He’s Wasting Your Time w/ Patti Stanger
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- čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
- Read it and weep besties. It’s the truth. Stop wasting your time over a boy who just wants you around to boost his ego, to do his bidding, and to make himself more attractive to other women. Boys are just now learning how to live without their mom doing their laundry for them, let alone know a thing about commitment yet. Boys will keep you waiting and play mind games with you, and the LAST thing we’re doing is putting up with it any longer.
Today, we welcome Patti Stanger back to Almost Adulting. As a third generation matchmaker, Patti founded the Millionaire's Club in January of 2000 after serving five years as the Director of Marketing/Special Events for Great Expectations, the oldest and largest dating service in the U.S. Given her expertise in matchmaking and Violet’s experience in dating men, the duo talks about the male logic while dating, why successful women have higher standards and don’t consider marriage in their early twenties and why we should always keep a three-man rotation. Violet and Patti also discuss the effects of poor parenting, the real reason why men take advantage of the woman emotionally, and the many complicated aspects of dating while technology is evolving. You’re gonna want your pen and paper out for this, everything you’re about to hear is FACT.
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What to Listen For:
00:00 Introduction
01:04 We all can’t be Kim Kardashan
06:20 Why do we pick who we pick?
08:26 If you give a man too much of anything
14:52 Dating a boy versus a man
18:09 You want to know what their intentions are
22:05 If you allow yourself to be used
25:51 Is giving an ultimatum a good idea?
28:46 You get the ring when you have self respect
32:07 Why do we give our hearts too quickly?
35:17 Be realistic with your standards
40:19 Cheating is not the end, check other options
46:30 Love bombers are mostly nacissists
49:05 Red flags vs green flags
52:44 The effects bad relationships have on kids
57:21 How do you handle the high’s and low’s?
01:00:32 Why are you wasting time?
01:06:37 Being able to do other things
01:10:11 Do I have to calm down my intensity to not scare off men?
01:13:01 What’s the best advice you’ve received?
Connect with Patti on:
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/ pattistanger
www.amazon.com/Patti-Stanger/...
www.millionairesclub123.com/
www.eyeoflove.com/search?type...
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I love Patti Stanger. She's a truth-teller!
She is so brilliant. She has made herself into something so amazing and has shifted her life. Love you Patti!
I love Patti!! Thank you for bringing her Violet ♥️
YOU ASKED GOOD QUESTIONS HERE!!! THANKYOU.😊
Patti Stanger 100% legit AF!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Dropping truth bombs. Facts. 💥💣💥💣
I love this so so insightful👌🏽 Every young woman should have a friend like you ladies, speaking 100% facts 👏🏽💗
BECOME THE PERSON U WANT TO DATE.
Patti you look beautiful not over done just perfect
Wow I didn’t realize love was so complicated I thought you’re attracted to someone and you just went out and hopefully it manifested into something serious
Love this upfront advice and for sharing your experiences. Insightful with todays times.
Love this! Patti’s so knowledgeable and fun to watch!
Violet, I really like what you and Patti have with one another! I’m not sure what “it” is but it’s so good. Seems like it’s an unspoken understanding or something idk. I wish I would have had all these outlets to learn from when I was out here being a promiscuous mess🤭! I have been married for 15 years now but I definitely got some good insight and knowledge here. Plus humor! It was a win win for me! 💞
Awwwww I completely agree; about, your energy level going up when you are with someone. 💋
This was a good conversation ☺️😉. . . Damn I need girlfriends like this.
Thank you so much for this.
Omg this is so powerful! Both are 👸 thank you for your wisdom
She is wise and no BS
Thank you so much - fantastic conversation.
Best advice ever !
Patty here en Puerto Rico (USA) we all use whatsapp, there's no such a thing cheating app. Its easer send pics and gif videos and voice memos whithout the bunk of data saving on your phone unnecesary. And the business whatapps ist a great way to connet with others possible potencial clients. Its not a bad thing here and we do have apple and android phones.
This is so accurate. If any of you is interested in learning more about your type of affection, I recommend reading the book attached by Amir Levine. And of course her book that I haven’t read
I realize that your podcast was 2 years old and this one is fresh so I wanted to tell you that your podcast is very entertaining Violet and my name is Jason
It's NOT a "smell".
It's an AROMA.
Loveee the Straight Talk and and the words she use to educate. The Ultimatum Strategy. WOW! Wakeup call effect. So down to earth, valuable information and so funny at the same time ❤❤🎉🎉😅😅😅
I nabbed myself a Millionaires son once. After the first date he asked me out on another date and I replied "you should be so lucky"! He told me as our relationship progressed that is what made him more interested! He was gorgeous but too young for me and I ended it. Sadly. ❤
Love bombers once they've claimed you? They stop all their Love,/etc. all of it.. one day to another!!! Then you're trapped..That's a real Narcissist Love Bomber😡
I’m seeing this was a year ago, is patti still in that relationship? I hope so, she deserves a good man.
Is the book she’s referencing the “8 easy steps for attracting your perfect mate?”
This was so helpful. I literally ordered the perfume and book immediately after! I’m so curious to know what to do if you are older and wasted so many years (11 years I wasted and now I’m in late 30’s). on the wrong person. Is there always hope even if you’re not necessarily in your “prime” anymore? Should we settle for less because we’re older or do the rules apply for all? Also what to say to a guy when you are communicating your feelings and they make it seem like you’re arguing and try to shut you down and tell you you’re too much? It starts feeling like I can’t even speak sometimes without being told I’m too much.
The rules do apply for all. And if a guy is not comfortable with you expressing his feelings, he isn't for you. His emotional range of a teaspoon can't handle yours, so don't try to stoop down to his level, Britanie. Uou'd be doing a disservice to yourself.
Someone who argues with you when you're expressing your feelings is not the person for you. You cannot flourish in such a limiting environment where someone is trying to control you. Look up "signs my partner could be a narcissist."
Nah don’t settle. You’ll just become bitter.
That being said, what are your expectations? Cause if it’s a handsome billionare who falls in love with you the first time he sees you and immediately takes you to the maldives and proposes to you.. great in bed, genius and a psychologist too.. yea that’s delusional.
But i think it’s perfectly understandable to want someone you’re attracted to and feel great when spending time together, feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with + financially secure (it doesn’t mean paying for your shit, but that he’s reliable and can take care of his finances).
Love!
Please can you link the video you mentioned at the beginning - side chick to main chick!!? Xxxx
I like the segment. It's pretty powerful but only because of Patti. You asked good questions but without her, you'd be leading your followers down the wrong path. Stating TikTok as a resource into thinking you love bomb people and whatever it is you're reading.. you're extremely far off from the mark for what narcissism and things related to it are really like. I suggest reading from reliable sources and books on the matter 😕. It'll make you sound more credible as a podcaster too. We shouldn't really dropping these words left and right if we don't know what it means. It causes situations where people aren't believed and don't get treated for ADHD, for example, bc so many people use that word willynilly. Good topic though!
Mind fish. Now that's a new one hahaha. So true
The technology has changed, not the biology 👏👏👏
Yep red flags are right at the start.. if you’re chasing them, that means you have your love goggles on, hence you won’t see the red flags even if they hit you in the face! 😂 it’s a shame it took so many years to realise! 😬
Did i hear that right? 150 thousand for a membership 😮
wooow ♥
💯🔥🦋
I am single and looking ..... omg Natalia is perfect ... 💋
I got a good question ⁉️❓
What if you're with a great guy he has good qualities but the sex drive is very different. 😅 Also what if he is a good guy but need work and support to be a better guy ?
What did Patti do to her face she looks like a completely different person? I recognize her voice but that's it.
fully agree - she did way too much work I dont recognize her either
Top lip was done for sure
Sad. Not necessary at all.
This is terrible advice, follow this and you will be single and alone in appartment full of cat food and antidepresants
Omg Is that Patti? What the heck happened to her face? She looks crazy! Oh Patti. You look scary!😟
This is so old fashion, i loke your podcast but this guest thinks like a grandma and not in a good way.
This is the opposite to empowering women's.
Also I love how she talk about postponing sex and later say she and her guy f*** after seven days lol
She said seven dates, not seven days
@@karenschell9822 thanks :) but Doesn't chance the fact that I really dont like her
What has Patti done to her fac???? Looks like bad eye lid surgery and something with her nose. I love Patti, but please leave your face alone!!! You've always been beaitiful❤❤❤❤❤❤
This doesn’t even look like Patty
She admitted to plastic surgery. Made a huge difference.
ok don't do lips
naturale is better