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  • Life is hard. DON'T PANIC.

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  • @jman1121
    @jman1121 Před 4 lety +1131

    Mr. Ave, you mean I could be a janitor?

    • @arduinoversusevil2025
      @arduinoversusevil2025  Před 4 lety +960

      Doing anything well is a noble calling. Mopping up kids puke so the whole school doesn't get Norwalk? Hats off to you sir.

    • @johnpienta4200
      @johnpienta4200 Před 4 lety +127

      Oh captain my captain.

    • @herbertshallcross9775
      @herbertshallcross9775 Před 4 lety +8

      What steps would you have to take to get there?

    • @JohnSmith-ud9ex
      @JohnSmith-ud9ex Před 4 lety +103

      @@herbertshallcross9775 I guess, the ones at the front of the school ? = )

    • @thomaslemay8817
      @thomaslemay8817 Před 4 lety +178

      I have met a lot of people in the last 65 years (I am 70) that will never reach the lofty level of janitors because they think it is below them. Nothing beneficial to others is below any one!

  • @FrancisLukesh
    @FrancisLukesh Před 4 lety +2168

    More kids need dads like you.

    • @jocaleb0236
      @jocaleb0236 Před 4 lety +25

      I would’ve killed for a caring fun dad like him tbh

    • @dimitartenchev9338
      @dimitartenchev9338 Před 4 lety +49

      Or granmps like him mine is a ex military aircraft mechanic thanks to that bitter old geezers influence im gonna be a aircraft enginerd and what uncle bumblefuck is telling is 100 out 100 the formula

    • @imagineaworld
      @imagineaworld Před 4 lety +57

      More kids need dads period. My grandpa was the closest thing i ever had, but our generation were too far apart, so we argued alot, and he never knew what to say when id come to him with some 21st century kid stuff like depression, drugs, society, media, etc. Dont get me wrong, everything good about me came from him and my mother, and their wisdom. If it wasnt for him i absolutely would be dead

    • @cliveclapham6451
      @cliveclapham6451 Před 4 lety +19

      Yeah but with a hole saw🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dimitartenchev9338
      @dimitartenchev9338 Před 4 lety +3

      @@imagineaworld Tell me bout it exept im at good terms with mine

  • @scottscouter1065
    @scottscouter1065 Před 4 lety +913

    As a marine biologist I must agree that having a porpoise in life is essential to happiness.

    • @toasty4000000
      @toasty4000000 Před 4 lety +220

      As an electrical enginerd I can attest that you serve to gain the greatest potential in points of your life where you are most impeded.

    • @EpicSoulSurvival
      @EpicSoulSurvival Před 4 lety +6

      Oorah

    • @ljohns9143
      @ljohns9143 Před 4 lety +52

      Life can be over whaleming but your comment gets my seal of approval .

    • @Kismetix
      @Kismetix Před 4 lety +26

      Hmmm...I think you were fishing for that one

    • @StoutProper
      @StoutProper Před 4 lety +17

      Scott Scouter so long and thanks for all the fish

  • @aterthune
    @aterthune Před 3 lety +607

    My stepdad wanted me to let you know that I'm currently watching this as a homework assignment for trade school!

    • @arduinoversusevil2025
      @arduinoversusevil2025  Před 3 lety +255

      Bwahahahahahaha! Tell your instructor to get back to work!

    • @kobirubin166
      @kobirubin166 Před 3 lety +36

      Start calling him dad...

    • @aterthune
      @aterthune Před 3 lety +28

      @@kobirubin166 I think my dad would have something to say about that 😂

    • @snap-off5383
      @snap-off5383 Před 3 lety +14

      @@arduinoversusevil2025 Yeah "today we're going to watch a video class". Of course with this video, Aaron got his money's worth of learning for that semester.

    • @markbroad119
      @markbroad119 Před 3 lety +8

      Mike Rowe is also a good one to get you to do a trade. His speech to the boy Scouts.

  • @garelius
    @garelius Před 4 lety +164

    Another small tip. Just do something. Once you are moving then you can adjust where you’re heading. Getting off your arse in the first place is the hard part. Some people just stay there for ever dreaming of their goals.

    • @longbow6416
      @longbow6416 Před 3 lety +1

      Best way to get moving is to first get off your ass -probably someone important

    • @infinitycubed9311
      @infinitycubed9311 Před 3 lety +1

      Darn right. You can’t steer a car that isn’t in motion.

    • @MrSkeltal268
      @MrSkeltal268 Před 3 lety +3

      Paralysis of analysis

    • @blockededited8280
      @blockededited8280 Před 3 lety +3

      "another small tip" is what she said

    • @kaptein1247
      @kaptein1247 Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly. Thats why I want to work for a boss. Freelancing will kill me

  • @umbra1016
    @umbra1016 Před 4 lety +344

    "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life." - Picard

    • @GlennHamblin
      @GlennHamblin Před 4 lety +2

      Picard's a wimp! How did he ever get command of a starship? 😎

    • @zeljkoradojkovic6159
      @zeljkoradojkovic6159 Před 4 lety +21

      When you can't win, Kobayashi Maru it

    • @ElJohnerino
      @ElJohnerino Před 4 lety +1

      @@zeljkoradojkovic6159 Yeh. Not while eating an apple tho. That's just wank. :D

    • @bgd73
      @bgd73 Před 4 lety

      you can only think in yourself that you have lost.. if something goes that far, there is a crime in action.

    • @Adrianyoutubing
      @Adrianyoutubing Před 4 lety +1

      @@GlennHamblin Picard didnt need to be tuff he had that big hairy thing and the two robots to fight for him... oh and that cute homosexual fella with the nice flashlight.

  • @davidrichardson376
    @davidrichardson376 Před 4 lety +321

    Thanks for the words of wisdom Coach. I just turned 80' a couple of weeks ago having lived my dream as a self employed Pro' Electronics Engineer. Now my Goal is to landscape my sloping half-acre, just so long as I keep waking up in the mornings. lol.

  • @tvathome562
    @tvathome562 Před 4 lety +237

    "Your life wasn't built in a day", your damn right according to my mummy my life was made in a 2 minute fumble in back of a machinists workshop. Dad?

  • @mrbanana7167
    @mrbanana7167 Před 4 lety +406

    I'm 15, turning 16 in 10 days, and I think this is the thing to get me to finally do shit I want to. Thanks.

    • @natemaia9237
      @natemaia9237 Před 4 lety +31

      Fucking do it man, we all get old too fast

    • @maverick1685
      @maverick1685 Před 4 lety +11

      Learn to think for yourself and apply Logic and Reason to ALL Problems.

    • @charleswindsor7835
      @charleswindsor7835 Před 4 lety +9

      go and do it. things will go wrong in places but that will happen no matter what you do, so just get out there and do your best... good luck.

    • @ORflycaster
      @ORflycaster Před 4 lety +15

      Go GET some! Most of us older dudes WISH we could go back at try life again at your age. It goes FAST, so spend it wisely, and with purpose!!

    • @lachlanhatcher9108
      @lachlanhatcher9108 Před 4 lety +8

      This comment genuinely has the best community right now, oh and happy birthday Mr Banana

  • @joewaun894
    @joewaun894 Před 4 lety +164

    I agree %1000 at 19 i joined a shop witch had robotic welders ( where i started ) and after hours id stay after and come in early off of the clock to learn how to weld from guys who have done it for years after several months i was good enough to mig weld for that shop and they put me to work then i i wanted to learn how to tig weld and learned that in a couple of months i busted my ass and achieved one of my dreams at 20 years old, and another lesson i thing some other younger guys should know if you have to WALK AWAY if it is harming you in a significant way. or you have experienced it and are not happy don't do something you don't want to do because before you know it your 40 and miserable. i ended up leaving that shop for similar reasons now im following another dream of mine. AND GUYS DON'T LET YOUR FEAR OF BEING EMASCULATED GET IN THE WAY OF ASKING FOR HELP. nothing wrong with needing help and something for the older guys never to old to learn something ive taught several older guys some new tricks. Thanks Ave for the video perfect timing for me right now with my current goal in mind it will be a very difficult one both physically and mentally. i hope one day you have a fan day or something so i can buy you some beer and have a chat.

  • @Cameron_J
    @Cameron_J Před 4 lety +151

    When you get too tired to work in the shop you can always retire as a therapist.

    • @neilwilson5785
      @neilwilson5785 Před 4 lety +13

      I doubt that. Not sure AvE is a therapist channel. It's an avoiding needing a therapist channel.

    • @wtfudc
      @wtfudc Před 4 lety

      Or start writing self help books

    • @TCreatorO
      @TCreatorO Před 4 lety +4

      @@wtfudc he just summarized them all for you, no need to write a whole book for something he just explained in less than 19 minutes

  • @fastjeffy
    @fastjeffy Před rokem +6

    I’m 30 and I’ve probably listened to this 30 times. I wish I would’ve heard this when I was 18 instead of being told that I needed an attainable job with security. Fast forward 12 years; I’ve graduated college and quit the 8-5. I’m now living my dream which is selling classic cars and parts. I’m happily married. We have a beautiful home. This video helps keep me on track and helped me realize there’s things that I was doing that helped me short term but not long term. Your time is precious and don’t let anyone undervalue it.

  • @syops
    @syops Před 3 lety +226

    42 isnt nonsensical.
    The ASCII code 42 is for the asterisk symbol, being a wildcard for everything.
    That basically means the answer to the meaning of life is "whatever you want it to be"
    Decades and people still dont realize the author was a computer geek too.

    • @JohnRay1969
      @JohnRay1969 Před 3 lety +1

      @@pirobot668beta I'm confused by your math or at least the inclusion of an incorrect equation. Can you elaborate?

    • @truthspace5525
      @truthspace5525 Před 3 lety +1

      @@pirobot668beta
      6 X 7 = 42.
      It makes sense because they asked a computer.

    • @tsriftsal3581
      @tsriftsal3581 Před 2 lety

      @@pirobot668beta you easily count to 60 with your fingers.

    • @abunchofhooplah7908
      @abunchofhooplah7908 Před 2 lety +1

      6x7=42, in days of yore Earth was related to the number 6 and Heaven equated with the number 7.

    • @maxnovakovics2568
      @maxnovakovics2568 Před 2 lety +2

      @@tsriftsal3581 its not been made instinctual to count on your knuckles everyone just counts their big fat fingers.

  • @hohoking5150
    @hohoking5150 Před 4 lety +370

    "Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right."
    - Henry Ford -

    • @halvibe
      @halvibe Před 4 lety +10

      It was said a flippin long time before him by some Guru in a far off land . Effing Henry didn't think that one up. He was a plagiarist. --- (Effing is short for efforting.)

    • @severusfloki5778
      @severusfloki5778 Před 3 lety +6

      @@TaylorRaeS1 All internet quotes are bullshit. Only God knows who told them first.

    • @Steveshappylittletrees
      @Steveshappylittletrees Před 3 lety +9

      Fun fact: Henry Ford and Hitler were buddies.

    • @jinyow5581
      @jinyow5581 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Steveshappylittletrees And your point ?

    • @Steveshappylittletrees
      @Steveshappylittletrees Před 3 lety

      @@jinyow5581 - You're not the sharpest knife in the drawer are ya?

  • @deadsettom9054
    @deadsettom9054 Před 4 lety +328

    It's sad that some people never figure this out. Embracing the suck is a vital life skill.

    • @tstricklin4808
      @tstricklin4808 Před 4 lety +3

      Agreed 👍 thats my mantra

    • @Bishop0178
      @Bishop0178 Před 4 lety +8

      It isn´t taught anymore. Those kids can´t learn that without suitable rolemodels.
      I was taught by my Grandpa, who knew what it meant to work for a living through the hardships of the 20s and 30s.

    • @borttorbbq2556
      @borttorbbq2556 Před 4 lety +3

      You shouldn't really embrace it we should acknowledge it

    • @gordonlawrence4749
      @gordonlawrence4749 Před 4 lety +4

      Not being scared of failing is important too.

    • @RedesCat
      @RedesCat Před 4 lety +8

      Try telling the wife 😒

  • @MatteoVitello216
    @MatteoVitello216 Před 3 lety +14

    I come back and watch this video every so often. Never had a pops to talk to me about most of this.
    Thank you, it means a lot.

  • @fastjeffy
    @fastjeffy Před rokem +20

    Listened to this three times. One of the best anecdotes I’ve ever heard. Had a difficult time loading a land yacht of an old Pontiac by myself out in BFE today. Kept thinking of the phrase “the toughest man alive award is up for grabs every day.” Suddenly this huge challenge I faced was enjoyable. Car is loaded and I’m heading home. Thanks for the pep talk Uncle Bumblefuck

  • @willcullen8415
    @willcullen8415 Před 4 lety +361

    "It is wholly possible to become a divine man without anybody's recognition" - Marcus Aurelius

    • @mortarman4216
      @mortarman4216 Před 4 lety +2

      Best comment

    • @Big_AlMC
      @Big_AlMC Před 3 lety +4

      @Aleksey Lantsman Nah I neeeeeed pats on the back and Validation. Here let me post a scant pic onto Instagram to fill my Validation void 😂😂

    • @calelochonic3407
      @calelochonic3407 Před 3 lety +2

      Where's the fun in that. Way better to become a holy man with the recognition of your old lady.

    • @davidelliott5843
      @davidelliott5843 Před 3 lety

      We are told to set achievable goals because that keeps us in our place.
      Big goals need to be tempered with reality so choose something likely to happen but keep moving the goalposts.

    • @calelochonic3407
      @calelochonic3407 Před 3 lety +2

      @@davidelliott5843 Apollo boys would disagree. Too the moon Alice.

  • @albertcastle7786
    @albertcastle7786 Před 4 lety +195

    Uncle I'm going through a bad depression and this video is a game changer. I needed this step by step. I wish I was younger because I don't have mental toughness. I am drowning in my sorrow. I don't lie, steal or do drugs/beer and I'm broken. Because I am disrespected and stay and take it. Kind of like when a woman stays with a partner that beats her. One would think "leave". I stay and suffer. Uncle your and other CZcams's videos help me escape/cope with what I'm going through. Thanks. I need u to keep doing and being who u are. A hero in eyes with your mind/spirt as your super power. Thank you.

    • @remodz6385
      @remodz6385 Před 4 lety +34

      Albert Castle You only got one life brother, you Choose how you spend it. Nothing changes until you change it. You decide, but ultimately you can’t help anyone else until you put yourself first and foremost. Hit me up if you need to chat anytime.

    • @richardharding7767
      @richardharding7767 Před 4 lety +6

      Albert Castle
      Wish I could say something to help you out, but I feel it was all pretty well said in this video already.
      You ever need som more advice like this though I would recommend bill burr

    • @remodz6385
      @remodz6385 Před 4 lety +2

      Bill Burr has a good outlook, but that’s not his forte...
      I would recommend also Jay Shetty.

    • @albertcastle7786
      @albertcastle7786 Před 4 lety

      @@richardharding7767 thanks

    • @PinataOblongata
      @PinataOblongata Před 4 lety +19

      I turn 40 next month and only just learning these lessons, but there's nothing you can do about time gone by, just have to start trying to do the right thing today. If you know you should leave your situation, then LEAVE IT. You don't want to wake up another ten years from now in the same fucking place with the knowledge that you knew and still did nothing. You might not even get another 10 years, you could be hit by a bus or get a cancer diagnosis or any number of things could happen, life is short, don't waste it like I have. And if you need to develop mental toughness, treat it like building muscle at the gym - start small and build up over time with consistency, you don't have to go straight from zero to hero in a week. And don't quit altogether if you come off the rails a bit - as long as you keep getting back on, that's the crucial thing.

  • @spagsketti
    @spagsketti Před 4 lety +37

    I've painted cars and industrial stuff my entire life, Early on a boss told me, "your only as good as your last paint job" I made sure every paint job was perfect. The other one I heard was "anyone can paint, knowing what to do when shit goes wrong (and it will) makes a good painter".

    • @TheDigigram
      @TheDigigram Před 4 lety +5

      As an Engineer, this last one is especially true. Anyone can use an online calculator and wikipedia to do 80% of my job, but when shit hits the fan (especially when "anyone" tried to do it), then you need me. I can paint a car no problem, but it will look like bird shit, that's wherein the difference lie!

    • @joebuckaroo82
      @joebuckaroo82 Před rokem

      I have question about the the first of the aphorisms you mentioned. What if you are an excellent car painter and one day, for some reason, you accidentally misreads the work order (or some such) and f*** up the job. Are you a f***ed up painter? or did you just f*** up? I'd suggest that we ALL do that. An excellent person licks his bruises, gets up, fixes the problem, and goes on.

  • @Habitatu
    @Habitatu Před 3 lety +9

    God I wish I had this at 18. 35 now and I feel like I have barely reached base camp. Slacked my whole life. Complained. Moaned. Gave up. Made excuses. Took the easy path. I look back at the last 15 years and think what have I done? Just a fuck ton of mental gymnastics. This video is inspiring and vital. Thank you.

  • @slownbroke6582
    @slownbroke6582 Před 4 lety +197

    I'm 24 now, just put $12k out of pocket into buying my first house (a project house) a day after my bday. 3 months into it now, lots of drywall, click lock, and a ton of stress later.. my house is nearly finished. I owe less than half of what its worth, and I have it mapped out to have it paid off before I'm 30.
    Can't be "depressed" when you're busy. A lot of people mistake bordem with "depression", and you broke down exactly why that is. I appreciate this video man, its going in my archive.

  • @JeremyMcMillan
    @JeremyMcMillan Před 4 lety +548

    I hope you're not getting tired of this rant, because you're good at it, graybeard style.

    • @imagineaworld
      @imagineaworld Před 4 lety +4

      @@melissahill7930 grandmas boy is the greatest movie ever, period xD

  • @kylewellman402
    @kylewellman402 Před rokem +11

    This was the best video i didnt realize i needed to watch, so i watched it twice. Yeah i have goals and ambitions for myself. Start my own machine shop, finally reached my goal of becoming an official engineer, but i have so much more to learn. I love the path of engineering because you will never stop learning. I love machining, making something from raw stock or what other people lable as junk or trash. But there was so much more in this video i didnt realize i wasnt doing. Thank you for being my coach

  • @lucasgardner6189
    @lucasgardner6189 Před 3 lety +11

    I didn't realize I needed to hear this today, and I would never have expected to hear it here. Thank you so much

  • @nickamburgey9738
    @nickamburgey9738 Před 4 lety +512

    I just took the most inspired dump of my whole life, thanks AvE!

    • @arduinoversusevil2025
      @arduinoversusevil2025  Před 4 lety +95

      You know it's a good one when the choir of angels sing 'Halefuckinglulia!'

    • @prybarknives
      @prybarknives Před 4 lety +6

      @@arduinoversusevil2025 I feel like there were a few Peterson-isms sprinkled in there... I approve.

    • @benjiman46
      @benjiman46 Před 4 lety +3

      @@arduinoversusevil2025 every time I have a dump at the minute, I hear Zadok the Priest when the eagle lands. I've got sciatica and I'm on a lot of opiate pain killers. My insides are as plugged up as a hibernating fucking bear. It's not only good enough for the Queen's coronation......

    • @thetizzleforshizzle
      @thetizzleforshizzle Před 4 lety +1

      Really makes the porta-shitter seem less shitty

    • @chrisprince5313
      @chrisprince5313 Před 4 lety

      @@arduinoversusevil2025 like you just exited an organ!

  • @patmoore5107
    @patmoore5107 Před 4 lety +78

    I'm a music teacher in the US. I teach band and guitar. I give a "school friendly" version of this speech at least 10 times a year. Amen to all of this.

    • @wolfmanrebel874
      @wolfmanrebel874 Před 4 lety +7

      If you want the kids to listen you have to grab their attention..how so you grab a teenagers attention?? Be unpredictable,I'm sure everyone expects you to be polite ,proper ,boring teacher right? While myself as an older individual can appreciate that how ever I think you should try giving the speech EXACTLY word for word the video,every ear and every eye will be welding every word into every brain...that's just how teen minds work

    • @patmoore5107
      @patmoore5107 Před 4 lety

      Bunty McCunty I rarely show movies or videos in my classes.
      His videos are flagged as inappropriate at my school. I have to wait until I get home to watch them.

    • @patmoore5107
      @patmoore5107 Před 4 lety +1

      Bighorn44 None I had a college professor once tell me they we a horrible teacher. They knew how to play and could help with musicianship, but technique always came easy. They never had to work at it.
      Technique was hard for me, but I do struggle teaching some aspects of musicianship and audiation, those were easy for me. I’ve had to learn how to teach those things to my students.
      It’s easy to teach something that was hard to learn as you had to try every method until one worked. Uncle Bumblefuck mentioned that in the video.

  • @TheGatecrasher53
    @TheGatecrasher53 Před 3 lety +16

    "The truest repairman will repair man"

  • @marineboyy1
    @marineboyy1 Před 3 lety +11

    This actually really helped. I'm 23 and have been feeling a little disheartened, but this might've been the kick in the ass I needed

  • @johnmorgan1677
    @johnmorgan1677 Před 4 lety +36

    An old saying my Dad used was " The man who made no mistakes made nothing" great advice about do it when you are young.

  • @xntumrfo9ivrnwf
    @xntumrfo9ivrnwf Před 4 lety +126

    Really amazing video! Along the same lines, this quote has stuck with me for many years and has helped in trying times:
    "Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
    Calvin Coolidge"

  • @johnpitschi9417
    @johnpitschi9417 Před 3 lety +1

    Everything I have tried to tell my son but refuses to listen to...beautiful wit, the words of "every man" with the voice of Garrison Keillor. Pure beauty and genius! Love it!

  • @ORflycaster
    @ORflycaster Před 4 lety +9

    I wish Uncle Bumblefuck would go on a speaking tour to high schools around the country (USA). This is the information the "guidance counselors" will never give kids, but it needs to be explained just like this! Well done sir.
    Ironically, I'm here 30+ years and a career later since high school, setting new goals for the next 30+. The wisdom is still 100% applicable. Thanks Uncle B.

  • @oldpete3153
    @oldpete3153 Před 4 lety +40

    This is without a doubt the best video I've seen on here.....at 70 yr's of age I can tell you this is the real deal. I started working at 15 and went hammer down till 65 then throttled back to part time at 65....I set goals my whole life and can honestly say I never gave up without a fight and seldom missed the target, if the job got boring with no challenge I left and took on a new direction and learned something new...this here should be manditory viewing for everyone of school age.

    • @TommyBoy7Heads
      @TommyBoy7Heads Před 4 lety +1

      Sly & Shifty this video really does hit the nail on the head. Congrats on your throttle back. Sounds like you deserve it. Respect.

  • @xAreWhyAyEn
    @xAreWhyAyEn Před 4 lety +111

    You're a good man Uncle Bumblefuck. We're fortunate to have you around.

    • @freddieh5539
      @freddieh5539 Před 4 lety +3

      AvE is like Jordan Peterson with a potty mouth. They're both right, though.

    • @kefkaZZZ
      @kefkaZZZ Před 4 lety

      Possibly the most coherent Uncle Bumblefuck of all. When UBF Society has its annual meeting this guy gets kicked out for being too damn smart.

    • @davidhawley1132
      @davidhawley1132 Před 4 lety +1

      Freddie H I heard too much Jordan B eclecticism in this vidjeo to be a coincidence.

  • @eggnog200021
    @eggnog200021 Před 3 lety +49

    Have you ever heard the quote from Douglass Adams? "I love deadlines, I love the whooshing sound they make as they go past."

  • @andrewl7211
    @andrewl7211 Před rokem +7

    This video is succinct. You’ve vocalised and summerised my beliefs in a way that I couldn’t. I’m writing a life guide for my son, in very uncertain and scary times in Europe. Because I’m believe that his life will present more challenges than mine. Your words (although full of jest and mirth) are important and hold meaning. A Canadian engineers truth is truth of logic, I wish I’d read this 20yrs ago.

  • @xvillin
    @xvillin Před 4 lety +64

    This is my kind of TED talk. What I mean by “TED” is “This Edumacated Dickhead”.
    Love this guy.

  • @lenny2137
    @lenny2137 Před 4 lety +73

    Finger banging the bell of the ball 😂😂😂😂 Ah man best line ever 😂😂😂😂

  • @coppercore6287
    @coppercore6287 Před 3 lety +18

    This is one of the most inspirational videos I've seen in some time. He may call himself Uncle Bumbmblefuck, but he sure as fuck has more of a clue than so many people out there it feels like.

  • @Pappaoh
    @Pappaoh Před 3 lety +4

    Truth truth truth! Preach! I was assessed at 13 years old as having a 2nd grade reading ability after never having attended school. At 18, I wasn't much better after being passed through school when my parents were reported to the county and I was forced to enter school, but I had goals and dreams. I reached the largest of milestones I could conceive of in 2012 when I received my B.S. in mechanical engineering. Life is nothing without goals and without impacting the ones around you. AvE, this is where I come from when I say, as I have said for years now in your comments, you make the world a better place. Thank you and never give in to the winter floss temptation my friend. I hope to meat you one day.

    • @fredjones5698
      @fredjones5698 Před 2 lety +1

      rags to riches for sure man, you beat the odds and im damn glad that you did

  • @eman99a
    @eman99a Před 4 lety +26

    When my dad died, it was like a library burned to the ground.

    • @andyt704
      @andyt704 Před 4 lety +2

      So true

    • @finalfencing
      @finalfencing Před 4 lety +10

      He did his job though for you to say this. He’s still with you

    • @krisbuildit5149
      @krisbuildit5149 Před 4 lety +5

      That's a very honorable way to explain he was awesome. Now be the same dad to your children and he is honored X1000000

  • @anotheruser9876
    @anotheruser9876 Před 4 lety +143

    "When you are working the wood it's real exciting for the first few minutes and then it tapers off, rapidly."
    I think of baseball when that happens. Makes me last longer.

    • @MrMarkraffaele
      @MrMarkraffaele Před 4 lety +3

      as in? When you are watching baseball it's real exciting for the first few minutes and then it tapers off, rapidly

  • @benjaminrhodes9611
    @benjaminrhodes9611 Před 3 lety +10

    This is better than any Ted Talk. Why doesn't this have 700,000,000 views? I'm going to make sure my Nephews see this.

    • @JohnRay1969
      @JohnRay1969 Před 3 lety

      They probably won't get it. The unfortunate thing about testosterone is it gives you the drive to excell but when your 15-20 yrs old you have no self control and adults are all double drags. Good luck, I don't envy your task.

  • @fxxthreez125
    @fxxthreez125 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Man, the amount of wisdom contained within this video is just crazy. Long story short, I was that dude, living with mom, fuckin around and playing video games all day every day. I won't lie, it's definitely fun for a little while, but after about 5 years I was in fact about ready to off myself because I was indeed miserable. I had no money, no car, no job, no motivation, no goals, no aspirations, no hope for my own life. Once I figured out a lot of the stuff that is spoken about in this video, I was finally able to start pulling myself out of that hole. By no means is it easy, shit, I've been at it a couple years now and I'm still not fully out of that hole, but I have come a long way in a fairly short period of time. Nowadays I'm an apprentice mechanic, I have my own car, my own money, my own goals and dreams, and the motivation to work towards making them happen. If you're a young person struggling to find your way in this world like me, listen up and listen real good to what ol AvE has to say here. There's a pretty good chance it'll help you out a lot. Take it from me, a guy that's seen both sides of this particular coin.

  • @edwardcdg
    @edwardcdg Před 4 lety +113

    This is the most important/significant/serious post AvE has made in the years I have followed his channel.

    • @philgallagher1
      @philgallagher1 Před 4 lety +3

      You can't've seen many, because we get a liberal (small 'l') sprinkling of these kind of "advice from a common man to common men & Women' vids. Sometimes it's during a teardown, other times it could be a noteable news story (collapsing bridges, falling cranes etc) or just something occurs to Mr AvE during a vid.
      It's one of the reasons people keep coming back.

    • @adamadamhoney
      @adamadamhoney Před 4 lety +1

      What's the vijeo with the learning curve / jack of all trades type discussion. I think it was the first one he did. Has it been removed or was it in another vij?

    • @CooleKip1
      @CooleKip1 Před 4 lety +1

      @@adamadamhoney It was a video where he was welding something, he used the same curve to explain the difference in knowledge that goes into stick welding versus mig welding

    • @edwardcdg
      @edwardcdg Před 4 lety +1

      @@philgallagher1 This is good advice absent his usual blather. That is pretty unique.
      I watch for technical points but his gibberish gets in the way.
      People keep coming back for his un-PC monolog. If he cut it out, the vids would be 5 minutes long and nobody would watch them.

    • @edwardcdg
      @edwardcdg Před 4 lety +1

      @@adamadamhoney He recently flushed a bunch of early vids.

  • @briangarrow448
    @briangarrow448 Před 4 lety +72

    I've built nuclear reactors and cleaned out fatbergs in city sewer systems. And raised 6 successful young adults who are all good citizens. Not a one in prison or raising delinquent grandchildren. My life is complete. And I did my screwups before I started a family.

    • @raven4140
      @raven4140 Před 4 lety

      Crushing

    • @briangarrow448
      @briangarrow448 Před 4 lety +31

      @@davidparker667 It's more likely that I will disappoint them. Grandpa dates sketchy women.😃

    • @finnice
      @finnice Před 4 lety +4

      Haha you’re great 👌🏻

  • @whiffy506
    @whiffy506 Před 3 lety +21

    Twenties suck. Right now my only goal is to finish paying off my car and getting the f out of my parents house. While I’m here though, I’m paying every single house bill for them and also doing grocery shopping for them. I am maintaining them now, while I’m here I’ll be the man of the house.
    I’ve been pretty fucking lost lately regarding to my purpose but you’ve helped me see my goal right now are correct, as not only am I learning to be responsible but also helping my parents along the way. They’re giving me this house when they’re gone, might as well take care of it right damn now.
    I don’t know where I’m going with all this banter, just want to thank you for your bit of light along my way.

  • @coreyhubert1728
    @coreyhubert1728 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I've listened to this before but I needed to listen again today. I'm a dad, husband, Army vet, engineering career field. Taking grad school courses to get my MS Mechanical engineering and I just found out I did not pass my class (differential equations on steroids) this semester. Felt bad for myself about it for a day or 2 thinking about having to retake that dreaded class and about the $$$$ I wasted because I didn't put in the work needed. Taking it as a lesson learned that I need to relearn academic discipline after having been in industry for a few years and out of the classroom bubble. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. You didn't have to, but you did.

  • @masonthomas2514
    @masonthomas2514 Před 4 lety +206

    As an 18 year old in college learning to weld, this helps more than you know AvE

    • @jayfitmob8645
      @jayfitmob8645 Před 4 lety +24

      You have just witnessed a video that depicts something known as wisdom. This is something that cannot be taught, it can only be learned. This is something that is learned through years and years of pain, turmoil and struggle. I'm glad at 18 years old you're able to appreciate this, you are on to great things.

    • @DolphinPain
      @DolphinPain Před 4 lety +3

      I'm a music student and it helps

    • @reiyuki
      @reiyuki Před 4 lety +7

      @@jayfitmob8645 Wisdom can indeed be taught, but it only comes from a select few people at very rare times.
      The hardest thing is being able to recognize wisdom when it shows itself.

    • @JB-lr9lx
      @JB-lr9lx Před 4 lety +8

      I'm at the far end of my working career, and Community College is your best friend. Take all the machinist classes offered, I never worked a single day as a machinist, but the knowledge gained was invaluable as a mechanic and later as an electrician. Do it now- college or vocational school is SO much easier to do at 20 versus 40. But if you're 40, still do it, you've still got time to change your life.

    • @ventureelect
      @ventureelect Před 4 lety +1

      Nice play on words lol.

  • @Hakugard
    @Hakugard Před 4 lety +48

    I start University to read Electrical Engineering Monday. Thank you AvE for helping me give my life meaning and helping me set my goals over the last 2 years.

    • @OOJJLLAAG
      @OOJJLLAAG Před 24 dny

      Are you done with your studies?

  • @etiennesavard3764
    @etiennesavard3764 Před 3 lety +3

    When I uncertain about something in my life, this is what I watch. By far the best motivation video.

  • @KiwiTheIguana
    @KiwiTheIguana Před 3 lety +5

    I watched this when you first uploaded it, every now and then I go back and give it another watch because it's the kind of life advice you'll be hard-pressed to find. Fortunately, I'm still a young fella only 22, and this kind of thing is what makes me want to go out and get shit done rather than sit around playing games and painting Warhammer minis while wallowing in my own self-loathing.

  • @ferventheat
    @ferventheat Před 4 lety +98

    Rome wasn't built in a day, but that was the builders original estimate

    • @Intermernet
      @Intermernet Před 4 lety +1

      Not if they were charging by the hour!

    • @satyris410
      @satyris410 Před 4 lety

      Dread to think of the costings

    • @jasong9502
      @jasong9502 Před 4 lety +1

      The unions caulked it all up

    • @nuthinbuttrubl89
      @nuthinbuttrubl89 Před 4 lety +1

      Two weeks

    • @JCGver
      @JCGver Před 4 lety

      @@Intermernet Depends if they can charge extra for overtime

  • @shayne7300
    @shayne7300 Před 4 lety +65

    My life choices led me to two options...
    Become a Example or a Warning..
    I multiskilled and became both..

  • @yugen
    @yugen Před 3 lety +1

    Every government should pay every one of it's citizens $100 to watch this video up to 10 times, the world would be a much better place

  • @neildewald325
    @neildewald325 Před 3 lety +3

    Absolutely a great speech. All 7th graders should hear your message. I found your talk to be fresh and truthful. Kids need to hear this and a lot of adults also.

  • @sailingitlldo1109
    @sailingitlldo1109 Před 4 lety +47

    42 in ASCII is the symbol *, which in programming means " Anything you want it to"!

    • @firstsurname9893
      @firstsurname9893 Před 4 lety +3

      TIL the asterisk has five points in sans-serif fonts and six points in serif fonts.

    • @thnksno
      @thnksno Před 4 lety

      Like the pound sign?

    • @johnbecker8768
      @johnbecker8768 Před 4 lety

      Right, the wildcard search character.

  • @toomdog
    @toomdog Před 4 lety +32

    Well said. I was sitting on my parent's couch doing drugs when I was 25. No job, no ambitions. No Goals.
    I got cleaned up and started going to school and I'm now an engineer with my EIT. Never would have dreamed in a million years I would be where I am today if I hadn't started working and trying to improve a little every day.

  • @JL-gt6bg
    @JL-gt6bg Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for making me such a great father. All I had to do was send this video to my kids! Seriously, well said and we can only hope it sinks in to the younger group! Let's just hope they hear it from anothers voice

  • @geordiemik72
    @geordiemik72 Před 3 lety +28

    Why didn't I find this 50 years ago? No wonder I'm sitting here wondering where the hell my life went...

    • @irszgatti
      @irszgatti Před 3 lety

      Well how old are ya now?

    • @geordiemik72
      @geordiemik72 Před 3 lety

      @@irszgatti I made it to 69!

    • @Crazyfish66
      @Crazyfish66 Před 3 lety

      It's what you do today for tomorrow that's important.

    • @caviestcaveman8691
      @caviestcaveman8691 Před 3 lety +1

      @@geordiemik72 24 yr old i know its not much but I started restoring old cast iron skillets and cookware and I've been really enjoying it

    • @geordiemik72
      @geordiemik72 Před 3 lety

      @@caviestcaveman8691 I'm often surprised at what folks get up to! I would never have thought of that.

  • @shermdog6969
    @shermdog6969 Před 4 lety +70

    One of the best garage talks I've heard in my 45 years.

    • @Camstro80
      @Camstro80 Před 4 lety

      As 38 yr old I've heard a lot and also missed out a lot. I've always hung out and listened to the older crowd around me. But I'm still not savvy on certain things that we should have been taught in school or as young men. I also look at the people around me and wonder how they would ever survive a major catastrophe......

  • @MrSleepProductionsInc
    @MrSleepProductionsInc Před 4 lety +380

    Has a 5 axis cnc machine but doesn’t have a hole saw. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @njvannoordwyk7906
      @njvannoordwyk7906 Před 4 lety +45

      That is what you took from the vjo, really 🤣. Still a fair question.

    • @timothyg4426
      @timothyg4426 Před 4 lety +13

      Anything is a hole saw with enough brain power and duct tape.

    • @calebreutener870
      @calebreutener870 Před 4 lety +37

      Murphy's law. You NEVER have the right tools on hand.

    • @chrisestill8825
      @chrisestill8825 Před 4 lety +59

      3 hours programming and fixturing to machine the perfect hole, or 2 minutes hacking out one that will work. Time vs reward

    • @bonjourmssr
      @bonjourmssr Před 4 lety +17

      I'm a woodworker and I got TRIGGERED

  • @thedudeamongmengs2051
    @thedudeamongmengs2051 Před 4 lety +2

    This is genuinely exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you.

  • @Robnord1
    @Robnord1 Před 3 lety +2

    So glad I chose to go back and view those from before I subbed!
    Every point was golden and masterfully stated. Old man (who has learned many of these things the hard way) approved. 🏆 Thank You.

  • @shenqiangshou
    @shenqiangshou Před 4 lety +34

    I came for the usual AvE hilarity, but stayed for genuinely sage life advise. Thank you.

    • @JeremyLogan
      @JeremyLogan Před 4 lety

      After my (unwanted) divorce I fell apart and ended up in weekly counseling sessions.
      AvE basically summed up 6 months worth of counseling in less than 20 minutes. The largest part being finding your goals (or in my case, new goals).
      Bravo.

  • @SDLAX46
    @SDLAX46 Před 4 lety +47

    This needs to be played at every high school graduation...wise words from my favorite uncle!

    • @Chris03121957
      @Chris03121957 Před 4 lety +3

      @Dante007 I'd say the sooner the better. Like right about the age of 13 kids can handle this and should.

    • @Mainline2U
      @Mainline2U Před 4 lety

      Another comment asked: "Is there a way you could do a clean version so I could show it to my students?."
      I replied:
      IMO, NO! It would dilute the message.
      This talk is the shit sandwich they need to hear about life, and they might as well learn to get used to shit sandwiches early on.

  • @bobwoods5017
    @bobwoods5017 Před 3 lety +3

    You are spot on. Forced to retire, if I'm busy on a project, life is good.
    Without any project, I can't even get out of bed.
    I build stuff for friends out off stuff just laying around.
    Only costs me my time.
    Makes them happy a that keeps me content.

  • @alecalec321
    @alecalec321 Před 3 lety +43

    I realize I'm late the dance as fuckin' always...but I actually really needed to hear this today bud. Thanks for the vidjeos, you are greatly appreciated.

  • @michaelcrockis7679
    @michaelcrockis7679 Před 4 lety +32

    I've learned two lessons today.
    1. To have a reason of life I must be a jet fighter pilot.
    2. Ave is able to scare a bear.

  • @wlrottge
    @wlrottge Před 4 lety +321

    42 is ASCII for the asterisk character, the asterisk is a wild card in many computer languages... So... 42 is another way to say the meaning of life could be anything

  • @chadchambers5057
    @chadchambers5057 Před 3 lety +1

    Watching this a year later, my life as a 36 year has failed, my business failed, just went through a break up last night, great video to watch, should’ve watched it a year ago. My birthday is in 2 weeks and i’m going to take what I learned and use it. Thank you for helping me when I needed it most.

  • @rawevoli
    @rawevoli Před rokem +9

    Saw this when he first uploaded it, I really took it to heart. I just finished my aa in college and didn't know what direction to head to, so I went back to school for auto tech. Ended up learning a lot by working three different trades. After a few years, an opportunity came up to own my own business. In only a couple of years, I went from jobless to an apprentice to a CEO. If I didn't see this video, I probably would still feel like a lost kid not wanting to grow up. I can't thank you enough AvE.

  • @kain0m
    @kain0m Před 4 lety +12

    The truth... It is so underestimated. Once you stop doing the little convenient lies, you're so much more free. No more worrying about when "they find out", you can focus on what's next, not what was.

  • @Kaptain13Gonzo
    @Kaptain13Gonzo Před 4 lety +64

    Dear Uncle Bumblefuck, Wise words in plain language. A philosopher with greasy hands and a worn coat. Signs of a life well lived. Cheers!

  • @DunnoImHigh
    @DunnoImHigh Před 3 lety

    This video helped me more than i could ever tell you. Not the step by step etc.. Just the attitude an setting a goal to get myself out the funk i was in! THANK YOU SO MUCH!

  • @everythingsucks6086
    @everythingsucks6086 Před 3 lety +2

    This video is the reason I like CZcams. Thank you Mr. AvE. This has helped more than you could ever know!

  • @goldenhazeduster
    @goldenhazeduster Před 4 lety +13

    The line between good and evil runs straight down the middle of every mans heart.

  • @bigbrickwall
    @bigbrickwall Před 4 lety +81

    A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.

    • @EdwinSteiner
      @EdwinSteiner Před 4 lety +5

      Those shoes, though, those are damn big, tough shoes!

    • @error.418
      @error.418 Před 4 lety +1

      Trump leverages that on the daily

  • @rustyzipperband
    @rustyzipperband Před 2 lety +2

    Hey AvE, that is the best and most realistic advice a person can get. Very well said. I think you are an awesome dude and hope you never quit sharing your knowledge and videos. Watching your videos brings me back to when I was able to talk, spend time, and ask my brother for advice on life, and girls. I just want to say thank you and I promise I will support you on Patreon when I get my shit straightened out. Kinda been rough for me lately.

  • @kylecroninger9686
    @kylecroninger9686 Před 3 lety +1

    This is exactly what I needed to hear in my life right now. Thanks man

  • @stuarthossack7906
    @stuarthossack7906 Před 4 lety +34

    Your little girl has a great Dad. Respect from the U.K.

  • @970paisa
    @970paisa Před 4 lety +73

    I have been watching AVE for a long while now. I have learned so much an a grown azz man. But this video I will sit all 3 of my sons down and have them watch this. Best video yet. Keep up the good work man. 🤛

    • @eriklenzing3288
      @eriklenzing3288 Před 4 lety +6

      It will change the course of their lives. No question.

  • @txtele
    @txtele Před 2 lety +1

    A sincere thank you! I have a 14-year-old son and and these questions are starting to come up.I caught this one day just working letting utube play and I've listened to it numerous times now. I really appreciate you taking the time to make this video! Good luck but who needs luck when you're willing to imagine dream work and just f-ing try

  • @alex_thecarguy
    @alex_thecarguy Před 3 lety +3

    I'll be honest, at first I was thinking some of this was obvious, but then I realized that I'm fortunate to have experiences that bolstered this beforehand. The sad fact is not everyone has those experiences, and for those who don't know where to turn or who to ask this is a very helpful video. So good on you sir. Keep doing what you do.

  • @Spooky_Dooky
    @Spooky_Dooky Před 4 lety +14

    Evrytime I feel down or I find myself facing the pit of disparity I come back to this video and it sets me straight again. Thank you for your content and your wisdom.

  • @DougsMessyGarage
    @DougsMessyGarage Před 4 lety +43

    Best description of "42" I have heard in a while.

    • @andyreid7274
      @andyreid7274 Před 4 lety +1

      Guide to the galaxy?

    • @martinee4901
      @martinee4901 Před 4 lety +4

      '42' refers to very early computer programming where [ 42 ] means [ whatever you want it to ] . Somebody who knows this can confirm it.

    • @fuzz992
      @fuzz992 Před 3 lety

      @@martinee4901 Its the ascii code for * known as a wild card and is still very common. (the asterisk is also used for pointers and multiplication depending on the application)

  • @lukecartwright1803
    @lukecartwright1803 Před 3 lety +2

    That was the most gritted bare bones life speech i ever heard. I loved it!!!!!

  • @benjaminwatkins7345
    @benjaminwatkins7345 Před 3 lety +19

    Rewriting goals a year later realizing they need to be quite a bit more lofty than what I had a year ago watching this for the first time.

  • @garryhammond7616
    @garryhammond7616 Před 4 lety +265

    Every notice how the thumbs up and thumbs down score follows your human sociopath equation.

    • @BIGb0SSH0g
      @BIGb0SSH0g Před 3 lety +1

      That is brilliant! There is your ratio.

    • @severusfloki5778
      @severusfloki5778 Před 3 lety

      What??

    • @garryhammond7616
      @garryhammond7616 Před 3 lety +1

      @@severusfloki5778 Ha Ha best reply ever.

    • @ehex3
      @ehex3 Před 3 lety

      Nah, just the margin of error. Some click the wrong button.

  • @SimonTrent8000
    @SimonTrent8000 Před 4 lety +63

    Thank you AVE, going to build my racecar now.

    • @MrGreenAKAguci00
      @MrGreenAKAguci00 Před 4 lety

      Make sure your cooling is on point. If you wanna go fast for a long time your worst enemy is overheating. Have some proper safety measures. Make sure the car is as efficient as possible, efficiency equals less pitstops, and less pit stops can win you a race. Go out there and be awesome.

    • @93da9tegsmom6
      @93da9tegsmom6 Před 4 lety +3

      Don't quit, and above all else... Don't listen to anyone. Agree with aVe, people suck. Everyone is self-serving and jealous. No one will want it more than you.

  • @repowergarage
    @repowergarage Před 3 lety +5

    Ave, You are my new favorite Canadian. You have officially bumped Red Green down to #2. Keep it Skookum bro!

  • @squaidinkarts
    @squaidinkarts Před 2 lety +4

    I come back to this video once in a while to remember where I started. I was failing classes despite trying my hardest because I didn't have the theoretical knowledge necessary for university after attending HVAC school. I ended up having to retake the entire year to get into university; I felt like giving up. Your advice helped me to toughen it out and now I am in university for an engineering degree in programming/computer science and I'm at my second year. Thank you.

  • @philbox4566
    @philbox4566 Před 4 lety +67

    One of my life goals is learning to put the cap on the Sharpie. ;)

  • @BaileyMSN
    @BaileyMSN Před 4 lety +80

    Man this hits me hard. Been out of a job for a week and living in a camper for 2. I needed something like this to remind me to not give up

    • @chrisfullauto6009
      @chrisfullauto6009 Před 4 lety +8

      Nothing wrong with living in an rv, I've been in mine for 2 years and can drag it where the work is.

    • @madbearforge8550
      @madbearforge8550 Před 4 lety +15

      I spent a bitter winter in a camper with no power on a construction site. I almost froze to death. Luckily, I didn’t. That was 12 years ago and things have got a lot better since then. You’re gonna be ok, man. Keep slugging

    • @gm3430
      @gm3430 Před 4 lety

      In regards to goals, seeing is believing is achieving. Constantly envision your success (maybe it's a job you want) and keep envisioning it while doing everything in you power to make it happen, and it often will.

    • @dannyb.4034
      @dannyb.4034 Před 4 lety +6

      May the wind be in your sail .

    • @danm1026
      @danm1026 Před 4 lety

      Im working a shit mechanic job living in an rv, 36* this morning! Life still rocks.

  • @Scoobyspace
    @Scoobyspace Před 3 lety +2

    The mans guide to self help without the fluff. I freakin love this.

  • @jameslane1272
    @jameslane1272 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Dude I watch this probably ever few month, you are truly motivating. This has really helped me a lot.

  • @belarm
    @belarm Před 4 lety +26

    "Ah, but a man's reach should exceed his grasp, Or what's a heaven for?"
    --Robert Browning

  • @rbmk__1000
    @rbmk__1000 Před 4 lety +229

    So bones was only covering for the captain when he said they were born pregnant

  • @laurenmccracken2104
    @laurenmccracken2104 Před 3 lety +1

    That was beautiful man. I've been asking 90 y/o since I was a kid about the meaning of life.