We Got Our Kids iPhones... Under ONE Condition
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- čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
- Here is the link to the phone agreement we discussed in the episode→ messengerinternational.org/at...
Do smart parents let their kids have smartphones? And if so, when?
Many parents feel overwhelmed by the challenges that come with navigating the digital world with their kids. There’s so much pressure to protect them, but often, they are unsure how, or even if, that’s possible. How do you go beyond rules that restrict and find ways to truly teach and empower your kids to make wise decisions?
Perhaps no issue brings all of these challenges to the forefront as much as smartphones.
This week on At Home with the Beveres, we invited our two oldest kids Asher and Sophie to join us, and we’re tackling the phone issue head on.
Tune in for some practical tools to help your family thrive in the digital age!
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Chapters:
0:00 - 4 Things We Are Talking about Today!
0:12 - Screenagers
1:25 - Our Prayer and Consideration
5:03 - iPhones But NOT Social Media
10:05 - Asking Our Kids If Getting Them Phones Was a Good Idea
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Life was so much easier when there was no internet and smart phones. But that train has left the station. This is a good idea to discuss phone use with our kids.
I understand honesty when I'm in a good mood 😂😂😂 I love how honest your kids are❤ you guys are doing a great job
Your children are so blessed to have parents so intentional in their parenting. Keeping the conversation open between you all is so wonderful. Keep up the great work!
I love how he said “it gets confusing sometimes to see if I have the restrictions because my parents love me more OR is it just because they are stricter?” That’s so so smart because usually it’s immediately “they hate me!” Or “they are strict!” Rather than… hey they are doing me a favor with this
I have two young boys, these videos are SUCH a blessing as we navigate parenting. I love the honesty of your son! It shows you’ve given him a son-ship mindset. He knows he’s loved, you’re on his team, and he knows you want the best for him.
That was the best opener ever LOL
I love the honesty of the young boy
This is so good! My son just turned 12 and he wanted a phone but we said no, not quite yet. Even my own mother attempted to buy him a phone (secretly) and he got so upset about that idea because he knows it’s not allowed with us. Which I’m super proud of my son telling me. I love this discussion.
I love this family dynamic. A family to aspire to. The kids authenticity, love it!
I wasn’t sure about kids but they way you converse with your kids makes me want to be a parent 🤍
Honestly I am so impressed with your son and how he is so honest with you. Gives me so much hope that I will have the same type of relationship my son as he grows.
These shows with teens are so insightful. Thank you So much. One of our boys just turn 13 and when I was listening to Asher, I was able to understand more my son and the moods and changes he is going through… to your teens. Thank you for joining mom and dad at the table!
I LOVE these conversations and I love hearing your young teens being honest. I want to hear their perspective on CZcams and y’all’s perspective on CZcams as social media/ a way of learning and how yall train in that aspect. 🙏🏾
I love that you’re talking about this. I got my oldest daughter a phone at 13 and we completely locked it down. Locking it down was a big frustration for her and as she got older, we unlocked it and then just put restrictions and time limits on everything. She still says that she feels like we got her a phone too early Our next daughter got her phone at 15. The way we did social media was they first have an account through my phone for at least the first year. That way I can see everything that’s going on. And they have to ask for my phone to look at it lol I think that worked out great and they seemed very happy with that, my daughter didn’t get Instagram on her own phone until she was 17.
Really appreciate you having your kids on and sharing as well. This is good. Appreciate this.
This was a great episode - I love when you bring your beautiful children into the discussions!
I looooove you all's honesty... This was a very very productive conversation. I will watch this with family to discuss... many good points and reality checks.
This is your best episode yet (and they are all good!). I REALLY appreciate the honesty and the biblical worldview you provide about phones. Also thankful your kids shared the honest battle. We need more of this! Good job 👏🏼
Thank you, Bevere Family, for always being so transparent and relatable! I am so thankful that you arm your children and viewers/listeners with facts and information that support your decisions! You mentioned a lot of studies concerning the effects of social media on individuals of varying ages- is it possible for you to share the links to those studies or other information where we can see and share those findings?
I love the honesty from your children. So helpful hearing all sides of it. Thank you!
Wonderful podcast-thank you all so much!
Just love it.. wish we had your insight when our kids were growing up.
Soo good! I watched it with my teen and he connected so much with your son and the struggles between what is right and what his impulses want to do. Thank you to your family for sharing and being sincere!
Also, what is the Ted talk you guys mentioned watching with your kids? I’d love to watch with my kids as well.
This is so awesome. I loved hearing this conversation.
This is such a helpful video! I'm not a parent but watching how you both navigated this conversation with your kids was so healthy and definitely something I'll apply for my future kids ✊
Thank you, God. I needed this. Have a 14, 16, and 18 year old. Lost 18 year old to phone 📱
Thank you for doing this topic!
This was fantastic and so helpful. Just thought I'd let you know that the agreement has one of the points listed twice (unless it was intentional?) and a spelling mistake "watching shoes" instead of "shows"
So good 👍 Please have more conversation like this.
Love, love the honesty!!
Well done parents. You raised your kids to be very self aware children. I believe this is possible because you makes it safe for them to speak. It shows how well you researched to make an informed decision for your children. I don’t have any children yet I am a high school teacher and I can see how damaging social media has become. It’s terrifying!!
We must pray for parents.
This is so good. Making me reconsider when to give the kids a phone. I got off IG a few years ago and it was one of the best decisions I made.
Ya,ll are for signs and wonders 😊❤ we love you guys and thank God for your ministry
I think that phones are not necessarily the problem, social media definitely is. My kids have a shared phone that has no internet or network. So they use it for music or pictures or whatever so for me it's not a big deal. I don't understand what a phone is for other than communication.
Great one!!
We were talking about this issue in our church leadership meeting. Parents feel their teens are glued to their phones. I noticed it when teaching the youth class two weeks ago. Three youth were told to keep their phones off during class.
Thank you Ty Ty ❤🙌🏼🙏🏻❤️🔥👏🏼. Absolute love your wisdom (Gods wisdom!)
Love love love how your are allowing Gods wisdom to flow thru ur young adults❤. YES, Asher n Sophie, SO prOud of the both of U!
U r navigating SO Well with this phine “thing” 👏🏼👍🏼💯
This is where I am at w my teens. How to navigate social media, IF it should b allowed in my teens lives. Especially w three of my 4 teens who I see can b prone to addiction (which like Julie mentioned).
So hard! I was personally convicted when they mentioned that they put away ALL phones and not just the kids’. What type of example am I displaying for my daughter? That one hurt. 😮
That intro! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You guys are doing great! ❤
Would you mind putting the link of the ted talk that mentioned teenagers losing 50 percent of their brain, and don't get it back till their 25yrs old. I would like to see that.
Thankyou fyrchavingvrhis conversation and the contract idea is a good one.
It was good to mention some of the whys behind the whats😊
We got my oldest a bark phone. They also have a Gabb phone.
They are safer phone options. ❤
Going to share this on Facebook
THIS IS SO GOOD!!!
His "yaayy 🙃" 😂😂😂. I appreciate yall sharing this. God is good. Little dude did describe romans 7 so well. Thats never gonna end. But God! ❤🙏🙌
Beautiful
What parent control/security program do you use?
Getting them a iphone sounds like a good idea until one of them says they lost the iphone.
Suggestions on monitoring app or ways to make iPhone safer?
Hi there! I have two questions. Do you guys share a copy of the contract with parents so we can get ideas on what to do and say in contract?
Also- do you consider you tube social media if your child has a you tube channel and is talking to kids and getting subscribers and likes?
Here is the link to the phone agreement we discussed in the episode→ messengerinternational.org/at-home-podcast-cell-phone-contract/
It's not a privilege. Amen!!
Please could you send me a copy of the contract! Thank you ❤
Do your children make use of WhatsApp or how do they communicate with friends
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My family and I have a blended dynamic. We have all boys, 2 of which have phones. At our home we have rules and structure. Not so much at the other parents. Can your podcasts include more practical ways to implement structure and obedience in blended families in EVERY SITUATION?
We pray for the other parents that they come to know the Lord and we also know that we can only control our household and keep doing our thing God's way, but it becomes discouraging and disheartening when the boys choose things contrary to what is being taught in our home.
If you missed it, we covered an episode on blended families! Here is a link :) czcams.com/video/otyuzaNqrfQ/video.html
@athomewiththebeveres I did see that one. Thank you. Just searcing for more.
Guys, what is Julie's father's name? I want to ask other people to pray for him. Thanks and God bless you guys powerfuly in Jesus' mighty name!! ❤