She's getting exactly what she's owed. NOTHING. You love him. He loves himself. Imagine being with a man 10 years through 2 marriages, and he still hasn't and won't marry you. Tragic.
I have never had a lick of respect for a woman who would knowingly, jump in bed with another woman's husband, IT TRULY LACKS ALL SUBSTANCE, OF ANY VALUE, SMH😁
Regardless… women see the behaviors, think it’s fun, stick around, fall in love, can’t let go, and waste 10 years of their lives that they can’t get back… Make that make sense
Plus he chooses 2 other's to put a ring on it,even if they didn't last he just don't see her as the woman e want to give no ring to.kmdt an a alcoholic at that 😢who would want that kind of trouble in this day n ages mi nu want nobody trouble fi b my burden.😢😅😂
Even if she becomes the main chick, he will find himself another side chick as he did with the first two wives and she will suffer. She deserves it though
🤔 is that really any different than her saying "she's blocking her Future husband by being with him"... they both parallel each other in truthful ways... It's hurtful to him because she wants to leave him after all they've been through....lol
@@zulu3274That was her sister’s opinion about blocking her future husband. Also, is about time that she leaves this person. There’s no bright future with this man. He has alcohol issues. She is now waking up.
reminds me of what the first coach of the Seattle Seahawks Jack Patera told his team that very first training camp of the team's existence in 1976...."we will TOLERATE you, until we can REPLACE you....that's what this guy did....tolerated her, then replaced her....can't be mad at that🤣🤣🤣🤣 (speaking of Seahawks, the NFL Draft is on, and it 's much more entertaining than this crap)
@@suade9940 yeah I understand but Judge star also co-signed on it and if I'm not mistaken the plaintiff repeated what the sister said so she thought it was a good thing for her to hear or do too but in his mind he's like well damn we've been through all of this together and I've accepted help from the judge to get better and NOW you want to leave?... So that would hurt him too... So yes both are still equally hurtful to hear coming from someone that cares about you but they both still come from a place of Truth...
That's exactly what he will do. He doesn't want to be alone and she was his comfort all those years. She's angry because she thought she was different than the other wives
Sometimes the side chick DOES become the main, but then suffers EXACTLY like the previous main. Even if he never cheats on her, she worries herself to death with jealousy and trust issues because she KNOWS that’s how she got him. Then, she’s SHOCKED if he does get another side chick. Willing to fight in the streets for “her” man -trying to shame the side chick for “breaking up” her home. The whole cycle is crazy!
You waited 10 years, 2 divorces, 8 children to end up with a cheater, liar and a drunk. Congratulations, girl you got exactly what you waited for and you want to marry him. You need to get some help !
She ain't going nowhere. To him, women are only there to occupy his time and be bed fillers. She's choosing this, so there's no incentive for him to change. If she was truly done, she wouldn't care that he'd find another woman.
Yeah, all part of the side chick delusion. They believe THEY are special and worthy of the cheating dude. That THEY will be treated right and the dude will CHANGE for them. So sad
It’s really sad that she accepted ALL OF THAT. Cheating on wives-no problem. Kids hate you-no problem. She even accepted the drinking because it was better than knowing he has another side chick-which he obviously has! He’s number one and does what HE wants. Now, she wants magical change here in court. Never looking in the mirror
She ain’t going anywhere. She is proud to be “the main chick” anytime you classify yourself as a main chick you are fully aware that there are others. Don’t know what her hype about graduating from side chick to main chick smdh
This is an irresponsible un- accountable ninja… Like Judge said he’s number one to himself. That’s why his children didn’t come see him on Father’s Day and she didn’t want to be around him either.
Karma is already hitting him-lost TWO marriages and his own kids don’t want to be bothered with him. Now, it’s her turn. She’s lost ten years of life fooling around with this man. Now she sees she’s replaceable as tissue and that she’s NEVER been number one
He's been married twice during you. YOU ARE NOT THE ONE, BABES. Move on. You made the ultimate sacrifice for him...YOUR DIGNITY. It hurts, but it ain't you love. It ain't you.
I see the elevator doesn't go all the way up huh? She already wasted 10 years of her life blocking her blessing and meeting her husband, like she's a goofy. And him? I hope he gets back what he's been ditching out, Karma doesn't play or spare anybody.
This girl refuses to accept the truth. She will NEVER be his priority. It's all about him all day, every day. Alcohol is him trying to settle his conscious, whatever conscious he may still have.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
If He Is A Narcissist he's doing exactly what they do, they tend to move on Quickly before they get out of one relationship they're in another. It's A Vicious cycle!! When the judge asked what would he do if she left and he stated I'll find Another Woman!!! So she knows if she continues in this relationship he's not changing without some type of professional help!! She needs to run 🏃🏃🏃🏃
Wow!! Low self esteemed and value is way down on her totem pole. Let's say Zero??? She stuck her chest out and proudly stated she is the side chick, has been for 10 years!!!! How do you resign yourself to being number 2 thru 10??? Sad
when will his frontal cortex fully develop?!?!?!!? damn the liquor got to be delaying something up there cuz the light on in his brain but aint nobody home lmfaooooooo
All she’s gonna do is attract the same thing. She needs to figure out why she welcomed that energy and stay single till she does. Don’t destroy innocent children.
He made you the main all of a sudden because he looked up one day and realized he do want a family so he’s willing to settle down, which he opened with, and realized you were still there..not the one he actually wanted but rather the one he truly is settling for just to say he has a family. Sis you can’t expect him to change when he expected you to be the same side chick you were to him for years, you assumed position and he is only into you if you’re in that position
She's getting exactly what she's owed. NOTHING. You love him. He loves himself. Imagine being with a man 10 years through 2 marriages, and he still hasn't and won't marry you. Tragic.
Ouch! Lol
It's truly pathetic
yeah, pretty much🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I have never had a lick of respect for a woman who would knowingly, jump in bed with another woman's husband, IT TRULY LACKS ALL SUBSTANCE, OF ANY VALUE, SMH😁
Waste of time!
Girl byeeee🙄🙄🙄 please stay together n DONT BOTHER US😤😤😤
FACTZZZ 💯
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Right 🤨
Exactly 💯
Okkkkkk she dont stopit and go on home lol HA! Judge said she letting everyone know she's retired now
Self esteem is free.
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It's not. It takes work. Clearly work that she doesn't want to do.
Along with common sense.
Men be telling women who they are.
Yes, some do.
Regardless… women see the behaviors, think it’s fun, stick around, fall in love, can’t let go, and waste 10 years of their lives that they can’t get back… Make that make sense
And they see what they want to see
No one feels bad for you. You chose the side chick postion. Now you want to be the main chick. He doesn't see you as his main chick end of story.
Plus he chooses 2 other's to put a ring on it,even if they didn't last he just don't see her as the woman e want to give no ring to.kmdt an a alcoholic at that 😢who would want that kind of trouble in this day n ages mi nu want nobody trouble fi b my burden.😢😅😂
Even if she becomes the main chick, he will find himself another side chick as he did with the first two wives and she will suffer. She deserves it though
Didn’t he say she is replaceable? Wow Move on!
🤔 is that really any different than her saying "she's blocking her Future husband by being with him"... they both parallel each other in truthful ways... It's hurtful to him because she wants to leave him after all they've been through....lol
@@zulu3274That was her sister’s opinion about blocking her future husband. Also, is about time that she leaves this person. There’s no bright future with this man. He has alcohol issues. She is now waking up.
reminds me of what the first coach of the Seattle Seahawks Jack Patera told his team that very first training camp of the team's existence in 1976...."we will TOLERATE you, until we can REPLACE you....that's what this guy did....tolerated her, then replaced her....can't be mad at that🤣🤣🤣🤣 (speaking of Seahawks, the NFL Draft is on, and it 's much more entertaining than this crap)
@@suade9940 yeah I understand but Judge star also co-signed on it and if I'm not mistaken the plaintiff repeated what the sister said so she thought it was a good thing for her to hear or do too but in his mind he's like well damn we've been through all of this together and I've accepted help from the judge to get better and NOW you want to leave?... So that would hurt him too...
So yes both are still equally hurtful to hear coming from someone that cares about you but they both still come from a place of Truth...
She should’ve already known that based on her 10y side chick comment
The longer you entertain what’s NOT for you, the longer you post pone what is…
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Preach
He married two ladies and still never married her. She should've been gone!
Wow. Powerful
Amen
She has already assumed her position. He will marry the next woman and still keep her on the side. She’s just wasting the best years of her life.
Sis, you cannot expect anything good to come from willingly being a "side chick"
Ray Charles, at night, with shades on, in a car with tinted windows, from 10 miles away, could have seen this coming...
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I am ENDED
I fell out!!!😂😂😂😂
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The epitome of youth wasted…
I mean the entire decade. Geez
Exacty! I don't understand how a young woman can go away to a whole college full of men and come home to some loser that's married. TF!!
Girl bye 👋 keep him so the rest of us are safe!
I got second hand embarrassment. Im baffled. Yo karma girl, dnt bring us into dis.
Dang. Bro had her as a side chick for 10 years then said, “if she wasn’t there he would find another woman “. She was actually surprised.
That's exactly what he will do. He doesn't want to be alone and she was his comfort all those years.
She's angry because she thought she was different than the other wives
Why is she still with him.
He is going to keep doing her this way.
Sister, you can't be that desperate?? You were number 2 then and you will forever be number 2..tragic
She was number 2 twice😂😂
The side chick will never be promoted to the main chick or wifey I'm sorry. She knew her family knew we all knew
😅😢😂😂😂😂... my stomach hurts....😂😂😂
Doesn’t seem like a promotion though.
Sometimes the side chick DOES become the main, but then suffers EXACTLY like the previous main. Even if he never cheats on her, she worries herself to death with jealousy and trust issues because she KNOWS that’s how she got him. Then, she’s SHOCKED if he does get another side chick. Willing to fight in the streets for “her” man -trying to shame the side chick for “breaking up” her home. The whole cycle is crazy!
You waited 10 years, 2 divorces, 8 children to end up with a cheater, liar and a drunk.
Congratulations, girl you got exactly what you waited for and you want to marry him.
You need to get some help !
Side chick for 10 yrs how pathetic 😂
He DOESNT RESPECT YOU sis , look how easy it was for him to say he will fill in the blanks. Like your sister said “ you are blocking your blessings.
Being a side chick thru two marriage is crazy…
She is a common law side chick
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 I’m done
New term to define ppl relationship learnt today. ❤ sounds legit.
All y'all go to timeout 😂😂😂
@@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417 🤣🤣🤣🤣
His kids didn't call him for Father's Day. That's all I need to hear,a man who may not be in his kids' lives. UNDATEABLE!!!
Exactly. That means he's a lousy dad.
He’s a lousy man full stop…alcoholics tend to be 🤦🏾♀️
This!!
She set the bar REAL low A drunk is okay with her!
10 years a fool
10 years? 10 YEARS!? 10 flipping YEARS?!?!! I'm done.....nope.....donnnnne 😂😂😂😂😂😂
If settling for less was a person. All I'ma say is ladies take notes this is not what your standards should look like.
Amen
God will never send you somebody else's spouse. Why are they wasting everyone's time?
She ain't going nowhere. To him, women are only there to occupy his time and be bed fillers. She's choosing this, so there's no incentive for him to change.
If she was truly done, she wouldn't care that he'd find another woman.
She's not done....
That Part
Bruh already showed you how he get down......you just didn't believe it could be you
Yeah, all part of the side chick delusion. They believe THEY are special and worthy of the cheating dude. That THEY will be treated right and the dude will CHANGE for them. So sad
Now that she is not the side chick she see what the 2 wives went through
He has cheated on wives and upset kids don’t call him for Father’s Day
His kids don't even fool with him. They don't even fake it. Says everything we need to know right there. He's trash.
It’s really sad that she accepted ALL OF THAT. Cheating on wives-no problem. Kids hate you-no problem. She even accepted the drinking because it was better than knowing he has another side chick-which he obviously has! He’s number one and does what HE wants. Now, she wants magical change here in court. Never looking in the mirror
He's a Serial Cheater, and SHE'S A Fool.
36?!?!?!?!?! Dude need to put the bottle down immediately
I hope she does leave for her well-being. She will continue be unhappy with a person like that. Wow 10 years of your life wasted with this man?!?
She ain’t going anywhere. She is proud to be “the main chick” anytime you classify yourself as a main chick you are fully aware that there are others. Don’t know what her hype about graduating from side chick to main chick smdh
I hope she DOESN'T. We don't need this mess loose in the damn community!! They can start together and complain to their hearts content!
@@jjcsweetlady Interesting point of view … you might be right.
@@poshpearls23 I understand your point. However, I do hope she does because she still young and she can make positive changes in her life.
Girl please why do you even want him. Don't you see all the Red Flags girl you wasting time with this drunk
He's admitted also to being an alcoholic and a cheater,! Girl RUN!!
So what exactly does she think is going to happen when they marry 😂😂😂 she’s killing me
SMH. She said, “now that I’m his woman”! Dang! That’s a strong woman 😂😂😂😂 couldn’t be me!
Yeah, she's claiming to be his woman only to find out he's cheating on her with some other side chick. She's still not the only one!
Strong? I’m thinking of another word 😂
@@movingforward789 LOL Better her than me! 😂😂
This is an irresponsible un- accountable ninja… Like Judge said he’s number one to himself. That’s why his children didn’t come see him on Father’s Day and she didn’t want to be around him either.
Not ahe gon be in back of the funeral with all the girlfriends lol😂😂
Therapy, Ms. Jackson! That will help you see that you are beautiful and have other many qualities. You deserve so much better!
The nerve of this side piece is alarming. 😂😂😂😂
She’s been with him 10 years, where do y’all think she’s going?
She not going NO WHERE!!!! And that’s sad 🥺😞
😂😂😂😂😂
exactly
KARMA IS COMING BACK TO BOTH OF THEM
This!
Karma is already hitting him-lost TWO marriages and his own kids don’t want to be bothered with him. Now, it’s her turn. She’s lost ten years of life fooling around with this man. Now she sees she’s replaceable as tissue and that she’s NEVER been number one
How they get you is how you lose them 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
He just has gotten old, bored and probably struggling financially and she’s the fool to put up
With his foolishness
I can think of 99 things that is totally understandable to waste your twenties on.. but this guy here?? Ain’t no way!!!!
He's been married twice during you. YOU ARE NOT THE ONE, BABES. Move on. You made the ultimate sacrifice for him...YOUR DIGNITY. It hurts, but it ain't you love. It ain't you.
Judge Lynn would have kicked them both out 😂
Girl, do better and move on. He’s a broken bird 🦢
Shes had no respect for herself for 10 yrs, he's also had no respect for her..He's not about to marry you girl
I see the elevator doesn't go all the way up huh? She already wasted 10 years of her life blocking her blessing and meeting her husband, like she's a goofy. And him? I hope he gets back what he's been ditching out, Karma doesn't play or spare anybody.
That alcohol got him looking 56
True… he’s ashy, dusty and looks bloated
He thinks he is husband material
Delusional indeed, the fact that he even thinks that is insane
Girrrrlllll 👀👀👀🤣🤣🤣
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Immediate first reaction: LMFAOOOO 😭💀
This girl refuses to accept the truth. She will NEVER be his priority. It's all about him all day, every day. Alcohol is him trying to settle his conscious, whatever conscious he may still have.
He's not the problem, she is #yamhead
Y’all need to stay together to save everyone else from the trouble - Judge Lynn Toler (paraphrasing it but y’all get the point)
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Sir you have a soul tie. Pray and meditate to break it!
Pray to Jesus to help you.
Not the crooked eyelash...l'm done! 😂
He is honest he is telling her. He will get someone else asap.
Unfortunately' SHE'S Not going Anywhere!❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼
Exactly!!..
Don't waste anymore time.. Run !
is she slow? girl if don’t leave that man w… why would you want to put innocent children through this?
She aint going nowhere! 😒
I don't understand why some couples are on Divorce Court when they are not married.... this is not Relationships Court.
If He Is A Narcissist he's doing exactly what they do, they tend to move on Quickly before they get out of one relationship they're in another. It's A Vicious cycle!! When the judge asked what would he do if she left and he stated I'll find Another Woman!!! So she knows if she continues in this relationship he's not changing without some type of professional help!! She needs to run 🏃🏃🏃🏃
The fact that he thinks he’s marriage material is diabolical 😂😂😂
Wow!! Low self esteemed and value is way down on her totem pole. Let's say Zero??? She stuck her chest out and proudly stated she is the side chick, has been for 10 years!!!! How do you resign yourself to being number 2 thru 10??? Sad
when will his frontal cortex fully develop?!?!?!!? damn the liquor got to be delaying something up there cuz the light on in his brain but aint nobody home lmfaooooooo
The best part of divorce court is the end with Star Jones and Robert conclusion
He’s having his cake and eating it too!!!
Nice due Judge Star. ...and you are right. That man is number one in his life. He's in love with himself anything he does to make himself happy.
he looks older than 36.
She ain’t going no where 🙄😂
She knows that she's going to have to get that karma back... So she wants him to straighten up, so she doesn't have to
Side chicks never be number one. Face it sister girl
HES NARCISSTIC
Humph, so he just goes to woman to woman filling a void…lady leave
😂😂 so the eyelash comment judge star funny 😂😂
"You're not #1 and never have been" 👏🏾
Girl move on.
This lady will always be the side chick, she made herself unworthy!
All she’s gonna do is attract the same thing. She needs to figure out why she welcomed that energy and stay single till she does. Don’t destroy innocent children.
Oh, my gosh!!!!!! They are walking out together!!! What a tragedy!!!!
I was watching her eyelashes from the beginning to the end😂😅
18:47 I that doesn't hit home for her, I dont know what will. 😂😂😂
She said I'm in my 30's now... too late
Yes Star you are something else. Love the way interact with the couple. You give them , knowledge advice and truth ,and u tell it like it is..
nah the crooked eyelash comment did it for meeee💀💀💀
Lady go on your separate way!!.
He is going to cheat on her!!
13:23 Don't you hear the JUDGE.YOU ARE NOT HIS 1ST PRIORITY. He uses excuses to drink.
He's 36? I'm seriously shocked. He looks like he's 56. No joke. Wow
This is Hilarious and I’m only 30 seconds in… I have to brace myself! 😂😂
When judge star said what at 1:30 I lost it ahhhh😂😂😂😂😂😂
He made you the main all of a sudden because he looked up one day and realized he do want a family so he’s willing to settle down, which he opened with, and realized you were still there..not the one he actually wanted but rather the one he truly is settling for just to say he has a family. Sis you can’t expect him to change when he expected you to be the same side chick you were to him for years, you assumed position and he is only into you if you’re in that position
NUMBER ONE LADY AT THE END GOT THE ALCOHOLIC
One of the jurors put both hands on her face because she couldn’t believe her ears were hearing the messy BS that she were hearing 😂😂🤣
That girl ain’t going nowhere. 20 yrs from now, she’s still going to be trying to get him to marry her, trying to be wife number 7.
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"What in the ham sandwich!?!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This can't be true. These producers are insulting us.
Girl, you willingly put yourself in this position