is a Narcissist!
No. If he's one then she is as well
Safaree is so childish! Omg, how Erica puts up with him is beyond me. How can someone be so gullible? He just manipulates his way back!
its the d
I seriously wonder why he just went left and became cruel towards her out of nowhere and hurt her over and over this bad , I just don’t understand if he got tired of her ? But then he could’ve been a man and ended it the right way by still being there for his kids. Just makes no sense
Oh please!! Safaree isn't a damn ass narcissist.. the producers and the writers are!!🤦🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
Yes Mimi McNair someone finally said I wanted to say the same thing, I was definitely avoiding arguing with ppl
@@bumblebee1946 yes ma'am!!.. If anything Erica is a narcissistic manipulator🤷🏿♀️.. these folks post their lives in real time 🤦🏿♀️ let's get real..
Is anyone else starting to think this is an act between Safari and Erica? We can’t forget these two are super hustlers
No unfortunately I think its extremely real
I feel just like you do!!!!! # Fake
An apology is the first step, but his actions after the apology are what will matter more.
Are people still falling for these LHH story lines? I’m surprised this show still comes on.
Great minds think alike
At first I felt bad for Erica but judging her track record I kind of see why things went left with her and safaree even though safaree is wrong I still feel like they both played a part in this situation number one Erica should of never took her hurt to social media and these women need to understand that putting a man down ain’t doing nothing but questioning his manhood now he going to prove to you that he is a man and you may not like the response that’s why it’s just best to work it out if it’s not fixable just move on with grace and dignity tbh I think Erica a and safaree should just coparent and do some type of therapy
He has apologized time and time again and still continues to do the same thing. At some point, “I’m sorry” is not enough and for her sake, Erica needs to move on. She keeps feeding into it and it’s not helping her. Talk to him regarding you all’s children, but that’s it.
he spent so many years trying to get her and expressing his attraction to her to everyone on national tv to then have her, marry her and breed her only to completely forget about her and subject her including the kids to negativity and embarrassment. i feel like no amount of words can outweigh his wrongdoings. i feel for erica.
Some men take longer than others to grow up ; sadly it took a big loss for them to change their ways. People can change and be a better person. I know from 25 yrs experience. I walked away to never look back and gave up on him and by God’s grace, he did his best to change his evil ways. And I believe everyone deserves a second chance.
Marriages and relationships consist and work with a lot of forgiveness. We grew old together and happily married with a deep love that grows through the years until he passed 5 yrs ago.
I love Erica and Safaree. Make a great looking couple and I think deep down they still do love each other. I pray they find their way .🙏🏼
Is it just me or are they all trying their best to torture this woman until her heart gives out? Just curious.
Yes, she is starting to look kinda sick.
I truly believe him. Sometimes it takes someone to tell someone that their messing up and destroying their family for them to listen and get it. I'm praying for them 🙏
Narcissists can be very convincing.
Well it's been 9 months and he's not changed at all in recent episodes. You lack discernment
With how he acts by saying one min don’t want to lose but don’t care by choice of words. I says she should focus on self and just parent but not my life. Hate to see her so drained
Can you imagine having to fake this types of problems to get a check. Sad what humans do for money.
Yes, my thoughts exactly
People are imperfect and we are bound to make mistakes, but if during a period of separation, the other person feels the need to be intimate with other people, the love and the respect was never there and that's your confirmation to walk away. As much as you try to work things out, it will be sooo hard to have that trust and life itself is already challenging.
Imagine wanting to do better for yourself and everybody keep supporting the one that hurt you.
This woman is really hurt 😔 and this is a tough woman so you know her feelings and tears are real
Glad he apologized, but she should give him one as well,she always causes drama,and she doesn't know how to be his peace plus she cheats with women and think its ok ,its not,if its not your husband you kissing and feeling on ,its cheating you owe your husband an apology, it takes two, you do the most too,apologize to your husband and be his peace,because one day he not going to come back ,he going to with a woman who is respectful and his peace,
I AGREE 1000%..
I’ll say the EXACT same thing I said the last time he “apologized”…DON’T FALL FOR IT ERICA!!
#HE’SSTILLLYING
I’m hella mad cause i REALLLLLY wanna like Safaree. First time he was on TV, he was definitely genuinely himself. This LHH shit changed him, but I hope he gets it together.
I’ve been married for 18 years and if God us to live to see this May of 2022 it’ll be 19 yrs. no marriage is easy it’s about what you put into the time, effort, communication, romance, the lessons and the Blessings, we have 3 Beautiful Children we never separated, we’ve had our share of ups and downs because we were both young when we got married he was 20 and I was 24 but it’s a life long of lessons you’re going have bumps and bruises along the way but you both have to remain focused, Faithful, date each other, listen to each other and come to a common ground and understanding, I wish them both the best.
I can’t bring myself to feel any form of sympathy for Erica…it’ll be for the kids if anybody. 🤷🏾♀️
@Maria Garcia because I know that she’s a narcissist and she has no problem doing the same thing to other people.
We live in a world where people living on TV can't have a say over harsh reality staring at them in the face, there are people having it harder and harsher marriage than Erica and Safaree.
Marriage is hard work it’s even harder when you have the 🌎 watching. 🙏🏽
I'm over the two of them because if anyone's being paying attention they've being together the whole time and they just using this divorce story as a storyline...(courtesy of their ig accounts and stories plus safaree throwing her party on a boat and gifting her with a chain)
i really hope that you guys can save your marriage for those beautiful kids💕💙🙏🇧🇧
The main part that needs to be addressed is the fact that Erica didn’t choose her spouse based on character and values. She did not vet him properly. She chose to focus on her emotions instead of who he actually was. So this unfortunately is her fault for choosing man based on her emotions.
Everyone coming for him 🤦🏻♀️ don’t stand in karmas way! Erica is getting hers
What did Erica do??
This "sincere" apology sounded like it came from someone who is tired of being labeled the bad guy, but doesn't REALLY feel bad for what he did.
Erica has tried more for this relationship to work than I think I've ever seen from her, but that effort has to be reciprocated.. No love lost, but what about respect? I would move on, Mamas.. 😔
I've been with my wife for more than 10 years and we share a 12 year old boy. We have the best relationship because of the strong communication we have when things are hard and seem to be heading to a fallout. I as the man always makes sure that my wife is completely sure that we are ready to talk and sort things out. That's what keeps us moving so very strong. I'll assure one thing, I don't trust safaree with this apology. The fact that Erica is healing and moving on, pressures safaree. Work harder bruhv. 🤷
How many times is this man going to apologize?! Enough already damn.. tired of hearing about this, like a broken record at this point.
I pray for them & I really hope they can get back to having a beautiful healthy relationship.
Everybody be talking bad about Safaree but ignoring how Erica is as a person. We’ve all seen how she’s talked to her significant other on other seasons but everybody looks at Safaree as if he’s the devil and Erica is an angel. He’s already said how she gets down when she’s mad. I don’t blame him for wanting to keep his distance from her because don’t nobody got time for that.
Erica Mena and Cyn Santana look so beautiful on Love & hop
I’ve been through that same BS..My Ex cheated and ran around town with all kinds of women while I was pregnant with our daughter and continued after she was born till I finally got strong and left him! What he did to me hurt more than anything . It’s been 20 years and that’s still the worst pain I’ve ever felt!
I think they need to hold off on the divorce and give him a chance for his actions to match his words. That doesn't mean moving back in together or being together that means still being separated, however holding off on the divorce to see if he's actually serious because he might be but that's going to take time. I feel they both can grow and make it work but like I said it takes time but it would be very beneficial for the children if their marriage could work out happily, healthily and positively.
this grown man needs another man to tell him how to be sincere… way to go.
Narcissistic behavior to the highest degree. This man chased this woman, married her, impregnated her, just to leave her at her lowest point ever. This is what narcissists do and they give you just enough crumbs of effort or apologies to make you think that they’re gonna change but they never do. He had nine months x2 to treat this woman with respect and he didn’t learn. who gives a fuck about an apology
No. Once again you guys are wrong. Erica was always like this did y'all see the way that she treated Safaree in the first place when everyone warned him about her and he wanted to fight Rich and Joe about what they said what type of person she was. No. Because y'all idiots are so dumb and blind. Also the way that she treated her relationships in the past like crap (Bow Wow, Rich, and especially Cyn) and also she had a sexual encounter with DJ Envy. She is the type of person who won't take responsibility for her actions. The problem with Safaree is that he never knew how to have a good stable woman in his life besides his mother and sister. Look at his relationship with Nicki Minaj & Nikki Murdaris not good. And also with Erica I think there was time in her life she was abused at home and is not telling everyone about it that's why I think she is hurting inside and is taking her out on almost everyone that she gets in a relationship with. So she really needs help
Speaking from personal experience, a sincere apology, acknowledging the wrongs they've done, from the person you loved the most and who hurt you the most, is a bittersweet feeling. I know from my experience, I was shocked, and happy, thankful, and sad all at the same time.
I really hope that they make it. Safaree really needs to grow up.
Safaree said too much “US” and not enough “YOU” at this point his actions could only truly say he’s sorry
You can tell it wasn’t sincere because he said “whatever happens, happens. It’s meant to be”, no if you want to apology to be taken serious and taken the right way you give that energy from the start. You automatically prevent good shit from happening when you think and speak like that.
She’s so beautiful to go through her hurt on national tv.
She was already aggressive for whatever past reason, now he just has her emotionally damaged on top of her prior issues..I hope she will be ok...Karma is a bitch tho...so 🤷🏽♀️
Aye ERICA DNT LISTEN TO PPLL THAT TELL YOU TO LEAVE HIM ALONE!!IT'S YOUR FAMILY AND IF YOU WANNA GIVE IT THE BEST YOU GOT DO SO!!ITS DOESN'T MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAY,LOOK AT YOUR KIDS AND ALL YALL HEARTS,MAKE THE BEST DECISION FOR YALL!!
When a man says I can't handle another baby and you have a baby anyway you are the problem
Did she trick him into it?...he shoulda used rubber. Babies are what happen when you see yourself get in bed with someone and not use protection. She shouldnt have to terminate an unborn child just because he cant man up
@@tasibho for all I know he she tricked him into it
Have you not watched the show?
That is her whole bag.
She is a manipulative person with no talent a nice body and the need to manipulate everybody to stay the focus. I feel bad for Safari ... She's the kind of girl who would marry a bull rider and make him stop riding the bulls. I am unfairly hard on Erica Mena. But she is one of those people who continues to put herself in drama intentionally
If it takes a camera in your face to apologize to your wife and mother of your kids, then it’s certainly NOT genuine. Tired of see her cry every episode.
Erica’s not apologizing lol
It's as if he was waiting for her to say "okay let's start fresh" 🙄😂