Order My Steps & My Stops | Jerry Flowers
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- Excerpt from "I Didn't Get Closure" of Therapy Thursday. Click here to watch the full sermon: • I Didn't Get Closure |...
We must come to the realization that the closure we think we need may never happen. Sometimes desiring closure leads to prolonged grief. God doesn't just order our stops, He also orders our severing.
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I heard someone say”if God removes someone from your life he heard their conversations”
"Waiting for an apology that is never going to arrive is going to keep you in a place where you never depart." That just freed me!🙌🏽
riii at the end of the day let them have it
The Fther will expose people's hearts towards you, so you know who or who not to bring with you to the next level. If you can't properly discern separation is needed, the Father will intervene and assist! 🙌🏾 Growth hurts 😖
This!
Word
I didn't sleep for 6 months, replaying the situations over and over. This journey is not for the weak
Please let it go for your health and sanity. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you release it ❤
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Oh man. And I thought I was bad. It was the same for me 20 days straight no sleep, had to get on medication and go to a crisis center. I had a mental breakdown. I was a zombie' depressed, eventually had to take off work. God brought me out of that. I'm still trying to recover mentally because I still deal with occasional anxiety attacks. Nothing as bad as before
I used to cry every time I took a shower because all the painful memories would replay when everything external, was silent. Quiet moment in the car, Memories. Quiet moments in the shower, memories. Quiet moments while im waiting in line, memories. I couldn’t escape what my brain was trying to process
“The wrong people have a way of teaching us the right lessons” A word!!!
You can't expect Healing in the same place you were broken. 🙌🏾
Preach 🙏🙌
The Father will sever relationships that hinder you and keep you from your destiny. If it or they were needed, the Father would permit the connection. 🙏🏾
That was me July 2023 to around February 2024. I experienced an unexpected ending of a relationship and then found out about the lies, deceit, and betrayal that I found out about after I was out of the situation. I knew early on that closure would come from God & I couldn't look to the person who hurt & betrayed me for it. As much as it hurt, it had to happen. It birthed a new person in me with a newfound love, adoration & relationship with God. The one who hurt me said they never would do what they did but ended up doing it worse. Nonetheless, I'm grateful to God that it happened & the woman I've become. God knew he wasn't for me & got me out of the situation. I'm thankful, healing, happy & blessed. God's way is always perfect!
Same sis, I knew the man I was with wasn’t for me so God removed him in February. It brought me closer to God and I’ll forever be grateful for those lessons He allowed from my worldly ex. Bless you in the name of Jesus Christ my sister
“The person who left me is not going to come back and heal me.” Sooo good!
The WHY belongs to
God. When God uses the wrong people, to teach you the right lessons. That's a received word.🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️
Amen!! I didn’t get closure but I’m ready for what God has for me!
This word rocked MY WHOLE EXISTENCE. I am convinced that TODAY, I am one of the ones who especially needed to hear, remember, and heed all of this information. I turned 40 in November and what a JOURNEY it’s been!😭God bless all of you!
God bless everyone reading this ❤
God, thank You for ordering my steps and my severing, even in my grief. Even when I committed relational homicide, thank You for purifying me. What a word.
What? Homocide?
@@sixteen.candles.4644 Don't think they meant literally
IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER. Experiences equates to Wisdom if we let go and cast all our cares onto our Father, Abba.
I don't regret nothing of what I endured even through my new test. Not going back the vomit as a dog. God's timing and vengeance are healthier. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤
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Listennnnnnnnnnnnnn hereeeeee! Your destiny is never tied to what left 🔥🔥🔥🔥
“Grieving is stages and not a state”!
I thought I’d met the one I’d prayed for. I was committed to keeping the vows I made to God no matter what. There was a whole lotta what that did matter. God knew this and came for me. I’m forever grateful. Determined to live Gods plan A for me no matter what.
I’ve been so anxious all day and really down I went through a super hurtful breakup that emotionally hurt me so bad. I prayed for god to take this feeling away from me today .. I felt the holly spirit tell me to listen to you and I stumbled on this teaching an it has truly touched me and that anxiety I’ve had all day is gone and feeling down is gone .. this message truly was for me today .. thank you 🙏🏽
Jesus will heal your heart just keep filling yourself with the Word. Going myself through a divorce after 30 years. Big hug for you ❤
Sis, most of us have been there. I’m so very sorry for your pain. My prayer is that God heals you in every area you hurt. May he heal all of your broken places. Remember sis this is just a season and this too shall pass! God never waste our pain, you will be able to bless someone else in the future when they too go through a trying season. Also remember if you keep God first, you will never be last! Blessings 🙏🏽
It's better! My contentment. My satisfaction. My peace. It's better! Because it's in Him and not conjured up by me.
The why belongs to God!
Caring is the bi product of investing
God bless you for everything you’re doing for His people. I’ve had baggage for years that I didn’t realize could be set free. I didn’t realize the true power of Jesus cleansing your heart and soul. I figured I had to power through and ignore it. Thank you. These things hurt and I may not be strong enough to get through, but you’ve been used by God so much!! So much, I was shown how evil the things I was holding on to actually were. Thank you. I’m still allowing God to fix my wounds but for now, thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you God. I’ve realized I was truly never completely set free.
I didn't get closure. "Desired closure prolongs grief. Grieving is a stage(s), not meant to be a state!"
Whew! I'm mentally begging for closure each day. Drawing closer to God is giving me the strength to not break each day. This lesson was perfect timing for what I'm going through. I took many notes and will work on myself daily and apply this. Thank you!
To this day, I still pray asking the Lord to order my steps and my stops ever since this life-changing message. So humbling and freeing all at the same time.
It’s BETTER 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾ALL THE WISDOM I HAVE NOW IS DUE TO MY EXPERIENCE. Betrayal don’t shock me NO MORE
I didn't get closure. But thanks be to God. I am asking Him to otder my steps. He knows and cates about everthong that concer s me and He wio perfect it all. Praises forever more. ❤🙏 🙏❤🙏🙏
I didn’t get closer, but I was able to seek God to help me process it and move on!
All of the wisdom now is better than what I left🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
It's soooooooo much better. Stronger, Wiser, Better....Developmental Season, in EVERY PERSPECTIVE OF MY LIFE.
#GRATEFUL
Lord Jesus I seek you everyday please find me. Both of my sons have special needs and I struggle desperately trying my best to support them as a single mom. I put my children first, no matter how tired I am. Jesus continues to give me strength to keep going. Lord as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries please save me from this vicious cycle.❤️
God, I thank you for your protection. I apologize for being quick to lose my temper when things do not go my way. Removing them was needed.
You just open up the door and say OK..KEEP IT MOVING...YOU DONT NEED CLOSURE....GOD IS SAYS I'M PROTECTING YOU!
That part
Answered prayers. I needed this today even though I didn’t realize that I did. I’ve experienced the wave after wave of betrayal and departure from those I cared about. This morning I prayed for God to order my steps for the day and He lead me to this sermon. Amazingly, I listened thinking the message was about something else and instead, it was the exact thing God needed me to hear. Hit me straight to the core of my heart where I still need to heal. Thank you Pastor Flowers for such a timely message.
Wrong people can teach rightful lessons!!! ❤🎉❤😮😊
Destiny is not attached to what left 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
When you said, "somebody's eyes are filled with tears"...mine were at that exact moment!!
2018 was my year as well 😢. Lost my husband of 19 months. God molded, shape and turned me into a wonderful WOG ( woman of God). I love the new me❤❤
Oh how I needed to hear this message. Thank you 🙏🏽
I’ve seen this sermon the other day and thought, “ I’ll wait another day and watch it.” Not really knowing what the sermon was about, I clicked on it after a loooong morning. And when he got into betrayal, and forgiveness, I knew this was for me. My coworker did some shady stuff after me helping them and tried to make me look bad. Thank God, my director is a man of faith and he knows who I am and knew that it wasn’t true but, he still has to go over the situation with me. But this sermon was on point! I needed this today Mr. Flowers! I’m glad I waited to watch this sermon till the right time.
So many gems in this lesson!🙏🏼
Treat my wound Lord
Good message, thank you holy spirit
Ordered steps & stops...thank you Father for every lesson - no other help I know 🙏🏽
#IT'S BETTER GLORY TO GOD,THANK YOU JESUS 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 YOU TALKING TO ME BRO/PASTOR. GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY AND PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE KEEP ON KEEPING ON DOING THE BLESSED THANG 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜!!!!!!!
It is indeed better! All the glory to God and all he has taught me.
You can't give control to others who have wounded you in your grieving process
Self betrayal is the worst. When what you did caused your own situation and damage to yourself and the only person to blame is yourself. I'm struggling because my present and future seems so bleak but at the same time I'm blessed beyond measure.
Hallelujah he gone & my everything I have experienced is so much Better!!
It’s Better than before🙏🏼🙌🏼
Amen ❤
It's better!🙌
Thank you, Pastor Flowers 🫢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 So true and AMEN!!!
Burnt 🔥 bridges are light 🚨🕯️ to right path
My goodness this bless me so much!,,,,,,❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you
Lord I need this to release. I understand quit looking for closer people hurts me.
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Glory be to God
It’s better! Amen
Yes and amen . 2018 Bipolar, abandon in my marriage , betrayal,suicide attempt… 2024 Healed by blood , redeemed, restored , revived marriage, faithful servant chosen daughter of God. Live in joy of salvation and power of resurrection .. Holy Spirit filled, Holy Spirit lead.. yes Jesus you done did it again …
Wow this speaks so clearly. My ex husband who is a minister abandoned our marriage and never gave me answers. My best friend of 16 years left me to go through this alone. So many other friends turned away from me in this time. So confusing and painful.
Thank you ❤
#PraiseJesus Amen
ITS BETTER !!!!!
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It is Better!!! Amen thank you for building my character
Come on I'm Listening... Pain is really numb to me these days...Speak to me holy spirit.
A much needed message.
Wisdom is worth more than money & rubies 🥲 Man I have some unhealed trauma with my father figures & I don’t want to be so closed to marriage or men in general because of it. As soon as they disappoint on little things I’m too hard on them (internally). How am I going to get married like that? 💯 Jesus help me please!
It’s better
Yesssss! It's BETTER!!!
It’s Better!
It's Better
It's Better!!!!
This has me crying.
It's better
Wow powerful I needed to hear this 🙏🏾💜💪🏾Amen Hallelujah Thank you 🙏🏾
AMENNN I needed this ❤️🙏🏾
I cannot wait for that day... ❤
It's better 🙌🏽
It’s getting better ! Yessss
Thank You Jesus. I hear you speaking to me
ITS BETTER 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I didn’t get closer!
Hallelujah
IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER!!!
My God! 😭🙏🏻
It’s better!
Its Better! 🙌🏼
SEVERING
It's better!!!!
IT IS BETTER!!!
It's better!🙌🏾🙏🏾
I did'nt get closure. ❤🙏
It's better...😊
Thank you for this. I am going to listen to this again 🎉❤
Amen brother 🙏🏾💯
I didn't get closer,on alot of things. 🥺🙏
Thank u for your knowledge shared with us.
Oh my word this is good, this is exactly what I needed 🙌