Our Worst Arguments - Cries and Compromise feat. my wife Chia - No Chaser Ep 66

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  • Had a random copyright issue and I also think I didn't get fully monetized cuz I originally had "fight" in the title... so reupload it is!

Komentáře • 325

  • @tatid6743
    @tatid6743 Před 4 lety +280

    As Tim gets older the more he looks like his pops
    How cute lol

  • @mzdelightful24
    @mzdelightful24 Před 4 lety +158

    Every time chia cracks a joke it makes me so happy that she came out her camera shy shell❤️❤️❤️

  • @klis4979
    @klis4979 Před 4 lety +166

    So proud of her natural curly hair journey! It's so cute and I looooove it!

  • @jaz6789
    @jaz6789 Před 4 lety +160

    I love he talks about her hair, it’s hard black girls especially in a relationship with someone from another race to be so comfortable and mesmerized by your hair is refreshing 😍

    • @ingenueblue8914
      @ingenueblue8914 Před 4 lety +18

      My fiance is Chinese. I make him oil and twist my hair. It's relaxing.

    • @jaz6789
      @jaz6789 Před 3 lety

      @LoveNot Hate lol black n brown girls,

  • @MrsNicolas
    @MrsNicolas Před 4 lety +133

    The fact the Tim called the relaxer "creamy crack", let's me know that he definitely hangs around Black chicks, or that's he's verse in Black hair lingo. 🤣

  • @The.Golden.Door.
    @The.Golden.Door. Před 4 lety +62

    I'm learning that a lot of miscommunication and arguments are based on ..TONES!!!!

  • @KaylaSison
    @KaylaSison Před 4 lety +139

    Please do a podcast with you + Chia and Rick + Tway ‼️‼️‼️🤧

  • @XoOverdosed
    @XoOverdosed Před 4 lety +29

    I was yelling at my screen for Chia to point out the cursive writing on your shirt 😂 what a relief when she noticed

  • @jengoesmao
    @jengoesmao Před 4 lety +85

    Time to rewatch the video so Tim can get that bag

  • @EllaCruzfansite
    @EllaCruzfansite Před 4 lety +381

    you wife is drop dead gorgeous wow

  • @coolleyhigh
    @coolleyhigh Před 4 lety +53

    Chia is awesome. Tim have her on here more often. She is a blessing to you

  • @Tonenokea
    @Tonenokea Před 4 lety +51

    I remember when he was Traphik and making vlog’s going to see her in Canada lmaoo

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan Před 4 lety +100

    I’ve never even been in a relationship but this had useful insights to prep for the future haha

  • @toniblaze1ify
    @toniblaze1ify Před 4 lety +14

    I have been working in restaurants for the past 15years, and Tim, I do it exactly like you. I have to rinse the dishes first. I absolutely HATE food debris in my dish water.

  • @MntDamian
    @MntDamian Před 4 lety +21

    Lol Tim saying cursive is pointless. When his shirt and the no chaser sign in back is in cursive. Lowkey loves cursive.

  • @CrystalClearThoughts
    @CrystalClearThoughts Před 4 lety +12

    As a bilingual kid I learned spanish first. But now my best language is english. always start with the language that isnt spoken in the country and have them spend a lot of time with family members that dont speak much english. I had a speech delay because some language confusion but dont let it scare you. Bilingual kids develop in a unique way.

  • @BungaloHippo
    @BungaloHippo Před 4 lety +19

    when tim spoke about not wanting any direct food contact on the sponge because the sponge needs to be clean to clean the rest of the dishes, I've never felt so connected to anyone in my life loooool now talk to my mum coz i always have to explain this shit to her! and dont leave the sponge or cloths in the sink if you're gonna pour non-water liquid in the sink aarrgghh

  • @lacrimashi
    @lacrimashi Před 4 lety +15

    Me and my hubby (13 y) are the same way - the most arguments we get into are because of miscommunication. we literally argue when we're on the same page, preceiving the other to be hostile lol or because we're not understanding how serious a topic is for the other. work in progress :) if it was easy it wouldn't be worth it

  • @mollysanders9757
    @mollysanders9757 Před 4 lety +15

    Hi Chia. Today is my wash day.. Watching you guys while deep conditioning!! Thick, curly,& the quarantine. No barber...# Team Natural#

  • @abena5063
    @abena5063 Před 4 lety +16

    “Creamy crack!” 🤣🤣he’s dated a lot black girls if he says that...

  • @purebadrakh
    @purebadrakh Před 4 lety +16

    I’m a Capricorn, too, so I relate to Chia’s personality so much. That delivery part had me dying bc I get criticized for mine, too lol I’m working on it 😂

  • @migimuis3564
    @migimuis3564 Před 4 lety +9

    Omg! I do my dishes the same Tim 😂
    It makes no sense to me to rinse plate every time while my hands are soapy from washing the dishes😂

  • @amyroldan7
    @amyroldan7 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm so excited for all these new babies coming out with so many different mixes it's so awesome❤️

    • @amyroldan7
      @amyroldan7 Před 3 lety +1

      Also, chia's curls are poppin

  • @EVSM-1
    @EVSM-1 Před 4 lety +66

    Tim : post
    Everyone: goes straight to comment

  • @jamylahwebb
    @jamylahwebb Před 3 lety +6

    I love that Chia is a Capricorn! I love to see other fellow Capricorn’s live their best life. 😌

  • @MC_Halfrican
    @MC_Halfrican Před 4 lety +13

    Y’all are #relationshipgoals fo sho! Your chemistry is dope af and her confidence and support is overwhelmingly inspiring. I’m looking forward to watching the journey! Totes cute!!!

  • @ProdiJayMusic
    @ProdiJayMusic Před 4 lety +30

    you had to reupload cuz you sang that backstreet boys so well youtube thought the actual song was playing

  • @abe0341
    @abe0341 Před 4 lety +25

    This reupload is playing games with my heart 😭

    • @Shappire0926
      @Shappire0926 Před 4 lety

      Me too! Because I was like wait, I already saw this 😂

    • @Breezythings456
      @Breezythings456 Před 4 lety +2

      i was so excited then i realized i watched it already

  • @va8120
    @va8120 Před 4 lety +5

    Tim you did so well interviewing Chia! Love y’all!

  • @NEHHH12
    @NEHHH12 Před 4 lety +23

    the fact i been watching you since y’all first started DATING

  • @hpavil
    @hpavil Před 2 lety +2

    yooo the cursive part had me dying lol. tim the entire time hating on cursive has on a t shirt with a cursive logo, gets destroyed by chia when she points it out, then the podcast ends and the no chaser logo pops up.... in cursive 😂 this was a great episode

  • @Newyork8608
    @Newyork8608 Před 4 lety +3

    10 years?? Damn I’ve been watching y’all a long ass time... Chia is so chill I adore her❤️❤️

  • @audioplugg5310
    @audioplugg5310 Před 4 lety +5

    Bump that! I don't like using the sponge to wipe off the food either. I rinse off the dishes, soap up the sponge, and then clean the dishes.

  • @saaammage
    @saaammage Před 4 lety +28

    OH LORD... it must be a Thai thing because my family also joked about being stuffed after death. Mainly my crazy sister. Thus why I am in charge of arrangements LOL

  • @YourGFsFavoriteBF
    @YourGFsFavoriteBF Před 4 lety +1

    I dunno h'why the algoriddim brought me here, to the virtual Rodgers theater, but I'm glad I'm here. I'm extremely happy for you two.

  • @shakeerab.6387
    @shakeerab.6387 Před 3 lety +1

    Watching this 5 months late but it was nice to hear Tim discuss about being an only child. I’ve been told that I’m insensitive in certain situations but then I’m a very sensitive person. great video & chat 😊

  • @samanthaduarte1079
    @samanthaduarte1079 Před 4 lety +1

    She is so ADORABLE omg I love y’all , I could listen to her talk all day 😂

  • @nesqulck6985
    @nesqulck6985 Před 4 lety +2

    Lol, that part of washing dishes was hilarious. I’m a ask every person I know how they wash they’re dishes now.

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
    @bwingbwinggwiyomi Před 4 lety +72

    Lmao the word " fight " is considered illegal now? Even kids say the word " fight " all the time omg 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ what even is YT anymore lol
    also I can't believe you guys have been together since 2011 wtf that's my whole teenhood (bout to be 20 now lool)

  • @smileygirldrell4630
    @smileygirldrell4630 Před 4 lety +6

    And writing in cursive is actually faster than print. I remember in grade 4 I did a race with my classmates testing this theory

  • @SweetdreamsOFU
    @SweetdreamsOFU Před 4 lety +42

    They’re the cutest realist couple ever.

  • @kevingopaaul8233
    @kevingopaaul8233 Před 4 lety +1

    You guys are inspirational for all relationships being so humble and free spirited 🙏🏾

  • @wanglee21
    @wanglee21 Před 4 lety +3

    Yes I love women with natural puff curls. It melts my hear. Nice "Love is one language."

  • @babybowzer
    @babybowzer Před 3 měsíci +1

    I cant believe they r married....i remember videos when he was courting her! So cute

  • @ing-yam-san
    @ing-yam-san Před 4 lety +4

    Chia, the hair process is real!! I’m Salvadorian too, however I’m 100% Salvadorian. We have the same hair type. I loved my relaxers too for the same reason. But I’ve been trying to find someone to help me feel the same way you do. 🙏🏼

  • @honeymoon4130
    @honeymoon4130 Před 2 lety +3

    Tim that part about parents being afraid of their kids not speaking English is SO TRUE!!! The crazy part about it is that our damn parents never end up speaking English themselves 🤣

  • @brandonburgess1990
    @brandonburgess1990 Před 4 lety +16

    QUIT PLAYING GAMES WITH MY HEART!!! NANANANANA BABY...

  • @pe5220
    @pe5220 Před 4 lety +13

    You guys should make an appearance on the Love Hour with Kevonstage and MrsKevonstage.

    • @UKLeonie
      @UKLeonie Před 4 lety

      Yep Yep Yep Yep Yep Yep Yep Yep

  • @Shappire0926
    @Shappire0926 Před 4 lety +8

    Tim: I have the same wash dish routine. I pre-rinse all my dishes and then soap and rinse off my dishes. Especially because it is annoying getting the sponge dirty with food.
    Chia I applaud you, when the go natural wave came around. My sisters joined, but me? I refused, and I was not curious. I agree creaming did mess up my curl pattern. But what I did was lower down the amount times I put cream in my hair. I cream my hair probably once a season (like every 4 months) or when I can not comb through my hair anymore because my roots have grown alot. So I tip my hat to you for going full natural ❤💜💙.

  • @candacetaylor27
    @candacetaylor27 Před 3 lety

    No Tim too many steps your way, I really thought you were about to blow my mind with your dishwashing process 😂😂

  • @leana1019
    @leana1019 Před 4 lety +8

    Tim please do make the movie you mentioned about chias parents!!! I'd so watch thattt. Keep your word!

  • @flowr3856
    @flowr3856 Před 3 lety +1

    I love Chia, she's so likeable without even trying!!! My role model, I've been watching since I was in tenth grade and I'm 23 now

  • @yoshimar9548
    @yoshimar9548 Před 4 lety +1

    OMG I REMEMBER WATCHING THE FIRST VIDEO OF YOU FEATURING CHIA XD IM SO FKN HAPPY YOU GUYS TILL HERE

  • @HH_Julius
    @HH_Julius Před 4 lety +2

    Chia crazy! Tim is doing dishes the CORRECT way! No food bits on my sponge!

  • @baldandblissful
    @baldandblissful Před 3 lety +1

    Just watched this and you can tell Tim grew up with parents who owned a restaurant. This is how you would clean dishes in a 3 bay sink lol I get you Tim!

  • @ellenko2684
    @ellenko2684 Před 4 lety +4

    You guys are the cutest! Tim looking handsome, Chia looking beautiful 😍

  • @ericisgreat
    @ericisgreat Před 4 lety +11

    You guys make me so happy!!

  • @Aznchonny1
    @Aznchonny1 Před 2 lety

    I'm watching this January 5, 2022 04:00AM and you speaking about being an only child, and Chia referencing how you're sensitive and can be insensitive to OTHERS?? It brought perspective with one of my cousins who is an only child, and has seen me cry so much and never cared to check in or comfort me so... It totally makes sense, with your perspective snd generational family trauma so

  • @simply_sophia
    @simply_sophia Před 4 lety +1

    When Tim was explaining his dish washing process I was shook 😱🤣

  • @therealmykag
    @therealmykag Před 4 lety +5

    I rinse, soap, and rinse! I don’t wanna be touching no sauce and no bits

  • @kikialeaki1850
    @kikialeaki1850 Před 4 lety

    45:56 *lax
    I know two methods of washing dishes because our dishes are usually washed only at night:
    1. Fill one of the sinks with soapy water so your dishes can soak beforehand. Then go back wipe, rinse and place in the drainer.
    2. Kinda power wash (rinse) every dish as you place them into the sink to get the fresh food bits off and place them in the sink(s). It doesn’t matter if they’re put in one or both because they can be rearrange later. Wipe with a soapy sponge, rinse and place in the drainer.
    My dad does the first one and gets mad when he sees me doing the second one, but I hate sticking my hand in cold food filled water. And unless I’m washing a pot or something bigger/heavier than plates, cups, etc., I’ll always have a dish in one hand and the sponge in the other.

  • @hpavil
    @hpavil Před 2 lety

    genuinely genuinely love chias natural hair, i think it compliments her face way more than the relaxed/straightened look

  • @edithcervantes2689
    @edithcervantes2689 Před 4 lety +2

    Im a Pisces- I can relate so much even the lack of sensitivity at times but being so sensitive.. Somehow everone i randomly followe an relate to , I find down the line they are a Pisces ♓ aswell

  • @gw2210
    @gw2210 Před 4 lety +2

    To Chias defends I do my dishes the exact same way 🤣

  • @kindabluu
    @kindabluu Před 4 lety

    Tim, from a longtime fan.. your way of doing the dishes is traaaash lmao love you g

  • @yourstrulyMISSMAE
    @yourstrulyMISSMAE Před 4 lety +5

    Y'all this is nuts lol me and my fiance been dating since we were 16 (2009 we started). We've watched all your content growing up (cause we were filipino kids who loved ukulele covers and asian youtube) and you and Chia always reminded me of us. I have a PHOBIA of bees and wasps cause I've been stung every year of my life (I'm 27) so hearing Chia's phobia has me dying! I've jumped out of a moving vehicle cause a wasp flew in.

    • @Zionrained
      @Zionrained Před 4 lety +1

      :o OMG Me and my fiance been together since 2009 also. I was 16 now 27! So cool!
      Been watching Tim since that relationship before lovely Chia.

  • @rachelpinto.
    @rachelpinto. Před 4 lety +2

    cool coincidence that I watched this on your anniversary, only to learn that it's your anniversary! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY

  • @26srp
    @26srp Před 4 lety

    Cursive is actually not useless. It’s been shown to help kids with dyslexia. I think that’s one of the reasons my state is bringing it back. Love you guys!

  • @athomas641
    @athomas641 Před 4 lety +8

    I wash dishes like Chia does but cursive is not pointless especially for signing contracts and important documents you have to use cursive. And in some careers you need cursive.

    • @nayvalentinegaming
      @nayvalentinegaming Před 4 lety +4

      No you don’t lol Contracts has nothing to do with cursive you can literally print your name and say that’s my signature they can’t say it’s not and what career do you need cursive?

  • @CrystalClearThoughts
    @CrystalClearThoughts Před 4 lety

    Love just sitting and listening to you guys. You guys have grown so much :)

  • @jerky2723
    @jerky2723 Před 4 lety +3

    Love the relationship that both of you have! I’m also going to be with my love for 9 years & 1 year of marriage!

  • @boricua584
    @boricua584 Před 4 lety +16

    My boyfriend is asian. And I’m like oh gosh imma have to explain all this 😭😭 But I want to cause I want him to understand and he’s not judgmental at all

  • @boostedgixxer
    @boostedgixxer Před 4 lety +1

    You should do more podcast with Chia. Love the chemistry and the way you two speak together.

  • @whitneyk5926
    @whitneyk5926 Před 4 lety +5

    Same chia same ,my wife (Same sex marriage) knows now I need a few hours in morning to myself first with cup coffee .. first it was big deal but now she is ok with it we been married 2 years now !! But it’s nice I wake up at 5am and take that time before she gets up ..

  • @PrimeTimeSanders
    @PrimeTimeSanders Před 4 lety +8

    The 🐐🔥🔥

  • @TakidaJ
    @TakidaJ Před 3 lety

    Even tho your a lot and can talk....you have balance and you let her talk.
    that’s supper amazing !!

  • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
    @bwingbwinggwiyomi Před 4 lety +4

    LMAO I relate to Chia with her bug fear, I have an extreme fear of bugs too, esp spiders, bees, wasps, just anything that can harm you.
    And I will have to say no, being stung does not lessen your fear 😂 I got stung by a bee at an acting school audition last year on the back of my scalp screaming my fking head off for help to get it out. *hurts as fOooOook!!*
    And now I'm traumatised asf, amplified fear lmaoo and no I didn't get into that specific school 😂 but hey, I got into 2 others last year lool

  • @Youngfate_family
    @Youngfate_family Před 3 lety

    Bruh I wash my dishes the same way! 😂😂😂😂😂 u on point tim lol

  • @Kiki64563
    @Kiki64563 Před 4 lety +2

    Chia I Love your hair!!! Y’all are the cutest couple. I relate to Chia being stern but I agree with the way Tim does dishes lol

  • @erinkim277
    @erinkim277 Před 4 lety +1

    I actually agree with how tim does dishes.... LOL. That is exactly how I do my dishes. It's faster than putting down the sponge every time i rinse off a plate. it also feels like a waste of water because i can have the water off when i sponge. My dad is also a chef so i'm not sure if i naturally picked it up from him lol

  • @braydenschoettinger1242
    @braydenschoettinger1242 Před 4 lety +2

    4 i love your videos and keep up the good work

  • @sweettalk428
    @sweettalk428 Před 3 lety

    Tim’s way of washing dishes is the best way

  • @sentinell4873
    @sentinell4873 Před rokem

    I'm with Tim washing the dishes, I don't like washing the dish with the sponge directly from when it's been used. Some people wear gloves to do the extra rinse but I don't because I'm paranoid and I need to feel that the dishes are completely rinsed off. If you don't do this step, well you' need more soap if there are a lot of dishes to wash. but on the other hand you are using more water. Two, as pointed out by Tim, the sponge touches the food bit so your spreading that bits all over the plate and me who took microbio class (even though the sponge technically is filthy if you reuse it and yes I reuse sponge) those slobs is smeared all over the plate and you know and I know if it isn't power washed, then the plate still have invisible bits still stuck on the plate and I don't like knowing that I've smeared that bits all over the plate and on the sponge.

  • @Aznchonny1
    @Aznchonny1 Před 2 lety

    CHIIIIIAAAA SAME!!!!!!! I do a mixture of cursive and printing tooooo!!!!

  • @Wendypretty1
    @Wendypretty1 Před 4 lety

    First of all, yall both washing the dishes wrong! Lol. The drain rack belongs on the kitchen counter top. Any dishes that arent being washed right away are rinsed and placed in the left sink. When you're ready to wash, you rinse again, wash that plate and set it down and continue until all the dishes are soaped. Then, you rinse and place all the clean dishes on the rack. Any excess water runs into the sink from the counter top! This was such a hilarious video!

  • @nabgurung
    @nabgurung Před 4 lety +7

    i agree with Tim for how to do dishes

  • @mlatneyjr
    @mlatneyjr Před 4 lety +2

    Tim comfortable sitting Indian style lmfao

  • @kSwissh007
    @kSwissh007 Před 4 lety

    the dish convo is very important to marriage success!!!!! well done

  • @alexagarza3800
    @alexagarza3800 Před 4 lety +2

    My bf is the same way as Tim where he has the "only child" mentality even tho he has many siblings, they were all raised by someone else within the family if that makes sense. He doesn't have empathy for people including me. Last year I lost of of my closest childhood friends to cancer and he didn't know how to react when I told him which upset me A LOT. We also recently found out he has adhd which doesn't help.

    • @jet-fury
      @jet-fury Před 4 lety

      Is lack of empathy inability to express emotions? Maybe he understands it but just doesn't know how to communicate them? Either way kudos to you for being patient with him, it can't be easy

    • @itsmeeveylnn8620
      @itsmeeveylnn8620 Před 3 lety

      Nope He's a lil too cold hearted. My brother has adhd and is so sensitive. I think its how you are raised.

  • @natloves27
    @natloves27 Před 3 lety

    honestly i love you guys i feel like yall should upload content more often just sayin' lol

  • @TakidaJ
    @TakidaJ Před 3 lety

    Ok the ring ideas was really good!!

  • @sandrachun972
    @sandrachun972 Před 3 lety +1

    Such a FUNNY COUPLE !!!!!!! SO Healthy discussions!!!! ONLY CHILD !!!!!!

  • @orangejmoothies
    @orangejmoothies Před 4 lety +5

    Omg dont get stunt by a wasp. I got stung by bees n wasps and a wasp sting friggin hurts and if u dont care of it carefully like i did, it can get infected pretty bad and now i have a little dent/divit in my shin and a scar where i got stung. Lol /end of story thx for listening to my tedtalk.

  • @IcyTechNique
    @IcyTechNique Před 3 lety

    I do dishes like Tim. You waste water with Chia's method. Lmaoooo

  • @johndao2787
    @johndao2787 Před 3 lety

    Note to my future partner. This how I do my dishes: Two sinker. 1) Rinse out dishes in one sink. 2) Grab a bowl and fill with soapy water and use that bowl to soap up the rest of the dishes. 3) Clean the last, soapy bowl. 4) Final rinse of dishes in the other side of the sink and rack as I rinse. PERIOD. Take it or leave it ladies...🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @arlynnlaninbelik7783
    @arlynnlaninbelik7783 Před 4 lety +1

    i wash dishes the same way as tim😅 i hate scrubbing all the food, i have to rinse it off lol.

  • @nicoleyjohnson1892
    @nicoleyjohnson1892 Před 4 lety +6

    Dude im the same way as Tim when it comes to being insensitive without knowing!! #piscesgang

    • @Karoline1210aka
      @Karoline1210aka Před 4 lety +3

      Same! I'm bad at comforting ppl when they're crying too or saying I love you and hugging lol

  • @stepharino1018
    @stepharino1018 Před 2 lety

    #teamchia for how to wash dishes! But i love that ya’ll understand each other’s way

  • @tracychampion
    @tracychampion Před 4 lety +2

    OMG CHIA I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY CAPRICORN WHO GETS EMOTIONAL OVER OUR THINGS. I CRIED WHEN I LOST MY PHONE# DUE TO MOVING. MY MAN WAS LOOKING AT ME LIKE I WAS CRAZY. CAPRICORNS ARE SO HILARIOUS, ITS FUNNY U MARRIED A PISCES CAUSE THEIR SO EMOTIONAL AND RECKLESS AT TIMES LOL