Benji's Story

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  • čas přidán 14. 02. 2019
  • Though called by different names, the practice of attempting to change someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity is still happening, and its effects have been catastrophic. That’s why Equality Utah is working with the Utah Legislature, mental health organizations, and parents to end the practice of conversion therapy on children in Utah.
    Learn more about the facts at equalityutah.org/stillhappening.
    Produced by TWIG Media in partnership with Equality Utah.

Komentáře • 39

  • @rubyred6167
    @rubyred6167 Před 2 lety +7

    🌈🌈Thank you for sharing you story. So brave! Much love . Stay safe God Bless 🌈🌈

  • @brittkelly6326
    @brittkelly6326 Před 9 měsíci +2

    12 years. That is horrifying and so heartbreaking. Thank you for speaking.

  • @reubenvries8807
    @reubenvries8807 Před 2 lety +5

    Benji, you were, you are and you will always be an inspiration. Pure genius, kindest heart, humble and true to yourself. We love you just as you are. Thank you for speaking up so honestly.

  • @fredsalinas9830
    @fredsalinas9830 Před 5 lety +20

    Omg Benji , my heart breaks thinking of all you went through , I wish I could have met you and talked to you and let you know that you were Ok to be you Just the way you are and that you Did Not need these conversion therapies. I’m just glad you came to terms with it and blossomed into the wonderful person you are. You are an Inspiration Benji Keep it up you are perfect just they way you are.

  • @dianesawtell7216
    @dianesawtell7216 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I just started watching Swing dancing. I'm am a 75 year old lady. I started following certain dancers that I enjoyed. Many different people came up in my feed. The first time I saw you dance I fell in love with your energy and ability. Tonight I saw your retirement and was sad. I was a few years behind here. I was so impressed how you gave credit to so many others. You seemed like such a kind and loving person. Below in the feed there was this video. I thought it was you but wasn't sure. I clicked on it and found out that you have so much history. You are such an amazing person and will forever be making a difference in others lives. If there were more people in the world like you., the world would be a much kinder peaceful place to live.

  • @evyz1413
    @evyz1413 Před rokem +3

    Loved you since SYTYCD. You’re the most amazing person. Be you. Thank you for being you. ❤

  • @caroleerowan530
    @caroleerowan530 Před 2 lety +2

    Benjamin. I love you. Listening to you made me cry.

  • @vaishnaviumrekar1824
    @vaishnaviumrekar1824 Před 3 lety +2

    You are a strong man. To go through all that and come out the other end. Anyone could collapse. I would also like to thank anyone who supported you when you needed them. You are gem Benji 💎 and so is everyone who supported you.

  • @lefthandman6203
    @lefthandman6203 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for speaking out on this Benji - appreciate it greatly

  • @summit9681
    @summit9681 Před 3 lety +5

    I am an active Latter-day Saint...what the heck is all of this? I cannot believe that those around you put you through all of this garbage!
    Embrace and accept everyone means just that. This type of therapy is evil.

  • @2004jenese
    @2004jenese Před 3 lety +2

    I had no idea you were going through this. I am so happy that you made it out on the other side. Love who you love! Conversion therapy is just another way to make people hate themselves. Praying for you!

  • @binkerboo
    @binkerboo Před rokem +1

    GGRRRRR!!!!!! Stuff like this makes me so incensed that it's still happening. I must applaud you, Benji, for coming out, sharing your story, and hopefully moving the needle in the right direction. I hope you are finding peace and I am LOVING the fact that you are fighting for the healthy future of queer folks. You are amazing!!!! Keep up the great work and hope to see you on the dance floor some day. :-) Much love and support from Oregon!

  • @theresabyess6754
    @theresabyess6754 Před 3 lety +2

    You are wonderful. You talk and dance for your heart. So calming.

  • @Elizebeth20
    @Elizebeth20 Před 4 lety +5

    Never ever get down on yourself! You've making a huge positive difference for thousands of people. You're ok at dancing too...kinda. :)

  • @josepinard30
    @josepinard30 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @brettmastema7056
    @brettmastema7056 Před 2 lety

    Its like the clockwork orange machine to do the associate everything with love for him with vomiting.. I can't believe that he went through this.. I have been such a fan of his from SYTYCD. And I am so proud of him., Its so brave to speak out. I know how the LDS church is probably not thrilled and so that has got to be hard. And Also people, there are a lot of great members of the LDS church and so if you get angry its the people who perpetuate the hate not every member of the church. I love seeing the movement parts in here. Im so glad you are still with us. Sorry its Christmas and I'm all emotional suddenly. This caught me off guard..

  • @ghelfling_bunny
    @ghelfling_bunny Před 4 měsíci

    He is perfect the way he is

  • @cecilerudis4025
    @cecilerudis4025 Před 3 lety +3

    It was only a couple of days ago that I saw another video of yours and what you were going through with some sort of therapy....So sorry, but I could not watch it to the end. Why did you agree to it? I've read a couple of peoples experiences that have gone through that, and how painful it was. I hope you now accept that you are you, and not who others want you to be. I wish you much love and happiness in being you!!!!

  • @hildalaurarodriguez4319

    Excelente bailarín gracias por compartir tus experiencias y preparaciones por seguir adelante

  • @lexis4490
    @lexis4490 Před 3 lety +2

    Oh my god, no, no, no. I hate Benji and others had to go through this.

  • @butheinatalal5944
    @butheinatalal5944 Před 6 měsíci

    How did Benji go from Zoolander to Tom cruise? ❤

  • @gavinmccune93
    @gavinmccune93 Před rokem

    Beautiful person.

  • @Firenze1924
    @Firenze1924 Před 4 lety +2

    😢😢

  • @m.v.399
    @m.v.399 Před rokem

    I "new" Benji was gay and it is wonderful that he is out!!

  • @themcooke1477
    @themcooke1477 Před rokem

    I hope he hears about Jesus Christ and His hope, He is the only one who can save us from our sin. This is heart breaking to hear that they consider this possible. Only God can change a heart!

  • @BoondocksOfBoston
    @BoondocksOfBoston Před 5 lety +2

    Is that a mjolnir necklace?

  • @xadam2dudex
    @xadam2dudex Před rokem

    so this is Benji Schwimmer ?

  • @Trenchant468
    @Trenchant468 Před rokem

    So
    F’d
    Up
    Beni, I saw you dance as a little kid, and it’s hard to picture your parents and the church messing with that little kid so much.

  • @annachristie377
    @annachristie377 Před 4 lety

    This guy's story is totally different in his Mormon stories channel

    • @kellybutler520
      @kellybutler520 Před 3 lety +3

      Hmm. I watched those interviews and it's pretty much exactly the same. Just a much shortened version.

  • @coolfix948
    @coolfix948 Před 3 lety +1

    When non gym guys become gym guys they look so weird. Benji is much more handsome without these muscle build up. What is so abnormal about just being healthy. Why Benji needs to Butch up to look certain type ?