How to be Happy Being Single: The Importance of Being Single

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  • čas přidán 12. 12. 2023
  • I spent most of my twenties envious and jealous of the happy couples around me, constantly wondering why that wasn't happening for me yet. Why am I still single? Why does no one want to date me? Why have I not found a partner yet? These thoughts used to make me really sad, until I realized the importance of being single.
    Understanding the beauty of being single and the positive impact this time alone can have on my life, totally changed my perspective on being single and how to be happy being single. That doesn't mean I don't still want and dream of a happy, loving relationship...but this thought process has really helped me find peace with where I am at in my life.
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Komentáře • 22

  • @mktplyr76
    @mktplyr76 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Can’t be happy with someone until you can be happy without someone 😊

    • @madelinehewatt
      @madelinehewatt  Před 6 měsíci +1

      couldn’t agree more!

    • @mktplyr76
      @mktplyr76 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@madelinehewatt took years of being a hopeless romantic to figure that out…

  • @chriss.2978
    @chriss.2978 Před 6 měsíci +2

    when i was younger i thought i had to be in a relationship to be happy. the older i get, the happier i am being single, and the more i actually appreciate relationships.

    • @madelinehewatt
      @madelinehewatt  Před 6 měsíci

      i love that, the more i actually appreciate relationships. that’s such a true statement!

  • @sakuraa4216
    @sakuraa4216 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Hi Madeline! Exactly in the same situation as you are and recently like a week or so ago had the same perspective shift! Also the same personality and attachment style and this video jus popped at the right time. Thankyou! Have a beautiful new year!

    • @madelinehewatt
      @madelinehewatt  Před 6 měsíci

      I love this!! I'm glad it reached you and helps us both to know we aren't in it alone! Thank you as well, happy holidays!

  • @umikavyas
    @umikavyas Před 6 měsíci +2

    Omg ! this video just popped into my recommendation when i actually needed it . thank you, Madeline ❤

    • @madelinehewatt
      @madelinehewatt  Před 6 měsíci +1

      That makes my heart so full, i’m glad it reached the right person 🤍 thank you for watching!

  • @dearboo33
    @dearboo33 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Just wanted to throw this one out there as a person who is in a relationship. I totally agree with this video but IF you find someone that you feel like you have a real connection with.. don’t always allow your resilience about staying single to discourage you from what could be a really great relationship. I wanted so badly to maintain my independence and singleness as long as I could so I didn’t commit to my partner as soon as I could have. But gosh, I’m so happy and sure I was a different person 5 years ago when I met my partner but I’ve grown so much WITH my partner and that’s amazing too. The pros of being in a relationship are the cons of not being in one and vice versa. Feel good in whatever “stage” of life you’re in because you never know when someone will surprise you ☺️

  • @Traumatised311
    @Traumatised311 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Single for 7 years

  • @Hilltopguidance
    @Hilltopguidance Před 6 měsíci +3

    I'm male 30 age and all together I had only 4 to 5 relationship in the past all of them cheated on me, so it's now very hard for me to trust a woman. My recent relationship with my ex she persuaded me for a relationship but I was not interested as I was hurt from that past but then again stated a relationship with her and she also betrayed me again was having physical relationship with her ex. Now I'm all alone and working for my goal. I'm not going to allow woman in my life, until God decides.

    • @madelinehewatt
      @madelinehewatt  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I'm sorry you've been through that, it sounds like a lot. Love that you're taking the time to focus on you, your life, and your goals. I truly do believe that time to yourself helps you build the confidence in yourself to know you're choosing the right person when the time does come. Rooting for you!!

    • @Hilltopguidance
      @Hilltopguidance Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@madelinehewattthanks for the good words and for your concern. Appreciated 😊
      Stay safe, take care always.

  • @APOWER385
    @APOWER385 Před 6 měsíci

    Yeye see ya in 3 years
    It'll change

  • @crjinx999
    @crjinx999 Před 6 měsíci +1

    im guy first time i click in women video lol , when im single i do very good but i always thing about love so having a girl with me will boost my purporse if shes not toxic

    • @madelinehewatt
      @madelinehewatt  Před 6 měsíci

      couldn’t agree more, love is the ultimate feeling, we all want it, but finding the right love is the key! and i have found that that all starts with me, personally.

  • @alice-sun
    @alice-sun Před 6 měsíci +2

    jealousy not a good trait to have! what others are successful in has nothing to do with you. what would make you feel better - if they were as miserable as you?

  • @xIStandwithJesusx
    @xIStandwithJesusx Před 6 měsíci +4

    Sounds like another cope session.

    • @UniquelyHerz
      @UniquelyHerz Před 6 měsíci

      Looks like a troll

    • @xIStandwithJesusx
      @xIStandwithJesusx Před 6 měsíci

      @@UniquelyHerz Honesty doesn't require u to be nice especially in a world where nice guys finish last. Catering to women dont get u anywhere in life.