Don't Chase a Woman Who Doesn't Want You
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If she doesn’t pursue me I don’t even acknowledge them
It's completely okay if a woman doesn't want you. Others do. Just don't appear thirsty nor needy, they can sense your aura/energy. We humans are energetic beings, whenever you feel something in your gut, it's probably right. Focus on you, not on anyone else. It's your life. Stressing over her is not worth it, never is, never will be. Relax. Chill. Stay cool. They like those kinds of dudes.
Fellas, why are you chasing women? They outnumber us in the world.
Facts 💯 .... Real Talk
What if she shows signs of wanting you back ....then proceeds to date your friend in form of revenge
@@abrahamlunchtime5421same advice. Stay cool as commenter wrote.
@@abrahamlunchtime5421she’s a narcissist, don’t fall for it.
Chasing a woman that don't feel you is a wasiting your time and energy. It lead to nowhere.
Like I've heard you say in the past, if she doesn't lust you, walk away.
Chasing a woman is just like “begging”. A fools game.
I agree but by way of movies, Tv, and songs a man begging and chasing a woman has been glorified, promoted, and projected on us as the way to go but without good strong brothers and fathers to teach us what do we do. To me one of the most famous songs that emphasized a man begging a woman is that classic hit by the Temptations "Ain't too proud to beg", really? Hey , just listen to those lyrics and you'll here it. Maybe we should use that song and other such songs to teach "brother, son, that's not the way to do it".
@@germanandersonjr.2453 man enjoy the music but don’t mimic it any woman that want you she’ll be there before you can get a chance to take off running
To me looking for courtship alone or anything more is the same. I stopped approaching.
Don't chase women, chase excellence and let women come to you - Mike O'hearn
Don’t chase!
Don’t bribe!
Stay in the lane
with your tribe.
Bingo man I’m a fitness trainer and I see them eyeing me. And smiling But most of them walk past just to be validated I’ve had a few come stand in front of me will I’m working out but you know what I do? I don’t even look their way because I’m about business when I work out and that just make them want you even more because they see u are a focused man
Never chase women, chase excellence. Women will come.
That's 🧢
Listen to your gut.
What I don't agree w/ from other ppl is how they act like you cannot tell another person isn't interested in you from their body language. You don't always have to approach or speak to anybody to pick up on their thinking. Ppl rely too much on the words (not actions) of others. You can tell at a quick glance if a dude is hating or if a woman is an attention seeker or wants you romantically. Ppl say more w/ their nonverbal communication than they do verbally through reflexes and instincts. For the guys who say "well she gave me choosing signals" depending on the environment, some women are afraid of rejection and in need of male attention so bad that they will feign interest just to feel special to anybody.
You should be happy a woman lets you know she don't like you. Ain't nothing worse and more dangerous than being with a woman who don't like. Interesting thing is the tribe thing is real, there are women who will like you and you will like them back. In conclusion, just find your tribe
That's it bro! Keep it simple! Hey, as men that should be in on our bucket lists. "Find your tribe"!
When u a masculine man and y study anybody around you especially women you will know if they like you or not. Trust me. But most guys think they can buy women with money or chase them until they finally get them. You don’t ever have to chase anything not even money just invest what works for you. Anything that comes in your life should be a asset not a liability
Some guys whole strategy is to wear a woman down but why do that when there's a hundred more who wouldn't make you jump thru hoops?
There's many men who don't read in between the lines of women who doesn't have any strong interest. I immediately read in between the lines of women who don't have any strong interest and I immediately move on. Reading in between the lines of women that aren't compatible with you immediately can save your peace as a man.
But that could just be them being polite. How to tell the difference?
@@ThatguyAmeenman it’s so many books that tell u that also look up a guy named DR boa. On here. Man always follow your gut and find out if a woman has a relationship with GOD and I don’t mean just go to church
Women will string you along and keep you in their orbit. I recently removed myself from a woman who tried to pull that tactic with me. I already had gotten intimate with her and we were trying to reunite, but I figured out quickly what was happening. Just let them go.
Yup, it sucks when they get mad about that shit tho
First mistake and I know u don’t wanna hear this having sex before marriage was a huge mistake that’s only for your wife.
I recently noticed even women with high interest initially start backing off/playing hard to get by ignoring me and expect me to chase them. And I can tell they still want me bc they do little things to get my attention but unfortunately, at this point in my life I don't have time chase ANY girl. They can play those games with average joes I have bigger plans fr.
Increasing a woman's attraction/interest is an exercise in futility ONLY the least worthy men among us foolishly attempt. Top Notch Content Bro Rom
So true, because they are the ones who can't take rejection.
I liked this girl and pursued my sophomore year in high school. I wasn't afraid to show i liked her. I asked for her number in the cafeteria line while 2 of her friends was standing beside her. I was excited when she gave me her number- as thinking about if we had a family together, if we were in vacation and etc...
As soon as i got home from school i called her she didn't pick up but then i called again hour later and she picked up and i was just talking to her nothing sexual and just telling her how i like her and this and that and... while I'm telling her this, i hear her friends giggling and one bust out laughing. Something in my heart failed...when we got off the phone, i knew I would never call her again. Never did.
If she has you on speaker phone that's a good sign you cant trust her tbh. No one else should hear our conversation.
if she show your texts to her friends, also a red flag
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As Johnny Dollar once said "mess with the girl that likes you, not the one you like". Thanks for another great video brotha.
Stay focused on what you're supposed to be doing for yourself 💯
Wish I would have known this when I was 18 years old. This is important for men to know so they can avoid simping and wasting his time.
Hope is what misleads you though. At 19 I knew, but hope got in my way. If I would have just stuck with what I knew, I could have focused better in college and became even more than what I did.
I was watching a Corey Wayne video called the clueless creepy stalker that video showed what can happen if you chase a woman too much after she initially said no it didn't end well.Rom is right always make your move and if she is not interested move on such is life you deserve someone who is best for you. Pursue don't chase.
My toxic traits is I think I can convert every woman if I’m given enough time 😂 but nah fr you right unc. This would save men a TON of time and heartache.
You need a hair transplant
@@chelseachelseafcsuperfan7220absolutely not. I just buzz it every week and own it.
Nah fr tho ! It's cuz sometimes, you want a woman enough and they come right to you in due time. Never fails, and i hope it doesn't any time soon 😂
I always try to reverse psychology this scenario when I'm going through it. I ask myself how do I act when I like someone? Do I take hours to respond to their texts, do I text back short replies without engaging them, do I initiate contact. If we like someone we WANT to contact them first. I want to ask how their day is going because I want to initiate the interaction. I know women can be confusing but this situation is pretty clear cut. Yeah she will never ask you on date, but SHE WILL reciprocate showing interest. In some form or fashion. Best believe if she likes you she will find a reason to text/call. No one will play hard to get and let a person walk away that they like.
This the best advice on this post. And I’ll add. Ask yourself. Does this person add to the peace I already have or does she take it away.
@@righteousmasculine Yes I agree...this is a big deal actually. Woman aren't the angels the world makes them out to be...most times. You get involved with a woman that has substance abuse problems or a history of it, have several guys in the picture and is promiscuous to keep it respectful, doesn't have a sold career going on and is low key looking at you as a meal ticket, doesn't have good mother qualities and wouldn't be a good mother to your kids. You may want to let her walk. As Rom said is his videos it only takes one sexual encounter for this woman to be in your life, for the rest of your life. Selecting partner is possibly the biggest decision of a persons life. The wrong selection could be a lifetime of misery.
Morgan Freeman said it best “DONT CHASE WOMEN , THEYLL CHASE YOU!”
I chased one woman.
Learned my lesson early o clock, never doing that SHITE again
When you take your mind off bettering yourself and put that energy into a woman you look all focus My pops always told me. Son even after you get married get you a hobby and stay focused on bettering yourself don’t make your world evolve around that woman it Will definitely give her power. You have to love a woman correctly but make her work. This is why women with no jobs who get financially supported always seek fun outside the home because they get bored. Make her work financially and mentally. Make her miss u. Sometimes
Been there done that a complete waste of time and energy when someone doesn't really want you but ur friend shows their true colours.
Women choose the man.....
If she makes it ez to talk to her, she CHOSE you
I done got hella jaded and kinda got opposite issue and ignore signs of interest frfr
Nothing but the truth don't need to chase if she not feeling you 💯
This is real Rom. I got a homie who will constantly keep trying after she said she wasn’t interested. He’ll make hisself look really stupid.
When it comes to me as soon as I can see that her body language is off then I can already tell she isn’t into me. Non-Verbal sometimes is more powerful than Verbal
I have developed a bad reputation for getting emotionally entangled with women with whom I have no chance.
Damn I was just thinking about ARC this morning. Was wondering about dating younger Women. Crazy you brought him up because, before you brought up “manipulative time wasters”, I was going to ask about that. I’ve had Women chase me for my “light and attention”(inviting me over late night/wanting to “chill”) but acting weird when I try to clap cheeks. I’m only persistent when a Woman “fakes” like she’s interested, when in reality I’m probably just doing all the things her “maintenance man” refuses to do smh…
This is self explanatory for me, but some people still don't get it...often times, a shy women would like me but don't show signs so I act like they're not there because I'm not going to talk to a woman I find attractive if she doesn't show signs that she interested. 💯 #BODYGAMENATION
i had one of the nicest girls show the ultimate interest ever, tell me out her mouth she was leading me on 🤣idk who to trust anymore
If a woman interested you she will make it easy for you
Don't chase women, Attract women, notice who you attract and move forward with them.
Ever since I've started drawing inspiration from you Uncle Rom, I've built my life using at majority of your philosophy. It's not easy, but has been very worth it and progressive.
If she don’t like me keep moving check the one who check me out
All I can say is, what you're teaching is common sense. Somehow, I've always felt that there's a science to finding and meeting the right women and it's not that complicated. The real challenge we must face as men is accepting the reality that the women we want may not want us and there's nothing we can do about it. Another part of the challenge is acknowledging the women in our tribe(I remember that video) who want us for more than a friend. As my Mama would say, "there comes a time when you need to know what side your bread is buttered on". My only regrets about the stuff you're teaching is that I didn't get this in my younger years. Keep teaching Bro! Young and Old, we need this! Thanks 👍🙏!
It’s so simple, but so important. Literally saved me so much frustration.
Great video. Straightforward, common sense advice to save yourself some time and self respect.
I've learned this the hard way. 4 months of us hanging out every week just to see she was still in communication with her ex😂😂😂😂
Life lessons we all have to learn brother lol
This is a situation I've been in time and time again. Now I'm at that point to where I'm just wanting to be alone. Those same women that I wanted before that kept rejecting me are now hitting me up now that they are single mothers because the guy they truly want doesn't want them. I just say no or ignore them. I mean what does that say about my value to them as I'm the best they can get because the guys they truly want doesn't want them. Fuck that!
I’m 32 years old, everybody around me tells me all the time they can’t believe I’m single, yet literally no decent looking women like me. DECENT, not hot or attractive. I’m talking acceptable looking women, are 100% not interested in me. It feels like I’m living in the Twilight Zone.
Maybe you want something serious
maybe ur not putting yourself out there enough
Just be yourself, she'll come around facts
By Decent, you mean hot or attractive. Hot and attractive women will not like you. There are plenty women who likes you, it's just that YOU don't like them. Because YOU don't think those women are good enough for you. Just like those HOT women think, YOU are not good enough for the hot women.
Same here brah, you're not alone.
When women are interested they will give you subtle hints, that's when you act on those hints and move things forward into your plan.
Yep that's 100% right.
I used just take it as a challenge to try to "raise her attraction" by showing them my swag, etc that was my thing. But I'm getting so busy and older, the shit is getting old, and I'm done with that.
Two weeks I took a girl on a date that you could IMMEDIATELY tell she was not feeling me but just curious how I'd try to win her over. Within a minute of this date, as soon as she sat down I wanted to leave. I just started ordering drinks to just force myself to get through the date. This girl would only be giving back one word answers on anything. Never again.
Rom seems to dish out videos that just fit what I need it’s crazy
I would say don't chase a woman period. Leverage and frame are the best things you have to stay in control, once you lose them, you become needy and dependent with your attractiveness that collapses instantly
Magnificent video Rom! Very powerful and knowledgeable! Common sense ain’t that common no more! Focus on the women who are focusing on you 💯
I've said this so many times. I'm a Gen Z guy, but I have boomer and Gen X qualities. Not all of them though, and I hate social media. I'm what you would call an old soul 🤣.
go for a cougar haha
@@PantsofVance Technically not a Gen Z if I was born before 9/11 😂
i had to learn this the hard way
Needed to hear this one
Right on the damn money!
I have to keep reminding myself of this. Thanks Rom.
Much respect to you unc
Guys are getting more and more gullible to these topics. The first girl to give an inexperienced man a whiff will gladly walk into getting played and finessed. My friend's method is persistence. I've seen him wear a woman down over weeks, but ain't nobody got time for that.
Profound good teacher!
Hey Rom another great video also the background music is great I felt relaxed watching have a blessed day!
This is sound and solid advice
Facts 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 Rom Wills thanks for dropping this morning video. Allen Roger Curry was talking about manipulative time-wasters, he's say don't let them your waste time
I appriciate the knowlegde brother, but i also think its part of life to fail and experience yourself. To then make the right choises and live the life you want.
My friends be telling me that the chase in us men. Never agreed with that. I see their situations and this video proves my point
solid advice.
👍🏾👍🏾✊🏾 thank you for telling me this. From yours truly Cinnamon May.
I love your videos Rom! A lot of what you speak about applies to women too. Ladies don’t chase a man lol the attraction should be mutual 😅
Men y’all better start getting a relationship with GOD first his discernment will save you from the wrong women and give you enough knowledge to pick the right women. I say always pick the kind of woman with these traits
Women with submissive traits
Woman who loves GOD
Woman who wants you for you and not what u can do for her
Facts...and listening to SOS Band helps too!
Damn! So ARC is late.. Jeez. Thanks so much Uncle Rom for always hitting the nail on the head🙏🏾
Fact Rom
unc spitting facts
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U spoke some HARD CORE FIZZACTS, pimpin
real talk
you are Right i like when a woman say no its cool with me
OG , love that walk
He right. I have had ladies who really like me but I have 10.00% to 0.00% attraction.
Instead, ive looks maxxed and now the Women that I want, want me.
Some of them are super young too. Im talking 15 years younger etc
Its great
Don't chase jobs who aren't chasing you, just settle for jobs that will hire you effortlessly like mcdonalds
don't chase women, chase money and a better life. the women will start chasing you
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Oh if I had know this a lot earlier I wouldn’t have made such rookie mistakes in my teens.
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“Find you’re tribe” 😎🔥
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My Dogg Rom-
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But how do you realistically approach a situation where a women choosing but tells you she has a boyfriend or talking to someone that always happens to me
Some like playing hard to get. Lol
Had no idea currie had died. That came as a shock, RIP.
On the tangent of that how sexually direct can one be without being just viewed as a Perv?
Could you make a video on ultra direct sexual game? I feel like that style would be perfect for me, but I am also kinda worried it will just make me be viewed as a perv and not get any.
Don’t be a fool, ..,don’t be a SIMP !
You may want someone that may have the body and all basically an 8 for instance but what if she dont respect you ? It’s tough tho so I ll Just get a simple girl she may not be an 8 all the body but if she loves you first it’s worth it
Do you believe it’s healthy in a relationship if your woman have male best friend or even the other way around? would it be insecure if you don’t agree with opposite sex friendships?
No it’s not healthy vice versa and it’s definitely not insecure. Majority of the time they have messed around it’s not even worth the headache.
So a lady friend hit me up sent me a message "hey i want to keep in touch let me have your instagram" i says to myself oh snap she goin' out of her way cool. Then when i hit her up dm takes a few days and a ghost emoji to let her get clued in that "hey you ghosting me (leaving me on read)" her response "i've been busy, work, moving, etc" I guess this goes with that she was just trying to be nice thing. In my head I thought she was feeling me or just trying to keep in touch for potential. I'm not liking the feeling of checking my insta... hoping she respond back. Would it be wrong for me to unfollow and remove her without saying a word? What if she hit me back and was serious? Or is this the type of woman that just wants to keep dudes on her roster just to have numbers? What ya'll think?
She doesn’t mean if she doesn’t hit you up. She asked you for your contact info so let her do the comms. I learned that the hard way…remember in school yearbooks everyone would write ‘KIT’ followed by their number? They didn’t really mean it, but it was just the courteous thing to say/do 😂
@@ripdajacker23 Thanks. I kinda figured. I may have thought too positive of the situation. Got my emotions all high when I should have been more chill about it. Thanks for not agreeing with me. Imma keep her around then. Won't do the talkin' unless she initiates. In the meantime I'll have to learn to keep my expectations low and things I can actually achieve (self work) on high.
@@ripdajacker23 abundance mindset. Just sit back an chill don’t focus on her, network with other women.
@@Ecc769 This makes more sense to me because I rather not cut them off like you said gotta be patient and look elsewhere. In the meantime create a larger network where I'll be so focused on other active communication that I'll forget that she was there. She'll either hit me up when curiosity peaks or will be totally forgotten because I'll be just that busy. I appreciate your time for helping me think clearly.
@StayStrongForever2323 I would dude. But I invested too much time to cut out so easily. Part of it is like discipline training. The idea is to "let myself flourish; I'll let you have that window to peep my progress" I hope this makes sense?
The Godfather has spoken!!! Thank You for the inspiration Legend 🫡