addressing our broken family
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- čas přidán 6. 05. 2024
- honestly even after over a year its still hard to talk about but were hoping this helps us be able to move on with our life and wedding in 1 week from today! this is your life, take control of it and don't let anyone walk on you. if there's any one holding you back or brining negativity into your life take a step back from then. its okay to. we love you guys so much thank you for supporting us
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Blood doesn’t make a family. Love does. We love you guys so much. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. ❤
your exactly right
its such a shame that people think blood makes family
family requires love not blood
I agree 100
Yes 🎉❤❤❤
I got the chills when you said Montana was going through her health issues and not one of her family members reached out.
Montana you are our family, you feel like a sister to me, we love you so much and we will stick by your side through anything❤
My heart teared up 💔
Ugh my heart broke.. this is so painful and we all go through things in life that brake us.. so stay strong❤ keep pushing forward
yes! I felt so bad for her! my heart shattered :(
I cried 🥺🥺 I can def relate to having a to deal and heal from trauma
Life is soo hard sometimes and you feel like your all alone but in reality we all going thru similar things 😭😭 love y’all ❤
Im confused to sum everything up what happened ??? I’m confused with what happen with parnetd
I am heartbroken to know nobody checked in on Montana experiencing her health issues. Shoutout to you Ryan your a very good man and you deserve to be recognized.
Hey I didn't understand really well. Did they say that Ryan's mom and Montana's dad started dating each other??
@@associate7024 that’s how I understood it yes.
I hope she will make a video on her health every video I wonder how she is doing going through it all. ❤
@@associate7024same I’m so confused on who did what
@@associate7024 i think basically Ryans mom was cheating on her dad with Montanas dad, and they found out
This absolutely breaks my heart. As a parent myself I could never. As a daughter I feel for Montana because of her dads selfish acts she no longer has her dad walking her down the aisle at on her wedding day.. the whole situation is heartbreaking. Prayers to you both 🙏🏼
She may not have her father, but she has “her”father /his that will probably be honoured to fill that position
What happen his mom and her dad got together?
Is not the dad it's the woman. Y'all women love to deflect responsibility 😂
@@1god2savem34 fam you right her father was divorced but his mother was still married and this bitch is still blaming the dad more than the mom
You can see in Ryan’s face how angry this situation makes him. We are your family. We love and support you both and I love to see how you guys love and support EACH OTHER. That’s all you need. ❤
I’m here for guys. Thank you for being vulnerable. That’s brave. Love you guys
The lack of love they give you doesn’t mean you’re not worth any amount of love. That is perfectly said and so true. Thank you both, you’re strong and many positive beginnings are coming
Parents don't realize how much they hurt us and when confronted they act like we're supposed to deal with that hurt. I'm so sorry this had to happen to you guys, praying for you❤😢
My mom is like that
@@lauracassady3846 same
What did her dad and his mom do? Maybe I didn’t catch it.
@@cecemac988started getting together I believe
@@mckennaarens3539 so his mom cheated on his dad or were they already divorced?
This happens so much more than people think. I’m glad you guys were able to open up and show others they aren’t alone in these type of horrible situations.
I'm from a broken family, i appreciate you guys sharing this. I feel everything ya'll probably feel. I'm glad you guys have each other in this messed up world. And im sorry you both had to go through this, you don't deserve this pain or hurt inflicted by others. Love y'all keep going strong. Chosen family is always the strongest. All my love for you two
Seeing Montana cry absolutely broke my heart. U guys deserve everything good in life, most beautiful people xx
Wish yous all the best for the future ahead ❤
No worries guys! We just had our wedding and NOBODY from my family was there, yet we were at peace and. I’m so in love and content with MINES ❤
This is so raw and real. Saying sorry could never help mend the pain, but I truly hope you both are able to heal yourselves and find peace. I’ve been watching you guys for 4 years, I genuinely believe you are both amazing people. Seeing Montana crying genuinely made me cry, seeing from how her family is much like mine it cuts deep. Thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable with us. We all love you ❤
This made me really cry! When Ryan said everything Montana went through with her health problems and not one parent was there to help her. Made me wanna jump on a plane and find Montana and give her hugs on hugs because I cannot imagine. Love you Montana 🤍
Right!!! This whole situation messed up!!! Aside from this, do you have Ig lol 😅
You’re beautiful! I want to follow haha
this is why i love watching you guys. you guys are so real and honest and help all types of people with a bunch of messed up shit. so thank you so much for being real and you guys don’t deserve that shit! will forever love you guys! keep fighting and have fun at your wedding! ❤
Thank you so much for this. I've been in so much pain from my broken life experiences and family and it's honestly been so isolating. Thank you for opening up about this, your story helps me believe that there can be progress and healing regardless of whether our "family" shows up or not.
everything y’all need is u both together , loving each other🫶🏽.
Grief can really look different. For Ryan, it’s anger and for Montana, I can see it’s a sadness and almost disbelief that is weighing on you 🥺 Coming from someone who has also dealt with family trauma and betrayal. Trust me, with time, it genuinely does get better. The pain will ease. You are both completely valid in how you choose to heal.
One beautiful takeaway is how resilient you both are individually and unified within your love. This is a true testament to your love and strength. Wishing you both healing and continued happiness 🤍
Thank you so much for sharing! It really does help to know there are people who understand and know it feels to be treated like dirt and abused and taken advantage of! I personally grew up with an extremely abusive dad, and when I finally was able to cut him out of my life, I've NEVER been happier! I went to a therapist for a little over a year, and when she said that even though you forgive them, it doesn't mean that you have to keep them in your life! It's great that you put your foot down and said 'No more!'. Stay strong!❤ You got this! And know you've got an army of sorts behind you!
So much respect to you too 🥺🫶🏼 thank you for sharing something that has impacted y’all’s mental health ! We love y’all and cannot wait to see the wedding 🥹
Broken crayons still color. You might have a broken family but you still spread love for eachother and have grown so much. Much love ❤
Love this!!
Wow... definitely not what I was expecting. You guys are sooooo strong! I can't even imagine how I would've managed to move on from something like that. Thank God every day that you two have each other, because y'all are the reason that all the good in your lives has happened. Y'all are the reason we are here, and WE are blessed to have YOU. Thank you for being brave enough and selfless enough to share your story. It has the potential to encourage and motivate broken people like me :)
I’m so sorry you all had to go and continue to go through this. Thank you for being vulnerable. I come from a broken family and I praise myself on raising family with love and compassion and empathy! You will one day build your own beautiful family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm so sorry for all you're going through ❤️ Thank you for being this brave to be vulnerable with us. 🥺💗
I clicked SO fast, I really hope you guys are able to heal from all this and enjoy your wedding!!
You can see the hurt in montanas eyes 🥺 I am truly sorry for the hurt you both have been through. We are always here for you guys, we are family. ❤ Thank you for sharing even though it was hard to do so.
thank you for posting this. i have gone thru so much family issues i still deal with to this day and its mentally exhausting. you guys aren't alone and thank you for giving me someone to relate to. love you guys and hang in there!
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, I'm sending all of my love! ❤ My God heal all that is broken.
Thank you for reminding us that we are worth more than the love we receive from a broken family.
the fact that y’all are very hurt from this and still proceed to talk about it and keep us updated even though y’all don’t have to… shows how wholesome y’all are. it’s truly amazing that y’all are so open and honest with the MRK fam ❤
I'm literally shaking while watching this. I am so sorry you guys are going through this I couldn't imagine. You guys are so strong keep growing and keep thriving. I love you guys and I can't wait for the big day!!💛
Much respect to you both! This is an incredibly difficult situation and total disrespect and disregard on their part. You are handling this nightmare in a very mature way and doing the right thing. Ryan your dad is a gem. Guaranteed he will will heal from this betrayal. I’m a new subscriber and been binge watching all your videos :)-keep up the creative and fun videos. Two thumbs up!!!You are great role models for people of all ages. Looking forward to your fairytale wedding. Congrats! 🎈
Family isn’t always blood, just remember that. It is a hard thing to swallow but at the end of the day some thing’s simply cannot just change or go back to the way it was. Stay strong.
I'm so sorry you guys had to go through this. I couldn't imagine the hurt and pain you guys went through. Thank you for sharing with us! Can't wait to see you guys walk down the aisle! Love watching you guys!🙏❤
Listening to you both talk about the situation was so heartbreaking. It’s horrendous what you’ve gone through, especially with how they have treat you both!!
Sending you both so much from the UK, ❤❤ have a fantastic wedding guys xx
Thank y’all for sharing such a vulnerable moment. Love y’all and YES Ryan, you’re right that this will lift weight off and the wedding will represent Gods blessing on y’all!
Speechless to what was just revealed in this video. This has to be a really hard pill to swallow. I am so sorry to the both of you, and thank you for being vulnerable with us to share something so hurtful as this. Family isn’t just by blood!!! I cannot wait to witness the love you two will be shower with on your wedding day ❤! Love you two so much Xo 😘
My heart breaks for you two. I grew up in a broken family and you never heal from it. Despite the brokenness in your lives, you both can grow together to create the family you both have craved and needed and God will be there by your sides. Love you both and praying as you continue towards your wedding
The pain and anger you guys are feeling is 100% valid. You guys are stronger than anyone knows because most relationships wouldn’t have been able to stick with eachother with all the hurt and pain. I hope they are watching this to really know how much pain and hurt they have caused. God works in the right ways always know that❤️❤️❤️praying for you guys!!
Woahhh. I had no idea it was this deep, this dark. You two are beams of light, unyielding resilience within you two and your love prevails every time. Thanks for sharing- you never know what people are going through
Thank you guys for feeling ready to open up about your family issues, no family is perfect ❤️
This is honestly so relatable in more ways than you can imagine.
My wife and I have faced adversity and a disapproving family since our relationship began on day one. My narcissistic parents have never accepted, gotten to know, let alone tried to have any relationship with my wife and they tried MANY times in underhanded ways to break us apart. It's a very long story and seeing this actually makes me want to tell what happened on a video, as well. But I definitely understand family drama and being used, abused, etc; my mom did and treated me like that to me my entire life to the point where it was "my normal."
Fortunately when my wife (then girlfriend) and I started dating and she saw how I was being treated, she stood up for me in front of them and spoke out too since I was on autopilot, basically scared and silenced for 28 years. It was after that that I woke up off that mode and then saw both my parents (mainly my mother) for what they truly are; narcissistic bullies. Because of that, they did a lot of underhanded and vile shit to try and break us up or keep us apart...and it almost worked a few times. Still to this day I'm shocked and surprised that the wife never gave up on me or us as a whole because I know how bad she was hurting and how bad my mom tried to and did hurt her. It also got physical one time where my father actually pushed me and her apart and I froze up and did nothing because I couldn't believe that it even happened.
The silver lining is that it actually was HER mother who knew how much I loved and cared about my wife and encouraged her to fight for me. We stuck it out, figured out what we could do and ended up buying a house together then eloping at the courthouse a day or two after we closed on the house. But the best thing we did was go no contact with my parents (and collectively my entire family) because we didn't need and sure as hell don't want that toxicity or toxic people in our lives. In spite of the constant hate, harassment, and even stalking that my parents have done and put us through, we've been through the storm together for 8 years and couldn't be happier.
Again, I don't know what I did to deserve her, but I have the best woman I could ever have for a wife and her family loves and accepts me, which my own bloodline never did and probably never will. It's sad and I still hurt a lot from 28 years of pain and basically living a lie after seeing their true colors come to the light, but I know I am much better off and happier without that in my life.
"Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs. The ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile, and who love you no matter what." - Maya Angelou
I appreciate this and needed this so much, I come from a broken family and I feel your pain, their wrong doings is what made you as strong as you are today. I hope you enjoy your wedding you both deserve this good thing
i’m proud of you guys for getting so far. you guys are truly a miracle couple and are so strong. y’all deserve all the best things in life.
This is so incredibly sad. I’m so sorry that you’ve both had to go through something so traumatic. The love you guys have for one another is so strong. I wish you both all the best ❤️
Being from a broken family myself I can agree that blood doesn't mean crap. You guys are so strong and didn't have to share this but thank you. For making mine and other followers thoughts valid. Love you guys, we will always be your family! 😢❤
Thanks for being so open & honest. I have a broken family as well and it's sad, but I'm happy to say I've moved on from it and I hope one day you will be able to heal.
Oh Montana, I feel your energy in each video and your soul is priceless.. I’m sorry you have had to go through so much but I am so inspired daily by the person it made you become❤️
having divorced parents is so hard!! i'm now 22, my parents got divorced when I was 12 and this still made me cry😭 we love y'all!!!!
I know right
I was 11 too when they divorced
Do you have younger Siblings ?
I hope you are all better now ☺️❤
@@Luna_Queen_Wolf how old are you now
@@anupolchoudhury7211 I'm turning 17 in 2 days 😅😅
My parents divorced wen i was 3 months old, i kinda always thought it was my fault even tho i never said it. But a few weeks ago i found out my dad cheated on my. My mom told me nothing for 17 years. It sucks bcoz my dad doesnt know that i know. I hust our a smile on and pretend.
@@mainlyfarah ouch
At least you know the truth
I still don't know why they got a divorce
I still think it's my fault
I just keep putting a smile for my little brother so he doesn't suffer
I hope you are better now and don't worry it will get better ❤☺️
Wow! I was not expecting that. I could feel the pain. Sharing this will help so many other people who look up to you guys. At first I felt worse for Ryan bc his parents were still together when it happened but then after seeing Montana so hurt I just started to worry and hope she doesn’t feel she is to blame for any of it. Would be so hard having one family member and you can’t even defend them anymore. I’m so happy y’all have each other during all of this!
The two of you are both so so strong. Ryan you are one hell of a man to Montana for always looking out for her. And Montana you are one hell of a strong courageous woman for still going through family struggles yet achieving your biggest dreams! You both look out for one another so well and it’s beautiful to see.
You guys have stuck together through what most wouldn’t. So in the darkest of days try to make it a positive to know that you two can make it through anything. Lots of love ! The wedding will be more then what you can imagine🤍
Thank you for sharing this with us all even though you didn’t have to but we have all got your backs and we are all here to support you both and we love you all prayers and blessings for you all stay strong and healthy and I am going through some things like this at the moment with my daughter and her drug issues and my brother sneaking behind my back love you both and wishing you all the best for your amazing day with your wedding love your Aussie family friend John ❤❤❤
You both deserve the world❤never hides the truth in life or acts perfect. You make so many of us supporters not feel alone. Thank you❤️
Y’all’s feelings are valid, thank you for sharing parts of your traumas, thoughts & feelings with the world it’s not easy but y’all did it & it’s a step towards healing & moving foward
Props to you guys for talking so personal. I feel your pain as some others do. Stay strong for yourselves and eachother💞
Y’all I am so sorry. That was so deep. You didn’t have to share that and I know that was hard to do. As long as y’all got each other, that’s all that matters.
As someone who absolutely agrees with blood isn’t everything. I completely see you, and hear you. Much love to you both. 🫶🏻
This breaks my heart having been with you guys for years, y’all are a part of me now and it hurts me just the same. God’s got you and your beautiful future ahead of y’all 🤍
That is some heartbreaking stuff. I agree with ya - gotta take those people out of your life no matter how hard it is. At the end of the day you have each other❤
I’m from a broken family, I was like 17 when my parents decided to split after 23 years being together. I was heartbroken. I appreciate this thank you. Really it still affects me and I know people that come from broken family are still affected from it. ❤❤
I’m sending you guys so much love ❤️ family issues are so tough.
It was a good idea to separate yourself from people who hurt you , thinking about it will make you sad but eventually it will be for your good . Enjoy your wedding and have a wonderful life together 💖
Heartbreaking! U guys went through so much! But ur so strong whenever I’m in a bad mood I look up your channel u guys are so inspiring u always make me feel better how u guys are always so happy always positive looking at the goods in life appreciating all the blessings helps me do the same
I love ur channel
May god give you only good from now on!
thank you guys for sharing i know that took a lot of strength to do. we love you both! praying you’re wedding is nothing but happiness & love. ❤
i am so beyond sorry for you both. what they did to you, i can see has caused so much trauma and harm. y’all are awesome people and help me through so much. don’t let anyone tell you that you are the blame for what they did for their selfish reasons.
I love you guys We’re here for you whatever you need we’re here will support you guys.😢❤
Sending love to you both, enjoy your wedding + just celebrate starting your family the way it should be + how y’all want it🤍
montana you inspire me so much! i feel like we have so much in common & i react the same exact way! you got me bawling watching this! i felt the hurt coming from that cry.. I moved away from my family & have been living with my bf for 4+ years now, his family is more family then my own! I also went through a lot with my family.. you guys are so strong i love you guys sm! ❤️
You guys are so strong. As much as I'll never truly understand I spent years of being emotionally abused by my father and physically abused by my mother for what she deemed as "incorrect behaviour", after months of therapy and medication for anxiety and depression. It's still nit enough to take away or cover up the fact that I was traumatised to the point of being terrified of people, speaking my mind, having my own opinions in the first place and I'm still wading through all of that, I don't have the courage to abandon my parents the way they abandoned me. No love, no presence, and no acceptance. But you two are courageous, loving, accepting of the people who deserve it and I truly admire you for that. ❤️❤️🩹❤️
appreciate that you both felt comfortable to share this because I know it's not really the easiest topic to talk about
I’m so glad you guys held off your wedding until you could enjoy it, the happiness and love between you two should be the only focus on your wedding day ❤
I love you guys so much and ive been supporting yall since the beginning and im still here supporting you guys and i love watching you guys cause Montana feels like my sister that lives far away from me ❤ and i always love how Ryan treats her every day and shows it!! It made cry hearing her so called family didn't reach out while she went through her health issues!! I know im a supporter but I just concerned as much as ryan was and im sure most of the others that are here supporting right along with me! You guys will always have the MRK family to be there for y'all!! Forever supporting you guys! I love y'all so much!! ❤❤
I’m so sorry that you guys had to go through something so messed up and heartbreaking , you guys are so strong for this and coming out !
I am fairly new to your channel, but i am so impressed with you both. The love you have for each other, that is all that matters. Family is who you make it. You will come out stronger in the end. I will keep you both in my prayers. Much love to you both
I can't even imagine what all this is like I'm so sorry for you guys you deserve way better
you guys are so strong having to deal and to see you guys being together through it all really makes me believe in love that much more.
This video was very touchy and emotional. I’m glad you both had each other at the end of the day and never gave up on the foundation you both formed together. Thank you for sharing this with us!
I clicked SO fast I really hope you guys are able to heal from all this and be strong and we are here for you we love y’all so much, enjoy y’all’s wedding ❤❤
Montana, I started bawling when you were talking about a broken family . I have watched you guys grow and I’m so proud of you guys as a couple . I started to believe in love because of y’all .
Thank you so much for speaking on this! Me and my husband are going through something very similar and I feel so seen! It is an impossible situation but lean on each other and put each other first.. much love and praying for you two 🙏🏼
you guys are way stronger then i think you truly know! you two have a beautiful love and i hope that’s something that sticks forever! sending lots of love y’all’s way and praying this wedding is everything you guys have dreamed of!! keep showing these mfs they ain’t stopping you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ love y’all
Montana and Ryan. I completely understand what it feels like to be part of a broken family. But you guys are the strongest, most beautiful people ever. Just stay together and hold each other close. Each other is the only family you need. MRK fam loves you and always be here ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You both are blessed with everything , as much as this might hurt you’ll get through it so much stronger. We all love you guys and nothing will change that f*** montanas family and your momma Ryan. Y’all deserved better and you’ll get that soon 🤍🤍 I’m so sorry this happened.
I admire the strength you two have. It takes a lot to walk away from that. My mom has grown up with a similar situation in her family and still takes the hits to this day. Stay strong loves ❤
Y’all will create the family you deserve and be stronger than ever. Your past doesn’t define your present or future … sending positive energy y’all’s way ❤
I was crying I came from a broken family with divorced parents and it’s the worst pain ever you guys are so strong for sharing your story ❤️
I come from a family that is so broken on both sides and I know the hurt it causes. I’m so sorry you went through this
y’all are like family to US, and we have your backs no matter what ❤️ thank you for being so open with us and voicing how important it is to know your worthiness despite how blood might treat you. this meant a lot to me, and i wanted to let y’all know that
I feel you guys 💯 thank you for sharing your story🙏🏼 this makes me realize what I’m doing with my “family” is okay. It definitely hurts but blood doesn’t mean their family💯
No matter who you are to me, if you do something that hurts me so badly, you're gone. I love you guys and I'm so sorry for what they did to you and your families. You always have us. 💛💛💛
As long as y'all together shit don't matter
The wedding is gonna be filled with love and a whole lot of others!
You both are so strong for getting through that !! I’m proud you both chose each other through that hard time…. Sometimes family isn’t all you expected
This is so horrible. I’m so sorry you guys went through that. Sending healing ❤️🩹 ❤
I have mad respect for both of you coming on the internet and talking about this. It is not easy to lay your heart on the line in front of millions of people. Just know that because of this, someone feels less alone. ❤️
You all are so strong and seeing Montana cry broke my heart and she’s so lucky to have someone who will take such good care of her I wish you nothing but the best in the future you both have got us the mrk fam❤️
Praying for a strong, long and healthy marriage. Praying for the healing in both of you!❤️🩹 Continue growing and being eachothers rock. Love yall!
it takes such a strong heart to be this vulnerable & truthful with your feelings.. My heart is with you both 🫶🏼
Able to hear about your guy's situation is beyond heartbreaking it makes me HANGRY to hear about how you guys have been facing tuff situations for the past few years😢 Just know we are here for you guys and we need you guys to keep being strong🤍 Love you guys🤍
OMG this makes me so sad that not one person showed up to see Montana when she had health issues that just breaks my heart. I hope you guys feel so loved and to keep going and don't let anyone hurt you.
I love you both!! You both are so strong and I’m so sorry to hear that y’all have been going through this, I couldn’t imagine the pain y’all must feel. 💕 I’m so happy for y’all making it through this
I've felt with similar issues and what hurts most is that you never thought that someone that was blood related to you and that was that close to you would EVER do something like that. I love you guys and I will support you through everything.
Take It from someone who has been with her husband for 30 years, don't let ANYONE try to ruin your happiness. Friends are the family we choose. Enjoy your wedding ❤❤