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  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 Před 3 lety +147

    Women, “You are not initiating; you are reciprocating.” TG

    • @EH_888
      @EH_888 Před 3 lety +3

      Definitely

    • @irlandaise5631
      @irlandaise5631 Před 3 lety +1

      I did but I asked him out..however he was the one who got my number off someone ! long story short he was never honest whether he liked me too..and about this..as I said I fancied him but I thought he liked me too...

    • @thebestindewest
      @thebestindewest Před 3 lety

      That's just it

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 Před 3 lety +117

    Moral of the story... WOMEN "DO NOT LEAD IN LOVE" !!!! 👏👏👏

  • @lebradavis8447
    @lebradavis8447 Před 3 lety +225

    The Man should love more because we are naturally nurturers. Marry a Man that lloves you more than you love them. If I do not feel this kind of love I'm out with my track shoes on.👟👟👟
    Tony...you definitely love your wife more & it's a blessing from God.

    • @carrieowens6504
      @carrieowens6504 Před 3 lety +6

      Bible says Love your wife as you Love the church. So thats what God Loves.

    • @carrieowens6504
      @carrieowens6504 Před 3 lety +1

      Some women does not like change.,so they settle .

    • @sheilabrown5367
      @sheilabrown5367 Před 3 lety +1

      Wow Thanks for posting very informational !

    • @lebradavis8447
      @lebradavis8447 Před 3 lety +1

      @@EH_888 it can be taught. How did Eve know how to satisfy Adam??? So you don't have the skills to nurture? Just say that!!!

    • @lebradavis8447
      @lebradavis8447 Před 3 lety +2

      @@EH_888 see... You just missed the whole point it went over your head. We talkn bout love and you want to micromanage my comment cuz you lacking in life? Girl bye go kick rocks.

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 Před 3 lety +71

    I was told by older ppl whn I was younger "only marry a man that loves you more than you love him"...smh

    • @justbu3797
      @justbu3797 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too

    • @movingforward2711
      @movingforward2711 Před 3 lety +1

      Same here

    • @TARLEASE02
      @TARLEASE02 Před 3 lety +7

      Same here. I asked an elder coworker years ago what the secret was to her 30 year marriage and she said "marry a man who loves you a little more than you love him". I was so young then took me years to fully get it. Great advice.

  • @c.l.9344
    @c.l.9344 Před 3 lety +70

    My Mom always told me a man should love you more than you love him. I think if you're the game changer, he'll love you more. If you're the placeholder, he won't love you more.

  • @Lovergirlstudiio
    @Lovergirlstudiio Před 3 lety +159

    This is what I hear men call “simping” , it’s concerning. But this video brought clarity to me, we need fathers like this. There’s something pure and peaceful about how Tony teaches, you can’t fake this. This is wisdom.

    • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
      @AllThingsTiffanyTV Před 3 lety +12

      My ex husband said the same thing to me. He said “oh you want a simp”…. I said if that’s what you call it then yes. He then said “well that ain’t me”.. i said precisely!!!

    • @Lovergirlstudiio
      @Lovergirlstudiio Před 3 lety

      @Jewel Dazzle oh yes I seen it and posted it on ig 😄

    • @msprettykawaii950
      @msprettykawaii950 Před 3 lety +1

      Theres a guy who simps for me but as a single mom, Im still careful in trusting again

    • @nenisguevaragomez8122
      @nenisguevaragomez8122 Před 2 lety

      @@msprettykawaii950 that's intelligent of you. Go step by step, don't run.

    • @NevvaSatisfydd
      @NevvaSatisfydd Před rokem

      ABSOLUTELY!!! ...he is definitely a BOLD Public rarity that many Men are too afraid/shy to reveal!

  • @gretasfaith
    @gretasfaith Před 3 lety +182

    I totally agree with you. A man should definitely lead in love. Well said Tony.

  • @je39981
    @je39981 Před 3 lety +141

    Yes, I believe a man should love more. From my dating experiences i've noticed when I was interested in the man more it was me getting the short in of the stick. When a man likes me more its like 'Wow, this is quite interesting to see." It's nice to not feel like a fool anymore and allow the man to show his interests. It's not that I'm not interested but we're on the same page.

    • @Nekole1
      @Nekole1 Před 3 lety +1

      Well said!

    • @aaliyahs9594
      @aaliyahs9594 Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly!!! And my mom would tell me the same thing

    • @kasketbase8741
      @kasketbase8741 Před 3 měsíci

      I’m just a girl who loves hard. I guess that’s why I’ll be lonely forever unless I settle for some random creep in my DMs 🫠

  • @peacefullove2078
    @peacefullove2078 Před 3 lety +47

    Chivalry and faithfulness. He is out there. Don't settle sisters until he finds you. Thank you Mr. Gaskins.

  • @y.m.6667
    @y.m.6667 Před 3 lety +80

    If more men praised their wives, girlfriends and partners, u believe there would be more happy homes, and less divorce .

    • @EH_888
      @EH_888 Před 3 lety +3

      Probably so! It's so rare though unfortunately.

    • @y.m.6667
      @y.m.6667 Před 3 lety +1

      @@EH_888 Unfortunately.

    • @jerushadowdy7094
      @jerushadowdy7094 Před 3 lety

      Because everyone wants the praise for themself

    • @thebestindewest
      @thebestindewest Před 3 lety

      Very true and people would not seek attention from the outside

    • @professionallydramatic
      @professionallydramatic Před rokem

      They too busy praising niggas with money 😂

  • @sofiarangel1315
    @sofiarangel1315 Před 3 lety +41

    Trust me, you can always see it on a woman’s face when she is miserable in a marriage. And the opposite is the same. You can see when a man treats his wife well. At my former job, the spouses of employees came in for their flu shots. One of the mangers wife came in, he met her at the door and took her to the flu place, then walked her back to the door when she was done. He gave her a kiss when she left. She looked like she was on cloud nine the whole time. So that’s how I knew it wasn’t an act. You can tell that he treats her well in private and public.

  • @evolved93
    @evolved93 Před 3 lety +52

    *Let him love you a little more than you love him* 💯

  • @micheleantoinette8072
    @micheleantoinette8072 Před 3 lety +35

    I came to this understanding very early in life, in relationships where the woman loves more--- she gets screwed over--- but when men love more it's more successful because she appreciates it/him more.

  • @judydesvignes9195
    @judydesvignes9195 Před 3 lety +50

    I totally believe a man should love more. It is after all the only way a woman falls in love but he has to be genuingly consistant for a woman to become submissive and really open up to him and give him her all.

  • @hairwegomobile4661
    @hairwegomobile4661 Před 3 lety +77

    “He needs to be showing, giving, and expressing love. Then you reciprocate on your level of love.”
    Wow. You hit the bullseye with this one Tony!
    Amazing how it feels as though you’re speaking to me personally!
    Thank you so much, going to reciprocate, not initiate.
    “Actions need to represent love, not just saying the word.”
    God bless. Keep the content coming 🙌🏼

  • @TaraTheBeauty
    @TaraTheBeauty Před 3 lety +24

    Tony is preaching today hunny. When he said he had to fill his wife up with love and affection & when he did she was no longer pulling from a place of lack. I felt that! I can totally relate.
    I never comment but thanks tony for all your guidance. I’m 26 and I’ve been watching you for a while now. Your like the dad I never had but way younger lol

  • @Mali-fm3rc
    @Mali-fm3rc Před 3 lety +160

    He has to be afraid of losing you. That's the only way to earn respect from a man. *Rule of the game,sorry* 🤐

    • @lindalovehearts
      @lindalovehearts Před 3 lety +15

      he also has to have the desire to have one woman. Tony talked about his desire for marriage at age 16...some men prefer situationships, even w a woman hes afraid to loose.... some men will get a strong woman like Sherri Gaskins and not make up in their mind to get it together for her, cse hes so invested in having multiple women, and will try to do right by her, but still be sneaky...some men are afraid of loosing you, and try, but will they do everything to be a good husband? It has to be imo in a mans desire to love one woman. Its not just about her being a strong woman, its abt the mindset of that man. He has to choose love, choose monogamy💯. Some men can have a strong woman that their afraid to loose, but is it in them to do right? or is he trying w everything to keep her the right way? What if hes afraid to loose her but has no real desire to be a husband?...ijs

    • @alwaysjolly1096
      @alwaysjolly1096 Před 3 lety +5

      @@lindalovehearts Then its not love in its full essence for you....if he won't marry you..

    • @lindalovehearts
      @lindalovehearts Před 3 lety +4

      @@alwaysjolly1096 this was a general statement replying to her comment. I will recieve love in its full essence from a man who will marry me...

  • @gretasfaith
    @gretasfaith Před 3 lety +69

    May God continue to bless your marriage. One day... I’ll be able to express similar feelings about the man God has for me.

  • @lisaariottiart
    @lisaariottiart Před 3 lety +22

    "love how you're color blocking right here".... 🤣😂

  • @Jazz.Ministry
    @Jazz.Ministry Před 3 lety +7

    “You’re not initiating, you’re reciprocating” -TG 🙌🏾💯‼️

  • @rubycubez1103
    @rubycubez1103 Před 3 lety +18

    I wonder what my life would be like if my mother would've taught me...find a man who loves u more than u love him. It would've saved me a lot of heartache.

    • @margoquintana2283
      @margoquintana2283 Před 3 lety +3

      Those of us who grew up observing men disrespect and brutalize our mothers must spend time repairing ourselves. This kind of role modeling is so damaging. We see a dysfunctional relationship and that behavior is normalized. We develop a comfort zone around it. We grow up not understanding how a good man shows a woman love. We see in abusive male-female interaction a woman oftentimes placating her man. We see her having low expectations of being shown kindness and respect. Our idea of what we should give a man emotionally is influenced by watching scenarios where mom needed to beg for love. Because she was in a role of being reliant on a man, often in servitude to him, dependant on him and unhealthily bonded with him . . . her idea of loving a man equates to pleasing him at all costs, while expecting little of him. She does a lot to keep him happy because his displeasure results in anger and insults, even beatings.

  • @noeliagimenezmora4734
    @noeliagimenezmora4734 Před 3 lety +34

    Makes sense 100%
    Society is so unsensitive and superficial nowadays that it does not understand love anymore

  • @jocelynwilson9243
    @jocelynwilson9243 Před 3 lety +38

    Whew, I love it when you say you brought her out of the negative and out her into overflow...That part🙌🏾💯

  • @CarmenLifeCoach
    @CarmenLifeCoach Před 3 lety +27

    Great description of how love should be and also of how grown boys mistreat women, make them feel less than so that they can obtain more without deserving. If you are a woman who loves fully, with all your being, you will give the highest level of love. BUT when you are also a woman with self-love, you won't ever accept anything less than the same highest level of love that you give. So love yourself and that will make you get distance from those who try to get you cheaper and draw you closer to those who value you at your real worth, it will make you wait for the man to lead in love, prove his feelings with actions before you do the same.

  • @Amorantasia1
    @Amorantasia1 Před 3 lety +73

    Hey hey, Tony gang here early for this Gospel 🙌🏾😂

  • @mrsjade30
    @mrsjade30 Před 3 lety +28

    It’s silly how men are truly afraid to LOVE a woman. Like come on, just LIVE FULLY and open your heart! It’s not that scary! Sh*t...YOLO. 💀💀😂🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @mdoingme
    @mdoingme Před 3 lety +13

    A man needs to learn how to love his Self more, then, he can love someone else, better. Because, right now, it looks like everybody's running around, mad crazy, trying to find "love" through what's going on between their legs. ✋🏾 That ain't it.

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter Před 3 lety +37

    This makes so much sense. Let a man lead in love. Reminds me of a CZcams video I did about Why You Should Match Someone’s Energy, basically talking about the same thing. You’ll never misunderstand how a person feels about you when you do this. You’re on a roll with these videos Tony!💕

  • @ssavanahhh_
    @ssavanahhh_ Před 3 lety +13

    yes, a video bright and early for me at work

  • @BrittnePtheBestGirl
    @BrittnePtheBestGirl Před 3 lety +28

    Come on na Tony, only this wisdom can be had by someone who is Blessed and Graced by God. Tony you are a man of God period.I wish all men would just take the time and really listen to what you have to say. This message is almost brining me to tears. It's really deep one you deeply comprehend it. Bless you T. Big brother Tony.

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 Před 3 lety +16

    Bro Tony I wish more men were honest like you that if they don't want the woman to just let the woman gonna about her business.

  • @kw3870
    @kw3870 Před 3 lety +11

    Definitely. Just read the title and no that's facts. I vowed to never give as much of myself more than a man is not willing.

  • @coachgloriann5937
    @coachgloriann5937 Před 3 lety +60

    The bible commands wives to respect their husbands. This means revering, admiring and honoring their husbands. A good wife values her husband's opinions, admires his values and character, and is considerate of his needs, but I haven't seen yet in the bible where it says to love the husband. But the bible clearly tells the man to love the woman. Please prove me incorrect if you find it in the bible. thank you.

    • @agadonk
      @agadonk Před 3 lety +8

      You said it 🎯

    • @jessicagbname
      @jessicagbname Před 3 lety +1

      Spot on observation !

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Před 3 lety +10

      You are right sis, its the lack of training from our mother's that has thrown us to the wolves of society to be our teachers.
      Men do not thrive when they receive love from their wives. They either wilt or become rebels. Our love should be held close and only given in increments.
      We like to complicate things as women. Our quest to be adored vs honoured by our husbands is doing a disservice to us.
      Focus on respect ladies and your marriage will be filled with peace.

    • @truthseeker3967
      @truthseeker3967 Před 3 lety +1

      Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger WOMEN TO LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS and children ...... (Titus 2:3-4)

  • @girlwakeuppodcast4622
    @girlwakeuppodcast4622 Před 3 lety +34

    "I Want To Max Out On My Wife" Talk that TALK Tony G.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 Před 3 lety +17

    Yes to overflow in all areas of life for the rest of our lives 🙌🏾🤍🙌🏾
    We all deserve a love like that and it starts within💯

  • @tribeofjudah7777
    @tribeofjudah7777 Před 3 lety +11

    You are a father to the fatherless. You definitely have the attributes of the Most High. Thank you so much for all that you do and for enduring until the end. 🙌🏾👏🏾✊🏾

  • @terikabrown1853
    @terikabrown1853 Před 3 lety +6

    My problem was always feeling like I loved a man more, and to see it was bc I was leading in love. Not doing that anymore, a man will have to lead me in love!

  • @angelicagarcia3529
    @angelicagarcia3529 Před 2 lety +6

    The way you talk about your wife, I feel like I’m hearing my boyfriend talk about me. You are right, it makes a difference when both sides are healthy and loving toward eachother. I wish there was more content like yours in social media because every time I see toxic material it makes me sick to my stomach. Keep preaching because people need to know what is possible and what is healthy love. Blessings to you and your marriage. ❤️

  • @blairecoombs4082
    @blairecoombs4082 Před 3 lety +2

    Makes perfect sense. Well said. Thank you.

  • @mjones9627
    @mjones9627 Před 3 lety +14

    Good God! When God uses people to talk to you!!

  • @bcallhoum7269
    @bcallhoum7269 Před 3 lety +3

    This is what I felt intuitively, too. Thank you for breaking this saying down with so much clarity!

  • @katrinaandersonward5938
    @katrinaandersonward5938 Před 3 lety +1

    Makes perfect sense. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and interpretation.

  • @BrittnePtheBestGirl
    @BrittnePtheBestGirl Před 3 lety +4

    You made complete sense Tony. All the day all the time.

  • @natashablessed410
    @natashablessed410 Před 3 lety +1

    Your wisdom really shines a light on the things we all need to work on

  • @conniekirventhecomebackque1445

    You made perfect sense Tony. Be blessed.

  • @tanialopez9950
    @tanialopez9950 Před 3 lety +3

    Makes perfect sense! You are affirming what I always felt in my heart. Thank you.

  • @DanielleM823
    @DanielleM823 Před 3 lety +4

    I’m learning so much from you! God bless you! ❤️

  • @kmac5822
    @kmac5822 Před 3 lety +1

    You just made me cry Tony. I am sharing this now sir. Thank you so much!🥰💓💖😊🙃

  • @poppysunshine3228
    @poppysunshine3228 Před 3 lety +1

    Absolutely amazing! Thanks for breaking down this concept of who should love more.

  • @blissreframed1681
    @blissreframed1681 Před 3 lety +6

    When a person's heart is good And pure, the level of love they can give is limitless! If a person, man or woman, rations out their love to you, you may need to question That "love".

    • @VicToria-sd1dn
      @VicToria-sd1dn Před 3 lety +2

      You are so right. All the comments I see here arw so detached from reality. They forget that when it comes to practical aspects it doesn't always happen according to what they are writing/expressing here.

  • @konthegollc6747
    @konthegollc6747 Před 3 lety +2

    Good Morning @TonyGaskins VA love Thank you for everything that you provide us with -knowledge

  • @SoulDxpe
    @SoulDxpe Před 3 lety

    Thank you for sharing your time to educate us, Mr. Tony. You are appreciated!

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 Před 3 lety

    Tony It makes total sense to me what you are saying and you’re doing a great job spelling it out.
    Be blessed! 👏🏼💯

  • @pearladu6381
    @pearladu6381 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you Tony, as always you are on point. You have impacted my life greatly by sharing your life and relationship journey . Bless you

  • @centralcaliforniagirl1194

    Tony, this was very clear and understandable. THANK YOU!

  • @alifeofjoy29
    @alifeofjoy29 Před 3 lety +3

    Your analogy of the depositing and withdrawing irt your partner's "love bank" is excellent! Bless Coach!

  • @judydesvignes9195
    @judydesvignes9195 Před 3 lety +6

    Tony i totally agree with everything you said. It,s such a beautiful thing when two people could begin to love on the same level! It,s like two seperate people become one.
    Awesome!

  • @patriziastraubhaar6422
    @patriziastraubhaar6422 Před 3 lety +3

    Such a good video again! Thank you Tony!

  • @Scorpio-ug1pt
    @Scorpio-ug1pt Před 3 lety +1

    You are teaching Tony! This is so good!

  • @AudioRevelation144Hz
    @AudioRevelation144Hz Před 3 lety +5

    God Bless you, your wife, family and businesses Tony 🙏 Amazing video. I shared this. You are a role model for Men. 😇🙌🙏👐❤️🕊️

  • @2cuteemari
    @2cuteemari Před 3 lety +13

    I’ve been watching Tony videos for a couple of years and I’m just now starting to understand real love.❤️✨

  • @tonyaharper6342
    @tonyaharper6342 Před 3 lety +2

    I appreciate your insight it's always 💯💯💯👏👏👏👏.
    Perfect Timing and stop doubting your gifts. We're truly grateful for you letting us into your life as well. Your wife deserves You. 😇

  • @sharonkeggins290
    @sharonkeggins290 Před 3 lety +6

    “A full love account” That’s awesome Queen Sheri! A beautiful place to be and beautiful to receive! Lord if all people on this tribe really hears this what a wonderful world this would be! Love begets love! I love this! Be blessed 🙏💕

  • @prettybold3990
    @prettybold3990 Před 3 lety

    This gave me so much understanding. Great teaching Tony.

  • @beatriceruttagah6305
    @beatriceruttagah6305 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank You Tony! This just lets me know how a man should show up in my life.

  • @pristineparr7509
    @pristineparr7509 Před 3 lety +1

    Excellent commentary as always Tony! This is an important topic that requires balance and maturity to understand.

  • @candyrushascendedphoenix8

    Put up or shut up is right Tony..not necessarily meaning material things but pursuing and showing that he wants you. Communication is so important. Really good word Tony

  • @anniejones2738
    @anniejones2738 Před rokem

    Oh my goodness Tony this was so good. Thank you so much for this. It is so true. The gentleman currently courting me is definitely leading in love and the opportunities I get to reciprocate are nice. Let's see how this grows in time.

  • @jerushadowdy7094
    @jerushadowdy7094 Před 3 lety +8

    This is a really good message Tony because it will help me recognize a narcissist real quick... I cannot survive another encounter with one Thank u 👏👏

  • @oshun2866
    @oshun2866 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for much needed clarification.

  • @cenahypolite10
    @cenahypolite10 Před 3 lety

    I love love love your message and also love the way you love your wife I hope a lot of men listen to you and start following your advice the world will be in better place 💯👍

  • @veelove2226
    @veelove2226 Před 3 lety +8

    Tony had some jewels in here! I agree completely the man should lead in love. When I say this was such a beautiful video, it’s beautiful that Tony is saying his wife is loving him on another level! I want to add when Tony says he gets excited on his dates, I believe him, when they did the video together promoting the book, he was just blushing, I love to see it! It gives me hope, and it lets me know it’s not to late for anyone! Blessings Tony to you and the Queen🙏🏾

  • @StarCoachStephanie
    @StarCoachStephanie Před 3 lety +4

    Well said….women and men both have to be patient with helping each other heal and love each other UPWARDS of the pain. The work will pay off….the value? Priceless

  • @leandraherring1824
    @leandraherring1824 Před 3 lety +1

    Yess I needed that confirm on every level!!!!

  • @arawheaton
    @arawheaton Před 3 lety +3

    Tony, this video brought tears to my eyes. My mother always told me a man should love you more..and I never understood what she truly meant until I listened to this video. Thank you ❤

  • @aprilg3819
    @aprilg3819 Před 3 lety

    Since the very definition of being a parent is both a noun and a verb, I would like to thank you for being both! The daughters of our community appreciate YOU the most, 100% We must give credit where it is truly deserved as well as long overdue. Hopefully, your legacy will continue for our future generations, both sons & daughters alike...Have the Best Father's Day ever, Tony!!!

  • @JMIAM2MYDAD
    @JMIAM2MYDAD Před 3 lety

    Ooh you touch my spirit !!!!!!!!!!!thank you thank you Mr. Gaskins you let GOD use you on this one 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lelice87
    @lelice87 Před 3 lety +1

    God bless you Tony! Thank you ! ❤️

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 Před 3 lety +1

    Well said, Tony this is awesome!!!

  • @patwilson1257
    @patwilson1257 Před 3 lety +11

    Man Is the head. (According to God)
    Man finds the wife. (According to God’s Word)
    Man should love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it. (According to God’s Word)
    The man Is the leader in love.

  • @chancethweatt9851
    @chancethweatt9851 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Tony for all you do! 🙏🏾

  • @deemitchell8228
    @deemitchell8228 Před 3 lety +1

    🙌🏾 Yes!!! Tony and Sheri if anyone comes on this page and can’t see your love for each other....they need several seats and sessions❤️🔥🙏🏾

  • @pg3185
    @pg3185 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks Tony, you made it clear.

  • @godsnotdonewithyouyet6955

    You always make sense and god bless you,you are amazing man with an amazing wife and family! hat's off to you God bless you thank you for all you do🥰🙏

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 Před 3 lety +2

    Let him lead in love!! Looking forward to experience this in my Kingdom Relationship. Ladies we usually do too much too soon. Be Patient. Work or self.❤️🙏🏽🤗

  • @DawnOfKelly
    @DawnOfKelly Před 3 lety

    This is very helpful. Thanks for all the great information. So, so many of these things.. ladies don’t know.

  • @tanyahaiman7017
    @tanyahaiman7017 Před 3 lety +7

    God bless you Tony and your wife and boys. Your doing the Lord’s work and I sure do appreciate all that I’ve learned from you. May the grace of the Lord Jesus be with you.

  • @janiceparkerson4727
    @janiceparkerson4727 Před 3 lety

    You are on point with this 100 percent.

  • @dominiquedelaine
    @dominiquedelaine Před 3 lety

    Makes sense to me! Thank you Tony!

  • @jennifersmith75
    @jennifersmith75 Před rokem

    Great advice Tony. You are the best. ❤

  • @ShiaGirl18
    @ShiaGirl18 Před 3 lety +8

    11:49 It is true of our Jamaican culture.

  • @JosieWeir
    @JosieWeir Před 3 lety +2

    5 languages of love. Words of Affirmation is one of them!

  • @rohneshamhorne
    @rohneshamhorne Před 3 lety

    Praise God!!! This is so good. I’m in tears. I’ve been loved starved.

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 Před 3 lety +3

    This came at the perfect time 👌🙏

  • @anitrasmith9364
    @anitrasmith9364 Před 3 lety +2

    Perfect message

  • @Joshnellyorbe
    @Joshnellyorbe Před 3 lety +1

    Well put!

  • @freshtea27
    @freshtea27 Před 3 lety

    God bless you Tony 🙏 this is the first time in years i here a man speaks on the level of true Love as you boldly do keep up the good fight and may Lord keep you and your wife family 👪 Blessed in Jesus name amen

  • @b.michavery1363
    @b.michavery1363 Před 3 lety +5

    Tony those same women who do all the extra for attention will swear they don't do it for a man. Even though inside they truly do. Most are conflicted within themselves will not ever be able to receive the type of love they desire from a self evolved man. They must love themselves in a way that is so powerful that any man that even enters her space has the capacity to match that and also evolve it. This type of love takes work individually and as a unit. You and the Mrs have a history built on solid authentic growth. Most women aren't willing to put that type of patience and care in without immediate gratification and some men don't even try because society views that as a weakness. I'm 6 years in and it's been a beautiful thing but it has not been easy but also the capacity we are at at 37 is different so it's more of a natural reciprocation based on our love languages and our styles of communication. That has taken alot of stepping away from what society deems weak and what society says a relationship is. Some days I lead in love and some days he leads but all days we are aligned, I'm not chasing validation and all that and vice versa. So I have no problem doing things to show I too as his wife can show how valued he is however I feel necessary. But again this is not girlfriend boyfriend type of stuff.

  • @veronicajackson6126
    @veronicajackson6126 Před 3 lety

    Thakx for that eye opener..I needed that..🤗

  • @beckyvegalifecoach2481
    @beckyvegalifecoach2481 Před 3 lety +3

    It makes a lot of sense !!! 👍