CONDITION ISLAM ALLOWS YOU TO CUT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR RELATIVES.
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I suffer from Depression, anxiety, nightmares and ptsd from years of abuse. I couldn't take it anymore and left. I suffer with guilt every day. But I got closer to Allah swt because of it.
May Allah protect you
You should keep trying to uphold a relationship. If you cant live with them, you could at least message them. They are maybe messing you very much or Otter Things. May Allah help you.
@@Mrclatbam update: I'm visiting them for Eid this week for the first time in years. I have been in contact with my father for a couple of weeks now. He's the easier one to deal with. Thank you for your advice.
@@amirhakopian4636 very very happy to hear that. May Allah bless your kinship and support you in every matter. ✨️
Same here
Sum up:
Cutting ties is allowed with Family that:
1. Commit major sin, & cutting ties may prompt them to stop the sin.
2. Are Mushrikoon calling to falsehood or doing sihir
3. Harms you in your deen (ie distances you from it)
4. Threaten you
Those latter two are what I'm facing from both my sisters. Not one can help stop my little sister from the berating me and when she has freedom to talk, she threatens me and sends her old workmates to scorn and curse at me.
SubhannAllah, this is timely. There is an issue I have not heard spoken about wherein pagans are marrying Muslims. I pray that Allah protects our brothers and sisters, ameen.
Muslims, let us not take Allah’s warnings lightly about whom we are allowed to marry. 💔
My deens getting low not cuz of the music or haram.
It's the worshipping of the religion and absence of Allah.
House is blaring Qur'an recitation, lectures. Walls full of bookshelves, thafseer, hadith and what not.
But the double standards, bias, hypocrisy.
Sheer denial and rejection of the Qur'an when they have to take responsibility for a wrong.
The spread of injustice with all the knowledge in the world of Qur'an and Sunnah.
The soul feels rotten and the heart bleeds to death.
That's how my Deen, my faith, my prayers take a hit.
Alhamdhulillah hanging on.
Hasbiyallah
Don't let go 🤲.. Islam is perfect, people are not
Sometimes the hearts and minds are so rigid, so hard that no goodness is seen by and accepted. If not addressed they become blind and will be unable to be just and good rather will nullify the truth.
Long time rejection, maltreatment and injustice from family affects one’s well being and health. Every aspect of life get affected. Will result in poor self esteem.
Islam doesn’t teach to suffer without addressing the problem and indulge yourself in harm while doing nothing about it. One should stay respectful but to draw lines is very important when family is dysfunctional or they will never realise the injustice they are doing and expecting something good will result in more suffering.
So it’s better to realise the truth in time, think and act for one’s own well being also.
This is so true
Keep ur circle small
Humans r becoming stranger by day
It's unfortunate
In every family thrs always issues
Allah tests us in different ways .hang onto ur deen and teachings of Muhammad sallallahu alay wasalam🤲🏻💯
Forgive them make istghfar for urself
Our Muslims some of them are on the wrong they follow the evil west
But keep ur house hold on tract
Trust in Allah🤲🏻💯
Thank you!
jazakumALLAHu Khaiyran
My father is saying me that I should have that much positivity in myself to change them in a positive manner because they are my relatives.
But, whenever I am with them I am surrounded with negativity and feel anxious. I want to cut ties with them, mean not hanging out with them much, sometimes only for my self protection because I have noticed I am also having some negative traits in me because of them.
But he doesn't allow me to cut ties with them and want me to change them, But i am worried that I am going to change by them.
No. Never do that it's not your responsinilty to change them, only thing you can do it maintain ties by asking them about their wellbeing, as long as you aren't cutting ties with them you're good to go and not sinful. Yes, I agree being around toxic environment consumes you and takes away all your goodness, but run away from the things that aren't in your control. Concentrate on your future and cut of all the toxicity from your life.
@@emaansayyed9051 Thank you so much. I have maintained strong boundaries with them and I do all the possible formalities which one should do as a relative. May allah bless you.
@@Kehkasha_123 may Allah bless you too.
Assalamu Alaikum! I heard an Islamic talk in which the speakers mentioned not to cut relations but also not to put yourself in harm’s way. They mentioned that when dealing with problem relatives, the less you deal with them the better. The bare minimum is when you see them, give them Salam or wish them a happy Eid. That is it. You do not have to be around them. In Islamic law, this is not cutting off relations. Islam teaches you to not lose your dignity or to “bend over backwards.”
@@NDpeace695 Thanks alot. May Allah bless you.
And my relatives i don't know them no one and they don't know me even if i contact them we don't know each other so how do I contact someone who doesn't even know me i grew up with my mom and didn't meet my relatives. Which is complicated. I badly wanted to help or contact my relatives my they're not good as I heard the only thing they do when they call my older siblings is they ask them to send money only money which i hate it so much.😢😢
theres another level dealing with desi relatives🤣
At different level
@@bayyinat 😆
Family ties are vitally important because they shape or form our future.. we should gather with them..and make it a point that they feel recognised and reassured every time we come connect with dem..
no matter,if you fail to become a part of the family nd feel neglected, they should be the ones who consider u as their family.. I think this understanding will build a strong foundation to help those who are ignored. May Allah protect our fellow human beings..Ameen
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What if they are bad for my mental health??
Don’t put up with their bullshit you don’t need them
Work things out
reduce but don't cut off completely. trials and tribulations are everywhere.
My relatives always tries to make me against my father. Should I cut relations with them?
My mums family including my mum all started to advising me the wrong things what comes to my hijab and started to call me moutaasiba and also started yelling at me and told me to dress in my age bcz I'm young can I cutt them off or avoid them bcz they really hurted me
Im in great suffering with my brother because of constant verbal fights as well as physical fights and ive been threatened to death multiple times. Can i cut ties with him?
Same here same question
Yes you must.He is threatening your life and future.
From Kenya where ms my likes.
Yo sasa kijana
Assalamu’alaikum brother married to non Muslim and he doesn’t pray salah or Quran should i connect with him.
He does not miss guide you or effect you in anyway. Keeping a connection with him will probably be a guide for him back to Islam.
What if we know a certain relative is doing sihr but we have no way of proving ti
This is a serious question. Please give me an answer. My biological father is doing zina since i was and until right now. He do use drug and hes a drug dealer. He's so toxic and manipulative. It makes my life hard. Can i please please know. If should i cut him off?
Allah knows best, as the video is saying if it harms you and changing you for the worse, make dua for him to obtain hidayah but don't stay there if this affecting your relationship with Allah and your obedience to him. Seek help from some community leaders. SubhanAllah May Allah help you soon inshaAllah
What if the parents were to kick out one of their kids from the house because the child was being disrespectful for a long period of time. Is the child that got kicked out the house allowed to cut ties with family?
If they mentally abused you yes
They kicked me out and then attacking me for it
Ma Shaa Allah Bayan was good but please remove this video and add the actual shekh's video. Jazak Allah khair.
Salamaleikum sheikh. What about if those family members look for harm for me and my family, steal and cause fitnah between myself and my sister by spreading false rumours - am i right to sever ties jzk ?
If they're sinners and you're righteous they need you more than ever.
@@Kirokill1 Difficult though wAllah
@@mohamedbelbehri3686 I feel you
I have a question.
My father side did sihr on my father to have an affair. I can’t explain the whole story anyways, he cutted ties with them for 4 years but unfortunately they talk again, now those family keep asking money to my father for personal things despite all of their children succeed, all of them have a job, and my dad is the only one who is working for MY FAMILY. I convinceD my dad sometimes that they have money so why would he give them even when they have a jobs but he always said “cuz they don’t have money” like ????? They have 5 cars mashallah and few of them are brand new, but idk why he keep saying that, it makes me feel so emotional and frustrated about life, sometimes satan gave me negative thinking about how I wish he was not my father when I was born. I love my father so much but I can’t control him nor my mom. I did dua for my dad’s guidance but it didn’t happen.
We cant prove if its indeed sihr. Dont over think it
Assalaamualaikum to the uploaders - please reconsider the videos in the background- dont mix the benefit with something that will negate it - there are women with awrah exposed. The viewership and you will incur sin for the stolen glances.
Baarakallaufeekum
My son lives very close to me, He told me I am abusive and he stop speaking to me. I dont know what he is talking about but I beg for forgiveness , wont even answer a text message. It hurts my heart Alhumdulilah
May Allah give you sabr sister. May Allah give him hadaith and soften his heart to clear out his misunderstandings
What if they're abusive and toxic towards the adult child?
It is still allowed
no
@@syrasafdarWhat do you mean no? Ofcourse no one should tolerate abuse whether it be a child or an adult child. Plus you don't know even know her situation how tf can you directly say no,?!?!
@@danielwilson4303 You're absolutely right. I don't know her situation completely but still completely cutting off your kinship ties is never advisable and realistically speaking it is also impossible. Yes, you can maintain as much distance as possible, limit interaction with them, sue them if they abuse you physically, damage your property, or reputation, and many other such cases. You should definitely speak up for yourself, take a stand for yourself, never tolerate injustice. But Islam doesn't allow you to completely cut off ties from your blood relations (mainly your siblings, and parents) If everyone starts making such harsh decisions over conflicts then the world would be a more disastrous place to live! There'll only be hate and no compromises and patience at all! Again I'm not saying you should keep enduring such happenings with patience and never retaliate, that would also be an ideal and impracticable situation. You try to find a balance to keep your mind at peace.
The fourth reason's example is very strange. Why would the one trying to connect be cut off from their relative? It sounds like the one trying to "connect" is harrassing and abusing their relative to such an extent, they decided to cut off because they were being harmed beyond their soul's capacity.
Are you dumb?
It is just bcs probably the relative hates him
Who is the speaker, it's not noman ali Khan, and it's not his channel.
As a raqi, it's very difficult to prove someone is doing sehr.
The victim will have instances where they know that a certain person is doing sehr but cannot produce tangible proof.
At this point, an accusation of performing sehr is very difficult to do.
But if we know who it is, we should be super careful and not eat food from them. Or tell them anything about our lives. Also excluding them where possible is prudent to prevent furthur fitnah.
But an all out accusation of performing sehr, will be denied and also cause the Paymaster to perform more sehr like crazy.
I will counsel victim to look at their own protection and seek forgiveness from Allah in abundance, which will remove the test of black magic long term.
This is a test like every other test,
The solution is to perfect our worship of Allah and be consistent with it while seeking forgiveness to remove the cause of the test.
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brother please delete this video and post with the same audio but remove the women uncovering their awrah Jazakallah khair
true
Where is awrah?
Don’t watch 😑
Delete this pathetic post and behave yourself. May Allah help you as your lost
Don't see from one eyes used your both eyes stop blaming your sins over women otherwise yu will definately enter in hellfire. According to your information yu don't jaanah certificate.
My mother in law done sihr to me and my husband we cut her off our life. We distant ourselves from his siblings too cos they side with her and manipulate him.
How is that ? How you can proof a mother does this for her own child ?
@@bayyinatthey can my father would do it on my mother and my siblings
@@bayyinatyes, not all mothers love their children purely. Don’t doubt that it’s a reality some have to live and is hard enough to live with already
What about when my father sayd talaq 3 times to my (ex) mother (so divorced and cant marry again till married an divorced again)
Bc she did smth unacceptable, can i cut ties bc basically shes not anymore Family?
Your mother is your mother to the end of time. even if she isnt a muslima, even if she does the unimaginable, even if she ( astaghfirullah ) does zina or .... she is your family.
I think they’re using AI to choose the imagery
My father prays and extras Allah but commit sins. That’s why I don’t wanna read the Quran anymore bcz it closed his heart and made him crazy .
My dad's relatives are totally evil
If you do cut them off always always always forgive.
I wont
I will as long as their willing to change
My father cheated me and took my life savings and gold jewllery which were given from my husband and my kids had right on them. Its extremely hard for me to still keep in touch with him after all that he has done with me. What should i do!!!
SubhanAllah. I hope you get the relief soon inshaAllah. I spoke to a Muslim psychologist and I sought opinions of Muslims leaders in the community. They all had different perspectives and so combined all of that advice and asking Allah for help with the situation was the way forward for me just to deal with the pain. I still haven't confronted my family but I pray to Allah that when or if I do, to be patient and not lose my mind and lash out at them. It's a trick of shaytan to cause severance of ties. My family are not even worth mentioning that's how much they've hurt me.
More wisdom ore
Brother don't out non mahram on videos this is completely wrong
@@blaquelinktriforce4234 how is my comment hateful or toxic I advised in a very pleasant manner please don't come make fitnah amongst Muslims
Wdym out them?
Can you show adahith
That ahadith mean don't cut ties never
The religion of peace lol
Arrogant and ignorant remarks loool
Irrelevant contribution
@@angeldust7591 did I hurt you little ego? Lol
The most narcissistic community on earth lol
@@truthseeker5796on the contrary....your big ego got hurt !! Looool
No reason at all to cut ties,, even sihr