I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective. BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication. BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week. You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid. You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
One of my very spiritually awake FB friends posted some very wise words! He suggested: When you first meet someone …”stay in the space of ‘aloof observation’ for a substantial amount of time” ! 🙏
Yes you're right Narc Survivor I can't trust anyone because people are very fake and their kindness isn't genuine and they want to exploit your insecurities, weaknesses and vulnerabilities to use it against but they don't want you to know anything about them which is wrong! A private conversation must never become a public information ( tell people) Trust NOBODY! I have been honest.
Good people only know how to stay UP with God Almighty. Falling down is just a simple lesson in LIFE. Our scars allow us to change into other multidimensions through our SOUL’s urge to grow. From a young age, I would observe people and study their group behaviors. Alone-state gives us power to maintain who we are, no matter the details. Our value “IS OFF THE CHARTS!” Thank you. 🙏🏾 be who YOU were always meant TOBE
Had Jesus not allowed himself to become the sin of the world and die on the cross his mission would've failed. Prophecy had to be fulfilled for him to be victorious, he told the disciples that the best thing a man could do in this life was to lay down his life for his friend, and that's what he did for all of us. That's pure unadulterated love my friend, there's nothing more powerful. ❤✝️
I was born and raised as a Christian I belive in Buddhism ☸️ I'm a spiritual being I'm anempath And I try to help people by sharing my experience. And help them understand the difference between light and darkness. And hope they walk to the light but in terms of physically trying to constantly help people. I'm bringing them into my vibration. I don't think it's working for me anymore. Because I'm feeling more and more drained, I've always seen myself as a healer and even from a young age I've always been aware that I'm very different. I never fitted in. In school with other kids. I was always very quiet and observant. I used to watch how different people interacted. And I used to think why am I not the same? Why do I not have friends and as an adult slowly began to understand that because everybody is like you say, on different vibrations? Just by speaking to some certain people, people people, I don't even know. People have reached out to me and ask me to see my videos on what I have suffered with the most of my life and when they say they can relate and seem like that means a lot, because when I'm being depleted of my energy by different individuals I do start to think. Am I a good person nor a bad person but when a complete stranger? It does make me realise that I do have a purpose.I just need to use that purpose in a different way to be.Able to function within myself I do isolate myself a lot. I went through a period of when I was working in a pub of mixing with people all the time but I find when I go to that same place I feel wiped out. I feel like I'm in a pit of negativity. I go there because I like to listen to music and I like to drink and somebody I am saying goes there and I care a lot about him. I do love him. I've had issues in the relationship with him I do believe he has a good heart and a good soul but I am aware that his vibration is different to me and. Our believes are very different. I do believe parts of who I am has helped him in some way. Even though he won't say it and that's fine I don't need validate. Validated. I have my worries where he is concerned. And those worries could be rectified if what I give. He gave back in a form of balance. I. Want a family unit? But I feel like he's more involved in my life than I'm involved in his. I would love to be a part of his family introduced to his children like he's been introduced to mine been with him. For 7 years known him for 11, but he will not bring me around his children yet. He fails. Like. He's Entitled to be in every part of my life. And that makes me question his intentions. I have been through a lot so I do do judge people from past experiences and I have to because of the things I have been through and my children have been through. This could be rectified with my thoughts of him if he was to involve me more within his family. But he doesn't and I don't think he will. So I'm just gonna leave it as that I'm not going to too much detail. I'm aware that everybody struggles on their journey through life so I'm not gonna put anybody down but what I give out I want to get back and most of the time because people are on different. Vibrations to you. You don't get back what you give out. You give out and you lose who you are.
It really does seem like the only people we can really connect with are with other targeted individuals. Like you say, our vibrations are so very different from everyone else who is not.
I just said goodbye to one of my older friends...he came by my house and that is good and nice, but I see too much..and in my mind's eye I saw what he did in his life during the 30 years I know him...not that he is a standard abuser, but I think he is a freeloader..I just said goodbye and I told him what I thought of his spirit..I said he is far below level...in the last seven years I had sporadic interactions with him because I did not want to
I just want to be loved back I want to spoil a man love a man , but all my life each one has abused me in ways you can't even imagine, that's what I can't have babies
1:04:29 Thank you Chris, awesome share, our essence & spirit does need us to actively protect ourselves, it’s a perspective shift but beginning to get how vital it is, feels against our nature but simply necessary.. main reason for this comment & I ummed & ahhed whether to share. I’ve had a lot of experiences since I was very young which definitely indicate everything you’re saying regarding the deep questions of our total existence, far too much to recount in terms of words here - but I do want to share one experience because it relates precisely to the subject of dream frontiers really. And whilst the event itself wasn’t exactly great it really does or I hope give hope for others in terms of this much more expansive understanding of our existence. So in Sydney whilst travelling in a hostel whilst waking up, half-asleep I blurted to my then boyfriend how I had ‘during the night floated out of my body up through the ceiling & helped someone pass to the other side’ (these are not words I use) , & ‘it was very hard’ (this bit really struck me later ie it’s a relative statement implying the times it’s been easier, freaked me out to be honest, but there are other people’s deaths, just not like this ) - anyway as I was waking up fully i realised what I had said & was saying oh it’s just a dream (I actually felt absolutely exhausted, really done in)- basically a bit embarrassed- anyway but I did add it’s just it doesn’t feel like a dream. So had coffee & he went out to pay for the next night. He came back & said I should go out there, I asked why, he just said you really should. So I did, & there were police & some event occurring- it turned out that during the night in the room above us, a guy had died of an overdose - obviously I didn’t say anything & the policeman was saying about how since his girlfriend had given him the drug so she was in big trouble basically- I left swiftly - so obviously not a happy story, it’s a drug overdose of a stranger above me, but the point is, this is the one & only time I have specifically had this experience- I could not argue it a way & still can’t. I witnessed at 7 & oddly 17, 2 strangers die in public places whilst looking at me, & smiling at me initially & then the most beautiful unimaginable smiles I have ever seen on a human face, exactly the same literally exactly, at 7 had no idea but at 17 then the 7 year old experience made sense - honestly their smiles were absolutely unearthly & I eventually came to understand what an honour it was to be there at that moment. I’ll cease as it could go on - basically categorically & I really ran from this, I really did, I’m a very cerebral person, but no it’s real. So there you are. I saved a stranger’s life somehow knowing by putting my arm out, honestly I was in some trance, took a few hours to come back to present reality- anyway 100% scares the shit out of me for so long but yep. It’s definitely there is more, we are made of light. 🌸
Thank you so much, I needed to hear that, I'm so tired of feeling broken an unworthy by people who don't even deserve the kind of love I give 😔 but I'm not giving up someone out there will understand an take a chance on actually loving an believing in me, I want to be a Proverbs 31 Woman so whoever takes that chance I promise .. verse 11&12💪🦾
Id love for you to watch part 2 ..of your problem is witches on you tube..he says paul says pray for your enemies...yeah but not in a good way..he prayed that witch would die
I have a problem to trust anyone, I use to trust some people but I have been very abused and now I’m just alone and want to trust people but I’m scared- If I’m a narcissist myself?
I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid.
You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
Stay up Survivor's and fly high because the narcissist's main purpose in life is to bring good people down.🦅
I used to give my energy to everyone, now I see if they're worthy first. I have been a giver all my life but gave to the wrong ppl
One of my very spiritually awake FB friends posted some very wise words!
He suggested: When you first meet someone …”stay in the space of ‘aloof observation’ for a substantial amount of time” ! 🙏
Sending love from New York. God bless anyone reading this!🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Lisa!
@@joankuehn4479 You’re most welcome! 🤗
Satan is a coward and a narcissist and he will always be that!
Satan is not he. Androgyn, baphomet. S-HE.
I work with horses..they are very high vibrational...
Love and Light ❤
Appreciate your wise, deep insightful, open minded, talks! Thank you! There’s very few people who think and BE on these levels! 🙏
Yes you're right Narc Survivor I can't trust anyone because people are very fake and their kindness isn't genuine and they want to exploit your insecurities, weaknesses and vulnerabilities to use it against but they don't want you to know anything about them which is wrong! A private conversation must never become a public information ( tell people) Trust NOBODY! I have been honest.
EXCELLENT ANALOGY with the armored truck story!!!!!!!!!👑👑👑👑👑
Good people only know how to stay UP with God Almighty. Falling down is just a simple lesson in LIFE. Our scars allow us to change into other multidimensions through our SOUL’s urge to grow. From a young age, I would observe people and study their group behaviors. Alone-state gives us power to maintain who we are, no matter the details. Our value “IS OFF THE CHARTS!” Thank you. 🙏🏾 be who YOU were always meant TOBE
Thanks for meaningful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
We are ancient kings and queens sent here to save the planet.👑☮️👑
Be safe Have a wonderful blessing day. Be safe. Protect your piece at all times❤❤💯💯💯🤍🤍
We literally are the LIGHT OF THE WORLD........💥⚡✨🌟⭐💫⭐🌟⚡✨⭐🌟
Incredible man. Bringing light to this world. Godspeed man. ⚡️⚡️⚡️
I deeply know I am special when entire communities of strangers mob me.........
Had Jesus not allowed himself to become the sin of the world and die on the cross his mission would've failed. Prophecy had to be fulfilled for him to be victorious, he told the disciples that the best thing a man could do in this life was to lay down his life for his friend, and that's what he did for all of us. That's pure unadulterated love my friend, there's nothing more powerful. ❤✝️
Great analogy in the beginning of the video in regards to our personal worth. Thank you !
I was born and raised as a Christian I belive in Buddhism ☸️ I'm a spiritual being I'm anempath And I try to help people by sharing my experience. And help them understand the difference between light and darkness. And hope they walk to the light but in terms of physically trying to constantly help people. I'm bringing them into my vibration. I don't think it's working for me anymore. Because I'm feeling more and more drained, I've always seen myself as a healer and even from a young age I've always been aware that I'm very different. I never fitted in. In school with other kids. I was always very quiet and observant. I used to watch how different people interacted. And I used to think why am I not the same? Why do I not have friends and as an adult slowly began to understand that because everybody is like you say, on different vibrations? Just by speaking to some certain people, people people, I don't even know. People have reached out to me and ask me to see my videos on what I have suffered with the most of my life and when they say they can relate and seem like that means a lot, because when I'm being depleted of my energy by different individuals I do start to think. Am I a good person nor a bad person but when a complete stranger?
It does make me realise that I do have a purpose.I just need to use that purpose in a different way to be.Able to function within myself I do isolate myself a lot. I went through a period of when I was working in a pub of mixing with people all the time but I find when I go to that same place I feel wiped out. I feel like I'm in a pit of negativity. I go there because I like to listen to music and I like to drink and somebody I am saying goes there and I care a lot about him. I do love him. I've had issues in the relationship with him I do believe he has a good heart and a good soul but I am aware that his vibration is different to me and. Our believes are very different. I do believe parts of who I am has helped him in some way. Even though he won't say it and that's fine I don't need validate. Validated.
I have my worries where he is concerned.
And those worries could be rectified if what I give. He gave back in a form of balance. I.
Want a family unit? But I feel like he's more involved in my life than I'm involved in his. I would love to be a part of his family introduced to his children like he's been introduced to mine been with him. For 7 years known him for 11, but he will not bring me around his children yet. He fails. Like.
He's
Entitled to be in every part of my life. And that makes me question his intentions. I have been through a lot so I do do judge people from past experiences and I have to because of the things I have been through and my children have been through. This could be rectified with my thoughts of him if he was to involve me more within his family. But he doesn't and I don't think he will. So I'm just gonna leave it as that I'm not going to too much detail. I'm aware that everybody struggles on their journey through life so I'm not gonna put anybody down but what I give out I want to get back and most of the time because people are on different. Vibrations to you. You don't get back what you give out. You give out and you lose who you are.
It really does seem like the only people we can really connect with are with other targeted individuals. Like you say, our vibrations are so very different from everyone else who is not.
I’m so glad you talked about this topic.
My love and empathy has been used and abused all my life ! But hate is not in me
I just said goodbye to one of my older friends...he came by my house and that is good and nice, but I see too much..and in my mind's eye I saw what he did in his life during the 30 years I know him...not that he is a standard abuser, but I think he is a freeloader..I just said goodbye and I told him what I thought of his spirit..I said he is far below level...in the last seven years I had sporadic interactions with him because I did not want to
I can appreciate your post, specifically the part about telling him about his spirit. I recently did the same.
You are real 💯
This is so very true Brother.❤
I just want to be loved back I want to spoil a man love a man , but all my life each one has abused me in ways you can't even imagine, that's what I can't have babies
1:04:29 Thank you Chris, awesome share, our essence & spirit does need us to actively protect ourselves, it’s a perspective shift but beginning to get how vital it is, feels against our nature but simply necessary.. main reason for this comment & I ummed & ahhed whether to share. I’ve had a lot of experiences since I was very young which definitely indicate everything you’re saying regarding the deep questions of our total existence, far too much to recount in terms of words here - but I do want to share one experience because it relates precisely to the subject of dream frontiers really. And whilst the event itself wasn’t exactly great it really does or I hope give hope for others in terms of this much more expansive understanding of our existence. So in Sydney whilst travelling in a hostel whilst waking up, half-asleep I blurted to my then boyfriend how I had ‘during the night floated out of my body up through the ceiling & helped someone pass to the other side’ (these are not words I use) , & ‘it was very hard’ (this bit really struck me later ie it’s a relative statement implying the times it’s been easier, freaked me out to be honest, but there are other people’s deaths, just not like this ) - anyway as I was waking up fully i realised what I had said & was saying oh it’s just a dream (I actually felt absolutely exhausted, really done in)- basically a bit embarrassed- anyway but I did add it’s just it doesn’t feel like a dream. So had coffee & he went out to pay for the next night. He came back & said I should go out there, I asked why, he just said you really should. So I did, & there were police & some event occurring- it turned out that during the night in the room above us, a guy had died of an overdose - obviously I didn’t say anything & the policeman was saying about how since his girlfriend had given him the drug so she was in big trouble basically- I left swiftly - so obviously not a happy story, it’s a drug overdose of a stranger above me, but the point is, this is the one & only time I have specifically had this experience- I could not argue it a way & still can’t. I witnessed at 7 & oddly 17, 2 strangers die in public places whilst looking at me, & smiling at me initially & then the most beautiful unimaginable smiles I have ever seen on a human face, exactly the same literally exactly, at 7 had no idea but at 17 then the 7 year old experience made sense - honestly their smiles were absolutely unearthly & I eventually came to understand what an honour it was to be there at that moment. I’ll cease as it could go on - basically categorically & I really ran from this, I really did, I’m a very cerebral person, but no it’s real. So there you are. I saved a stranger’s life somehow knowing by putting my arm out, honestly I was in some trance, took a few hours to come back to present reality- anyway 100% scares the shit out of me for so long but yep. It’s definitely there is more, we are made of light. 🌸
I trust no one!
Thank you so much, I needed to hear that, I'm so tired of feeling broken an unworthy by people who don't even deserve the kind of love I give 😔 but I'm not giving up someone out there will understand an take a chance on actually loving an believing in me, I want to be a Proverbs 31 Woman so whoever takes that chance I promise .. verse 11&12💪🦾
Because the souls are invisible body is controlled by external soul
Even your parent's and kids relatives
Jesus said your family are your enemies
💯 very true 😢
great insight shame about the wailing Imam in the background, God help Malaysia
Id love for you to watch part 2 ..of your problem is witches on you tube..he says paul says pray for your enemies...yeah but not in a good way..he prayed that witch would die
I have a problem to trust anyone, I use to trust some people but I have been very abused and now I’m just alone and want to trust people but I’m scared- If I’m a narcissist myself?
I don't think you got the criteria. Due to your thoughts with other.
@@joankuehn4479 I didn’t get you. Could you explain it in other words please.
You may have narcissistic fleas from the abuse, but not full blown npd.
@@mingo2024Thank you
❤Ty!
Not this guy again 💀
Are animal lovers empathic?
You thnk you are smart.
🫶 chosenones video's are the best.. thanks again