You Cheated With Your Ex, Those Aren't My Kids! | KARAMO
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- čas přidán 10. 04. 2024
- Raven says Victoria has been cheating on him off the rip and he knows that her babies aren't his biological kids! Victoria says she's talked to other guys but she's never been physical with anyone else since they've been together. The communication is clearly off, can Karamo help this young couple get to the root of their issues?
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No vehicle, no jobs, no home, no stable relationship, gotta run to mama, daddy & brother still. Ma’am stop having kids for now pls. This unstable asf for them kids.
Women need to understand if you decide to date a bum you will end up RAISING said bum!!
Unstable and unfair to the kids fasure smh
And he's up there crying, cry on the way to a job 🤦🏾♀️
Best thing is space, you can talk all you want about he's not a real man, he's lazy, and he can't find a job but it doesn't help to have a woman in your ear talking down to you disrespectfully, women disrespect men in the worst way when their depressed...it's very obvious in this comment section but guess what...If he got space from her, she would do something spiteful like get mad and use the kids against him 100 percent.
What we do know, out of his mouth, is he doesn't hold a job, that's not acceptable as a parent. As far as someone talking, down to him, if that bothers him, he needs to remove himself from the situation. They both are responsible for what they put up with, but those kids still have to eat. It is also NOT a fact that every woman gets spiteful and uses the kids against the father, most are so glad just to have the help. This sounds like all your experiences, and you're hurt, and it's obvious, to the people in the comment section, that some woman made you highly upset.
The intro was very "Maury" today....i was like what the😂😂😂
And I hate that for Karamo show
I was like is this Maury I thought it said Karamo 🤣😭
I’m digging the switch up 😂
The show is a spin off of maury and this along with wilkos are all under the same nbcuniversal tree.
but no for real😂😂
This dude slower than the first hour at work
Im weak😂😂😂😂
Girl…his brain cells clearly don’t get along
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 @kayshineajames5200, I love your comment! I can't stop laughing at this! Haaaaa
Let’s normalize walking away from toxicity.
Let's normalize not expecting fairytales from choosing instability and limited means.
Amen
He love her whole heartedly sweet he was a man to say that
He say that not meaning he retarded or anything . He only trying to help this young couple
Exactly this relationship is too toxic
“First thing is a job” for some reason had me CRYING😭
I heard that and it made me spit on my ohone from laughing 😂😂😂😂
I screamedd
Why in her right mind would she have two kids by a man with nothing to offer? This is tragic
Very tragic. But atleast they have love. 😂
He may have had something to offer at some point and he is lovable also it’s not about what a person has to offer what do you have to motivate a person to go get something to offer
😂The same reason you did all the dumb iish in relationships like we all have smh
Because D.ck Was On The Menu!😮 That Is All He Could Give Her!
Yep@@thomasyoung5013
She paying all the bills?
Man let that woman "Cheat" in "Peace"..
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😂😂right!!!
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Agreed
What? 😂😂😂😂
A man who does not WORK, DOES NOT EAT!!!
Ma'am you are better off on your own. This is another child you're dealing with.
LITERALLY
She said she had 3 children. Smh
The look on her face when he said all I need you to do is take me to work 😂😭
🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
His get up and go, got up and went...
@@SB-tc2jr 😂😂😂
Oh this took me Out 😂😂😂😩😩😩😩 I See It
Ikr!!! She was like really??!!!
He slow as hell. Sir take care of your kids!!!
I wouldn’t let him drive my car either hazard
Took the wrong out my mouth!!!!!😂😂😂 slow as pond water!!!
Hollering 😂
I don’t think the elevator goes all the way to the top. Sorry
Either he hooked on something or he have mental problem but if so she made him her man n had kids .
Sis, with all due respect Queen, you partnered with a lame.
She partnered with a boy in a man’s body. He’s 30 with no car or job 🤦🏽♀️
A walking liability, bro won’t even work
nah wrd
😂
She a lame too
He’s definitely delayed in a lot of areas but he can do it with some help!
yeah - agree
Sad but true!
I agree & yet she had kids with him. The S&x is probably great😂😂😖
That man knew them was his kids he was just trying to find an excuse of not being a good father
Looking just like him.....
Karamo is such a gem. I'm glad he's giving the father some tools he can use. The father might not be the sharpest tool in the shed, but neither is the mother. The young mother needs to stop having kids. You selected this man who doesn't help you, ma'am and you had not one but TWO KIDS. Wrap it up!
How bout close it up?
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This is all true.
My 3yr old talk better than him🤣🤣😭🤦🏾♀️
That’s how they do 😂
😅
😂😂😂😂😂
Good your 3 years old has Special needs Victoria be happy but don't mock other people's kids
Not everyone was properly educated. To be honest he strikes me as kinda challenged.
He sounds like a drunk, he’s been through some things most definitely. It’s something deeper
Lmaoooooooooo I know you meant well. But wow.
He just country 😂. Beyonce speaks this way.
I cried when he hugged her & apologized. You can tell he loves her so much. May God help this couple ❤
He loves that she take care of him
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Did we watch the same show? Ok gurl
Love?? You call that love 😂
Umm, no. I couldn’t tell that AT ALL. 😒
“Help me get to work” sir you’re a grown ssa man. Be fr
Get ur ass on the bus!!
@@royaldavis640
And the bus is free....🤦🏾♀️
Like whattttt
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vs not where I'm from and my buses stop running at 6 pm lol.
@@Mannymoe3
Well needs to catch that first bus and be back by 6:00 lol
She had a baby with a man with no resources. He didn’t stand up to manhood or fatherhood. She has another baby by this man. They rely heavily on her mother and brother for help while knowing they didn’t have the means for the first child. Lord bless black women because I will never understand this mindset and culture dynamics.🤦♀️
He will continue to not have resources if he doesn't get some space away from her because she constantly bringing him down/attacking his self-esteem, his focus should be on the kids but based of this video, I'm sure if he gets space, she's going to use the kids against him. His family openly will take him in and I'm sure the kids will be taken in too knowing for sure they're his. Women don't make it any better for men, they disrespect a man down on his luck in the absolute worst of ways.
@@Mannymoe3 Did we watch the same video? She was nagging him because he is a sorry excuse for a man. He is selfish and doesn’t care about anyone, but himself. She is carrying all the responsibility on her back while he is playing pillow princess.🙄
@@kameralkutie5594 Nagging doesn't make a man get a job or do better EVER....she's making it worse...if she was a REAL woman, she would just give him an ACTUAL timeline/boundary and support him up until that timeline is up and if he can't do right just leave him, but she rather use him as a verbal punching bag and ruin his self-esteem.
PLEASE IT'S NOT JUST BLACK WOMEN OMG....A % OF ALL WOMEN HAVE THAT IDIOTIC MINDSET. IT'S DEFINITELY NOT A CULTURE THING...U NEED TO CHECK UR FACTS INSTEAD OF RELYING ON A TALK SHOW FOR GOODNESS SAKE.
@@Mannymoe3 not you doubting her womanhood like she gotta prove herself to you
30 year old man asking to help him get to work🥴
Exactly, I hate men that act like this. Expect everyone else to handle their responsibilities. Get ur self to work, take the bus if yu have to but GO TO WORK
SMH.. HE SHOULD BE ABLE TO GET TO WORK ON HIS OWN.
King with no kingdom 😂
Right I know there's a bus that runs somewhere or get you something nearby and get in that Uber
How he gets to work is his responsibility what a bum
The fact that I know them personally LMFAAOOOO TS FUNNY AF . He know them kids are his😂😂
Lmaoooo and she my cousin at that😭😭
Thanks Karamo for seeing him. You did a brilliant counseling I am so impressed
Love karamo for getting them financial literacy courses
Great guy, he just needs guidance and life skills. He's willing to listen and very sincere with his apology which is a good sign. With the right resources he'll change for the better.
thank you, the only reasonable comment under this video.
The only comment that is non judgemental. I believe they can overcome with guidance.
@@Mannymoe3fr cause everybody judging him and he not even disrespectful , they both just stressed out cause of his financial situation , but he trying && she love him she just tired of having everything on her back I think it’ll work out
@@myaaah-vs8zc Yeah it's sad they put everything on him. Someone in the comment section said they knew the guy; they say she be beating him, and they said she be putting him out and he be sleeping on the porch. What I try to tell women is take accountability because I'm sure she saw a billion red flags before she had the first child (now 3) with him but now she is punishing him for something she should of walked away from.
Ladies please stop mismanaging your wombs with these kings with no kingdoms. Struggle love at its finest. 😂
Why Even call these Dudes King~ Make it Make Since😢
Kings with no kingdom 😂 Love it.
This grown man did not just ask her to help him get to work.
like that's her responsibility !!!!
The bus service works in most cities.
Right! He’s not self sufficient at all. He’s the type that is needy and can’t fill out a job application for himself. I can’t be with someone I have to rehabilitate or raise. He can use Lyft or Uber. I’m assuming he wants her to take him to work. He behaves like a kid.
She can't respect him because he's not holding down a job and trying to help her financially!He probably doesn't help her with the children and the household responsibilities either! She's tired. She needs help. He is a grown man. He should step up and act like a man. A man takes care of his family. A real man doesn't live sponge off a woman. Wake up young man before you lose your children and your girl!!!
How about she respect herself. She made the choice to have multiple kids with him. She chose this whole situation.
He hugged her like she was his mother. He is very child like.
I just made a comment saying he displays childlike behavior. He’s needy and not self sufficient.
These people still having kids......can't take care of them......but having more....>SHAME ON THIS COUPLE! Hope the family stops enabling them
My mother wouldn't be carrying anybody anywhere. I may be able to stay as long as I pull my weight. She most definitely isn't letting a man stay with me, in her house, that can't support me or his children NOT HAPPENING!!!
I love how Karamo handled this one. Two young people trying to navigate life. All they need is proper guidance and I do believe they will be okay. Keep them in your prayers.
Why he be talking like this though? 😅 This girl finna beat him at home 😂💔
He country😂😂😂😂😂
yes i know him she does n he really is a good guy she beats and cheat on him frfr
we from bolton mississippi yes we are country but idk y ray talking like a special ed student 😂
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I really enjoyed this episode, they were so willing to listen and not argue or get out of hand. Good job Karamo ❤
I’m on the Karamo show bad I’m always tuned in 🤣❗️
Facts. 😂😂😂😂
I cried watching this and just the way he couldn't express himself and she being overloaded with frustration
I pray they find their way back to each other
That dude is DEFINITELY a "short yellow bus" passenger!!!
And she rides some days out the week too lol
I can hardly understand him.
he’s speaking English.
Muck mouth fr.
he’s speaking with a southern drawl. his words are just stretched out.
That’s personal, Jack. You gotta learn English
@@mharicerae His girlfriend's brother has the same southern drawl and he didn't sound like that.
He needs to get his self together badly 30 years old he should be a lot more grounded
So wait .... They are living with Grandma with two kids and he can't get himself to work.. he sounds like another child to me.
He ain't just got like this but u let him get u pregnant
Exactly nd not once but TWICE
That's what I'm talking about!
he sassy as hell. she too cute for that 🤣🤣
You told 1 truth and 1 lie
@@MercedesTyrease 😂😂
nah fr😂😂😂
I thought i was trippin. He gave me sus vibes
@@MercedesTyreaseAHHH BYEE😭😭
Ain’t no way in hell she’s 24!! I’m 23 and she looks like she could be my aunt😭
It’s the hair lol
The wig.
@@stephaniej.stanley2141 yeah your right the hair & the blazer😂
Everything's just wrong, 🤦🏾♀️
It’s definitely the wig, she looks 23 to me. She has a pretty face.
I see a lot of ppl downing this young man but he has so much potential.
i think it's more because he's not a young man, he's 30 with two kids acting like an 18 year old fresh out of highschool
Wow Karamo, beautiful! Masterclass in compassion and wisdom
He was hella pressed about not being able to drive her car 😂😂
its his car i just wish yall could come here to mississippi and get the real because if he look wrong or say the wrong thing she beats on him but he the bad guy for asking the person who took your car to drop u off at work n her mom drives it to she have to keys to so yes i would ask her to drop me if my woman wont n i know her mom have a set of keys to my car but they wont let me drive it
@@mrsactlikealady7925so it’s her shit tf
She will eventually leave him. Her body language says shes just about over him . I could be wrong tho
Definitely
She left him mentally already
"I'm not no fool". Double negative. So does that mean he is a fool?🤷♀️
It’s just slang Jesus!
Your comment sent me into a tizzy😂 @@Ashleyomega07
This comment is for my people, stop judging and tearing our people down. These are behaviors based on cycles and passed down trauma. Every race is able to make excuses for their people but us. These people need direction and help. Not hand me downs but a community that points them in the right direction so they can find resources. Thank God for people like Karamo that see the bigger picture and offers assistance by way of therapy and life skills. These are not bad people they just lack life skills and communication. Thank you Karamo. Lets up lift our people and teach them accountability and how to break generational curses, not judge them. I’m speaking to myself as well as I’ve also been responsible for judging.
It actually really saddens me. Someone failed him in his early education, and here we are. I know a man just like him except he's a hard worker with a good heart. He was just failed in his early education, and it shows in his adulthood.
Good comment
Awww I really want the best for them, he really seems like he meant everything like karamo said I believe him, I really wish them well ❤️❤️
Some parts had my crackin up 🤣🤣 but i honestly feel like he loves her genuinely. I feel like she loves him but she is stressed and tired. They have to communicate in a healthy manner. Blessings to them ❤️
Why he had to go in shordy ear thou to apologize 😂
😂🤣😂 I’m weak asf Shut up
Oh I've never been this early there are no comments for me to agree with
right lok
He looks like he don’t even know where he at. Sir you’re 30 help yourself you got two kids wtf
Right 😂😂
@@Miss_Understood00 lmao he doesn’t even know what day it is
They don't need to be together at all they both are toxic!!
I don't understand the concept of "well I'm gonna tell him he's not the father of our child or make him believe that the child is not his out of spite and then get mad when he believes me" Once you ring the bell you can't unring it. It's one thing to argue but it's another thing when you say something or do something that you can't take back
I have not seen one man on the Karamo show where I’m like - girl fight your relationship. All these beautiful women gotta love themselves a little bit more bc they deserve better ❤
He’s calling you horrible names, no job, and denying his own children. Why are you even on the show? This relationship is not worth saving
Those texts would've been had me out the door. He was hella disrespectful and just flat out nasty to her. She needs some serious help to want to stay with a man who talks to you like a dog. Couldn't be me
Great tools and resources Karamo has offered, hopefully they will take advantage of the opportunities and move forward positively.
I’m not sure if this young man is talking really slow, or it was a technical issue but I had to increase the play speed on CZcams so he could sound normal.
😅I did too. I think it's on 1.75x rn 😅
😂😂😂. No he’s just country. I’m from the south too, so I get it. People call me country too even though I’m from FL. However, some southern states talk more country than others lol.
I love me some Karamo he so humble and nice and he always speaks life into ppl I love it keep on doing your thing KING 💪🏾🥰
Love the advice he gave to them I had to learn how to speak to my man and so far I've been doing good. Communication is not my strong point.
Good that you're trying to learn. A lot of women are justifying the nasty things this woman did to him because, "he isn't doing what a man supposed to do", but what if your man called you nasty things because you weren't doing what a "women is supposed to do". Is that supposed to actually motivate someone to change? No....if you really love someone you let them go.
This was a good one
but she chose him twice 😂😂😂😂
Wow Karamo has great insight, patience, wisdom and counsel. ❤️
Listening to him is so draining 😪
❤ such pain. It's sad that youth going through stuff.
He told himself that the kids aren't his so he wouldn't have to step up and be accountable.
Why continue having children with him though?
Being Dumb that's why
Soul ties
Glad to see Karamo give the brotha some tangible next steps and skill building. Manhood training is needed to lead a family. Unfortunately, a lot of men don’t have a tribe to show them these skills, so some of us make it up as we go. Kudos Karamo.
I want a pt 2 to this one ! Good luck!❤
I would’ve been left once I seen he didn’t have a job
This segment gave me high blood pressure I’m sure of it. Madame you AND your family are a pack of saints! I’m assuming her brother already saw those texts because I promise on my soul I could’ve seen them 75 times and still wouldn’t have been that calm but if it was the first time…whew. It’s not for me to understand why this man, but please don’t have another child till that potential you’re in love with blossoms.
A paternity test isn’t expensive or hard to order. Not ordering it and badgering a woman… is abuse. Just pay for the test.
Why are these women having children with men without cars, who are working sporadically etc??? What is wrong with these people?
Praying for this family
Stop having kids
A man saying he need help, he need a ride👀
He's her third child. And he laying it on her thick right now. Let him find a ride, he gon be out of there!
He was raised by a single mother with a house full of sisters.
Aaawwww this was beautiful 🥲
Karamo always helps his guests, outside of the show. I love what this man does ❤
🙄A 30 yr Old Man Saying I Just Need You To Help Me Get To Work😑I’ve Walked, Rollerblade & Rode a Bike,Because The Buses Didn’t Run That Early Until I Was Able To Get My Car😑Life Is Challenging But You Can Be Happy If You Do The REAL WORK✨BLESSED That Sistah Because She Has 3 Kids✨🙏🏾✨🧚🏽♀️✨💫
Did you constantly have a relative/partner constantly in your ear telling you how pathetic you are while you did all this?
Look forward to their update. ❤
Praying for both. 🙏😔
Not the Maury editing why would y’all do that 😭
This couple has no sense of family, finances, maturity, accountability. They should have NEVER had children in the first place
This was so beautiful and toxic hope they get it together
I stutter and stumble over my words when I’m nervous due to my anxiety. Maybe this young man is nervous so please be respectful. God want us all to be generous. Let’s make generosity a habit you lovely people 💗.
Let this man go on with his life and u go on with your life u deserve better put your crown 👑 on and woman up and be strong 💪🏾 for your kids
KARAMO YOU GO BOY!!!!!!! He will put them relationships back together quick you hear me. GOD BLESS YOU SIR KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK ON YOUR SHOW. I LOVE YOU SIR…,
Another great episode Karamo 💯🙌🏾
Boy was talking like he was in Maury 💀💀💀
Exes can never be friends because he's always going to think he has a chance to get back together
Can’t blame the guy for not wanting to take care of the kids when his lady says she cheats on him.
If you laying up in MY house rent free eating up everything etc you better take care of whatever’s under MY roof 😂😂 the dishes, the pets, the trash, the kids (your or not) You a house wife since I gotta be the man/provider.
@@keythedon8555what that got to do with her cheating? She got a part to play in this to but I see you try to change the subject like yall do every time lol
She cheating cuz he's not being the man of the house and she probably hear crap from her friends and family all day so cheating is her outlet not saying it right but it is what it is she definitely doesn't respect him at all
@@user-pk6pt2pr8b Lol you can use that as an excuse but what about the other man that do they job and still get cheated on ?
If he’s not sure about paternity, get a test. If it’s not about paternity, HER actions shouldn’t dictate his support of HIS children
Awww I do hope the best for them. 💖
Intellectual compatibility is not talked about enough because WHEW
What is with these relatives giving statements on their own accord😂😂😂😂 5:44
This made me emotional.
Praying they make it 🙏🏼❤️
Sending blessings. ❤