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Hang on, so he spent 8 years in a time-wasting relationship but women are bad decision makers? What does that make him? And isn't he emotional himself for making his new woman pay the price for his ex? Who raised him? He sounds silly.
They are the ultimate victims of what the worst of society (coloniser religions etc) teaches people to be. Bigoted and lost in every sense of the word. Weak minded and brainwashed.
Sandia is watching this man talk crazy and disrespect her and still isn’t running for the boarder. I’m not sure what it will take for her to realize that to be with him means she has to be inferior to him.
These clips with them two irritate me. It's really hard to watch a woman say she doesn't know how it makes her feel when she is clearly being treated like trash
Sir, that comment was a bad decision. Your entire commentary was a poor decision 🙄 Many of our men’s egos are astounding. It’s exhausting & repulsive. That’s why you’re seeing so many single parent households and broken marriages. Who wants to be with anyone that thinks you’re beneath them.
Women too!!! They bring their baggage from a previous relationship and the man presently with them is the best man in the world for them but bc of their previous hurt; they can't let GO!! and move ON,🎉 JUST LIKE THE EX HAS ! His presence is still filtrating and destroying you! Wake up.
When you are hurt you bleed on others that didn't cause the wound. If you have not dealt with past traumas EVERYONE you come in contact with will be wounded. I'm a proponent of not dating if you are damaged! Heal!! You cannot love someone else with a heart full of pain n anger.
The day Chris realizes that no one can break you and that you choose your happiness will be so sad. Cause he will have to admit that he’s become the problem based off one person who treated him poorly.
Everyone has emotions. That’s the nature of being human. And everyone is illogical in their emotions. If that woman was perfectly logical she’s have no need for you. Unfortunately she thinks poorly of herself and she puts up with this treatment
If Sandia does not walk away from Chris, she deserves whatever she gets from him. He clearly has issues, because of the 8 year relationship, and Sandia is going to pay for it.
Millie needs to mind her own business. Dymond and Aaron are super messy. Chris is valid in not wanting to waste time after an 8 year relationship but he’s approaching it with a bruised ego and every woman he encounters will be hurt until he deals with it.
@@TEE_SUNSHINE I literally had a guy named Trey choke me out when I was 6 years lmao... Trauma blocking almost made me forget...the mind is a beautiful thing but recollection is a curse to those who remember the sensation of the memories.
Clearly Sandia Still sitting beside/choosing Chris is a bad decision….Girrrrl please Stand up for your SELF!!!! At first I thought she was humble and super reserved, but it’s gone severely passed that point. Sandia may be accustomed to verbal and mental abuse.
Sandia really can’t think this is ok to continue. Chris has too many red flags and is only seems to be adding more trouble. She really needs to run. His friend seems normal standing next to him lmaoooo
People forget that Chris and Sandia were raised in Haitian culture. That culture is more patriarchal and traditional than American culture. It's up to them to change their beliefs if they want to.
I was glad that Shay told Dymond off and Aaron needs to stop both of them need to mind their business good job Shay and this girl Sandi’a is delusional Chris don’t need a woman he need to be by himself
Are they from the same country in Africa? She acts like she expects him to all of a sudden remember his traditions and do a turnaround to become the perfect husband. He’s been in the US too long and picked up the most negative, stereotypical behaviors he learned in the US.
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Also in Europe?
The smallest man in the house has the biggest ego. It’s low self-esteem masquerading as confidence.
That’s not confidence. That’s arrogance.
Hang on, so he spent 8 years in a time-wasting relationship but women are bad decision makers? What does that make him? And isn't he emotional himself for making his new woman pay the price for his ex?
Who raised him? He sounds silly.
This right here❤ this was my comment as well. He can't see how his stiffled negative emotions are affecting his view of women and the world
Chris must have gotten lost on his way to Fresh & Fit because hell nah
LMAO
Right!! He us such a disappointment!
😅 now this a comment
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly what I thought, he’s one of their minions.
Oh he still hurt from his last relationship. 😏
Real bad!
Yup, and he is taking it out on everybody else.
Facts
Men can get hurt once and the world ends!!! Women deal with hurt everyday and some everyday 🙄🙄🙄 Man up and get over it or don’t date 🤷🏾♀️
Millie really hates that man lmao. I get why though.
Because the way Chris treats Sandia is so cruel.
Exactly!
And im definitely with her on it...
Can't stand this dude. He is a walking red flag and she is so meek she will let him walk all over her with consistent disrespect.
They are the ultimate victims of what the worst of society (coloniser religions etc) teaches people to be. Bigoted and lost in every sense of the word.
Weak minded and brainwashed.
She needs to STAND UP. Her Haitian ancestors did not fight for their freedom just for her to herself back into bondage.
Sandia is watching this man talk crazy and disrespect her and still isn’t running for the boarder. I’m not sure what it will take for her to realize that to be with him means she has to be inferior to him.
This guy is full of dead men bones or full of the other thing. You all know!!!!!!!😅
@@Jay10-rf3uh They are truly rolling around and grumbling beyond vexed in their graves at her passivity. 🤦♀️
This dude is too immature for a long lasting relationship. Im so tired of his mouth.
💯💯
He's not immature. He's Haitian.
These clips with them two irritate me. It's really hard to watch a woman say she doesn't know how it makes her feel when she is clearly being treated like trash
Sir, that comment was a bad decision. Your entire commentary was a poor decision 🙄 Many of our men’s egos are astounding. It’s exhausting & repulsive. That’s why you’re seeing so many single parent households and broken marriages. Who wants to be with anyone that thinks you’re beneath them.
I don't claim them as "our men". They are dangerous strangers imho
They are going to find themselves alone.
@@SunshineKK99 Their going to find themselves in a nursing home and die alone their. Especially Chris.
@@SunshineKK99and they are better off alone and so is the world. Men like him are poison.
@@MaleahsDiary Word, stranger danger! 🤣
Sandia loves it there and IDK why.
Shes prolly used to that kind of treatment and is comfortable, she doesnt know any better
Or thinks she hit the jackpot with Chris and cant do better
She probably wants to be married badly and thinks this is her last chance
He repeatedly shows her who he is .
I hope shawty leave him alone
I thought she'd be gone by now
He really needs to heal from his last long term relationship otherwise he'll keep punishing other women.
Women too!!! They bring their baggage from a previous relationship and the man presently with them is the best man in the world for them but bc of their previous hurt; they can't let GO!! and move ON,🎉 JUST LIKE THE EX HAS ! His presence is still filtrating and destroying you! Wake up.
He’s the one all up in his emotions and his ego. It’s sickening
Yassssssss Tarhonda! I'm happy she said what she said bc Sandia damn sure wasn't going to be the one. Chris is still a lost cause
I'm tired of him!
He thinks men make more logical decisions but he is moving based on how he was hurt in an 8yr relationship?
Somebody put up with him for eight years?
In my Evelyn Braxton voice, “Sandia, for God sakes, STAND UP!” 😩
RUNNNNNNNNNN!
When you are hurt you bleed on others that didn't cause the wound. If you have not dealt with past traumas EVERYONE you come in contact with will be wounded. I'm a proponent of not dating if you are damaged! Heal!! You cannot love someone else with a heart full of pain n anger.
I’m starting to believe men don’t really like us lol
They don’t
Chris just needs to be by himself
Yes, exactly
The day Chris realizes that no one can break you and that you choose your happiness will be so sad. Cause he will have to admit that he’s become the problem based off one person who treated him poorly.
Millie really speaks her mind❤❤❤❤
That man says I can get any girl he wants … probably all like Sandia….turning blind eyes to his narcissistic abusive behaviors
Sandia should leave him if she doesn't want to cry later
I think she’s been crying a lot when she’s by herself.
I'm so sick of red pill Chris.
She’s going to have to work on her self-esteem issues until then she will just find another Chris imo
Everyone has emotions. That’s the nature of being human. And everyone is illogical in their emotions. If that woman was perfectly logical she’s have no need for you. Unfortunately she thinks poorly of herself and she puts up with this treatment
Girl run and run fast please
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯🙏🏽
Girl she not going to run nowhere. She is nieve and desperate.
@@m.e5823💯
😂😂😂😂❤@@m.e5823
The fact that everyone is mad about Chris' comments , us included and Sandia is unfazed , is quite concerning
Sandia was raised in Haitian culture just like Chris. His views are from Haitian culture. Sandia's male relatives probably have the same view.
So did Chris' mom make a bad decision when she opted to not abort him?
Just asking.
If that was true, the world wouldn’t be like it is today.
I was literally thinking this
Please run, no second guessing!!!!
Chris watches Fresh and Fit and Kevin Samuels kinda content... None of these men were are in committed relationships.
💯
If Sandia does not walk away from Chris, she deserves whatever she gets from him. He clearly has issues, because of the 8 year relationship, and Sandia is going to pay for it.
Sandia is slow. Red flags are bright and bold. She has to pick him or herself
Men aren’t emotional? Have you ever seen first 48? lol
What a stone age attidude.
Who did hurt him so such of the woman in his life ?
Poor traumatized boy inside . ...
Chris has a lot to learn and needs to heal.
Sandia should 'MOVE ON", it's plenty of men that would love to date Sandia, treat her with RESPECT, and love her like she looking for.. SMH
Millie needs to mind her own business.
Dymond and Aaron are super messy.
Chris is valid in not wanting to waste time after an 8 year relationship but he’s approaching it with a bruised ego and every woman he encounters will be hurt until he deals with it.
He’s 🚮
Girl…. his name is “Chris” are you really surprised??? If you know, yk
Marriage at First Sight lol dude was terrible
Right 😂 iykyk
@@TEE_SUNSHINE whats another red flag name ?
@@BByBurd Trey 😂
@@TEE_SUNSHINE I literally had a guy named Trey choke me out when I was 6 years lmao... Trauma blocking almost made me forget...the mind is a beautiful thing but recollection is a curse to those who remember the sensation of the memories.
Just because a man feels that he's more logical doesn't make him superior.
Clearly Sandia Still sitting beside/choosing Chris is a bad decision….Girrrrl please Stand up for your SELF!!!! At first I thought she was humble and super reserved, but it’s gone severely passed that point. Sandia may be accustomed to verbal and mental abuse.
The blind leading the blind smh
She went in on him lol
Chris is just dramatic. 😅
Poor Chris, he has so much to learn.
She’s dealing with a narcissist
Aint nobody going to remember this show its 4 eeeks no episode
Sandia really can’t think this is ok to continue. Chris has too many red flags and is only seems to be adding more trouble. She really needs to run. His friend seems normal standing next to him lmaoooo
People forget that Chris and Sandia were raised in Haitian culture. That culture is more patriarchal and traditional than American culture. It's up to them to change their beliefs if they want to.
Chris needs to do some deep introspection on his life and make the necessary adjustments to his life
At least he knows she mad the bad decision to oblige talking to him🤣
I was glad that Shay told Dymond off and Aaron needs to stop both of them need to mind their business good job Shay and this girl Sandi’a is delusional Chris don’t need a woman he need to be by himself
Safari is wild . Ain't no way.
Until Chris checks his ego, he will NEVER have a successful healthy relationship
Can we get full episode please. 'cos the whole program is not open to us in Nigeria
Moral of the story When a person shows you who they are believe it!
Chris is hurting. His ex did a number on him, and he hasn't been able to find his way back. He needs to heal, and he needs grace
i now understand why he is hansome and single.
Do you really want to be with him,WHY
Where are the new episodes? I feel like I’m bugging. Been asking for weeeeeeeks
Well Chris …perhaps if you learned to be in tune with your emotions, you’d develop into a better man…a man worthy of a lifetime partner.
Girl RUN! 😂
What is Sandi 's nationality? The submission is very....
His nostrils says it all
I've never seen this show. When does it come on?
Fridays on “OWN” at 8pm
And on Max
Ooooh, I'm watching it now 😮.
Are they from the same country in Africa? She acts like she expects him to all of a sudden remember his traditions and do a turnaround to become the perfect husband. He’s been in the US too long and picked up the most negative, stereotypical behaviors he learned in the US.
I think they’re both Haitians
They are both of Haitian decent. Why did you assume they were from Africa?
Who raised him?
His mother most likely. A lot of men who think like this were raised by women. Ain't that something.
The only problem I see here is Sandia. Why is she still with him?
OMG!🤦🏽♀️😳
He dont want you
If Chris was my man it wouldn't take long before I was on the news ...he gets on every single nerve
Chris has a lot of deep rooted issues. He needs more therapy and more therapy.
True that
Sandia what's not clicking girl??
Why don’t guys like that just be with other men that they respect and honor
😂😂😂😂😂Chris 🤦🏾
Both genders equal in different ways since we compliment one another
Chris is literally so emotional and damaged it makes him irrational in his relationship
This guy is crazy. His a lot of work. He uyst go heal before dating
Why you stopped posting whole episodes
Chris needs help 😢
Some people just really need to stay single.😅
Chris from Miami we are city boyz. 💪🏽
Hez got a point u know
Where are the full episodes
on OWN like it says under the video.
That was a Top G question he asked her?
This Chris is red flag
Omg he is something else. He is so insufferable to be around. Idk this shoe but no m am.
Where is episode 4?
😮😮😮
Poor Josh🥴🥴🥴
😂 comical
BS of the highest level. you just carry we got both X n Y ,so who decides i blame your biology tutor.