I think you're very lovable and here's why...
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
- Just another little quiet ramble in my soft spoken asmr era...
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As usual your rambling is full of valuable insights and wisdom. We should all aspire to ramble so eloquently. And to love each other - and ourselves - the way we love dogs. Yup.
Both my carrier and friendship life went to hell.
My carrier-i blame myself for it.
The friendships-well, i question the integrity of the people who’d treated me like an option. Well… it is not fair. But i will try to apply the couple of thoughts you mentioned to keep moving forward!
What if we were wholeness when we were born and then at the age of anywhere between 1.6 months to 2 years the brain is capable of creating separation with the idea of a self. That separation causes an emptiness that can never be filled and it feels not nice but regardless we keep trying to fill it with relationships, money, success etc. It doesn't work and if it does it is temporary. Even for the most successful ie Robin Williams, Kate Spade etc. The brain created an idea of a me but nothing is real and wholeness is already everything ❤
I actually kind of disagree with this because I felt a lot better as a kid than I did in my teens and early adulthood. I would say I’m aiming to get back to that feeling state. Maybe the reason why for some it happens earlier, is a lack of needs being met at a very early age. Gabor Mate talks in his books about how sometimes the “good things that were meant to happen to us, that didn’t happen” can leave more of a traumatic mark than “bad things aka abuse that did happen to us”. It’s also harder to spot when something like attunement or emotional care didn’t happen the way it was supposed to. I don’t think it had anything to do with becoming an individual being. That doesn’t cause pain imo.
this video is so nice, love your perspective about this