This comment section makes me litteraly cry. It's like our only purpose as women is to please men. Please them before by being sexy, slim and feminine and please them by risking our lives to get them a descendance, but then that's not even enough. We also have to get back exactly as we were before, slim sexy and tight while taking care of our children and if we dont succeed it's like we are worth nothing. We get abandoned and cheated on, even though we gave everything : our souls, our love, our energy, our bodies, our youth...Everything. That' s why I will probably never be able to get around the idea of having kids, because in today's world it's the best way to get betrayed and broken.
I often feel the same. I am a practicing Muslim women, I love Islam and its regulations, but often I wonder if we women are uniquely made by Allah to make sure men are satisfied with their lives. We get married, we suffer during 9 months of pregnancy, then we have a baby, we deal with law self esteem, tiredness, depression, less sleep, major body changes, mental breakdown and then we have to deal with relationships issues and worries to satisfy our husband. I feel like our value as women are often undervalued.
@@aissatoubah3735 I am a spiritual person and an ex christian. I personaly believe that God is all loving and he does not want us to suffer, but we humans always denature him. You are free to believe what you want, but I think humans just invented and twisted all kinds of teachings to serve their own benifit and men just happenned to highly profit of of it throughout history, and it's wrong. We are all equals and we are made to love each other without conditions. Loving is to want good to happen to others. If we would really make our decisions with love and think with love on our minds, all of this would never happen. So if you have any doubts, make sure you act with love and choose a husband who believes in love first, because it's the only thing that can save us and get us together.
Ok play the violin. You talk about how much women give… as if you give and sacrifice MORE for your family. Knock it off. We’re ALLOWED to talk about FACTS between men. It’s as if our only purpose as men is to tiptoe around your personal feelings and insecurities. 💀. If someone wants to know whether or not a damn vagina is LOOSER after birth, that’s our right. Cry elsewhere. Not every mom gets “cheated on” and all that lmao stop being dramatic. That’s like me saying “all moms take their kids and abandon the dad because they wanted to “find themselves””…. Lmao.🙅🏾
As a husband to a wife where we’ve had 2 kids together… yes childbirth does lead to a permanent loosening. Wasn’t so bad after child #1 but after child #2 sex is…. different… than before. Of course I can sadly never say this to my spouse but for those that are curious and want a real fact about this now you have it.
Ladies stop listening to men. The vagina is a muscle and there is no such thing as a loose one. Sounds like his wife needs to work her pelvic floors. The vagina is designed to birth our children not just be a pleasure source for degenerate males. Child birth is not going to destroy you. Exercise your muscles and STOP listening to men
Perhaps she didn't do kegel exercises..I underwent vaginal birth and all is okay..one way of being a supportive partner is talking to your wife to do exercises..ure the kind who will start cheating just coz something that can be corrected..
It does change after birth. Not always by alot but it does. The more kids the more changes the vag goes thru. Even women notice it when they begin to start having sex again. Be more honest, Doc.
@joyoustai5431 stitches are done to the exterior, the walls of the vag can only be helped with certain exercises. Well, that's what a few female friends told me.
@@joyoustai5431stop listening to males. Most can’t even make you orgasm but feel confident enough to tell a woman about her reproductive parts. The vagina is a muscle. There is no such thing as a loose muscle. All you need to do is work the muscle pelvic floor exercises. What have you just fine. Listen to a professional WOMAN not a random male on the internet
Are you a woman? Your math doesn’t makes sense cause not even our anus becomes large based on how many times we shit and it isn’t even as elastic as our vagina. Also following your way of thinking all the animals would be visible large, the chickens would be large asf since they are always pooping eggs, etc
This is the reason I goes for C -section 🙄 nd m happy that I had taken this decision… coz I don’t wanted to loose the charm of my married life because of sexual relation a healthy sex it’s a vry important part of a healthy relationship
@@KoketsoSechogela it will be normal soon don’t worry ..I don’t know about others becoz evrybody have different bodies but in my case as my husband says intimation become better after delivery. Nd if we r talking about vagina loosening after delivery so C - section is a better option than normal delivery
@@sabamoon5617 almost 3 weeks .. it heals with the time … nd yes it may hurt smtimes specially in winters but u have to keep that area moisturise nd don’t let it to dry that’s it
FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT...YEAH...I even persuaded my man to tell doctors to have c section...or I will abort if they don't accept ( I'm not pregnant, just in case)
The truth : Passion & attraction in a marriage dies after pregnancy. The marriage after it is a downward slope & a constant struggle to keep up the vows made to each other in their marriage.
Very much correct . Today having a child is a formality , means we need someone behind us to care of our property , money , home etc. In our Indian society after 1 year of marriage has completed everyone starts asking about babies , so this makes the couple to have a child as soon as possible .
Please it's been a long time since having my 2 child vaginal delivery.I feel and my husband is also telling me that it became loose.And he is not satisfied .My kids age is 12 and 8 years .I want to do the cosmetic surgery .Where can I do it ?
After normal labour my husband used to tell me that m not satisfying coz I don't feel there is spot which does stop my thing during sex.. he said I feel it's become hollow area... ????? Now I'm not comfortable to make such relations I don't feel confident about sex.... I feel I can't make him happy anymore but yeah he releases so fast like within 2 mins nd it's not tolerable
My vagina gets tight after delivery and also l feel pain on stichings after delivery during sex...before baby birth l didn't felt any pain during pregnancy
Hi. I am sorry for the suffering you are going through. I learned that after child birth, some doctors will give the mother one more stitch called "husband stitch" at the vaginal opening just because they think this will make the woman's vagina tight as before, which is totally wrong, unnecessary, and causes women lots of pain. This is really a disgusting act, but sadly lots of male doctors are still doing so just to make the husband happy. Another guess of mine would be the stitching wound is not fully recovered from childbirth. I hope you can have the chance to get a detailed check at licensed hospital. If you are worried about the cost, you could check if there is free resources for women health. I hope you get better soon in the future!
I am sorry for asking this question, I heard people say that like a girl yr boyfriend say you cheat on him. What shows or does the vagina change once you do sex? Will your partner able to know that you did sex after a month?
Answer is no it does not women beat around the truth and double answer.. "almost" goes back and then it goes back. All women lie. It going to be loose period.
Lol in other words YES you become more loose 90% back isn’t back to normal that’s 90% and that 10% is all it takes to feel the difference. Be straight up.
@@saifansifat4903 it's usually pelvic floor therapy so the muscles are strengthen, pelvic tilt exercises, you can also stimulate the nerves with other treatments
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This comment section makes me litteraly cry. It's like our only purpose as women is to please men. Please them before by being sexy, slim and feminine and please them by risking our lives to get them a descendance, but then that's not even enough. We also have to get back exactly as we were before, slim sexy and tight while taking care of our children and if we dont succeed it's like we are worth nothing. We get abandoned and cheated on, even though we gave everything : our souls, our love, our energy, our bodies, our youth...Everything. That' s why I will probably never be able to get around the idea of having kids, because in today's world it's the best way to get betrayed and broken.
100% agree. Bitter truth!
I often feel the same. I am a practicing Muslim women, I love Islam and its regulations, but often I wonder if we women are uniquely made by Allah to make sure men are satisfied with their lives. We get married, we suffer during 9 months of pregnancy, then we have a baby, we deal with law self esteem, tiredness, depression, less sleep, major body changes, mental breakdown and then we have to deal with relationships issues and worries to satisfy our husband. I feel like our value as women are often undervalued.
@@aissatoubah3735 I am a spiritual person and an ex christian. I personaly believe that God is all loving and he does not want us to suffer, but we humans always denature him. You are free to believe what you want, but I think humans just invented and twisted all kinds of teachings to serve their own benifit and men just happenned to highly profit of of it throughout history, and it's wrong. We are all equals and we are made to love each other without conditions. Loving is to want good to happen to others. If we would really make our decisions with love and think with love on our minds, all of this would never happen. So if you have any doubts, make sure you act with love and choose a husband who believes in love first, because it's the only thing that can save us and get us together.
If a man don’t love you he is going to betray you anyways, don’t think that it’s about childbirth, it’s about true love
Ok play the violin. You talk about how much women give… as if you give and sacrifice MORE for your family. Knock it off. We’re ALLOWED to talk about FACTS between men. It’s as if our only purpose as men is to tiptoe around your personal feelings and insecurities. 💀. If someone wants to know whether or not a damn vagina is LOOSER after birth, that’s our right. Cry elsewhere. Not every mom gets “cheated on” and all that lmao stop being dramatic. That’s like me saying “all moms take their kids and abandon the dad because they wanted to “find themselves””…. Lmao.🙅🏾
As a husband to a wife where we’ve had 2 kids together… yes childbirth does lead to a permanent loosening. Wasn’t so bad after child #1 but after child #2 sex is…. different… than before. Of course I can sadly never say this to my spouse but for those that are curious and want a real fact about this now you have it.
Ladies stop listening to men. The vagina is a muscle and there is no such thing as a loose one. Sounds like his wife needs to work her pelvic floors. The vagina is designed to birth our children not just be a pleasure source for degenerate males. Child birth is not going to destroy you. Exercise your muscles and STOP listening to men
She should be self aware enough to get it fixed surgically
Really i get loose?
That's why I will get a c section....no negotiation or I don't accept having a kid
Perhaps she didn't do kegel exercises..I underwent vaginal birth and all is okay..one way of being a supportive partner is talking to your wife to do exercises..ure the kind who will start cheating just coz something that can be corrected..
respect women and her body..gods best creations engineering 🙏
Thank u, u resolved my problematic thoughts questions ❤️
Amazing info 💐Nice share 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Any side effects of vaginal tightening surgery or laser
I was not knowing about this 😐 ...
Love your opinions maam ❤️
Oh love the way you elaborate it thank you sis god bless 🤗😗😙
Thank u.. For this information.. Thanks u so. Much
It does change after birth. Not always by alot but it does. The more kids the more changes the vag goes thru. Even women notice it when they begin to start having sex again. Be more honest, Doc.
Correct
Loose even if we get stitches?
@joyoustai5431 stitches are done to the exterior, the walls of the vag can only be helped with certain exercises. Well, that's what a few female friends told me.
@@joyoustai5431stop listening to males. Most can’t even make you orgasm but feel confident enough to tell a woman about her reproductive parts. The vagina is a muscle. There is no such thing as a loose muscle. All you need to do is work the muscle pelvic floor exercises. What have you just fine. Listen to a professional WOMAN not a random male on the internet
Are you a woman? Your math doesn’t makes sense cause not even our anus becomes large based on how many times we shit and it isn’t even as elastic as our vagina. Also following your way of thinking all the animals would be visible large, the chickens would be large asf since they are always pooping eggs, etc
Hay doctor is it possible to go for surgery of tightening Virginia after a Long time five years now after birth
I needed to watch this video
thanks fr all the women info.
This is the reason I goes for C -section 🙄 nd m happy that I had taken this decision… coz I don’t wanted to loose the charm of my married life because of sexual relation a healthy sex it’s a vry important part of a healthy relationship
Had a c section 7 month ago.
Due to prolonged labour (PROM)
My V is loose
@@KoketsoSechogela it will be normal soon don’t worry ..I don’t know about others becoz evrybody have different bodies but in my case as my husband says intimation become better after delivery. Nd if we r talking about vagina loosening after delivery so C - section is a better option than normal delivery
how many days it takes to recover does it hurt sometimes?
@@sabamoon5617 almost 3 weeks .. it heals with the time … nd yes it may hurt smtimes specially in winters but u have to keep that area moisturise nd don’t let it to dry that’s it
FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT...YEAH...I even persuaded my man to tell doctors to have c section...or I will abort if they don't accept ( I'm not pregnant, just in case)
It does not get tight as it was
Too good man 💪
She is a liar. It really gets loose & no more same.
Please tell about the post partum bleeding
Mishti, mai batau
she is just motivating🙄
The truth : Passion & attraction in a marriage dies after pregnancy. The marriage after it is a downward slope & a constant struggle to keep up the vows made to each other in their marriage.
False false false
Very much correct . Today having a child is a formality , means we need someone behind us to care of our property , money , home etc. In our Indian society after 1 year of marriage has completed everyone starts asking about babies , so this makes the couple to have a child as soon as possible .
This is why I'm childfree. My vagina is still tight and wet and my relationship is happy
Not true
@@highesteem2778 it is true .after having a child it's like " why did I marry ,i am trapped now"
Really osam♥️❣️
Can I ask something
Please it's been a long time since having my 2 child vaginal delivery.I feel and my husband is also telling me that it became loose.And he is not satisfied .My kids age is 12 and 8 years .I want to do the cosmetic surgery .Where can I do it ?
Same did you do it?
No
Age kya hai aapki
@@diweshkumar 42
@@tasnuvaluna7021 vagina k liye koi cream use kiye hai kya
Whether married women remove vagina hair or keep it just trimming. In India, three decades ago, nobody shave genital or crotch area hairs.
Dnt lie Ram LaL
Why is she lying ……
can I go for vaginal birth after perineoplasty?
After normal labour my husband used to tell me that m not satisfying coz I don't feel there is spot which does stop my thing during sex.. he said I feel it's become hollow area... ????? Now I'm not comfortable to make such relations I don't feel confident about sex.... I feel I can't make him happy anymore but yeah he releases so fast like within 2 mins nd it's not tolerable
Here both of u have issues. He is suffering from pre mature ejaculation so he has to do kegel exercises and u have to do it too to make urself tight
@@AnonymousGuy12 😂😂😂
Thank u
Very nice
Hey Dr. Pandey.. You are wrong. I don’t feel same.
My vagina gets tight after delivery and also l feel pain on stichings after delivery during sex...before baby birth l didn't felt any pain during pregnancy
Hi. I am sorry for the suffering you are going through. I learned that after child birth, some doctors will give the mother one more stitch called "husband stitch" at the vaginal opening just because they think this will make the woman's vagina tight as before, which is totally wrong, unnecessary, and causes women lots of pain. This is really a disgusting act, but sadly lots of male doctors are still doing so just to make the husband happy. Another guess of mine would be the stitching wound is not fully recovered from childbirth. I hope you can have the chance to get a detailed check at licensed hospital. If you are worried about the cost, you could check if there is free resources for women health. I hope you get better soon in the future!
Omg did it hurt when they stitched ? #Baby#1
They stitch the outside but it's still gaping on the inside. Get vaginal rejuvenation or surgery. Or...a c section! Unless it's too late for you.
shame on those men who do this
Freedom of Speech for men
No shame
I am sorry for asking this question, I heard people say that like a girl yr boyfriend say you cheat on him. What shows or does the vagina change once you do sex? Will your partner able to know that you did sex after a month?
Only once baby women has ,u can judge that she has cheated.
Otherwise women can't be caught cheated.
No you can’t tell, penis don’t change the vaginas size, not even mostly of childbirth do tbh
Mam ,meri delivery ke 7.30 month ho gaye hai phir bhi vagina se awaj aati hai, awaj hlki to ho gai but khtm nhi hui kya yh thik ho skti hai
Thik hua kya aapka.
Ha thik ho gya hai
You r looking so beautiful mam
Hey
Answer is no it does not women beat around the truth and double answer.. "almost" goes back and then it goes back. All women lie. It going to be loose period.
BramhaCharya Aphna Lo🙂🙂🙂
Lol in other words YES you become more loose 90% back isn’t back to normal that’s 90% and that 10% is all it takes to feel the difference. Be straight up.
Yeah, Dr. Litrel confirms it gets loose. czcams.com/video/m1IYR8hxOss/video.html
Yes, it won't be exactly the same, but there's still room for improvement with physical therapy, so it's not always as dramatic as it seems
She fell ashamed acknowleging the truth
@@natalia.a020 What kind of physical therapy it is.Can we take the therapy ourselves at home or go to a therapist for tighting the vegina.
@@saifansifat4903 it's usually pelvic floor therapy so the muscles are strengthen, pelvic tilt exercises, you can also stimulate the nerves with other treatments
Please speak Hindi
Her knowledge is so important that I wish we had her in every language. Since I don't speak Hindi, I'm personally glad that we have her in English.
@@misssecondstar angrez ho?
Search other channels where they speak in Hindi
I support her in providing this information in as many languages as she can. No one educates as good as does. I hope that she makes it available in Hindi too so that we can all understand.
Thank you. I do try to mix hindi. But since english is a universal language I speak more of it.
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Normal delivery SEX LIFE KI BAND BAJ JAATI HAI
C- SEC lifetime can make happy sex for couples.
Those who are sex Enthu they should prefer C section.
Lifestyle pe bhi video banao 🙏
Like a sausage down a hallway. They used to stitch it tighter after childbirth.
The husband stitch? But that's bad for the woman too
Nice analogy!! 😂😂😂😂
agar bachy kay bad main loose vagina chata hon vagina chatny kay liye agar main vagina ko chuta nahi hony don nuksan tu nahi