HOW TO SET SYSTEMS INSTEAD OF GOALS | a system that will change your life

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024

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  • @lilbrenya
    @lilbrenya Před 10 měsíci +15

    My favorite line and it hits home. "Everyone can set goals, but not everyone keeps focus."

  • @tadiqshahid4625
    @tadiqshahid4625 Před 2 lety +98

    This is precisely what I have been searching, far and wide, across CZcams for. This video is a life-changer for me. The amount of detail gone into, combined with the ideas in Stoic philosophy, and a clear visualization of how to weave dreams, goals, systems, and habits together is why this video is a masterpiece.

  • @ddrumcorner4682
    @ddrumcorner4682 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Life is so weird I find 🤷🏾‍♂️... Much respect to everyone else who I've learned from. However, I just added a new entry to my journal:
    "the most important video I've ever watched "... Don't even think I'm exaggerating either.
    For whatever reason, you resonated so much with me.. Your approach and delivery... I'm wondering why I'm only now hearing about you...
    Your channel should be in the millions I think...it will be!
    Anyways thank you!!

  • @anchovyfish9884
    @anchovyfish9884 Před 3 lety +97

    The most step-by-step and practical video about systems that I've seen so far. Thank you very much for sharing! I was already implementing some of the steps but this video reinstated the importance of the emotional aspect of it.

  • @cristianomoniz
    @cristianomoniz Před 3 lety +13

    I think you know about this but…..
    It is good in life to express our thoughts to say thanks to somebody who has the ability to transform our vision into something different.
    I want to say thank you because I was lost trying to develop a system for myself and I could find all the answers.
    And now I want to let you know that I'm very very happy that I watched your video to help me out with my personal problems.
    If nobody hasn’t said that to you, I wanna say thank you.

  • @brettbarlow9581
    @brettbarlow9581 Před 3 lety +23

    As a fellow INTJ I can say that these systems truly help propel me closer to my goals and aspirations. Thank you Alexis

  • @amypoole30
    @amypoole30 Před 2 lety +6

    I get it with the goals. I have been following people who do yearly,quarterly,monthly etc. goal planning and task lists to the goal planning and well, I wouldn't be here if it was working. Goals are great tasks and the check lists for them are great But I knew something was missing. A system to execute to allow me to reach the goals. This so makes sense!

  • @cocosjourney7712
    @cocosjourney7712 Před 3 lety +5

    Give this girl her 1 000 subscribers please! This is really informative! I feel stress free to see that I have already doing systems in my daily life without knowing this word before recently. I really hope I can be stuck to these systems which will lead me to my dream life. Whishing everyone and happy new year.

    • @AlexisKingsley
      @AlexisKingsley  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you!! The daily inches and miles will get you there! You can do it!

  • @marygrace3343
    @marygrace3343 Před 2 lety +24

    I’m an INTJ as well and loved this video so much. I’m excited to set goals for 2022 and mapping it out with a system makes it so much easier

  • @priscila5990
    @priscila5990 Před 3 lety +5

    fellow INTJ here. just bought the journals. I'm hesitant about journaling but I've been unable to keep my focus on the goals I've set so I will give this a shot. Time keeps passing by... and that time is lost now. I'm in a constant reassessment of my life, but more so during this time of year so the timing for this type of content right now is perfect.

    • @trevorfrayne6418
      @trevorfrayne6418 Před 3 lety

      I feel you just describe me and my life. Lol I'll go get the journals. Lol

  • @morningcoffee1111
    @morningcoffee1111 Před 2 lety +3

    You got over 10k subs in a year. Something must be working. Nice work! You have to get rid of that music loop though.

  • @AlexisKingsley
    @AlexisKingsley  Před 9 měsíci +2

    ✨ I turned this video into a digital planner!!! You can check out the 2024 Goal Planner + Visualization workbook at: alexiskingsley.com ✨

  • @navypinkdesign
    @navypinkdesign Před rokem +4

    I have been dragging my feet with certain goals and the things you say just clicked for me. Thank you for that! Also, I’m watching this for the first time at 20k subscribers. You’ve grown this channel so much in 2 years starting at 800. That’s a pretty good endorsement for your system! Brava

  • @salesprosteve
    @salesprosteve Před 11 měsíci +1

    1 year later, I still watch and LOVE this!

  • @terrypeters8682
    @terrypeters8682 Před měsícem

    I enjoy your communication style which always helps when learning new approaches to systems.

  • @damarisrivera6441
    @damarisrivera6441 Před 2 lety +10

    Girrrrrrlllll! This is sooo helpful; this is how goals, intentions should be taught. Thank you for taking the time to film these vids; please do more. This is truly one of your gifts 🙏🏼

  • @lisadixon5915
    @lisadixon5915 Před 2 lety +2

    I almost stopped the video as I couldn’t focus on what you were saying over the music. So glad I didn’t. Fabulous content.

  • @michaeltilley6281
    @michaeltilley6281 Před rokem +2

    Look how you went from 800 subscribers to over 20.4 thousand subscribers now! You're getting there!

  • @yesboss9273
    @yesboss9273 Před 3 lety +7

    Genuinely, this is the most valuable self growth video I’ve watched in over 2 years! Needed this! Very refreshing!!! 😃😃😃

  • @franh3452
    @franh3452 Před 3 lety +9

    I am impressed by how you structured and presented the information in this video. Do you continue to use these systems almost a year later?

  • @morganainsleymusic
    @morganainsleymusic Před 3 lety +30

    Hey Alexis, loving this channel! As an INTJ, I love systems and this stuff is exactly what I needed to hear around this time of year in planning for 2021 - a very interesting way of approaching goals and planning. I’m starting to implement it and adjust this system to suit my needs and it’s been great so far! Thanks

  • @samwooseong1811
    @samwooseong1811 Před 3 lety +6

    I love the fact that you are developing a system that will make you able to achieve the goals you set.
    I should learn how to build a system like you do. Thank you for sharing this! I am sure you will have 100K subscribers soon!

  • @toonstore1056
    @toonstore1056 Před 2 měsíci

    The idea of making small ,sub-goal of your ultimate goal is not a new concept but the way you have presented the idea just changed the impact of this advice on me. This is the prefect example of it's not the idea but the story that sells😁

  • @dmarkina
    @dmarkina Před 2 lety +12

    Just a reflection I had made for myself about picturing one’s dream life - it does not have to be in future. Simplify the vision and start living your dream life today ❤️ I guess what I am saying is that if one focuses the dream life on how one feels and what one does day to day, who one surrounds oneself with and what one contributes to the world, your dream life does not have to be some far away future vision, it can be attainable in the present ❤️

  • @dianelou2262
    @dianelou2262 Před 2 lety +4

    Ah yes, a path forward for how to set goals, Thank You!!
    Question - I'm new to quarterly goals, how do you just choose one? What do you do with your other hours of the day? Why can't I work on 3 goals? Does it overwhelm ppl and they end up giving up? I want to build my business AND get fit. Do I treat the other goals as little side projects that I kind of do but my plans and focus are more about the big one goal? Or go haaard on that one, and next goal cycle choose the other goal? I feel like always choosing my business other things in my life will fall behind, like making a lovely home, and sustaining health.

  • @sujata_155
    @sujata_155 Před 2 lety +4

    As an INTJ, it looks so useful, thanks for sharing, although I have been doing some of this but not everything and it really helps❤️

  • @jimkingsland1645
    @jimkingsland1645 Před 8 měsíci

    I liked how you acknowledged the number of subscribers is somewhat beyond your control. I also like how you expounded upon and summarized your system of weekly plans, results, and post analysis. Greatest advice was shortening the time frame and the one goal. Very inspiring. Thank you!

  • @rawshn
    @rawshn Před 2 lety +8

    I'm also a system-oriented person, rather than goal-oriented.
    People often ask me how I do it. Now I have a video to lead them to instead of having to explain them myself 🤣
    And you could also add if you are not achieving your micro-goals: maybe you're doing something wrong. So modify the system!
    Thank you Alexis

  • @shimmyshimmycocopop8905
    @shimmyshimmycocopop8905 Před 2 lety +8

    First thank you so much for creating and sharing this content!! It is a tremendous gift and has really helped me move forward with creating a life I want. ✨
    In the future could you possibly limit the music in the background. I found it extremely difficult to concentrate with the combination of the volume, particular music beat, and how fast paced you spoke. 😣

  • @aurostar9805
    @aurostar9805 Před rokem

    I was crying over my past failures just a second ago , but then your video pops up in the best moment , Thanks .

  • @purplegal05
    @purplegal05 Před 2 lety +7

    New subscriber here. This is the best content on CZcams that I have seen recently. Very unique from other channels out there and super motivating! I look forward to seeing your channel to continue to grow.

  • @The_Superbillionaire
    @The_Superbillionaire Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks a Billion Alexis Kingsley for this video, it is so explanatory and excellent, especially the part you talked about conserving your energy and celebrating your wins.

  • @vinnynz
    @vinnynz Před 3 měsíci

    The real beauty of the systems approach is when you have systems that overlap, so you can generate some real momentum.

  • @candacerushing6882
    @candacerushing6882 Před 8 měsíci

    This is one of the most helpful videos I’ve found on CZcams, and I found it at the perfect time! Thank you!
    I’m glad to see that 3 years later, you have 35,000 subscribers. Clearly, your system is working for you!

  • @nakoskyranos4080
    @nakoskyranos4080 Před 2 lety +2

    It is always a pleasure to pass by a fellow system builder and see that you are not alone. Great video!

  • @esraaabd-allah1626
    @esraaabd-allah1626 Před 3 lety +5

    System is such a pleasant word! This is so actionable yet simple. Thank you Alexis!

  • @Kris7245
    @Kris7245 Před rokem +3

    I just discovered your channel after looking for explanations on cognitive functions and you explain everything so well! I love your channel and think you deserve more subscribers than you have. I had read Atomic Habits and have been implementing new habits but struggling when it comes to the bigger more overwhelming dreams like starting a business. This type of approach is exactly what I need.

  • @JuanMorales-rl1wr
    @JuanMorales-rl1wr Před 3 lety +51

    how do you not have more subscribers

    • @priscila5990
      @priscila5990 Před 3 lety +6

      just wait

    • @jewelofdasouth96
      @jewelofdasouth96 Před rokem +2

      Ikr 😊🎉❤

    • @RichardDuinmayer
      @RichardDuinmayer Před rokem +2

      She speaks to quickly. The board is hard to read.

    • @mihaelzanjkovic8603
      @mihaelzanjkovic8603 Před rokem +1

      A lavaliere mic would take her to 600k - sound is huge, beside the good intended advice above

    • @diephilosophina_astrologie
      @diephilosophina_astrologie Před 8 měsíci

      She should use more CTA because If i did not read your comment probably i forrgot to follow her even If ITS maybe the 5th Video i watched with her

  • @lachesislooms9233
    @lachesislooms9233 Před 2 lety +1

    I would add one layer above everything else-values. That is the ultimate hierarchy imo.

  • @Huntingforbeauty007
    @Huntingforbeauty007 Před 2 lety

    I just downloaded the Vision Planner. I was just about to start working on my plans and goals and this will prevent me from jotting things down aimlessly.I know the one thing I want to focus on and I'm ready to get this party started! thanks!

  • @Lady_Cyndia
    @Lady_Cyndia Před rokem

    absolute successful living and ultimate goal is hearing the words "well done good and faithful servant"
    However - wow - my life is amazing - I have an amazing life with amazing marriage and smart capable adult children and two lovely grandchildren. Obvi my life isn't perfect but its perfect for me. Life isn't always sunny and rose smelling, yes I have sorrows and heartbreaks and family drama. That's part of being human and living life. Over all, the big picture, I'm happy and life is good.
    My big dreams include my health and seeing my grandchildren more.

  • @leannemarie212
    @leannemarie212 Před 11 měsíci

    This is great! I’ve been using a system with too many questions that leave me shamed. I’m finally working towards just building a system so it’s less feelings based

  • @apoorvsom9120
    @apoorvsom9120 Před 2 lety +1

    Alexis, thanks for the quick summary in the beginning. Very important intj thing to do. 🥺Only INTJs can understand INTJs. 💯💯

  • @DaveLopezMixing
    @DaveLopezMixing Před 8 měsíci

    Alexis. You should feel very proud of yourself. This is excellent content. And I'm sure it's not a coincidence that I found it at year's end. Either the Universe sent this to me, or CZcams's algo now pulls directly from my head. Hopefully, the former.

  • @JoanneWetzel
    @JoanneWetzel Před 3 lety +4

    One of my biggest takeaways from Atomic Habits so in the New Year I’ll be working on my systems! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @mypsalm40
    @mypsalm40 Před 3 lety +8

    Subscribed just to help you reach your goal this quarter!!! Thanks for breaking this down for us! So helpful!

  • @stephaniecombs8438
    @stephaniecombs8438 Před 3 lety +5

    Subscribed! Thank you so much. This was exactly what I needed and was looking for to get myself to the next level. Keeping going and best of luck on your CZcams journey!

  • @scottjackson163
    @scottjackson163 Před rokem +1

    You are incredibly good at what you do. I just ordered your planner.

  • @deborahdavis8632
    @deborahdavis8632 Před 3 lety +4

    Very clearly presented. I am thinking about my own dreams and systems. Thank you. 😀

  • @breannakusko2530
    @breannakusko2530 Před 2 lety +1

    This video is INCREDIBLE. PAST TENSE. PRESENT TENSE. FUTURE TENSE. !!! I immediately followed you-you’re doing what is within your control and it is WORKING!! I’m excited to learn more from you because you articulate these large things in such a profound way. Listening to you is like aha moment after aha moment. THANK YOU for following your light & purpose by making these videos & channel💖

    • @breannakusko2530
      @breannakusko2530 Před 2 lety

      Also, I see you’re into myers Briggs. I’m an ENFJ. I’m into astrology and am an Aries rising & moon with a Capricorn sun 🤩 I bet you’ve got some earth and or air in your chart because your communication skills are grounded with such practical know-how!

  • @fernandor.desaneto4570
    @fernandor.desaneto4570 Před 3 lety +2

    This video was really life-changing.
    Thank you so much! Greetings from Brazil!

  • @michaeltilley6281
    @michaeltilley6281 Před rokem

    This was very motivating. I am also a strong Christian so I want to include God in my system. What I really liked about this is how organized and how it shows how to turn your goals into reality and live it daily. I like the fact that you have a morning routine and if you don't like in a week you change it. I really enjoyed this video and so I am glad to subscribe to it and learn from you!

  • @versdestages7332
    @versdestages7332 Před 2 lety +7

    It’s also good to include God in our plans. None of our visions are happening without him. Other than that, this method sounds promising 🙏

  • @a7xfanben
    @a7xfanben Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you for this, great ideas and tips presented here!

  • @oliwiaw6
    @oliwiaw6 Před 3 lety +4

    Great video, I love how you made this video very visual and actionable!! Thank you

  • @tammysegarra2379
    @tammysegarra2379 Před 2 lety +3

    This is gold. Thank you for sharing so much knowledge and break it down so well!

  • @mozlen5442
    @mozlen5442 Před rokem

    I really love your videos. I watched 10 of them in one sitting. Thank you.

  • @grungekookie3298
    @grungekookie3298 Před 3 lety +4

    Great video! I love the content, the music is a bit distracting though.

  • @RantPocalypse
    @RantPocalypse Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for highlighting this journal. Awesome way to set up fantastic systems in your life.
    Good luck on the 100K subscribers!

  • @wokewerk6759
    @wokewerk6759 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for doing this work. I will definitely rewatch and implement these strategies. Hope to give an update midyear!

  • @kathryncainmadsen5850

    I have time blindness so I always get stuck at that T. This was helpful even if the music is annoying. ;)

  • @tostadamama
    @tostadamama Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing this system! Congrats on 8K 🥳

  • @DMKGuitar
    @DMKGuitar Před 4 měsíci

    Very good channel and thanks for the content! Really insightful

  • @ismaelba6466
    @ismaelba6466 Před 2 lety

    Best video on planning and productivity on CZcams. Keep up the good work Alexis🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @srishtibagalkoti6822
    @srishtibagalkoti6822 Před rokem

    Thank you for doing this!

  • @mavisdavisify
    @mavisdavisify Před rokem

    I appreciate your instruction. Creating an overarching system to achieve your goals makes perfect sense. Using habits, which are specific thoughts and/or actions repeated so often they become automatic, is a perfect delivery system as long as the habits are helpful, not damaging. Thank you for the information. I say this next bit as an older woman with some hearing loss. Extra background noise makes it very difficult to hear what you’re saying and the background music was loud enough to that I was unable to hear all of your presentation. I say this not as a criticism just as an FYI.

  • @alextorresmusic
    @alextorresmusic Před 3 lety +1

    Subscribed! Very practical and inspiring video, and even more powerful, considering you already reached and passed your goal of 1K subscribers!
    Many Thanks and Congratulations!

  • @ritaneca9817
    @ritaneca9817 Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely loved this video. I learned so much! amazing content

  • @stefan-eckhart
    @stefan-eckhart Před 7 měsíci

    Love the video. I'll rewatch this from 10:55

  • @Xyz-bo6qh
    @Xyz-bo6qh Před 3 lety

    it is really useful and nourishing my mind to change directions and to look bigger .. thank you

  • @merrymary428
    @merrymary428 Před 2 lety +1

    So incredibly good!!!!!!!

  • @Sundertalesz
    @Sundertalesz Před 2 lety +1

    All of your videos are so well explained. :) definitely saving this video to reference back on but im definitely going to try and get on this system thing. As an INFP i struggle a lot with keeping good habits and meeting big goals. But lately I have really tried to kick myself into gear and get on track for the sake of my future. Im hoping to become a storyboard artists/animator one day and i need a lot of self discipline to advance my artwork and continue on a solid path. thanks again for this video. Very helpful

  • @Alice_v2.0
    @Alice_v2.0 Před 2 lety +1

    This is an absolutely brilliant video! Thank you. New subscriber. 👍🏾

  • @rosemaryfengchannel
    @rosemaryfengchannel Před 2 lety

    Yeah I think this system is the key to reaching the goals and not to burn out😜

  • @warriorprincess5795
    @warriorprincess5795 Před 2 lety

    I'm glad to watch this video on New Year's Day and I just subscribed. Very helpful video

  • @AlinaMinkova
    @AlinaMinkova Před 2 lety

    Thank you! This was interesting, looking forward to check your other videos!

  • @Lemknown
    @Lemknown Před 3 lety

    Thanks , for teaching a valueable concept, I will use it from now.

  • @tralaritralarajiju2652

    Yes!🍀
    Although I am but concerned by the wasted paper and wondering why not using a Blackboard? 👀

  • @sergiodamm3705
    @sergiodamm3705 Před rokem

    I’ve needed this for a really long time

  • @LighthouseHorror
    @LighthouseHorror Před 2 lety +1

    enjoyed the video - thank you!

  • @EzraClaverie
    @EzraClaverie Před 3 lety +1

    I was thinking, "she _must_ know the Stoics," and just then, you mentioned them.

  • @salesprosteve
    @salesprosteve Před 2 lety

    Only 2 minutes in & this is great - awesome job alexis!

  • @sebastianondogaokot9134
    @sebastianondogaokot9134 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Am in Uganda. How can I adapt these for me as a poultry farmer? Kindly advise.

  • @demancey
    @demancey Před 8 měsíci +1

    800 followers when this video posted
    Now at 150k. Goal acquired 🎉

  • @sholae8860
    @sholae8860 Před rokem

    This is a great video, thank you! I’ll be applying these. Unfortunately, I cannot get the planners anywhere- sold out on website and I’m in the UK. But I will still apply the breakdown you showed 😊

  • @maryleigh8990
    @maryleigh8990 Před rokem

    Once you establish the smart goal, the next step is determining the proper intervention to achieve that goal and then evaluate the effectiveness of the interventions and finally modifying the plan to increase the chances of achieving the goal the next time around...
    Well look at that...the nursing process...

  • @AvalynGirl
    @AvalynGirl Před 3 lety +1

    So... I like the idea of having a system but your planner would drive me nuts... way too feely for me. 😆 Habits are key though... for me if I have a really specific project on a timeline I’ll break it into sprints to get it done and that really helps me get there.

  • @vincejupiter4749
    @vincejupiter4749 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you 🫡

  • @venkatesasrikanthdhulipala9486

    Really a correct to build a systems for achieving goal

  • @reannaparker5705
    @reannaparker5705 Před 2 lety

    A really underrated video! ❤ thank you for this!

  • @surajsk4920
    @surajsk4920 Před rokem

    Thanks alaxa it's really helpful

  • @marq1458
    @marq1458 Před 2 lety

    thank you for this. very helpful. I have the atomic habit book, I should really make time to read it.

  • @kittennoire8427
    @kittennoire8427 Před 2 lety

    This video came right on time! This is phenomenal, you have gained a new subbie here!😃😃😃👍

  • @alexa574
    @alexa574 Před 2 lety

    I just found your channel and love your content! New subbie here! Looking forward to seeing your other videos. Thank you!

  • @amalaa8964
    @amalaa8964 Před 2 lety

    U talking abt wanting to hit 100k subs made me go to ur channel analyze ur vid content and I FELL INLOVE definitely subbed and planning to watch ur recent vids as well thank u !!

  • @hajarbabi2391
    @hajarbabi2391 Před 2 lety

    Wow you just talked about systems which are really the same in my head so same ideas hhh✨ ,btw I am an intj too I think it' s really working keep going 👍👍👍

  • @milkydropz
    @milkydropz Před 2 lety

    Amazing content! Life changing 🥰 you did a great job walking us through it.

  • @VeronicaCristina
    @VeronicaCristina Před rokem

    excellent...thanks..

  • @Maria_Nizhny_Novgorod
    @Maria_Nizhny_Novgorod Před 3 lety +2

    This was so motivational! New sub.

  • @christins2267
    @christins2267 Před 2 lety

    I love how much you love this.