You Have to Hear This 6-Year-Old's Advice for Her Divorcing Parents

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  • čas přidán 22. 10. 2015
  • #DrPhilSoundsOff: You have to hear this 6-year-old’s message to her divorcing parents … It will make you think twice about how much kids know!
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Komentáře • 125

  • @spoiled_jackfruit
    @spoiled_jackfruit Před 3 lety +175

    "I don't wanna be mean..."
    What an angel😭❤

  • @ruthlessjv1201
    @ruthlessjv1201 Před 2 lety +146

    The best comment I saw on another video of this little girl was "it must be hard for a single child to raise two parents"...I think that was a fair statement on the situation.

  • @Misskatie1957
    @Misskatie1957 Před 3 lety +126

    This little girl could heal the world. So sweet.

  • @nurulkhaisaranurulkhaira2348

    This child is a blessing from God❤ people may be terrible but listen to this kid advice always be happy

    • @amazonqueen5694
      @amazonqueen5694 Před 2 lety +5

      this child sounds smarter then most adults I know

    • @bigsosaa764
      @bigsosaa764 Před 2 lety +1

      she goes to my school her name is tiana

  • @moc3306
    @moc3306 Před 3 lety +85

    Kids are smart and they pick up on things.

  • @osvaldwulf9960
    @osvaldwulf9960 Před 3 lety +43

    This little girl knows the truth, she is amazing. What a wonderful young lady.

  • @samhardy690
    @samhardy690 Před 3 lety +130

    This child is the Tao!!! Beautiful parenting too mom no interrupting, no laughing just listened

  • @twztdned
    @twztdned Před 3 lety +55

    She must be protected at all costs

    • @ishaaujila5377
      @ishaaujila5377 Před rokem

      Yes!! She is one of my best friends!! She goes to my school 😊

  • @soulflowerpeace9236
    @soulflowerpeace9236 Před 3 lety +51

    This kid is an angel

  • @raymclaughlin2032
    @raymclaughlin2032 Před 2 lety +16

    I'm 69 years old and I've teared up at that sweet message......be friends......

  • @mr.coffee5220
    @mr.coffee5220 Před 3 lety +27

    She’s going places in society.

  • @ampedantt4717
    @ampedantt4717 Před 3 lety +71

    Omg this pulls my heart strings 😢😢

  • @drew3693
    @drew3693 Před 2 lety +77

    That message is straight from God. What an insightful kid!

    • @nbaprince9330
      @nbaprince9330 Před rokem +3

      Or her life experiences with parents who don’t get along nothing do with a mythical being the kid just has a good-mindset so give her the credit not some fairy tail

    • @mitchbrown6652
      @mitchbrown6652 Před rokem +1

      What is wrong with you? No. This is a message from a very smart little girl. How dare you...

    • @lukascampsrensen3160
      @lukascampsrensen3160 Před rokem

      @@mitchbrown6652 God*

    • @mitchbrown6652
      @mitchbrown6652 Před rokem +1

      @@lukascampsrensen3160 Nope*

    • @Iadorejapan1
      @Iadorejapan1 Před rokem

      so sweet

  • @serenareynolds7681
    @serenareynolds7681 Před 3 lety +34

    Absolutely amazing! One of the kids at work goes up to others when they’re fighting and says “let’s be friends” then gives them a hug. It’s astounding that they know what’s happening and how to deal with it in such a lovely way

  • @kaliannak4513
    @kaliannak4513 Před 3 lety +45

    omg her vocab is like amazing

    • @HansDelbruck53
      @HansDelbruck53 Před 3 lety +8

      Her vocabulary is very impressive, not "like" impressive, but truly impressive.

  • @XXgenderloveXY
    @XXgenderloveXY Před 3 lety +51

    I was helpless a lot as a child I guess. Childhood is like prison. A decades long prison sentence that everyone is in denial of it even existing. Many people cannot even remember their childhood. That's why. It's so traumatic we have it blocked out. Or, we know it happened but we have zero feelings about it. Almost like it happened to someone else. Children are always, without exception, the most intelligent people in a family. Start listening to them. Sincerely. Start asking them what they think a solution to a particular problem is. And try what they say. You'll be blown away. IF you have the courage to even experiment with it, which most of us don't.

  • @whome1636
    @whome1636 Před 2 lety +4

    She's an old soul. God sent.

  • @Wa1kerSta1ker0
    @Wa1kerSta1ker0 Před 2 lety +12

    The way she said things so smart but so innocent. You just know it's not rehearsed in any way

  • @noeyd3203
    @noeyd3203 Před 3 lety +21

    dr. phil is so right with this. the coffee cup thing hit home pretty hard for me, kids notice a lot more than adults give them credit for, and the things they notice can do a lot of damage, even later into life.

  • @matthewodonnell6495
    @matthewodonnell6495 Před 2 lety +6

    What a sad world. Selfish people getting married and having kids without real love. Thousands of parents destroy their kids with their selfishness

  • @mohammadaziz3043
    @mohammadaziz3043 Před 2 lety +16

    I have watched this video 10 times. It's like a poem to me. What a language! We want a world full of person not monsters, so try your best to be nice, try your best not to be mean.

    • @jazura2
      @jazura2 Před rokem +1

      Watch the full version on youtube.
      There was a lot more that she said.
      It was poetry.

  • @lrn2-lrn224
    @lrn2-lrn224 Před 3 lety +39

    Wow Wow What a super-intelligent child she is smarter than most Average grownups

  • @coachgarcia3130
    @coachgarcia3130 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Somehow as adults we lose that certain spark of joy and optimism that we have as children. What does it take to make a child happy? A new toy? An ice cream cone? Everyone getting along and smiling? Then when we become adults, it seems so difficult for us to find the kind of unbounded happiness that we once experienced as children. We become jaded, bitter, sarcastic, mean, and tired of living. The innocence and the optimism of this kid's beautiful spirit brings tears to the eyes of this weary old man.

  • @mohtasimmow9466
    @mohtasimmow9466 Před 3 lety +4

    Million percent agree!! Kids ,childs understands even if u r an adult.They know the language,they know what u r doing infront of them,they will not forget next morning ok! Kids have a strong mind then adults

  • @ashleyrosebd8854
    @ashleyrosebd8854 Před 3 lety +12

    ' Im doing my best in my heart'
    Aawwwww😍😘

  • @Kami-mq8sl
    @Kami-mq8sl Před 3 lety +32

    Eyyyy they opened up the comment sections! Thank you Dr Phil staff :)

  • @CHamlin86
    @CHamlin86 Před 2 lety +13

    I was 3 when my parents divorced. I knew exactly what was going on. Nobody explained to me that it wasn't my fault, though.

    • @PrincessIrie
      @PrincessIrie Před rokem

      Omg reading your comment brought tears to my eyes my sons three and I’m about to get a divorce

    • @Pavia1525
      @Pavia1525 Před rokem

      You never know… maybe it was your fault. Three year olds can be real jerks.

  • @MelLo-ri8hb
    @MelLo-ri8hb Před rokem +1

    I think it is wonderful that both the Mother and the daughter are having this conversation. Not every mother is like this, nor every family.

  • @AwkwardAngleReacts
    @AwkwardAngleReacts Před rokem +2

    Need a 2022 update on her immediately!

  • @cristatus514
    @cristatus514 Před 2 lety +7

    It must be hard being a single baby raising 2 parents

  • @nexxgeneration875
    @nexxgeneration875 Před 2 lety +2

    Kids are put on earth as little angels to teach us how to truly live

  • @qs4177
    @qs4177 Před 2 lety +3

    This girl broke my heart, so innocent so kind

  • @FishandShips
    @FishandShips Před 2 lety +3

    She's so precious

  • @Huub_Z
    @Huub_Z Před 2 lety +15

    The two rule from Dr. Phill:
    1. Do not burden them with situations they cannot control, that makes them feel helpless.
    2. Do not ask the to deal with adult issues, that makes them feel helpless.
    Another one by my side: Don't EVER make them feel helpless. I know how it feels like.

    • @TofuTeo
      @TofuTeo Před 6 měsíci

      Agreed. She's being parentified and and that's not cool, speaking from a child development perspective.

  • @peterssister421
    @peterssister421 Před 2 lety +3

    Precious and Priceless 🤍

  • @shannonthomas6835
    @shannonthomas6835 Před 2 lety +2

    She is so smart hope she stays that way .

  • @strawberryshortcakemitchell
    @strawberryshortcakemitchell Před 10 měsíci +1

    “My heart is something” 💖😢

  • @pesha600
    @pesha600 Před 3 lety +90

    Put this child on a mike in front of the United Nations. She should speak at any important world summit meeting where governments are trying to work out society's
    problems.

  • @keke2929
    @keke2929 Před rokem +1

    Bless her little heart 💕

  • @Erasablesun
    @Erasablesun Před 2 lety +3

    OMG THIS GIRL IS AN ANGEL

  • @kaveri1352
    @kaveri1352 Před 2 lety +3

    This is relatable 😔😔
    But really, thank you for this video ❤

  • @debdee9663
    @debdee9663 Před 2 lety +4

    Omg we could all take her advice on life. 💕

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas Před rokem +1

    The gurl is giving a masterclass 😅love her❤and she's perfectly articulate

  • @susanandfamilytv
    @susanandfamilytv Před 2 lety +4

    WONDERFUL 🌸 💕 LOVELY CUTIE WITH WORDS OF WISDOM

  • @emmanuelbalmeo5241
    @emmanuelbalmeo5241 Před rokem

    Its seven years ago. I wonder where this girl is now. Talk about an old soul. How awesomely sweet.

  • @reginamcadory674
    @reginamcadory674 Před 2 lety +3

    She’s so smart

  • @cherry_bear_aestheticd6840
    @cherry_bear_aestheticd6840 Před 8 měsíci

    She is so adorable and yet so smart ❤❤

  • @abiramasundariramamurthy5782

    I come back to this every single day , such a cutie ..

  • @bribaby8902
    @bribaby8902 Před 3 lety +3

    The full video is everything

  • @lilly4294
    @lilly4294 Před 3 lety +6

    Thanks

  • @dio_hoestar_4204
    @dio_hoestar_4204 Před rokem +1

    Incredible emotional intelligence.
    Also very cute.

  • @sc_raja5354
    @sc_raja5354 Před 2 lety +3

    she says it better than me

  • @tajahcortez7465
    @tajahcortez7465 Před 2 lety +4

    She is soooooo adorable 😍

  • @Andrewweiland4509
    @Andrewweiland4509 Před rokem +1

    The little girl is very smart.

  • @eazy2diy2k23
    @eazy2diy2k23 Před 3 měsíci

    WoW What a great Kid ❤

  • @Chosen.Annoited323
    @Chosen.Annoited323 Před 2 lety +2

    Oh my God! She is a gift from God 🙏🏾🥲💜

  • @halal_tom
    @halal_tom Před 3 lety +17

    A video with 3M+ views and barely 8 comments??
    Now that's rare!

    • @baeskiii
      @baeskiii Před 3 lety +4

      Because they just opened the comment section up

    • @nanyanguo1
      @nanyanguo1 Před 3 lety +1

      comments was disabled for sometime . Actually this is not uncommon n fortunately for this one, it is enabled again In others , not so lucky . they have been disabled like forever.
      Also if go watch the video of the whole speech by this little girl now, the views is about 6m. . Actually tens of millions including me already saw this video of her whole speech few yrs ago but that viral video no longer exists. So find YT also in the habit of taking down videos that went viral n then allow the same to be re-uploaded afresh later.

  • @1456Sassy
    @1456Sassy Před 3 lety +4

    Of course the kids know. They have ears!

  • @kelleyjohnson5157
    @kelleyjohnson5157 Před 3 lety +9

    Beautiful

  • @Jewel193
    @Jewel193 Před 7 měsíci

    so wise.

  • @ddahstan6876
    @ddahstan6876 Před 2 lety +3

    This's only a part of her monologue. Please check out the whole video of her and be amazed of her precious 'Ted Talk'. Children like herself can heal the world!

  • @MextizaCalifa
    @MextizaCalifa Před 3 měsíci

    My 5 year old told me this today. I cried internally so bad because he doesn't have the capability to understand we are both 2 different humans from different cultures and life experiences it was bound to fail and momma is too tired to even try anymore.

  • @lexib4u
    @lexib4u Před 3 lety +16

    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww shes so cute

  • @gohesmond781
    @gohesmond781 Před 3 lety +7

    Don’t break her heart.

  • @arminsanghe3449
    @arminsanghe3449 Před 2 lety

    Bro this girl is I’m my class in school not lying I swear

  • @jeremyboutwell543
    @jeremyboutwell543 Před 2 lety +1

    Little children are close to god a lot you can learn emotional from little people on the Planet

  • @Animebrity.
    @Animebrity. Před 2 lety +2

    Kid is a peacemaker

  • @lyndi9719
    @lyndi9719 Před 4 měsíci

    Yep! We feel think we must be the responsible adult, because our parents are acting like children.
    This is beyond rotten!

  • @jle5734
    @jle5734 Před 2 lety +1

    She’s a cute smart girl❤️❤️😇

  • @Y2kYokai
    @Y2kYokai Před 3 lety +3

    Me watching this while my parents argue

  • @michaeleager4635
    @michaeleager4635 Před 2 lety

    Give her Dr Phil's job

  • @user-wq2xu1rn2c
    @user-wq2xu1rn2c Před 2 lety +1

    This tells me one thing - we are all born the same - we are al born great - then we progressively get ruined …
    Why - does the education we have ruin us ?

  • @Noakes_Karting
    @Noakes_Karting Před 3 lety +2

    Hello

  • @horsepowermultimedia
    @horsepowermultimedia Před rokem

    Parents always think that their kids always have to rely on them, but they never get to know that when things go horribly wrong, the parents can end up as helpless as the kids.

  • @HansDelbruck53
    @HansDelbruck53 Před 3 lety +1

    I can't stand Dr. Philth, but I clicked on this to see the kid.

  • @donnalichvarcik9358
    @donnalichvarcik9358 Před 6 měsíci

    Tiana is badass she is a fierce little queen 👑 you go girl you really rock I hope you become a therapist or a family counselor in the future!!!!!

  • @arminsanghe3449
    @arminsanghe3449 Před 2 lety

    Bro this girl is is my school I swear to god

  • @MK1_games_other
    @MK1_games_other Před 2 lety

    Sounds exactly like Jojo lomelino that went viral as well

  • @seadog2396
    @seadog2396 Před 3 lety +1

    NO surprise to me - kids Always know what's going on with their parents.
    Advice: DON'T gloss things over with your kid or kids and behave like they are clueless. If you do, you Really Harm them. Fact.
    You're a parent. Do Your Job....

  • @lifelongbachelor3651
    @lifelongbachelor3651 Před 2 lety +2

    she's smarter than dr phil.

  • @jay020rr
    @jay020rr Před 2 lety

    😥

  • @ChrisM-zm4li
    @ChrisM-zm4li Před 2 lety +1

    She's not 6.

  • @NoNoahhhh
    @NoNoahhhh Před rokem

    Well you know. Dr phill has a good point, but anyhow drphill is vague about 'kids know' but what do kids know? Knowing that parents argue is one thing. The whole speech that the girl gave - only indicates that she has gotten love over her years. She is happy but she notices negative verbal noise from her parents... thats all. She watched a lot of TV or for any reason she learned to talk like the dialogues on TV. Also if the child is allowed to think, and say her oppinion, then you get well aware children like this girl. And i believe that kids needs ethical awareness. But remember this - if the child is not allowed to speak/think - then they stay dumb/ignorant which in a cycle is another factor for the parents to blame on.

  • @deltafromuknow5153
    @deltafromuknow5153 Před rokem

    Even the gangsters put down their guns for this kid...😇❤️

  • @ecalose6785
    @ecalose6785 Před 3 lety +2

    She should be workin for NASA.

  • @mrs.bodge-it
    @mrs.bodge-it Před 2 lety

    What happened to this girl?

  • @chesiedengun
    @chesiedengun Před 2 lety

    😭💕😭💕

  • @godaughter4044
    @godaughter4044 Před 2 lety +1

    Just cause your younger doesn't mean you have no human comprehension.

  • @NoNoahhhh
    @NoNoahhhh Před rokem

    Id like to adress the origine of problem : 8 billion people with indirect free choice. People =superficial, sexual desires is somehow allowed among minors, freedom and democracy needs a change. Men are still indifferent as women (and always wil be) i regret this whole world and the always-returning-cycle dangers that humans are prond too, and especially those who are new in life.

  • @shawn4080
    @shawn4080 Před 3 lety +3

    Mark 10:13-16. People were bringing little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.

  • @arminsanghe3449
    @arminsanghe3449 Před 2 lety

    B

  • @randyg.7940
    @randyg.7940 Před 2 lety +1

    Proof of reincarnation......maybe.

  • @tilltheend7902
    @tilltheend7902 Před rokem

    No Wonder the Lord Jesus said the Kingdom of God is for people like this child..unless you become like a little chils you will by no means enter the kingdom of God.

  • @RichardFleming-wu2tz
    @RichardFleming-wu2tz Před 2 lety

    This is the only way this fake Doc could ever come up with anything profound, not an original thought in his head

  • @geoh7777
    @geoh7777 Před 2 lety

    She's not six. More like just turned three or four.
    She obviously is really intelligent, but speaks like a baby.

  • @keithfitzgerald3536
    @keithfitzgerald3536 Před 2 lety

    In the original CZcams video of this girl, it's claimed that she was three at the time.
    Also, it's obvious that she's been coached, that this is a performance meant to be posted online, and that her home environment must've been pretty bad. Well, most marriages are ill-advised and ill-fated.
    Beyond the obvious reactions - "She's SO cute! She's so wise for her age!", there is something quite creepy about this drama.

    • @tingle2323
      @tingle2323 Před rokem +1

      Ill advised, ill fated? More like immaturity of people to manage it

  • @bethdulnuan9746
    @bethdulnuan9746 Před 11 měsíci

    PRECIOUS....💕

  • @aram1001
    @aram1001 Před 3 lety +6

    Thanks