Deborah Devonshire, the youngest Mitford sister, talks about her extraordinary life

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  • Deborah Devonshire, the youngest Mitford sister, talks about her extraordinary life on the publication of her memoirs, 'Wait for Me'.
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  • @billchristie2120
    @billchristie2120 Před 4 lety +75

    I sent her a thank you letter after visiting Chatsworth 2011. She kindly sent a card back to NZ. An extraordinary Lady.

    • @wildandbarefoot
      @wildandbarefoot Před 2 lety +4

      It's lovely of you to write so well of Debbo. She us very missed by all who knew her. X

  • @ecureuil85
    @ecureuil85 Před 12 lety +63

    I'm reading her memoir at the moment, it's beautifully written. Definitely recommended.

  • @ASTPlumbing9090
    @ASTPlumbing9090 Před 4 lety +99

    You absolutely do not need any music when a Mitford is speaking. Their accents and interests and eccentricities of yesteryear affluent speak volumes.

    • @jude999
      @jude999 Před 2 lety +12

      Its become a scourge with all documentaries.

    • @forourcommongood
      @forourcommongood Před 2 lety +4

      They have a way of completly enthralling you.

    • @hilaryjohns4049
      @hilaryjohns4049 Před 2 lety +4

      @@jude999 It is a horrible noise, it is not music.

    • @kayhathaway6956
      @kayhathaway6956 Před 2 lety +3

      @@jude999 I couldn’t agree more!!!!!! Just let them speak!

    • @Simon-pm6mt
      @Simon-pm6mt Před rokem

      Agreed - especially poor and irrelevant music, played too loud compared with the narrative.

  • @blessOTMA
    @blessOTMA Před 5 lety +56

    When she married her husband, he was the 2nd son and not the heir. His elder brother, (married to JFK's sister, Kathleen) died in WW2 and so Debs and Andrew became heirs to the Dukedom. Lovely lady.

  • @nadiasawicki7710
    @nadiasawicki7710 Před 4 lety +27

    From what I have seen of her from documentaries the lady seems very hardworking and honest. What I liked the most was she praised her staff for their contribution. I would have loved to have met her.

  • @carolking6355
    @carolking6355 Před 4 lety +22

    Such a delightful, charming lady, and such a good sense of humour.

  • @doonewatts7155
    @doonewatts7155 Před 2 lety +13

    Wonderful. She was known to the people of Derbyshire as 'Good old Debo' which is the highest praise she could have wished for in that county.

  • @barbfrmsf
    @barbfrmsf Před 9 lety +34

    May she rest in peace thanks for sharing your talent with us

  • @ynp1978
    @ynp1978 Před rokem +8

    Boy she was a beautiful young woman!

    • @annekalunn8339
      @annekalunn8339 Před rokem +1

      True story I’m 12 great granddaughter of chatsworth and hardwick hall

  • @heartofoak45
    @heartofoak45 Před 4 lety +17

    I recently bought 'Wait for Me'. It is a delightful and entertaining book of The Duchess's life and her siblings together with an account of her husband's struggle with alcoholism. I commend it to you.

  • @princephilip-v5t
    @princephilip-v5t Před rokem +8

    She spanned the old world to the new. Incredible.

  • @ginacrea7105
    @ginacrea7105 Před 5 lety +15

    Interesting life marvellous woman such a shame she’s gone end of an era

  • @einezcrespo
    @einezcrespo Před 9 lety +16

    I was just re-reading parts of The Sisters: the Saga of The Mitford Family. Of all of the sisters Deborah strikes me as the most grounded. Also have Charlotte Mosley's book. Was sad to hear she had passed away. RIP

  • @timcolledge3732
    @timcolledge3732 Před 4 lety +17

    A great lady, very self possessed and dignified.

  • @jspud10
    @jspud10 Před 4 lety +7

    The “background” music is no longer in the background, but out front loud and proud and I want to bitch slap it back into its rightful place.

  • @KDL861
    @KDL861 Před 5 lety +22

    Beautiful manor and grounds! And she’s gorgeous, young and old.

  • @busdriversprayer
    @busdriversprayer Před rokem +16

    The music drowns out her voice

    • @Kelly-tj8xv
      @Kelly-tj8xv Před 13 dny

      I think JOHN MURRAY BROOKS might be deaf, if he thinks anyone can hear what she's saying. The music is LOUDER than her voice. This video is a GREAT DISSERVICE to this wonderful lady.

  • @dihow6519
    @dihow6519 Před 8 lety +76

    Why is the music so load. It overwhelms her words. Very irritating.

    • @drdebocherry
      @drdebocherry Před 4 lety +5

      Hate background music 😡 and it's always doubly too loud.

    • @Vingul
      @Vingul Před 2 lety

      @@drdebocherry foreground music, in case you're not interested enough in the words you're straining your ears to hear.

  • @oliverelton
    @oliverelton Před 8 lety +12

    a Great Lady, thank you, and from one who met her

    • @elainemale1148
      @elainemale1148 Před 7 lety +7

      oliverelton Oh! Deborah ! You were such an inspiration to me when I was a child, although I am younger than you I always remember a day when you touched my life . I had the audacity to begin an argument with you about the WE and the non We ,how we laughed and laughed, such a good time to feel so alive and gay and hilarious when we found out the word had been hijacked by homosexuals. I am now in my sixtieth year but I remember, I remember you so well, my sweet friend, I ended up in a non we situation looking after Mary Asquith and became a non we , hoots of laughter, good memories and remember the way you laughed like a drain.

    • @elainemale1148
      @elainemale1148 Před 7 lety +1

      oliverelton Oh! Deborah ! You were such an inspiration to me when I was a child, although I am younger than you I always remember a day when you touched my life . I had the audacity to begin an argument with you about the WE and the non We ,how we laughed and laughed, such a good time to feel so alive and gay and hilarious when we found out the word had been hijacked by homosexuals. I am now in my sixtieth year but I remember, I remember you so well, my sweet friend, I ended up in a non we situation looking after Mary Asquith and became a non we , hoots of laughter, good memories and remember the way you laughed like a drain.

  • @abbyanderson4171
    @abbyanderson4171 Před 6 lety +40

    Turn that irritating music off

  • @dashursaqqara436
    @dashursaqqara436 Před 2 lety +13

    People from these eras in time, regardless of social-economic class / status, are becoming rare as the appearance of Halley's Comet - the lives they lead and experiences they had to endure was like steel being sharpened.
    Even many of the social elites, Aristocracy and Royals made sacrifices and endured hardships that gave them great character - think of Queen Elizabeth.
    Today's generation and beyond don't know and, probably, would fold in a millisecond if they had to endure what many from these past eras experienced!

  • @willowbrooke1215
    @willowbrooke1215 Před 2 lety +3

    I only knew off the Duchess when reading Kick Kennedy's biography who was originally intended to be Duchess until her husband (Debo's brother in law) died in WW2. In all the old photos I thought Debo was absolutely stunning. She and her sister Diana

  • @mscott3918
    @mscott3918 Před 3 lety +26

    For someone who described herself as a non reader she was a great writer.

  • @indieshack4476
    @indieshack4476 Před 2 lety +3

    Wonderful piece - thanks for posting

  • @cordulacoops1030
    @cordulacoops1030 Před 3 lety +8

    Why always the disturbing music. The voce is very softly spoken, the music not nescessary and too loud

  • @bluestarlighting29
    @bluestarlighting29 Před 8 lety +2

    Amazing story have try find book. Thank you so much this story.

  • @lisarogers9488
    @lisarogers9488 Před 2 lety +2

    I met her as she was the patron of my old college - fortune centre of riding therapy

  • @nancyhobson9710
    @nancyhobson9710 Před 4 lety +4

    Duchess I will buy your book. Expect it will be an extraordinary read.

  • @katieperry3998
    @katieperry3998 Před 4 lety +11

    There are hardly any quality people like that left today. Sadly! Country is full of plebs and trash now!

  • @LachlanMadsen
    @LachlanMadsen Před 6 lety +21

    Remove the music!

  • @Jeffybonbon
    @Jeffybonbon Před 13 lety +31

    a true british lady

    • @gavinburnes6344
      @gavinburnes6344 Před 3 lety

      Even tho she isn’t British...

    • @ginnyappleton6363
      @ginnyappleton6363 Před 3 lety +9

      @@gavinburnes6344 Err, yes. She was English through and through. Born and bred in Oxfordshire.

    • @gavinburnes6344
      @gavinburnes6344 Před 3 lety

      @@ginnyappleton6363 the the FUCK up

  • @cinnaplid
    @cinnaplid Před 9 lety +41

    Music too loud, competes with her lovely narrative. Nevertheless, thanks for the video.

  • @josephlloyd9636
    @josephlloyd9636 Před rokem +2

    ❤🌟💯 I've read the book "The SiX" i highly recommend the story of the Mitford sister's its incredible.💕💯👍

  • @pamelawalker5644
    @pamelawalker5644 Před 5 lety +12

    couldn't watch this, the music was too annoying. too loud. couldn't hear her talk.

  • @drdebocherry
    @drdebocherry Před 4 lety +8

    Extraordinary story, how all sister's could be so successful at what they wanted to do. Awesome.

    • @Unfunny_Username_389
      @Unfunny_Username_389 Před 2 lety +7

      Especially Unity wait what.

    • @angierucinski5694
      @angierucinski5694 Před 2 lety +1

      Check out the lovely Unity 😨😓

    • @annekalunn8339
      @annekalunn8339 Před 2 lety

      @@Unfunny_Username_389 try story I’m from hardwick hall and chatsworth house on my mum Side of the family

    • @mayanchild
      @mayanchild Před měsícem

      @@Unfunny_Username_389 and Diane successfully married a fascist & as a real treat had Hitler attend her wedding.

  • @JustMe-xz2ls
    @JustMe-xz2ls Před rokem +1

    The background music, while perfectly fine in it's own right, unfortunately here is a most unwelcome annoyance

  • @vasokara2672
    @vasokara2672 Před 2 lety +4

    Please make sure that music doesn't cover the speech it's very annoying

  • @naja46
    @naja46 Před 11 lety +29

    I think she's a lovely lady . OK , so 2 of her sisters were Fascists but that wasn't her fault , she was only a young teenager at the time . She can't help her upper class background either . I have the book Letters Between Six Sisters and she has signed it , as has the author Charlotte Mosley who is Diana Mitford's daughter in law . I really cherish that book , I find the whole Mitford family fascinating . Others may disagree but we all have our own opinions after all .

    • @sharonstephens9200
      @sharonstephens9200 Před 6 lety +2

      naja46 Britain held back by bunch of Nazi sympathizers

    • @JRElgar
      @JRElgar Před 4 lety +9

      Oh yes, her sisters and Oswald Mosley were so evil for not wanting a war with Germany that would destroy Britain! I bet you've never opened a single book about British Union in your life.

    • @annekalunn8567
      @annekalunn8567 Před 4 lety

      J.R. Elgar I’m 13 grand daughter of chatsworth house on my mum side of the family

    • @vnine542
      @vnine542 Před 3 lety

      @@JRElgar All misinformed retards

  • @Eddies186
    @Eddies186 Před 2 lety +3

    I can't make out a damn word shes sayings for that music ..

  • @jeanniemarie3850
    @jeanniemarie3850 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm going to get that book!

    • @annekalunn8567
      @annekalunn8567 Před 4 lety

      Jeannie Marie I’m 13 grand daughter of chatsworth house on my mum side of the family

  • @sandymitchell258
    @sandymitchell258 Před 3 lety +3

    Yes I read the book, still a privileged up bringing, and led a life of untold wealth

  • @paulashe61
    @paulashe61 Před 3 měsíci

    My friend would shout down the table. “ do we know these people?!”

  • @christineterry3079
    @christineterry3079 Před 3 lety +1

    Seems like she was a lovely lady .. the chatsworth estate is beautiful..

  • @Templedelagloire
    @Templedelagloire Před 11 lety +14

    the music is awful

  • @alexpilbeam2402
    @alexpilbeam2402 Před 4 lety +6

    It's amazing to think these sisters are my nans cousins.

    • @alexpilbeam2402
      @alexpilbeam2402 Před 4 lety +1

      @cletus bocephus what you mean?

    • @filipematias5127
      @filipematias5127 Před 4 lety

      @@alexpilbeam2402 Nevermind: people like him are satanic conspiracy NUTS!

  • @mycorporategifts
    @mycorporategifts Před 10 lety +1

    Thought you may like to watch this following our recent discussion about Debs

  • @adammallerman8153
    @adammallerman8153 Před 9 měsíci +3

    When you consider how horrific Unity was with Diana not far behind, it's remarkable how lovely Deborah was

    • @Essexgeezer
      @Essexgeezer Před 3 měsíci

      They were not horrific at all,they opposed Britains involvement in
      WW2 and feared we would lose the Empire as a result.We did lose the Empire and were stuck with rationing until the early 50’s.
      Germany soon built itself up again and we remained in the doldrums and still are.Who was right?.

    • @mayanchild
      @mayanchild Před měsícem +1

      @@Essexgeezer They were racists & fascists who cavorted with Hitler & Goebbels - Unity & Diane were dreadful.

  • @kimsherlock8969
    @kimsherlock8969 Před 3 lety

    Wonderful person

  • @alisoncleeton877
    @alisoncleeton877 Před 6 lety +2

    Lovely Lady xxx

  • @mkkravist11
    @mkkravist11 Před 2 lety +1

    90 years old here, can you believe it!!!

  • @dianabrown7946
    @dianabrown7946 Před 4 lety +12

    If you want to make a music video, make a music video.

  • @joycebrown1413
    @joycebrown1413 Před 2 lety +3

    No music, don't need it

  • @charlesvanderhoog7056

    I can still hear, albeit vaguely, what the dowager says. The music is not loud enough!

  • @jaapvermeulen3922
    @jaapvermeulen3922 Před 2 měsíci

    OMG🥶

  • @styxcreek
    @styxcreek Před 10 lety +11

    Very interesting family. Does anyone think downton abbey may have been partly inspired by the Mitfords ?

    • @modfus
      @modfus Před 9 lety +1

      Nathan Parsons yes, Downton Abbey is inspired by a number of true incidents and real-life persons.

    • @gabrielalopetegui
      @gabrielalopetegui Před 8 lety +3

      +Mondo Cultura I watched an interview on Julian Fellowes, that among other things, said that the incident with the turkish young man, Mr. Pamuk, who died in Lady Mary's bed, was a real event, that happened in the house of the great great aunt of one of his friends LOL!

    • @awesomedude584
      @awesomedude584 Před 7 lety

      Yes, if only we could find out who it was!!!! So curious!

  • @ummiramli6554
    @ummiramli6554 Před rokem +1

    The background music, no need.

  • @jeffallcock4561
    @jeffallcock4561 Před 3 lety +1

    I'd love to see someone make a movie about the old duffer neighbor who proposed marriage to Debo

  • @margeryfranko1850
    @margeryfranko1850 Před 4 lety +1

    Interesting term
    Housewife

  • @gvbrandolini
    @gvbrandolini Před 3 lety +2

    Interessante

  • @tarasubramaniam6191
    @tarasubramaniam6191 Před rokem

    The background music is annoying
    Which are we supposed to listen to
    Hon Duchess of Devonshire.. or the
    Music??

  • @TinTeddyVideos
    @TinTeddyVideos Před rokem +1

    Debo is rather my heroine

  • @pygiana16
    @pygiana16 Před 4 lety +5

    Housewife! That is hilarious!

  • @nurlatifahmohdnor8939

    Page 382
    After the Great Fire of London, in 1666, which destroyed much of the city, he set about rebuilding the churches.

    • @nurlatifahmohdnor8939
      @nurlatifahmohdnor8939 Před rokem

      Wren designed 52 new churches, which are known for their simplicity and the ingenious designs of their different steeples.
      steep = cu-ram

  • @richardmckrell4899
    @richardmckrell4899 Před 3 lety +2

    She can't remember how many houses she inherited. lol

  • @franklandsman3436
    @franklandsman3436 Před rokem +1

    The Iron Lady took elocution lessons to tawk like her, but failed miserably.

  • @nigelbrown8319
    @nigelbrown8319 Před 3 lety +2

    English ❤

  • @heathstjohn6775
    @heathstjohn6775 Před 5 lety +12

    Thanks. Awful , miserable ' music '. Too depressing even for a crematorium.

  • @catofthecastle1681
    @catofthecastle1681 Před 5 lety +3

    Her name wasn’t Devonshire, it was Cavendish!

    • @anne-elizabethmcgeary1023
      @anne-elizabethmcgeary1023 Před 4 lety +2

      She 's the Duchess of Devonshire, her last name is Cavendish. Learn to read.

    • @filipematias5127
      @filipematias5127 Před 4 lety +2

      @@anne-elizabethmcgeary1023
      Actually her last maiden name was Mitford whilst Cavendish his her husband's family last name which she also adopted after marrying him and Duke of Devonshire is one of her husband's several titles: Lord Devonshire (or if you prefer Lord Cavendish) was a peer of the realm in the UK!

    • @Patrick3183
      @Patrick3183 Před 2 lety +1

      It’s customary to take your title as your last name

  • @mariaevans5793
    @mariaevans5793 Před 2 lety +1

    She made Chatsworths what it's is,I have been many times , unfortunately since her son and daughter-in-law took over ,it's not so well run,gift shop not so good,also allowing all those stupid statue's out side ,that cost a lot of money,last I sure some have protective scaffolding around one, because it had subsided,and I read was made by one of her friends!!!!😳🇬🇧

  • @Kelly-tj8xv
    @Kelly-tj8xv Před 13 dny

    Oh my God, turn down that music!!!!!!! It's so damn loud that I can't here Debo speak!!!!! JOHN MURRAY BROOKS - please re-make this video without the ridiculous music. THUMBS DOWN on this video due to the ridiculously LOUD MUSIC.

  • @Findingtruth569
    @Findingtruth569 Před 3 lety

    Well ,it might be I strive to be. In Fairland.

  • @aebraadams1603
    @aebraadams1603 Před 2 lety

    [)PLEASE INQUIRE ABOUT DEBORAH DEVONSHIRE SHIRT & SKIRT PURCHASE,-_.!.adaADA(]

  • @poisonproductionzz
    @poisonproductionzz Před 6 měsíci

    the others are more exciting

  • @citizen1163
    @citizen1163 Před 3 lety

    Life is cruel.

  • @stuzo666
    @stuzo666 Před 2 lety +7

    Beautiful lady, family, ohhh how I wish Britain was like this today, so sad Britain now a multicultural hellhole

    • @dashursaqqara436
      @dashursaqqara436 Před 2 lety +1

      so open about your RACISM and IGNORANCE....Britain has always, for centuries, had people of color in its populace...but, your 0-grade intellect couldn't fathom picking up a factual history book to read and understand

    • @stuzo666
      @stuzo666 Před 2 lety +5

      @@dashursaqqara436 I am neither racist or ignorant, ask most " true British " people and they will say it's a multicultural hellhole, with no go areas for certain peoples. In the 60s there were small amounts of black , Chinese, Jewish, Sikh type people, no issues ....fast forward 50 odd years where the religion of peace are predominant and its bombings, stabbings a plenty, all for what

  • @bridgethackett8112
    @bridgethackett8112 Před rokem

    Very eccentric but traitorous

  • @loggats
    @loggats Před 11 lety

    have*... and nope. They're houses.

  • @allazharduisenbek9936

    Weren’t Mitford sisters fascist ?

    • @milkshake3350
      @milkshake3350 Před rokem

      No, try reading about them.

    • @allazharduisenbek9936
      @allazharduisenbek9936 Před rokem

      @@milkshake3350 thank you, I didn’t know. Their story is quite fascinating, if I haven’t seen this video, I might have never read about them.

  • @SKY-jv9ue
    @SKY-jv9ue Před 6 lety +1

    A silly woman!

    • @mscott3918
      @mscott3918 Před 4 lety +7

      Far from silly. She was a cousin of my mother and I knew her well. Very intelligent and very able.

    • @AgathaVelvet
      @AgathaVelvet Před 4 lety +1

      M Scott, what an honor it must have been to know her. I wish you could tell me some stories. ☺

    • @wildandbarefoot
      @wildandbarefoot Před 2 lety

      When people say the most awful things it make you love clucking things.

    • @rogerborroel4707
      @rogerborroel4707 Před 2 lety

      @@wildandbarefoot I agree biker! Clucking! Clucking! (Whatever that means folks!)

    • @wildandbarefoot
      @wildandbarefoot Před 2 lety +1

      @@rogerborroel4707 Debo loved chickens.

  • @happysingle6240
    @happysingle6240 Před 3 lety

    looking out the window is about all she was good at, never worked a day in her freeloading life....sickening

    • @mscott3918
      @mscott3918 Před 3 lety +9

      Do some proper research about her before spouting vicious, pc obsessed bile.

    • @roisinniloirgneain815
      @roisinniloirgneain815 Před 3 lety +6

      Absolutely untrue.

    • @wildandbarefoot
      @wildandbarefoot Před 2 lety +4

      Oh you BORE! Simply untrue! She was very interested and involved and an especially concerned friend for those whom she liked.

  • @styxcreek
    @styxcreek Před 10 lety +6

    Very interesting family. Does anyone think downton abbey may have been partly inspired by the Mitfords ?

    • @user-bh4rx8mf8g
      @user-bh4rx8mf8g Před 10 lety +3

      Very possible. If you haven't already read them, "The Pursuit of Love" and "Love in a Cold Climate" by Nancy Mitford, and "Hons and Rebels", by Jessica, are very entertaining and ever interesting insight into the Mitfords' early lives.

    • @DorkofCork
      @DorkofCork Před 9 lety +2

      I doubt it. The Mitfords always seemed too disorganized and scattered

    • @tomburcher5237
      @tomburcher5237 Před 8 lety

      +Lydia O'Keefe ---Was Jessica Mitford, the author of "Silent Spring", related? The book was a masterpiece

    • @DorkofCork
      @DorkofCork Před 8 lety +4

      Yes! "Decca" I don't think I would have liked any of them personally (!) but to circle back to the OP...this family was much more interesting than the Downton group. There was a bit of a "crazy" vibe about the Mitfords. Deborah appeared to be one of the most "normal". Read the Sisters book-can't remember the whole title

    • @DorkofCork
      @DorkofCork Před 8 lety +2

      The funeral book was the book that really stood out in mind at the time it was written-Jessica Mitford