cool and swag tiktoks by, for and about neurodivergent ppl

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  • @theletters9623
    @theletters9623 Před 3 lety +901

    "I got symptoms disorder" That did not have to be as much as a mood as it did. I'm officially diagnosed with adhd and Im also autistic but fuck if my brain still goes "wow this sure is a brain boink"

    • @theskyesummers
      @theskyesummers Před 3 lety +11

      LMAOO

    • @McFlurrArtt
      @McFlurrArtt Před 3 lety +42

      this made my day for no reason, "brain boink" forever in my memories

    • @SunflowerAspenPlays
      @SunflowerAspenPlays Před 3 lety +33

      Me: *has an actual real ADHD diagnosis and a prescription for Adderall given to me by my doctor that literally has ADHD himself*
      Also Me: Wow I sure am unexplainably weird haha nothing wrong I'm just strange :)

    • @DuvLeveret
      @DuvLeveret Před 2 lety +5

      i got SOMETHING going on up there

  • @ro_rory197
    @ro_rory197 Před 3 lety +828

    Me identifying with lots of the people in this video: BUT IM JUST ATTENTION SEEKER, THAT IS ALL POSSSIBLE FOR ME HUH

    • @Shona100
      @Shona100 Před 3 lety +66

      I FEEL YA THERE, THAT ONE TIKTOK WITH ALL THE “BUTS” AND TWISTS AND TURNS REALLY MADE ME RELATE BUT ALSO NOW MADE ME SUPER CONFUSED BC WE CAN NEVER REALLY KNOW/TELL IF WE IDENTIFYING OR JUST MAKING OURSELVES IDENTIFY??? 😭 😭

    • @ro_rory197
      @ro_rory197 Před 3 lety +29

      @@Shona100 YES WHY CANT WE AS A SOCIETY ADRESS THIS THATD BE SO NICEEEE

    • @minteminte1499
      @minteminte1499 Před 3 lety +48

      WAIT- so do you every see these and go “oh wow same!” And just think “Wait no I’m overreacting I just look like an attention seeker.”

    • @ro_rory197
      @ro_rory197 Před 3 lety +7

      @@minteminte1499 ya

    • @minteminte1499
      @minteminte1499 Před 3 lety +8

      @@ro_rory197 I thought I was the only one

  • @niko_kneecaps3644
    @niko_kneecaps3644 Před 3 lety +1793

    its time to play....
    *do i have adhd, or am i just trying to relate to the symptoms*

    • @_vomit.gremlin_
      @_vomit.gremlin_ Před 3 lety +184

      the ✨pain✨ I'm feeling

    • @emilyily8723
      @emilyily8723 Před 3 lety +94

      Yup, the daily game

    • @anikamusa271
      @anikamusa271 Před 3 lety +60

      never ending pain

    • @inkmink8957
      @inkmink8957 Před 3 lety +259

      my favorite game, can’t wait for the thrilling sequel, “do i have adhd or am i trying to explain why im lazy and/or can’t do schoolwork/keep literally any friends?”

    • @theskyesummers
      @theskyesummers Před 3 lety +37

      @@inkmink8957 not me relating so hard 😭✋

  • @mysteriousandforeboding
    @mysteriousandforeboding Před 3 lety +110

    "i got symptoms disorder" dFJDJDKDJFJ CONSTANT MOOD

  • @grishae927
    @grishae927 Před 3 lety +815

    I feel understood and comforted

  • @kawaiimingi9308
    @kawaiimingi9308 Před 3 lety +248

    finally some DID representation my system deserves

  • @grovitemultiverse
    @grovitemultiverse Před 3 lety +864

    That last tiktok hit me hard. Those are all the reasons, the exact reasons, I say 'I don't know' to a question. I appreciate when others try to reword things to help me think of a better response since they are clarifying what they mean, but sometimes they just need to stop asking questions.

    • @user-io3ur7yy5g
      @user-io3ur7yy5g Před 3 lety +39

      Similarly, asking why? It’s often interpreted as a rude thing when in fact I’m literally just asking a question/asking for clarification.

    • @grovitemultiverse
      @grovitemultiverse Před 3 lety +5

      @@user-io3ur7yy5g Yes. True!

    • @BloodyRainbowOtaku
      @BloodyRainbowOtaku Před 3 lety +19

      SERIOUSLY! I thought I was the only one who that happened to as a kid and would also plague me as I entered the workforce. I would say "I don't know" or "I'm sorry" to certain mean bosses a lot whenever I made a "mistake" and they would get very upset with me. I had to exchange it with phrases like "I understand. I'll be more careful/mindful of that in the future."

    • @grovitemultiverse
      @grovitemultiverse Před 3 lety +8

      @@BloodyRainbowOtaku Oof, stinks that you had mean bosses. I might take that strategy of 'understand, I'll be careful in the future' as it might help me too.
      I've also used something along the lines of 'I don't have the answers right now' when I need to in conversations. At least in my head, it makes it seem like at the current moment, I don't have an answer about X, but later I might have an answer for it.
      I don't know if that will help you all at work or in life, but I thought I would bring it up in case it helped anyone.

    • @mhmyeahtotallynotacowinmen3373
      @mhmyeahtotallynotacowinmen3373 Před 3 lety +10

      I used to say it
      But then my mom would yell at me about it
      So then I....
      I just...
      Stopped talking
      And she gets mad at me....
      I don’t know what to do

  • @lowkey_gee
    @lowkey_gee Před 3 lety +478

    girl help i'm relating to too many of these and can't tell if im just trying to be * q u i r k y * or am actually neurodivergent-

    • @soupster857
      @soupster857 Před 3 lety +118

      same here. am i a "gifted kid" who just stopped being gifted, or am i experiencing burnout? is this trauma from child neglect or actual adhd/psychosis?

    • @daddad157
      @daddad157 Před 3 lety +7

      Same...

    • @fiatearther170
      @fiatearther170 Před 3 lety +3

      @Ayana Selamaj
      You can forget traumas?????????

    • @i_play_the_fiano
      @i_play_the_fiano Před 3 lety +6

      I know I do too but idk if I’m just doing it to give myself a final answer or something like idk

    • @deadgirlwalking6161
      @deadgirlwalking6161 Před 3 lety +9

      @@fiatearther170 you can blackouts is what their called also most of the time roots of C-PTSD ( childhood post traumatic stress disorder)
      it happens when its too much to handle for the brain so the brain just doesn't fully process what happens until something happens the cause the brain to fully process that piece of information.

  • @skeletonbirdanimations7486
    @skeletonbirdanimations7486 Před 3 lety +251

    So I told my friend about my fun thing of ' is it trauma or is it undiagnosed adhd' and the HEATHEN SHE IS SAID: 'Skeleton, both _is_ an option'
    First of all how dare-

    • @alasta1rsstud10
      @alasta1rsstud10 Před 3 lety +12

      are u
      are u
      nonbiney

    • @eyekandi
      @eyekandi Před 3 lety +5

      @@alasta1rsstud10 not funny didn't laugh - enby

    • @diablominero
      @diablominero Před 3 lety +12

      There's decently popular theories of what causes trauma that if you take them literally, there's no possibility of there existing childhoods that have zero risk of causing trauma. All it takes to give you trauma, in theory, is an experience that's more than you can handle at the time, feeling like you don't have adequate support and validation, and bad luck. Kids have bad emotion regulation, so every kid runs into something that's overwhelming at least a few times. People express support, love, and understanding differently, so any kid in any situation might fail to pick up on the emotional support that their well-intentioned parent was trying to give, to say nothing of the possibility that parents sometimes don't have perfect intentions or might have to prioritize something else over offering emotional support.. All it takes to get minor childhood trauma from a normal childhood where nothing unusually bad happened is bad luck.
      Sorry for the wall of text. TL;DR: I think it's possible to have trauma even if you can't think of anything that could've caused it.

    • @strawberrymilk6666
      @strawberrymilk6666 Před 3 lety +4

      @@diablominero _huh who would’ve thought_

  • @_inkysnow_4715
    @_inkysnow_4715 Před 3 lety +848

    For the longest time, I told myself “No, I don’t have intrusive thoughts!” Just because I legitimately never thought that I did, and I just realized while watching this that I quite commonly out of the blue imagine things like someone ramming my knee so hard with a shovel that it snaps, getting scissors stabbed into my knee, forcing a knife *under* my kneecap (there’s a lot of stuff that has to do with kneecaps, no clue why) and now I feel stupid cause I’ve even acknowledged and told people about these random nasty thoughts that I hate and I neVER REALIZED THAT THAT COUNTS AS INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS UNTIL NOW?????
    Update: my intrusive thoughts have evolved into *needles everywhere*

    • @froggygal_
      @froggygal_ Před 3 lety +50

      those are.... intrusive thoughts???????? uuhhhh.........

    • @_inkysnow_4715
      @_inkysnow_4715 Před 3 lety +14

      @@froggygal_ I think. Don’t hold me on that though cause I’m not 100% sure

    • @TehLambOfAwesome
      @TehLambOfAwesome Před 3 lety +13

      i also had the knee ones yooooooo

    • @syd7765
      @syd7765 Před 3 lety +25

      I think one time I was going through stuff and I saw the definition Of intrusive thoughts and it was something like this, I can't remember a lot, thoughts that are unwanted. That's all I can remember I think I have intrusive thoughts but their not as bad as yours, there's also impulsive thoughts and if you act on them too.

    • @wolfdrittenl334
      @wolfdrittenl334 Před 3 lety +2

      those are...intrusive thoughts.......?

  • @basildoingthings819
    @basildoingthings819 Před 3 lety +263

    My sister accused me of faking my tics yesterday! That was fun. And then I started doubting myself wondering if I actually do fake my tics so now aaaaaaaaaa

    • @artisan2906
      @artisan2906 Před 3 lety +7

      h o w

    • @sadface6180
      @sadface6180 Před 3 lety +45

      Faking is a thing you counciously choose to do. You can't fake tics, if you are worried you might be faking your tics it shows that in fact, you're not faking them.

    • @thesmolbean444
      @thesmolbean444 Před 3 lety +7

      I just started getting tics a few weeks ago and I really do feel like that..

    • @oliver1435
      @oliver1435 Před 3 lety +12

      @@sadface6180 im pretty sure i have a thing called impostor syndrome where im constantly questioning myself and if im actually faking everything i do for attention and this put me so at peace, thank you

    • @morigaena333
      @morigaena333 Před 3 lety +9

      My sister thinks I’m faking too because I have tics from anxiety but I don’t have Tourette’s

  • @somethingoutthere5608
    @somethingoutthere5608 Před 3 lety +127

    Today I've learnt I most likely stutter
    Also that "do relate to adhd tiktoks because I have adhd or-" hit close to home lmaoo

    • @beans7448
      @beans7448 Před 3 lety +2

      @@annoyanceking wait explaining things out to yourself is an ADHD thing

    • @kofipita
      @kofipita Před 3 lety +1

      @@beans7448 is It?

  • @antcannibal3326
    @antcannibal3326 Před 3 lety +249

    4:14 Is what I'm like except I do know VERY specifically what's wrong, because I do like a lot a lot of research because I got super super interested in mental illness and symptoms at a very young age, but I refuse to use accurate of scientific terms because I'm worried that if I use hyper-specific terminology people will think I'm using all that research I've done to fake and look for attention so people go ”oh what's wrong?” and I WANT to say ”I’m having an internal break down due to overstimulation, the amount of light and sound in here is distressing me, I think I’m either going to shut down or cry” but instead I say ”Oh the sound is just annoying me, I'm fine”

    • @Stars-xc9bf
      @Stars-xc9bf Před 3 lety +28

      Why is this comment just so
      relatable

    • @springshowers4754
      @springshowers4754 Před 3 lety +7

      mood

    • @lindensalter6713
      @lindensalter6713 Před 3 lety +10

      And I thought I was the only one worried about this

    • @lordjreen
      @lordjreen Před 3 lety +31

      I feel this in my soul. I'm constantly looking into things to try and explain what I am and why I'm the way I am, but when I tell other people I'm just like, "haha it's just how I am" because I'm so afraid of coming off like I'm faking it.

    • @rainbow_fox_
      @rainbow_fox_ Před 3 lety +16

      I FELT THAT... i can't afford an official diagnosis, so even though i know i'm mentally ill and i'm 99% sure about most of the disorders i have, i never use any exact terminology when talking to other people because i'm literally so scared all the time that i'll get called out for self diagnosing or faking symptoms for attention

  • @croaklikeatoad4384
    @croaklikeatoad4384 Před 3 lety +60

    Had a meltdown a couple weeks ago because I was terrified my teacher would get hit by a car if I chose not to go to class, got in touch with a counselor, am going on a journey

  • @ashbradshaw6835
    @ashbradshaw6835 Před 3 lety +366

    The autistic/ADHD roommates one as an ADHDer with bad RSD hit me hard lmao. My siblings are autistic and I have undiagnosed ADHD and my parents refuse to believe they have a third neurodivergent child. Gotta wait until I can move out and then I can do a thing called Get Diagnosed
    oh im infodumping again sorry-
    Update: Asked my psychiatrist for a screening!! Now we wait
    Update 2: Mom said no :(

    • @lauraschlieselhuber8487
      @lauraschlieselhuber8487 Před 3 lety +13

      It's going to be okay, friend.

    • @elokin300
      @elokin300 Před 3 lety +34

      I think that I may have undiagnosed ADHD (and I'm 99.9 percent sure I have anxiety) but my parents don't really believe in mental health, and just don't like it. My mom won't let one of my sister's friends come over because they see a therapist and when I told my mom that I almost blacked out when a teacher called on me, she told me that I'm "so dramatic." Also, I asked her if I could see a therapist or psychologist because my mental health is going down the drain and she told me that my grades need to get higher for me to go, and my grades can't get higher because my mental state is bleh so it's a big loophole

    • @ashbradshaw6835
      @ashbradshaw6835 Před 3 lety +9

      @@elokin300 I'm so sorry my friend. You got this, you'll get diagnosed.

    • @elokin300
      @elokin300 Před 3 lety +7

      @@ashbradshaw6835 I hope you can get your diagnosis too :)

    • @nuttButta
      @nuttButta Před 3 lety +12

      Oh my god same but with autism, and it’s soooo clear that my brother is neurodivergent at 3 but my parents just don’t recognize it and i’ve told them i have adhd/now thinking autism they’re just like “no:)”

  • @elbeyaan
    @elbeyaan Před 3 lety +22

    "please refrain from estimating me" is how I live my life and it's not okey 😂

  • @Al-db9qg
    @Al-db9qg Před 3 lety +16

    I really appreciated Jackboots tiktok on fairylocks. When you are an Irish person of white skin, and you leave Ireland with locks, knots and mats people can assume much of you. Pagan tradition and belief in fairies is still quite strong here. Tending to your fairylocks is also a great way of fidgeting when nervous or needing to move for neuro divergent reasons!
    Edit:
    Some believe it's bad luck or it can piss the fairies off if you brush them out, cut and keep them nearby if you have to remove them.

  • @yzugreen7904
    @yzugreen7904 Před 3 lety +76

    Do I have ADHD or am I just relating to the symptoms?
    Am I just relating to the symptoms or am I just
    _lying to myself because I so badly want to be neurotypical?_

    • @snickthegreat
      @snickthegreat Před 3 lety +6

      Lmao. I’m autistic and I think I have ADHD as well

  • @nuttButta
    @nuttButta Před 3 lety +67

    The last one omg, finally. I always thought that I was just being a jerk because I say “I don’t know” literally all the time because when people ask me a lot of questions i get ~angy~ and want to be by myself i a white room with white headphones and watch tiktoks on a white tv, and my family (especially my grandma) is VERY talkative and there’s me in the background at family gatherings playing subway surfers with the 2 year old

    • @3ll3llyyy
      @3ll3llyyy Před 3 lety +3

      same and you just feel so overstimulated when you get angry you feel like crying so the only shit you CAN say is "idk"

  • @risingbirds
    @risingbirds Před 3 lety +99

    OP AS SOMEONE WITH DID I AM LOOKING SO POLITELY AT YOU INCLUDING AT LEAST ONE SYSTEM IN THIS OMG,,, TYSM ILY /P

  • @soupsandwitch8425
    @soupsandwitch8425 Před 3 lety +63

    I came here for *swag*
    But you gave me too much *swag*

  • @meganbowden8651
    @meganbowden8651 Před 3 lety +93

    I do most of the stutters and I didn't realise

    • @artisan2906
      @artisan2906 Před 3 lety +10

      SAME

    • @fenixmeaney6170
      @fenixmeaney6170 Před 3 lety +6

      I've literally had to describe that my brain had stopped working after about a minute of abrupt silence on my part

    • @zosiapsps
      @zosiapsps Před 3 lety +1

      I do every single one and I always thought it's just normal, and now I'm like "wait, there are people that don't do these?"
      (I feel like I need to add [it's funny because there was also add as a different form of adhd so it works like a joke even though it's not] that I'm not neurodivergent and I'm here only because my brain wants an excuse but in reality I'm just lazy and disorganized)

    • @-ANERD-
      @-ANERD- Před 2 lety

      I have a stutter too , mine makes me block and I fall over vowels

  • @teath_
    @teath_ Před 3 lety +32

    I havent let myself adhd stim in years and i just did it for myself...flailing and making weird sounds just for myself. agh god that felt so good. i shouldnt hold them back anymore, it honestly hurts. Dont feel embarrassed or self conscious of your stims, if theyre not harmful, do them! Get it all out so you can go back to trying to be in the present;;;

  • @JoyCopperMoth
    @JoyCopperMoth Před 3 lety +21

    That last one spoke to me so much, my parents get so mad when I just keep saying "I don't know" even though it's the 100th question they've asked me in the past three hours

  • @genericflour
    @genericflour Před 3 lety +30

    7:42 is so helpful! I’m usually an extremely talkative person but sometimes times I entirely or partially shut down and usually my words are first to go. I thought that when this happened I should just “snap out of it” but this is a good reminder that when this happens it means my body is exhausted and I don’t *have* to communicate in a standard way. Thank you for including this

  • @auroratripodi4808
    @auroratripodi4808 Před 3 lety +54

    4:11 "Are you sure you're not autistic?"
    Fairly sure, but I had a lot of fun deciphering his alphabet! I love this kind of games :D

    • @yofacinelli
      @yofacinelli Před 3 lety +14

      I have searched the comment for this! I got the same and wanted to know if anyone else thought that was what it said.

    • @sassyunicorn9003
      @sassyunicorn9003 Před 3 lety +8

      I also got the same! Glad im not the only person who took 30 mins out of my day just to decipher a tik tok video xD

    • @solacespades
      @solacespades Před 3 lety +9

      I really like this kind of game as well! Glad the answer I got seems to be what other people got as well haha. I don’t know so much about deciphering the alphabet itself, but I went back and repeated that video a few times to catch any similarities and where the words coincided with the on-screen text (for instance the “you” was said a bit and from there I could also decipher “you’re” since it’s so similar). I just really like puzzles I think they’re a lot of fun so it was definitely a nice little surprise! ::D

    • @MadLizard
      @MadLizard Před 3 lety +3

      Oh geez I wasn’t the first to get this answer lol. Thought I might’ve been. Oh well

    • @flarewolf
      @flarewolf Před 2 lety +5

      Okay that's what I thought it said as well but I'm also dyslexic and I wasn't completely confident because the middle line just would not stay still.

  • @charliegreen7988
    @charliegreen7988 Před 3 lety +18

    3:08 You don’t understand how much of my life I’ve spent being irrationally angry because I was having my sitting-in-this-particular-spot time and someone else had the audacity to disrupt that by being in the same room or the same vicinity I feel so validated but at the same time I feel strange help

    • @anonymous5401
      @anonymous5401 Před 3 lety +1

      bro yes

    • @Marispider
      @Marispider Před rokem +1

      I feel this so hard even though I'm not usually the type to need routine super bad, sometimes it's so hard because they aren't doing anything _wrong_ and I'd feel bad telling them to leave so instead I just. Sit in my anger. And feel bad for being angry in the first place lmao

  • @VideoChasca
    @VideoChasca Před 3 lety +18

    The ADHD woman at 5:26 is like if my thoughts about me suddenly took human form.

  • @corvidmorgue
    @corvidmorgue Před 3 lety +25

    that dude: why are you in the kitchen
    me, watching this video in my kitchen: 👁️👄👁️

  • @corvidcreepz
    @corvidcreepz Před 3 lety +43

    Huh... so my constant axious 'uhm's in my speech were a stutter? Weird, never knew... That clears up a bit!

  • @arianavail
    @arianavail Před 3 lety +7

    Finally finding out ADHD is a neurodivergent disorder after your ex best friend who’s autistic literally never corrected you to say that you aren’t neurotypical but instead let you believe you couldn’t possibly relate the same way and then starting to accept that it’s a part of who you are and it’s okay that you relate more to neurodivergent people because you are one yourself.
    Damn I’m finally accepting ADHD as a disorder/disability instead of telling myself I could learn to be normal. Finding TikToks/videos like these are finally making me feel so much better about my quirks and understanding that sometimes it’s just a mental block and not that I’m just incapable of something.
    I thought I didn’t let stigmas get to me but I literally let them trample me because I was so young when I was diagnosed - as if there’s not more information about ADHD now then there was, as if I’m not more cognizant and able to understand the smaller aspects that become larger that I just never knew or was pushing aside.
    This last month of reflection has been insane. Losing my best friend to their accusations that I wasn’t understanding enough or taking their disability into account made me revert in so many ways where my coping skills are just not working right now.
    Finally accepting the fact that it’s okay because there’s a huge neurodivergent community and not everyone is going to make it exclusively about their disability or disorder but about everyone in the community. I’m finally breathing fresher air, it’s so much harder to take deep breaths - but I’m working on it again. Finally.
    (Just needed to get out all of these thoughts and reflections because they are drowning me)

  • @phoebejacob
    @phoebejacob Před 3 lety +19

    The difference is if you experience some of the symptoms but not often and it doesn't impact your life then you probably don't have adhd, if you experience the symptoms daily / most days and it has a big impact on your life then you probs do. Losing your keys and phone now and again isn't a symptom but if you lose your phone and keys ALL thE TIME then u might have smthn up

  • @ruebee313
    @ruebee313 Před 3 lety +4

    The girl doing the adhd stimming session just helped me understand my daughter better. sometimes us nuerotypicals need help with the alternative perspective. 💗

  • @meganbowden8651
    @meganbowden8651 Před 3 lety +79

    I have ADHD, does that make me neurodivergent?

  • @hestiaartworks2288
    @hestiaartworks2288 Před 3 lety +13

    4;12 my roommate and I, she is on the spectrum and being diagnosed and I am just not sure, looked at this and were like, ok the first word is Are and the second one is You, and we just sounded it out until we realized that it probably said “Are You Sure You’re Not Autistic?” And she looked at me like it confirmed something or us both, and I’m sure she’s right, lol

  • @uhmmmmm123
    @uhmmmmm123 Před 3 lety +62

    I have Misophonia and unfortunately I don’t know much about my disorder because my parents don’t exactly think it’s worth going to the doctor for. If anyone knows anything about Misophonia could you tell me if it’s neurodivergency?

    • @MonteMortgageMan
      @MonteMortgageMan Před 3 lety +10

      I’d look at Mayo Clinic and try finding reliable (medical, hospital, college, and recent sources) articles and other people’s experiences!! Those can usually help!

    • @springshowers4754
      @springshowers4754 Před 3 lety +5

      yis

    • @uhmmmmm123
      @uhmmmmm123 Před 3 lety +2

      @Leanna Krile Thank you for telling me!

    • @uhmmmmm123
      @uhmmmmm123 Před 3 lety +2

      @@MonteMortgageMan Thx!

    • @jjeess420
      @jjeess420 Před 3 lety +5

      Im so sorry but what is Misphonia?

  • @Cheesystell
    @Cheesystell Před 3 lety +7

    I think seeing these kind of videos helps me a lot, I’ve only ever been diagnosed with anxiety because my parents weren’t a fan of medicating me at a young age. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised that a lot of the things I experience aren’t inherently “normal” like I didn’t know people don’t usually dissociate and until about a year ago I didn’t know there was even a term for it, I began maladaptive daydreaming without knowing that other people do it too! I recently discovered that the colours in my vision are known as visual static and aren’t as uncommon as I thought they were so thank you to anyone out there who took the time to read this. I think I just needed to get this off my chest❤️

  • @itzelpretzel
    @itzelpretzel Před 3 lety +4

    i only have ADHD and ASD but im happy to see representation outside of that in one of these neurodivergent comps! its important for people to know that theres more than just those two things under neurodivergency!

  • @Noah-lo9vb
    @Noah-lo9vb Před 3 lety +3

    My neurodivergency is not presenting any differently today, if anything watching these makes it present more, but I am feeling great because this series makes me feel understood and not alone and valid

  • @TRexRAWWR1
    @TRexRAWWR1 Před 3 lety +10

    Me relating to a bunch of these tiktoks: *lol no, I haven't even been diagnosed with anything I'm just trying to separate myself from 'the norm'... even tho I don't think about or care about separating myself from 'the norm'.*

  • @kookiesnkreme2102
    @kookiesnkreme2102 Před 3 lety +17

    Woah these are the tiktoks i didnt know i needed
    I have autism and ADHD

  • @RatedCforCake
    @RatedCforCake Před 3 lety +3

    “I got symptoms disorder, brain no worky 🥴 “
    THE AMOUNT OF TIMES THAT IVE SAID THAT,,,

  • @ashrush648
    @ashrush648 Před 2 lety +3

    i would just like to thank you for putting tiktoks in this comp that have subtitles, and if they dont, putting in extra work to put them in yourself. i have problems processing things that arent subtitled and its part of the reason i love your channel so much. i actually came here from another comp about autism and neurodivergency and i got so frustrated that i came back to your channel. kind of long winded, but thank you.

  • @spookyboy8127
    @spookyboy8127 Před 3 lety +5

    i would like to remind everyone that just because somebody chillaxed for a few hours does not mean they will be able to go to social events for the rest of the millineum, dad.

  • @camrynsims7432
    @camrynsims7432 Před 3 lety +14

    5:25 is literally exactly me except the last thing lmao

  • @caitlinistired1050
    @caitlinistired1050 Před 3 lety +1

    “Please refrain from estimating me” is my new mantra

  • @shizenkv
    @shizenkv Před 3 lety +2

    4:24 "sure am experiencing experiences over here" mood.

  • @TishyRose
    @TishyRose Před 3 lety +2

    This compilation is perfect!
    So relatable, but in a validating way, not the upsetting way where it only focuses on the pain of being neurodiverse.
    These tiktoks are still raw and honest about the difficult stuff, but not in a way that’s upsetting and makes you feel hopeless/useless, it’s in the nice way where you think, “that sucks, but it can and will be ok. It’s just hard sometimes.”
    I don’t know this compilation just made me feel understood, and gave me hope that I can be just as strong as these people.
    I can find happiness in this life too, it’s just a little harder sometimes. But it’s ok.
    Anyone reading this, just know that you deserve to be heard, understood and accepted as you are.
    You’re not broken, you were just built differently and born into a world that isn’t made for you.
    But it’s the world that needs to change to accommodate everybody’s needs, not you.
    Happiness will come.
    Sometimes when you’re struggling it’s hard to believe things can ever get better.
    But they will.
    💜

  • @omookyliaa
    @omookyliaa Před 3 lety +11

    thank you so much for placing subtitles on the parts that have no captions! i have trouble understanding sometimes so this was very helpful to me.

  • @necronyx7176
    @necronyx7176 Před 3 lety +2

    I felt so much of this... but the intrusive thought one was especially good. Don't often see it represented so simply and effectively.

  • @wrongway32
    @wrongway32 Před 3 lety +4

    bruhhhhhh tysm for including systems in here. big hearts in chat

  • @m0rb1d.am0r0us1ty
    @m0rb1d.am0r0us1ty Před 3 lety +1

    I felt the last one. I always get in trouble for saying "sorry" when I did nothing wrong or "idk"

  • @_pan-tastic_28
    @_pan-tastic_28 Před 3 lety +1

    Man that last one just described all negative interactions with my parents

  • @jermfanaccount
    @jermfanaccount Před 3 lety

    bro the one with the audio of Gandhi from Clone high makes me happy because he is a huge ADHD icon and he's also generally my favourite Clone High character

  • @aceofspades2201
    @aceofspades2201 Před 3 lety +15

    1:41 I recognize that shirt! PMA all the way!!

  • @tired.friend4874
    @tired.friend4874 Před 3 lety +2

    Adjxjdkxjc 4:13 is exactly me! Like I have a bunch of symptoms of different disorders but not enough to really say for sure that I have it.
    Like I’m suicidal and tired all the time but I have no problem showering and sleeping so I don’t think I’m depressed.
    I am very forgetful, have quite a few stims, and deal with what I thing is RSD but I can still focus on my teachers when needed so I don’t think I have adhd. I also have MADD so that’s fun. Basically I know somethings wrong but idk what.
    Sorry I just wanted to vent. If you made it this far ily so much and please don’t forget to drink water!

  • @fr0ggie518
    @fr0ggie518 Před 3 lety

    the last one-
    every single time I say "I don't know" when confronted, people always say "well, you must know!" or "I don't know isn't an answer" and it is soooo frustrating

  • @younscrafter7372
    @younscrafter7372 Před rokem +2

    Similarly to the "I don’t know" thing, I've noticed that I falsely claim to not remember specific details very often. Sometimes that's true, but usually it's a combination of
    -The detail is irrelevant and I can’t be bothered to tell you
    -The detail makes me seem weird
    -The fact that I even remember the detail would make me seem weird
    (It’s mostly the first one though)
    Edit: It doesn’t get me in trouble though because my artificially reduced, apparent knowledge of details matches the amount NTs would probably consider normal

  • @lunarghost255
    @lunarghost255 Před 3 lety +4

    0:45 omg thank u I wasn't expecting DID representation... and this is so funny

  • @beccah8671
    @beccah8671 Před 3 lety +1

    why did this 10 min vid teach my more about neurodivergent people than a decade of schooling... thank you SO MUCH for making this!

  • @snazzymcsnazaroo2834
    @snazzymcsnazaroo2834 Před 3 lety +1

    yknow i related to the last one a lot, i do say "I dont know" a lot and most of the time if someone asks a me a question my first "I dont know" is my mind being blank but most of the time the person keeps asking me questions that are really similar and my mind being blank "I dont know" goes to a please stop asking me questions, i really dont know "I dont know"

  • @ceciliaborges154
    @ceciliaborges154 Před 3 lety

    The guy talking about taking care of a middle schooler making him take better care if himself truly felt like something that would work on me like 100%

  • @cloudhhhh
    @cloudhhhh Před 3 lety +6

    on today's episode of "is it undiagnosed mental illness, attention seeking or capitalism?"
    edit: to elaborate I forgot to mention that these three options might be the reasons why I relate to these tiktoks so much

  • @kishikun
    @kishikun Před 3 lety +2

    ✨ I really do be disassociating while watching this video ✨

  • @tactat3174
    @tactat3174 Před 3 lety

    I really want to thank you for putting in subtitles, i have a little bit of hearing and focus problems and also english isn't my first language so it really helps!

  • @mortober
    @mortober Před 2 lety

    For the stutter one, I never realized I do that but I do basically everything on that list. I don't talk to people in person all that much anymore so I don't do them enough to realize I guess. For the last one, I relate far too much because everyone I know has gotten annoyed with me saying it all the time and sometimes I get too scared to even say anything at all and end up just blubbering and crying, particularly when they get mad at me for saying "I don't know."

  • @user-vo4bf8mx4p
    @user-vo4bf8mx4p Před 2 lety

    i love watching these cuz every five seconds im audibly screaming "SAME"

  • @aliien2057
    @aliien2057 Před 2 lety

    The last one-
    That was a personal hit
    I almost always answer "I don't know" because of almost all of the reasons they mentioned. I have only one close friend that I will tell how I actually feel, and that's only if there isn't a positive mood I could ruin. Teachers always get mad at me for it when really I'm just scared of answering wrong; I've been known as "the smart kid" since maybe 1st grade even, and I've always been bullied for hanging out with the "weird kids". If I answer something wrong, snickering, looks of disappointment and slurs are all thrown my way.
    Fckn sucks.
    If you're in a situation like me, you're not alone. It's taken me a long time to come to terms with it, and I've never really gotten it off my chest before. You're loved and valued. Stay hydrated, love you. ♡

    • @aliien2057
      @aliien2057 Před 2 lety

      Also, I know that the first 2 things I listed aren't really that bad, but they really mess with me
      So does people touching me- someone will poke me and I'll tell them to stop so of course they do it again and then they're surprised when I get mad. They tell me "I'm just messing with you relax"
      I would if I could, Ashley

  • @divatheeva7519
    @divatheeva7519 Před 2 lety

    Currently in the “am I adhd or am I just seeking attention” camp and WOW that “I don’t know” one destroyed me. that is literally just me

  • @Av1t3o
    @Av1t3o Před 3 lety +2

    I have adhd and one time I called curtains window blankets

  • @voxorox
    @voxorox Před 2 lety

    1:53
    Really digging that PMA hoodie. Love it.

  • @theresadettloff6196
    @theresadettloff6196 Před 2 lety

    Hey, just wanted to say, thank you for this playlist, youve found soem really excellent ones and this has helped me a lot on my journey figuring out my adhd and autism. Ive sent many other people this playlist, and its helped a lot of people. Thanks

  • @grayskindablue
    @grayskindablue Před 3 lety

    It really helps seeing other people with DID that seem happy, thank you!

  • @ArekusaSan
    @ArekusaSan Před 3 lety

    The last one hits so damn hard. I do that all the time like, why the hell are you mad for something I don't have? Sounds like a you problem LMAO

  • @thecheddarshredder
    @thecheddarshredder Před 3 lety

    Here is a list of things I experience that feel neurodivergent but I’m not actually diagnosed with anything so it could just be me subconsciously wanting to feel special.
    -I can’t sit in complete silence, I need some sort of background noise.
    -I get tics without having Tourette’s
    -I have terrible short term memory but fantastic long term memory
    - I can’t start a conversation to save my life
    - I find it easier to talk to kids than adults
    - I get OCD like tendencies with things like the dishes, socks, the way the pantry and fridge are organized, and when I clean things need to be very specific.
    -I get intrusive thoughts
    - I have trouble controlling my volume
    -I get sensory overload
    -I’m very sensitive to the textures of certain things...that’s why I can’t eat shrimp 😂
    -I experience rejection sensitivity
    -I’m a kinesthetic learner
    - I go on tangents a lot
    -I have trouble explaining how I feel
    -I can never stick with a sport or extracurricular activity
    - my thoughts feel forced sometimes
    - I mimic things
    -often have certain things playing in my head on repeat 😂
    -I see no point in small talk
    -I’m perfectly fine staying home for long periods of time.
    -I experience synesthesia
    -there are certain songs I can’t listen to because they make me feel weird
    -sensory symmetry
    That’s all I can really think of right now but I wanna know what it happening to me so if someone could help...that would be great!!

  • @goblinkingofpotatoes5823
    @goblinkingofpotatoes5823 Před 2 lety +1

    I always stim a lot when I watch these, mainly out of excitement. It’s like “THEY HAVE THE SAME NAME AS ME!!! :D” or “OOOOOOOHHHHHH NOOOOOOOO THIS ID RELATABLE”

  • @akitchenchaire338
    @akitchenchaire338 Před 3 lety

    THE STUTTER ONE AT 4:26 WAS SO HELPFUL!! I HAVE HAD STUTTERS MY ENTIRE LIFE BUT HAVE NEVER KNOWN HIW TO DESCRIBE THEM AND NOW I KNOW!! ITS INSANE I FEEL MUCH BETTER ABOUT MY STUTTERS NOW FOR NO APPARENT READON THANK U RANDOM TIK TOK PERSON!!!!

  • @kassidybrown4054
    @kassidybrown4054 Před 3 lety +1

    THE KITCHEN ONE HAD ME REPEATING THE CLIP. I am in the kitchen, so you are not in the kitchen. If someone comes in the kitchen while I am in there cooking, I will stand in the corner silently & internally angered until they leave.

  • @erinhollow773
    @erinhollow773 Před 3 lety +2

    The tourettes ones are really helping me loosen up with stimming. This feels really nice, I've been repressing my stims since I've been stuck in my house with my family for so long and I've been really drained.

  • @someone10223
    @someone10223 Před 3 lety +1

    4:27 this tiktok really helped me understand stutters and before watching that tiktok I didn't know blocks were a type of stutter. I do that so much while speaking, because my brain is slow af. And when I know the answer to something but I can't say the answer because my brain is slow af again I always say umm until my brain finally lets me say the answer normally

  • @samirogers7312
    @samirogers7312 Před 3 lety

    These tic videos, really set off my tics. Very fun, I don't have tourettes, got anxiety tics

  • @monstrousmoss
    @monstrousmoss Před 2 lety

    0:33 oh big mood. would send this to my teachers if I had any idea what the appropriate level of formality for student-teacher interactions is

  • @lillyblair3056
    @lillyblair3056 Před 2 lety

    4:12 is so funny to me-
    Quite relatable tooxD
    “BrAin nO WoRkyyyy”

  • @theoraclehostvessel
    @theoraclehostvessel Před 2 lety

    We love playing the game of "do we actually have OSDD or are we actually just "i" and did I just tell myself that we have it, made myself believe we have it, and play an extended game of pretend to make ourselves feel 'special' because we've never actually felt worthy or interesting or worth talking to ever?"
    It's a very fun game and totally has nothing to do with being traumatized at all/s

  • @glassj4r
    @glassj4r Před 3 lety +2

    the fucking second one? the one with the adhd and autistic roomate? very very relatable with my friends

  • @nymthetyrant
    @nymthetyrant Před 3 lety

    broooo the last one hit me HARD. I used to get into so much trouble from my dad for answering everything with I don’t know” or “I don’t care”. I don’t even know how to describe what happens in my mind but they did it perfectly and it makes me so happy to know that other people understand.

  • @Dw5653
    @Dw5653 Před 2 lety

    4:03 I can't believe I'm not the only one who created their own writing system as a kid! I even started working on a dictionary for words in my new language!

  • @strapdemon
    @strapdemon Před 3 lety +2

    Me telling myself I can't be ND because I'm not diagnosed knowing I have hella "symptoms", it would explain so much and I won't be until I'm an adult cuz my parents don't see the symptoms

  • @sunmi2539
    @sunmi2539 Před rokem

    Been watching this all day so slay

  • @guytorie
    @guytorie Před 3 lety +1

    Some of this was relatable in ways I've finally accepted about myself, and some of this was relatable in ways I haven't accepted about myself yet.

  • @_zaaya-t-dp_6736
    @_zaaya-t-dp_6736 Před 3 lety +3

    9:53 not me over relating to this last tiktok...
    Like, Why Is It So Hard For idk To Be... Uh... I dont know... Uh...

  • @user-lv8vn8kq8r
    @user-lv8vn8kq8r Před 2 lety

    3:30 That part remind me that I did something similar when I was young. I stopped doing it because I thought it was weird to create a whole new way of writting. I was masking very hard even when I was alone. I spent the last two hours to continue it :)))). Im glad I did.

  • @LittleBarracuda
    @LittleBarracuda Před 3 lety +5

    omg the second one
    Im autistic and my partner has adhd, we live together and situations like this happen so often

    • @snickthegreat
      @snickthegreat Před 3 lety

      Autism and ADHD can look similar sometimes

  • @bogeyworman6102
    @bogeyworman6102 Před 3 lety +1

    Had a meltdown, went into blanket fort, found this vid, aaaaand I have a smile. Many thank.

  • @alicianorris9352
    @alicianorris9352 Před 2 lety +1

    Physically seeing the "intrusive thought wince" made me realize how often I do it!

  • @yourekillingmeman
    @yourekillingmeman Před 3 lety +2

    THAT SYSTEM/DID/OSDD TIKTOK- YES. THANK YOU.

  • @SoularSlothesk
    @SoularSlothesk Před 3 lety

    Thanks for this video

  • @user-io3ur7yy5g
    @user-io3ur7yy5g Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you!

  • @niaranoctyrna3754
    @niaranoctyrna3754 Před 3 lety

    5:25 omg you are scaring me I am legit concerned how do you know my entire lifeeee