Pour Minds Talks Dark DM's, Not Cooking For Your Man, Dating Younger Men +More - Ep14 Sober Thoughts

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  • Pour Minds Talks Dark DM's, Not Cooking For Your Man, Dating Younger Men +More - Ep14 Sober Thoughts
    DON’T CALL ME WHITE GIRL EPISODE 14 - “Sober Thoughts”
    Welcome Back! On this episode Mona is joined by the ladies of the Pour Minds Podcast, Lex & Drea. They speak about the dynamic between the two of them and how it translated into becoming podcasters, collectively hating or not hating deadbeat dads, Mona’s beef in Dallas, Black households and the standards for sons/daughters, Darkside of the DMs, voicemails & more!
    Get your real life advice from Damona on the show! Dial 267-225-2492 and leave a question for a chance to have your voicemail answered on an episode.
    Music: @TrvpLawd Beats
    Executive Producers for Breakbeat: Dave Mays & Brett Jeffries
    Producers: Tom Flies & Dre Smith
    Comment & like on the Breakbeat Media CZcams page, subscribe wherever podcasts are available, and visit us at www.breakbeatmedia.com
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  • @Lvlolv
    @Lvlolv Před 2 lety +818

    Mona will be the #1 female podcaster in 2022. Period.

  • @quinslion4563
    @quinslion4563 Před 2 lety +415

    Mona is definitely building her position to sit at the top of the game.

  • @tricia108
    @tricia108 Před 2 lety +485

    ITS FINALLY HERE!!!!!!! MY 2 FAVORITE PODCAST COME TOGETHER! ITS A CHRISTMAS STORY FOR REAL.

    • @breerozaa2246
      @breerozaa2246 Před 2 lety +5

      Yes mine tooo

    • @BennieValentine
      @BennieValentine Před 2 lety +4

      Mine toooo

    • @mspiperp
      @mspiperp Před 2 lety +3

      Yesssss

    • @Nivea_Walker
      @Nivea_Walker Před 2 lety +4

      They were on 85 south central podcast together too

    • @tricia108
      @tricia108 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Nivea_Walker yep but this is different! Mona has her own podcast again ...now with a team behind her!!!

  • @BiigKewi
    @BiigKewi Před 2 lety +196

    When Mona dropped the bass in her voice about her son. I felt that. "Get away from this house, I DON'T CARE WHAT HE TOLD YOU! "

  • @DalilaJ
    @DalilaJ Před 2 lety +414

    I’m with Lex on this…it’s the mommas spoiling these little boys that grow up being shitty men…

    • @user-cg7ss2xl6c
      @user-cg7ss2xl6c Před 2 lety +7

      Yes. Cuz my 4 bro's be the worse. My momma be All they Girls Best friend!! 🤣🤣 Holidays kill me. We damn near need name tags at this point.

    • @cacinabell3369
      @cacinabell3369 Před 2 lety +2

      @@user-cg7ss2xl6c 😂😂

    • @Maso777
      @Maso777 Před 2 lety +28

      It’s the single moms raising men. Men have been growing up without father figures for almost 4 generations🤣. You can’t expect a woman to raise a responsible man, with real world experiences. It takes a father figure 💯

    • @kelishawalker2793
      @kelishawalker2793 Před 2 lety

      The fuckn WORSE!!

    • @TorreyTy
      @TorreyTy Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@Maso777 na that's where ya wrong my guy

  • @Iamdaunwaun
    @Iamdaunwaun Před 2 lety +157

    I AGREE WITH LEX ! TEACH YA SONS TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE WITH EVERYTHING YOU START !

  • @merajahann7955
    @merajahann7955 Před 2 lety +63

    Mona so chill and funny without even trying 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂
    Lex is the big sister I always wanted , she is everything 🥺🙌🏽🥰💚

  • @JM.Vercrtti
    @JM.Vercrtti Před 2 lety +75

    10:10
    "youu wouldn't consider yourself bi?"
    "I'm saved now."
    "That's Respectable."
    Lmaooooooooooo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @thedivineone
    @thedivineone Před 2 lety +42

    Im so glad dont call me white girl has her own podcast!! She deserves it!!!

  • @protectyaenergy8885
    @protectyaenergy8885 Před 2 lety +70

    Lex! I felt you! We do need to hold our sons accountable and teach them younger to handle their shit. We are easier on our sons. These are basic life skills that are causing relationship, financial, etc issues. This was a great topic and definitely created ripple effect!

  • @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223

    Mona(The Voice) Drea(The Smile) & Lex(The Spice)...Episode was amazin'🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👑👑👑

  • @jonathangrant9486
    @jonathangrant9486 Před 2 lety +200

    I love how Lex was like..."put Philly on the map like it wasn't the first city ever". 😂😂😂 these sistas book smart and they know entertainment.

  • @steelsharpenssteel1055
    @steelsharpenssteel1055 Před 2 lety +39

    Yall 3 def need to have your own show...with Karlous coming through for the male energy. Ish would be LIT

  • @sarahmathieu6122
    @sarahmathieu6122 Před 2 lety +87

    This collab really made me happy. Can’t wait to see the pour minds episode too.

  • @beautyfolse4249
    @beautyfolse4249 Před 2 lety +8

    This ladies on their own platforms Blessed me with so much Laughter when I had Covid 2 1/2 weeks ago. My body was in so much pain they had my laughing through the pain. 💜💜💜💜♎️

  • @JustDoRightMedia
    @JustDoRightMedia Před 2 lety +9

    The chemistry between these 3 are undeniable
    Enjoy the episode Mona did on their show as well

  • @zaririchards8613
    @zaririchards8613 Před 2 lety +139

    idc if i’m not trying to be in a relationship with him a man MUST take care of his kids. if you don’t diligently care for someone as important as your child , what else do you not care for. and as women so often we have so much to say about other women lacking on motherly tasks and don’t have the same animosity for men who do nothing for their own creation. any man who can see or deal with my body has to be a good person AT LEAST and if you traumatize/neglect your children and don’t even give no fuck about it then you can go straight to hell. very weird to hear women really being ok with that horrible behavior just bc they’re not gonna be long term.

    • @ecstacybrown4255
      @ecstacybrown4255 Před 2 lety +6

      FRR💥, Like I gotta see where your mindset is at🤔

    • @danis.5040
      @danis.5040 Před 2 lety +5

      💯💯

    • @TamyaB
      @TamyaB Před 2 lety +5

      Right and they never know what may happen they could get pregnant and not wanna get an abortion and then have a deadbeat baby daddy

    • @zaririchards8613
      @zaririchards8613 Před 2 lety +12

      @@TamyaB exactly. a lot of women look down on the next woman thinking it could never happen to them until it does. u should be able to trust and respect anybody you lay down with and i will personally never trust or respect a deadbeat.

    • @dezziefbby
      @dezziefbby Před 2 lety +3

      @@zaririchards8613 PERIOD. So much shade and shame until it's YOU! You never know.

  • @theprettyygamer
    @theprettyygamer Před 2 lety +69

    My two fav podcasts in one!!! 😍😍😍 I’m so happy y’all did this! More life and success for my girls 💗

    • @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223
      @thaddeusvaliantlilbodhi1223 Před 2 lety +4

      Exactly, I marvel at how their unapologetically deep within their truths & femininity, make u bask in divine feminine too Godde$$ Phylicia because the World needs more Supportive & non judgmental Women like ya'll innit.
      #HappyHolidaystoUandUreFamily #RemainRealMamas

  • @griffinjenn85
    @griffinjenn85 Před 2 lety +10

    OMG! I really enjoyed this episode!! To have the beautiful ladies of Pour Minds on here with the Ms. Mona, EPIC! And Mona, you are the first & ONLY PERSON TO SAY “Why you being weird to me?” And it went viral because of you! Those thieves owe you money!! Keep up the great work! 💕💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @tricia108
    @tricia108 Před 2 lety +13

    GREAT EPISODE! I NEEDED 2 HOURS THOUGH. IT WASNT LONG ENOUGH.

  • @mskila
    @mskila Před 2 lety +17

    I love Lex! Her energy is everything 🙌🏾

  • @lalasworld755
    @lalasworld755 Před rokem +1

    The dynamic was genuine between the hostesses and the guest HEEEY Ladies and Mona Yaaaaaassss!!!! Im not even half way through and know this is going to be great. Much success to all of you ladies and blessings in abundance

  • @MysticallyMelanated
    @MysticallyMelanated Před 2 lety +4

    I clicked this episode sooo fast! Been waiting on this trio to reunite ❤️❤️

  • @Chrysyyyy
    @Chrysyyyy Před 2 lety +11

    I wish this was longer 😭😭😭😭 I enjoyed this so much.

  • @giagenae
    @giagenae Před 2 lety +3

    This episode was great! Mona x Pour Minds is the link up we need more often.

  • @lilcraftykidd_
    @lilcraftykidd_ Před 2 lety +11

    mona is the realest we gonna get .. I love when new people come to youtube & do things their way!

    • @jblizzy559
      @jblizzy559 Před 2 lety +1

      How you get that CZcams emoji

    • @lilcraftykidd_
      @lilcraftykidd_ Před 2 lety

      @@jblizzy559 im on a apple computer try clicking the emoji button when you comment / its under "youtube"

  • @babieeden
    @babieeden Před 2 lety +7

    I love pour minds! Thanks to Ari for her interview if it wasnt for that i wouldnt have known about this fire episode!! 😍

  • @Miss_Yaya206
    @Miss_Yaya206 Před 2 lety +6

    The 3 of ya'll are my fav!!! I love this! Can't wait to see Mona on Pour Minds next 😬

  • @tyshaeblaine7491
    @tyshaeblaine7491 Před 2 lety +13

    Been waiting on this one!!! My faves! Y’all finna make my morning ☺️

  • @happyebony2127
    @happyebony2127 Před 2 lety +33

    Lex not wrong , moms do be enabling their sons, and then they grow up to be grown ass man babies expecting their gf’s or wife’s to split bills plus do house work plus raise they kids like good bye

  • @Lil1Wunn
    @Lil1Wunn Před 2 lety

    Okayyyy! I've been waiting for a collaboration like this!!

  • @jaya8124
    @jaya8124 Před 2 lety +9

    20:49 “I don’t care what he told you!!” Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

  • @youngj00
    @youngj00 Před 2 lety +18

    AWESOME! Keep these going DCMWG! I love that you’re winning!

  • @deavonhale8173
    @deavonhale8173 Před 2 lety +1

    These three are officially my podcast favs, I couldn’t find anybody to relate too 💯❤️

  • @quathetruth8314
    @quathetruth8314 Před 2 lety +6

    I’m so proud of MONAAA!! She deserves this! This had me laughing my whole morning routine! Congratulations MONA I really missed you glad you got your own shit!!! 🎊🥰🎈🎁✨

  • @tytiannijones5681
    @tytiannijones5681 Před 2 lety +2

    PourGirl here 🍷 YASSSS! Loved this collab. First time seeing your podcast, and I’m adding you to my list!

  • @AdriaCanSew
    @AdriaCanSew Před 2 lety +10

    I’m loving this podcast! The conversation about sons, I have two and I don’t baby mine. I make them clean up their messes. I’ll be teaching them to cook. They’re not about to be like these men. I know because their dad is one and I’ve ran into my fair share. No bums out my house honey.

  • @adogbewise6561
    @adogbewise6561 Před 2 lety +35

    Lit show. All three of you women are beautiful, smart, and driven. You are already stars, and it's only going to shoot higher. Keep your spiritual minds alert for the demons. They creep in all over when success is involved. My prayers and love.

  • @COEDSpadeGang
    @COEDSpadeGang Před 2 lety +27

    In all honesty Lex is saying EXACTLY what females are thinking!!! 😂😂😂

    • @shake1602
      @shake1602 Před 11 měsíci

      6 minutes in. So far soo true 😂😂

  • @catchnvibestv3980
    @catchnvibestv3980 Před 2 lety +1

    Mona🔥 much respect! You will be great. This the first time I tuned in to your podcast. I’m starting my own as well. Stay on the look out!😁

  • @Jalchmey
    @Jalchmey Před 2 lety +1

    This link up was great !! 👏🏾

  • @sheree_bb3950
    @sheree_bb3950 Před 2 lety +34

    I haven’t even listened yet, love the show and now I see my girls from pour minds I’m excited.
    I wanted to see this link up from 85 south show

  • @ellenabanks5293
    @ellenabanks5293 Před 2 lety +8

    I love how the Energy feels genuine like we just having girl talk ... i wish i had female friends

  • @niabee9665
    @niabee9665 Před 2 lety +11

    My two favorites! I love the growth from both podcasters. Mona you doing it!

  • @emmanuelquaye4744
    @emmanuelquaye4744 Před 2 lety +6

    Really an intelligent conversations strong black women talking about how to improve the next generation wish y’all nothing but success

  • @crystalrubbie9383
    @crystalrubbie9383 Před 2 lety +26

    LEX P IS JUST FUNNY LOVE HERRR

  • @jovanedwards3589
    @jovanedwards3589 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm soooooooooo happy she finally got a podcast

  • @noe1984
    @noe1984 Před rokem

    The collab I’ve been waiting for!!!

  • @kennedygreer7113
    @kennedygreer7113 Před 2 lety +3

    I’ve been waiting for this ever since they was on 85 south together

  • @ricardoburton7688
    @ricardoburton7688 Před 2 lety +8

    I'm here to learn from these Queens, they be giving us guys answers to the test questions we need but we be on that ego shit instead of listen to women! Loved seeing these Queens come together and exchange podcast pointers, then they went in lol

  • @2008akir
    @2008akir Před 2 lety +2

    Finally i been waiting on y’all to get on each other’s podcast 💙🙌🏾

  • @Gogetchusomemoney
    @Gogetchusomemoney Před 2 lety +3

    Wowww i just watched the episode of 85 south with all of yall on it last night and was hoping DCMWG would be on a episode of Pour minds i love that yall collabed

  • @enhancedthroughjesus
    @enhancedthroughjesus Před 2 lety +11

    Y’all just should do this again I enjoyed this episode 👏🏽

  • @keatongrant9023
    @keatongrant9023 Před 2 lety +3

    I agree, I always say a lot of women raise the same type of men that they claim they don’t like. It’s happening now with this generation as well, not just the moms with adult sons.

  • @navidadbella8413
    @navidadbella8413 Před 2 lety +57

    I think Mona needs to be on Drink Champs as a recurring host, her & NORE’s energy would be crazy together ❤️

    • @empressme8681
      @empressme8681 Před rokem +4

      No… that’s the comment… no.

    • @icsharpk
      @icsharpk Před rokem

      @@empressme8681 🤣🤣🤣 whew I’m late but I needed that laugh. Cause finally someone said it 😩🫠

  • @bowling4clarity817
    @bowling4clarity817 Před 2 lety +3

    Damona was glowing today . Was looking like she smelled just as good . Besides all that, another great episode .

  • @janihq8259
    @janihq8259 Před 2 lety +4

    Yassssssss I was waiting for this shit! Pour minds x dcmwg 🥶 the best black content to date 🤪

  • @thebosslifeofbb
    @thebosslifeofbb Před 2 lety +2

    Mona, I been looking for you since you were 85 south 👏🏾 This was a great collab ❤️

  • @ILacy
    @ILacy Před 2 lety +5

    Y’all 3 together…hilarious!

  • @amber936
    @amber936 Před 2 lety

    Binge watching all the podcast!!! Mona you are pure entertainment gold!!

  • @anisworld1410
    @anisworld1410 Před 2 lety +1

    I thought this was new lol. I’m so hype y’all did this.

  • @aaliyahyasameen
    @aaliyahyasameen Před 2 lety +2

    “I love my haters, HATERS LINK UP” yes chile! True Leo shit♥️♥️

  • @loveyourslike
    @loveyourslike Před 2 lety +2

    Loved this episode with my fellow Texans! 🤘🏾

  • @dutchessdioji9368
    @dutchessdioji9368 Před 2 lety +13

    Love from NYC and wishing you (and your team) all the blessings your life can hold!

  • @bric.5214
    @bric.5214 Před 2 lety +9

    This was great! Not soft lies!! Great job to all of y’all.

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita Před rokem +1

    Lex and the host are excellent conversationalists. Good synergy in this interview.

  • @richwinns9098
    @richwinns9098 Před 2 lety +22

    The household convo is deep and true. In our community a lot of men are raised by single moms. That can lead to emotional men due to the lack of logic given to him throughout his upbringing. Great episode 👏

  • @jordanjudge1147
    @jordanjudge1147 Před 2 lety

    Never thought I'd even watch podcast like that but I love your show!

  • @sqbiz5838
    @sqbiz5838 Před 2 lety

    Loving the collab !

  • @raynerobinson2979
    @raynerobinson2979 Před 2 lety

    THE COLLAB I BEEN WAITING FORRRRRR

  • @undergroundkween
    @undergroundkween Před 2 lety +2

    I love it. listening now but I KNOW this gonna be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @eezusjeezus
    @eezusjeezus Před 2 lety +3

    This is the first episode I seen and this is funny as hell

  • @niyshiatisdale-bey8611
    @niyshiatisdale-bey8611 Před 2 lety +4

    My dad was never coddled. Anytime I found myself on the wrong side of some shit...my parents didn't cape for me. They told me to figure it out. I got myself in it, so find a way out of it. I definitely learned to make better conscious decisions early on. You think longer and harder when you know ain't nobody coming to save you.

  • @shannonpatrice8358
    @shannonpatrice8358 Před rokem +1

    I'm tryna figure how I missed this??? 11 MONTHS AGO??? AI love when my favorite people get together... especially the ladies 💖💖💖💖 ok im about to watch now 😘

  • @shantelklass1188
    @shantelklass1188 Před 2 lety +1

    omg 3 of my fav podcast ladies !

  • @highonlifex7419
    @highonlifex7419 Před 2 lety +4

    lit 🔥 already know y’all bouta say some outta pocket shit lmaoo

  • @devion7709
    @devion7709 Před 2 lety +1

    Bro i love this trio ! Lmaooo we need more videos

  • @vibinafterdark_withmoe2384

    I love this show! I just started watching and I'm hooked

  • @fio1056
    @fio1056 Před 2 lety +5

    I only watched this for Pour Minds but DON’T CALL ME WHITE GIRL has caught my attention!

  • @damiaphares8839
    @damiaphares8839 Před 9 měsíci

    This is the crossover episode I’ve been waiting for

  • @chelseaallyah1353
    @chelseaallyah1353 Před 2 lety

    Yes love how yall did each other show girl power!!!

  • @leenabee3225
    @leenabee3225 Před 2 lety +1

    loved thissss! 🔥

  • @saipowell6222
    @saipowell6222 Před 2 lety +35

    I really laughed the entireee time!!! I actually never heard of pourminds but I might tune in.

  • @nisharegister5729
    @nisharegister5729 Před 2 lety

    Love this whole vibe ❤️

  • @Iamdaunwaun
    @Iamdaunwaun Před 2 lety +2

    YEAH MONA 💪💪 I LOVE TO SEE BLACK QUEENS TOGETHER

  • @vanna307
    @vanna307 Před 2 lety +8

    It’s so funny that she always say Dre cut that out and he never cuts it out 💀

  • @tineeeify
    @tineeeify Před 2 lety

    Yessss been wanting this!

  • @keylow319
    @keylow319 Před 2 lety +2

    hell ya i been waiting for this since i saw yaw on 85 south show.

  • @MsWittyReadz
    @MsWittyReadz Před 2 lety

    HEY COUSIN!!!! LOVED THE EPISODE. KEEP GETTING IT GIRL!!! -YA FAVORITE COUSIN FROM CHICAGO

  • @mayola2279
    @mayola2279 Před 2 lety

    Y’all are heaven sent !!

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 Před 2 lety

    I love the Breakbeat. Obsessed.😂

  • @morganslocombe8255
    @morganslocombe8255 Před 2 lety

    Two fav podcasts in one 😍😍😍

  • @iamnyasiap
    @iamnyasiap Před 2 lety

    i’ve seen a few clips of those girls podcast & they are comedy 😂 this was good Mona!

  • @Kammsammich
    @Kammsammich Před 2 lety +1

    This whole thing was incredible lmao

  • @irmamontano2875
    @irmamontano2875 Před 2 lety

    Loving your Vibe ❤️came across you on Lip Service I will be tuning in 🙌🏾

  • @southernempire347
    @southernempire347 Před rokem

    Ayoo this is slept on.. I’ve been laughing nonstop

  • @johnadams3155
    @johnadams3155 Před 2 lety +8

    Ohhh shit ! Both my crushes and potential future wives in one place I gotta be in heaven 😂😂😂 Lex p and Mona extra bdb over here 🥸

  • @Ty.Clark29
    @Ty.Clark29 Před 2 lety

    Had to hit the like before the video started 💕💕

  • @paintedbypreston4014
    @paintedbypreston4014 Před 2 lety +1

    I NEED HOURS OF THIS

  • @bri7614
    @bri7614 Před 2 lety +3

    If these three had a podcast together it’d be AMAZING😅 They are the female version of the 85 south show💯 Lex is DC, Drea is Chico, and Mona is Karlous😭💀 This is an educational, heads up, hilarious, deep podcasts💕🤝