"When You’re Harassed & Bullied" with Pastor Rick Warren
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- saddleback.com/talktokids - Almost everyone has experienced harassment or bullying at some point in their lives. You can be bullied for your appearance, your gender, your ethnicity, your financial status, your abilities or disabilities, or even your faith. In this message, Pastor Rick Warren will give you seven ways you can respond to bullies in a way that honors God.
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I'm being bullied over people being jealous. Sadly people don't know how to love themselves so they target me.
facts
Stay strong ❤
Lord God, My enemies are costing me jobs my livelihood.
Protect and avenge me Lord, I will not retaliate or respond to evildoers. 😔🙏
MY KIDS ARE GROWN. I AM HERE BECAUSE MY NEIGHBORS ARE HARASSING AND BULLYING ME AND I AM LOSING SLEEP AND BECOMING UNHINGED.
FATHER ABOVE, I BEG YOU FOR MERCY TO END THIS AND HELP ME TO PASS THIS TRIAL, IN JESUS NAME.
I'm in the same situation neighbor after me and bullying me watching everything I do and repeat it...they watching what I'm say I'm confused they tricking me I can't talk say nothing they repeat it to everyone....I don't get it those Americans people not private....rumors , gossiping those neighbors not private...
@@chandlinejeanpierre1068 My neighbors gossip also, they also provoke me. And they throw glass into my garden. They make fun of me. They laugh about me.
It hurts a lot. I am for over 5 years just silent. I don't say a word. Their son is also police man and they basically can do anything and get away with it. Has your situation improved?
Almost all my coworkers are on a malicious determined mission to destroy and get me fired for now reason than jealousy. Please help me Lord...
Pray for them. Stay on the right path. It will be ok!😊
Outcome?
@@lisachaput2952. Question. Pray for them YES. But if they are abusive should the employee stay with them??? Bills need to be paid but if your mental and physical health deteriorate how can you work TO pay the bills
Been there. I had to resign I’m not saying that’s what YOU should do. But I pray for you.
call a lawyer and ask for advice and ask if they can have your back. When you are making a living, there is supposed to be teamwork, just like i learned in sports.
Bullying is also passive aggressive behaviour, gaslighting, someone refusing to help when its their job to do so.
Pastor Rick this is really what I need to hear.
I’m suffering from PTSD and I know only God can heal me.
There are things available that work. I am living proof. I did SAF and correctly used Bach remedies. I was a mess. It was a gradual healing over years, but I was a mess for a very long time.
Pray for you
The Enemy Is Trying To Ruin Me At Every Turn I Make But GOD Allows it For Some Reason, Everything Goes Thru His Hands First. 🙏🙏
You know what for 9yrs.that mean ole devil has been working through a group of ppl.harassing me 24/7. Even though I act out sometimes, I come back to God,ask him to help me, and then I get why he's letting this happening, he's trying to work on my attitude w ppl.who are hard to ❤.
I will keep you in my prayers. Going through the same thing.
@@wendyhaneline6275 you are in my prayers.
@@wendyhaneline6275 and also me. And we must remember Satan wants to use us acting ugly to hurt GOD'S heart.
I think this may be a slightly incorrect thought. Satan has an effect on the world around us just as God does. In the Lord’s Prayer he says “Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is done in heaven”. God would not have us pray meaningless prayers so that mean His will is not always done and that we are commanded to pray it into existence. This at least, is my understanding.
Thank you Pastor for another faithful sermon. I've dealt with workplace bullies my entire adult life. I found myself wishing things would change but now I have confidence they're triggered by the God in me. Now I have hope and faith and Bible verses to hold on to keep me strong.
that is exactly why
Before going into work, remind yourself what a great day your going to have! Remind yourself of your great gifts. Thank the Lord for the day and quote any bible scriptures that bring you strength. This will help!
I deeply believe in evil works, that lost people do the devils work! Do not let others get you to lose your goal and focus!
I know I have strong faith. But it gets to me. These girls coming for me and I need motivational words. I get called SEVERE names and I’m Grown!!! It’s tiring and I feel alone
Praying with you sister, me too. But I know GOD will make a way,
They are probably jealous of you because of you're not scum.
Right now at work.
Pastor Rick or anyone reading this. Could you please pray for me. I live in a group home and have a bully that harasses me daily. He talk about my weight and hygiene. I ask that you pray for him to stop or you pray for me to endure it. I would appreciate it. Thank you.
Pastor Rick you really helped me today I know God is talking through you. Pastor, I almost quit my job today because of the bullying and harassment. And yes I really need to pray more so our father in heaven can help me in this sinful world
I'm praying for all of you every day.🙏✝️
Im from Germany (byracial) im bullied at Work all of the time, most of the time i change work . I know who i am in christ....thats why i walk away...and forgive them...
But changing work all the time can be a little exausted😅...but Christ is in me and im in Christ Jesus 🙏🕯️
Harassment and Bullying from church “family” and “leaders”. Experiencing trauma now
Perhaps that is not the right church
I’m being bullied from church people 😢. Everyone that calls on the of Jesus is not saved!
People in the church are in clicks, in leadership positions. I have to stay in continuous prayer.
Pastor Rick has helped me so much. I can’t thank him enough. Please pray for me. It has been going on for a long time. But, in Gods timing He will make my enemies my foot stool. In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏽❤️
What about people at work who talk about being Christian but they bully and control others? I knew a lady once who would make it out to be everyone's "Christian duty" to do what she would say when she was just a co-worker and not boss. She was a manipulator.
I'm being bullied by a narcissistic parent and I wish they would stop.
Every day I love to hear your message Pastor Rick. I wake up every morning at 4 am to workout and I press play to hear you while I doing something for my health. God has used you so many times and one of the last ones was when we find out that my little girl was diagnose with autism. It was a hard time but you have helped me to trust God and see His amazing plan in our little girl and us. God bless you.
I feel no anger at all only afraid of her. Above me at work. She yelled in my face over & over & over. I forgave her . Gave her gifts. Prayed for her. She did it again. She’s not stopping. So I forgave her and avoid her. She’s in power angry , bitter and scary. A gossip lied to her & said I trashed her. I talked to her explained. Can I forgive and avoid her. Yes I’m a baby at this. These troubles have been for over 2 years. My parents abused me. I pray God give me peace and safety.
I’m still bullied by my ex on a regular basis, Pastor Rick your message is timely and comforting!
I. Still. Bully by. Neighbors every day
Same even though I work from home now I still deal with annoying individuals. From family members to harassing neigbors and strangers. It doesnt end but I realize its a spiritual warfare.
I am a born again Christian and I really do love the Lord. I am a peace loving person and will never start a fight or conflict BUT not retaliating to someone who is unjust and a bully is something that is sooooo hard for me to do. I will surely speak up the truth when someone is maligning me or other people with a lie. If I do not act or speak am I not concealing the truth? Or compromising?
i am challenged in this area too. i feel love is also not enabling the bad behaviours. but still feel there may be a more loving way but do not know how to do it. if you find out please let me know :)
You can make a comment to show that their behavior is wrong and you won't tolerate it. But, pray for them. This changes the situation drastically.
Stand up to bullies regardless if they are being used by the enemy. You shouldn’t have to be harrassed. I’ve dealt with it s long time and sometimes you have to confront that bully and let them know you are not tolerating their abuse.
Thank you so much for this message it’s helped me get through how I’m feeling with the people that are harassing me at work please pray for me!❤️🙏
really lovin this message! If we all did everything possible on our parts to live in peace with each other, bullying wouldn't exist.
No. Because there are people who worship the devil and demons who will still hurt us. They enjoy the zingy they get from it because they are deceived.
My bully is my mother and siblings
Hi Pastor Rick. I listened to your sermon about bullies and harassed. I have a couple of neighbors who are really harassing me and bullying me. I’m trying to live a Christian life and I’m praying to God about but I feel that I need more people to pray for me. I would appreciate it you and your congregation.to pray for me because I feel like I can’t take it anymore. Thank you and keep up the good work! God bless. Your sister in Christ.
Funny how many of us have the same thing. It stinks but I feel less alone. Praying for you.
Prayed for you
Praying for you. I know it is hard to keep composed. I pray that God gives you the wisdom to navigate this!
I've gon through horrific bullying at work. Lies, manipulation, manipulation of students, getting them to make lies up, complain and blame their lack of work on me, when I wasn't even at work because it excuses their own laziness to complete work. Rumour spreading. Harassment. Please deliver me lord.
Thank You! The closer I get to God the more I am persecuted at work. But, this teaching is giving me strengh and wisdom.
Sometimes I think God favors bullies. The more I pray for relief, the worse it gets.
Pastor Rick, you're giving exceptional and helpful advice I can use to cope using Jesus message.
when I was in grade 7 I was getting bullied until grade 10 in this three years I stopped believe in god and blamed him for what is happening. now I'm 18.5 years old, I get harassment comments from coworker of mine But now that I watched this video I don't blame god. I act like what god tells, to be kind, to not fight evil against evil. So I really thank you Pastor Rick for changing my point of view!
Thank you for the encouragement
thanking the Lord pastor God's glory...
Thank you, Pastor Rick.
Thank you Rick... we all love and appreciate you😇.... Texas Girl
Thank you for your message and prayer. I’ve been blessed.
Amen 🙏🏾 Brother.Blessed You,Thank You
Father God, in accordance with this whole message and 2 timothy 3:1-4, 1 peter 4:19, matthew 19:29, 2 timothy 3:12, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I loosen myself, my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquintances, opponents and the body of Christ of any form of harassment and bullying while binding one not to harass or bully others, while I loosen myself of every unequal yoke and common share with those who wants to harass and bully others, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
Amen!!
Thank you Pastor Rick 🙏❤ Amen! We all needed to hear this 🙌
I get this a lot in work, and bully me. Report it nothing is ever done about it. And it gets worse at times for me
Thank you Pastor Rick Warren for this wonderful messages. Your sermon that i watched making me more liked Jesus. And it makes me more close to God. I want to be a part of your church. It's a dream for me. I will pray that God give you a good health and more blessings. Goodluck. I'm from philippines.
Currently watching video because everyone in my nursing class is being passive aggressive to me and I need godly advice 😭😭
Brilliant Message.....
I was a top seller at work, and only woman and few people said I was ugly. Also my friends daughter said I was ugly. Its very hurtful. I also dated a narcissist and was abused and now I dont like to leave my house.
i do not think you are ugly.
i can do all things through Christ who gives me strength! HE choose me and has brought me / us this far...HE has promised HE delivers.
Create in me a clean heart O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
WALK ON GOD 'S WORD!
pray for me ...thank you
IN JESUS NAME, AMEN.
ignoring them doesn't help when they and their friends stalk you and attack you in person and the system doesn't care....God takes too long sometimes....
I’m being persecuted bullied and harassed because I believe what the Bible says and made a comment on a movie that I watched that goes against Gods word.
I'm learning to not talk to people who hate GOD except when I need to. We are called to not throw our pearls before swine.
God bless you, Rick Warren, for delivering this message! I surely needed it!
I’m a son of light and not of darkness 1thess 5:5 , and by the grace of God I am what I am 1 Corin: 15:10
It's my dream to spend time studying and immersing in God's word at your church. I request the authorities to provide me a chance. God be with you!
Thank you pastor Rick 😢
Thank you so much. Being bullied by my boss and was really struggling with it. Thank you for your guidance 🙏
Evil people attack us because even though we live for GOD , we are still sinful, and Satan can use us to hurt GOD.
Who among us isn't sinful here? In my observation, the more the person perseveres to follow Christ, the more he or she is attacked by evil people, I agree with Pastor Rick backed up with sacred scriptures. Obviously, you are not listeng to Pastor Rick Warren's sermon.
thank you pastor its bad right now!
Remember that we may have this junk most of the time for long periods. I have the same thing. It has been worse for me. I started praying those people will have so many blessings they won't have time to do evil. And that GOD will give them more valuable things to think about.
My childhood best friend who is now rich came home one day and wanted to see me. Sad to say, she has changed a lot. She became boastful and proud. Sad that she is no longer the same person I knew.
Great message! Great wisdom!
Today !!message from God !thanks rick !!😘
going through that now on my job smh..i hateit at work..
Your video is Helpful. I am going through it right now. It’s clear I prefer to embrace the test because my character is being refined and I’m growing ❤️💕
Thank you Pastor Rick. God bless you and your family.
I love ypu to rick pray for you and your family !!
Lovely strategies Rick.I do agree with this as a bullying consultant
Thank You Lord Jesus for this message. I needed to hear this and I pray you bless the man of God for his obedience. In Your name I pray 🙏🏼 Amen
Amen pastor Rick
So true!.. Thankyou!
Pray for our missionaries abroad
This is happening at church with my granddaughter
How am I becoming more loving with the things I see and hear
"I would rather temporarily fail for the cause that would ultimately succeed than temporarily succeed for the cause that would fail"... 👍 said. good to follow.
Thank you so much 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏😭🙏🙏🙏🙏
God Bless you forever Pastor Rick 📜for these awakening words found in the Message Backed up by The Word of God
I can relate myself to the message Pastor.Though this old message.
I learned and got divine strength and courage.Thanks God and to you pastor.
Thank you pastor for your good message! God bless you minifolds.I was looking for such sermon.
So Manny advises found in This Sermon Backed up with scripture by Pastor Rick Thank You Father for this ,
I was bullied out of my job not that I necessarily speak of Jesus there. I just went in to work. Maybe God will be merciful and take me early. Because my life has long since been destroyed. I'll never live up to what God wants me to do in this world. I would rather just leave early. Try being homeless because a manager pushed you out of your job, Pastor.
Thank you for the video
thankyou for the bullying vid it saved my life!!!
Spirituality has nothing to do with bullying, coercion, force, shaming, and trafficking.
Great topic Paster Warren!
You keep a good heart and do what's right. Unfortunately, those are the same ones who cause conflict on the job. 9:57 Be one of the nurses who helps build new nurses / team members up. That is invaluable! Hang in there.
This is a great sermon. But I'm really curious about bullying in church as well. How can average Christians cope with church bullies? Because sometimes church leaders, for example, small group leaders or core volunteers can be bullies. Often it seems the church bully victim is just asked to turn the other cheek and be forgiving, but the church bullies remain in power and may continue to hurt church members. Also, is it OK for average Christians to raise concerns about abusive behavior in church? Or ask for leadership to be under review, or be asked to step down from leadership?
Because these scriptures are often quoted to justify one should submit to appointed authority, while accountable leadership is left out:
Romans 13:1: “Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist are established by God.”
1 Peter 2:13-14: “Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether to a king as the one in authority, or to governors as sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and the praise of those who do right.”
Maybe I should clarify, this may not be referring to the current church I'm attending but certain situations I've seen in former churches.
Sitting in my car at work, being mobbed by my workplace. Bullied by supervisor and bullied by office manager and her clique. Super toxic work environment. Very hard to deal with
Exactly.
ask to incorporate a Bible study at work.( would they scowl?) Would they care?) It is good for morale. What industry? After graduating i thought bullying would not be an issue. Start your own business. Work for a company that does not bully, ask in the interview before you start working for em.) Lord Jesus, please remove evil people from work so people can work like they are supposed too.
🙋🏻♀️raising my hand but i speak in The Name of Jesus that IT Will stop in my Life and in the Lives of my brothers and sisters and in the Lives of all people no more harrasements and bully ,there is no place for bully and harrasment in The Kingdom of God .
I have been harassed and each time I put my trust in GOD and I ask to be covered in the blood of Jesus. I know that he will take care of everything and he does but it just keeps happening. Some of the ways GOD deals with it brings me to my knees crying. Now we are talking about 15 years of being aggressively harassed and as soon as one is gone another shows up. If this keeps repeating then I need to figure out what is going on in my part. So I am looking to see if I brought home an object that could be cursed. Not sure. Asking GOD to help me figure this out.
sic of dealing with haters on my job. new and former haters. i just sic of it. and my job knows inam Christian its all over my desk.
tell hr. Would they help or would they be part of the prob.
timely..
Year 2022- Now. Facts the scriptures are jumping off the page. I am being bullied and gangstalked. Harassed daily on line. Just experienced something with the church! Greatly disappointed! I know we are in the moments of the Last Days!
People say I stink and smell bad.
tell them it is a new perfume that reflects the work and the people that work there
the Jesus good friday number 3
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This Message Is So Powerful, My Niece Is Going Through This Right Now At Her Job The Bullying And Harrasment. No Weapon Formed Against Her Shall Prosper In The Name Of Jesus Amen. Greater Is He That Is In You Than He That Is Of The World.🙏❤️
@9:15, SATAN knows even if they don't know your christian, he wants to make you miserable and wants to hurt you.
maybe that explains my 5yrs on going drama in my job and apartment..
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So would you just let them harass and bully you?
I don't know. And it doesn't seem to be helpful. I ask the same myself. Seems it just eats away at my truth and makes me a strong zombie robot.
Pray for them
No. You should not. Bullying damages. Sometimes you have to protect yourself while praying for others. Walking way (IF possible) is sometime the only option because the situation in some cases will get worse and worse.
Great video, sorry I didn't bullied you . But I love the way you talk. Keep it up bro. 👍👍👍 💖💖💖 .
From a person in Federal Way. Thank you Jesus Christ and thank you. And I just new in your CZcams videos.
Deut 16 to 21 "if a false witness testifies against someone, accusing him of a crime, both parties to the dispute must stand in the presence of the LORD, before the priests and judges who are in office at that time. The judges shall investigate thoroughly, and if the witness is proven to be a liar who has falsely accused his brother, you must do to him as he intended to do to his brother. So you must purge the evil from among you.c Then the rest of the people will hear and be afraid, and they will never again do anything so evil among you. You must show no pity: life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth,d hand for hand, and foot for foot.
interesting choice to quote Woodrow Wilson...
You know how God says vengeance Is mine sayeth the lord??? After I've been hurt. After I've expressed my pain when I pray I ask God to be merciful to these people. I ask God to heal then spiritually. I ask God to reveal the glory of the lord Jesus christ to them. I ask God to save thier souls. The desire of my heart isn't just to be treated Good. The desire of my heart ALWAYS IN THE END OF THE PROCESS OF ME DEALING WITH MY PAIN IS ASKING GOD TO BLESS THEM. If the Bible says no weapon formed against you shall prosper and every tongue that rises up against you you shall condemn and also God shall give you the desires of your heart... and this is the inheritance of the saints and you shall see your desire on your enemies won't MY enemies be saved??? Isn't that the holy spirit interceding for them through me?
Pastor Rick, what do we do if we have a bully who comes to our face and hits us?
Does doing the right thing mean complying to injustice and exploitation ?
NO!