Divesh - The RED Flag 🚩 | We BROKE UP 💔Twice Before Marriage 😳

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
  • Before getting married we (Divesh and Vishakha) Broke up not Once BUT TWICE.
    Yes, you heard it Right. We wanted to share our break-up story on how it has made us stronger with each passing year.
    Reason Behind our LOVE-Break Up story. Watch the full story to know more.
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Komentáře • 174

  • @Audes208
    @Audes208 Před 16 dny +213

    I came here from Instagram 💀

  • @vishakhasolanki555
    @vishakhasolanki555 Před 29 dny +132

    The thing i noticed that u guys are calm as in you both listen quietly and calmly to each other while talking..!! Without interrupting n letting other person to complete the converse

  • @sumanmahapatra9435
    @sumanmahapatra9435 Před 15 dny +36

    In short as they say, “IF ITS MEANT TO BE, IT WILL HAPPEN!!!”

  • @sunidhiagrawal5142
    @sunidhiagrawal5142 Před 29 dny +88

    How dare you call divesh a red flag 😂😂
    He is the sweetest cutest 😂😂
    You both are cutest

  • @ashmitachettri193
    @ashmitachettri193 Před 12 dny +13

    The way you guys say sorry for interrupting each other 🥹🥺

  • @divyabhowte1921
    @divyabhowte1921 Před 29 dny +119

    Hello guys... I am doctor.. Found your channel randomly in CZcams.. And you guys are genuine... I am in love with u guys😊

    • @spandanareddy364
      @spandanareddy364 Před 29 dny +24

      doctor bolne ka zaroorat nahi tha!

    • @ashwiniist
      @ashwiniist Před 29 dny +10

      We really don't care what you do for a living madam.

    • @sunidhiagrawal5142
      @sunidhiagrawal5142 Před 29 dny +9

      Haa wahi doctor mention karne ki kya zaroorat thi😂😂😂

    • @user-bq2zn4sk6y
      @user-bq2zn4sk6y Před 21 dnem

      She earned it and i dont think you all should judge it 😐 so shut up all @sapandanareddy364 @ashwiniist @sunidhiagarwal5142

    • @sinhaha
      @sinhaha Před 20 dny +1

      ​@@spandanareddy364 haa. Mehnat lagti hai. Flex karegi woh💀

  • @ShifaMuheen
    @ShifaMuheen Před 23 dny +27

    What I got to know is , a relationship isn't a package of good memories only, both of us have to grow together ❤ and can change each other ❤

  • @venkateshb4464
    @venkateshb4464 Před 18 dny +14

    Its takes a lot for any person to firstly accept all their mistakes, understand it and work on it really really happy to know such people exist and getting aware of your traumas and emotions and working on it for your partner is the purest ka purest form of love felt really happy seeing this !

  • @subhangisahoo5981
    @subhangisahoo5981 Před 29 dny +31

    Mature relationships always grab my attention and I had to appreciate uh guys ..god bless you ❤

  • @MamtaThakur-x3r
    @MamtaThakur-x3r Před 26 dny +14

    Im totally relate to u cuz my bf has told me “ you’re boring “ i can feel u how traumatized it was ❤

  • @sakshiphadke9039
    @sakshiphadke9039 Před 6 dny +3

    11:00 loved it 😂😂❤❤ the way bisu was looking at devish

  • @shriyabisht3879
    @shriyabisht3879 Před 4 dny +2

    To be very very very honest... I am just a teen in a relationship... And the best part is both of us get motivated by seeing you both and knowing your story..... Thank you so much for thiss😊❤

  • @ginni0062
    @ginni0062 Před 29 dny +12

    I really loved when women are so in love..... whenever Divesh spoke about his struggle she subtly smiled and admire him....God bless you guys ❤️❤️🧿🧿

  • @hetvisavla8530
    @hetvisavla8530 Před 6 dny +3

    I am so glad there is content out there which doesn’t make relationships look like a magic. It requires work, patience and constant introspection. This relatable content was much needed. ❤

  • @rishabhanand172
    @rishabhanand172 Před 29 dny +11

    I just want to say that "Rome was not built in a day" Same goes for relationships, we see the perfect couple in both and some others too we might see around us. But, we must also take into account that no relationships are perfect but the couple in them makes it perfect. Kudos to you both to publicly address this and people who are fresh in their relationships can take a lot from your experience. Invest yourself and try and understand your partners point of view if he/she says or reacts in a certain way. Once you have done that then it would be easy to retrospect the issue and work on them better. So yeah, perfection comes only after multiple failures and not as a miracle.

  • @vaishnavigupta4132
    @vaishnavigupta4132 Před 11 dny +2

    Hats off to this man for accepting everything so gracefully and beautifully ❤ he is indeed a green flag now 💚

  • @garimatiwari5890
    @garimatiwari5890 Před 29 dny +5

    The way you guys explained the way of lifestyle of eachother is just impeccable ❤❤

  • @ashwini6810
    @ashwini6810 Před 29 dny +14

    Hara jhanda thing in the last part is a meme material😂😂

  • @vishalhotwani664
    @vishalhotwani664 Před 17 dny +2

    I totally relate to divesh on not apologizing due to the problems going around and not ego. Realized this very late but it will always stay as a learning.... Much love guys❤

  • @taherhussain4719
    @taherhussain4719 Před 12 dny +2

    I really appreciate sharing your journey and showing what really it takes from both sides to be a perfect couple

  • @misspiyali22
    @misspiyali22 Před 7 dny +1

    The same thing that "You are very boring and I feel so bored with you" Said to me.. I was also shattered but after much crying I kicked out that person..

  • @aditijaiswal__07
    @aditijaiswal__07 Před 23 dny +4

    Waiting for the next episode so desperately! ❤

  • @SushmitaMondal_1234
    @SushmitaMondal_1234 Před 11 dny +1

    I saw the full video but anyone noticed devesh is continuously see her queen 👑❤

  • @rajneetarai4314
    @rajneetarai4314 Před 29 dny +5

    Wow... thank you guys... learned new things in life today ❤

  • @vidushigupta_
    @vidushigupta_ Před 15 dny +2

    oh my my I've also been in a relationship since 3 years in the starting days I though my partner is toxic but as we started to talk about the problems I figured out that I'm a narcissistic and my partner was also egoistic and we worked on it because we wanted to date each other and this is the one thing I can relate with you guys.
    Love you both ❤

  • @arpita1223
    @arpita1223 Před 11 dny +1

    Woaahhh! I understand sooo much after hearing you guys. Coz the position you both were in back then I'm in a similar position rn but now it makes so much more sense. I'm really grateful to you both that you guys opened up about your issues. Its does take a lot of courage. I just hope you guys stay happy together for manyy years ahead ❤

  • @bitubaruah1504
    @bitubaruah1504 Před 26 dny +4

    Just love your videos😭I download your videos, when the video ends it feels so sad. Your videos are so awesome that it feels like it shouldn't end🤌🏻

  • @inkbykrati
    @inkbykrati Před 18 dny +2

    You guys are really genuine in this world, lots of love and God bless you guys for being true ❤️🧿

  • @snehaprasad3160
    @snehaprasad3160 Před 17 dny +2

    I saw you on Instagram...and truely liked your chemistry...and then cane to CZcams...wnd found this video.. lovely watching you gu❤s . really a

  • @anwithisside
    @anwithisside Před 14 dny +2

    OMGGG!!!! I came to watch this video from insta and it was so funnn i just love you guys andd your reelss❤

  • @mahimagupta711
    @mahimagupta711 Před 28 dny +8

    3:47 pause ki hu..ja rhi hu sara saman lekr ane 😌

  • @shreyasrivastava3241
    @shreyasrivastava3241 Před 9 dny +1

    Plz upload the next video soon plzz eagerly waiting for it.... lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sunidhiagrawal5142
    @sunidhiagrawal5142 Před 29 dny +21

    Divesh ko kaha se order Kiya
    Link bhejo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 was the best one

  • @dunanibeena2610
    @dunanibeena2610 Před 22 dny +7

    "Aaye tah Eidi Na tah Rozzoo" saying in Sindhi..

  • @ishakewat2508
    @ishakewat2508 Před 22 dny +23

    Related maxxxxx with Divesh!
    I think I have sabotaged my relationships and friendships because I'm constantly surrounded by drama and chaos and calmness sort of scares me. How did you work on that? Please say!!!!
    Also loved how you explained your baggage without villainizing your family or friends! Because that is exactly what I feel rn. People can be a bad influence or they can be toxic but it's all an experience which teaches us something.
    (Why are everyone's problems deeply rooted in childhood traumas 😭)
    Eagerly waiting for your next video :)

    • @VishakhaAndDivesh
      @VishakhaAndDivesh  Před 22 dny +3

      Cannot wait to share more videos 🥹❤️ lots of love you guys ✨

  • @shru5549
    @shru5549 Před 9 dny +1

    ohh guyss i know you both since 2021🥺💛and im just so happy for all the love and appreciation you are getting..you deserve this and moree💝💝love and only love to u both forever❤

  • @pariyadav3883
    @pariyadav3883 Před 4 dny +1

    Wowww.....u guysss are amazinggggg❤❤❤❤❤❤🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩...

  • @antra9271
    @antra9271 Před 22 dny +2

    You guys are just so amazing !!! I can watch your videos & reels for the whole day without getting bored ❤❤❤❤ and in just 25 minutes you gave me so many lessons on how to make a relationship work. You guys are couple goals for everyone. Wish you a happy life. 💫💝

  • @anubhamishra6759
    @anubhamishra6759 Před 10 dny +1

    She can change is you Statement got true 💗🥹

  • @Vshukla9526
    @Vshukla9526 Před 10 dny +2

    You guys r my fav....❤

  • @amanjain4375
    @amanjain4375 Před 8 dny +1

    It seems not only Divesh changed but Bissu you too had to change a lot..How did that acceptance came ? We would like to know that..
    Also, I would like to say you guys are absolute cutiess..❤❤ Love your content 😍

  • @harshadagaikwad5275
    @harshadagaikwad5275 Před 10 dny +1

    Please yaar next episode bhi upload karo...jaldi se

  • @sakshidua098
    @sakshidua098 Před 9 dny +1

    Yaar please upload next episode❤

  • @HealingHooman4616
    @HealingHooman4616 Před 29 dny +2

    I think they are the ones for whom therapy actually worked and that too in sync ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 you guyssss so cute... Also guys you can have your own Wattpad story ❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @tanyasingh5121
    @tanyasingh5121 Před 13 dny +1

    Blessings to both of you😇
    And girl u are blessed that u have got such a nice man❤
    Every man don't understand these things.

  • @harjasleengill6277
    @harjasleengill6277 Před 16 dny +2

    Make a video on emphasizing savings and it's important to save money in a relationship

  • @Thec.akehouse21
    @Thec.akehouse21 Před 8 dny +1

    The way admire each other is just visual representation of love ❤❤❤❤❤ you both guys one of my fav couples which i look as a perfect couple for instance ritesh Genelia, harsh bharti and u cutiess divesh and vishaka.....way brother called bissu is just fab ❤pin my comment

  • @chaturboi4433
    @chaturboi4433 Před 6 dny +1

    I appreciate you both you guys are really cute ❤

  • @deepakpathak9297
    @deepakpathak9297 Před 20 dny +2

    Thanks for your experience learned a lot

  • @vandanaagarwal2338
    @vandanaagarwal2338 Před 17 dny +2

    So much love and learning ❤🥺

  • @harwanibhoomika16
    @harwanibhoomika16 Před 29 dny +9

    Aai ta eid na to rujo this is dailog my mom always used to say 😅

  • @Mansi-ol6zi
    @Mansi-ol6zi Před 29 dny +3

    Loved the journey so far, excited for more❤

  • @harshadagaikwad5275
    @harshadagaikwad5275 Před 20 dny +3

    I am more interested knowing how did you guys got back together again after breakup

  • @AashikaBudhathoki-wx4ly
    @AashikaBudhathoki-wx4ly Před 10 dny +1

    When it is written from god whatever it happen you will still be together forever😊❤

  • @anandijha165
    @anandijha165 Před 16 dny +2

    Kab aa rahi hai yaar iske aage waali video, am waiting❤

  • @eshagusain9718
    @eshagusain9718 Před 20 dny +3

    i think devesh came first to say sorry

  • @asharikabaruah1377
    @asharikabaruah1377 Před 29 dny +2

    Relationship is not always bed full of roses..it's obvious there lots of stages where we feel like being shattered totally in a relationship ..but the main part that really matters is how calmy you handle the situation and how mature you are to find the solution to the problems.. i have not skipped a bit in this video because it is so interesting that the past you people are describing and now agreeing to your faults and feeling more comfortable telling all this infront of us is a deed of trust and love ❤..lots of love my favourite couple 💝and always manifesting a love life like you 🧿❤️

  • @_ai.henna_
    @_ai.henna_ Před 23 dny +1

    For me they are my roses, they making me happy... Waiting for more videos from uhh guys...
    Love from my side ❤️
    Looks awesome together 🤩

  • @SakshiBobade-900
    @SakshiBobade-900 Před 4 dny +1

    The cutest couple I've ever seen ❤💟

  • @savhyatuladhar4553
    @savhyatuladhar4553 Před 18 dny +2

    I had to pause the vdo of your intros to laugh in between 😆

  • @siddhishinde5164
    @siddhishinde5164 Před 21 dnem +2

    Honestly, as audience, we are learning a lot of things of relationships because we all gone through such situations or going through such situation and we don’t know what to do how to do it and how to handle it because sometimes person is not in that sense or in that stage to do mature things when it comes to emotional relationships, et cetera. Thank you so much for bringing this in front of us, especially this side of your relationship personally for me. It is very helpful. Thank you so much and lots of love to you.❤️🧿

  • @mahigupta4316
    @mahigupta4316 Před 17 dny +2

    Just want an advice from uh both. I Am also going through the same shit after 1st breakup I am with him to again but he is not putting equal efforts because of his personal problem but that hurts and also there is a doubt am I really with the correct person or just wasting time. What should I do should I stay or leave

  • @ankitmalik1962
    @ankitmalik1962 Před 22 dny +4

    Bhai aaj ek hari sabzi hai. Patta gobhi green. 🥦

  • @user-tm6hf8xg1q
    @user-tm6hf8xg1q Před 28 dny +3

    Ur hair is very beautful di ..can tell about which product or how u mdg with hair or hair care routine

    • @VishakhaAndDivesh
      @VishakhaAndDivesh  Před 28 dny +3

      Very honestly, I’ve been bad at maintaining it 🤣 It’s just my 🧬 Being a Mallu+Bong has it’s advantages 🙆🏻‍♀️ But thank you, you’re so kind! ❤️ In case ever I have a good hair routine, will definitely share 🙂

    • @user-tm6hf8xg1q
      @user-tm6hf8xg1q Před 28 dny

      @@VishakhaAndDivesh u r very beautiful now..I think u r more beautiful when u r young...can u share your young tym phtos

  • @ananyasingh811__
    @ananyasingh811__ Před 22 dny +1

    Love you guys❤when are you uploading the next episode..you guys are really soo cute❤

  • @RohitDorjee-f9d
    @RohitDorjee-f9d Před 12 dny +1

    I love to watch your videos ❤

  • @JUSTBeingVidu
    @JUSTBeingVidu Před 23 dny +2

    I love you guyssssss so much ..... Found you guys sooooo cuteeeee❤❤❤

  • @sanjanaduggana4304
    @sanjanaduggana4304 Před 29 dny +1

    You guys are my therapy , and I love you guys soo much , lyou guys are like my stress Busters , Nazar na lag jaye aap log ❤❤

  • @shafiarizvi1228
    @shafiarizvi1228 Před 11 dny +1

    I am divesh, divesh is me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @arpitapriyadarshini3216
    @arpitapriyadarshini3216 Před 20 dny +2

    Omgggggggg loved it 😭❤️

  • @htanwar922
    @htanwar922 Před 12 dny +1

    Next video link pls?

  • @user-dt8vp6nw8g
    @user-dt8vp6nw8g Před 14 dny +1

    Bro you Guy’s are awesome 🧿

  • @mahathivenkatapadma6400
    @mahathivenkatapadma6400 Před 20 dny +2

    May be vishaka realised and came to divesh

  • @ashmitachettri193
    @ashmitachettri193 Před 12 dny +1

    I just like you guyss🩷🥺mujhe bhi chahiye aisa relationship

  • @reetushabhojane
    @reetushabhojane Před 20 dny +2

    Kab aara hai part 2. Bhai

  • @aimanjaved-uo6tv
    @aimanjaved-uo6tv Před 11 dny +1

    Lots of love from Pakistan 🤍
    I Literally love your videos
    Their videos are therapy for ussss 😭🤌🏻🩷

  • @SanjanaDeori-tq3bj
    @SanjanaDeori-tq3bj Před 13 dny +2

    Who has come to see from inta 😂😅

  • @gitanjali5775
    @gitanjali5775 Před 29 dny +1

    Fights nok jhok happen everywhere ofc
    😂❤Both of u made equal efforts relationship and choose to love and live it everyday with a awesome audience
    Ignore haters guys we love u ❤
    Love how both projected each other's feelings

  • @akanshasaini4154
    @akanshasaini4154 Před 29 dny +2

    I was eagerly waiting for this video, post the next part tomorrow itself😂❤

  • @m_k_basu2851
    @m_k_basu2851 Před 2 dny

    When will it released??

  • @VishXShorts
    @VishXShorts Před 14 dny +1

    Lots Of Love Bhaiya And Didi❤🎉🫡

  • @tarunasolanki1674
    @tarunasolanki1674 Před 20 dny +2

    That cat 😂😂😅

  • @SimranKaurGogia
    @SimranKaurGogia Před 29 dny +3

    I’m having Chakli and Thumps up!!!

  • @sweezeldsouza1145
    @sweezeldsouza1145 Před 28 dny +1

    I really think it was Divesh who came back first 😄

  • @ankitatripathy9818
    @ankitatripathy9818 Před 10 hodinami

    I came here from insta and watching this at 4 15 am😂

  • @poojamakhija3756
    @poojamakhija3756 Před 29 dny +4

    Sindhi mai ("aai ta eid na tu Rojo")

  • @barsharoy3881
    @barsharoy3881 Před 28 dny +1

    Hara jhanda 😂😂😂oh my god, lots of love for you sir n mam ❤from West Bengal

  • @funvideos9650
    @funvideos9650 Před 29 dny +2

    Guys you people are too cute ❤❤but storytelling thoda better karo yaar your story is very interesting but alag hi nikal jate ho yaar bich bich me😂😅

  • @LEGIRLPREP
    @LEGIRLPREP Před 5 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤u guys are so cute

  • @user-nt6kh1vz5o
    @user-nt6kh1vz5o Před 14 dny +2

    What is you education qualification? And how much do you earn from social media? Btw love u both❤

  • @vishakhasolanki555
    @vishakhasolanki555 Před 29 dny +2

    When uh guys will upload the next video 🌝 u guys are doing wrong thing by keeping us in curiosity

  • @swathianand6590
    @swathianand6590 Před 29 dny +2

    Hi Vishaka and Divesh,
    Thanks for this wonderful video even I’m going through one of the stage you mentioned and felt like it’s ok to fight for reasons.
    You guys are wonderful….

  • @anjaliparmar7415
    @anjaliparmar7415 Před 22 dny +1

    Somewhere is really related 😂😂😂
    Just to know how you control divesh ego
    Like how it's was possible to say we are not together at that time we're you both want to be together
    It's a personal request how bisu clam herself when he was soooooo egoistic person
    Lots of love you my fav couple ❤.
    Love you both 😊

  • @ShrishtiKothari-m5j
    @ShrishtiKothari-m5j Před 29 dny +2

    Kal hi ep upload krdo😢❤😂

  • @apoorvajha1038
    @apoorvajha1038 Před 29 dny +1

    God bless you guys 😊😊

  • @nancyb593
    @nancyb593 Před 12 dny

    Seriously🙄 ap ise red flag kehte ho. Madam fir to ap jante hi ni ki red flag husband actual mai hote kaise h.
    Divesh u really a sweetest and genuine person👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @billusmommy
    @billusmommy Před 21 dnem +1

    SECOND PART PLEASEEEE🎀😭

  • @neelamtikyani1965
    @neelamtikyani1965 Před 13 dny +1

    The saying is “aaye ta eid na ta rozo” 😂

  • @Shakti8789
    @Shakti8789 Před 29 dny +2

    Bisuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.....we love you ❤❤❤❤

  • @priyanjalisen8217
    @priyanjalisen8217 Před 23 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤you guys are sweetest❤❤