What Pretending to be a Victim Looks Like | The Boy in The Box
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- čas přidán 29. 09. 2022
- "What happened in that box?"
January 11th 1973, on his way to buy milk for his siblings, 13 year old Paul Martin Andrews doesn’t notice a blue van is following him. Sitting in it is Richard Ausley, a dangerous outlaw on the run, and as Richard usually does, he simply asks Paul for help and offers him a ride. His story would end up becoming infamously known as “The Boy in the Box”, and 30 years later, Paul speaks up about it for the first time, as his captor begs for freedom.
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What a courageous man, strong to have held that burden inside all those years...what horrible advice that therapist gave! He victimized him all over. A burden shared is a burden halved when it is shared with those who love you, give you room to vent it out, validate your feelings. He and the other two victims, I am so please for themvthat they were able to be heard, find a form of justice and keep that trash in prison. I pray that with his family he is now living his best life.
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@Tyrone Yo Mom Gosh, it constantly sinks to new lows. I'm sorry you work in that situation. The only thing that makes mankind's justice bearable for me is this-
Ro. 12:19, Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but yield place to the wrath; for it is written: “‘Vengeance is mine; I will repay,’ says Jehovah.”
Heb. 10:31, It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
I'm guessing that psychiatrist is a predator as well.
Heartbreaking
More like death penalty just for them and for rapists
A child predator should be jailed once. Period. No release, ever. Think of the trauma it would prevent.
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Yes because they will always go and find another victim everytime. It's a sickness
Makes too much sense..can’t have that
Yes , they cause damage to many that lasts generations.
I say castrated but that's just me
The psychiatrist who called Paul a liar and told him to never talk about his trauma should have their license revoked and be publicly shamed
Phyctrist are always getting it so wrong
We'd have to throw hands at that point. The trama was fresh too. I'd beat him and tell him it didn't happen.
@@malcolmxw believe me I have wanted to do that enough times
@@malcolmxw lmao yessss
@Ghost boy I've had personal relationships with two .one being a friend the other being a penpal and both had very wierd sexual fantasies ...
Absolutely love how he told the parole board “when he put me in a box he had no intention of ever letting me out. I just ask you do the same for him”.
That took a boatload of courage for him to say that and be that strong.
so perfectly said
Do you guys ever notice how every single male kid involved in a case like this, at the hands of another male, ends up being gay? What are the odds of that? There is 100% a correlation here.
@@MrGFloydwtf are you going on about? They were always gay/bisexual and what happened to them didn't make them gay stfu dumbxss. They just so happened to be gay but they are the only person in charge of their life.
@@MrGFloydthey are child rape victims, they did not have mutual feelings or anything with their rapist. stop being so insensitive and stupid, boy...
The way Osley’s face snarled up when he talked…he couldn’t even begin to contain the evil that constituted his entire being.
He’s with his own now.
Yeah, he won't need thermal underwear where he's going..
I saw that too
They put him in a cell with another inmate who was a victim of sexual abuse as a child. Dewey Keith Venable. I think right before Osley was about to go out for parole, Dewey strangled him. They only gave Dewey 12 years for it. Justice was served.
Deeley should have got parole.. And a pension!
@@wesleyorange8133why in God's name would they ever give that monster a cell mate?
“He was out on bail for RAPING ANOTHER CHILD” This sentence should never have to be said. No bail or parole for predators, especially child predators.
It still happens. Many just move states in order to escape from charges or reputation.
Too many Judges enjoy children themselves and allow this to continue.
Can't understand the thinking of these idiots who allowed him out on bail. They should be held responsible for their decisions and then you can guarantee that they won't be so lenient in allowing dangerous predators to be around vulnerable children or people so easily x
In 2012, the man who'd sexually abused me and my siblings as children for years was allowed to pay his own bail for his temporary release, during which he ended up committing suicide to avoid prison.
And this happened in Texas, one of the "strictest" states in the country.
@@herelieskittythomas3726 BINGO was his Namo! YOU KNOW THATS WHY THEY HAVE THE "LIGHT" SENTANCES THEY DO -ARE BC They ARE THINKING OF THEMSELVES WHEN THEY WRITE THE LAWS-INTERPRET THE LAWS-& ENFORCE THE LAWS!!
Took words outta my mouth. How many Cops, Lawyers Dr's Judges are caught is just drop in bucket that get out of being procecuted somehow by a member of their "peers".
Look up the "Boys Town" in Nebraska? Or Iowa cant remb. Being flown to all those wonderful Sick F**k's in Washington for their pleasure & the names of those -even a Former President & Im glad that F**k died not to long ago...& guess who was a friend of that Blonde Dude from England ran around w Royalty. & also humg out w a very prominant southern Politician in the late 60's & early 70's. They are everywhere when your eyes get opened -wonder really...how many ppl arent sick..?? Protect & show these things to your kids!
The fact that he called himself Martin's victim and still denied what he did to him proves that he would 100% hurt another child. He didn't take any responsibility for what he did. What a trash human
What happens behind close doors
I know. wat a disgusting monster
So true. It’s pathetic of what humans are like nowadays..
@@29dofieiduhf38 Nowadays ? The incident occurred 50 years ago and the perpetrator died an old man
For him to say do you want me to lick your shoes is evil. He looks like he's a demon.
I am a survivor of horrific child abuse and molestation, and I too chose not to remain silent! ✊🏿
I want to fight for mandatory life w/o parole for all sexual predators, because the reality is there's no rehabilitation for them and many go on to kill,so they won't be sent back to prison..
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They don't even deserve a chance at rehabilitation.
Agree! Death sentence is a bad idea because innocent people (esp queer ppl and poc) can be convicted of sexual crimes but we really REALLY need harsher sentences
Thank you for being a strong survivor and sharing ❤️. I support you 💕💕
I pray you went on to live your life as a survivor and have found happiness x
I can’t believe that the psychologist tried to silence him and called him a liar. He should be in jail as well. That poor young man was chained and assaulted, and they had pictures of him and still had the nerve to call him a liar sickening I’m so happy you never stop talking about it and are advocating for others. God bless you.
The psych was probably a pedo himself.
I can't believe that guy is still alive. Seems like a lot of people would have been praying that he keel over.
Maybe the psychiatrist is of the same ilk as the offender
Was thinking the same
Psychaitry is a sham of an industry
Are you telling me,they found a boy,beat up,chained up in a frickin box in the woods,even took pictures and everything AND CALLED THAT BOY A LIAR .wtf is this world
It was 1973. The US was in denial about pedophilia and sex offenders.
Executing serial murderers will stop them. Only this. Not prison. They always appeal & are released after just TEN YEARS.
He knew Martin wasn't lying. The question needs to be asked: why was he claiming he was lying - and why did he advise the family never to talk about it again?
@@jackspring7709 You R so right. Question has to be asked.
I wd reply that Maybe shrinks are involved in child abuse? or knew the perpetrator?
@@chrispict42 Yep - both scenarios occurred to me, too. He definitely had personal reasons - and he even admitted, (without realising it) that he knew the child was telling the truth when he said that its best for him that he not to talk about the experience. So even that statement alone proved the creepy old psychiatrist was admitting he knew Martin was not lying.
There were police photographs of Martin chained in the box and he was injured but the psychiatrist thought he was lying? I can't wrap my head around that.
I think that psychiatrist was in urgent need of a psychiatrist!
@@twinkle3026 and I bet the psychiatrist that has to treat the first one, is gonna need a third psychiatrist to deal with the audacity of that bitch
@@pyromaniacalmagpie3198 Yes, you are spot on, my friend! x
I think it was likely par for the course given the times. The only reasonable explanation would be that therapists' own homophobia, basically telling the child their role of victim was to be ashamed of.
I highly doubt the psychiatrist would say he thinks the boy was lying if he had only been beaten. It's the same homophobia that allowed two Milwaukee cops to comfortably continue their shift after returning a bleeding 14yr old boy back to Jeffrey Dahmer.
@@twinkle3026 It is common for those who need mental help to go into the field.
I recently seen an old 2011 “I Survived” episode on this story. At the end, it said Ausley was denied parole in 2002, and then Killed a couple of years later by a prison inmate who had been s- abused as a child.
I guessed he was shanked when he said on 15:04 "suddently dies in prison."
That kid turned into a very impressive man, put the monster away, then kept him away, some kids would have never left that box mentally, he gave closure to other kids and saved more from abuse, well done.
That psychiatrist is a disgusting human being. There is nothing worse you can do than call a victim a liar and minimize the horror they went through. Makes me livid with anger.
I don't know this for sure, but it feels like an early example of psychiatry defending the predator, of which we are seeing a lot more these days.
Prolly a pedo
While not being a victim of such horror Paul went through, I once went to a psychologist when I was young to speak about my problems and basically heard the same thing. That I'm faking and that I should "man up and put my shit together". And she did it in front of my mother (fortunately my mom is an absolute gem and stood by my side). Unfortunately this wasn't the first time it happened to me while visiting a specialist doctor. Because of this, I have heavy anxiety when I have to go to a doctor.
@@DarkButz Something similar happened to me once, though I was a bit older and by myself. I was speaking with them about my depression and things that made me depressed and how it made me want to act on it, and she said "I don't understand why that would make you feel that way. I don't understand why you would want to do that."
Had a few more sessions but ended up walking out because of the way she patronised me and belittled my problems. My sister had a similar experience too. I'm sure all psychiatrists are trying to gaslight you for some reason. For "results"? A feeling of manipulation and control over you? Idk.
95% of the therapists I saw as a child in the 90's, that's all they did was tell me my reactions to the traumas were my fault (sadness, fear, anger, etc) and that if I just dissociate/ignore the problems they'd all go away. I was even diagnosed with a behavioral disorder after I began cussing the therapists out lol. Funny part is, my behavioral issues resolved once I escaped my abusers and the therapists who perpetuated it. It's heartbreaking to imagine all the kids who were/are re-traumatized by clueless therapists
how can a grown man pretend to be a victim, after assaulting children? thats disgusting
How can he think anyone would want him around, licking things? All psychopaths are narcissists.
Every predator always plays the victim. I've noticed that in every documentary, from personal experience and hearing others stories.
@@nineteenfortyeight6762 fr, i have never thought once in my life thought of someone telling me to lick shoes
He was 13. He could have made up everything for all we know. Boys just lie. As a mother I know to never trust your boy.
It’s a common tactic for predators to blame the victim or act as though they are in fact the victim
He’s got some nerve to call himself the victim of his victim 😂 and that psychiatrist is a joke
Do you guys ever notice how every single male kid involved in a case like this, at the hands of another male, ends up being gay? What are the odds of that? There is 100% a correlation here.
@@MrGFloydalso sex abuse victims do happen to turn into predators later on in life if trauma is untreated
@@MrGFloydyou have names of others? Just curious to research it.
@@MrGFloydno???
@@MrGFloyd i'm an child sa survivor and i'm not gay.
I'm willing to bet that the so-called psychologist had some predilections of his own.. What a horrible thing to tell anyone let alone a child!
Very well could be. But at the same time, the 1970s had very little understanding of trauma.
You can tell when Osley is asking “what do you want me to do” it’s pure anger behind his eyes. He’s trying so hard to act like he’s changed but you can just see the evil in his eyes
I saw that too.
I saw it too.
very chilling that angry, cold, dead stare. no soul, no light behind the eyes, just dark and evil
Yes. And the horror of him saying he would be his slave. As if his very presence could ever be borne, after what that child endured. It's revolting in the extreme.
Especially in my opinion the stuff he was saying was just weird. "I'll be your slave" " want me lick your shoes" has Hella sexual undertones. He could've said anything else but that's what he chose. Again that's just my opinion though
The fact that someone can assault a child and then be released is insane to me.
He was killed in prison in 2004.
@@mosley3485 Do you know of a source I can read about that?
@@ameliawhite2404 His name was Richard Ausley. His murder was covered by a bunch of news outlets. You'll find a story by the Washington Post if you look for it.
It's good in a way. When they're out in public you can track them down and torture/k*ll them. It's a bit more difficult when they're in prison. If I was filthy rich, I'd invest in starting a group that hunts pedos for sport the moment they get out of prison.
@@mosley3485 Oh Osley was murdered? I hope it was slow and painful.
I can’t express enough how happy I am that Martin survived. Like so many other survivors whose stories have been covered on this channel, he’s the reason why the monster who harmed him is in prison, and he’s the reason why other victims now feel they have all the rights to a voice. I am glad he survived and outlived his trauma and overcame all the atrocities in being called a liar and having to keep silent. You can see how his eyes shine when he speaks now and it’s such an amazing thing to see. If Martin ever sees this, the world is grateful for what you’ve been doing.
I'm so proud of those men for coming out to share their story so that monster didn't come out of prison to hurt another innocent child
What a brave guy. The therapist and lawyers that said he was lying and shouldn't talk about it should be ashamed.
Ashamed? They should have their licenses revoked!! But we all know lawyers can talk sh&t all they want and make up false claims and defenses.
Ikr
Psychiatrists, after all these years, are (amazingly) still extremely trusted, regardless of the psychiatrist. Their OPINIONS are held as SOLID TRUTHS.
That needs to change.
Boomers.. entitled selfish freaks
Be ashamed? Hay I hate pesos too but USA law says everyone deserves legal defense and a layers job is to defend their Clint at any cost that is legal. Maybe no private layer may help but by law the court has lawyers on their payroll to defend the subject since our constitution says we are all intitled to a legal defence
If my son had been kidnapped and beaten and a psychiatrist said my son was a liar and should be institutionalized, the psychiatrist probably wouldn’t have been seen ever again after saying that to me.
Yeah me to brother, calling my boy a liar would be the last words to dribble down his chin..!!!☠️
Would've been laid tf out and without a license, at that!
Yeah, I would have chained him that Deer Box and walked away.
Am I the only father that is screwed because I would already be in prison for going after a relative of the predator
He definitely wouldn't be saying much after I shoved his diploma and license down his throat.
Something I really like about this channel, is how there is a hopeful note throughout, and how attention and respect is given to the victim, and they aren't trying to exaggerate things or expose gory/sensitive torture for views and amusement.
The fact that his mothers anguish was upper most in Paul’s mind is incredible. Bless him for being such an incredible human being.
Obviously I don’t know for certain but I actually found that relatable. When he said that I felt that had this happened to me my first worry would be my mom for sure, after survival. Maybe even above actually
Even after 30 years behind bars you can still see the pure evil in that man’s eyes.
He looks like satan
Demon
ima be fr with you.. Not abt the video ofc but your photo kinda looks like my mother... Its nice! And also (abt the video) Yes.
@@sabx345 thats the vibe i got from those eyes and how his face distorted in to another expression.
His facial expressions reminded me of Charles Manson
His sister blaming herself for "sending him" to the shop, but he tells it that he "decided to walk" to the shop 🥺💔
Sibling love is pure. I hope the poor woman has stopped blaming herself.
So fucking adorable
Omg dont want my 8 year old to go out alone but 13? But 13, 13 is also dangerous?
Statistically speaking a 13 year is more likely to be abducted, tormented and killed than a younger child 😢😢
He may not want her to feel guilty.
God Bless you Paul for having the courage to survive and the courage to tell your story.
Sexual predators are sick individuals, they have uncontrollable urges..I don't believe it is possible for them to change ever. Martin is an inspiring man, I wish peace to all the victims. The psychiatrists dare say Martin was lying. Unbelievable how detrimental they can actually be to people's mental health.
"He was out on bail for raping another child." There is something profoundly wrong with that statement.
I had to pause & replay it to make sure I heard right... Absolutely twisted.
It still happens today, half a century and child predators still get these liberties because the system is built for fairness to those on trial, but fairness is taken so deep that it loses all meaning and causes no harm. When harm is entirely fair to those who have inflicted it themselves.
Probably by a pedo judge
Anybody that kidnaps and harms a child should get life without parole or death penalty. That piece of s*** don't deserve to breathe air. You can tell he's evil to the Core, just look at his eyes. The windows of the Soul.
Thank you Martin for your advocacy on behalf of other victims of child predators who cannot or will not speak up.
I'm so glad this boy/man lived. We don't talk enough about the victimization of little boys and young men. Just horrible.
Woord.
I do. I try and tell folks not to encourage rape in prison on anyone.
That’s because it happens a fraction of the time that it does to girls and women.
@@doctorvannostrand not when you count in prison rape apparently....according to men's rights advocates. I think that we need to take all rape seriously and speak up against those calling for any violence in prison.
@@doctorvannostrand not true.
Many men never talk about it out of shame, etc. I even had one guy friend in high-school who had been messed with by a female babysitter, he told me how other guys treated it like he should be happy, like he "scored" early in life.
A lot of people will flat out tell men that if they got wood it wasn't abuse...There are so many reasons men don't talk about it as much.
This kind of abuse is also really prevalent in the military, like right now it's a big problem.
I cannot believe that a professional psychiatrist told him to not talk about the situation. Omg.
He needs to change professions
Many professionals shouldnt be one
@@redefinedliving5974 I have to agree. Many years ago there was a male therapist counselling a lot of sexual abuse survivors and part of his therapy was to re-molest them basically! Survivors finally got together and started confronting him, reporting him to police and contacting the Maine State Board of Counseling Professionals!
Back in the day they were all nuts
Well now we have "professional psychiatrists" saying people can change genders. Nothing has really changed.
As a child of horrific child abuse and R#pe it breaks my heart that his psychologist didnt believe him and called him a liar 😢 absolutely barbaric and he should not be practising if he cannot tell the difference between a victim and a liar 😔
This psychiatrist should be charged! This is abusive! Praying for Martins strong soul! Amazing what he is doing for others! 🙏❤️
That "therapist" should also be in jail for making his family victimize him further unwittingly.
It was 50 years ago in all likelihood they might not even be alive any more
Just look at Osley's expression. He's still an evil, sadistic and sarcastic man in that video.
Martin, you are an amazing human being. So glad you were able to move forward and have a family of your own.
Agreed, some of his facial expressions remind me of Gollum. Weird, and perhaps an inappropriate comparison, but to me it’s uncanny.
Unfortunately his husband died almost three years ago. His younger sister also passed away many years before that.
@@aleksanderkorecki7887that's sad!😢
@@aleksanderkorecki7887 omg, that is HORRIBLE. Where did you find this information?
@@kiela1732 There were interviews with Martin and he has a Facebook profile.
Amazing how articulate and composed that Martin is during his interviews. That's what a courageous man is. I really hope he's living a good life with happier days.
What a phenomenal human being. He basically got no support and had a shitty shrink yet he still flourished and found a way to heal on his own.
I really commend Paul, Buck and Gary's strength and determination. The stigma against male victims, in the 70s and even now, is so absolutely disgusting. They have no doubt saved countless children.
The mistreatment of male victims of SA is sometimes that needs to be talked about more
Even female victims can dismiss male victims experiences so male victims are really left alone with little to no support
@@razminfox1787 it’s not only male victims of SA BUT men being abused by their spouses also has a stigma too. So many males in abusive relationships and when authorities get called the authorities fall pray to the female. Yet the male has all the physical proof of abuse. I know a few males who were victims of abuse by their spouses. My oldest brother one of the victims. He put up with mental,verbal,emotional,and physical abuse for 15+ years. He would not leave because years of gaslighting. Thinking it was his fault. The only way out he thought was taking his own life.
The stigma of male SA and male abuse needs to be told and change needs to happen.
@@melissaclark6578 that is so damn tragic. And I agree that the taboo of male victims HAS to be done with. It doesn't make anyone less of a man, don't let pride stand in the way of admitting you are a victim of abuse. Every victim is a victim.
I saw a comment about the new Dahmer show where a lady was talking about how this is the reality for women who date , and I was dumbfounded, I was like this actually happened, men are targets too.
@I'm just a turtle the Psychiatrist proved that stigma. What a horrific experience to go through. Then to be traumatized again by a person who is supposed to have good, sound therapeutic advice & ethics, disgusting. I also think a violent s3x offender of kids or adults should receive life sentences. If the crime results in death and is 100% proven the perp should get a death sentence. It's not a popular opinion & probably why I will never be called for jury duty 😆.
As a teen I was held hostage by a sexual psychopath who broke into my house, he had been offending for 17 years. And was always released. My testimony put him in prison for life. Without parole. That was 50 years ago. Hes 81 now. I hope he lives to 110 in that cage.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm so thankful you are here ❣️
You are a hero. I hope you know that.
so sorry to hear what you went through I'm so glad you put the bastard away, I was abused when I was nine, the bastard was clever or thought he was not long after he had a heart attack and died instantly good ridden to bad rubbish
why r u lying?
@@qo4914 Please get lost. Even if she or he would have been lying, she/he also could be telling the truth and you are victim shaming and causing more trauma. Just let it be, and leave him or her alone.
@OP I hope you are well and stay strong
I’m so proud of these victims for speaking up.
You can see the cruelty and anger in the child rapist’s face when he was claiming that he would lick Martin’s boots etc. Thank goodness he was kept in prison until he died.
So sad that adults think keeping silent will help the child forget. Not nearly as bad as Paul’s story, but I was assaulted when I was 5 years old and the doctor told my parents that I would eventually forget about it if we didn’t talk about it. I’m 25 now and I still remember everything.
That doctor needs some trauma done unto him then told the same thing, “don’t think about it, don’t talk about it, it will all go away”. Sorry for your ordeal and callousness shown by “adults” in the aftermath of it. Hope the universe conspires and gives you whatever you need to deal with the considerable trauma you have been through and are still going through.
It's because they listen to other advice instead of trusting their own or God.
That's appalling, you can't suppress things like that forever what a ridiculous thing for a dr to say, sorry you went through that
Who They Think/Assume This Type Of Nonsense They Needed Extremely Abuse In Their Life & Then Same Words To Be Told To Them Jst For Reality Check Of Nonsense Passing..😏
"A Bad Memory's Always Haunting For Life".. Only The Victims Know The Truth...
Yeah, people used to think that children don’t remember their childhoods. Of course, that’s quite wrong, especially if it’s traumatic.
He got some nerve to say he’s a victim after what he did to those boys.
There were many others no doubt.
What an inspirational man, your strength is so powerful, your determination and strength kept this monster where he belonged. You saved other children from the same fate, by speaking out and knocking down all your protective barriers and standing up to this evil monster and telling your story, your bravery is to be commended, and your voice gave many more theirs. You took back your power. You are truly amazing. I wish you nothing but happiness and peace in your life.🦋
I wish I was surprised by what the therapist said to him but only recently has SA of men and boys been truly addressed, and only recently have men and boys been encouraged to speak their mind and learn to navigate their feelings and be vulnerable about anything, let alone something so serious (obviously thats not to say that its ever been easy for women to talk about their traumas either and havent undergone victim blaming). For him to not even be able to tell his spouse about his trauma broke my heart, I'm so glad that he came out about this and encouraged others to do the same and that he kept that monster behind bars until he died.
“Thats gotta be my mom” this breaks my heart sooo much ! This man clearly viewed his mother as a hero growing up♥️
Isn’t taking accountability for your crimes the cornerstone of parole? The fact the monster said he was the victim should itself been sufficient to keep him locked up!!
"What do you want, man? You want me to stay in here for the rest of my li"YES
Accountability, they never do nor do they stop , which is the responsibility of the law, who apparently don’t take responsibility and do their jobs or kids world never have to be victims to reoffenders
As perfect as reasoning could be. Absolutely well done! 👏
The problem is that he served the 30 years…if it wasn’t for his second victim coming forward he would have been out
Paul, Scream your story every chance you get!!! You are so strong for telling your story!!! F that trash let him rot in Hell!!!!! The one thing no one can ever take from you is your VOICE!!! ❤️
Paul???
11:20 “what happened over time is everyone forgot about it, everyone except for me” 💔 what this poor child must’ve endured even after. What a poor excuse of a psychiatrist
Do you guys ever notice how every single male kid involved in a case like this, at the hands of another male, ends up being gay? What are the odds of that? There is 100% a correlation here.
@JR-yg1vy it’s so heartbreaking to think how alone and abandoned he must have felt for years - having to solely deal with the trauma and mental anguish by himself, with no help, guidance or support. At his age and life experience he likely barely had the knowledge to understand what had happened to him and why let alone process the ordeal.
@@MrGFloydso you're saying the dude is gay bc of his trauma? What drugs are you on?
How the fuck does a child kidnapper and rapist even get bail in the first place!?
Dumb law system
Cause 'murica
@@avgstreetshitter because of liberals.
@@avgstreetshitter Not just America... sadly other "civilized" countries, people don't get what they truly deserve.
Laws. Get out and lobby to make change instead of just sitting there and crying about it.
great job Martin. you and the other victims saved so many children's lives by coming forward and telling your story. I am so relieved this monster did not get out of prison. no tear will be shed now that he is dead.
I'm so glad that I found this channel. You guys are doing waaay different true crime style than most. These stories always end where the victim lives! It's so nice!
Thank you!
I'm so proud of the father for calling the cops on his son
The strongest person I know is my 13 year old niece who found the strength when she was 5 to tell my sister that her stepfather was SAing her. He is still in prison today and will be for a long time. She was not his first victim, but she was his last. It takes a lot of strength and courage to speak out about this and I'm proud of every single person who does. I see you and I hear you. Your story is not falling on deaf ears.
I pray for my niece. She told her teacher and the teacher reported it. But they also called my other sister and that sister called my nieces mom. She told her bf and he ran to Mexico. It's sick to me that that sister Still goes to see him every now and then because his 2 kids wanted to see him. AND had the audacity to take my niece. I wish I could take her in 😔
So sad to hear your story. I hope your niece is doing well and does not ever blame herself for what terrible distress she went through. She was very brave speaking out but the truth cannot harm an innocent victim. Stay true to yourself. Regards Kerry
@@vickyandersen8660 your sister is pure evil for making her go see her attacker again, I hope she can get away from her someday
this man is so strong to talk about his assault so frankly. such a strong man, thank you for speaking for us male victims, we are often never belived
The damage that psychiatrist must’ve done to so many traumatised people is disgusting.
“he was out on bail for raping another child”
i don’t think that sentence should ever be spoken again. it shouldnt have been said in the first place. how vile. how could this man slip through so much???
Our system does not care about the safety of our children
Sadly, most survivors of violent sexual assault in their childhood end up taking their own life. Not only was this young man strong enough to live with the pain, he had the fortitude to fight for himself as well as track down other victims and give them the strength to fight for themselves and made sure that monster never got out of his cage to hurt another child. What a remarkable person!
Your courage is a gift to a civilized society. You undoubtedly saved the lives of other children and looked this man in the face and made sure he didn’t slither through the cracks.
It's so freeing for you to tell this horrible 😢 experience publicly. 😢 I'm sure that, along with myself, those who have learned of this are deeply sadden and would have done anything to have prevented this evil from happening 😢 you didn't deserve that assault .it was so good 👍 to hear you tell the hunters found and rescued you from being kidnapped. I am glad that you were not killed and have been able to overcome the hurt and fear of the experience. Many blessings and well-being be yours always 🙏
Wtf was wrong with that psychiatrist... there was literally picture proof and he called an abused child a liar??? Good for Martin and all other victims to speak out. If that predator really felt guilt he wouldn't try to play victim.
If you need any suggestions for future topics, look up Aison Botha. Her story is insane.
Abused children, who tell their parents of their abuse, are often called liars by those parents. Especially if the abuser is in the house and one of the parent’s own children. It happens.
That crazy psychiatrist should've been struck off and prevented from practicing for the rest of his/her life! That poor boy!
Sounds like another child predator to me. “Never talk about this again”. Yeah nah uh too suspicious.
it's because he is gay, people hated LGBt folks back then
Let me tell u most psychiatrists are fucking psycho's that love to have control over what theh consider Weak Minded people.
The fact that this man was a repeat offender & was still alive & free is beyond me.
And being able to say at 13:57 that he is the victim and he is a lyier
That's 1973 for ya! (No better now...especially in places like Australia and Canada. US sentencing is capricious and inconsistent at best.)
@Johnathan yea No true. This definitely happens in the EU, and here the death penalty has been gone for a century.
Second chancers are disgusting
What a wonderful brave man you are👏👏👏 so Human and with so much Sense of Justice. Thinking not only about yourself and your suffering, but talking an fighting to prevent it from happening again to others is the noblest and most courageous attitude you can ask for 🙏✨❤️
I thought I knew 99% of crime cases, but as I've binge watching your videos, there has been a lot I've never heard of. Great channel, glad I found you.
Death penalty should be made compulsory for child predators. They don't deserve to live.
Agree!
I wholeheartedly agree. Imagine having an urge so strong that you eventually act on it, even if you know that you'll scar an innocent kid for life, ruin families, lose your career, spend years in prison and become ostracized by society. I've never had an urge that strong, and I've quit cigarette, alcohol and drug addictions. Pedos are fully aware of what they're doing is wrong, unlike most criminals with mental illnesses that drive them to commit horrible, violent crimes.
Until we find a way to chemically or surgically fix the brains of pedos, I agree with you. They're too dangerous to be set free. Crimes against children can't compare to crimes against adults. Adults are usually careful enough to protect themselves against bad people, but kids don't know how to do that. Adults can also handle mental trauma much easier than kids do.
A slow death at that.....men in the old days would kill him ..before trial. He's a pos ..
Agreed unfortunately it'll never happen :(
@@RayCist. we all should do it together by forcing the international governments. Not only in us but in entire world children are under huge danger of such evil child molesters.
I had never heard of this until now. Young man, I'm so sorry you had to endure this and, the whole time, thinking of your beloved family. You are a survivor and a champion. I can't stand what happened to you but you were smart. Intelligence prevails.
He was 13. He could have made up everything for all we know. Boys just lie. As a mother I know to never trust your boy.
Smart??? Bro was stupid affff
Ever seen the movie "Mystic River"?
@Miss Droplette As I'm also the same age, despite my intelligence, I was very naive (& introvert) at 13, & because it had been instilled in me to help when asked, I'm certain I'd have fallen into his trap. That really creeps me out!
I saw this story and it made me sick because I can’t even imagine the terror Martin is so strong I wish this never happened to him.
Paul you are a Hero, what you went through was a child's, Parent's nightmare. The p.t.s.d, Anxiety, Depression you must have gone through and still go through is Horrific. My kindest thoughts to you and your family and Furbabies from Australia
You did an amazing job with this one, very respectful to the victims. I will definitely be checking out more of your videos 👏👏👏
That young boy grew up to become a strong, compassionate courageous man. Some boys and men feel embarrassed and ashamed when they get abused in this way and THIS NEEDS TO CHANGE. It is no different to when a female gets attacked. It is amazing how paul has spoke out about his abuse. The more boys and men speak out about it, the better chance there is for a victim to see him as a role model and maybe give them the courage to speak out too.
It is very different.. it is the worst thing that can happen to a man or boy. Their bodies were not made for that. 🥺 it is absolutely worse.
@Marduke they're not made to take dick.
@Marduke
The penis was made for only one hole, is what that means.
@@angeleyes86it's also the worst thing that can happen to a girl/woman, no one's body is made for that
@@angeleyes86 uhm nobodies body is made to be assaulted. Male or female.
The injustice of demanding from a victim not to talk about it is downright aggravating. Can you imagine? He was just testifying about the horrible stuff he went through and it was so horrifying that adults told him not to say it at all. They couldn't believe it was something anybody could do and yet this boy DID go through it.
I'm glad that in spite of the fear of his abuser, Paul pulled from his growing anger and frustration at the thought that Ausley would go free so he did something about it. Ausley may have been old but they knew he hadn't really changed. Ausley's statements directed at Paul were so disgusting. It just proved he never saw Paul as an adult. He was talking like he could finagle an answer he wanted from a man he victimized as a boy. What a monster.
Totally agree, the fact we focus more on the monster and less on the victims story is horrendous, not to mention he was caught so many times and let go over and over to reoffend is directly the incompetency of our legal system who should know by now repeat offenders will always get free and do it again, we basically set them free with an understanding that they can go do whatever they want and not pay the consequences
It’s our system I blame when the hell will they get the fucken message and wake up
How many innocent kids have to be abused and killed before the law wakes up
The therapist was probably a predator too!
I’m a female and I was abducted at a very young age..it was horrible..I’m 60 back then is was called “kidnapping “… the police delivered me to my mom when I was found..she put me in the tub and examined me..it was obvious I had been brutalized..but I was told the same thing ..not to talk about it..I carried that for years..I thought everyone could “see it” on me..I felt dirty and like a “bad girl”
@@candimero1151 im so sorry about the gaslighting. Try to talk to a therapist. There are still good therapists out there.
It is totally normal for a childhood sex survivor to feel they only exist to help others that is their only value please think about psychotherapy maybe look into voice movement therapy. I think you can find healing. So sorry you went thru that and we're never treated. I am sure your parents were just happy to get you back alive. No one knew how to talk about childhood sex abuse in those days it was taboo. Many of my friends were perpetrated as children by priests, employees of wealthy family, a man at a party brutally raped my friend in a pool shed nothing was done, another friend was molested by family handy man told to stop lying, another friend raped and molested over and over by a neighbor used to babysit the children, the parents refused to discuss it called child a liar or were ignored every single time. They are married had kids kept that terrible burden with them every day making them feel worthless.
What a brave and beautiful man. It's wonderful to see how he overcame this and also with the other survivors who stood up to be counted. What's disturbing is when survivors come forward so many victim-blamers say "Why now?" and "Funny they didn't come forward before." This story is exactly why they don't. It can take a lifetime to come to terms to what happened, let alone then share it for public consumption and dissection.
YOU are amazing Martin. What you are doing for victims is so important and validating. Bless you. You are a hero.
He's been a brave boy and now is a good man.
Bless his heart
13:42 if that’s not the look of a sociopath, I don’t know what is.
Selfish narcissist sociopath. He believed he was victim for being jailed for life. He was going to do it again during age of internet even worse that victim would be killed.
I was a victim of abuse in 1979 and the "therapist" at the time told me I was not able to deal with what had happened so I was told to put it up high on a shelf and leave it there. I did so. It came down of its own many times in my life, and crashed over me. It wasn't until a therapist many years later asked me who else my father tried to kill besides me; it hit me. No one had ever verbalized what my mind and body knew. I would've died that day. It has been my lifelong journey to live with that fact and it's repercussions and that my older sister saved my life. Please get help. No one should go this alone in silence. God bless
Therapists truly were useless back then and you can understand why old people refer to them as ‘quacks’
Bless you, I know how you feel. God bless and keep you, always.
Sounds like you have an incredible story to tell. I'm so sorry that you went through that, but glad you survived
Thank you for sharing 💕 very well written and helpful to trauma survivors 💖💖
Just found the channel, watched a lot...and the respect you show to the victims is always so amazing. So incredible what people are capable of in the face of evil.
such a strong and courageous man. it is heartbreaking looking at his younger pictures.
so happy to see him be able to live the life he wants.
Someone that would build a box to put children in and assault them deserves to vaporize in flames on television. Men should be scared for their lives to ever do anything like this to children. No matter the desire or impulse it should not happen. Anyone that hurts children doesn't understand the value of life.
And I believe that there should be a separate jail for these predators and rapist , serial killers to be imprisoned for life and left alone to kill each other , they will never know the pain inflicted on their victims, so let them
And women predators too. They're out there as well.
Sadly they are not scared, they are just inconvenienced.
@@angelabennett8245 indeed real psychopaths dont get scared quickly
@@jodiforeman3314 Nah let them stay in regular prison, but let other prisoners do whatever they want to the pedos without receiving any consequences
As a victim of a child predator who was never brought to justice, I am so happy that Martin fought to keep this man in jail. My mother took me out if the situation but unfortunately, did nothing else about it. I carry the scars of those events in my brain and on my heart for the rest of my life.
So sorry you went through that.
You should do something now if possible. They will still listen.
Good for you for speaking up and helping others!
Thank God for people like you
When I see "The Boy in the Box" I think of Joseph Augustus Zarelli (January 13, 1953[5] - February 1957). I am glad that this Boy in the Box is alive and thriving.
this man is no longer a victim- he is a survivor! thank you for sharing your story!
It is so very important to speak up. Just like Martin says, you did nothing wrong. I too am a survivor of sexual abuse. I am not ashamed any more, it took many years of hard work to get here. I wanted to die, I couldn't tell anyone either.. not until many years later. Taking that stand in court, was one of the scariest and proudest moments of my life. I stopped an abuser from ever doing that to a child again. Thank you for sharing this story.. much love ❤️
You are brave, supported, and loved
@@jackstevens585 you love them? You gon help pay bills ? Yu got they back ? Come on. Stop. Yu don’t love these ppl
@IAMTHEFUSS bro what is your problem. maybe they weren’t talking about them, they were talking about others like family members, friends, etc. i admire this person, i don’t think i could keep my composure let alone do that. besides, if you’re so fed up, then YOU pay the bills and help them. don’t go accusing people of things they aren’t doing when you’re not helping either, ok?
Prayers
@@iamthefuss934
You're a clown, bro 🤡
How could try and say that boy lied . I am so happy this man is speaking out . May God Bless you I am so happy he found his voice and really that boy saved himself and years later as a man he saved that boy and other children once again.
Martin's words to other survivors genuinely made me tear up. "You've done nothing wrong and there is a life without fear." I'll keep those words very close to my heart.
I love how he stressed the importance of not being ashamed of opening up. Such a common issue among male victims...
All victims
@@e_i_e_i_broes but especially male victims since there’s a stigma that male mental health isn’t important and the stigma that majority males aren’t raped/molested/assaulted. The world knows women are more prone to rape but that doesn’t mean many men are not.
@@Claireeeebearrrrr is there a stigma that males mental health isn't important?
I was only referring to how emotions like shame are used exclusively for male victims, as if every victim of such a cruel and unusual attack doesn't feel that way. That's part of why it's under reported in general.
Yeah male victims are more less likely to ask for help after being sexually assaulted by a man or woman
@@mr_frownyexe127 How could we possibly know that statistic, if they disclose it?
Why are child predators set free? It's insanity!
Don't like it? Write your congressman. Organize a protest. Lobby for change in laws. DO SOMETHING. Stop sitting there just b*tching about it. You're part of the problem.
Democrats and Republicans... fucking politicians mate.
because a lot of men in our government are child molesters themselves. Look at Epstein case. If you have enough power and money, you can get away with anything
Because the judges are epstein's clients.
It's incredible how long that monster survived in prison. You'd think someone would've found out what he was in for & take care of him
I knew him in prison....he was paying the most dangerous convict in the VSP for protection
I'm so glad that Paul managed to get through his absolutely worst nightmare. Brave young fella.God bless you, Paul.
I was told the same "Don't talk about it". It's been 45 years and it never goes away.
As a victim myself I can honestly say talking about it doesn't help.
@@cincin4515 maybe for you it doesn’t help but for other people like myself it does
it's because they feel uncomfortable not about helping the victim.
Talk about it as much as you need to! Write a book of you want! It's your story and you can tell it or not tell it. It's not up to anyone else to decide.
I was sexually abused in 1978 and talked about it for the first time ever in 2015. Almost 40 years of a prison cell in my own mind. Men and women like this should never be released ever because I got put in a prison cell a long time ago and I'm still not out of it just because I talk about it.
Im so sorry this happen to you, i bet those monsters beings do that cuz they knew is hard for victims to speak up, specially if victim is male since society is very macho like .... you are a survivor
well said.. wish you blessings & peace of mind
That’s a long time… for that person to still be on the loose, I wonder how many more fell victim.
You are incredibly brave, and it’s absolutely true. I was SA’d when I was 6 and blamed myself for years, chose to joke about it without actually facing the pain it caused. Only now 20 years later I’m forgiving myself for something that wasn’t my fault and facing the pain head on.
@@holymoses78 shut up. This is NOT how you talk to a victim.
Another unsung hero here is the man who stepped up and after 30 years pressed charges. That was hard to reveal to the world after not having to confront the horrors he faced...but he did it to save other children. Bravo! All of these men were strong to confront this monster!
Listening to this personal testamony & his journey (emotional challenges) helped ME:
"In orderto heal your pain, you HAVE TO 'talk' about it"
Truly wisdom revealed to my broken soul.
He comes across so level headed and grounded. What a courageous guy.
So sorry you had to go through this Martin
Why would someone who attacks children ever get out of prison. Either execute them or keep them confined for life. There is nothing else you can do.
It took me well over 2 decades to tell someone. I was abused at three years old. When I told , An enormous weight fell of my shoulders. If you read this and are struggeling , please tell someone and let the healing begin. Do it for you.
3? You remember being 3?
@@awkwardautistic I hope you are kidding. Being abused at three one never forgets or at any age for that matter.
@@awkwardautistic some people remember,its rare but not impossible
@@awkwardautistic Yes why? Isn't it common. I started going to nursery school at 3 and it's all still fresh in my mind.
@@cookie_monster_ So if you remember going to nursery school at 3 , why are you inquisitioning me remembering being repeatedly raped at 3 ? Show some respect or fuq off.
What an absolutely incredible man with such strength of character. That he managed to build a life for himself and continues to fight for other victims is inspirational.
just imagine how deranged you have to be to skip a court day for a kidnapping charge, so you can kidnap someone else.
that man is pure evil and those people who said he lied should be ashamed and shouldn't be aloud to revictimized another person again.
Another edit please