I Lost My Band Members | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 102 | Season 3

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  • čas přidán 13. 03. 2022
  • A guest shares his story on how the loss of his band members/friends led to his depression
    Studio Guests: Amstel Maboa
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Komentáře • 118

  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 Před 2 lety +78

    Amstel’s mom is friends with my grandmother from Mamelodi. I got to spend a lot of time with her as a child. She is such a sweetheart. Always showed us kindness as kids🥺
    I never got to meet Amstel during those days because he was fully a superstar. But he comes from a very warm family ❤️

    • @mokgadimatli2246
      @mokgadimatli2246 Před 2 lety +5

      This is so warm 💛

    • @zetmbonambi4425
      @zetmbonambi4425 Před 2 lety +4

      Woow,thank you for saying that. We live in the World where nothing is said about good kind people.Many people only talk when they have bad things to say about othern people.May God bless you more as you can say good things you know about people. Stay blessed.

  • @rubysidwell7324
    @rubysidwell7324 Před 2 lety +17

    He is so articulate, sophisticated and lovely to watch. Very humble and calming he is. Loved this.

  • @bin2kono328
    @bin2kono328 Před 2 lety +5

    A Sierra Leonean 🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱 watching from Germany am hooked up with unpacked ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @vusimuzimasina8924
    @vusimuzimasina8924 Před 2 lety +19

    I bumped into him once at this other perfume shop, ugh and when I tell you he was so sweet to us (family and I) and the guy who worked there

  • @memorymalunga670
    @memorymalunga670 Před 2 lety +62

    H is so articulate. There is something just so beautiful about him. He comes across as a very genuine, kind and down to earth person. His energy is very warm and beautiful.

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe Před 2 lety

      It’s a she

    • @memorymalunga670
      @memorymalunga670 Před 2 lety

      @@ahviwe You're right. Correction taken.

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  Před 2 lety +10

      Amstel is a man who is gay. Not a she.

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  Před 2 lety +6

      @@ahviwe Amstel is a man who is gay. Not a she.

    • @memorymalunga670
      @memorymalunga670 Před 2 lety +1

      @@relebogilemabotja215 My apologies. I actually changed my original post after someone corrected me and told me he is "she", so now I'm changing it up again.

  • @tukulaobed7602
    @tukulaobed7602 Před 2 lety +34

    Amstel is so well spoken.

  • @molatelomfupa.gossip
    @molatelomfupa.gossip Před 2 lety +62

    It’s been so many years in the industry but I must say Amstel still looks good..

    • @dikolizaskk5847
      @dikolizaskk5847 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes i agree with u compared to the rough life they went through

    • @ncisept5900
      @ncisept5900 Před 2 lety

      He's not aging atall.

  • @faithsdollsville2662
    @faithsdollsville2662 Před 2 lety +18

    Heh! Amstel was my course buddy at Wits Tech. We used to hangout together with another friend of mine. We studied Sports Administration and Marketing together with Stanton Frederick and Owen Nkumane a former rugby player.

  • @sinethembatwani1460
    @sinethembatwani1460 Před 2 lety +18

    Amstel is so intelligent, so beautiful and so inspiring. What a storyteller 🥰🥰

  • @thina5918
    @thina5918 Před 2 lety +14

    This was one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched. Amstel is an absolutely amazing soul 💕💕

  • @sibusisoradebe9642
    @sibusisoradebe9642 Před 2 lety +9

    They were (3 sum) the "IT" boys of the early 2000s.....this was before the social media days.....i still recall running into them back in 2001 alongside lebo mathosa in randburg drawing attention as usual......Thank God he is still and may God sustain him ❤

  • @ntombozukomatomane9826
    @ntombozukomatomane9826 Před 2 lety +19

    I grew up watching Three Sum I loved Koyo more may they continue to RIP. Love this interview, Rele always delivers 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ntombenthsambadlanyana6123
      @ntombenthsambadlanyana6123 Před 2 lety +1

      Koyo was from Gugulethu in Cape Town and he was friends with my older sister. What an amazing person, such a lovely soul.. Amstel bethuna so amazing and honesty

  • @basadibontsi5866
    @basadibontsi5866 Před 2 lety +14

    I HV been wondering where is Amstel woow we happy to see you❤️❤️

  • @boitumelopetlele
    @boitumelopetlele Před 2 lety +18

    My favourite. 🎉🎉❤️🤩 Enjoyed the interview. I remember seeing them for the first time in Rustenburg 2004/5. Blessings Amstel💐

    • @sibusisoradebe9642
      @sibusisoradebe9642 Před 2 lety

      I saw them in 2001 with lebo mathosa and i knew they were destined for greater things

  • @mphoentlemahumapelo4021
    @mphoentlemahumapelo4021 Před 2 lety +7

    This just took me back when I was young. What moment. Amstel still looks good and I love his energy. Always gracious. Keep going 🙌🏽

  • @brightdyondzisani4651
    @brightdyondzisani4651 Před 2 lety +10

    When I first met these crazy people they're were sharing a stage with Lebo Mathosa Koyo called me out the same way he did with Amstel after their performance I miss them so bad. This was a great interview, Amstel is a legend

  • @tinotenda.beasty3973
    @tinotenda.beasty3973 Před 2 lety +7

    The way I'm getting hooked on unpacked lol hopefully one day I have something to unpack lol I love you

  • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872
    @jeromelubabalojacobs8872 Před 2 lety +2

    This was a closer I didn't think I needed. Thank you Amstel and Lebo.

  • @hlonimokobodi5776
    @hlonimokobodi5776 Před 2 lety +10

    Much luv for you Amstel 💓 Thanks for bringing him in Relebogile

  • @utjizembisa
    @utjizembisa Před 2 lety +25

    Namibia 🇳🇦 present 😊

  • @sihleqengqeleka7125
    @sihleqengqeleka7125 Před 2 lety +8

    Oh man... I remember this group... You guys did wonders!

  • @eugeniamanana9424
    @eugeniamanana9424 Před 2 lety +6

    May God bless Amstel. Strong and lovable personality.

  • @tsheolarakgahla7450
    @tsheolarakgahla7450 Před 2 lety +3

    So articulate... love him and his story

  • @ratiwabammekwa4219
    @ratiwabammekwa4219 Před 2 lety +2

    I always command the people who are still here to tell their lovely stories, i wish Lebo was still with us to share hers...lovely Amstel

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for giving our loved icons their flowers 💐

  • @siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888

    Your closing remark Relebogile is so humbling 🙏👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @_biekies_9738
    @_biekies_9738 Před 2 lety +6

    I always wondered what ever happened to this group. This was another great episode 👍🏽🦋🌈

  • @FufuSithole
    @FufuSithole Před 2 lety +5

    He is so well spoken.

  • @tshohanamokhothu4462
    @tshohanamokhothu4462 Před 2 lety +3

    Pampamparas! Amstel... You're still looking as young and as stylish as ever! Much love ♥

  • @charlottemthombeni5922
    @charlottemthombeni5922 Před 2 lety +6

    Amstel you are a warm and genuine person. I love how you love yourself, your family and craft. It's rare to find people like you. Continue to be YOU.

  • @irenehlapane5082
    @irenehlapane5082 Před 2 lety +8

    Amstel how beautiful it is to see you my beautiful diva iam watching you all the way from Denver Colorado I love you Amstel. Keep going my my hunny bun ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥#Legend living legend 💟

    • @dikeledimothiba65
      @dikeledimothiba65 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes I truly agree with that! Living legend. Considering he's been with MaBrrr and Lebo like wooow! It's really nice to see him so happy and alive! His energy is amazing!

  • @DinnyM051
    @DinnyM051 Před 2 lety +16

    He's always been so stylist, I hope he's still doing well in life ❣️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤

  • @DJ_Ndiks
    @DJ_Ndiks Před 2 lety +9

    'Love yourself, respect yourself and live life to the fullest'. That's a good advise.💜

  • @siphompofu4782
    @siphompofu4782 Před 2 lety +4

    Chomi zika Lebo yoo bengaphaphi shuu🤣remember episode kwa City Sesla singing butterfly butterfly oh Koyo the smile 😍... Amstel aa bhoza yam ndkcanywa💕

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq Před 2 lety +6

    If youv been young in jhb n ready to explore your can read between th lines..this life can b sweetooooo💕

  • @zandilebindamonokoane7321

    They blew us away. Thier craft, fashion and music was on fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @RayOfLetsatsi
    @RayOfLetsatsi Před 2 lety +11

    Omg I remember the group 🔥🔥😂aww bathong

  • @pinyepinye1997
    @pinyepinye1997 Před rokem +1

    I might not have been born during his/their prime error but I can feel it and see it when he says they gave a performance and the audience asked for more 😆😆😍😍 I believe it ,just by the energy he is giving off so monumental and cheerful #legend

  • @lesegochaane9909
    @lesegochaane9909 Před 2 lety +3

    I love Amstel’s humanity. Met him a couple of times and what you see is definitely what you get. He is definitely a peoples person. Love him

  • @clonapsbethe1261
    @clonapsbethe1261 Před 2 lety +7

    Thanks to bring Amstell ,I love the guy.

  • @nontobekosibisi7401
    @nontobekosibisi7401 Před 2 lety +2

    Amstel always on point well put together ❤

  • @tlhologelomashigo4663
    @tlhologelomashigo4663 Před 2 lety +1

    They way Amstel speak s si lovingly about the other 2, Jeff really had the most gorgeous smile and Koyo's energy was undeniable even off stage

  • @zeeelove9259
    @zeeelove9259 Před 2 lety +6

    Koyo came all the way from Cape town to say good byee friends ❤❤

  • @shandragossett8075
    @shandragossett8075 Před 2 lety +2

    Amstel is a very beautiful name that definitely fits YOU. You are STILL ABLE THROUGH IT ALL.
    💯❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
    “Amstel”

  • @FirstLadyTshepi
    @FirstLadyTshepi Před rokem

    What a life journey that this group has travelled. They stood firm with themselves, loved life and lived their truths. What a time it was in this country's history
    #UnpackedWithRelebogile

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 Před 2 lety +1

    A beautiful story😍❤️💐🥺

  • @unmutewithnonhli
    @unmutewithnonhli Před rokem

    Hope you are well. Very few friends that are authentic. Good luck

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 Před 2 lety +5

    Tsala😍😍😍😍😍😍looking gorgeous as always. I love this episode

  • @edwardmoutlana6248
    @edwardmoutlana6248 Před 2 lety +1

    Much Love 😍 😍 😍

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe Před 2 lety +1

    Wooow I love him so much we’ll spoken 😍

  • @thatokgobe1403
    @thatokgobe1403 Před 2 lety +6

    Amstel is a LEGEND!

    • @griffithmagazi3562
      @griffithmagazi3562 Před 2 lety

      Amstel is a Legend! We need a documentary.This was a great interview 💯

  • @TarCarNey
    @TarCarNey Před 2 lety +2

    I use to see them all the time on Drum megazine 😭😭❤❤❤

  • @lebogangdibetsoe4648
    @lebogangdibetsoe4648 Před 2 lety +1

    I enjoyed watching this😭 I didn't want it to end🥺❤️🔥 All the best Amstel🎉🎊

  • @kaingonakauta6460
    @kaingonakauta6460 Před 2 lety +3

    He so lovely 🥰 💕

  • @ZaneleNyathela-im4vz
    @ZaneleNyathela-im4vz Před 10 měsíci

    I really ❤ this soul

  • @mapulakola8495
    @mapulakola8495 Před 2 lety +5

    So sweet, I want to give you a hug hle Amstel

  • @Leradennis
    @Leradennis Před 2 lety +1

    This band was lit!

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 Před 2 lety +6

    Oh maan Amstel😍😍😍

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude Před 2 lety +3

    What a beautiful person in and out

  • @marientalphysiotherapy3325

    I remember them, the 1st time I read about them was from a move magazine back in the years.....
    Soo thy rest eishhhhhhhhhh
    All the strength to him..

  • @mililzydizzy9695
    @mililzydizzy9695 Před 2 lety +4

    Aus Relebogile looks so beautiful ! The make up 😍😍

  • @carolinemotlhabane4386
    @carolinemotlhabane4386 Před 2 lety +1

    One of my favourite episodes,as for papanras koyo 😂

  • @SecondChanceswithSophiaV
    @SecondChanceswithSophiaV Před 2 lety +3

    I'm watching the episode on 15 March, the same day Koyo's memorial service was hosted. This was heart warming to watch.

  • @ZomziWeAfrika
    @ZomziWeAfrika Před 2 lety +10

    I know Amstel❤️ is so funny and adorable. Rest In Peace Koyo. Three some

  • @nomvulalangasiki3927
    @nomvulalangasiki3927 Před 10 měsíci

    I love the genuine Ness frm Amstell

  • @deborahmurorua5018
    @deborahmurorua5018 Před 2 lety +1

    Miss XO❤️

  • @annetsletsiki5808
    @annetsletsiki5808 Před 2 lety +1

    Gorgeous Armstel ❤️😍

  • @diamondgirl1264
    @diamondgirl1264 Před 2 lety +1

    Nice interview from Amstel

  • @sibonginkosinyathi7580
    @sibonginkosinyathi7580 Před 2 lety +1

    Usajaiva like you used to do e Tandoor ubuyenza into yakho back thern Tandoor is no longer the same without you Moffie. Ezasala zazingefani nani

  • @nduvho94
    @nduvho94 Před 2 lety +1

    Amstel ♥️♥️♥️

  • @julietedochem9041
    @julietedochem9041 Před 2 lety +2

    Went to school with Koyo...RIP

  • @zamo_ma
    @zamo_ma Před rokem

    😭❤️❤️

  • @boipelomohlakoane7959
    @boipelomohlakoane7959 Před 2 lety +1

    KE BA LUVA GORE🥺❤️ ke rata go re o butsi ka Butterfly

  • @princesspheto2001
    @princesspheto2001 Před 2 lety +1

    🦋✨

  • @Itsntsikayomzi_
    @Itsntsikayomzi_ Před 2 lety +3

    Somizi must also come to this show 🥺

  • @Itsntsikayomzi_
    @Itsntsikayomzi_ Před 2 lety

    🥺🥺🥺

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 Před 2 lety +2

    TANDOOR!

  • @Amanda-nh7nf
    @Amanda-nh7nf Před 2 lety +3

    💐💐🇿🇦♥️

  • @sisandalisa2215
    @sisandalisa2215 Před 2 lety +1

    Amstel is so lovely ☺️

  • @tebogosenosi2389
    @tebogosenosi2389 Před 2 lety +2

    Haibo this guy still alive 😳 long time no see or hear from him ijoh guy keep going man I remember u from group 3sum

  • @wamkelwentuli3130
    @wamkelwentuli3130 Před 2 lety +4

    Firsttt🥳

  • @ahviwe
    @ahviwe Před 2 lety +1

    I thought she passed too. Am I the only one who thought so?

  • @cebonkosi5103
    @cebonkosi5103 Před 2 lety +3

    2nd 💪🏽😂

  • @damariszuckschwert9489
    @damariszuckschwert9489 Před 2 lety +6

    I got lost between the eye lashes and finger nails

  • @MrZuneJ
    @MrZuneJ Před 2 lety +1

    eyebrows for days

  • @noluvobavuma1332
    @noluvobavuma1332 Před 2 lety +3

    6th 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿😂

  • @velilengema8188
    @velilengema8188 Před 2 lety +2

    4th☺

  • @fungaikufa4312
    @fungaikufa4312 Před 2 lety +3

    Fifth

  • @letlotlojoykekana5646
    @letlotlojoykekana5646 Před 2 lety +4

    6th 🤣🤣

  • @leratomaleke3345
    @leratomaleke3345 Před 2 lety +3

    Third 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 Před 2 lety +2

    Ask him/her whether Ephriam is gay🙄

    • @relebogilemabotja215
      @relebogilemabotja215  Před 2 lety +7

      Him. Why should I ask that?

    • @letshegomelesi8536
      @letshegomelesi8536 Před 2 lety

      Haaibo 😒

    • @penelopegomez5934
      @penelopegomez5934 Před 2 lety

      You are out of order

    • @marytsheole2007
      @marytsheole2007 Před rokem

      Lebo is professional she knows which questions to ask she knows how to respect people she knows boundaries she is excellent at her craft , girl bona u r killing it ,gape le gape over n over💌