If you draw but stay at home a lot, this video will change your life
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If you draw but feel like you are not being social lately, this video is just a little wake up call, that you should go outside and do something you love doing other than drawing, to interact with people and be more social! Hope it helps you somehow!
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Honestly love this video, very helpful and relatable
Sometimes I feel weird cus none of my irl friends know I draw manga lol
I’m not drawing a manga, but I kinda relate to that. Most of my friends don’t know I can draw and when they do see my drawings they’re always so surprised. I find that occasionally showing my drawings to my friends helps me get some good feedback and helps me get more comfortable with showing other people my art. I hope you finish your manga, I bet it’ll be good
It's okay, not all my friends know about me drawing manga too
I can definitely stay home making stuff for weeks without going out with my friends. Just talking on Discord. But now I go out with my best friend once a week (ok by going outside, it's more like taking the bus to her place and then watch anime) and it definitely feels pretty good. I recommend socializing, yeah. I was an introvert, tried it, liked it. And being around people makes your character and dialogues more realistic. The best dialogue bits in my stories are inspired from my irl interactions.
I hate going outside but im trying to change😭 im 18 and i have to find a job now, i cant stay locked inside my house drawing everyday anymore
The path of a Manga-ka is always a lonely one...
Doesn’t need to be
Mine is not
I always had a hard time socializing in real life. There was one time I had friends I hung out with every week, but I felt much worse being with them than being by myself. That might repeat. And it did in club activities like I went to study painting to improve myself and I felt like I didn't belong and that nobody really cared. It's been 9 years since then.
same here ,i totally understand i've been trying to make friends my whole life , even this year but it's so difficult to talk to people... even when i get along with someone i'm the only one caring about them and trying to start conversations or jjust asking if they're good, i got tired of it , people keep forgetting about me because they already have other friends so i'd rather stay alone like i always did, i don't know how to trust people anymore...
@@thelmaz I don't have a problem talking with people, it's the connection part that alludes me.
Ah! I'm being called out!!.. I hate socializing and going out in general... Even though I know I need to get out more, I don't even have to socialize. But, I guess I just don't like touching grass.
How am i supposed to go outside if i have no MONEY!!!!
Be-
legs left the chat
park or public library
Outside is free.
What you said was exactly me a few years ago. I have ADHD so i get anxious pretty easy, and if I feel that I'm not working enough to ensure a future in professional art, I kinda go crazy, but as time passed, I still started getting crazy because I was ignoring my social needs.
I love the monk mode advice because then you can enjoy other life stuff without worry while also dtaying true to your passion because you still have time alone with it and life experience is the geeatest inspiration imo
Last time I burned myself out I took a huge break from drawing, i almost forgot about it, so my advice for people like me who are wanting to go pro is calm down and pace yourself, having full dedication and being super productive feels nice but it's not gonna work forever, the long game is the better one.
Thank you for your comment :)
This is a long comment but if you'd like to read it, feel free. I'll leave it as a reply under a sea of comments.
When I was burnt out after moving to this place that was very hostile towards me, I stopped drawing altogether and over the past seven years, I only barely touched less than five sketchbooks. I felt sad that I didn't have the drive I had back then, when the characters on each page felt like they would pop out of the paper to dance with me. I stopped buying sketchbooks before I graduated secondary school - around three years ago.
So I rummaged through my boxes again and found that I did indulge in the happiness of art anyway because I did some forbidden margin doodles in my notes. I still have over eleven notebooks kept, full of boring classes but embellished with my daydreams in the corners. They remind me I was still myself even if I felt lost and alone in this foreign land.
I'm in uni now. I still get burnt out especially after last semester where even though I'm in an art course, I didn't think I was doing any of it for fun. Work was work and I was incredibly bored after a bit of designing. I didn't have time to draw for myself when I was busy chasing grades, and ultimately resorted to chasing deadlines when I had work pile up.
I ended up buying myself a secondhand Tab S7 to aid my studies this semester, but it also helped so much in drawing leisurely digitally. I'm able to interact with friends by sending sketches and they appreciate it. I learned to do incorporate a bit of graphic design into my pieces. I blew a lot of my hard-earned savings but I think this was a worth it investment.
For the first time in a long while, I feel better about art. I feel I've mended my relationship with it to truly appreciate it again. Maybe I'll get to reconnect with my inner kid when things get easier, being able to redraw her ideas with the skillsets I have now. I'm nowhere near great, but I'm sure she would be proud of how far I've come.
I'll end the note here. Getting a bit teary-eyed.
Thank you for reading.
Is it bad that...i don't actually feel lonely or sad at all not meeting people (infact I'm more stressed about thinking of inevitably having to socialize at some point)?
Some people are more social than others, so I don't think it's bad per se, everyone is different and we all need different things! Just make sure you check in with yourself and how you're feeling, and don't give up on pushing yourself out of your comfort zone every now and then, when you can. Socialising can be extremely difficult and scary, I feel the same way, but sometimes for me it can be enough just to go outside and be around other people, like in a coffee shop or something, even if you're not actively interacting with anyone else :)
To me, socializing is only stressful if I'm socializing with the wrong people. I don't know you, but something tells me if you were shown what it would be like to be around people you have a mutual understanding with, people to have adventures and live life with, you would see your lonely existence for what it is. Ultimately, though, I'm just like you. It seems to me that we live in a lonely world, and maybe it's ok to simply not care.
I love staying at home and if I don't have to go to uni, I just stay at home all day. It's fun, relaxing and peaceful. But then after a loooong period of staying at home, when I go outside, it feels amazing. I realize again and again, that the world is so big, actually not even the world, just the neighbourhood I live in is so big. There are so many places I haven't gone to yet and even if I didn't talk to people, just seeing people go about their day, hearing their conversations and being around them actually feels good! It's refreshing. I'm introverted and would rather stay at home but I realize that going outside feels good too, so I plan to be going outside a bit more often. Maybe like going out to a cafe to draw, or taking a walk to the store instead of getting a ride, or walking to explore other areas.
i feel this bro, I'm so like this is what is happening to me
Ngl I was like this but now I injured both of my arms and while drawing used to distract me from my empty life I'm forced to face it now. At first I binged the transformers movies but after that I realized I had nothing in my life. It's not even my fault I'm away from society I'm a sickly and sheltered kid and I've missed my entire childhood, drawing is my lifeline. I've never had friends to think about either.
So with this empty life I've been distracted from until now, my memory isn't as good anymore, I haven't rested adequately in nearly two years and I blank out multiple times a day very easily unless I actually try not to but even so I still slip up. And then I hide all of this from everyone who now nicknamed me midoriya for my screwy arms lol.
Sometimes all it takes is for your arms to get screwed up to wake you up from your time loop of a life.
i randomly found this video and it literally explained my whole entire life- from being lonely at home, and using discord cuz i hate interacting. ty for making this cuz it would really help!
I have the opposite problem. I go outside every day but i don't draw when I'm at home
I never really had this problem before, and I barely ever socialize at all. It's generally best from what I've witnessed is to just do different things. Sometimes I'm drawing, while other times I'm playing Pizza Tower or Paper Mario ttyd. It's just enough where I rarely feel burnt out on something since I'm constantly doing different stuff.
The beginning was me very much, except when i get home i don't do it either lmao..
Eh to each their own while I do believe this true for most people it's certainly not all. Some of us have a deep passion for creation. While I may not draw all the time I'm doing other things like refining story, designing, researching. I'm also no glued to my work area and I take frequent breaks as I need. Things like laundry, cooking, checking mail, tending to plants etc. It's one thing to just stay home but it's another to be locked in a windowless room all day and night. Anyone who can relate to just not connecting with human beings knows what I'm talking about. Even from a young age the connection was not there, the only time I socialize is when I have to go grocery shopping and even still my interaction with people is limited thanks to self checkout. That's enough for me.
I'm in my 30's and this scratches an itch for me. I work from home, but the minotony is so great at breeding cabin fever that it's enough to feel like Johnny from The Shining and the woman who screams when the axe chops through the door.
So true, as someone who did online school most of my life, I only ever went out once in awhile usually with my mom. After getting my job at a fast food place, I get lots of social interaction and it helps with the social anxiety I used to often have in crowded areas ^^ even a few months ago I got to go to my first anime convention and it was great-! Social interaction is 100% necessary and helpful for growth ❤
Being a mangaka is both stressful and peaceful...
Usually I feel myself lonely when I'm surrounded by people. But when alone with myself, I feel better. I don't feel loneliness.
I used to not really have friends. Drawing was pretty much my only hobby, so that's what I did all the time. Eventually I was able to make a friend, which eventually blossomed into a romantic relationship. It feels nice to hang out with her, it's refreshing to do something that isn't drawing. I still keep in touch with my hobby, though. Sometimes I doodle her and sometimes I draw our conversations. I even made an original character based off of her.
Sorry about the paragraph, I just wanted to yap lol.
i am the most social butterfly but i live 30 minutes from the nearest city and 3 hours from the nearest market there aint nobody here
This is actually a good video, im a victim of not waiting to go home to draw HAHAHA
Same
Us
I tried but everyone seems to hate my presence
At work nobody wants me around so I don’t really see a point in getting friends since I only annoy/hurt everyone around me
Keep up the good work bro!
Thanks! Will do!
they hated him because he spoke the truth
I stay at home drawing manga and anime from morning till night everyday, but I make sure to have a full day to myself to do what I want sort of a rest day and other days where I go out with friends which helps from losing my sanity. This video captures how I feel almost perfectly in all honesty
thank you this should help me!
No matter how much I try I just cant bring myself to interact with people although I do go out for walks and draw a lot... For me I'm always at my best when I'm locked up all alone, also thanks a lot for this video it's very relatable
I'm not social though occasionally go out for a walk When I draw I normally go outside and just like watching everything the trees and building houses, it gotten to.a point were I can simply perceive the world through fundamental shapes and perspectives even when people talk to me I normally look at there faces, there shape they're volume the uniqueness of there faces how the muscles are places etc it maybe weird but it really brought me to appreciate this new things I now see and lends a certain understanding when im drawing
Yeah.... I struggle with people.... Its hard to have friends and keep friends, even online...
Sorry, I used to have tons of time by myself at home, after high school, I loved it. I don't want to interact with people. I miss that.
holy crap this was a good video.
this help thanks
Bruh I'm called out by that title.
bros alive
im not gonna lie i think ive been subbed for 2 or 1 years i stopped watching you because i gave up my dream on being a artist and a mangaka i watched your tutorials tons of others i really tried but i didnt feel i had it in me
I feel really jealous of when I see someone doing what I love, I’m just wondering how I can stop this feeling of overstimulating, it started when I told my friends that I liked art then they started doing it, to me they felt like they were coping me. This sounds really self-centered but I want a way where I don’t think this way. 😢
Tried, failed, tried again, failed again, rinse, repeat, scarred.
Anyway, you advice is good...but I pulled the short straw when it comes to establishing meaningful connections. Nowadays the people like-minded groups are more about narratives then genuine like-mindedness, which seemed more abundant in people around the 90s.
Not trying to be some debbie-downer, just...BS from my own experiences and don't want to live the definition of insanity because the people around me want to be that shallow/judgemental etc.
Again, good advice dude. Keep up the content. I'll keep drawing in my darkness.
(P.S> I may give it one more go this time..but now I feel like I developed a fear in even thinking about it. Ugh..)
Uhmn… I’m still trying to find the downside of going crazy 🤔🤷🏾
Bruhhh omg i have the manga of this anime and omg it hits close home because thats me, mostly
I really want to follow your advices, but i can't do it cause i'm an autistic young man who hates so much socialize, yet i really want to make manga but the thing gets hard a bit more since i'm not studying in any colleges. Also i'm still green on my drawings. Sorry
How do you know you’re autistic?
I like playing chess
this video was so good i couldnt even edge to it!!! CLEAN UP ON AISLE MY PANTS 🤤🤤😩😩
EYO
I wanna make my manga too but I'm stuck in college life also I'm busy in giving college exams, i want to quit it but i can't. I'm badly interested in making manga, and I've to start making my 1st manga somehow 🙂😁 i daily overthink about this but still sometimes it feels like I'm loosing.
If you really want to make it, but you keep overthinking, you might be suffering from perfectionism. You need to realize that you are not going to live up to your full potential on the first try. Keep making manga that isn't good enough, until you end up making one that is. You need to focus on the action of making manga, not the end result. To summarize, 'just do it'.
you got this, I am in the same position as you, but we keep giving our best!
Bro just say to touch some grass
Ils the opposite for me im vert social i go out a lot i do not draw enough lmao
omg this is so true tho… through out my experience… that is how i feel😭😭😭😭
This is a little too specific (TwT)
Which anime is in the thumbnail?
look back by tatsuki fujimoto. Also the movie came out
@@malboy4728 thanks
Having some sort of pet might work and help mitigate this lonely problem! Unless you have a girlfriend!
social life is over rated so is manga
Nice job 0:47
This feels like a video for extroverts...just saying. 🙃
True
May Allah 'God- guide you toward him self and have a better life / wish all the Best / take care and thank you for this video
I am first pin me broo please I am also making a manga one shot named "Baaka"
Lol this is what I'm doing right now haha