My Friend Is Always In Competition With Me - EP.167 | The Uncut Podcast

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 48

  • @moyoakinola6633
    @moyoakinola6633 Před 2 měsíci +47

    This white tee really suits you Sharon !! I hope they have more colours o

    • @TheUncutpodcast_
      @TheUncutpodcast_  Před 2 měsíci +3

      Aww thank you hun! It's from HERA. We have a discount code which gives you 15% off if you're interested: 'UNCUT15'
      & yes they do have more colours (I have it in the white and the black) ❤
      White: heraclothing.com/products/womens-essential-t-shirt-white?variant=&linkId=Sharon%20Odu_gifting_instagram&affluencerId=Sharon%20Odu
      Black: heraclothing.com/products/womens-essential-t-shirt-black?linkId=Sharon%20Odu_gifting_instagram&affluencerId=Sharon%20Odu
      Joggers: heraclothing.com/products/womens-collective-wide-leg-sweatpant-grey-marl?variant=&linkId=Sharon%20Odu_gifting_instagram&affluencerId=Sharon%20Odu

    • @Sharono352
      @Sharono352 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you 🥹❤️

  • @asimwesamantha1976
    @asimwesamantha1976 Před 2 měsíci +70

    It's crazy how people think just because of our "friendship", they think disrespect is okay. I think we need to discuss boundaries within our friendship groups. But number one : DO NOT DISRESPECT ME

  • @sheilasamsungs.
    @sheilasamsungs. Před 2 měsíci +54

    I love Sharon's aesthetic when I tell you she wears the outfits I have in my mind. I literally loveeeeeee it.🥰🥰🥰

    • @TheUncutpodcast_
      @TheUncutpodcast_  Před 2 měsíci +5

      Thank you! It's all from HERA. We have a discount code which will give you 15% off your order if you want 'UNCUT15'
      It ends at 12pm BST on 31 May ❤

    • @sheilasamsungs.
      @sheilasamsungs. Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you so much 🫶🏾🩷🩷🩷

  • @kiashade93
    @kiashade93 Před 2 měsíci +38

    I'm in the process of cutting ...started to realize that my friend and my husband's (well soon-to-be ex husband) "work relationship" was much more than that 🤷‍♀

  • @iloveyoulord9086
    @iloveyoulord9086 Před 2 měsíci +18

    Am from Rwanda, love you ladies 😍🥰. For the dilemma, the guy should report this to the government authorities in Rwanda, they have zero tolerance for exploitation especially for government workers "cause the guy works for the national bank." If she knows his full name and has a picture, she can contact the Rwandan embassy in the US and they'll help her. I also think she should prepare some evidence like proof of transfers and texts about the money issue just in case the guy denies it.

  • @sanrihoe777
    @sanrihoe777 Před 2 měsíci +20

    Sharon’s look is sooo cute

  • @zuleihatizeyahaya764
    @zuleihatizeyahaya764 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I love Sharon's look❤❤
    I definitely can relate to those married friends cutting off singles.. Mine told us clearly (in her words)
    "I now have a husband and a home to build ,so i won't have time for those ladies hangout anymore, Pray you girls find yours soon"...
    She sent these to our group few weeks after we went all out to celebrate her

  • @Fatoobalilghurabaa
    @Fatoobalilghurabaa Před 2 měsíci +11

    It took me 10yrs to realise it was a competition like Shannon said there is healthy competition/motivation but when the person is doing the things you wanted to do and mentioning it in a nonchalant way it’s weird and I started to analyse all throughout our friendship and realised it was a weird competition all along

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust Před 2 měsíci +18

    Fresh from Uncut Podcast live on 90s Baby Show now time to watch another episode of Uncut Podcast...LET'S GO!!!

    • @TheUncutpodcast_
      @TheUncutpodcast_  Před 2 měsíci +5

      You are SO FAST hahaha! Love it man. Appreciate you

  • @eluxurycarrental9018
    @eluxurycarrental9018 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Bee is on her cycle! You can tell when someone either isn’t feeling well, on their pms or somebody irritated their behind

  • @qxy7440
    @qxy7440 Před 2 měsíci +22

    Y'all refused to accept that HE gave her confidence to break up with her ex and HE tried to get with said ex a few weeks later. Omoh, wahala. 😂😂 Ask around you'll get gist

    • @dabestauraa
      @dabestauraa Před 2 měsíci +3

      yea i was like i think she read it right the first time 😂😂

  • @jamilathompson5185
    @jamilathompson5185 Před 2 měsíci +1

    “Maybe he’s mourning on his friends behalf” 😂😂😂 the way I screamed cause huhhhh 🤣🤣🤣

  • @daraa9553
    @daraa9553 Před 2 měsíci +17

    I agree with Tammy, that 9 year age gap is a red flag. Many people go straight from undergrad to masters and you haven't really seen the real world!

  • @sukiicess
    @sukiicess Před 2 měsíci +2

    the way the dua lipa song was wrong is killing meeee😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @gyptianwifeey
    @gyptianwifeey Před dnem

    I have been there where I am going through things and my friends think I’m trying to be like them when I’m simply going through life!

  • @ArmaniGreer_
    @ArmaniGreer_ Před 2 měsíci +1

    here to comment about the "friend in competition" ...i completely agree with Beatrice that sometimes things could simply look like someone is competing but not actually be doing so...HOWEVER, i feel like energy doesnt lie. i have cut a friend off bc i felt she was secretly in competition with me. I let it slide for a few instances, but the issue came when I felt like she couldn't genuinely be happy for me and my accomplishments. It felt like this friend operated from a "I want to see you do good, just not better than me" space, and i was over it. And "coinsidently" everytime I had something good going, all of a sudden she was "going thru something" and had her own issues to deal with.

  • @LudjeenaG
    @LudjeenaG Před 2 měsíci +7

    Ayeee it’s 7am in Floridaaa and I’m so happy to watch ❤

  • @user-ff3dl3jw2q
    @user-ff3dl3jw2q Před měsícem

    I enjoyed listening to this,very informative ♥️

  • @caliraisin90
    @caliraisin90 Před 2 měsíci

    Great start to to week 💜💜💜

  • @BSnazz
    @BSnazz Před 2 měsíci

    Look at Bee looking chilled as cold Evian...chile we love you guys🥰

  • @asimwesamantha1976
    @asimwesamantha1976 Před 2 měsíci +7

    I used to have a friend who used to open my snack bag(during secondary school days)anytime she was hungry and never told me.
    Another time,I thought I was able to make another friend, only to find out it was a bet on who can befriend me. Currently I have a lot of trust issues so it's hard to socialise so I'm always on my phone. It's like an asylum for me.

  • @AndrawherAesthetic
    @AndrawherAesthetic Před 2 měsíci +4

    You're at 71 subs, woap! woap!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @deboraholaniyi618
    @deboraholaniyi618 Před 2 měsíci +1

    71k!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @Itzvnessa.
    @Itzvnessa. Před 2 měsíci +1

    Woah, that first Dialema is exactly completely the same as the story my older friend told me 😭😭 so now I’m wondering if it’s her who submitted it

  • @ayanna2620
    @ayanna2620 Před 2 měsíci +1

    In the US, international students have to be enrolled full time or they get sent back home. You can have a job but it is very limited and most of the time you aren't allowed to work off campus. I get what Tammy is saying. You would think that as someone who is 34, he would have other resources to support himself while doing his masters. He's a grown man. Not that 25 isn't grown but at 25 and doing a masters, her financial situation is more understandable whereas his isn't, to me. He took advantage of that girl. And honestly if I were her, I would just take the L and cut my loses. He's in a whole different country, she'd be spending way too much money to get that money back. Learn from this and don't make the same mistakes.

  • @mwila1879
    @mwila1879 Před 2 měsíci +2

    For the last dilemma,she could save time by accepting her loss and letting that money go and take it as a lesson to NEVER give a man money.

  • @cindymayibongwemoyo8811
    @cindymayibongwemoyo8811 Před 2 měsíci

    Here, quick quick ❤

  • @thegirlerin
    @thegirlerin Před 2 měsíci

    💜💜💜

  • @luv2laff2
    @luv2laff2 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I concur with Tammy, CUT THOSE HATERS OFF! I do not need your hatred to affirm my success/progress in life. Those in competition with you are exhausting and frustrating as H.
    IMAGINE THIS...
    Person B has a costco card
    Person A(who doesnt have a costco card) bitches about person B not inviting them to costco
    Person C(me) gets a costco card and tells person A dont worry you can use mine, let them be selfish
    Person A sulkily/reluctanty takes person C up on their offer
    Several weeks later........
    Tell me why Person A is making a big deal about asking person D for a ride to costco in front of person C in an attempt to stunt on them! because they found someone elses costco card to use!!
    These people make NO SENSE!!! The petty BS they come at you with is JARRING!!

  • @MsArpellet
    @MsArpellet Před 2 měsíci

    US International students MUST be full-time (12 credits undergrad, 6 credits grad) to remain legal [keep their status as a student]. They can work part-time on campus without work authorization or off-campus with the approved authorization (CPT).

  • @daraowolabi5876
    @daraowolabi5876 Před 2 měsíci

    early!!!🫶🏾

  • @SenorChiboy
    @SenorChiboy Před 2 měsíci

    I think men and women do have deeper conversations because thats the way we feel we need to be with women to get on common ground. I think with the mandem, it can be either / or depending on your own mindset

  • @LudjeenaG
    @LudjeenaG Před 2 měsíci +2

    First comment and like 💗💗

  • @MrsECUduma
    @MrsECUduma Před 2 měsíci +1

    Beatrice looks very distant on this esipode

  • @ceejae2349
    @ceejae2349 Před měsícem

    21min in. Try growing up in Australia. 1990s. Always the only melanin in the room. Ithas nothing to do with surrounding yourself with people the same as you. You just need to surround yourself with good people

  • @lindantinyari6253
    @lindantinyari6253 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Yea international students always have to be full time I mean it’s not your country so you can’t get domestic privileges

  • @therealmaaa
    @therealmaaa Před 2 měsíci +6

    Sharon 8888 this look up😊