The psyche of killer moms: Special feature
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- 25-year-old Zinhle Maditla is serving four life sentences for killing her children. They died after she gave them food laced with rat poison. In this special feature, our reporter Slindelo Masikane looks at the psyche of killer moms. Courtesy #DStv403
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We need to learn to control emotions and think before we act. ALWAYS
No been there, what we need to do is pray for demons to not take control because wow!
@@digimonalvatrax2738 owk when it women killing kids we need to pray but when it man they are called abuses heartless dogs wow
@@sizwengubane8990 sad truth. .
@@sellomaduna5262 it is
no such thing as demons @@digimonalvatrax2738
“She betrayed her own children”💔
To get back at dude?
Kubi Sisi💔
Killing your own kids ? I don't want to judge , God have mercy. Oh my goodness.
Ey yazi nje
It takes a different kind of evil to kill your children to get at your husband for cheating on you. She is pure evil period.
Take accountability
@Chesna Robyn Hill, you see that excuse making. Everyone has the ability to restrain themselves. If I come and kill your loved one. Will you consider that as me being possessed by evil and therefore you will not lay a charge for murder?
@@iammrk4832 the moon will turn into cheese before women do that
So now if she goes to jail..the man will continue with his life and continue being in a relationship
I'm struggling to feel sorry for her
Me too 😭😭as a woman struggling to have kids this breaks my heart into pieces
@@nteboslifestyleandbeautyco8058 💔
@@nteboslifestyleandbeautyco8058 💔💔💔may the Almighty bless your womb
@@fragheadunleashed5661 Amen🙏thanks love
I don't she must g t h
This Judge struggled to keep her composure. You can hear it in her shaky voice and a throat lump. She is trying extra hard not to break down. Im 100% sure that this case affected her emotinally and mentally somehow. I bet she cried when she got home or in the middle of the night thinking about what the kids went through.
😢 cried because of the judge. She tried hard to be strong but we could hear her crying inside her voice 😢😢
It's cruel, I don't understand and I don't judge, I just hope you heal and I hope your kids forgives you. and may their souls continue to rest in peace.
Seipati she should have been given a death penalty she's a disgrace to mothers and to a society yoh I mean how can one go through 4 times of labour only to kill them all because of a man oh jesu
Im bothered by how this comment would have been, had this female been a male person😭😭
Wow spoken like a true human being.....
Well said dear and judgment lies with God.I wish for this country South Africa to take mental health seriously!!! They are equally to blame just that they hold the other end of the stick and think they are guiltless. History will judge them, To the Family, keep supporting her,she needs all you're support now.God bless you're wounded heart's.!!!
Ayybo😳
She was having revenge on the father's kids by killing her children. The things women do for men are very disgusting. This was evil
Okuhlungu yena usaphila abantwana abasekho!!! 🤔💔🙆🏿♀️
@@weliswadingela4126no the sad thing is that SHE is alive and not the children
when I was shot and poisoned by my mother and lost my younger brother I'm able to stand proudly and say I forgive my mother so I won't judge her in any matter I hope she heals and her late children rest in peace and here family also forgives her
I totally do not understand your moral/point in this case...you were shot if you were...and you survived....and then you made a choice to forgive,..
But here we talking about 4 little lives who were denied the opportunity to grow and be assets in a society....why she didn't kill their father, who she said is the cause of her act???
She made a choice spent thousands of seconds planning to kill the lil kidz..
If chance given I would be the first one to sign a death warrant for her,
I'm@@bossbig3084
Fact: only woman are defending and feeling sorry for this murderer. If this was a man, no one would even have time for his side of the story.
Askies gal this kind of thought once came into my mind but God helped me,I know that feeling.may thier soul rest in peace
This broke my heart and had me in tears 💔
They were so young. She is selfish
Bathong may GOD our Lord forgive you I don't know what to think this is sad
Soze liphole Eli inxeba,💔💔
This hurts so much. 💔😭😭
Need to be in contact with you
Yes I feel the pain
Mmmmm how heartless can one be killing your own she deserves worth than this
I'm failing to understand why we should sympathise with such a person. No matter her circumstances, she should not have taken it out on her kids. If life was hard she should have taken them elsewhere (her mother, their fathers or shelters), not end their lives just like that...ae no man
This is heartbreaking
Ya Bhuti khona Uqinisile
Or stop having children!!🤬
💔😭
Anyone notice that she looks so nice with makeup and hair done!!!! A straight up narcissist! Gosh! Where does she even get the energy to doll herself up while having 4 dead bodies!????
Mpume Sibiya eish😭🤧
Do not judge
Really was thinking the same when I saw the eyebrows done🤷♀️like how you even get the energy
She pisses me off.
she even changed hairstyle,bloody satanist
As long as we as Africans continue to live in denial of mental illness. Such this will continue happening and much worse. Depression is real guys. Make sure you are there for each other. Her children will no haunt her. It doesn’t work like that
Psychiatrist in the house.
Yeah, and the #metoo and #aminext campaigns are just a facade and useless charades. The people who murder women are suffering from mental health issues, they need our prayers, love and support. Point taken
One white women did the same and she was not guilty of the murder of her 3 children. She has mental issue she was dealing with at that time, and she was a nurse in children hospital .they are offering her more help instead of judging her like Africans do, her husband is by her side trying to get help for his wife
Mental illness = lead by demonic entities! (Call a spirit a spirit ) she was demonize! Nothing mental about that. She KNEW what she was doing!
@@sbusisodladla1976 very true unfortunately and many men never receive help
That woman must rot in jail.
I've been avoiding this video for a long time cause i knew it was gonna break my heart
I don’t even know what I’m doing here😭
@@emmarentiamadalane2661 its too sad
She deserves forgiveness, there is no way l can judge her, she killed her own four kids, something evil betrayed her.she will suffer for the rest of her life not from the sentence bt trauma
True which is the best.
@@khonkhosilelihle7414 mxm
No excuses!!!
It is heartbreaking but I am not gonna judge her... Because I don't know what she went through. The Lord will be the one who will judge.
But you judge men as u wish...shame
@@sellomaduna5262, exactly
I don't care what she went through. It's no excuse to kill your kids. I hope you never serve on a jury.
Romans 13.
no such thing as god
The girl got her hair and makeup done!!
she is sick shame such a narcissist
@@highandmightyqueen79 Leave the judging in the creators hands
the fact that she still has energy to do her hair nd put on make up on a trial makes me angry....not judging but its too much
That's the mental health there because it's not normal
You're right....there's something wrong
Yaz😔the problem we label the truth as judgement 🤦pple will never be ashamed to do evil act,bcs we hide behind judgement😥 instead of confronting the problem and start helping the person to heal n put the stop on jealousy.
This is truly sad.A whole lot of lives have been destroyed.
Imagine dying in the hands of your own mother the only person who is supposed to protect you normater the circumstances she's just pure evil thats all
Tears are flowing as I watch, met she not find peace
Guys please let us stop cheating on our partners, we don't know what they are capable of. Because we might regret.
Well said yoh! 😭
Best comment. Adultery led to this.
This is Painful i can't stop crying
💔💔😭
I remember a lady in Malawi gave a rat poison to her 2 girls and watch them dying then she took aswell but she didn't die...... it's a pity but I cant judge her
Depression is the cause of this incident like this bt most of Africans are on denial..look at mans how they kill their partners and kids ..South African need Jesus himself..praying is not enough
@london beats how is it funny??
I agree
No depression doesn’t cause you to hurt anyone please stop using this as an excuse maybe another mental illness but not depression you wouldn’t want to do anything let alone murder kids and not yourself after these kids are gone please stop
@@myahspencer8967 depression makes you do many things and also act out of character....so we really don't know what was going on her head...and the mere fact that she was mentally oppressed means she was depressed
No excuse.
yet so young for such a terrible heart , may the good lord fix you, am just confused and hurt by this story
Guys guys let's stop this biasnes, no woman is asking for God's forgiveness when men do horrible things to children but now we must understand because it's a woman, I'm disgusted
@@siphesihlenomatyeli8126 hey jonga its one and the same she must suffer her fate regardless of being a woman,and men who do that too,forgiveness is shit,kids were defenceless,lesson learnt,never use children to settle matrimonial scores,you men too ,never use children to settle matrimonial scores
Wow, and she had time to do her hair???
Just wow!
Girl even did her makeup . Disgusting!
Am still confused about all the people who a talking about depression and mercy. If it was a man he was gonna be called names as if he doesn’t go through the same depression that would lead to doing things that are no normal like rape
You're apologising to everyone except your children who are six feet under, call me cruel mara I wish she never knows peace in her life
True!
I will never be able to understand a mother ,a woman that put a man first before her children 😔I just hate it😥
@@ntombindaba806 if that's not witchcraft then I don't know what is
The state trying to say that she's mentally disturbed!!! That's bullshit
@@ntombindaba806 true
This is how infidelity can ruin a family😭💔
Exactly and people take infidelity likely, its a norm now!
But killing her kids was evil and wrong!
they would die anyway as she brought them into the world @@nandisnicethings
@@beaulieuc8910Are you okay in the head! They would die in God's timing she does not own them even if they are her kids! Evil is evil even in a moment of madness!
being lumbered with loads of kids as a single mother would stress anyone out
It's not stress that made her kill her children so don't come with that and she choose to have all them kids
Prosicutor is also really hurting u can hear the voice💔😭
I love how yall call this "depression". You can't diagnose her with depression if you don't even know what depression is. A depressed person isn't likely to kill somebody, much less their own children! She had some other mental illness going on that endangered those around her and that isn't depression! Depressed my ass! A depressed person wouldn't have the energy, much less the audacity, to put on make-up and do her hair like that.
Exactly
Beautiful
Very true.. depression is something else..murdering all your 4 kids is something else
Is that a joke?
Exactly
Very sad God knows what she was thinking or her state of mind, RIP babies so sorry
yho this woman is so beautiful for doing such a thing
Those beautiful woman are dangerous but sorry to judge
Beauty has nothing to do with the heart , mind and soul
That's why there's a saying " Don't trust a book by its cover"..
I am sick to my stomach watching this!! I hope she gets hers in prison.
May their precious souls rest in eternal peace.
Anger consumed her and that is the most dangerous thing.
When using Ur kids as weapons has gone way too far
Meanwhile people struggle to have kids
and many don't want them too and that is ok
I'm not surprised we leave in a cruel world only God has the answers.. May their perfect soul continue to rest in peace
So sad I would never hurt my babies.
Me too
Never say never
@@busisiwemadonsela3214 sometimes you need to say never
Im really sorry for everybody and may their dear souls rest in peace
Thanks
When one of the family members said”siyakthanda “ my heart shattered
Now if a man committed this horrible act, would u react the same or you'd be campaigning #iminext, hayi women
@@siphesihlenomatyeli8126 men don't carry babies dear.
@@rethabilemofokeng7846, pho???
@@rethabilemofokeng7846 wtf, so? Do women make babies by themselves ? It’s sick that women are always seen as victims but men are quick to be demonized yet you claim to want equality
Why kill the children though, why didnt you take them someone else where they would be safe and eat that atchaar alone.
South African judges really need to improve their English, reading and speaking 🤦🏾♂️
I hope God forgives her
The truth is that not all women are mothers,just having kids trying to use them to keep a man😔 I know nobody likes the truth . She lost it she says🤦
So she waited for them to die. At no point did she snap out of her anger and take them to get help? Is that anger? Can you be angry for so long?
You praised a man over your own kids ...n now uyishiyile Leyo ndoda u in prison n nabantwana abasekho...uyochubeka nempilo wena ...ai sisi iyohhhh
Exactly
I will never ever kill my own son,Im a single mother and his daddy broke my heart deeply but I love my son so much 😢😢
Those poor kids 😢 . I wonder if people around her saw signs that she wasn't ok?
Don't ever do things out of anger 😭💔
Women must understand it ok to take your kids to your relatives an tell them "I'm not ok, I'm leaving these kids here whether you like it or not and I'll fetch them when I'm fine" .. if only she just left them with her mother 😔
What?
Some people don't have such a person
@@rethabilemofokeng7846 She had a mother
Very true
Thats true i used to do that and it helps i asked my sister to take care of her for weekends then when she come back im fresh and missed her over the weeknd
This is so painful t watch Esh 😭😭 looking at those lovely kids My their soul rest in peace 🙏🙏
She betrayed her own children💔
😢😢😢😢😢mara why dear Lord l find myself crying 😢😢😢 uncontrollable
She put the poison for 3 of the older kids and then SMEARED her breast with the poison and breastfed the 11 month baby" hay mntaka dad ...you need Jesus periodt...yes Depression is real but to this extent hay ndyoyika sana and she looks and speaks so innocent! Let's pray for Zintle 🙏♥️
I definitely don't agree with what she did but your comment on depression shows you know nothing about the dangerous of depression.
Mmmmmm kwanzima am a mother of 3kids ngibathanda ukufa ngiba khulise ngingedwa ubaba wahamba wajola nomunye ucc but lokho kwangenza ngabathanda more ngabanakekela more angizange ngicabange ukubabulala due to a man noooo noo a child is innocent
I honestly do not know what went through her mind. SA we are in trouble, poverty is worst ever, crime is highest ever. Women of SA please look after yourself, family planning us free. Educate, uplift yourselves as well as your children. Pls. We need to start taking care of ourselves, you cannot depend on anyone but yourself.
So saddening 😞
We as a society must look deeper as why this happend. The lack of morals and broken families. The family structure is not sacred anymore and God is forgotten. However the law must take it's course and my deepest condolences to the family with the loss of these precious children.
That's the root of the problem but we don't want to face the reality that how we are brought up and the kind of family units we grow up in plays a big part in the kind of adults we grow up to be. Just look at how many psychopathic killers we have in South Africa. Most of us grew up in broken homes and were abused growing up and those of us that can afford therapy it helps but most of South Africa can't
This man is good man, hope he finds closure and healing 😢
Depressed?... depression is something else taking time planning and mixing poison & eventually murdering your own 4 children as a form of revenge after your partner cheated is something else..may their beautiful young souls rest in peace ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
This is so sad I don’t know these people but it hurts me shame
The children belonged to her. Very sad. She must have felt no support from the fathers of her children and her family. I feel for her.
😂
This is just horrible RIP...
I remember my 3 day clinic visit with baby and the nurse asked at the end, 'do you hate your child?''. Guys, Being a mother to young children IS NOT EASY. The anxiety, sleep depruvation, monies needed etc often cloud what a blessing it is to have children. I by no means support the abuse and murder of kids, I am instead encouraging ALL OF US to be there for new moms. The proverbial village is sooo critical to not just the baby, but the Mother to be okay. This broke my heart. Im saddened but I understand.
it is best to be childfree, being a parent is awful, kids are liabilities
💔💔💔dat was painful Ash😭😭😭I cry even is not my kids because God bls us with kid an some people they can't have this big bless 🙏🙏🙏
Eish so bad, the kids are innocent, they didn't send the father to cheat, y don't deal her husband???? 🤔🤔🤔
Apparently he didnt cheat ...they had broken up and she didnt accept it
@@palesatalks6629 oooh ok, Deval uses her
Ya I have no words
If she can do that to her own kids, what would she do to others?
This was very difficult to watch and hear
I'm not perfect but yhoooo isikhalo sabantwana ngiyasiva sikwaza umama kanti nguye umnikazi weskhalo nkosi thethelela
THERE'S NO SIN THAT JESUS CAN NOT FORGIVE MAY SHE BE FORGIVEN IN HEAVEN I PLEAD YOU HOLY SPIRIT I KNOW THE WORDL WILL NOT UNDERSTAND HOW THE LORD OPERATES WITH HIS MERCIES
Amen
no such thing as god
She apologized to everyone except her children
Im out of words
May God forgive her
Quick question; how is this different from Criselda interviewing Nicholus Ninow's mother????
@veevee b I have no idea how this response is related to what I said????
I could never
This hurts more and more l see it
Its not a mental disorder. This indian lady needs to stand back. 4 Children? Post partum is no joke. I hope she heals while serving her sentence. As for the father of the departed kids. Where was he?!
All these fathers neglect their children and leaving women to raise these kids on their own. Never facing responsibility for their actions. Even their families do not hold them accountable. It is disgusting.
If you go to the plug you will realise that the guy who had two kids with her was helping with rent, groceries and the other two kids that were not his own as well...he took them as his. When she did what she did they had ended their relationship but he still tried providing despite an unstable job. She got mad he was dating someone when they were broken up? Guys accountability is important. She was wrong...she was wrong.
Im just trying to get it😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Oh my god
This is what post partum depression looks like.. if left unchecked
I just feel sorry for her and the kids. This isn't a normal behaviour. I wish May God find peace to her children
I don't feel sorry for her
@@palesatalks6629 My sister we shouldn't judge the acused in cases related to these. No women can murder her children not unless is in the abnormal behaviour. Listen to me very carefully, some men are playing a big rule in causing women to do such cruelty Most of these cases are practised by men but this time it a women who's a perpetrator.
@@chief9462, there is never an excuse in life. Especially when it comes to this.
@@chief9462what a crock of shite
And after killing those innocent babies she didn't kill herself bloody selfish
Anger and depression its a serious case that our people must be aware off, it's not normal where a woman as a nurturing factor would do something like this . I believe she wasn't herself at that moment , she just found herself in this deep mess , it doesn't make it right though!! what she did was wrong , my advice to everyone is please leave abusive situation when you still can before you endup being in a worse situation. Some people have been experiencing pain from their childhood until adulthood , such situations can create depression and bipholar , however black people don't believe in things like that ... we usually say "black doesn't crack, we are strong " until we understand this kind of things people will keep on doing this horrible things to their loved ones. NEVER STICK IN TO A TOXIC situation , instant of being a victim you will end up being a traider.
This is so true I never understood why a Mom would kill her kid/kids until I had Postnatal depression and I wanted to harm myself and my baby not because I didn't want her but I was sick I thank God I took her to her father and focused on myself now I am healed and we all live happily I pray I never go through something like that ever again it was painful I wanted to harm myself so that people can see that I was not Normal because everyone kept saying theres nothing wrong with you you are just a cry baby and you just dnt want to look after your child but I was dying inside
Well said sthandwa
Ngeke alingene izulu losisi💔💔
Lord have mercy 🙏
Leave them in some ones door step and run away at least
There are social workers everywhere if a mother feels they can't do it anymore its not an embarrassment to go and inform the social workers to take care of her kids until she is healthy and ready to take care of them but to kill them is pure wickedness evil and witchcraft
Shes just so evil and cruel
Am hurt I judge
My heart is bleeding the fact tht magistrates said they suffered pain dd not die immediately cos of poison eix i feel thier pain 😢😢
I did not even a mother can kill her own kids i mean wow
She needed psychological help. I understand this doesn't not explain away the killing of innocent kids but I get it. Depression can leave devastation in it's wake.