Inside India’s ‘surrogacy village’
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- čas přidán 3. 06. 2015
- People often turn to unusual ways to make an extra income to support the family. In India, a trend is on the rise of women becoming surrogate mothers. They carry a baby for people who cannot have their own children. But for these surrogate mothers, even though the money is good, the job is tough and emotional. Ravinder Bawa traveled to Anand, India where she met the women who are making sacrifices to give life to others.
' im doing it for my sons future' yet the husband blows the money from the previous pregnancy just to make the house bigger?
MED easy that husband is horrible pimping his own wife out disgusting. You can tell she’s uncomfortable and doesn’t want to do it.
The husband said he had to explain to her that she would not get attached to the child?! How the hell would he know that? Looser just wanted the money. Poor woman.
india is full with cruel husbands....
A man cannot understand the attachment a woman feels for the child that SHE'S carrying...
Woman is not poor mentality is poor
Lourdes Vizcarra - Cheap infact disgusting man.
@Noel Noel 474*as
It's disgusting that the husband came up with the idea..why the hell can't he work ? #creep
VP. I agree #creep
Yep! And the way hes dresses so well makes me cross, paid by his wifes pain.
The way he said 'i made this house'...no you didnt, ur wife made the house!
These people are like this always. They will never work . And husbands' are apparently equivalent to God here. #AmazingIndia
@@ritwikadas7258 :(
Shame on him
How sad...the first woman featured and her tears...don't people know that emotions of the mom affects the health of the child ??
Shame on her husband he can't work hard ND earn this is how he pushes his wife to earn
Shameless man did not hesitate to talk in front of camera
Why would he feel bad?? He's so fucking proud.
Every man who pushes women to undergo pain to earn a living, must wear bangles, saree and clap on traffic signals.
Ok
@@ritwikadas7258 work
Proud of what? Manipulating a impressionable woman? Oh saying it’s for Jesus? Or some crap. Oh do anal baby it’s for Jesus. Oh same thing happened with my mother- condoms are unnatural and bad... because they can’t feel as good.. and they just want to control women cause they jealous. As if men would get pregnant anytime some women told him to. And as if they’d do it for so little. Many men won’t even shave their face and wash for an income.
Husband sell our kidney. Why women sacrifice always?
Exactly 👏 xx
Exactly he should have sold his kidney
Her husband is just creep 😯
How can you force a woman to go through so much emotions just for money..shame.. this is so wrong..
Indeed, it is a trade in human beings, using somebody's poverty to earn money and a child what has to hear that his life started just there was a woman who gave birth to him just because she was poor and desperade.
Thats Gujrat. They can sell thier own mothers.
@@zepiadify please ..dont generalise in this manner.. its in poor taste. its happening in many parts of India and the world..
totally agree...@@reemazk7401
People murder for money it’s called being a hit man for the government otherwise known as a soldier lol
Heartbreaking...for the sake of money, these women are undergoing such hardships..both physical n mental
It doesn't feel right,I think this man is selfish. I feel sad for this poor woman
Karma will eventually get this jerk! I will not be surprised if he lives a physically painful life at some point in time.
If it was her own decision to do this job I wouldn’t have felt bad but husband convinced her for this job and make her stay in hospital and having own comfort in home is so not right.
He coerced and probably manipulated her into doing it. “If you love your kids you’d sacrifice so they can live”. Some bullshit threat.
Well this man is a monster
It's so sad. That woman actually wanted to study and do something with her life. Now she's just lending her womb. And her impotent husband came up with the idea. Awesome
the desperation of living in poverty, no woman should have to go through this just to live within means
What shameless man..with less money they would live in small room.. small home.. big deal.. such horrible man to see ya... My goodness
After going through nine months pain and emotional trauma the lady can't even see the child's face.... can't even imagine this.
$8000 means around 5 lakhs according to Indian currency so less at least they should get around 10 lakh
No money can even the feeling of having a life in your womb, felling those lil kicks, contractions and restless nights you go through because of pregnancy... but 10 lakes is even less as the surrogate only takes this job to overcome their poverty
@@mehaksultana7556 , I am sure the " middle men" including the doctors are making 3 times as much!
That's y foreigners are comming India because there they might have to give 20-25lakhs or even more for this
@@me-vk6qv plz sir contect 8104502541
No amout of money can compensate for going the through labour pains, 😥
the physical and emotional stress of kedping baby in the body. its like treating them like reproduction machines that are oiled on time.
you can do cesarean that will not hurt. but one can have maximum 3 or 4 cesareans
@@shwetaleonhardt9421 cesareans don't hurt? 😂😂😂😂
Have you ever been pregnant?
@@lapislazuli6018 yes 1 time natural birth
Nasty husband....sickening
i have no words to express what i feel bec the pain and emotional strugle is immense
Love their beautiful handcraft. Man don't care about wife's health just money.
This guy made his wife to do this, for his wealthy life. Shameful..
I have to applaud for the women to go thru this not easy and they don’t even get to see the child when they wake up after the delivery. OMG how sad 😢 and painful is this? Seriously
I couldn’t stop crying watching this video as it brought memories of my pregnancy duration with all the symptoms of nausea, vomiting, depression, and heartburn as well as the post pregnancy depression phase I went through 💔 and the pain of the delivery ... I’m very sad that poverty force some human to do so painful things for money ... I wish those ladies a very comfortable Teers free life afterwards 💔
It's sad how parents in poventy live through their children. You can only imagine the amount of pressure that is put on them to get good grades for their parents.
Oh yes u can't even imagine
If she would have done willingly; I would have not felt bad ( bt those tears and husband convincing ... Na).. Not Right
Just $8000 is far too less. In other countries same are paid way higher than that.
And that also for twins!
My God!!!! My heart wrenching after seeing her tears... she is in utter pain.. that fucking guy earning money on her wife womb?????????????. I feel like doing something for such poor women.
No one is judging them .But it should not be the only solution for infertility .This is going to become a big problem in future .Just wait and watch .
I watched a movie similar. It had end times as the theme and no women can get pregnant and only one lady was able to conceive in the world and how all the nations try to kidnap her and impregnate her by force to carry out their country's population. This documentary reminded me of that. So sad and heartbreaking
Thankyou CCTV news for taking this issue and putting it in front of public.
Why can't he work? Lazy
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This is only fine if the surrogate willingly participates, but to be forced, cooerced, and basically pimped out is just plain wrong, and sleazy. It's something to be considered very seriously before engaging in this affair.
Yah it’s human trafficking and it’s illegal.
For those people who is saying this is so wrong, you can’t feel the pain of couple who can’t have baby of their own. At the same time, you can’t feel the poverty in which people are living and these amounts may be a relief factor for them. But yes, i feel that they are underpaid for what they have been through ( isolation from family, 9 months of pain and detachment with the newborn they carried for that long period).
Dude. Why can't people adopt? I mean there are so many innocent babies waiting for a home. Yes maybe it's a way for some people to get out of proverty . But the point is that sometimes these women are forced to do it . That's inhumane.
Ritwika Das its so easy to give lectures on adoption. But less people know that adoption is a big commitment. Its about the acceptance of child not only by parents but the family, relatives and society. If the child is not accepted fully, its more adverse upbringing. As long as people know they cN have their own child, they want to have their own.
Also, here in this case, I don’t see they are forced, they came here by their decisions to solve their poverty. But 9 months time is a long period to commit and they feel isolated and lonely from family. If they are forced otherwise, they should be seen legally. I just want to say you cannot say either party wrong in here. They have their own issues. Because i see lot of comments blaming either of the party.
I work in social feild. I have seen many cases like these. When it comes to you about infertility and poverty, it very tough to decide. You would thank them. So i say that pay is very low for them for their 9 months commitment.
Also, i been thinking to adopt a child, but it’s taking me a long time to convince my family members and i m preparing myself as well. I am giving myself a five year time for mind making and convincing to adopt a girl child. Because I worry about her acceptance after I adopt. So i should be fully prepared. But it doesn’t meN that I can’t have my own, i am having a baby soon. But adoption is a big commitment dude. I feel its fine not to adopt a baby rather than abandoning them after a period of time. ( i have come across such cases).
At last, people who surrogate are like god for those having infertility issues. And those who surrogate especially in hospital, are not doing it for charity, they have their own problems to solve by giving their womb. So we should stop blaming both parties. I see people lacking empathy over here.
P.s she agreed to follow the decisions of her husband, because she wanted to educate her son. Who knows if her husband is working or not? Maybe the income is not enough to give better education to her son. Plus we cannot judge people by their clothes what they wear. Putting on sunglasses doesn’t mean they have Rayban on. Its so easy blaming others before you actually enter their house, talk about issues and their problems, what made to do these. We neec to go to root and then talk. Otherwise, being philanthropist without going to feild is useless. People get education paid by their parents, and scroll the Facebook, CZcams just for opinions, that’s so wrong. That’s so so wrong. But i can proudly say, I have been in such cases, have communicated with such people, know their issues, had empathise them. I am funding two girls back home for education because they have been abandoned after adoption. So we should know these things before we point someone wrong. Forcing is never good, if you find someone forcing someone in your country, its just not the opinion you should give, but report it, action it! Just go in roots, find the issues. Use your education. Be an example by adopting before you suggest someone. It looks tough, isn’t it?
What happens if the surrogate dies? What compensation does family get? Any insurance -medical, life ?
Garibi kutti cheese hai..
Brother Poverty is biggest enamy of human .
Valid question
Yes, 'Global mechanism ' is indeed needed.
I don't know why so many haters here. I think it means so much to people who couldn't have children, that family is helping them with consent. If they do not have any problem with that, than people's opinions hardly matters.
It's an act of great courage and sacrifice by the lady ( in exchange of some money which I guess they need).
ufff.... this man is heartless. feeling pity for all these moms. this is really painful 💔
Ky y ab band hone wale h ky
What about post delivery care and follow up. I hope they take care of that adequately as well
I’m a woman and I’m baffled and appalled reading the comments abusing the husband. When husband and wife are a team, why are people abusing the husband if his wofe decided to help her family in her own way?? Besides, surrogates are treated for their own medical conditions and are monitored throughout to keep them at optimum health too. So quit bickering losers and let the couple be!!
Awesome just awesome....
They are giving a life away to the most needful. Within 9months they are getting a lifelong wish of a unknown couple!
Thank you for sharing this!
No one is going to die if they don’t have a baby. They aren’t needy. They are bored over privileged freaks.Who will never love a baby that’s not theirs. If god wanted you to have a baby he or she would let you have one of your own.
Human need is food, water and shelter. Not a baby.
how many cost
seriously for a house that's tooo disgusting she is carrying for 9 months and selling purely truly love of a mother
Bangalore yava hospital Sarge's mother maduttre mahiti kodi pls
Where is possible to find same one to helping me with the same thank you
She is fulfilling someone’s dream..She gets money. It is just renting the womb. She is fed well. She is in positive spirit. So what’s wrong..
Have you ever delivered a baby...!? If no... Then don't ask this question
It's scary. It's really really scary.
this husband is a freak. Showing the house as he built it with his own money. What a jerk!
The handmaid's tale in real life
Right? This is horrific. And the fact that some people are ok with the poor bearing children for the rich is sickening.
I think it is a big sacrifice and a big service..
Only 1 word HARAAM HARAAM HARAAM
Where is that surrogate village?
Send me your contact
$8000 is nothing!!!! They should ask for more....
Hi
Indian women born to live ABLA NARI
Sada tadan ke adhikari... culture....
Hi. It is a great video. It tells so much about surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. I have faced infertility for so long. I wanted to be a mother badly. But it was not in my fate. In the end, I decided to go for surrogacy. I have a baby now. I am a happy mother.
May I know the cost?
Tell me one thing if u had adopted a baby u wouldn’t have been a happy mother?After seeing this video i feel how can your child have happy mind as the surrogates r not happy to do this....you need to b happy & think good things when ur pregnant
Just by your name... I'm asking it... Are u a Muslim!? If yes then this totally falls under the category of Zina.... Rest you can clear your self....
Why dint you adopt a child?Soon or later if almighty wills he will definitely bless you with your own child..believe me in many cases it had happened and I know 3 couples blessed with their own child after adopting a baby..requesting you to follow islam teachings and have faith in ALLAH.
Also doctors and many wealthy people are involved. Too much shame
Instead of adding to the population on this planet . Infertile couple should opt for adoption. Every child has the right to grow up in a safe healthy environment. Adoption should be populariswd by the governments
You can choose to not have children even if you are capable. As you said, the world doesn't need any children. Would you be open to adoption?
Yeah, i can have children but i decided that i won't bring another child to this world and will only adopt cause those children in orphanage needs love too
There is a lot of wrong things with adoption too, stealing children from people even.
I only hope these women were treated well when surrogacy was allowed in India. Poverty sounds not the best reason for being surrogate but if she's taking care of herself and realize all the consequences of her choice, why not? Now they can only do this for free and I'm sure there are problems with matching for altruistic surrogacy in India. I wonder what do these women think about that 2016 Bill...Are they grateful or angry?
I did surrogacy in Ukraine, Biotexcom and I do hope that the country won't change its law, otherwise I can forget about the second baby
I could not agree more with what you had to say about this. Surrogacy is a viable alternative to ART. Moreover, these women are doing such selfless acts to help others become happy. I also see there is nothing wrong with this. Great to hear that you have done surrogacy. I love reading success with surrogacy in Ukraine. So, your clinic was Biotexcom? I have heard of it on many occasions. However, I haven’t talked to them directly as such. So, I would love more info about the. How was the whole experience? I need first- hand experience of such experience. For me, I had been dealing with infertility for 3 years, which sucks. Infertility totally wrecked me and overtook my life. I just wan to go with surrogacy and be happy again. I am not that knowledgable about laws in Ukraine, however, I just hope they won’t change the laws. I look forward to your reply on this one.
Why is it always upon women to make others happy by sacrificing their bodies in the process?
Use work, very bad about this woman, and still she is happy, god bless this mother
The child should know about the surrogate mother, it is a must.
Serogate mother be aulad couples ke layi life, khushi, rab, god ban jati he🙏🙏
Because of money how can u give us baby😭😭
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They should allow the families to live with the mothers. They look so unhappy being away from them
Where is this place located... I'm also looking for surrogate
@youtubers helping bhai I want my own baby not adopted one
@youtubers helping bhai surrogacy has been banned I think from 25 jan 2022. Only any relative can do that without taking any monetary benefits.
Solute to all surrogate mothers who gives baby and unlimited happiness to those hopeless couple.
They are real angel,suffered both physically and emotionally but still carrying fetus inside , . I am not counting 💰💰💰💰here coz giving birth .....new life .....it’s all above 💰
That’s crulty with a Woman and insult a mother!
Sorry ladies you have to go through so much.
It's too disgusting How come husband compelled their wifey to do so😞
Hey
Money is the breath of indians
Dr Patel.must be a millionaire!!
@@Keepontravelling how would you know unless you have had a baby through her facilities 😂
@@Keepontravelling Wow you are really judgemental about me who you know nothing about and others !!!!
However private health sector can do everything you say. The greed in these doctors is filthy but they will pay if they are unethical in this or next birth.
@@Keepontravelling India mein reviews and meetings 😂. Lot be practical man. By the time you know you have been exploited already!
This is still a country which has poorest child and mortality rate. This surrogacy is for infertile couple and I pray that they can help the needy parents.
@@Keepontravelling It seems you have some kind of rivalry with this clinic...huh 😂
I am not surprised you are going GA ga on you tube video about them.
@@Keepontravelling if they are fooling people , I wish the owners and all there coming generations rot in hell ! It's shameful if they are doing that.
Is this legal govt shld ban this job.
Why that woman had to do so if her husband was earning? Many men are there like that shameless husband who force their wife to do so. One more question why our typical society is promoting this practice rather they should promote adoption to fill their life with happiness. No they will not do so cause they are concerned about the adopted child they will get will be of whose, which type of gene he/she might be holding etc etc 😕😔 how pathetic the society became that they have started leveling innocent children too. Money is also one big factor which is forcing everyone to do so. 😔 May God bless all with good thought and acceptance so that no orphan will live as orphan anymore.
@MATHA NOSHTO-MAN I don't understand why u gave that anti-feminism speech which was not even relevant here. India as a country is quite socially backward and the treatment of women here is famous around the world - that is nothing to be proud of. So upliftment of women is very much needed not only in India, but in all third world countries . Anyways, I agree with you on the point that there nothing wrong for a couple to want surrogate. It is their right and their personal choice to have their own child. Why should they be forced to adopt? by that logic NO ONE should be allowed to have kids at all and everyone should adopt. Country has too much population anyways. I don't see anything wrong as long as the surrogate mother is doing this by her own choice & not forced by husband or other family members.
gross and very traumatic to have a baby taken away from you after you spent 9 months with it to never see it again. what a strange world we live in.
This lady is cry but husband say it's very bad man
I compare it with a battery cage, how sad that people sell their body because of poverty. It should be forbidden.
I will say this from my point of view. May God bless every woman who lends her fellow woman womb to have her bundle of joy. Never advice an infertile couple to adopt a child. That pierce their heart the most. Being childless, is Avery tormenting ordeal. You have no idea how it feels when a childless couple finally meet the blood of their blood, the bones of their bones and flesh of their flesh. God has a special blessing for any surrogate mother
I cant believe.. horrible.. this man is so greedy.. this should be banned..
Shameless brutal guy
I wonder how much this vud impact the unborn child. At d end
.. she is upset and unhappy.
Somehow these poor children will not have a connection to the parents but to the surrogate I'm afraid.
I feel my country is so poor still.
Yes it is in many ways
No matter how much money involve fr mother its the child who matters its not easy.
Great indian culture for money they do more than this
Hi. Sometimes people do it for many. But sometimes they do it for others happiness. In other countries, The surrogates are appreciated. I have never seen a surrogacy who died because of hunger. I hope you will understand. This would help you. It is a great video. It help us to understand people
czcams.com/video/7mxI2Oah34g/video.html
How you can say she will not have any emotion for baby that she kept 9 month in her womb...
You can't feel how she will feel when the baby will taken away from her....No matter whose child it is...
A mother is mother..Either she is surrogate mother...Respect her feeling...Even surrogate mother should have the right to meet those child at her wish...
India govt should made this law too for their emotions....She is human not machine...
Respect the feelings of mother...
This is a torture on women. Shameless men of India, who lent their wives womb. The men is just, " dharti pe bojh".
Your institute in Pakistan if yes please tell me ?
Y do you even want to know some thing like this which is so immoral and so unethical... And illegal in terms of Islamic law
Please see this. czcams.com/video/7mxI2Oah34g/video.html
@@aliamoazzam8305 i think you have your own kids..Its easier to judge if everything is going well for you because you will never understand the pain and isolation if you are trying for many years to have a child but is no where successfull..it can be frustrating like hell..so the same rule "all is fair in love and war"applies here
@@gppp209 you think having a kid is a problem then be my guest as not having or having kids is just a part of the problem as soon as you have them you are introduced to an upgrade form of the hell and specially when you get them with special needs.... Trust me try to contend your self with what you have rather than bother with what you don't... And if it's there for you and if Allmighty wills you will get it when the time is right,, not before not after
@@aliamoazzam8305 i am really sorry,i didnt mean to hurt you..I agree with what you said but common lets cut her some slack if she wants to go for surrogacy..If that is the way god fulfills her dream
How crushing is poverty in India? Why isn't the government doing something about it?
Nobody can understand her mental condition 😪money is not everything
Awful situation for these women...sad but its India so cant expect better from that country...
That is sick and disturbing.
Please update this video or atleast add it in the description.. commercial surrogacy is now banned in India and foreigners and NRIs can't have a baby through surrogacy here.
Surrogacy is a gift. It is a gift for infertile. Many people are choosing it. It is a safe method. In this, someone else carries a baby for you. I am appreciating those who do it for someone happiness. It is a great process. I hope this would work.
it is a gift when somebody is not doing it out of poverty and out of sheer goodwill..otherwis,e it is exploitative .
Go adopt some one who doesn't have means to feed Himself... This is pure ignorance and arrogance
Safe for some one who can't have kids I guess....
czcams.com/video/7mxI2Oah34g/video.html
What about the woman whose body is being exploited?
Why women has to suffer always😢😢
I like what the clinic is doing.
All the people who opposed Indians new surrogacy bill should watch this, get informed before you make opinions.
This is so sad for that women
I am really touched after watching this video. In one sense this is a cycle. It helps the poor women and the needy parents. It is a matter of give and takes. This is a motivation for other people. Such content should be uploaded.
playing with people emotions :(