The “Ideal Woman” - Uttara Phalguṇī
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- “Should we make ourselves happy, or make others happy?”
This is the life lesson we will learn from the tenth star of Vedic Astrology: Uttara Phalguṇī, Above the Fruit-Bearer
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The house in which a woman cries is cursed. The house where woman is with smile will be blessed and flourish
"We should love overselves because of the roles we play in the lives of other" 💜
As a woman with Uttara Phalungi in Sun and Moon, thank you! Everything you say resonates. Since more abundance has come into my life, I have come to the conclusion that a domestic bliss is what I desire most. It is sad that modern discourse has made it hard for me to admit to myself that I honor the sacred traditions of womanhood and cherish men for their masculine qualities. Men have always noticed me, and good men have noticed my "heart," which I could not fully give to anyone until I had done considerable work on myself. I was recently feeling distressed on how I can make an impact around me...and received that the simplest and purest thing I can do is give joy. Since this realization, I am making my friends smile more and even strangers are engaging with me on the street, and my life is full of blessings.
Wish I could do it as well. I have been working on it too. But it's been really hard
Blessings, sister 😃💖
Thank you for sharing..this helps 🙏
Such beautiful words.
"The house in which women cry is cursed"
I found something interesting about Uttara Phalguni falling in the Virgo.
As virgo represents small intestines, among other body parts, there's a SYMBIOTIC relationship that happens in the gut. The gut bacteria helps in the DISCERNMENT of nutrition and waste, once it gets forwarded by LEO fire. The gut bacteria in return needs good situation and must be taken care of, otherwise the guts may malfunction, and the failure of this relationship eventually hurts both the Human and the Gut Bacteria.
Interestingly, to process the food better and better intestinal movements, Walking is required.( Vahatava, i think, a thing which carries from one place to another)(gut bacteria would do so, if you do it outside too)
I also found that many people are talking about Venus Debilitation at 27 degrees in Virgo. I think, that if we look for more Sensory Enjoyment (represented by Venus), our Guts/Intestines/Virgo will get hurt. Simple as that. Be responsible with the materialism of the Virgo.
Also, exaltation of mercury(15-20 degrees virgo) states a lot about this nakshatra{ tropical zodiac with sidereal nakshatras } and sign. I found that Bran(comprising the chaff of wheat, barley and other grains) helps in intestinal processes and not the grain itself( i.e. grains, pulses are heavy for intestines). All this time i thought that virgo maiden was separating wheat from the chaff. Now, i realize that she was separating chaff from the wheat.
I see your comment recently but just need to say it resonated. As a sun uttara phalguni, I have been constipated for the longest time cos I tend to take things personally and do not express my emotions well as I am introverted but I have decided to let go of things I can’t change mentally and surprise surprise I did not change any diet or anything, I could go to the loo regularly! Power of the mind is really great.
That's why I always wanted to be an ideal women....who takes a good care of her family and every body loves to be around her and find peace in her.... Thankfully I found a man who feels peace within me.....we are really a happy couple....we have a little financial problem bt I know that after our marriage he will be abundant and then we would try to do something to serve our society.....🙏🙏🙏
Amen! The masculine provides and the feminine receives, creating divine balance of opposites ❤️
To sum it up: Happy Wife, Happy Life!😃💗
"Happy wife, happy life"
seems prudent to remember it takes more than material abundance to make a woman happy.
I have this in my sun. Now, I can know the reason why I always want to be a mom or somewhat surrounded with children. I am deep with my feminine side:)
Yes! Same with me☺️🌸
There is a story from O'Henry where she sold her gorgeous hair to buy the chain for his watch (his only valuable possession), and he sold his watch to buy a comb for her gorgeous hair. Left with love to celebrate the new year) As Uttara Phalguni Sun and Lagna, am thanking you for the deep insight and sanskrit sutra.
❤ thank you
I have my sun here. I've had a lot of support from people and the men in my life 😊
If mama ain’t happy ain’t nobody happy 💜 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
my moon is here and i recently wrote this: "man is not entitled to the body of woman or earth. humankind is to strive to please and delight earth. so that her rivers rush robustly and her forests smell of flowers and ooze of sap. the expression of her aliveness is the richness of our lives." it resonates!
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You just helped me realize tremendously. - Uttaraphalguni moon
🕉🕉Maa Durga is beautiful & My favourite. ❤❤
Life lesson: Don't piss off your woman
Moon here ( pada 1 ) at 26 degrees 💖💕 Once at naturopathy school there was this " game" ~ we had to use our profession to do something and i was " oh i don't know/have a profession" ... a classmate told me out loud " you make people happy!"
Very nice.
there’s a lyric i love that goes “when i make it all about you, you take care of us”
and thats what uttara phalguni is giving me
thank you so much for your insight vic!
Happy wife...happy life. - Ancient Sanskrit text
You are a magician with your insightful wisdom.
Excellent understanding of how femininity works. If the male side wonders why he supports a woman it is not the male. Not shortsighted, perhaps he isn’t the masculine.
Thank you for this revelation. As a woman with Uttara Phalungi in Sun and Moon I resonated with this message on many levels. It has been my dream, since I was a child, to be of service to others, but in this modern era, we are all asked to provide for ourselves hence the "Love yourself and take care of yourself" attitude.
Individuals are asked to embody both functions of masculine and feminine aspects rather than depending on or finding support from each other. With that in mind how can we rationalize or find a middle ground between ancient teachings and modern standards where everyone is asked to find and support oneself before being able to express joy and happiness or structure and discipline? It seems to me that women in particular (and this ties in nicely with a heroines journey) must embody the masculine attributes of structure and discipline before she can express joy and happiness (feminine attribute).
Excellent explanation
I am really loving this series and can't wait for the book! Well done Vic ♡
Know this when you mistreat a woman - "The house in which women cry is cursed, it will fall to ruin but the house in which women smile is blessed and will flourish" couldn't be more perfect than this 🤩
My moon is in this. Family is to me the most important central focus.
Not being supported and fending for yourself is the hardest life lesson to wk through. I am growing into a better place, I have learned to allow the men and children in my life to do their best supporting me and I work joyfully to grant wishes and make home life bliss.
It is in the 6H for me.
Thanks for this insight! I'm very new to learning vedic astrology so this was very helpful! I have Uttara Phalguni in my 1st house of Virgo (which is also my ascendent). I do like looking after people unfortunately I don't have any close friendships or relationships so I do find life feels empty at times. Your explanation makes sense in regards to enjoying domestic pursuits. Thank you again for sharing!
When the woman is happy, everybody is happy. Good insight.
This is so very important and yet so little know or understand😥
Uttara Phalguni Moon! This video was phenomenal and everything you’ve said has been my literal life lesson into womanhood.. ✨😊💕 you’re appreciated 🙌🏽
Omg this is my atmakarka, I feel and experience this deeply!
So beautifully explained! So relevant, especially in today's world.
This is so true. You learn to put healthy boundaries and make other people happy by you being happy which eventually other people start enjoying and being comfortable in your presence. And only thing you want be is spoiled.❤😊 and have respect and gratitude to the men that do so.
Thanks for such an insightful video. My 7th lord is in 7th house and in uttara phalguni, therefore you have given me an imp lesson that I must remain happy and experience fulfilling relationships by being able to nurture others.
I am also uttarafalguni..... totally can relate with it.,.....❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for all that you do
I also can't wait for the book!
A great analysis and reminder for us men. Thank you
Loved your explanation 🙏🏻
Very cool, makes so much sense.
Thanks for your enlighten interpretation ☀️🙏
Beautiful Vic ...
Loved this one❤
What an insightful explanation..... keep it up
Wow, you really hit the nail on the head with this one! I have my moon at zero degrees pada 2, Uttara Phalguni in my D1.☺️
This makes perfect sense to me because I was born in the year of the Ox and my Sun in Uttara Phalguni pada 4 is my Darakaraka so I desire my partner to be physically strong.
I'm Libra ascendant with its nakshatra ruled by Mars and Venus in my 1st house. Mars (R) is in my 7th house with its nakshatra ruled by Venus.
I also totally agree with what you said about happiness because that's how feel about life. I always try keep my vibrations high so I can radiate happiness and loving healing energy to others.
Thank you for being a brilliant Guru and for shining your light!
Much love and light to you all! Namaste and God bless! 🙏🏾❤
Awesome!
Love this!!!
If the society is good , women will be considered for who they are not that what the society wants the woman to be . It's the choice of the woman what they want to be . Ideal feminine qualities of a woman should always be cherished.
Super interesting... moon is here today.
This is a beautiful video. ❤💓💘
I have my Moon at Uttara Ashadha; which is presided by the Vishvadevas and the planet of Surya. I also have a friend born on Uttara Phalguni. We are completely masculine in character but ever receptive to knowledge and wisdom as we are both born on female Nakshatras. My mother is born on Jyestha and completely resembles Manthara or Alakshmi in character.
I am rising 🙏 thank you ☺️
ammmaaazing! brilliant! make our damn selves well & the world is nourished!!!
i have Ketu here. what i've observed is, i tend to blame outwards when i am dissatisfied, and/or unhappy and bcz of that i tend to withhold love and support and understanding - i feel i give but i get nothing back, so i withhold. and the withholding amplifies the whole feeling bad thing.
Both me and my daughter have lots of Phalgunis🎶 Specially Sun and Moon in Uttara Phalguni💞💞 Love it❤️ Thank you so much for your wisdon😊🎶
So true and I just want to cry😭‼️
Very insightful.My experience P.Phal. is self centered and U.phal is socal and charitable personality.
My 7th lord is in this nakshatra in the 4th house. Your explanation resonated a lot with me.
🌿🌼 Thank You🌼🌿
First time on your channel but completely swept away 🙏🙏🙏
Aww Vic , nothing I can comment on CZcams . VENUS MARS Uttaraphalguni 💔
I have uttarapulguni in my moon and you hit it on the nail. This is what I so desire in my being to happen. To have that symbiotic relationship. I feel most happy when im giving to my partner but i would like to have it given in return as well. Its like the holy grail ive yet to find.
Alicia Abagat from one uttraphalguni to another I agree
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very true.
I think, in a sense, it is about what the other brings at the table. we can be giving and happy to the extent that we can exhaust ourselves if there's no strong carriage around. Or, maybe, we are not paying enough attention to the deal and still feel unappreciated. I think , a weaker placement here can feel unappreciated.
Excellent 👍
My ascendant is in this nakshatra. This makes sense
Uttara Phalguni moon (AK 29 deg.) with mars retro Purva Phalguni (23 deg.) 12th house
Rising and rahu in Virgo Uttara Phalguni
*(Sun and Venus in ashwini (5deg. Apart) mercury retro bharani 8th house )
Truer words have never been spoken :D 💖 although we are two related women supporting each other :D but it works
Interesting. What does it mean if I have UP in my sun? Thank you
Had 2 circle back to this one!
Vic where Can I listen the chants itself? They're absolutely beautiful.
1:14
Regards
I am an uttraphalguni rising (virgo rising )❤
I have jupiter saturn conjunct..im happy at peace & blessed & in turn a blessing to my entire family. This sounds similar to Rohini.
Wouaw ! My ketu is in uttara phalguni and wouaw !!!! I understand why i was soooo feminist in my young life ! (I'm only 34 now 😅🤭). This is in my 4th house and i lived in an non happy family even if every one did his Best. My father was work alcoholic and Never at home. He wanted to give his money to be fine, but my Mother was not quite happy being alone all the time with 2 Kids. She was exhausted, angry, frustrated... Waiting her usband to do things with him but it was never possible.
I am still struggling with this concep of woman, and being happy first of all to make others happy in return, but i'm on this way !
Wonderful validation because of you! Thank you so much
And the Last words was just perfect. I should put it on my front door hihihi
Hi vic, great video here! Good job. I wanna ask you a little bit. Is this just for my partner/wife/gf? or includes more women in our lives, for example mothers, sisters, grandmothers, friends. and others? Thanks vic.
Why nobody wants to talk about Ketu in this nakshatra?
Hello sir.
Very nice videos.
If possible ,I want to request you to please start with the next series of remedies.
It's principles to understand how to help others.
Thanks
Regards
How does Ketu function in this Nakshatra?
Wow... Thank You. You should get a You Tube channel and tell the world about this stuff. Lol
Great insight and interpretations of this text.
Stay in Gods bliss ♡
I'm a woman with Sun in Uttara Phalguni.
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Wow, thank you. This is a very common and popular saying in India - Gods reside in houses where women are cherished and ruins come to the houses where women cries. Knew it was true but never understood why, this video helps! Even in marriage ritual of India ie vivah, the giving away of daughter to the groom by father is called as a mahadaan of kanyadaan as she provides everything to the groom's house including lineage and puja is done psot marriage at father's home to please gods to fill the gap of abundance left by the daughter. Even Son despite being elder are married after the daughter is married since it is believed goddess of abundance Lakshmi is given away first and lakshmi is recieved as a daughter-in-law thus normalizing and not depleting the fathers house. The vulva is worshipped in a maha shaktipeeth temple in Assam, it is cherished and worshipped in ancient texts v/s abuse and caricature made out to be.
Though groom and inlaws are primarily required to provide for the wife, in ancient India, wife earned for herself through her skills and vast enterprises or Veda acharyas. Thus, women did all that men did but because of more functional skills (kriya shakti) and giving birth and natural qualities like you mentioned, she became symbol of abundance, thus more revered than men in India. This shows "providing" for wife isnt just material but also about dignity-respect-happiness-love that is highly crucial and sought after by Woman acorss the planet not just in India. Ancient Indians knew the weakness of easily abusing or being indifferent or worse bullying a lone woman who starts from scratch in their house and hence use the power and knowledge imbalance to abuse the wife/daughter in law. Hence, cries of woman of the house deviate her energies away from creativity into cries and wastes large amounts of abundance she is capable to give, and naturally Gods left places of abuse.
Also, females are seen as direct manifestations of Devi, mothers revered in Vedas as first guru, extolled as abundance giver as daughter and wife without whom house mgmt, society mgmt, finance mgmt, dharm, and moksha for man is not possible (for a non-sanyasi man). Unmarried male entry is banned in several temple sin India as he is considered impure and one who salivates after multiple women bodies. This resonated so much with typical marriage issues where man is disorganized, undisciplined throws away wet towels, socks, spreads mess v/s wife complaining and disciplining him to be clean and organized. All of it fits! A popular saying in India is "a daughter comes (births) accompanied by her own abundance and leaves with her own abundance (with marriage, moving with abundance to the groom family)" Possibly a reaosn why male child is preferred due to rituals of moksha associated, patriarchial lineage and also because with a son you recieve abundance and gain v/s as a daughter's father you lose abundance.
Wonderful video, explains a ton fo things to me. Namaste!
Hi Vic Sir,
I was born in Purvaphalguni Nakshatra, my moon is in Purvaphalguni Pada 4
What results would Debilitated Venus give in 1 st House in Uttraphalguni Pada 2 (Virgo Ascendant) In Navamsa Venus is in 10th house in Dhanishta (Aries Navamsa). My 7th Lord in Birth chart, Jupiter is in Uttaraphalguni Pada 1 and in own house in 9th house in Navamsa. Is it a good placement ??
So it's like the nakshatra for the adage Happy wife, happy life
Iam man and have ketu and moon conjunction in Uthara phalguni and my lagna also in same naksthara ,can u suggest me any remedy ,thank you.
The interesting part for me is the balance between the feminine and the masculine.
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I have Venus and Rahu in 2nd house Leo in this nekshatra
I have this in my first house in virgo
Isn't it curious though that Venus is debilitated in the sidereal sign "containing" Uttara Phalguni, the nakshatra that indicates how to be an ideal woman?
Venus is a proud planet. He is a rajasic brahmin. He is virility, lenses, and looks for value in things. It is a starry graha. It is biped. It is saumya.
This is a very interesting thing you have pointed out.
Maybe, venus cannot get enough here. because virgo is a earth sign and can be exacting and intricate, whereas Venus can be looking for sensory enjoyment.
I have Uttara P. Sun 4th house. And I do not feel supported by those around me. I know now that this is only the first part of my life and that the second part will be better. Moon and Mercury both in Purva Phalguni. Moon is stronger than sun in my chart. So I am just a late bloomer bc sun is blocking my 4th (moon) house. And I was the fruit bearer and now the bread maker.
I love this series also Vic👍Thank you I like the Phalguni Nakshatras, maybe because I have Magha n my chart and they are from LEO family!! 👑🦁☺️
probably some other reason ;)
Vic DiCara's Astrology Lol...yeah I need to study on these Nakshatras more which are my favorite 🙂
How would Venus in Virgo in Uttara Phalguni do...given that Venus is considered debilitated in Virgo? A friend of mine has her Sun in Purva Phalguni and Venus in Uttara Phalguni. I find that interesting, given that the nakshatra lord of Uttara P is Sun and Purva P is Venus..
that nakshatra lord system works for vimshottari dasha system only.
Can you make a video for uttar phalguni man ? Thanks
Gotta like this. 👍🏼 Venus and Mercury here. Always trying to make spouse happy with my own expense. I gotta be happy. Recent realisation 🌹🥀
see the video on Anuradha too, please. it has important info on this same topic.
Vic DiCara's Astrology Thank you very much.
Wow
Love this series!
What can be done if this aspect is not funtioning well?
Good luck with your new book!
same as we do for any problem (1) notice it, (2) observe it, (3) think about it, (4) gradually discover ways to change it
@@VicDiCaraAstrology so maybe someone with the ascendant in that nakshatra need a person with a taurus rising 😉
Thank you so very much, Mister DiCara. This is an extremely important lesson for me, even though I'm a man, because my Rahu is UP. And my Sun is PP! :)
How is Purva Phalguni masculine when it's represented by a female rat and Uttara Phalguni feminine when it's represented by a male bull? It doesn't really go together in my head.
none of the animal stuff makes much sense to me. I am just telling you what Taittirīya Brāhmaṇa teaches us about nakṣatras. As for the animal stuff, I don't even know where that stuff comes from.
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply!
M born in this star. So I do agree with you here. Its not like I seek luxury etc but I just want man to not mold me or manipulate me for my values. Plus encourage me to win my path. Because if not, I will feel sad and feel very sad. Ultimately I will ruin everyone's life by being sad. N people like me who are born in this nakshatra are jolly people. So imagine a happy go lucky person being sad just spoils everyone's mood