NRI Woman Separated from Kids, Dies by Suicide | Vantage with Palki Sharma

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  • NRI Woman Separated from Kids, Dies by Suicide | Vantage with Palki Sharma
    40-year-old Priyadarshini Patil died by suicide in Karnataka last week amid a prolonged custody battle for her children in Australia.
    Her death brings in focus on the child custody cases in foreign countries involving Indian or Indian-origin parents and their struggles.
    Is it a case of parental neglect or cultural differences? Palki Sharma tells you.
    NRI Woman | Suicide | Child Custody Cases | Firstpost | World News | Vantage | Palki Sharma
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Komentáře • 552

  • @Firstpost
    @Firstpost  Před 10 měsíci +39

    Can the state revoke someone's right to be a parent?
    Leave a comment and let us know your thoughts

    • @girsharma2076
      @girsharma2076 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Barabric and ignorant and we know whom we are talking about-let's not forget jealousy and racism!

    • @nainaeire
      @nainaeire Před 10 měsíci +1

      No

    • @frederiquecouture3924
      @frederiquecouture3924 Před 10 měsíci

      Thank You for the video.

    • @SAkash-hj1jl
      @SAkash-hj1jl Před 10 měsíci +9

      For some unknown reason, this particular story hit me the most of all stories of the past few months or so. I tweeted about it to Wion last week. Beyond that, I'll just say this.
      No one... I repeat, no one has the right to take a child away from the mother. In the eyes of Mother Universe, it is a crime far worse than stealing!
      For incidents like neglect or ill treatment, rather than taking the child away as the second step (after house visits), why not make it a court case to "take the child away from the mother" with a 6-month grace/counselling time to correct any wrong doings by parents? I think a vast majority of reasonable and caring parents will take necessary steps.
      Heck, even divorcing couple gets that kind of a breather before a court finalizes their separation, right? So, why such harsh treatment to kids/parents?
      Another option would have been to defer such matters to nearest Indian consular office, and let them come up with a suitable resolution.
      If the child is in immediate danger of being physically harmed, then that is a different matter. I guess that would turn into a police case, but even there the govt. should try placing the child under the guardianship of relatives or friends (with same cultural background) who can provide better atmosphere than the govt. can ever provide!
      What they together (doctors, neighbors and govt.) did to that family was totally unacceptable, and an utterly screwed-up display of so called "compassion/care" for the kids!
      Now, with that poor mother having deceased, let them live the rest of their lives with her death impacting them - CANNOT ESCAPE THAT, try what they may, or even if they forget over time! But the government of India should act tough on this matter, not only in Australia, but elsewhere too.

    • @girsharma2076
      @girsharma2076 Před 10 měsíci

      @@SAkash-hj1jl Absolutely well put. As I've commented somewhere-its barbaric and ignorant the words the West tend to throw at us. On another program the same people claim Paki Sharma reports not knowing about what she is talking about----exactly and only wheat the Western media relies on-surfing from gossips and social media to make the news the new lazy reporting while she works hard with honest numbers-as the GIta saying goes-not Buddhist philosophy which is Hinduism, not the taken from Hindu gyan and renamed chinese philosophy, not the hyped greek Philosophy or the analysed till paralysed to sound grander but makes no sense now us philospohy and most certainly not stolen from us western quotes lolz-the Original mother of all gyan and philosophy says-You see in others what you are yourself (sorry to shock the secular here who thought this was western or argue it is!)

  • @universeislove5837
    @universeislove5837 Před 10 měsíci +320

    A culture where sleeping with dog is okay but you can not sleep with your own toddler-- amazing culture

    • @nerisalobo
      @nerisalobo Před 10 měsíci +4

      You have a problem with people sleeping with their dogs?

    • @universeislove5837
      @universeislove5837 Před 10 měsíci +94

      @@nerisalobo yeah i have problem when state interfares with personal stuffs and not letting toddler sleep with his or her mother, also I have problem with a culture where you can love animals but you cannot love your own toddler. Yeah I have problem with such hypocrites who think sleeping with dogs is ok but sleeping with your own baby is wrong .... that's the amazing culture I was talking about dogs are better than your own toddlers that's what you guys are telling the world.

    • @BalaBalare
      @BalaBalare Před 10 měsíci +23

      ​@@nerisaloboI think u missed the remaining words from the same full sentence, it's sure called selective approach.... Now that is sure more big a problem !!

    • @anadumuakr4054
      @anadumuakr4054 Před 10 měsíci

      so live in your own gobarland lindu why go to foreign land to beg in their currency

    • @anadumuakr4054
      @anadumuakr4054 Před 10 měsíci +4

      just as casteism is illogical so is reservation so if former continues latter will continue as well

  • @MahiMahi-yu5jo
    @MahiMahi-yu5jo Před 10 měsíci +330

    So rather than help children who were victims of abuse in their country, they decided to break up families from other nations. That is explicit racism

    • @calisingh7978
      @calisingh7978 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Royal child trafficking has no country boundaries

    • @natashabannore6849
      @natashabannore6849 Před 10 měsíci +5

      ​@@calisingh7978this isn't a case of child trafficking though

    • @anadumuakr4054
      @anadumuakr4054 Před 10 měsíci +1

      wow casteist and communal lindus complaining about racism too much gobar

    • @renup2861
      @renup2861 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Indeed this is child trafficking

    • @HowieHoward-ti3dx
      @HowieHoward-ti3dx Před 10 měsíci

      Hindus and Muslims should stay in their own countries and not move to the west which doesn't need them.

  • @MsMamasha
    @MsMamasha Před 10 měsíci +283

    Norway??? Taking a child because parents feed them with hands and co-sleep???? OMG. I had a better impression of Norway. What a shame

    • @333trr333
      @333trr333 Před 10 měsíci +14

      Yes, that’s the law. They take extreme precautions like this so that the child doesn’t get infected or sick. It’s their law and it suits their citizens. So we have to adjust to their policies

    • @11pke
      @11pke Před 10 měsíci +16

      It is their culture, If one doesn't like their culture, they ought to consider leaving the country for good. No one is forcing anyone to migrate to their country.

    • @iamyou8994
      @iamyou8994 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​​​@@11pkeWonder why the white don't keep away from native territory buy ask the natives keep away from white territory.
      Nonetheless, I do agree that we should keep away from these countries and their people.

    • @MsMamasha
      @MsMamasha Před 10 měsíci

      @333trr333 what? Get sick by sleeping with parents? Or do they think parents don't know how to wash hands? How about cooking? Is Norway going to provide food for every child so they wouldn't get sick from improper cooking? Did the whole country vote for these rules?
      Are sandwiches banned at home because parents put them together with their hands?? What an ibsanity??
      Norway turned out to be a terrible tyrannical state. That's socialism for you in all its beauty.

    • @mummy5490
      @mummy5490 Před 10 měsíci +56

      ​@@11pkeseriously? Then don't allow at first place..the so called first world grant visa to India for their high skills..may be ask your government to find in your own population

  • @chidenisee
    @chidenisee Před 10 měsíci +294

    I’m black in the US I co-sleeper and I have definitely fed my son with my hands. I don’t know a parent of any nationality who hasn’t done these things. Also, from what I have learned about Indian culture these things are the norms.

    • @oksowhat
      @oksowhat Před 10 měsíci +7

      yes, and its not like its render them usless for the world, it makes them one of the best talent in the world which each west country want with their decreasing birthrate

    • @bhavin105
      @bhavin105 Před 10 měsíci +18

      In Indian culture, till the age of seven, physical touch is considered essential for emotional growth of a child. Parents (particularly mothers) were deemed careless if they failed to do that. If the mother is unavailable the kids shared bed with grandma or other relatives too. I used to sleep by my grandma. I have also shared a bed with my aunts and even adult cousin sisters. It is common for older siblings to role play mothers for kids in the family.
      As much affection the kids receive from all these loving women in the family they are also entitled to scold and discipline as required when the kids are being naughty.
      The whole world is getting westernised but it is still a common sight in rural India. You will see toddlers being looked after by their mother, grandmother and older sisters. They will all feed, wash and clean the baby with hands.

    • @AS-jo8qh
      @AS-jo8qh Před 10 měsíci +12

      I am 28 and still co-sleep with my mom. Because I feel safer and cost there than my own room

    • @chidenisee
      @chidenisee Před 10 měsíci +8

      @@bhavin105 yep. I sometimes sleep with my mom and son in between us. He feels safe that way. I slept with my great grandma or my grandma and grand pa growing up. I never thought that could be considered a crime.

    • @earrth911
      @earrth911 Před 10 měsíci +3

      in African culture as well

  • @jaaz5531
    @jaaz5531 Před 10 měsíci +90

    Shame on these countries for separating parents with their children just coz they couldn’t understand and respect cultural differences.

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I agree with the Norway case. This sounds ridiculous. In the german case there is an sa allegation due to a "weird" injury. If a doctor informed the youth welfare office, they have to take action. The case isn't closed it seems, but still investigated. It's terrible, but with possible s3xual abus3, which might not have happened, that's investigated. I can understand it.
      Norway just sounds bonkers though.

    • @nutzlos19
      @nutzlos19 Před 10 měsíci

      @@danika9411 the case was cleared. No one was found guilty by the trial..but they are just not giving the child back even after one year of winning the case. Once the child completes 2 years with foster parents, they will terminate parental rights of biological parents.

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 Před 10 měsíci

      @@nutzlos19 I looked it up as well. The girl was penetrated with the fingers of her grandmother who wanted to "check" something for religious reasons. She was injured and bled from her v@g*na, so much they had to go to an emergency room. This is considered sa in germany by law. Their stories of what happend didn't add up though, so no one was found guilty, because there are doubts that it was the grandmother.
      Not finding someone guilty and winning aren't the same thing in germany. If there would be new evidence they can reopen the case. Winning means there is no doubt, that nothing happened and the case is closed. In both cases no one goes to prison, so it might feel and look like winning, but technically they are not the same thing.
      What is true is that someone penetrated the v@g*na of her to the point she was injured and needed to go to an emergency room. And that is considered s3xual abus3. Whoever did that, it seems to be someone from the family. So they are not going to give her back.
      Sorry, after looking it up, I'm on the side of the youth welfare office in that specific case.

    • @nagaraju31108
      @nagaraju31108 Před 10 měsíci

      They are dumb, dumber and dumbest to understand the cultural differences.

  • @user-wb8ql4ky7j
    @user-wb8ql4ky7j Před 10 měsíci +51

    Audacity is , they preach human rights to us ,,,shame on these hypocrates

  • @aninditabhattacharya1715
    @aninditabhattacharya1715 Před 10 měsíci +132

    And they talk about intolerance in India, while being unable to acknowledge there's a world beyond their myopic vision (or rather the lack of it)

    • @ankitadobhal119
      @ankitadobhal119 Před 10 měsíci

      Exactly my point. We are so acceptable while I understand we are behind in so many things but this is utter nonsense how do you not discuss or understand what is right or wrong and take it to this extreme

    • @aninditabhattacharya1715
      @aninditabhattacharya1715 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@ankitadobhal119they have genuinely lost perspective of diverse approaches because of creating too many systems.

  • @sagar.i
    @sagar.i Před 10 měsíci +104

    Indian communities in Australia should take strong action and the family should sue local government for millions.
    Only after they take financial loss, will they not indulge in such acts and train local law enforcement agencies to be wary of cultural nuances and act appropriately

    • @calisingh7978
      @calisingh7978 Před 10 měsíci

      Guaranteed if the parents clean with no abuse they would be

    • @jaswantsingh9287
      @jaswantsingh9287 Před 10 měsíci

      Will the millions bring back the mother.

    • @josheversmann1376
      @josheversmann1376 Před 10 měsíci +5

      ​@@jaswantsingh9287no, but can save many more mothers

    • @dolly7426
      @dolly7426 Před 10 měsíci +3

      ​@@calisingh7978Pakistani najayaaz spotted

    • @saffrondominic4585
      @saffrondominic4585 Před 10 měsíci

      Really? "sue local government for millions"?

  • @officialswatichannel
    @officialswatichannel Před 10 měsíci +86

    It's worst than putting someone in prison. Worst than a death sentence for a loving parent.

    • @HowieHoward-ti3dx
      @HowieHoward-ti3dx Před 10 měsíci

      Hindus and Muslims should stay in their own countries and not move to the west which doesn't need them.

  • @delmanpronto9374
    @delmanpronto9374 Před 10 měsíci +108

    the romans used to kidnap children from the villages and territories they used to raid. these children would then be raised in the roman way, and would be expected to remain dependent and loyal to roman society and be used for various purposes including their army. in modern western society, even if many children are not taken into custody, they are trained very early to hate upon their culture, their past, their race, and to embrace their adopted country's values, morals, principles and outlook. it's a racket that goes back many centuries.

    • @calisingh7978
      @calisingh7978 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Am sure it wouldn’t be like that in India too, oh wait… 😂

    • @delmanpronto9374
      @delmanpronto9374 Před 10 měsíci +10

      ​@@calisingh7978 no it doesn't happen there.

    • @Healback54
      @Healback54 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Yep. It doesn't happen in India.

    • @earrth911
      @earrth911 Před 10 měsíci

      the race thing is already a brainwashed, invented by white supremacist which led to Nazism is German.

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes you are right and they are doing right also.

  • @disturbed0insane
    @disturbed0insane Před 10 měsíci +45

    It's not just over reach, they want to normalise govt's interference in families.

  • @satishkamtikar958
    @satishkamtikar958 Před 10 měsíci +16

    Worst pain for a mother.
    Being separated from her children

  • @Alinahistoriker
    @Alinahistoriker Před 10 měsíci +191

    No doubt She was a loving mother and she could not bear the pain of separation
    Australia was founded as a penal colony for the British convicts
    Their convict genes are still active.

    • @nizarpramji387
      @nizarpramji387 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Very active

    • @calisingh7978
      @calisingh7978 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Interesting her kid taken away and she goes to vacation india… totally normal..

    • @bineshsukumaran1994
      @bineshsukumaran1994 Před 10 měsíci

      Don't you see the irony? You're being extremely racist.

    • @vaagai9808
      @vaagai9808 Před 10 měsíci

      @@calisingh7978 Dumbo, look into the case, She was fighting for more than an year. She decided to commit suicide after the court postponed the hearing. The least you could do is not insult the death of a grieving mother.

    • @ajeshjose7881
      @ajeshjose7881 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@calisingh7978are you a fool or what? They said she fought,she fought and finally

  • @anughosh
    @anughosh Před 10 měsíci +22

    No a state cannot, this is an overreaction. The foster care or state care here in Australia is concerning, where child abuse and neglect prevail.
    People of colour or culture are discriminated everyday in all aspects.

  • @meg9816
    @meg9816 Před 10 měsíci +31

    Everyone knows how good these shelter homes are, there are so many cases of abuse and drugs. Europe has more issue with other cultures. This time govt should take some strict action.

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 Před 10 měsíci

      At least Europe has shelters poor Indians sleep on earth without food nd toilets

  • @cathjj840
    @cathjj840 Před 10 měsíci +45

    Swedish tradition was for the mother to chew the food herself before putting it in the baby's mouth. I've heard some still do this.

  • @sarithapandey6515
    @sarithapandey6515 Před 10 měsíci +83

    I hope people everywhere understand how it hurts when government discriminates against individuals based on cultural differences.
    Medical kidnap is common in these countries. If the doctors can’t find an answer they start blaming parents. Netflix documentary taking care of maya is also based on such a case.

  • @TheArchmage100
    @TheArchmage100 Před 10 měsíci +20

    In the name of "child welfare", They do illegal business there. The problem is, The government allows them to do the same. Such evils exist. And still Indians are not realizing that and paying the price in foreign countries. What good is the money when the life is lost?

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 Před 10 měsíci

      So India is free of western evils. Grinding poverty bringing children into the world to beg or prostitution burning daughters in law for insufficient dowry nd women being second class humans to male. Rampant patriarchy nd evil religious practices like lynching. List is endless

  • @anwayabarve09
    @anwayabarve09 Před 10 měsíci +17

    This is absolutely heartbreaking. And yes it is racism. The lady who committed suicide also mentioned of her Australian neighbors troubling her family. This is so sad and I can’t believe it’s happening in the times of twitter, media and supposedly modern world.

    • @elena537743
      @elena537743 Před 9 měsíci

      Racism nahi hai , these are some senseless laws they trouble their own people . Thats why many conservatives hates these liberal laws over their. Ye conservative citizens ko aise hi pareshan karte h.

  • @VP07
    @VP07 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Live in your own country, simple

  • @dazzlingdeep6104
    @dazzlingdeep6104 Před 10 měsíci +13

    Shame on these so called developed countries who question Indian parents, who don't even know what is parenting. People of these countries sleep with so many people that at the end the mother herself doesn't know whose child she has given birth to & such people question Indian parents.

  • @lawclerksanbar3790
    @lawclerksanbar3790 Před 10 měsíci +47

    I know full grown adults sleep in the same room as their parents (both men and women) i know 28 olds who get breakfast fed as they get ready to leave for work. Indian families are tight knit. Family is everything for us and we look up to our parents and their affection as mark of a good family. West pervert these affection with sexual and other concepts.

    • @alaps01
      @alaps01 Před 10 měsíci

      This is grossly bad. A man after 20 shouldn’t be sleeping with mother, he is either a man child or the family has issues to resolve. Have you heard of Krishna/Ram’s youth was revolving around mother ? Rather they took up hard core work with ladies on their side. Growing up does mean disrespect- it means being an individual not a shadow.

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 Před 10 měsíci

      Yes this is the problem with Indian parents. Too much control of their children when it comes to arranged marriages for economic opportunistic reasons only. Again mothers in law treating their daughters in law with complete disregard nd sons siding with their mothers. Dowry deaths in Australia come to mind. You nd your family chose the West with its perverted concepts then you can either go back to India or stop making negative comments. Don't bite the hand that feeds you.indians always lecturing the West but legally nd illegally seeking asylum in the West

  • @Grateful078
    @Grateful078 Před 10 měsíci +24

    Some people can comment on this ruthlessly because you haven't experienced motherhood. Being one, I feel for this mother.

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 Před 10 měsíci

      Oh stop criticising women without children. Indian attitudes are so regressive. Being a woman does not mean having children is what all women are born to be breeding machines or witches if women don't conceive.

  • @sangeetawesley6683
    @sangeetawesley6683 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Prayers for the grieving family 😢

  • @Mapogo792
    @Mapogo792 Před 10 měsíci +12

    This is what you get for going into these countries , but will you stop going there , you won't.

  • @macrosoftdevelopers6713
    @macrosoftdevelopers6713 Před 10 měsíci +5

    this kinda stuff is so messed up, how is it even possible to take-away one's child..

  • @shally4477
    @shally4477 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Finally someone raised the issue 👍

  • @Robins769
    @Robins769 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Foreign ministry should take it seriously.

  • @alia7919
    @alia7919 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Australian hospital and child care services should be sued for killing a mother and taking her away from her 2 children

  • @dollyschwall8537
    @dollyschwall8537 Před 10 měsíci +25

    Thanks Palki for this heart broken news . May our western regime open their eyes to know the truth .so many lives would have been saved.

    • @agnescraig2912
      @agnescraig2912 Před 10 měsíci

      Why are so many Indians heading to these so called western regimes which are heartless. Pls fix this migration problem with your government first before finger pointing like that stupid index finger of Modi

  • @dbasumallik1322
    @dbasumallik1322 Před 10 měsíci +3

    All you need to see what is happening in Australia about the Child Crime where the kids in custody are unbale to give them the required care

  • @xgaming21320
    @xgaming21320 Před 10 měsíci +4

    If i was separated from my mother like this she would also commited suicide so i can't blame the mother.

  • @amanaryan5566
    @amanaryan5566 Před 10 měsíci +6

    When you leave India to settle in that country, take their citizenship.
    Then behave like that, don't try to impart Indian culture on their country. And don't expect them to be okay with it.
    While settling, one should be aware of the culture in the respective lands.
    I expect the same from others coming here.

    • @story-ju9cu
      @story-ju9cu Před 10 měsíci +1

      She was doing it in their own home to her own children but obviously you will know for this you have to have a mother love and men like u don't have it and u don't deserve it also

    • @amanaryan5566
      @amanaryan5566 Před 10 měsíci

      @@story-ju9cu Law of the land comes first.

    • @universeislove5837
      @universeislove5837 Před 10 měsíci

      @@amanaryan5566 NO humans and humanity comes first -- your culture is demonic way of living --killing humans on the name of rules

    • @story-ju9cu
      @story-ju9cu Před 10 měsíci

      @@amanaryan5566 woww so you are me telling me that if I move to a democratic country with all the freedoms in the world ye i can't even raise my child (without abuse) without the law interference what kind of democratic country is this

  • @1mcg1
    @1mcg1 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Here in sweden some social workers just got busted for taking children without any reson ......

  • @SandeManjali
    @SandeManjali Před 10 měsíci +9

    Indians choose themselves the countries where to migrate before that need to go thr the local law . We cant blame other countries law we should think twice before you plan to get settle in any foreign country and be aware of the countries law and regulations

    • @kanakatari5537
      @kanakatari5537 Před 10 měsíci +3

      You are right. But do you think feeding a child with hand is so unheard of? Do their citizens never use their hands while eating? Burger? chips? Pizza? Have they never heard of child wanting to sleep in same bed as parent because they had nightmare or were not comfortable alone? I smell racism. And it cant be solved with avoiding these countries. In the past we stayed in our own country, and they colonized. We cant stay in India and hope they will play fair.

  • @NBNagarajan
    @NBNagarajan Před 10 měsíci +7

    Alas! a child has been abondoned by the State Authorities by having made overreach to the parents' rights. It is not acceptable. It won't compensate to huge money supposed to be given to the family.
    Indian govt. should take the matter to the govt, and instruct them not to interfere the rights of the children of the other nations.

  • @Vijay-pm5vv
    @Vijay-pm5vv Před 10 měsíci +5

    Many unheard stories lie in the womb of history silently.

  • @arjuntyagi5860
    @arjuntyagi5860 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Never settle in foreign if your child is small

  • @therealgrimreaper68
    @therealgrimreaper68 Před 10 měsíci +2

    And they're the ones tell a boy he's a girl because he likes the colour pink and if parents don't accept then they take their child away.

  • @soumyachintu5024
    @soumyachintu5024 Před 10 měsíci +5

    What is government of India doing?

  • @sangeetawesley6683
    @sangeetawesley6683 Před 10 měsíci

    😮😢
    Condolences 😨

  • @bharatr2615
    @bharatr2615 Před 10 měsíci

    Heart breaking ..😢

  • @binagupta3308
    @binagupta3308 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I find western parents rather cold. Babies are made to sleep alone in a different room do they even realise that has a massive psychological impact on the child. No wonder their babies hang on to soft toys or a blanket for dear life the toys and blankets seem to be mother’s replacement that is why they never let go till they are old enough to a particular toy or a blanket they have been used to sleeping with since the time they are born. In US breast feeding is replaced with formula milk if they had their way they’ll have babies popping out of vending machines. No wonder teenagers there face so many emotional and psychological problems

  • @joshanupamtaneja8675
    @joshanupamtaneja8675 Před 10 měsíci +67

    These news only become headlines when moms are denied custody. Ask those Poor fathers who have been on an uphill battle to try get bare minimum visitation rights over the last 50 years of custody battles in the US family courts. 😢 Not that fathers are any lesser parent or have lesser love for the child, but the world views moms as the natural guardian of children which is gender inequality to begin with.

    • @sav3nad
      @sav3nad Před 10 měsíci +11

      What has that got to do with this one?

    • @safinabanu3456
      @safinabanu3456 Před 10 měsíci +3

      True.... The feel is same , But this case is little different.

    • @larisachan1787
      @larisachan1787 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@safinabanu3456how is this different?

    • @Haru-nee
      @Haru-nee Před 10 měsíci +2

      Ummm... At its core, the channel is Indian. So they cover this issue from an Indian perspective.
      Btw, I've seen Americans talk about fathers' visitation rights.

    • @user-zp6zv5dj4z
      @user-zp6zv5dj4z Před 10 měsíci

      Inequality begins when mother carries child in womb and rips her body in half to birth it risking death, resulting disfigurement and mutilation. Compared to the male who gets an orgasm in comparison. So no, it's not equal and can never be.

  • @tonybelleo1895
    @tonybelleo1895 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I am going through the same thing.. they Have took 5 of mines.. and it's seems like nobody cares

  • @younickbongo7870
    @younickbongo7870 Před 10 měsíci +2

    what can you say alcoholic parents in the west can't rely. they think the same for us.

  • @Shaily.kapadia
    @Shaily.kapadia Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for bringing this issue of Dhara Shah. There is a trend of taking Indian children away from respective parents. Make this a burning issue so that deaf can hear pounding noise and blind sees the brightest light.

  • @Devi-pg4rj
    @Devi-pg4rj Před 10 měsíci +2

    The child's wellbeing and safety should be put above all...

  • @Truthseeker371
    @Truthseeker371 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Why did she leave Australia? The motive is unclear and unmentioned. Lacking critical information.

  • @maibege761
    @maibege761 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Nigerians in western countries are suffering same fate. This is a tale of clash of cultural differences. The western countries have destroyed the old, traditional ways of living, care and discipline of children, parents authority over their kids. it's really terrible.

  • @MaroonRays
    @MaroonRays Před 10 měsíci +3

    Wow 1st world country

  • @jatinkg1
    @jatinkg1 Před 10 měsíci +13

    If a child is not improving despite 6 months of treatment, isn't the case of patient neglect???

  • @deshmaa1177
    @deshmaa1177 Před 10 měsíci +3

    This is a very sad outcome. However, Indians leaving their own homeland should be equipped with knowledge of the laws of the adopted or to-be-adopted lands. It's a mindset and that needs changing or else stay home, be happy!

  • @gulshangupta1899
    @gulshangupta1899 Před 10 měsíci

    So so sad 😞😞

  • @joyj6702
    @joyj6702 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Omg its so heart breaking

  • @omkarmavlankar6611
    @omkarmavlankar6611 Před 10 měsíci +10

    They sleep with their pets....
    We call cows mata...
    Different strokes for different folks

  • @KB-sz9lu
    @KB-sz9lu Před 10 měsíci +7

    as an NRI and Ulcerative colitis patient for the last 6 years! I think their parents are at wrong side. Its a very severe diseases and especially when not proper medical treatment it can be very serious and even fatal in teenagers, its doesn't cure or reach remission in 6 months, even i was trying steroids and 6 biologics in last 6 years ,still its not in complete remission and its a disability.
    How can a parent can leave their sick teenagers (of course after state control)and come back to India? it clearly shows the parent is not fit mentally ! If parent doesn't allow to treat/care after 6 months state should have rights to take over and treat them !

    • @user-om7hn6zi3f
      @user-om7hn6zi3f Před 10 měsíci +7

      Common dude every body have right to take choice of medication, parser might have thought they can shift to better hospital else where even it can be India , there are many cases where foreigners- non Indian visit India for medical treatments. It’s obvious that parents are worried about their child but all emotional things does not mean mental health issues.
      Wow then your incapacity to think from both sides of coin sounds as greater mental or mentality issue

    • @KB-sz9lu
      @KB-sz9lu Před 10 měsíci

      @@user-om7hn6zi3f so you clearly dont know what is Ulcerative colitis, it is pooping blood 20 to 30 times a day, its a disability, person cant even travel, you are talking about an international travel and the laws doesnt allow that! be a roman in Rome !! No official takes control of kids just because parents want a different treatment! When doctors cofrims that the parent is causing harm to the child

    • @Goldenbirdchirp
      @Goldenbirdchirp Před 10 měsíci

      It's normal for Indians to go for alternative medicine like ayurveda for minor diseases like cough/Cold etc. And for other serious diseases, medical tourism from these countries is also quite common in India. It's better than western parents denying vaccine to kids....they don't take away white children for that.

  • @serenity8145
    @serenity8145 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Why would the mother return to India when her children are in Australia? She should have stayed and fought the case. The truth is always deeper. Surprised that Firstpost is tending to cover and ‘sensationalise’ stories these days. They should try and unearth the truth (from both sides).

  • @mygreenparadise431
    @mygreenparadise431 Před 10 měsíci +18

    India needs laws too. Child abuse is taken very casually in India. Especially when abroad one must kniw what the rules are. Any kind of child abuse or carelessness is taken very strictly. That small child had injury in private area. Really by mistake?

    • @AdityaRaj-hj6wi
      @AdityaRaj-hj6wi Před 10 měsíci +5

      You are talking about case in Germany. What do you say on Norway matter where children were taken away for feeding them with hand ??

    • @Healback54
      @Healback54 Před 10 měsíci +1

      You are most welcome to open an institution for homeless street kids in India. There are too many on the streets. 99% are attached to gangs, so normal people can't help them. After all that is done, start with splitting kids from families instead of reforming the parent. Good strategy of yours 👏 (Hope you read the sarcasm here)

    • @dolly7426
      @dolly7426 Před 10 měsíci

      Pakistan is the worst...chid abuse is rampant and paedophiles roaming freely

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@AdityaRaj-hj6wi I don't like the laws in Norway. Which is why I wouldn't move there with small children.

  • @rathinbhattacharjee535
    @rathinbhattacharjee535 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Watch “ Mrs. Chatterjee and Norway”- western hipocracy to Immigrants .

  • @ishibhatt
    @ishibhatt Před 10 měsíci +16

    I don't know about the rest but Ariha was bleeding from her private parts because of which she was taken into custody. She must not be given back without proper investigation.

    • @Haru-nee
      @Haru-nee Před 10 měsíci

      Wait what? Source?

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 Před 10 měsíci

      ​​@@Haru-nee I can't link here, but you can find it if you look for it. A lot of articles only give some information. I read through 3 so far. What I got from them is that she was bleeding from her private parts and that it was her grandmother... The charges were dropped, which is not the same as winning the case. It simply means there is too little evidence to come to a conclusion.
      Fact is she was 7 month old and her parents were bringing her into a hospital bleeding from her private parts. Which in itself is weird already, because in Germany you only go to a hospital for bigger injuries. For smaller ones you go to doctors offices. I'm 37 and have only been to a hospital 3 times here. One time a car accident, one time a broken bone and one time, because I had a bad reaction to medication, it was weekend and I needed help asap. For more normal things like, small cuts, fevers, infections ect., you do normally not go to a hospital to an emergency room. And the only way into a hospital is via emergency room or if a doctor from a normal doctors office that you went to first!, wrote you a note. So from my german perspective this sounds wrong already, because it was big enough to be treated at a hospital.
      If an infant bleending from her v@gina is in the emergency room, the doctor has to inform the youth welfare office. He has to by law. They then decided to take the child into custody. They lost the custody battle. The r@pe charges were dropped. Their story with the grandmother checking her vagina and needing to penetrate her for it which caused bleeding is wild too.
      We have pretty strong laws concerning r@pe here. You are not allowed to penetrate an infant/child. Period. Not with your fingers or objects. Even if it is not meant in a s3xual way, it is forbidden. Only exception you need to do it for medical reasons, because you need to insert medication for infection or something like that. You can't penetrate a child for religious reasons or out of curiosity or something like that. It is forbidden.
      Trying to win custody back will be hard since they admitted to penetrating her which cause her to bleed from her v@gina. The story with her grandmother doing it sounds weird. And I assume that's why they dropped ( not won ) the case. Because it doesn't go well together with the injury ect.
      This is my perspective as a german to the case.

  • @smithv447
    @smithv447 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Tragic one.
    But blame it one
    immigrants.
    Indians beware of the law of the land before reaching.
    Before immigration understand the culture and laws . Think and decide.
    *Don't blame*

  • @bora3.14
    @bora3.14 Před 10 měsíci +31

    Asian parents are known for tough love. Dont judge them as bad parents if they smack their kids or treat them with tough love. All asian kids are used to this parenting style and it is nothing wrong to teach good manners to your kids in hard way

    • @avisheksarraf2046
      @avisheksarraf2046 Před 10 měsíci +1

      dude this may be vaild in asian countries as to beat their children and do anything with them but if u are living in west you need to follow their rules and culture and not impose ours

  • @RKV8527
    @RKV8527 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Western culture is shameful 😢

    • @bubbletech1620
      @bubbletech1620 Před 10 měsíci +1

      You mean shameless?

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 Před 10 měsíci

      In the german case apparently the grandmother penetrated the child, because she wanted to "check her v@gina", so much that she bled from her private parts and was brought to an emergency room. So I can see why they lost custody.

  • @Gaurav21ify
    @Gaurav21ify Před 10 měsíci

    Child services acting like a bully here. Indian govt should intervene

  • @soman6283
    @soman6283 Před 10 měsíci

    Very very sad

  • @saffrondominic4585
    @saffrondominic4585 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Why I find this news quite bias? I'm from the UK. The child protection law is extremely strict in European countries. I'm a multi-lingual with South Indian origin, and I'm a qualified Social care interpreter. I've handled many cases and the most were with parents from India and Sri Lanka whom were charged with childcare negligence. Let me share a few examples of cases which I have been involved directly assigned by the Social-Welfare authority. Case #1: A Sri Lankan mother put her 3 year old daughter and her 18mths toddler for an evening nap and left them alone at home to do some outside chores, while her husband was at work. Her white-British neighbour heard children crying, and when she went to check, the door was locked from inside, so she peep-through the window and saw them crying and screaming for their mother with sweat all over their body and looking so frightened, but she couldn't help. So, she has to call the police and the firemen to free the children from the locked door, and yet the mother was no where to be seen, only returned home after 2 hours. Both the children were taken under custody by the Social Welfare Authority, then I was called in to handle the case. The Mother felt she didn't do anything wrong😯. Can you say this is a discrimination by the authority?
    Case #2 - a 5 year old Indian girl had injured mark on her forehead, arm and lips, her school teacher made a report to the Social Care to look into the matter. I was called in to handle the case - when I asked the 5 year old in private how she got the marks without her parents' presence in the office, she said she was beaten by her father for not doing Maths. But, luckily the parents admitted their mistakes and agreed to conform to the Childcare Protection Act and officially signed the declaration form if the case is repeated they will be charged for negligence, lose the custody on their child and deported back to their home country. Is this a discrimination by the authority on child-protection?
    If any parents decide to live in a foreign country, esp the Europe, with heavy Child Protection Act in place, I suggest please DON'T bring your home-culture of children upbringing and try to prove you are right when you're wrong esp. concerning children safety. "If you are in Rome do what the Romans do". Period!

    • @Gaurav21ify
      @Gaurav21ify Před 10 měsíci

      What was the mistake here in this case ?? Hospital didn’t get enough days to loot the parents?

    • @saffrondominic4585
      @saffrondominic4585 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Gaurav21ify In most European countries medical service is free for children, so what is there to loot from the parents?

    • @Gaurav21ify
      @Gaurav21ify Před 10 měsíci

      @@saffrondominic4585 how do you justify this case then ?

    • @saffrondominic4585
      @saffrondominic4585 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@Gaurav21ify Parents' negligence is a serious offence.

    • @Gaurav21ify
      @Gaurav21ify Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@saffrondominic4585 and what was the negligence here? Infact there are drug addicts raising children in same countries, how come authorities are blind to them

  • @arindamkumar7725
    @arindamkumar7725 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Didn't Sagarika Chakraborty case happen in un Sweden?

  • @2020Ibrahim
    @2020Ibrahim Před měsícem +1

    I think u guys down play the seriousness of the German case ... something serious happened to the private part of that 7 month old baby girl ... she wasn't just taking away because of a minor injury... so let's not sugar code it

  • @sandycheeks1580
    @sandycheeks1580 Před 10 měsíci +1

    😢MONEY 💰 is the motivation. Courts, attorneys, contracted orgs, foster homes, and caseworkers fill their bank accounts by taking children into state custody!!!😢

  • @secularchutya3925
    @secularchutya3925 Před 10 měsíci

    Good

  • @Belgique07
    @Belgique07 Před 10 měsíci +14

    I am a bit confused on Ariha's case actually. Why was her grandmother being invasive with the private parts of such a small baby? The submitted affidavit states that the grandmother was checking the baby’s private area to verify an astrologer’s prediction when accidentally got penetrated. And such grievously that needed a remedial surgery procedure ! The forensic report has refuted the accidental angle and what’s more disturbing is that similar penetrations were also observed the next day as well. Nothing justifies examination of a baby’s private parts on the basis of predictions from astrologers!

    • @BS-zt4xp
      @BS-zt4xp Před 10 měsíci +7

      Dude...the grandfather sexually abused the child. Grandmother did nothing.

    • @minha8821
      @minha8821 Před 10 měsíci +5

      true i also have that doubt

    • @Belgique07
      @Belgique07 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@BS-zt4xp really?? Thats sick !! Shameful

    • @fire6915
      @fire6915 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@Belgique07 these stupid news are here to protect rapist parents.
      In reality, 80-90%, child abuse cases comes from own family. That's why foreign countries are too much strict.
      But abusive and rapist Indian families have problem in this and now they are doing international drama on news media.
      In India many fathers do rape their own daughters at her early age like 3-5.

    • @catcat63527
      @catcat63527 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@BS-zt4xpbro, there was no sexual abuse. Wtf are you making out of your own ass? They dismissed the sexual assault charges, but still keep the child in custody.

  • @yess10
    @yess10 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The state should keep away from these matters.

  • @joseluisaguilaralonzo6374
    @joseluisaguilaralonzo6374 Před 10 měsíci +1

    GREAT MASTER CLASSES ...

  • @enadiedericks2006
    @enadiedericks2006 Před 10 měsíci

    😢😢😢

  • @abhishes
    @abhishes Před 10 měsíci +2

    People should follow the law and culture of the land this includes Indian parents. Don't forget that there is lot of abuse in Indian families which includes physical torture and neglect. Indians just assume that we are very cultured while turning a blind eye to the abuse which goes on

  • @nakulraj5642
    @nakulraj5642 Před 10 měsíci +6

    When u r in their nation, be one of them. Or else face consequences.

    • @devshreebhardwaj3096
      @devshreebhardwaj3096 Před 10 měsíci +9

      Wow, are you insane! People are going as expats not as servants/ bonded labour!
      Everybody has freedom to follow their religion and culture, till it’s not harming anybody.

    • @R_t-99
      @R_t-99 Před 10 měsíci

      They cannot be like them in the house? How you become a white person in home?

  • @KarmeshMadhavi
    @KarmeshMadhavi Před 10 měsíci +2

    Still rich Indians want to settle in other countries.

  • @maejohannsebastian7142
    @maejohannsebastian7142 Před měsícem

    In Germany, the barriers are very high before authorities can take a child out of a family. And in a country, where people from nearly 200 other countries live, not every office clerk can know the customs of the country the child and parents are from. So it would be best to have a special person in every country's embassy who can assist in such cases and inform the authorities about the national customs. That would at least help to bring in more understanding and avoid misunderstanding of cultural differences.

  • @Cocococnut18_gamer81
    @Cocococnut18_gamer81 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Live in your own country..... Everything will be fine

  • @arindamkumar7725
    @arindamkumar7725 Před 10 měsíci +2

    What's is with these Child services?? Are they mad or what?

  • @wheathusk2499
    @wheathusk2499 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I hope u know Dhara Shah's daughter was abused by her grandfather most probably. It was really bad. I think the child is safer away from the family! I find the whole things disgustingly distasteful! How they overlook and not even question the s*xual abuse injuries on a 4 month old baby!!

  • @11pke
    @11pke Před 10 měsíci +20

    There is a saying In Rome be a Roman. Follow the local culture if not get out of the country. Aware this is emotional distress for the parents, but as a country it can only enacts laws with its culture/societal values. It cannot make laws for each and different culture.

    • @sachinsingh5329
      @sachinsingh5329 Před 10 měsíci +23

      How many western women wear Hizab while roaming on streets of Dubai???

    • @marttiereeds3494
      @marttiereeds3494 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@sachinsingh5329please tell that hypocrite

    • @marttiereeds3494
      @marttiereeds3494 Před 10 měsíci +3

      The local authority gets more funding from the state when they put these children in care

    • @iamyou8994
      @iamyou8994 Před 10 měsíci

      Could you ask your country to keep out of other countries as well who don't share your culture or is it some white privilege you seek?

    • @vishalrao4073
      @vishalrao4073 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@sachinsingh5329these western countries are same hypocrites countries who condemned Iran when few ladies got killed by Iranian policemen for not wearing hijab. Then why these western countries interferes with another country's culture?? It's Iran cultures and it's decision to make hijab compulsory, so why these western countries cries about human rights ?
      But now these western countries or Norway, Finland doing same atrocities in the name of law, then they are saying that be a Roman in Rome.
      Totally hypocrites.

  • @anugoomnaam8552
    @anugoomnaam8552 Před 10 měsíci +3

    🙏🕉️🇦🇺 Our Australian Government is the best we r Hindu n have not encountered anything n tbh there has to be more to this as we live here in Sydney.

  • @drivex6761
    @drivex6761 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Lack of adaptability that cause any casualty is under responsibility of our insufficiency
    Every region have norm n law
    To learn n comprehend the law n order of the land than assimilate with it
    Is 1st order in legal migration
    2nd issue is mitigation procedure that improperly made by india authority
    The family with law case issue should be given both lawyer n psychological assistance
    They may need more than assistance in the court
    But also personal suggestion for their situation from professional that familiar n understand with the culture of both side
    Sometime they need some1 that understand their situation n condition

  • @sujatagarud3162
    @sujatagarud3162 Před 10 měsíci

    I just pray and request that pl never do this to any mom.

  • @Bold-Beautiful
    @Bold-Beautiful Před 10 měsíci

    We don’t know the full story if kids were teenage then they said something which the court recognised as abuse .

  • @healinghearts24
    @healinghearts24 Před 9 měsíci

    Hypocrisy on another level

  • @tsehaykenfat4862
    @tsehaykenfat4862 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I am from Africa.our culture and the west culture is completely different. In the west if you divorce it will take many years to travel with your children because of the courts not approved the children to travel with the mother.

  • @vivavois8966
    @vivavois8966 Před 10 měsíci

    A hindu women died in Ireland of septic shock , whose child had died in the womb but wasn't allowed an abortion due to Christianity.

  • @autotechandspecs
    @autotechandspecs Před 10 měsíci +17

    The way Palki and her other Indian media are reporting this issue if care is not taken it will be seen as racism on the part of the nations involved.

    • @victoryv116
      @victoryv116 Před 10 měsíci +6

      well racism play a big role ...especially by institution , for example , measuring the quality of parenting based on western norms rather making any attempt to understand other's culture ...ask why? because they think other culture are inferior and that's called racism ...I am not saying Indian parenting best ...without knowing understanding anything , they treat parents as criminal and sperate their children from them break their family ....

    • @1abc546
      @1abc546 Před 10 měsíci +5

      It is racism and intolerance both.

    • @devshreebhardwaj3096
      @devshreebhardwaj3096 Před 10 měsíci +11

      In Norway they took away Indian kids coz the mother fed the toddler with hands and slept with the kid (which is part of our culture n totally normal)!
      This is nothing but racism.
      We are not defending mutilating the kids in the name of culture / religion which also happens in few societies - but atleast harmless diversities should be acknowledged and respected.

    • @ThePonderousMare
      @ThePonderousMare Před 10 měsíci +9

      Ofcourse this is racism. Would they do this to an white American expat family? What business does the state have interfering in family matters? If the person is indeed if questionable conduct best to deport such families and let the home country decide and provide verdict. Why should Australia decide on it's own when it's not their citizens?

    • @mahimajain2496
      @mahimajain2496 Před 10 měsíci

      It is blatant racism.

  • @ttttkkkk3763
    @ttttkkkk3763 Před 9 měsíci

    Indian govt should set up help agency for parents This is serious

  • @Truthseeker371
    @Truthseeker371 Před 10 měsíci +4

    The recent case of a British-Pakistani daughter's death case in Woking, UK is being investigated. The parent and stepmother fled to Pakistan and hid for a while fearing the investigation.

    • @dolly7426
      @dolly7426 Před 10 měsíci

      Pakistani paedophiles are well known for such crimes

  • @nalinpiyaratna9059
    @nalinpiyaratna9059 Před 10 měsíci

    Ask indigenous Australians some 200 children according to UNSW university own research found that 200 newborn babies/children per year were taken needlessly from their parents in NSW and Queensland.

  • @user-pe8uk4do5j
    @user-pe8uk4do5j Před 9 měsíci

    Shame poor mother
    May her soul rip

  • @debalinamukherjee7197
    @debalinamukherjee7197 Před 10 měsíci +2

    ho sakta hai improvement nehi rehi thi isliye woh apne bache ko udhar se nikal k india lana chahti thi taki yha unhe asani ho financial bhi yeh bhi to karan ho sakta hai

  • @harshalmagar16
    @harshalmagar16 Před 10 měsíci

    Indians are targeted like this by such agencies. As in Norway they get paid high amount from people there to get them a child. Poor Indian parents has to suffer.

  • @karthikbhadra5341
    @karthikbhadra5341 Před 10 měsíci

    This video have no sound

  • @gowrinavada8626
    @gowrinavada8626 Před 10 měsíci +15

    Yes, there are quite a signifiant percentage of narcissistic parents who abuse their children/ or one of their children physically, mentally and psychologically. But our society turna a blind eye to all of it making the life a hell for those children. They simly have nowhere to go and are helpless. The social welfare dept is needed in india too, so that those children can chose to get out of such toxic families

    • @user-om7hn6zi3f
      @user-om7hn6zi3f Před 10 měsíci +2

      Yeah you are true but in my opinion I think we should figure out something in between like helping children and given parents a chance to reform

    • @Healback54
      @Healback54 Před 10 měsíci

      First get the street kids in a safe institutions before splitting families and making more kids homeless(family-less).

    • @shilk4301
      @shilk4301 Před 10 měsíci +2

      We don’t know exactly what has happened . Palki sharma reporting is so absurd . She seems to me like just bashing other countries and looking for ways to make it look bad . In this case the kids are teenagers . The welfare dept came home and questioned the kids . So we still don’t know the full case and what happened . It’s totally possible she is right and they are wrong . Since it’s teenagers involved I am suspecting things

    • @dolly7426
      @dolly7426 Před 10 měsíci

      Especially in Pakistan...most child abuse and paedophile cases are there