LET THE WOMEN Pursue YOU - Feeding their NATURAL Hypergamous NATURE for maximum arousal
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Casey…u are so right. I was talking to a cute 7 who was all over me. It was perfect, then I started liking her a bit more and she went cold and distant, and it eventually ended. I think she sensed I started liking her, and it eventually went bad. I was actually talking to a model (hard 10)before meeting her, and I ghosted her for the cute girl.
Anyways I hit the model back up after it went bad. I was heartbroken cause if the other chic so I was a bit distant and my heart wasn’t in it. I don’t really reach out to her, and I’m a bit emotionless, but still talk and act a bit aloof. NOW this chic is all on me. She has dudes sending her cash just to talk to her. There’s even a race car driver that is Pershing her heavily, sending her money to see her. She tells me all of this. But she’s over my place making me food, calling me, and doing everything the other guys want, but can’t get. It’s crazy…gotta thank you.
It’s good to watch these videos weekly just to remind me of how the dynamics work. Awesome work man!
Bravo Casey !
I've got proof this works.
I had a gal a few years ago that I couldn't get rid of. She'd show up or call in the most inopportune times... when I'm with another gal or making herself overly available. So, I created a plan, usually over the phone when she called me.... I slowly started getting loving, not all at once but I gave that vibe. About the third call, I would tell her that I loved her and mentioned marriage subtly. I would swoon a bit on the phone and the next call I made, I insisted on starting to make wedding plans. hahaha.... I stopped hearing from her for about six months. Now I haven't heard or seen her in 4yrs.
No more getting calls or her stopping by at any time. Works like a charm !
You should write a book I'll buy
This is so fake. So wrong. OP is spewing low iq !#$% in an attempt to farm like for $$$. Down vote this guy for lieing.
Is it possible to give logical certainty and emotional (incongruent) uncertainty at the same time?.. For honesty's sake lol. Once you have them attached already, I mean.
You’re 100% saving my mental health brother
😀
Same
i’ve been doing this the gym is the way everyday
Fr bro, dude is setting my mind straight on so many little things that are adding up to a new me and a new vision
Truth of this kind will do just that. Freedom !
The more you pursue the more they run away.
“Don’t go chasing butterflies , they’ll only fly away . Mend your own garden , and the butterflies will come to you” - Mario Quintana
but im horny and I've been on a 4 month dry spell... its hard to not pursue but is what I should do
yup you have to think like this, Girls are fans of you but you are in the field and there cheering
Like deer
If you're ugly yeah
This is logical. Letting them chase fulfills their instinctual behaviour to seek the most independent man. Chasing her automatically tells her you arent independent but somehow need her, the one who wants to feel protected.
All of my best, most sexually abundant relationships have been with women I wasn’t wildly attracted to. But that sucks, because I want to be with a woman I’m wildly attracted to.
i think you might need to reframe those women as women you are not wildly attracted to so you behave like you do with those you are not attracted to@@Involent
@@anushasaxena8073 How do you reframe a woman as unattractive? Focus on her irritating and annoying traits? What incentive then is there to be with her?
@@anushasaxena8073 How do you do that, except by constantly focusing on their annoying and irritating traits? At that point, what’s the incentive to be with them?
@@Involent I mean I’m sure her friends are hot right
Key point: Pursue her during the courtship phase.
1. Build attraction, 2. build trust and comfort, then 3. build seduction
Withdraw attention and allow her to pursue you to secure the relationship.
If you are waiting for a woman to pursue you at the start, you'll be waiting forever because over 80% of women want men to do the first approach.
This is very true. This right here is where guys including myself have to get better at. The reason pursuing first is uncomfortable is because if your atleast a decent human being with a heart you will catch some what of feelings as you get to know them ,and ive noticed the resistance becomes harder to pull away, but it takes practice. Ive got myself to apoint I can instinctively notice when it's time to pull away cause you will feel a girls energy shift when she's pursuing .if your in touch with your own energy you can naturally sense things. Two people can not pursue each other . Women want the disney fantasy, so as men we are not allowed to fall in love or you ruin their experience. It actually works best that way.
@@Raj-cl7hedude nothing is wrong with feeling strong attraction to her, it’s not even about “pursuing”, it’s literally getting to know her as a man and making clear decisions about the direction you want to take that interaction. eg, date
@@Raj-cl7healso it’s okay if you catch feelings for them, just also know that if you show it you will be punished for it. It’s the same as not eating junk food when you’re on a diet. You have a goal and there are uncomfortable things you need to do to achieve it. There are methods to satisfy those cravings eg, instead of going to dunkin’ donuts, make a protein brownie. Instead of spilling your feelings, have a extra nice outing/trip with her
Near-perfect comment. You can never build attraction however you can build desire. Attraction is non negotiable.
How do I pursue a girl I find cute on the street or something then
When I was in graduate school I thought I hit the jackpot. This incredibly gorgeous and intelligent woman, from a wealthy family, was interested in me. I dated her and ended up living with her. I didn't pursue her much at first since I didn't have to. I thought: "Finally, a gorgeous woman likes me, like it is supposed to happen in movies." But then her women friends started telling her that she could do better. I got insecure and pursued her more. It was like a hit of Dopamine, and I needed her to be into me, and I started to suffer withdrawals and craved more. As you predicted, she then lost interest in me. Kicked me out of her car while it was still moving. (At least she slowed down.) I then went into a funk. Maybe a year passed and I met another woman, OK-looking but not model material like the first. This other woman was easy to talk to, but other than asking her out on our first date, and some other things I wanted to do anyways but included her, I didn't pursue her. That was almost 45 years ago. We are still happily married. You spoke the truth.
jeeez😂
maybe don't let a woman kick you out of their car until it stops? glad you moved on from that predicament. finding true happiness within matters
11:40 men, understand this. The same way when you look at a woman with curves, butt and boobs and you cant help but be attracted... it is the same for women when there is uncertainty about your level of attraction.... THEY CAN'T HELP IT, IT HAPPENS NATURALLY. Do NOT listen to what they say, they are repeating what they hear because it sounds socially correct. But when you do, WHAT HAPPENS? Exactly! PAY ATTENTION TO HER ACTIONS NEVER HER WORDS, because women act on how they FEEL IN THE PRESENT MOMENT.... this VERY minute, not hour, nor day, THIS MINUTE.
I agree with you and Casey theoretically, but come on fellas. Most modern women are airheads. These are unruly feminists. Why put in all this effort? All we need to do is have sexual discipline and ignore women for a year. No approaching, no dating apps, no looking. I guarantee you they will change their ways.
@@carpediem4512 why do you want the easiest pathway out. Come on, get on the playing field and score some points.
This is so facts. Illusion of action is what it’s called. And really it’s because on a subconscious level you need to know she’s there.
How do u do that in marriage ?😂
This is why most relationships or situationships, last longer when the Woman is the one seeking the attention and desire from the Man.
as it should be!
you are 100% correct
@@omars365moments Yup!!!
What I start understand more and more, is that it’s rather a process of deprogramming our limited beliefs and conditioning instead of acquiring new knowledge
Deep comment 💯
All video in one coment
Factual
Fair enough
I'm 29 years and when I look back at all the shit I've done before just because of being anxious, or showing interest too fast, or revealing my cards without reason. Holy fxck man, I hope I can get the chances again with beautiful women to prove myself I've learned the lessons. Thanks Casey
Don't worry, you will.
Im 36 bro and I can assure you will have chances over and over again
Every girl I’ve chased always ends up ghosting me, every girl I’ve distanced myself from has started chasing. It’s strange, growing up I’ve been accustomed to the male character doing everything in his power to chase the woman. You see it in shows like Tom n Jerry, Johnny Bravo, various movies and shows. I’ve always got the impression that girls enjoy the chase, but my results speak otherwise. I’m going to start pulling away from dating and start focusing on bettering myself. All this chasing has only led me to drop my standards and my self esteem.
Same experience bro. What ive seen work is give vague signals that you may like her, then distance
Tend to your garden
"When you pursue a woman it's you sub-consciously seeking assurance." That hit hard for me. When I feel myself falling into this mode, I think what would the most masculine version of me do. So I get my feelings under control, detach from the outcome, and just do me. With a little patience and time, they always pursue.
How much time really are we talkin' about until they pursue?
@@davidj.espino2435could be anywhere from a day or two two a week or two or three
@@davidj.espino2435 You shouldn't expect any woman to pursue you, but from time to time there will be a woman who will pursue you, and don't expect her to pursue you hard, they will just initiate conversations, be very nice to you (which idk if it's a good signal because all women were nice with me in my life), but eventually, you'll have to make moves or else they'll go with some other guy. I don't suggest verbally asking her to be your girlfriend, but just basically start treating her like a girlfriend, ask her to go out with u for coffee, or to get something to eat, give her attention but not too much just from time to time. From my experience going FULLY cold on a woman like not even initiating conversations with her until she did, not setting dates, that doesn't really work... they do "pursue" but it never goes anywhere. Just be playful and treat them like your girlfriend without telling them that they're your girlfriend.
@@davidj.espino2435It’s a by the situation thing but say a woman stops responding to a short text thread or you call her and she doesn’t answer…
I can almost guarantee you 99% of woman will do this interest test to see if you’re needy.
It helps you(me) in 2 ways…
1 When you don’t double text or send any other communication back PERIOD. It shows her you don’t care if you never talk to her again.
2 This helps in two ways…one it’ll raise her urgency, eventually she’ll wonder if you are still interested and text back/call back to pursue you
Two if you never hear back within 1-5 days, her interest level probably isn’t worth it…she may be attracted to you but you’re guy number 3 or lower in her rotation…she’ll make guy 1 or 2 a priority pursue him
Sometimes they won't persue, fade away...but it's ok it's part of the game (50/50?)
In a relationship one person leads (leader/captain of the relationship) and the other follows; in other words one in a dominant position and one in a submissive position.
The pursuer is always in a submissive position. The person who is doing more, who is giving more, who is more invested can't be the captain/leader of the relationship because they're in a submissive position where they're following their lover.
That's why as a masculine partner, you can't like her more than she likes you. You shouldn't do or invest more to a woman than she does for you. Always be one step behind to establish masculine-feminine polarity and become a leader of the dynamic
This applies to today only, not 30-40+ years ago
@@jimhagger7 this has always been like this. It's an inherent interhuman dynamics, regardless of time
@@jimhagger7 the human nature and masculine-feminine dynamics never change. But, what makes you think this applies to today only, and not 30-40+ years ago? what was different in your opinion?
This really isn't completely true because today many women want simps they can control and feel more secure about ...and many women jus want sex no commitment.....yes u need 'game' or masculine frame to sustain any relationship long term.... But the main thing women care about is physical attraction and how desirable you are to other women mainly game and being masculine comes way later because everyone thinks all women are the same they definitely arnt many are control freaks dominant types many are insecure and emotionally broken and many have many other issues or don't even know what they want. Many women will have sex with a 8 or 9 guy with great body but never committ cause he's attractive and desirable....where many will choose a guy who's a 6 or 7 but has a gut or dad bod to get in a relationship with that is a simp for her and makes her feel more secure ...the ones that truly go after what ur saying are high value 9s emotionally healthy and strong women and guess what few exist today and u better be in her top 3 choices to even stand a chance ...if u goin for one u can forget about how dominant u are ..and yes 30 plus years ago. ..women were submissive and naturally went for strong dominant men and ones they connected too emotionally far more often then today with 50 plus options on social media based mainly on looks and desirabllity....there's very lil game even goin on....and once u in a relationship she controls it...she controls when sex happens she controls when she commits she controls the pace when she holds your hand etc etc ..only thing a man may control is conversation and descions outside the relationship and his own life outside of it and if they can't throw you off or emotionally effect you many will jus dump you because they think u don't care.. now u can agree and walk away... but after maybe 2-3 times she will realize you ain't the simp and prolly go elsewhere...or even worse go bang one of her other dozen options....few relationships last past 2-3 years max and this is commonly why. Unless she views you as a prize indefinitely way younger guy espically if she got baggage and you don't ... or u got a huge income and lifestyle in the top 5 percent... other then maybe a bunch of kids few stay long anymore if u don't fall in those catergorys...and most guys today dont....were becoming a society that's turning away from realness and emotion so that effects relationships massively couple that with women are told to sleep around with whoever they want and men have more competition now more then ever oh and almost no say in anything sounds like a recipe for a great time and a long relationship lol....most men today also all fall in a similar catergory competing for all the same women...there's no middle class anymore ur poor or rich, hot or unattractive no middle ground .. most men are between a 4-8 range and make under 100k a year. Goin after the women between 5-8 range ... And the women get passed around or u are the simp she choose 9/10 times ...if neither is the case your women is prolly a 4 or less nobody wants or a 9 or 10 that's untattainable
The best thing a young guy can do is to be with a woman who choses him first being that he still finds her attractive enough. Most young women have unlimited dating options nowadays due to social media so they will have a leverage over you no matter what. If you keep pursuing a woman and feel the need to prove yourself so that she finds you attractive, you have already lost the game.
Totally agree with this. I am 50 years old and have only ever asked out one woman. I've found that when you let a woman form her attraction and give her the space to develop it whilst you don't give many indicators that you feel the same way, they form really strong attraction and eventually a really strong love attachment.
The narrative that you have been lead to believe that the man chases and the woman decides is just utter nonsense.
Facts - when a woman is doing all of the pursuing - you are so much more at peace. It’s she’s chasing you then she’s not replacing you
I've recently realised the hard way, this guy is absolutely right and its an immediate change. Never again ;)
I feel you on the patience part at the end HOWEVER………..when a woman is physically attracted to you, you can do little to nothing wrong in her eyes. This is the reason why women have children with the “wrong” men multiple times, even when they’re married.
You are absolutely correct bro. "Women are the end chooser kind of Man she wants, its up to them who she chooses at the end of the day. Be carefree accept them for who they are and let go be a magnet and not chase women let women chase as We Men are Real prize and Not Women. Love from India bro casey. You are a genunine lovely Man.
There is no technique on how to get women, just catch her at the right time and right emotional state. Women function based on their current and immediate feelings.
I agree. No strategy works consistently with women, particularly with American women.
@@djeanpierre I have slept with a lot of women without any effort style or technique or game, just because they were vulnerable. As soon as they came to their right senses LOL they ghosted me. You can be the most handsome man on this planet with game but if you meet a woman in a negative emotional state maybe just had a breakup or a dude dump her, she will definitely not pay attention to you or make your life a living hell. Therefore it all depend on her mood and situation when you met her.
@@djeanpierre the goat in the building! 🇧🇷
If you use Casey's technic on some women, they will never call you for life--esp in my country. What works in my country is money and status.
@@obinnaosuagwu3685 hahahaha that’s true. You will fail with Nigerian and majority of Afro-black women if you use Casey Techniques.
Exactly what I've been saying to my friends but they just don't get it. Keep up the good work Casey 💪
Appreciate Casey so much. Started watching him since like last October and my dating life and sexual life improved drastically. Literally went from simping, having scarced options. To pulling girl after girl and having options. Literally tell myself anytime im with a girl. I tell myself "satisfy hypergamy"
Every new video we watch from Casey Zander is always a major shock...
This exact experience with the last girl convinced me of this, she was pursuing me after the date, and I reversed it and everything went to shit real fucking fast
Yup just happened to me! I have been smacking my head ever since!! What a grave mistake!
Great content once again Casey. You are truly helping alot of men learn how to deal properly with female nature .
Nah that last bit about a woman’s attraction horizon is something that 90% don’t understand and the sooner we could get that the better off we’d be but you’re right we know very quickly and expect woman to reciprocate which is not the case at all!!! Thank you bro. Patience
This game is true gold.
This is some real gold, Casey. You're just opening my eyes more and more. Thanks so much, bro.
This might be the most spot on video you've ever made. Keep at it.
I'm 38 now and through observation of how women react to my actions, I already had a feeling that what you said is the case. Now you just transformed that feeling into certainty. I always thought that all women play hot and cold, which is rarely the case and much more obvious when they do. If it's subtle and not that obvious, I'm just pushing too hard. Some adjustments here and there, and I think I'm gold.
SUCH a great video. I just turned 40 and it's taken me years to learn what he summed up here. It's all spot-on.
Thanks bro you've helped me a lot
Absolutely radiantly brilliantly genius Casey bro.
Pure facts. After watching tons of videos I admit your chanel is on a different level honestly. Thank you
I know I say this on a lot of Casey’s videos…Listen to what this man is saying…He is 💯 nailed on and I’m talking from multiple experiences as a 40 year old man
Again Casey is spitting. THE GAME
Casey your every word 100% resonates in my present life , i not came into relationship with many girls . But when i show my girlfriend certainty and love it turns her off though she tells me i want a man who love me cherish me but when i do that , her attractive level towards me go down. You said right women is not a complex creature but one must understand what's inside her is feminine energy which works utterly different as compared to masculine one
This is pure gold brother
Casey is the only one out here giving free sauce and solid facts every single time. Once you swallow the truth, there ain't no going back, man.
Absolutely brilliant work bro!!!😎
One of your best videos Casey 🎯🎯
The lord of the whiteboard is back with another BANGEr
Its interesting observing different Mens advice channels and how differently they approach the same situations. Im here for this seeing whats next with dating evolution
One of Casey's best videos
How is it that every freaking time I'm having a specific issue it's like a godsend you always seem to have the exact content I need when I need it. Thank you Casey, your work does not go unappreciated baby
Ya phone is tap by Artificial Intelligence
@@benjaminbreeze3652 true by how can it read my mind. I wasnt writing it
@@andrewcrossman2165 it read ya mind
And what’s happening with you? How did it help you?
The best dating coach ever !!
Cheers mate - thanks for your help !
Best explanation yet.
We as men have the upper hand any way. Because we can shut our logical brain for a while to see how women sees the world then get to ours but, it is very hard for emotional brain to turn off and start logical and hold it.
Absolutely, 100% accurate. Witnessed this first hand.
You are bang on the money, mate!! Everything you explain is right. What I don't get is why your channel isn't bigger
Dude, you're legit the number one content creator when it comes to dating. You break it down to the microscopic level. Keep em coming.
He is good but you must not know AMS alpha male strategies, Kevin Samuel’s etc but I do like this guy I rocks with him, good ish
Never heard of Kevin Samuel’s, but AMS is cool.
@@25ramond AMS is more like casual story telling type style, while this dude is just straight facts upfront
You can only let a woman pursue you if you have other options. If she’s your only option, your need for sex overcomes her need for your company and you end up chasing
Wrong. Thats an excuse
Certainty kills all the spark in women eyes
Absolute Gold Bro!
so glad that i mastered this dynamics!
Great work brother, thank you.
Eff your videos are so solid, i cant resist learning how to attract females 💎 thnx bro
2:10 i get why you say that, but when you have optimized this to the highest level, you won't have to initiate anything, the woman does. One eg. a girl message me "have you been to xyz yet?". It was the newest restaurant in town. That was HER INITIATING. I explained my situation without details, I said yes but no. But I knew what she was getting at, so I told her i will let her know when WE going. When I did, I set the date for 2 weeks in advance. SHE THEN KEPT MESSAGING ME, especially the week of.
I know all your videos. This is the best.
Keep preaching my bro!
It’s crazy how this works on us.
🗣️ PREACH BROTHER !!!!!
This guy knows it all!
Couldn’t be more right in all of this. Wasted ten years chasing women only to be left holding the bag while they run off with the guys who paid them no mind and cheated on them.
Sorry hearing this man, you can recover the 10 years.
Casey ain’t buying any flowers for Valentine’s Day, that’s for the simps!
@@jeansollot6419 believe it or not she will love you more or the same without the flowers
She will moan to all her friends that her boyfriend/partner didn’t get her even a card. It’s her way of bragging what a masculine man she’s got.
@@stefanmaslaczyk1259 probably she will complain what a douchebag is 😂😂 buying flowers for your girlfriend on any occasion doesn’t make you a simp it’s a nice gesture and 100% will appreciate . You got it all wrong !!
@@mirandolina134women don't like nice guys. They like douchebags that they can soften into doing nice things once in a while. 🤷🏽♂️
@@mirandolina134haven't met the right one yet have you? 😊
It didnt use to be this way. Women used to like when a man showed alot of interest and tried hard to pursue her. But once social media became apart of every day life, women stopped valuing that because of having hundreds of DMs from guys trying way too hard. Now they want the guy that doesnt show extreme interest because its the uncommon thing. Social media fucked us.
Social media simply allowed people, women included, to explore their real nature. It's like that saying "Guns don't kill people. People with guns kill people." But the essence was already there, obviously.
Great Vid as always Dudes tha Shearrt
Thanks very much for share your knowledge about the the really nature of the woman; it´s great to aply that knowledge in the real life. Congratulatios.
every time brilliant
Every time brilliant!
That's text book play by play game 😂😂😂😂❤thanks brother ❤
You know this game bro 😎
You got this
Great Casey realy great.
THX Bro from a German guy.
i never pursue, been able to steal girls from some very masculine men too. not that i was trying to, women’s hypergamy is too intense.
Excellent.
yup I always noticed that the girl who I did not like more than a friend wanted a relationship
this video should be in the program.
This video is gold
00:01 Let women pursue you to attract them
02:02 Let women pursue you to satisfy their hypergamous nature
04:01 Avoid directly approaching or impressing a woman to maintain high sexual market value.
06:00 Make her work for your approval and presence
07:51 Hypergamy is not satisfied due to reversed pursuit dynamics.
09:56 Women are turned off by needy behavior and direct verbal care signals weakness.
11:50 Internal hardwiring of female attraction is uncontrollable.
13:57 Pursuing women can risk over-communication and showing lack of purpose.
15:57 Patience in letting women pursue you naturally.
This is gold
This video underrated
Very helpful, thanks man.
Thank you for this one core operating principal: "Women do not like men who persue them; If you are a masculine man, the fact that you are a man raises her attraction" If nothing else, allow this one key principal to guide your everyday decisions.
Keep going with these women POV. You're the best dating coach in 2024.
Role reversal is real. Yes what women say and what they respond to are two different things.
You are the Man bro ❤
Talking from experience I'll just say 2 words
: It Works (whatever he's been teaching!)
This guy has a caring personality
I love the last sentence. You have to lay your cards slowly, even if its hard sometimes
You’re the 🐐 💯
Perfectly said
This video is a banger mad games y'all better take notes
Truth bomb!!! Thanks for the great input Casey! Would be very intrested how to deal with all of those valintense day shiaate. When she is saying yeah you are not thinking about me on this day when not going with the heard like buying flowers and all that stuff...
Donot by flowers! Optimize hypergamy! Say that to yourself every time a women passes by :)
As always, professor Zander with the ho math logicboard. It's truth, I messed up real bad cuz of this stuff, gonna remember it.
Everything in this video is 100% true
Everything he talks about works 100 percent of the time. When used correctly
My last relationship opened up my eyes to this exact thing you are talking about. Luckily, she was a good woman and did not abuse my feelings and cut things off. Grateful that my eyes are open, everyone has a catalyst, some are more painful than others. If you have not internalized this lesson yet, then let my situation be a cautionary tale.
This is what men need to understand we or the prize not them they should work for or attention not the other way around men or the rules of this world women or just her for or amusement
This true Zander’s good shit
This is your best video yet, that I’ve seen.
Golden Ticket