I'm Feeling Overwhelmed! I Need Help...
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- čas přidán 30. 08. 2023
- As much as I wish I could do it all and just keep working away without any hiccups, sometimes the body says no. I have tried to ignore these feelings in the past but the results have not been good so I'm trying to listen to my body and learn to ask for help.
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Mate - I don’t watch for the woodwork or the shenanigans, I watch because of you. Always honest, forthright, and prepared to take on a hell of a challenge. Maintain the rage, and the perspective, and continue to be you. Feedback? Ignore the haters, hug the wife a lot, and don’t ever cut that tree behind you down. Always hear if you need a chat.
Jesse, as a lot of your ‘fans’, I started out watching your endeavors as a great woodworker. But as time progressed, it went smoothly to following you because of… well… you. As a person. The way of the Samurai if you like. The transition to your island and to a more kinda HomeSteading type of channel don’t mind me one bit. The fact that you’re confident enough to share your inner thoughts and philosophy with us shows me how much you’ve grown over the last couple of years. To see you provide for your family, doing what you do best, learning every day, gives me much joy as well. And there still is much woodworkery and building stuff in the vids as well. So all in all. Your doing great! Keep following your path! And never cut that “Samurai-Tree” It suits your channel to the core!
That tree is you Jesse; it’s a survivor. The odd branch missing, a little bent out of shape, but still standing!
Keep it up, lumps , bumps, and all!
I originally started watching you for woodworking but now I’m watching to see your journey. Whatever this goes I will follow. Just be yourself and honest. I am disabled and love watching and dreaming. It’s encouraging to me. Hang in there and follow your heart.
same here
Very well spoken dear friend...the best regards from Thomas, Denmark
Same here
Samurai, I feel like you bro. I would love to meet you and clean up all that wood. My specialty is bonfires, ask any of my friends. Are you in Canada? I would fly up there from TN. I could stay a week. I have tents and tools. Love you man!
Same here. What came to my mind watching your video is the saying 'If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.' Don't perceive asking others to help as a burden, but as an opportunity to be part of your curagious journey. With regards to content: all good CZcams channels I follow have one thing in common: an authentic creator. You bring yourself and that's what that's makes it a great channel, regardless or even because of the changing content as result of your personal development.
As a fellow husband, father and a man in his 40’s I hear you brother. We grew up being told that as the Father we were always to be strong and not need help. The struggle is with realizing that we are still human and we all need some help sometimes. I know you will get through this phase. Praying that you get the help you need!
I don't have time to watch the video, are you guys talking about physical or mental problems?
You are absolutely one of the finest woodworkers I've followed and have now, basically, successfully created two separate CZcams channels. Jesse, you are a winner. You are committed and talented enough to pull off whatever you choose. I hope you find the help you need to complete your current project in the timeframe you desire. I will continue to enjoy watching your wonderful journey in every step you decide to include us. Take care brother.
The combination of your outstanding craftsmanship and deep authenticity is exactly why I’ve kept watching these videos all these years!
The samurai needs to know the off grid experience is a lifestyle to be lived and it may take you 10-20 years to be where you want/need to be. But it's about THAT experience! It's never ending... keep going and you will be rewarded!
Here Here!
Exactly that
From a military background I can offer these thoughts. Stumbling blocks are always encountered along the way my friend. Just learn when you fall down 7 times one must get up 8 times while keeping the purpose of the mission alive. Never think arriving at the finish line late is a failure...as long as you arrive with your team intact is the main purpose. So...as you mentioned in this segment complete your journey as a family with your wonderful wife and awesome children who, based on previous videos, love spending time with you at your oasis. Break down your work load into manageable bits and knock each one off remembering to listen to your body. You got this!!
That is fantastic advice! Thanks for you perspective.
Well said. We all have these struggles throughout life. I also have a military background. Keep the end in focus. Take it one step at a time, we are all much stronger than we think we are.
Jesse, take a break from unnecessary complications. Time spent thinking will always save time working. Stop, take a look back, breathe, smell the roses. You got this.
One thing you can be absolutely sure of: out of all the people who watch your videos and love what you bring to the table, there are hundreds or thousands of people who would be HONORED to work along side you. Give everyone a clear picture of exactly what you want/need and what the logistics would be, and you'll make it easier for people to step up.
I've been through similar things and felt similar feelings of being overwhelmed. I've learned that the huge breakthroughs and momentum come just after the height of feeling the weight of it. So, you're on the cusp of it really flowing for you.
First of all, I want to say how much I admire your dedication and hard work on this off-grid cabin project. I've been a loyal viewer of your channel for years, drawn in initially by your woodworking skills, and yours is the only channel I consistently tune into for fresh content. While I'm not personally inclined towards off-grid living, your journey has been incredibly educational and inspiring to watch unfold from scratch.
I understand that the process of building an off-grid cabin can be overwhelming and stressful, especially when it feels like there's still so much left to do. But remember, it's all about the journey, not just the destination. Your dedication and passion shine through in every video, and I truly hope you find moments of joy and satisfaction along the way. Take a step back every now and then to appreciate how far you've come.
Your idea of involving the community is fantastic. As we emerge from the isolation of the pandemic, there's a craving for connection and shared experiences. Opening up the opportunity for people to come and help, not just for monetary compensation but for the chance to be a part of your dream and learn from you, is a wonderful way to build connections and create memories that will last a lifetime.
Remember, your viewers are here to support you not only in your successes but also through the challenges. You've got a strong community behind you, cheering you on every step of the way. Stay positive, stay passionate, and keep sharing your amazing journey with us. Looking forward to seeing how your off-grid cabin comes together, and I'm sending all the encouragement your way!
I truly appreciate that you're so open about your struggles. I think it's a smart thing to ask for help if you feel overwhelmed, and it's perfectly fine to change course or adapt expectations as you go. Listen to your stomach, maybe scale back expectations, take a step back to reflect and consolidate, gather energy, forge a plan.
Absolutely. Your clear upset is likely to be fear that you think you might becoming a failure.
For the record you are not a failure. One of the bravest guys I know.
But we are a tribe and we thrive when working as a tribe with pals and friends and have a laugh. Your just realising this is going to be more than you thought and anyone would feel fear at that. Keep going pal
My man, your journey is one of passion. I've been watching your channel for years and years, I think the first video I saw was the Japanese plaining video like 10 or 11 years ago.... all your content has been from the heart and it shows. you've gave me the confidence too take on projects that I never thought i'd be able to do. I will be forever grateful for the knowledge and entertainment you have provided to me and I assume many others. Thank you for all of it and I will always look forward to seeing your journey and one day the finish line. Stay safe and keep your head up.
Jesse, I am currently folding a samurai carpenter t-shirt as I am doing laundry. I got it maybe 5-6 years ago and have hopped on and off catching your videos now and again.
Thank you for demonstrating your fears, your happiness, and your tears. It gives others permission to do the same. There are so many encouraging comments here and I don’t know if you will see mine, but I want you to know that I see you, I hear you, and your feelings are valid. There are many feelings and lessons that I want to share with you to know that you are not alone, and sometimes the most helpful I can be is to listen, to hear, to see the emotions. So thank you for being brave to share with all of us, this video, your past videos, and your next one. Sending much love.
I appreciate you being open and talking about being overwhelmed. Too many people ignore it until it overtakes our lives but it’s never too late to ask for help.
I need a passport, but I’ll be on the next plane. I retired and started my woodworking journey in part because of you. You, and others like you, saved me from a life of corporate ennui. I’m there if you need a wingman.
Make it happen. Would be amazing.
Jesse, you have no idea how grateful I am for your words and message. So powerful and inspiring. I wish you all the best. Greetings from Germany
Like many others I came to your channel attracted by your superlative woodworking skills and have stayed because of your evolution and growth! As a 63 year old man, I was raised that "cowboys don't cry" and that "philosophy" lead me down a dark road. I survived and it's only been through the help of my family, close friends and professional help that I'm finding a new lease on life and appreciation for what I do have. Jesse, as a man, it's really "okay" to be open and say you need help and you're an inspiration for your openness. Take the time you need to reflect on what's truly important and act in accordance with those things. You're in my thoughts and prayers, take care and look after you - you matter and we love being a part of your journey.. Regards and best wishes from South Africa
You’re the man. Love you brother. Pretty sure you were my first CZcams channel I ever subscribed to 10 years ago. I’m here for whatever ride you take us on.
Been watching for many years (6 or 7) and have been loving your offgrid experience. You have done an amazing job past years, crafting your dream, accomplishing so many things.
I feel you on the world shifting Jesse... I too have been feeling the burnout and usually find myself 110% going going going on projects but have been toast on finding motivation lately...Buckin's positivity has been an inspiration for me as well as his advice when the body does not want to cooperate, and you shift your scope of work to cooperate with your body and still forge ahead in some form or fashion even if it is less than your usual pace.
From a fellow wood worker. It was this channel and your projects that persuaded me to approach my own work as a journey, not a destination. I've adopted the traditional joinery and tools of the old masters. Outside my front door is wilderness, much like your location here, and it is indeed difficult dealing with the unique challenges of moving off grid. When I hit the wall I look at what I have built over the last ten years and it all comes back into focus. From the heart...thank you for what you have shared, and for the lessons beyond the projects themselves.
Hang in there. You're doing an amazing job and working towards something that you and your future generations will be proud of for years to come.
dude I love the channel and its new direction. I appreciate you being open about your stuggles, we all have them and it's how we learn and grow thru them. You are building a beautiful place which should bring many happy memories for you and your family.. Take some breaks, ask for help, but respect the process. I appreciate the content greatly, hang in there, enjoy the seasons, they are all for our good.
I have always appreciated your craft, your humour but also your honesty. Keep doing what you're doing, but be gentle with yourself - it takes a village.
I feel you man!! It’s normal to feel overwhelmed, you have done so much on this property and what you have done is so great so far. You put pride in your work I think personally you are living the dream, a dream that most of us can only dream of but you are living it everyday and your family is experiencing it too. What you do is amazing. All the greatest things in life takes effort and time. Enjoy every single bit of this amazing journey. I would go help tomorrow if I didn’t live that far. Personally that’s who I am, i do a lot by my self just like you and I am always ready to go help friends and family. Life is about building!! Keep your head up Jess. The future is great!
I’m reminded of two things:
1) A friend in need is a friend indeed. Your comment about men being raised to not be a burden spoke to me on a level I wasn’t expecting. I’m telling you now - anyone who’s in a position to come out and help, doesn’t want anything in return but lasting friendship.
2) When anyone mentions “offgridding,” I always think of the pioneers who set out from the cities of the east coast, for a new life. They had no idea what they’d face; many died in the effort but even then they pushed on. Why?? They felt there was no choice. So where is your head in that context? Do you want it badly enough that you have no choice? Only you can know. When you have a choice, there’s no shame in turning back.
It seems to me you’ve already created the basics that are needed to exist there - so maybe now it’s time to take a couple of weeks off to regroup, plan next steps and re-energize.
By the way, that staircase is a frickin’ masterwork.
Fantastic comment!
just wanted to write to let you know how much I appreciate the positive influence you've had on my life. Thank you for your concern and useful advice! I’ll be forever grateful. You inspired me during a difficult time when I needed words of encouragement. You don’t even know how much your help meant to me.
I left a comment years ago saying that I really loved your work but that the ego and self praise was hard to watch. I remember you messaged back and I don't remember exactly what you said but it definitely rubbed you the wrong way. It made me sad because I really looked up to you and your work and I didn't mean to come off as attacking your character. I have still been following all these years and I have seen a major change in you and your character. There's just something so much more admirable to a someone that can express there talents and yet be humble at the same time. Proverbs 27 comes to mind. "Boast not thyself of to morrow; for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth.2 Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips". Stay humble my friend and God bless.
You've got a house to build, and that is a HUGE project. Your actual items you've worked on are excellent, and I know it's taking wayyyyy longer. I for one am NOT complaining about the shift in focus. It's you're gig bro'! I support you!
Love what you do man, as much as your content has changed, its still solid content and I enjoy every video that drops. Its great to see people living out their dreams. Its an inspiration to those that need it! Keep it going brother.
Your Channel as long as its gone on for, is one of the most finely crafted on all of CZcams, and brother I ain't talkin about just the wood working...
Watching your woodworking videos was great but watching you struggle with every single part of this new journey has been epic. Can’t wait for each new video.
Hey Jesse, This channel, the work you’ve done, and the story you’ve told have been inspiring for me as Ive gone through school and began my career as an architect. Design and the standard of craftsmanship is incredibly hard work and difficult to handle. I think I t’s really only possible with the support of others around us who care and give love to achieve these goals. When completing my architecture thesis I didn’t realize it at the time, but having my friends, past bosses and family to talk to about it was the only reason I was able to finish it. Having those who are likeminded and those who chose to love you for who you are those who will pick you up when you’re down and just help. I would love to visit your property one day. I’ve does workaways and WWOOFs before, and this may be something that will help you find some skilled help. Whether it’s down in 10 years or 25 years, I hope this project becomes what you want it to be. I wish you luck and peace as you continue your journey.
All I want to say is, you are not alone in this journey. All I care about is the fact that you have a good heart and you care!!! This means so much. Your video helped me and shows that we are not alone.
You are the one of the hardest working dudes I've ever seen on all of CZcams. So you're feeling of maybe not pulling your weight is not accurate. You've taken on a huge job, but you also see the time ticking away as we all have as our children grow up so fast. There's only so much time, so I definitely vote to get a lot of help and get the place built so your boys can grow up on the island. It always feels great to say that you built something all by yourself, but as your needs change, sometimes you have to adjust your priorities. You've stored a ton of treasures in heaven already, you have already earned the heavenly, "well done".
thanks for keeping the camera still and allowing people to just take in the beautiful scene, you have good ideas and answered alot if not all you're own questions...one of the best yt video i've seen
Samurai - the change in content is even better than ever! Appreciate you! Look forward to more videos :)
I know exactly what you mean. I am 51 years old now and the pressures of Life can get to you. I have been a carpenter, electrician and builder all my life.I plan to move to Montana and build a post and beam cabin off grid hopefully. I have enjoyed watching your stuff for years now. Thanks for inspiring me to move into the mountains that I love.
Jesse, keep doin what you’re doin. First time I saw you was when researching Japanese steel and THAT planing film. Been hooked ever since. It’s you the person that keeps us coming back. I’d watch you sort shells on the beach to be honest, as you’d make it interesting and accomplish something memorable. You should be proud of what you have done, you’ve built things on this planet with your bare hands. Kids and woodwork stuff. What more can a man want! I think you’re an inspiration to men the world over. Keep going, you will get there… and the quality will be outstanding as it’s what makes you tick.
Ive been here since the start my friend. Good for you reaching out. You’re doing good in the world and your reach is further than you know.
Extremely relatable Jesse! Doing the right things is never easy.
I just wanted to say, hang in there, brother. The work you are doing and the stuff you have accomplished is incredible. I don't want to sound like I'm telling you to keep feeding the machine, but I'm pretty sure a lot of us watching this series are leaving our dreams of off grid living through your dream of it. Myself, I wish I had the time to get out there and help, and I hope to one day have the time to go whenever you are ready and get some community help program going. Thanks for opening up about this. It really helps us understand you more 🙏🏻
Jesse, I certainly appreciate your honesty and integrity. It is not easy to bare one's sole especially on such a global platform. Its also not easy to ask for help. And to be honest your video struck a cord with me. As men we are taught to not ask for help, we are taught that we must do all on our own and that to ask for help is a sign of weakness. I do also struggle with combating this thinking and there have been times in my life when I have struggled with the balance of doing something on my own and asking for help. Thank you for having the courage to speak up and to be honest. To me your videos have always been more than just educational they have been enjoyable because of your banter, openness and character. I also love the fact that you are local and maybe one day I'll bump into you at Princess Auto or Timmy's!!! :)
This has certainly hit close to home good sir! I can understand the the feeling of being overwhelmed with your dreams. I certainly relate to the feeling of not being a burden, but never be afraid to ask for help. It will work out if you really want it too. You will have more support than you sometimes are willing to see. Be patient and make sure you take time for yourself away from what you do on the daily. Ha, I’m feeling a bit in the same boat, wish I could come out to help you out.
Your work is some of the best I have have ever seen mate. A lot of respect to you opening up about the struggles you face taking on a project that seems unending. You will get there and the feeling will be worth so more from the trouble it took to get there. I hope some locals give you a bit of a helping hand to give you a bit of a community boost and keep the videos coming. Always an interesting watch 👍
So tough to do a project of that size on your own Jesse, the logistics of getting materials up there alone must feel overwhelming. I’d be tempted to borrow some cash however you can, get those foundations in, give yourself a boost and get back into what you love, some serious timber framing. Those Japanese Temple plans are next level. Watched you since the beginning you’ve been a huge inspiration to me, know that you’ve been such a positive influence in so many peoples lives. Trust in yourself mate, we all believe in you. You will get there, looking back at these hard times when you have created your island dream will make it all the more sweet! Big love from the UK
I hear ya bro! Its brave of you to put this out in the open and Im sure you will find that the world and people are kinder than everyone thinks. I like your channel, Ive watched it for quite a few years and enjoy seeing projects that you start such as your old workshop where its a massive undertaking but you chip away with it and make it amazing. Since you started on your off grid project, its certainly changed but the journey is still very watchable and enjoyable. Keep at it, life is what happens when we are busy making other plans! We love ya!
Amazing video brother! It takes a lot to open yourself up this much to other people and you are doing it on a whole nother level. I appreciate all of your videos and you are growing as a person. Live in the moment and follow what is in your heart. Take a break and do some traveling or put your focus on a specific project.
Super courageous post man, and well received. You're an authentic dude, and its great to hear someone willing to share the whole story, instead of just the positive parts that won't inconvenience their audience to confront the exact same issues.
As a Disabled Veteran with severe PTSD and a TBI I think I can relate to your struggles. I often watch your content and find myself just nodding my head in agreement. Through the years I’ve become a huge fan of you and your journey. So thank you for this share. I hope you can find some peace and will continue to do what you want and live the life you earn. Through following you a handful of channels (creators) I’ve been inspired to finally live my dream. I start the Northwest School Wooden boat building next month. 🎉! You and your family/channel have played a large part to inspire and give me hope. Thank you Samurai, I’m sure I’m not alone by saying I’d answer the call if you ever needed a hand. Fair Winds and Folloing Seas!
The boogeymen is real, did my time also.
The first video I watched of you,was making the stone sink. Most of us viewing your videos,watch other channels of CZcamsrs doing different things. For me,it’s woodworking,cabin building,excavation to name a few. Your content keeps me coming back for more. Don’t feel bad for asking for help, I’m sure you have followers who would LOVE the experience of helping you out . I’ve seen this on other CZcams channels
This (the video and the comments it inspired) is probably the healthiest, most positive and inspiring man conversation I’ve encountered in a long time.
You got me as a subscriber with the wood working, and kept me with your journey. Your doing great. Oh. Your “tribe” is your family. The rest of us are not important.
Hi Jess. never forget that people watch your videos for the woodworking content but a great deal of the people that tune in - tune in to you as a human being, feeling your pain and indecision, never forget you are an inspiration, stay strong my man, every one of your videos gives someone strength
I'm an electrician from Metro Detroit, and I'm struggling myself. If I had some extra cheddar, I would help you out in a heartbeat the struggles are real. you're the best!
The view is incredible! Stay grounded and follow your path and we will keep watching. We need more people in the world like you.
Jesse I’ve been watching your content for a while now. I absolutely love the direction it’s been taken. You are a truly inspiring person. The fact that you are able to drop any sense of ego and just speak honestly about how you are feeling is refreshing. We should all do that more often. There is nothing wrong with admitting that we can do more together than alone. I would love to help in any capacity I can. Please continue being your honest and true self. You are amazing!
19:18 it sounds like you've been struggling and feel pretty burdened. I haven't watched your videos in quite a while, but I'm sorry to hear that.
It's okay to feel differently about your previous passions. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable.
As some one who has watched your content ever since I saw you build that first stone sink at your in-laws cabin, I gotta say that your work ethic and craftsmanship have always shined through in your videos. Just keep doing your thing man, we are all just along to watch your journey. I was going to comment on how society always tries to tell us that asking for help is a sign of weakness, and that it's just pride talking; but I think you covered that pretty well yourself. Stay the course, brother, you got this.
Thank you so much for this well needed message. It helped me out more than you could imagine. I’ll be following you closer and diving deeper into your content. Thank you for the service you give. Wished I knew what to offer. Feel it beamin’ from my soul to yours 🙏🏻
Social media is absolutely saturated with people curating their life to look as happy and struggle free as possible so it is truly commendable to hear you open up about your lows and not just your highs. Not to mention how painfully relatable your struggle with asking for help is as a man. Thank you Jessie; it’s always refreshing to be reminded that you’re not alone.
You have an amazing community and I know we’d love to help. Why not form a group event or weekend with other woodworkers/ teachers and subscribers? Give it a shot!! You do not need to pay when we all want to give a helping hand!!!!
I would help in a heartbeat if I wasn’t down under. It’s been amazing watching your channel (and you) evolve. The only channel I instantly click on. Don’t burn yourself out! 1 stepping stone at a time
About three years ago I stumbled upon one of your videos while recovering from surgery. I am by no means a woodworker but I love your videos. I binged all of your videos that week and I haven't missed one since.
Watching was therapeutic then and continues to be. There's something about you and your style that comforts me.
I love the transition. I love all your videos and I'm excited to continue watching as you grow and transform into the future.
Thank you for what you do.
I have followed your channel for sometime now and love all that you do and have done. I find it helpfull that you open up as I think we all feel this way at one time or another. Life is hard and somedays are harder than others I feel for you and pray for you aswell as everyone suffering in god name amen brother
First of all, Thanks for sharing your heart. My wife and I retired at the onset of the pandemic and moved from Maryland to Kentucky. Our dream was and is to establish a "Homestead" and a Hobby Farm. In the beginning, there were a list of tasks to accomplish and we found out very quickly that it was going to test every fiber of our being. Because of lumber prices we delayed planning our Home Build. Proverbs 24:27 that says to "put your outdoor work in order and prepare your fields, then build your house". I cleared knee high grasses and weeds on $ acres with a battery push mower and a weed eater...toward the end I purchased a small John Deer mower to help. With solid of rock and clay, we brought in compost and soil and built 50 garden beds on top of the clay. We planted the garden and canned and dried our harvest. It was hard and there were many days I felt sooooo behind but you gotta focus on the task and just push thru. My hardest tasks have been those where I needed help and couldn't get it. Getting help is good. You are connecting with God and nature and that story is much different that the story of the world. I'll pray for you. Peace. You are building on a different level now. You are building a family and a legacy. You got this Samurai.
I'm currently 32 I've been watching you build things since your spiral staircase rant, youtube says its been about 8 years, and some of the points you made then, on craftsmanship, taking pride in your work have stuck with me both professionally and at home on my own projects, it made me think in ways I wouldn’t have. I never watched because you were the "best" but you can tell that the quality you strive for is exceptional by anyones standard. Your ability to solve a problem is inspiring, and the huge joinery projects you tackled on that deck build, incredibly satisfying. I've always enjoyed building things, and am no where near your level of quality or skill, and people have been impressed by things I've made(ha idiots). I think you've raised the bar on what I expect of myself. Asking for help has got to be humbling for any man, but I can also say the way you put it out there is equally as inspiring as everything else I've seen you do. I've always tried to be a handy person who loves to help people. I don't think I could make it this summer, but I'd love to come out sometime. I've always wanted to come visit Canada, It'd be a bit of a journey, I'm in Iowa, but I've taken longer journeys for worse reasons. Being out there on your land in a cabin or even just a tent, helping and learning sounds like an incredible way to spend a few weeks. Stay strong my dude, always loved watching the things you come up with. Can't wait to see what this call for help churns up.
You’ve got this brother and you’re kicking ass it! Remember that if it were easy, everyone would do it! I am in a similar path; building my dream business in the wellness space and I’m doing it all by myself. So I empathize with you and I believe in you just as I believe in myself in my path. I have followed you for 5+ years and I will continue to follow you in whatever path you take. Love from Texas ❤
You are one of my woodworking heroes!
I follow several other channels, a Dutch fella renovating two buildings in Italy and an English man building his off grid dream in Wales. Both welcome volunteers to help and learn. For little more than the experience, learning and a bit of cuisine. You really have a great deal to offer, and I think the opportunity to share in what you are doing would be of benefit to all. You’ve reached out, why not see what you can embrace.
Who's the guy in Wales?
Kris harbour
Kris Harbour is amazing followed him for years 😊
@@ronnie6079 Kris and Jesse are my 2 favorite youtube Channels.
Dude, you've built a community of passionate makers over the decade + of your CZcams journey. I started my apprenticeship around the time you started posting and your videos taught me to "step it up" and value the work we do.
After all you've given as a teacher and mentor, I know many of us would relish the opportunity to come out, meet you and spend a weekend on your property helping out.
Thank you for all you've done, and thank you for asking for help. That takes strength.
Thanks for sharing. I admire your strength for being open and honest.
Good on ya for getting this out. It’s a powerful and healthy thing to do. 💪🏻
Been here a long time, you have very high standards and always execute on them.
Judging by the quality of the smaller cabin and the fit and finish there you are looking at years upon years of highly finished work. You're right that it is going to take a ton of work to complete.
I work in architecture, high end residential. Some of our projects can last multiple years to actually be 100% completed, and that is with teams of 25 ish laborers on site every day.
High standards in building simply take a lot of time, especially if you're burnt on the project which it is seeming like you are right now.
Ironically, my advice is to take time to yourself. You are mentally exhausted and carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders right now.
Breath, and enjoy that beautiful view you have there. Time away from your work will make it go quicker.
Great to remind him/ US high end quality takes years, but most importantly the pleasure real craftsman have is the joy that it will last for generations to come and admire!!
And all worth it!
I’m no woodworker; not even close. I enjoy others’ creativity because it’s not something I share. There are so many woodworking channels I could watch. But I watch yours, never knowingly missing an episode, because you have a sincerity, an honesty and an openness which is captivating. I’ve watched your journey and the Chanel change over time - you are as captivating as the the first episode I remember watching.
You have a great work ethic and you work hard for your family. I (and many others) respect that.
Please keep going Mr Samurai…. I am inspired by you and the challenges you grapple with.
I think one way you may consider going forward is dedicating an episode on what your vision is for your off grid location. Give us a wider perspective of your dream and what you want to achieve on the whole project - I think it will help people understand how far along you are and also be enthused by your vision for your family.
I think you will find people will love to come join you and help you for short stints and just share some screen time as the only payment in return.
Don’t give up Mr Samurai - we all need help and the very best of us, like you - know to ask for it….
Good luck and best wishes.
It's been wonderful watching your growth over the past many years I've been following you. To be honest, you've always been a huge inspiration to me in every aspect of your life journey. I feel like we are in similar stages in life so I can closely relate to how you've been feeling. Hang in there bud, you're working towards great things!
Blessings bro. Thanks for being vulnerable.
Your spirit warrior is strong! Keep doing you 👍🍺🇨🇦🥓
Wow. 17.07 in You just broke my heart. I love watching your journey. It’s ok to ask for help. Keep striving for yourself and your family pal. Never give up. You will get there ❤. by the way did you find your keys 😂
You're in the right direction, brotha. Much luv
Your on the right path man. Keep going. Watching you helps me to keep going on my path. Getting the help and the community is tricky, just get creative and try new things. You got it brother.
Hey Jesse,
You probably don’t remember but we met a few years back. It was Makers Central, Birmingham Uk. I told you then what an inspiration you was to me and how watching your videos has completely changed my approach to woodworking. Some of methods I have adopted and it’s had a tremendously positive effect on my business. I do miss the old content, but watching a man live his dream and build a house from nothing is nothing short of amazing. You have taken on a project and faced it head on. A true Samurai, no matter how noble will need help in some battles. If I can get a few things sorted here in the UK, I’d love to come and help out.
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you're introspection and instincts are legitimate. everyone has to go through their transitions on their journey in their own time. you are ready for the next path of the journey. good luck. you are a solid man ... follow your heart and mind.
I live off the grid with my family, and I identify myself with you in many aspects. I think your thoughts about moving forward with help of others are right! I also have a hard time accepting help and tend to try to do all myself, but I've learned that even trying that is an illusion. We get help all the time from all directions, wether we recognize it or not. Being open to receive folks into your dream and letting them help isn't selfish, because they would also be receiving from the experience, and even if they weren't, think about what you would do to help other folk realize their dreams if they asked for your help... Keep your ultimate goal in mind and toil ahead with whoever wants to help!
Hey Jesse! Thank you for this and every video you’ve posted. Your work bench video blew me away years ago and have been watching since. After 30 years in construction and woodworking, I still love it but realize it’s not “who” I am but what I do. It was my identity until Jesus saved me 12 years ago. I’m truly grateful to see you changing and growing! I watch your channel because YOUR on it. Like you said, there’s tons of woodworking videos out there to choose from but seeing a human being, a guy trying to make a better life for himself and his family is what people connect with. God made us to be in relationships and community. To connect on a deeper level than just vocation, politics or social class. We’re all broken and we all need help. I’m proud of you for opening up and admitting you can’t handle it all by yourself! It’s freeing to let go of the facade we put up and the person we try to portray to ourselves and others and just admit we need help. I’m praying for you and your family, I’m praying God would bring the help you need in whatever way possible. Continue fighting for what you believe in and continue being honest that that fight is tiring, that is a legacy you can leave behind especially to your sons who look to you as their example of what a man, husband and dad is like. That is the fruit that will last. Thank you for sharing and I hope someday to be able put on my tool belt and work with you and help you achieve your dream!
Brother. What your feeling is our Lord calling you, as he is on all flesh!! This is all biblical that is happening in our world,
Time is short, call on Jesus with all of your heart!!! Im praying for you and all of you guys in this comment section!!! 🙏 ❤❤
Good video. I hope you find a slightly new path, full of support and rewards. Lots of love from some guy in Metchosin.
Love you brother. All your journeys have been enlightening. Wish I had the skills to come and help and will always support your content.
Screw people who complain about these type of personal videos. If they don't like them there's a very easy solution, don't watch them.
Man, I know you can’t respond to every comment but I know you read them all. Like others have said, I just wanna offer my support as you navigate your journey. Came for the woodworking, stayed for you, your humor, and this amazing off-grid life you’re building. I’m quite a few steps behind, but on a similar path. We’re still on the grid.. but we’re out in the country, away from the craziness of town, and have the room to build and create a better, simpler life, and taking steps to be more self sufficient.
I admire your hard work, grit, and determination this takes, but can also relate that sometimes I find myself questioning my own decisions to pursue this. It’s frickin hard! And it’s okay to say that. It’s ok to slow down and recapture yourself. Don’t let life get by you without living. It’s the journey, not the destination, because the destination is death. I know that sounds so cliche.. but I’ve realized how true it is for me.
Nothing here comes off as weak, or “not manly”. We’re all human. And it turns out you are too ;)
Hang in there my brother. We are all rooting for you. We are cheering for you. We celebrate your big wins, and we’ll virtually offer support when you struggle. Don’t quit! Don’t give up! You got this.
And if you feel so inclined, turn on the subscribe feature or the $$ Thanks feature here on YT.. while most of us may not be able to physically make it up there, there’s strength in our numbers and if we can contribute small amounts towards rising costs, pay to get some extra labor, anything helps and I bet a lot more than just me would be happy and willing to chip in!!
Hey Jessy, we all get overwhelm at different point in our life paths, having the clarity to take the time for introspection is key. An old soul once told me " we never get to where we are without help". He was right... Sometimes it's just a nudge, but other times it feel like too much. Remember, a friend that is willing to help his friend is a real friend. By your recollection, It appears you have them willing to help.
My thoughts.. Accept your friends help.
I have been following you on YT since the curved handrail video (8 years ago), although I like the likes of the "Samurai", I do prefer the "Jessy".
I've dabble too with YT over the years, and although not to your level of uploads, I can relate to the amount of time it takes to makes something in the shop, edit the video, family time, and have full time job. I am on the same rock as you are, up in Comox. I will send you a DM, I would like to help.
Hope you accept
Love your videos mate, no matter what you do it’s always entertaining, educational, inspiring and most importantly authentic. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help, it’s a lot of work for one man to do. As always thank you for sharing 👍
I think you can learn a lot from Leo’s approach on rebuilding his rotten boat tally ho. He started in 2017 (!) and only now after more than 6 years he managed to get near the finish line. Project management is a skill on its own which you will need to develop along this journey in order to make your (future) team work as efficient as possible. Good luck with this amazing project!
Cheers from The Netherlands
Was about to comment this as well. Leo really did well to solve his challenges to reach his dream. The Samurai is not the first person to face these types of challenges, nor will be the last. There are people to learn from. I am sure he will find a solution for this situation. However, this video was critical in showing how we all struggle sometimes and that the key to being well in this life is to provide, and ask for, help if needed. Be aware that not everyone is capable to be vocal about this, but need some help realizing the fact. Ultimately, I believe we all keep following the Samurai because of his personality, whatever he might end up doing.
I can come and help you for couple of weeks at a time and also learn a lot from you too. I live in Michigan.
I want you to know that I can relate to everything you shared, having experienced similar challenges myself. It takes huge courage to acknowledge your struggles, to talk about them, and ask for help.
I started my woodworking business a few years ago, but over time, I transitioned into creating online content and selling digital products. I love this work, but it comes with its own challenges, and I, too, have experienced moments of overwhelm.
Please let me know if I can be a help in any way and stay strong brother.
G'day Mate. You do you. Doing things others don't do is hard. Some days you are up some days you are down but keep moving forward and you will get through the flat phases. I have had the same thoughts as you as I have been living past my ability for a couple of years doing my offgrid house! I try to keep focus on the next step to stop it from getting crazy. You can always do one more thing
Thanks for sharing! you are strong! Your idea of this community resonates greatly!
Brother...don't look in, look up. A new foundation can be found in Jesus Christ. God Bless.
The scripture says the hope of glory is Christ….where?
@@TheSamuraiCarpenter The answer deserves more than can be captured in this space, but amounts to repent and believe... I'm willing to engage with you to whatever level you are comfortable... Perhaps by another method
@@TheSamuraiCarpenter Colossians 1:27 ESV reads, “To them God chose to make known how great among the Gentiles are the riches of the glory of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope”.
You are and have been my number 1 youtube woodworker and you are an all round good person. I really appreciate all that you do and share with us. Keep your chin up man, you are great, you have a lovely family and many friends who, from a distance, have your best interests at heart.
Thank you for being who you are!
Aww Jessie I am so glad you are doing this.
Share with us with such honesty
We love you for you and we wish the best for you
We are all going through something
You're right, the world is shifting. Doesn't matter what spiritual/religious background anyone follows, it's plain to see if you just look at the world. Your content has shifted from fine wood working to more of a homesteading vibe. Those that still resonate with it will stay, those who don't won't. That's fine, others will come along. Jesse my man, homesteading isn't easy. Your content has shown me that it's as difficult, or more so, as I have imagined. Leaving society & becoming mountain folk is the current life goal for many people. You're MILES closer to the realization of that dream than most of those who share it. Even in frontier days when possible large construction projects, like barn raising, would include many able bodied people from within a days ride. The community would build each other up, because they knew that when it came to be there time of need the others would come to return the favor. Can it be done alone? Sure, albeit slowly. Getting an assist, or multiple assists, is completely reasonable. I hope that you are able to get that assist. Not that it particularly matters but, I'll still be watching.
Nobody wants to see woodworking skills . They wanna see a man on a journey. The fact you can put a video together is a skill in itself. Just sharing your journey helps people have hope.
I want to see woodworking skills...
@@MRBINKY85 😁