Here in Maine we just had a local observance called “Maine Maple Sunday”. This day is celebrated with all things Maple! Many local farms, large and small, who produce maple syrup, open up to the public for tours (of the maple process from tree to bottle :) to treats and samples and more! So I bought a box of Maple Black Tea! The aroma is delicious and the flavor unique! With a hit of sugar it really does make for a satisfying cup of tea! Thank you for your video today and we appreciate your time. You always address great topics and make us think about things in ways we might not realize we need to do.
Glad I found this. My best friend at the time ghosted me after my Dad passed away. She never replied to my texts. I still don't know why. At the time I felt like I was mourning for 2 people. I will never forgive her for that. I truly found out who my friends are. My current best friend supported me through losing both. It was a dark time. After watching this I feel like I finally have closure. Thank you 💖
Honestly it is weird that this is a thing. Ghosting someone because you can't handle their tragedy.. But it really does happen. I'm so sorry and I'm glad you found your new bestie ❤️
Years ago one of my closest friends who was like a sister to me and a second daughter to my parents became a very different person. She decided that she was done with me as a friend. I have since reached the point that this aspect is not the thorn in my side that it was then. The problem is that MY parents chose to continue on as if she hadn't done me any harm and still welcomed her into our home after I moved back in with them because I had been sharing a rental house with her. My mother particularly has a bad habit of deciding that I need to get over something on her time table whether I'm ready or not. That whole Christian forgiveness thing can be really toxic. That is what came up for me. The former friendship is long done, but that pattern still affects my relationship with my parents.
side note: I try to avoid focusing on/mentioning physical appearance but that peachy/salmon-y pink is definitely YOUR colour and gives you a very radiant glow and just pops with your jet black hair and jewelry. anyway, in light of your recent tragedy thank you for your hard work and all your videos, and keep being awesome. ❤❤❤
i'm thankful i don't need this advice right now but i will honestly listen to you talk about anything, kelly-ann. thinking of you and wishing you all the strength and love as you are living through your bereavement 🖤
very interesting. i'm still dealing with the aftermath of someone hurting me very badly, knowing that it was entirely unintentional and a result of his own problems. it's hard to say "i was wronged" when the other person was doing his best with what he had, but i can't say it didn't hurt or that i'm ready to just forgive him and act like his actions were fine... much food for thought here!
So lovely to see you! 💗 I am also having a mental breather morning, resting my coping mechanisms for a hot minute, and tea and tarot has always been one of my absolute faves. I'm paused at 3 minutes in to go get my hot drink!
Jasmine green in my little cup. I am experiencing some mistreatment and greatly appreciate what you have to share about dealing with it. I tend to dwell on incidents of mistreatment, so hard to let go and rise above.
It can be soooo hard. For me it's really the taking it personally and wondering how I deserved that treatment or what I failed to see about that person that would make me fail to realise that they had the capacity to treat me like that when I was always so admiring of their positive characteristics.. It just takes too much time. I like to make a timeline so I can tell myself, 'You get to dwell on this, journal on this, do ritual around this etc for two months and then you need to put it to bed because you will probably NEVER know..'
Profitable and great video, Cassandra Ann Minervini Official my financial consultant has been consistent for years, you can look up her site and see the testimonies.
This hits hard in so many areas, trauma is real and valid and it lingers and festers sometimes without us even realising it is poisoning us. Learning to heal from that slowly is the best gift I can give to myself. So much love to everyone.
Glad to see you are back because I've missed you so much, but understand your leave of absence. I've been on a "tea kick" lately, but also drinking coffee. You asked what was in my cup, so right now it's coffee w/vanilla creamer and earlier it was "Buttermint" tea that Lisa Papez endorsed several months ago. Love them both!! My husband says the tea/coffee station he put up for me now looks like a science lab of sorts with my teas and kettle, cups/saucers, etc. out in the open. He might be right! LOL! Infusers, tea measuring spoons and my favorite cups are sitting out and my niece gifted me a beautiful set of vintage tea paraphernalia just recently, so good to go now!! I made a note of the tea in your video in hopes I can find it and give it a try. Wishing you a wonderful day as always =)
Life experience has shown me that essentially I am on my own. I cannot rely on any other person when the hard times come. So throw it at me, I will always centre back to myself.
I am drinking my maple almond milk coffee and taking some time for myself this afternoon during my toddler’s nap. This topic was very timely for me because my son’s father bailed on him this morning (not only wronging me, but wronging my child… 🤬) Every piece of this reading resonated strongly with me. Thank you Kelly Ann, I am new to Tea & Tarot but I absolutely love your interpretations.
Oh the synchronicity…you have no idea how much I needed this, or how much it has helped me. I have been mourning the end of my relationship with my best friend of over 20 years. They were increasingly using me when it suited them, and I eventually called them out because it went too far. They didn’t like it and have pretty much cut me off ever since. I have been grieving and wallowing but now I’m the King of Pentacles and I am done with it! Thank you so much pickle x
Sipping on my morning coffee as my cat and I watch this video. Thank you so much for these messages, Kelly-Ann. I've been wronged so many times in my life, and I struggle with a lot of emotional and social problems because of it. Anger, depression, cutting off people who show a whiff of disloyalty. My circle is very small and selective because of it. But at the same time, being hurt by others has opened my eyes to ugly side of humanity. I can protect myself better against nasty people, and it makes finding those good people all the more sweeter. Usually I relate to the message from the King of Pentacles, I cut off the dead weight and move on with my plans. It's painful, but necessary. On occasion though, I'll react like the shadowy Knight of Swords and put someone directly into a sour jar. However, dealing with them spiritually drains my body of that rage and negative energy, and I'm able to think clearly about what's going on and how I want to handle it in the physical world. I connect deeply with your reading, all three cards had something for me. Thank you again for your wisdom ❤
Hey there x I’ve just watched this video x and what timing x I’ve just had an extremely “challenging” weekend with a close family member who has done exactly this and your reading has not only nailed my focus and response, but inspired and reassured me that it’s quite alright to say.. “enough.. no seriously that’s fucking it..” thank you so much for this sincere and heartfelt reading because it’s exactly what I needed x 🙏🏼
Great to see a Tea and Tarot ♥️ Sending love. Had a day of only earl grey (since everyone seems to be sharing) but lots and lots of it. Many “I’ll put the kettle on”-moments ;) I’ll listen to the rest of this video later today
Thanks so much for your insight on the fact that the other person just can't deal with the bad stuff your going through. It happened to me with the unexpected death of my father . This puts a new perspective on it. However, yes I am a different person now coming out on the other side. I have realized; saddly, some people just have to go in my life.
For real - I feel this comment deeply. Same here. At the end of the day, i went from being angry and/or shocked at their absence during such a difficult time to being GRATEFUL for the information they have provided to me about how much I should put into the connection with them going forward. It's all just data for me to process - I don't hang on to judgements of them, I'm just like, 'Good to know.' ❤️
Thank you for that amazing mental image of an ultimate psycho-spiritual yacht party, which I will now use as motivation for pushing through the hard work. 😂🎉❤
Yes! I have a friend who isn't very good at handling my tough times. They are a wonderful friend honestly and it took me a long time to realize that my tough times trigger a deep sadness in them. At first I just thought they didn't care, but they actually care way too much! We've come up with an understanding and now I know that if they are silent during a tough time of mine that they are thinking deeply about me and with such emotion that words could not convey their love. I know that silence = care and now I am fine. Of course I try not to burden them too often, only telling them when I think it's a pivotal point in my life, something that they would want to know.
May I wish you Love and Light Kelly you are an inspiration and I know with losing your brother that it must be so so hard for you at the moment. Look after yourself hun xx
This is so fun. I just did a graphic design project on Mucha tonight. I’ve been all kinds of emotions and stress on top stress. I wanted a reading on this topic. Thank you.
excellent video!!! i am a dweller and learning to not be a dweller, im learning to really look at a situation and then keep it movin. as far as the smith/rock/jada situation, well, its messy and orchastrated, just my opinion. they brought down the value of real people and i will have nothing to do with them. it's time to get back to real juicy electric people and life, i'm going to watch this vid again and enjoy my coffee!!!
Drinking ☕ 😁 my husband says I broke when my sister asked to not be a part of my life. I think I know why she needed that and it actually I think was really better for us both but I definitely have not been the same.
Wise words Kelly-Ann, sending you love at this time. Last year a friend who had been really good to me sent me a message saying that I was sending her evil energy because she had a new partner and never wanted to hear from me again. I sent her a polite response and said I was shocked but would respect her decision and wished her well. She blocked me on all social media and mobile. I was sad but accepted her decision. xx
Thank you SO SO MUCH! I have been a silent follower for so long. This so spoke truth into all I feel and have endured.. 😪 Thank you so much for being yourself and just speaking how you feel and just saying the truth through the tarot cards you pull in these reads. They may not with everybody listening but sometimes they resonate with those who do and speaks volumes to my circumstances and I just can’t help thank you so much. 💖🪄🔮
❤️❤️❤️ I forgot to grab some tea!!!But eating a strawberry and custard tart - does that count? awesome cards - a very “mature” approach to dealing with shitty ppl. The Aries in me almost boils over and I feel like I need to go to war with ppl sometimes (verbally - never violent although the urge is there!) But thankfully I’m able to have strong words with myself to analyse the situation and wether it’s really worth my energy. Sooooooooooo much love to you lady. Hope you can feel the love out there for you 😉😘
"...with your head in the toilet of what this person did to you." HA! I love this. Definitely resonated with the over-journaling and getting no where with it after a certain point, and just needing to move on and keep my eyes on my own lane, invest in my own life. Thank you for this reading.
Thank you for this. I'm not going through any drama with people treating me like poo right now but I'm going through a grieving process of my own of losing someone dear to me so it was lovely to listen to you on this Friday night. I am drinking golden Oat milk with turmeric, ginger, cinnamon, cardamon, star anise, and black pepper.
Unusual for me but I had no tea whilst watching, but if I wasnt being lazy I would have made a basic brew of builders tea 😄 This was all good sound advice that I actually have employed myself dealing with a shitty situation (that im still trying to extricate myself from). What stuck out for me is how its very noticeable how harmful people want to come back into your life when youre showing positive signs of moving on and rebuilding, they seem to know the perfect moment you may be having a moment of insecurity or doubt. This is where Knight of Swords comes in handy to reassess your values and reaffirm boundaries. I wish I had had these lessons 20yrs ago. Would have saved me a lot of trauma. Thank you KellyAnn 💞 Are you still taking on patreons or would you prefer new sign ups to give you some breathing time? I dont want to give you more admin headache etc x
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replay watching, drinking watter with a slice of orange and a slice for fresh jalepeno
Drinking an organic oolong tea which I bought from the smallest house in Amsterdam! Love this topic, too. Thanks for sharing and hope you are travelling as well as you can through your time of grief ❤
At work with some early Grey and bergamot! And YES on all three cards and their precise order....I myself a Scorpio am done dwelling on the past and I began my morning with the King of Pentacle mentality....been there, done that, moving on....Thank you sweet pea....my heart is lifted seeing you smile under the circumstances....bubbles of hugs and sprinkles of giggles 💚 #teamrock
Diet Coke straight from the bottle today. Not healthy at all, but good for my soul. Thank you for your grounded, no-BS style! I have a lot to think about with my now 15 year crappy situation. Can you call it a relationship when there was NEVER a commitment made? And third party situation several times...there's more. I ghosted this person and now I'm not sure if I need to go back and just tell them how I feel, how much and how many times my heart has been broken; or just leave it as it is. King of Pentacles has been my action for a long time now. There's no ridin' in MY limo now, bitch! I have completely changed and you wouldn't even recognize me anymore. I guess maybe I answered my own question? Much love to you! ❤️
Feeling personally wronged not by a person, but by a flare-up of my chronic illness, and this advice was somehow still relevant! Drinking milk oolong tea from Republic of Tea and now channeling King of Pentacles energy on this springy Monday morning. Much love from the U.S. ❤️
Hey love! This was a great question & some awesome card pulls that tooooootally resonated w/me (even though i know this was a general reading, not speaking to my situation specifically). Still -- King of Pentacles as the "ain't got time for that" energy is soooo good.
Very Salient for me atm. Thank you! I did look at 7 of pentacles for my situation differently. I was thinking more about the things that we had grown and created together in the relationship and how much I wanted that to factor in with how I approach the situation and the decision I ultimately make.
Welcome Back Kelly Anne... My brother in law teased me about everything,until I told him that hus incessant teasing is a form of harassment... and that it's illegal What do the cards say about I handled the situation ?
What strikes me about the Knight here is that the horse is turning quite violently, almost to shake off the discomfort of the bridle when given a direction it doesn't want to move in. To me this reads as inner coherence and consent: Am I telling myself that the right course of action is in one direction when the spirit of me (the horse rather than the consciousness as rider) wants to travel differently? It's pertinent to your early observation that what we've decided on as personal policy can be developmentally outgrown. It's also a neat little echo of the cartomancer's disagreement between swords as martial action in earlier traditions and swords reinvented as intellectual incision post-theosophy: It seems a trend today to justify violence or vitriol as spiritual defence with hubris dressed up as swords thoughtfulness! Hello, current events... Under the personal version of that lens, the 7P is a perfect follow-up, acknowledging the change/lesson/accumulation of awareness from a cycle that can be put away now rather than battled. So many of the relationships we have immediate 'this means war' reactivity to could be reframed as 'this is outdated and jangling my system, so I leave it be with a promise of peace'. Thank you for reminding me that I need to shift between having a sh__ list vs having a storeroom of outgrown (if once loved) interactions to draw upon when they can be cooked into something else. Note to the combatative self: Don't 'take this outside', take it to the storeroom! Hahaha
Thanks for coming out Kelly-Ann... You helped me today. I'm just sitting here hugging my tarot bag💗🤗after quite a long period battling a cold, and doesn't it just bring out my happy🦚 The ecstasy of alchemy?... 💋
This might be helpful as an example of how shadows can hide in plain sight: czcams.com/video/EtXPTGkuJIA/video.html. It's a very good video that dropped on the 4th April. It adds an interesting example of how this 3 card spread speaks to dealing with your own shadows as well as others. We all have more in common, even in conflict.
Nah go team Will! Rock's been making sh*tty mean jokes about Will and his family for years... Jada has alopecia, which is why she has hair loss and why he made that GI Jane joke. It's an autoimmune disorder. I think anyone making fun of another person for their looks due to a health condition deserves a slap across the face. If someone humiliated my sister or loved one like that (on international tv no less), I get why that kind of reaction would happen. I think it's valid, though of course I get why people dislike violence (I generally do too). At the same time, it's like standing up to a bully finally and somehow you are to blame? How is that fair? Not to mention Will's mom was abused by his dad and as a kid he felt guilty for not standing up for her or stopping it... I think this really triggered that history within him. Both in a shadowy way, by getting violent himself, but also in an empowering way, but not taking it sitting down. Read the article "‘To hide the coward’: how Will Smith’s personal history may explain his Oscars violence" from The Guardian for better context. I'm sad for Will that this is taking away from his Oscar win and having all these negative repercussions on a night that should've been elevating his career, it was a self destructive choice in that way... Definitely a Knight of Swords moment in both the positive and negative aspects, sure, but I think ultimately, it was a valid reaction. I'm sick of people acting like comedian's words don't carry any societal impact or weight just because they're "joking." It was so bad on Rock's part, absolutely tasteless.
reminded of lord of rings when eomer…and roherrim …offed a bunch of orcs…and took no prisoners…this card reminds me of the times this is completely appropriate
Oh my gosh the Chris Rock and Will Smith situation is perfect reckless abandon, Knight of Swords energy! I'm also team Chris. I just don't think going up and slapping him was the move. Especially if Will was trying to protect his wife's honor. The joke was a dumb and not memorable... But now everyone will remember it and refer to it in their own stand up for God knows how long!
Rock was making fun of her autoimmune disorder, alopecia. That's why she has hair loss and why he called her GI Jane. How can you be on the team that ridicules a marginalized woman with an autoimmune disorder?
@@rachel2880 I understand that alopecia is a big deal, but I don't think the joke warranted physical violence. The only person who looked good in this situation was Jada. She just rolled her eyes because yeah, the joke had zero creativity and required no validation. I mean Will was laughing at that stupid joke until he looked over at her. I think he felt bad for laughing and wanted to show her that he was sorry with a grand gesture... But going up and slapping Chris. Idk man, I really don't think that was the move. Now everyone is going to be clowning on them! If they thought the alopecia joke was bad I hope they strapped in cuz all the cheating jokes are gunna come flying at em. I think Will's actions caused way more drama and problems for them.
@@rachel2880 to clarify, I'm not so much team Chris as I am anti slap him in the face at the Grammies. I said team Chris because it has a better ring to it Edit: just wanted to add a you right though, saying "team Chris" does make it look like I'm defending his joke and I'm not. I just don't like how Will handled it at all.
I don’t engage in vengeance, even though an actual CRIME has been committed against me by an anonymous gang of hackers with the expressed message that they’re goal is to decimate my life and livelihood as much as possible until I’m destitute and hopefully suicidal. Interesting that the words, “stirring up trouble,” appear on a cup in this video. Those words are very significant to this particular group. It might as well be their logo. Through hacking, they’ve taken control of all content I’m allowed to view, including this video. This isn’t a joke. Reader if you knew you and your content were being used in a criminal cyber gang stalking campaign, would you still participate? You might want to start questioning generous anonymous patrons motives.
Here in Maine we just had a local observance called “Maine Maple Sunday”. This day is celebrated with all things Maple! Many local farms, large and small, who produce maple syrup, open up to the public for tours (of the maple process from tree to bottle :) to treats and samples and more!
So I bought a box of Maple Black Tea! The aroma is delicious and the flavor unique! With a hit of sugar it really does make for a satisfying cup of tea!
Thank you for your video today and we appreciate your time. You always address great topics and make us think about things in ways we might not realize we need to do.
Ooooh that tea sounds delish! Thanks for watching x
That sounds lovely. I adore all things maple 😊
Glad I found this. My best friend at the time ghosted me after my Dad passed away. She never replied to my texts. I still don't know why. At the time I felt like I was mourning for 2 people. I will never forgive her for that. I truly found out who my friends are. My current best friend supported me through losing both. It was a dark time. After watching this I feel like I finally have closure. Thank you 💖
Honestly it is weird that this is a thing. Ghosting someone because you can't handle their tragedy.. But it really does happen. I'm so sorry and I'm glad you found your new bestie ❤️
@@kelly-annmaddox Thank you
Years ago one of my closest friends who was like a sister to me and a second daughter to my parents became a very different person. She decided that she was done with me as a friend. I have since reached the point that this aspect is not the thorn in my side that it was then. The problem is that MY parents chose to continue on as if she hadn't done me any harm and still welcomed her into our home after I moved back in with them because I had been sharing a rental house with her.
My mother particularly has a bad habit of deciding that I need to get over something on her time table whether I'm ready or not. That whole Christian forgiveness thing can be really toxic.
That is what came up for me. The former friendship is long done, but that pattern still affects my relationship with my parents.
side note:
I try to avoid focusing on/mentioning physical appearance but that peachy/salmon-y pink is definitely YOUR colour and gives you a very radiant glow and just pops with your jet black hair and jewelry.
anyway, in light of your recent tragedy thank you for your hard work and all your videos, and keep being awesome. ❤❤❤
So very glad to see you and know that we all love you. Just lost my hubby and know how folks can be negative when one is down.
i'm thankful i don't need this advice right now but i will honestly listen to you talk about anything, kelly-ann.
thinking of you and wishing you all the strength and love as you are living through your bereavement 🖤
very interesting. i'm still dealing with the aftermath of someone hurting me very badly, knowing that it was entirely unintentional and a result of his own problems. it's hard to say "i was wronged" when the other person was doing his best with what he had, but i can't say it didn't hurt or that i'm ready to just forgive him and act like his actions were fine... much food for thought here!
Having a lemon and ginger tea, it’s my favourite in the morning☕️🍋
So lovely to see you! 💗 I am also having a mental breather morning, resting my coping mechanisms for a hot minute, and tea and tarot has always been one of my absolute faves. I'm paused at 3 minutes in to go get my hot drink!
I'm back, and my tea is a blend of reishi mushroom, thyme, orange peel, and rooibos. Comfort and strength at the same time 💕
Jasmine green in my little cup. I am experiencing some mistreatment and greatly appreciate what you have to share about dealing with it. I tend to dwell on incidents of mistreatment, so hard to let go and rise above.
It can be soooo hard. For me it's really the taking it personally and wondering how I deserved that treatment or what I failed to see about that person that would make me fail to realise that they had the capacity to treat me like that when I was always so admiring of their positive characteristics.. It just takes too much time. I like to make a timeline so I can tell myself, 'You get to dwell on this, journal on this, do ritual around this etc for two months and then you need to put it to bed because you will probably NEVER know..'
Profitable and great video,
Cassandra Ann Minervini Official my financial consultant has been consistent for years, you can look up her site and see the testimonies.
This hits hard in so many areas, trauma is real and valid and it lingers and festers sometimes without us even realising it is poisoning us. Learning to heal from that slowly is the best gift I can give to myself. So much love to everyone.
Glad to see you are back because I've missed you so much, but understand your leave of absence. I've been on a "tea kick" lately, but also drinking coffee. You asked what was in my cup, so right now it's coffee w/vanilla creamer and earlier it was "Buttermint" tea that Lisa Papez endorsed several months ago. Love them both!! My husband says the tea/coffee station he put up for me now looks like a science lab of sorts with my teas and kettle, cups/saucers, etc. out in the open. He might be right! LOL! Infusers, tea measuring spoons and my favorite cups are sitting out and my niece gifted me a beautiful set of vintage tea paraphernalia just recently, so good to go now!! I made a note of the tea in your video in hopes I can find it and give it a try. Wishing you a wonderful day as always =)
Life experience has shown me that essentially I am on my own. I cannot rely on any other person when the hard times come. So throw it at me, I will always centre back to myself.
Yes, yes, taking notes. Feels like a personal reading. Thank you, Kelly 'Ann
I am drinking my maple almond milk coffee and taking some time for myself this afternoon during my toddler’s nap. This topic was very timely for me because my son’s father bailed on him this morning (not only wronging me, but wronging my child… 🤬) Every piece of this reading resonated strongly with me. Thank you Kelly Ann, I am new to Tea & Tarot but I absolutely love your interpretations.
The Knight's head bowed is what caught my eye...
Oh the synchronicity…you have no idea how much I needed this, or how much it has helped me. I have been mourning the end of my relationship with my best friend of over 20 years. They were increasingly using me when it suited them, and I eventually called them out because it went too far. They didn’t like it and have pretty much cut me off ever since. I have been grieving and wallowing but now I’m the King of Pentacles and I am done with it! Thank you so much pickle x
Lavender and chamomile cold tea ✨ This whole reading hit directly home for me; thank you for sharing 🌸
I needed this video so bad. Been dealing with some difficult personalities lately. Thank you!
Sipping on my morning coffee as my cat and I watch this video. Thank you so much for these messages, Kelly-Ann.
I've been wronged so many times in my life, and I struggle with a lot of emotional and social problems because of it. Anger, depression, cutting off people who show a whiff of disloyalty. My circle is very small and selective because of it.
But at the same time, being hurt by others has opened my eyes to ugly side of humanity. I can protect myself better against nasty people, and it makes finding those good people all the more sweeter.
Usually I relate to the message from the King of Pentacles, I cut off the dead weight and move on with my plans. It's painful, but necessary. On occasion though, I'll react like the shadowy Knight of Swords and put someone directly into a sour jar. However, dealing with them spiritually drains my body of that rage and negative energy, and I'm able to think clearly about what's going on and how I want to handle it in the physical world.
I connect deeply with your reading, all three cards had something for me. Thank you again for your wisdom ❤
Hey there x I’ve just watched this video x and what timing x I’ve just had an extremely “challenging” weekend with a close family member who has done exactly this and your reading has not only nailed my focus and response, but inspired and reassured me that it’s quite alright to say.. “enough.. no seriously that’s fucking it..” thank you so much for this sincere and heartfelt reading because it’s exactly what I needed x 🙏🏼
Great to see a Tea and Tarot ♥️ Sending love. Had a day of only earl grey (since everyone seems to be sharing) but lots and lots of it. Many “I’ll put the kettle on”-moments ;) I’ll listen to the rest of this video later today
Earl Grey is THE ONE. I will never get fed up with it x
Thanks so much for your insight on the fact that the other person just can't deal with the bad stuff your going through. It happened to me with the unexpected death of my father . This puts a new perspective on it. However, yes I am a different person now coming out on the other side. I have realized; saddly, some people just have to go in my life.
For real - I feel this comment deeply. Same here. At the end of the day, i went from being angry and/or shocked at their absence during such a difficult time to being GRATEFUL for the information they have provided to me about how much I should put into the connection with them going forward. It's all just data for me to process - I don't hang on to judgements of them, I'm just like, 'Good to know.' ❤️
@@kelly-annmaddox Yep, we just keep moving forward...even if it's with less people! Take care.
Love visiting with you!
True, true. Thank you for sharing this insight and for great advice on what to do.
Thank you for that amazing mental image of an ultimate psycho-spiritual yacht party, which I will now use as motivation for pushing through the hard work. 😂🎉❤
Yes! I have a friend who isn't very good at handling my tough times. They are a wonderful friend honestly and it took me a long time to realize that my tough times trigger a deep sadness in them. At first I just thought they didn't care, but they actually care way too much! We've come up with an understanding and now I know that if they are silent during a tough time of mine that they are thinking deeply about me and with such emotion that words could not convey their love. I know that silence = care and now I am fine.
Of course I try not to burden them too often, only telling them when I think it's a pivotal point in my life, something that they would want to know.
So glad to see you, KAM. Thanks for the musings. 😘
May I wish you Love and Light Kelly you are an inspiration and I know with losing your brother that it must be so so hard for you at the moment. Look after yourself hun xx
Thank you so so much x
So lovely to see you Kelly Ann some really insightful thoughts about the cards. Sending love 🖤
This is so fun. I just did a graphic design project on Mucha tonight. I’ve been all kinds of emotions and stress on top stress. I wanted a reading on this topic. Thank you.
Love it girl! Thank you.
This resonated with me on so many levels, right down to the cauldron mug. Guess it’s about time I find one lol!
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drinking some wine, my dear kelly! 💜
Thank you for this wisdom. This video is really helping me move on from a traumatizing situation
I'm going to start referring to things as "my psychospiritual yacht party".
Thank you for this 🖤 This came up at the perfect time for me.
excellent video!!! i am a dweller and learning to not be a dweller, im learning to really look at a situation and then keep it movin. as far as the smith/rock/jada situation, well, its messy and orchastrated, just my opinion. they brought down the value of real people and i will have nothing to do with them. it's time to get back to real juicy electric people and life, i'm going to watch this vid again and enjoy my coffee!!!
I'm glad you seem to be taking care of yourself. You have been through A Lot.
Your tea sounds yummy!
Drinking ☕ 😁 my husband says I broke when my sister asked to not be a part of my life. I think I know why she needed that and it actually I think was really better for us both but I definitely have not been the same.
Wise words Kelly-Ann, sending you love at this time. Last year a friend who had been really good to me sent me a message saying that I was sending her evil energy because she had a new partner and never wanted to hear from me again. I sent her a polite response and said I was shocked but would respect her decision and wished her well. She blocked me on all social media and mobile. I was sad but accepted her decision. xx
Thank you SO SO MUCH! I have been a silent follower for so long. This so spoke truth into all I feel and have endured.. 😪 Thank you so much for being yourself and just speaking how you feel and just saying the truth through the tarot cards you pull in these reads. They may not with everybody listening but sometimes they resonate with those who do and speaks volumes to my circumstances and I just can’t help thank you so much. 💖🪄🔮
My daughter just launched a vicious verbal attack on me. This is part of a pattern. This video is so timely.
I'm sorry you've been going through this pattern and hope the video helped 💗
Please write a book about Tarot! I need a "Rebel Tarot" book in my life!!!
❤️❤️❤️ I forgot to grab some tea!!!But eating a strawberry and custard tart - does that count?
awesome cards - a very “mature” approach to dealing with shitty ppl.
The Aries in me almost boils over and I feel like I need to go to war with ppl sometimes (verbally - never violent although the urge is there!) But thankfully I’m able to have strong words with myself to analyse the situation and wether it’s really worth my energy.
Sooooooooooo much love to you lady. Hope you can feel the love out there for you 😉😘
"...with your head in the toilet of what this person did to you." HA! I love this. Definitely resonated with the over-journaling and getting no where with it after a certain point, and just needing to move on and keep my eyes on my own lane, invest in my own life. Thank you for this reading.
Thank you for this. I'm not going through any drama with people treating me like poo right now but I'm going through a grieving process of my own of losing someone dear to me so it was lovely to listen to you on this Friday night. I am drinking golden Oat milk with turmeric, ginger, cinnamon, cardamon, star anise, and black pepper.
So so good. Helped tremendiously. You're gold girl!
This really helped me have a realisation about a friendship that I hadn't gotten to. I've got my Twinings English Breakfast with me!
Unusual for me but I had no tea whilst watching, but if I wasnt being lazy I would have made a basic brew of builders tea 😄
This was all good sound advice that I actually have employed myself dealing with a shitty situation (that im still trying to extricate myself from). What stuck out for me is how its very noticeable how harmful people want to come back into your life when youre showing positive signs of moving on and rebuilding, they seem to know the perfect moment you may be having a moment of insecurity or doubt. This is where Knight of Swords comes in handy to reassess your values and reaffirm boundaries.
I wish I had had these lessons 20yrs ago. Would have saved me a lot of trauma.
Thank you KellyAnn 💞
Are you still taking on patreons or would you prefer new sign ups to give you some breathing time? I dont want to give you more admin headache etc x
replay watching, drinking watter with a slice of orange and a slice for fresh jalepeno
Drinking an organic oolong tea which I bought from the smallest house in Amsterdam! Love this topic, too. Thanks for sharing and hope you are travelling as well as you can through your time of grief ❤
So relevant for me personally at the moment Kelly-Ann. Thank you so much for your insights ❤️
At work with some early Grey and bergamot! And YES on all three cards and their precise order....I myself a Scorpio am done dwelling on the past and I began my morning with the King of Pentacle mentality....been there, done that, moving on....Thank you sweet pea....my heart is lifted seeing you smile under the circumstances....bubbles of hugs and sprinkles of giggles 💚
#teamrock
Diet Coke straight from the bottle today. Not healthy at all, but good for my soul. Thank you for your grounded, no-BS style! I have a lot to think about with my now 15 year crappy situation. Can you call it a relationship when there was NEVER a commitment made? And third party situation several times...there's more. I ghosted this person and now I'm not sure if I need to go back and just tell them how I feel, how much and how many times my heart has been broken; or just leave it as it is. King of Pentacles has been my action for a long time now. There's no ridin' in MY limo now, bitch! I have completely changed and you wouldn't even recognize me anymore. I guess maybe I answered my own question? Much love to you! ❤️
Feeling personally wronged not by a person, but by a flare-up of my chronic illness, and this advice was somehow still relevant! Drinking milk oolong tea from Republic of Tea and now channeling King of Pentacles energy on this springy Monday morning. Much love from the U.S. ❤️
Hey love! This was a great question & some awesome card pulls that tooooootally resonated w/me (even though i know this was a general reading, not speaking to my situation specifically). Still -- King of Pentacles as the "ain't got time for that" energy is soooo good.
Very Salient for me atm. Thank you! I did look at 7 of pentacles for my situation differently. I was thinking more about the things that we had grown and created together in the relationship and how much I wanted that to factor in with how I approach the situation and the decision I ultimately make.
Happy to see you!! 🌷✨
I’m on the white wine 🥰
Gosh darn that’s a beautiful tarot deck
Overpoeming. I love it!
Will and Chris lmao good laugh thank you
Welcome Back Kelly Anne...
My brother in law teased me about everything,until I told him that hus incessant teasing is a form of harassment... and that it's illegal
What do the cards say about I handled the situation ?
Peppermint tea :)
Great topic !!!!!
Thank you so much x
What strikes me about the Knight here is that the horse is turning quite violently, almost to shake off the discomfort of the bridle when given a direction it doesn't want to move in. To me this reads as inner coherence and consent: Am I telling myself that the right course of action is in one direction when the spirit of me (the horse rather than the consciousness as rider) wants to travel differently? It's pertinent to your early observation that what we've decided on as personal policy can be developmentally outgrown. It's also a neat little echo of the cartomancer's disagreement between swords as martial action in earlier traditions and swords reinvented as intellectual incision post-theosophy: It seems a trend today to justify violence or vitriol as spiritual defence with hubris dressed up as swords thoughtfulness! Hello, current events...
Under the personal version of that lens, the 7P is a perfect follow-up, acknowledging the change/lesson/accumulation of awareness from a cycle that can be put away now rather than battled. So many of the relationships we have immediate 'this means war' reactivity to could be reframed as 'this is outdated and jangling my system, so I leave it be with a promise of peace'. Thank you for reminding me that I need to shift between having a sh__ list vs having a storeroom of outgrown (if once loved) interactions to draw upon when they can be cooked into something else. Note to the combatative self: Don't 'take this outside', take it to the storeroom! Hahaha
I need to buy one of those cauldron mugs. So cute! I'm sipping on a hard blood orange cider while I watch this.
Corrr that sounds delish. Thanks for watching x
The artwork behind you, did you do that? It's very nice
Having diet Coke and a spliff 😂
Thanks for coming out Kelly-Ann... You helped me today. I'm just sitting here hugging my tarot bag💗🤗after quite a long period battling a cold, and doesn't it just bring out my happy🦚
The ecstasy of alchemy?... 💋
Chai 🖤✨
This might be helpful as an example of how shadows can hide in plain sight: czcams.com/video/EtXPTGkuJIA/video.html. It's a very good video that dropped on the 4th April. It adds an interesting example of how this 3 card spread speaks to dealing with your own shadows as well as others. We all have more in common, even in conflict.
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Nah go team Will! Rock's been making sh*tty mean jokes about Will and his family for years... Jada has alopecia, which is why she has hair loss and why he made that GI Jane joke. It's an autoimmune disorder. I think anyone making fun of another person for their looks due to a health condition deserves a slap across the face. If someone humiliated my sister or loved one like that (on international tv no less), I get why that kind of reaction would happen. I think it's valid, though of course I get why people dislike violence (I generally do too). At the same time, it's like standing up to a bully finally and somehow you are to blame? How is that fair? Not to mention Will's mom was abused by his dad and as a kid he felt guilty for not standing up for her or stopping it... I think this really triggered that history within him. Both in a shadowy way, by getting violent himself, but also in an empowering way, but not taking it sitting down. Read the article "‘To hide the coward’: how Will Smith’s personal history may explain his Oscars violence" from The Guardian for better context. I'm sad for Will that this is taking away from his Oscar win and having all these negative repercussions on a night that should've been elevating his career, it was a self destructive choice in that way...
Definitely a Knight of Swords moment in both the positive and negative aspects, sure, but I think ultimately, it was a valid reaction. I'm sick of people acting like comedian's words don't carry any societal impact or weight just because they're "joking." It was so bad on Rock's part, absolutely tasteless.
i agree, i think will really meant the moment
bravo
reminded of lord of rings when eomer…and roherrim …offed a bunch of orcs…and took no prisoners…this card reminds me of the times this is completely appropriate
Oh my gosh the Chris Rock and Will Smith situation is perfect reckless abandon, Knight of Swords energy!
I'm also team Chris. I just don't think going up and slapping him was the move. Especially if Will was trying to protect his wife's honor. The joke was a dumb and not memorable... But now everyone will remember it and refer to it in their own stand up for God knows how long!
Rock was making fun of her autoimmune disorder, alopecia. That's why she has hair loss and why he called her GI Jane. How can you be on the team that ridicules a marginalized woman with an autoimmune disorder?
@@rachel2880 I understand that alopecia is a big deal, but I don't think the joke warranted physical violence. The only person who looked good in this situation was Jada. She just rolled her eyes because yeah, the joke had zero creativity and required no validation. I mean Will was laughing at that stupid joke until he looked over at her. I think he felt bad for laughing and wanted to show her that he was sorry with a grand gesture... But going up and slapping Chris. Idk man, I really don't think that was the move. Now everyone is going to be clowning on them! If they thought the alopecia joke was bad I hope they strapped in cuz all the cheating jokes are gunna come flying at em. I think Will's actions caused way more drama and problems for them.
@@Zullala You didn't answer my question.
@@rachel2880 to clarify, I'm not so much team Chris as I am anti slap him in the face at the Grammies. I said team Chris because it has a better ring to it
Edit: just wanted to add a you right though, saying "team Chris" does make it look like I'm defending his joke and I'm not. I just don't like how Will handled it at all.
I don’t engage in vengeance, even though an actual CRIME has been committed against me by an anonymous gang of hackers with the expressed message that they’re goal is to decimate my life and livelihood as much as possible until I’m destitute and hopefully suicidal. Interesting that the words, “stirring up trouble,” appear on a cup in this video. Those words are very significant to this particular group. It might as well be their logo. Through hacking, they’ve taken control of all content I’m allowed to view, including this video. This isn’t a joke. Reader if you knew you and your content were being used in a criminal cyber gang stalking campaign, would you still participate? You might want to start questioning generous anonymous patrons motives.