Healing an imaginary story that feels absolutely real until it's simply irrelevant

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    Healing an imaginary story that feels absolutely real until it's simply irrelevant
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Komentáře • 128

  • @vesaversion298
    @vesaversion298 Před rokem +27

    My grandma used to ask us, "Do you want your eggs boiled?" We'd say, "Yes.." then she'd say, "It already is.." and throw the egg onto our plate where it would break and the raw yolk would flow out. I never knew if she was being non-dual or just a jerk.

  • @cherylchild
    @cherylchild Před rokem +32

    Interesting that you absolve the Narcissist. That was my very first realization when my separate self trance began to dissolve. I was like, "Why the Narcissist bashing? Why is narcissism any different from any other delusion?" I saw the scapegoating as just another social media fad. Any narcissist that caused me to turn inward, to examine, to finally wake up from the dream due to the pain, did me a huge favor. I just don't hang around with that personality type anymore.

    • @macparker3549
      @macparker3549 Před rokem +6

      Well said.
      Seems fashionable to toss off the word “Narcissist” like we commonly use words like “prick” or “bitch.”
      High-brow name-calling. Just another way to pretend to distance ourselves from each other.
      Thanks for saying it.

    • @brightwithspirit
      @brightwithspirit Před rokem +5

      "That caused you to turn inward" Wow, your simple comment provided a ton of healing for me. Thank you!

    • @Lincorn1
      @Lincorn1 Před rokem

      Exactly. And many of them are probably not narcissists, but autistic or PDA wich is part of autism. Im not sure how autism plays into non duality, and if you could "wake up out of" autism.. 🤷‍♀️

    • @elektrotehnik94
      @elektrotehnik94 Před rokem

      - Which seperate self needs absolving?
      - Why would I hold resentment (in MY soul) towards "apparent then?
      Love, peeps ❤

    • @asmrambioticfluid9467
      @asmrambioticfluid9467 Před rokem

      Jordan Peterson thinks types of mental illness come in waves over time so the seeming current contagion must be narcissism

  • @matas88888
    @matas88888 Před rokem +29

    I've had this dissolving in the beginning of the year, it lasted about 2-3 months, and right now I am pretty much identified with the self again. But there's nothing that can be done. It just feels sad. I want that pure nothingness back. I know that it is already it, but somehow I can't see it. I remember being so comfortable with just sitting in doing absolutely nothing, but now doing, doing, and stories! Exhausting!

    • @cherylchild
      @cherylchild Před rokem +3

      Don't give up, but don't want to be someplace else. Over 25-years I have watched my husband's seeking while knowing all the while, he overshot the mark. He was already there! That's why I'm with him. You most certainly are already there. STOP! Or not, either way you're perfect.

    • @orii-raepoole5446
      @orii-raepoole5446 Před rokem +11

      Who is the one identified with the self? And who is the one that wants the nothingness? And who is the one who knows it already is? These things are just happening, the mind or body might say all this but thats just whats happening. There is noone doing it. The body/mind says it wants nothingness, says it knows what it already is, says all these things. The mind may say "i did it" but whos having that thought? Noone its just happening. Nothing to do about it either. Just accept thats whats happening completely on all levels. Accecptance so deep that you accept that you cant accept it even. Everything is fine. Even it not being fine is fine.

    • @Julia-lc9ee
      @Julia-lc9ee Před rokem

      I understand what you mean. Try to find moments of nothingness in between all this doing, it´s possible!

    • @highvibefreqzshow5967
      @highvibefreqzshow5967 Před rokem +9

      That’s normal! Now the oscillating begins. It feels like going back and forth from selfing to being and being back to selfing. At first the selfing seems all but gone and suddenly the peacefulness of being seems to vanish, leaving the mind grasping for more of its own absence although the mind isn’t aware that it craves its own absence and will put up a fight while the work on dissolving the ego is unfolding. Learn the art of letting go and relaxing dropping beyond the thoughts into the feelings then once you’ve acknowledged what’s presently arising you can relax into the emotions and allow them pass through without any mental resistance. More and more presence comes in and less and less “I” with all its personal preferences that creates nothing but conflict with the flow of life.
      This oscillating begins to work everything out on its own volition but your mind is seduced into thinking its a participant and it merges with the flow as the personal preferences are complete relaxed, then they lose power, but all that power is your energy you have been feeding the mind with. Watch how you feel as the mind dissolves. That’s ecstasy! That’s your natural state. All other states belong to the mind and have nothing to do with you.
      Where you are upon your seeming path, I would highly recommend reading The Untethered Soul and Living Untethered for the teachings around doing the emotional work which is effortless as the work is simply letting go. That’s it! All the efforting is close to vanishing.
      He doesn’t really teach “nonduality” in the way you hear so many repeating what they heard from somewhere else and are making videos without even having actually experienced what they are talking about. And many are too entrenched in their ego’s beliefs that it knows what nonduality is and most of them can’t understand this emotional work as their ego is trying to be clever and keep them from doing the emotional work as that is key to dissolving the ego. Even after self-realization, despite knowing the selfing is of the mind. The mind persists anyway and it’s quite the joy to watch it and see it dissolving and in its place nothing but the most beautiful divinity begins to flow through your being which is one with your being, as that is its true nature. Don’t get stuck in Heaven though. Go beyond the divine which is not easy to do, as that unconditional love is the most powerful energy there is. But you can transcend even the Mind of God. In fact, eventually you are going to have to as nothing will satisfy you not even God’s love can satisfy you from desiring your own absence and being ultimately free.
      Now once you have read this and if it resonates for you then please throw it all out. Let it go. It’s simple to let it go if you just admit I don’t know if this true. It may feel true and that is enough. Leave it at that and then find out directly for yourself. And you will see the wisdom in this because you can’t go into this with pictures in your mind imagining what it would be like. That’s completely unnecessary and it’s only the mind still trying to assert itself. So give it nothing as a reference point not even an imagined one. Dissolving the mind’s reference points is very uncomfortable and disorienting for the mind. That’s exactly what is supposed to happen. Let the mind be disoriented and let it go, then you will see an incredible peace and love wash over you. You are establishing zero distance, separation is powerfully dissolving the ego when the mind cannot attach to anything so by all means let the mind fully feel it’s confusion, it must go through this in order to break the hold it has upon your consciousness.

    • @buddha-chris1815
      @buddha-chris1815 Před rokem

      It’s always just what is happening

  • @67NewEngland
    @67NewEngland Před rokem +5

    - Realizing the story is irrelevant is one thing but deprograming the brains deep seeded reactionary habits to its past experiences is difficult task.

  • @zanewalsh1812
    @zanewalsh1812 Před rokem +11

    Good morning Suzanne 🙏🏼
    🌎🌏🌍🕊️ To All of us 🌈
    Spring is springing, time to get growing, everyone ✨🌌

  • @yasminel-hakim4348
    @yasminel-hakim4348 Před rokem +8

    glad that you are back in the cemetery and now it’s a beautiful garden and you’re not freezing anymore.
    I’m glad too that healing is furthermore happening and hopefully all your layers of pain and suffering will disappear finally.
    Love your messages from the beautiful cemetery. Thank you for sharing with us.
    ❤️ 🙏

  • @chuckheppner4384
    @chuckheppner4384 Před rokem +2

    "If other people do not understand our behavior-so what? Their request that we must only do what they understand is an attempt to dictate to us. If this is being 'asocial' or 'irrational' in their eyes, so be it. Mostly they resent our freedom and our courage to be ourselves. We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as our acts do not hurt or infringe on them.
    A person who has not been completely alienated, who has remained sensitive and able to feel, who has not lost the sense of dignity, who is not yet 'for sale', who can still suffer over the suffering of others, who has not acquired fully the having mode of existence - briefly, a person who has remained a person and not become a thing - cannot help feeling lonely, powerless, isolated in present-day society.
    One cannot be deeply responsive to the world without being saddened very often. Happiness does not exclude sadness - if a person responds to life, he's sometimes happy and sometimes sad. What matters is he responds.
    The affirmation of one's own life, happiness, growth and freedom, is rooted in one's capacity to love. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love. Only the person who has faith in himself is able to be faithful to others. Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the condition for the ability to love.
    People do not see that the main question is not : "Am I loved?"
    which is to a large extent the question : "Am I approved of? Am I protected? Am I admired?"
    The main question is: "Can I love? "
    Exclusive love is a contradiction in itself. If a person loves only one other person and is indifferent to all others, his love is not love but a symbiotic attachment, or an enlarged egotism. Care and responsibility are constituent elements of love, but without respect for and knowledge of the beloved person, love deteriorates into domination and possessiveness.
    The pleasure in complete domination over another person (or other animate creature) is the very essence of the sadistic drive. Another way of formulating the same thought is to say that the aim of sadism is to transform man into a thing, something animate into something inanimate, since by complete and absolute control the living loses one essential quality of life - freedom.
    I believe that the experience of love is the most human and humanizing act that it is given to man to enjoy and that it, like reason, makes no sense if conceived in a partial way. What most people in our culture mean by being lovable is essentially a mixture between being popular and having sex appeal. Man's biological weakness is the condition of human culture.
    The deepest need of the human being is to overcome our separateness, to leave the prison of our loneliness. As long as anyone believes that his ideal and purpose is outside him, that it is above the clouds, in the past or in the future, he will go outside himself and seek fulfillment where it cannot be found. He will look for solutions and answers at every point except where they can be found- in himself.
    The person who gives up his individual self and becomes an automaton, identical with millions of other automatons around him, need not feel alone and anxious any more. But the price he pays, however, is high; it is the loss of his self.
    Many psychiatrists and psychologists refuse to entertain the idea that society as a whole may be lacking in sanity. They hold that the problem of mental health in a society is only that of the number of 'unadjusted' individuals, and not of a possible un-adjustment of the culture itself.
    The fact that millions of people share the same vices does not make these vices virtues, the fact that they share so many errors does not make the errors to be truths, and the fact that millions of people share the same form of mental pathology does not make these people sane.
    I think, to be specific, we got off the track when we concentrated more and more on production of things. Thereby, we created a split between intellect and emotion, because, in order to produce a modern technique, you have to use intellect, and we have created men who are very brilliant, who are very clever, but our emotional life has become impoverished.
    . . . freedom to create and construct, to wonder and to venture. Such freedom requires that the individual be active and responsible, not a slave or a well-fed cog in the machine . . . It is not enough that men are not slaves; if social conditions further the existence of automatons, the result will not be love of life, but love of death.
    A society whose principles are acquisition, profit, and property produces a social character oriented around having, and once the dominant pattern is established, nobody wants to be an outsider, or indeed an outcast; in order to avoid this risk everybody adapts to the majority, who have in common only their mutual antagonism.
    Exploitation and manipulation produce boredom and triviality; they cripple man, and all factors that make man into a psychic cripple turn him also into a sadist or a destroyer. Hate is a product of the unfulfilled life. If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?
    Alienation as we find it in modern society is almost total… Man has created a world of man-made things as it never existed before. He has constructed a complicated social machine to administer the technical machine he built. The more powerful and gigantic the forces are which he unleashes, the more powerless he feels himself as a human being. He is owned by his creations, and has lost ownership of himself.
    Modern man is alienated from himself, from his fellow men, and from nature. He has been transformed into a commodity, experiences his life forces as an investment which must bring him the maximum profit obtainable under existing market conditions.
    Organized religion is in substance a mystification, a means of hiding the wickedness of the social system. If the Christian principles of love, equality, and freedom were really practiced instead of only preached, there would be no need for a special institution(the church) to take care of those principles.
    We have a religious renaissance today in America, as many people say. I would say this religious renaissance, ninety percent of it is the greatest danger true religious experience has ever been confronted with. When people can't handle God any more, they turn to religion.
    Well-being is possible to the degree to which one has overcome one's narcissism; to the degree to which one is open, responsive, sensitive, awake, empty.... Well-being means, finally, to drop one's Ego, to give up greed, to cease chasing after preservation and the aggrandizement of the Ego, to be and to experience one's self in the act of being, not in having, preserving, coveting, using.
    The criterion of mental health is not one of individual adjustment to a given social order, but a universal one, valid for all men, of giving a satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence."
    Erich Fromm

  • @davidsisson1488
    @davidsisson1488 Před rokem +8

    The great human struggle is not being able to figure things out,to make sense of THIS ! Even from a non dual perspective there aren’t all the answers and trying to sometimes brings you to a point of contradicting yourself 💜

    • @cherylchild
      @cherylchild Před rokem

      Just read an article posing that Uncertainty is built into the system. That for some reason brought me comfort.

  • @nobodyswisdom
    @nobodyswisdom Před rokem +8

    Narcissistic abuse is awful but shows so acutely how much self identification equal suffering. It’s just unbearable for the apparent victim that is suffocating and the apparent abuser that desperately needs validation and control. It’s a harsh way for « what is » to destroy or illuminate the false boundaries. Again a great communication, Suzanne. Thank you ❤

  • @primalplasma
    @primalplasma Před rokem +6

    About fifteen years ago I was walking in Times Square and I met a "clear", a Scientologist from birth. I don't think they were non-dual, but they did have a clearness in their mind that reminds me of you. It's almost as if their mind is a beautiful crystal bowl of water. That's the only way I can describe how they come off during conversation. I imagined it must be so peaceful to not be distracted by the world, but also terrifying if you were not born into it. Were you always like this?

  • @michaelstartin405
    @michaelstartin405 Před rokem +4

    It hard no one else understand how we see things all under stand they just think im the strain one

    • @macparker3549
      @macparker3549 Před rokem +1

      We are all strange!
      🤨😳😁😂
      Maybe just trust it?
      All the best…
      🔥🫥⭕️🌻

  • @aflaz171
    @aflaz171 Před rokem +1

    The best comment you made. "You literally did the best you could!" Also, it is just that, the desolving of the false. The self I and everyone becomes from birth is false. The false personality if you like. There's no big deal about it, accept the fear that may arise in the process.

  • @Lola-Yo
    @Lola-Yo Před rokem +3

    All the drama, expectations, seeking, chasing and grief falling away to a single point, singularity, where everything and nothing exist, beautiful. That’s how it feels for me. Love these videos! 🙏🏻🔥🌞🌹

  • @katierose1893
    @katierose1893 Před rokem +15

    Can you make a video like this at a theme park or somewhere with obnoxious people wandering around in the background? I tend to get pretty meditative in those places. Well, beforehand I was pretty disgusted but then I realized acceptance of today's society was my path to liberation. I went to Disneyland last summer and saw the beauty in people I used to think were cancer of the earth. Maybe I'm not making sense here but essentially I dissolved my judgments of how others choose to live.

    • @Queenie-the-genie
      @Queenie-the-genie Před rokem +1

      What about the way some people choose to live in ways that harm others? I was just watching a video about a man who goes around S.F. pepper spraying homeless people.

    • @patriciaadducci6549
      @patriciaadducci6549 Před rokem +1

      @@Queenie-the-genie I think your key word here is 'choose'. Do they? Do I? Do you?

    • @katierose1893
      @katierose1893 Před rokem

      @Lone Druid I accept that that is your perception of me.

    • @patriciaadducci6549
      @patriciaadducci6549 Před rokem +1

      @@katierose1893 I think what you wrote was fascinating, especially that acceptance of today's society is your path to liberation. I think you are making perfect sense. In Disneyland!!!

    • @katierose1893
      @katierose1893 Před rokem

      @Lone Druid there is no ONE answer.

  • @macparker3549
    @macparker3549 Před rokem +12

    I’ve said some version of this several times before, but here it is again:
    It is so deeply helpful that you have posted and are posting today these videos of this indescribable non-experience.
    Words that come to mind are “comfort” and “companionship.” Perhaps in the highest sense of those words.
    Talks that at some point in my life I almost certainly would have dismissed as nonsense.
    Yet now they feed something that knows it must listen even before it begins to grok what is actually being said.
    Like waking up from deep anesthesia to a kind, authoritative voice.
    Thank you for speaking this, again and again, as the recognition slowly softens and wakes up…
    🙏💜🔥🫥⭕️🌻🐣🦋😂

  • @Axito2
    @Axito2 Před rokem +3

    "There is nothing reflecting anything" amazing 😊

  • @roycohen.
    @roycohen. Před rokem +18

    I listened to around 2 minutes, but I just had to start typing. Since this happened to me around 6 months ago, every day is just more crazier than the next. I keep thinking, "ok, this is crazy enough" then sure enough, it gets crazier. Just deeper and deeper and deeper. Disappearing into nothingness. Confusion. Worry. All happening perfectly..
    I inquired with my teacher about what's happening in the body, and he refused to take on the conversation. Some people get lost in it, but since we have no control over what's arising, it's better we just take an observational stance without any input into the situation. My situation so far, objectively, has been fucking rough. If you had a lifetime of suffering, ironically enough, realizing your true nature is going to be a lot for you to unpack.
    Some traditions ease you into this process, soften the body a bit.. but I was just dunked head first, and I think you the same? Feeling a bit of deja vu now for some reason, gonna keep watching the video.. Hope it's getting easier for you Suzanne, I know what you're going through.

    • @MarcP589
      @MarcP589 Před rokem +1

      I've had a lot of suffering and as you say the unpacking is bad. How cruel is it that the 1s who suffer have to suffer even more to 'awaken'

    • @roycohen.
      @roycohen. Před rokem

      @Agnes Fabiszewska Find someone you can talk to, there are plenty that do Zoom meetings. You must have some sort of connection with them otherwise it won't make sense for you to interact with them. It's an intuition thing.

    • @roycohen.
      @roycohen. Před rokem

      ​@Agnes Fabiszewska As my teacher's teacher would say, there is no hierarchy in friendship nor is there hierarchy in relationship to teacher/student, only questions and answers.

    • @BLCKSQR
      @BLCKSQR Před 10 měsíci

      this is surely projection. i don't see suzanne as "going through" anything, she simply is. with no need of it needing to get easier. she is simply providing pointers to what is right here and now.

  • @blessedsoul14
    @blessedsoul14 Před rokem +6

    I just realized this today.

  • @Miles-yn9vk
    @Miles-yn9vk Před rokem +3

    Extrordinary description of my life. Thank you.

  • @zeus433
    @zeus433 Před rokem +1

    Just to be alive is enough. Living in peace and absolute stillness.

  • @WingZeroSymphonics
    @WingZeroSymphonics Před rokem +6

    Great work touching on the more widely understood duality of narcissistic/empath dynamics. Dr. Sam Vaknin, a friend, puts forth the physics behind its resolution in psychologic terms, on CZcams. This a generation where unhealthy and abusive relational dynamics have their mechanics mapped out. The self knowledge can only go so far. Another interesting aspect of the dynamics is the addiction to thought itself. Non-duality is the end of the image making process. The way its described here is not unlike what those addicted to physically addictive substances go through, withdrawals. Looking forward to the meeting tomorrow. Thanks. .

  • @mikeswiatek5286
    @mikeswiatek5286 Před rokem +2

    I was feeling frustration and randomly selected this video. It turns out this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!❤

  • @tsfirebird69
    @tsfirebird69 Před rokem +4

    Thank you.

  • @niallbourke7963
    @niallbourke7963 Před rokem +1

    Yeah my Da was a classic narcisssist, life was pretty much hellish - suicide, adddiction, homelessnesss, yet i still find it imposible to blame him.

  • @jamil1418
    @jamil1418 Před rokem +5

    i resonate with you a lot and love to listen to you , thanks a lot ! greetings from france!

  • @therainbowgatewayoracle
    @therainbowgatewayoracle Před rokem +1

    Seems like there was an "inner child healing story" happening for 2 years! A shamanic death experience to heal ancestral lineage and from the childhood. Healing the personal self...then came the realization. Now...WE ARE HOME! Thank-you for your video. LOL. Still nice to see the "mirror"!! LOL.

  • @mehriravel5619
    @mehriravel5619 Před rokem +3

    Love your explanation. totally different to other none dual teachers that they always say none suffering or no one there. thanks

  • @Zeus-william0303
    @Zeus-william0303 Před rokem

    Fall in love. Fall in love with the now. The beauty of it opens the heart. For all is that. Now.

  • @roykeefe3325
    @roykeefe3325 Před rokem

    The summer wind...your close to that..

  • @UnderTheBlueRoof
    @UnderTheBlueRoof Před rokem +1

    The title had me thinking this was what I was going through in a way and wanted to hear your version. It didn’t go that way but I defo took something from it.
    This has motivated me more to try and let go of everything I have created in my mind and outwards.
    I feel so attached and no way out, negative mind set ,
    The thoughts consume me
    Letting the present moment be lost to thoughts living in the future a thing that may never happen. Loosing my happiness my now to imaginary situations that may never happen.
    All we have is the now and I’m struggling to be in that now.
    Work work work work work constant work on this mind. Telling it over and over and over like a dog teaching it a trick but then going off track in thoughts again causing suffering pain anger negativity being stuck in that till you realise your doing it again and boom bringing that dog bag to learn no this is the trick I want you to learn to be in the moment be mindful be present
    It’ll happen I have faith, it’s so rollercoasterly wow man just wow
    Keep it moving champs don’t give up it’s possible

  • @Rob_TheOne
    @Rob_TheOne Před rokem +1

    Morning and loss, then repeat. I keep thinking when will I feel like myself again. But there is no self... Just empty. No purpose. Nothing to find. Just an emotional movie. Wish the writer would have written in some joy. Less hero struggles

  • @eamonnhawthorne4989
    @eamonnhawthorne4989 Před rokem +3

    Thank you

  • @socialspolina
    @socialspolina Před rokem +1

    It’s my third time watching your videos and it might be a perception of my own mind (which really is) I feel like even when you aren’t being attached to any labels or words you still choose to not being attached to them. It’s a choice (sometimes an unconscious one) to act and do things in a spiritual or awakened way. We keep playing them roles. And I see you playing it too just like I and everyone else do. Just an interesting observation that no matter how far you’re on this road, the character is still there, even with a silenced mind. Thank you for your videos, I love your presence ✨

  • @emmanueldenniss
    @emmanueldenniss Před rokem +1

    Thanks for updates already waiting for next one 🎉

  • @ayesha8809
    @ayesha8809 Před rokem +1

    When that imaginary story involves a lot of abuse including physical that wreaked absolute mayhem on your nervous system and you have to accept it's just some shit that happened for 🎶absolutely nothing🎶 with zero meaning. I understand why people snap and seek revenge.

  • @ptanji
    @ptanji Před rokem

    What a beautiful soundscape! Thank you ❤

  • @Bluestrecords
    @Bluestrecords Před rokem +1

    Still a great location - as long as you are alive.

  • @SkyDancer4LV
    @SkyDancer4LV Před rokem +1

    Perfect pointing. Story lines are just playing out, a ripple effect seems to occur, there’s no denying and no condoning what appears as actions on the relative plain and yet a responding may arise. All the effort to construct a better character and story, then to enter a deconstruction process, a stripping away to ‘no ground’ ‘no self’. 😢🙏

  • @kelliedawn9229
    @kelliedawn9229 Před rokem +2

    In a way it seems like it's a lonely existence even though you express there is no existence. Feeling confused 🙈🙉🙊

    • @macparker3549
      @macparker3549 Před rokem +3

      Hi, Kellie,
      What I’m finding, ever so gradually, is that it seems to only be lonely from the old perspective.
      The deeper it goes, the more it’s revealed that oneness isn’t actually lonely.
      For me, at least, this is turning out to be only a belief of the character/separate self.
      Not that I haven’t felt loneliness, and still do, but it seems to be an illusion of that fundamental sense of separation, slowly dissolving like so many other things.
      All the best to you…
      🔥🫥⭕️🌻

    • @ProjectMoff
      @ProjectMoff Před rokem

      Lonelyness implies another to be apart from, it's a misconception. Existence is, it's just that it's none of your ideas, existence doesn't observe itself directly it observes itself though it's function, just because you cannot see "yourself" doesn't mean you aren't there, seeing implies you are there but anything you say about yourself is a complete fabrication, people suffer when they identify, because what else is there to identify with other than symbols? Why paint an image on emptiness? If you think you're looking at it then you are confused. Emptiness, nothingness, void, none of these labels are adequate because all labels and concepts are interpretations and nothing more, again, it doesn't see itself directly.

  • @kundaliniandnonduality
    @kundaliniandnonduality Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you. :)

  • @anthropomorph714
    @anthropomorph714 Před rokem

    Hey, you're at the graveyard, you might have met our goddess Hecate.
    Look at this song by Wendy Rule:
    Gone are the leaves
    On the Hecate trees
    Shed to the wind till
    Her skeleton claws the sky
    I am alone
    In a forest
    Of memories
    Dragging behind me
    The howl of the winter
    Hecate
    Hecate
    Hecate

  • @herdarkmaterials
    @herdarkmaterials Před rokem

    This. Exactly

  • @Meodon383
    @Meodon383 Před rokem +1

    A re-remembering :)

  • @ericglasson7140
    @ericglasson7140 Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @dgodiex
    @dgodiex Před rokem +9

    Nice to see you not freezing at the cemetery for a change. 🤍

    • @dgodiex
      @dgodiex Před rokem +4

      Even though of course there was never anyone really there to begin with :)

  • @premganga8822
    @premganga8822 Před rokem +2

    🌷

  • @lunkerjunkie
    @lunkerjunkie Před rokem +1

    I've always been you
    trying to be myself.
    is this preventing me from becoming nobody?

  • @RepentRenew
    @RepentRenew Před rokem

    This is why the Bible says @we do not fight against flesh and blood (people) but against principalities and spiritual wickedness in high places.

  • @johnjackman8113
    @johnjackman8113 Před rokem

    tks Suzanne

  • @highvibefreqzshow5967

    There is no arrival, as there is nothing to do the activity of arriving, no destination, and thus nowhere to arrive. It’s a mental trap, a story weaved of only thoughts that the mind is projecting a self, or is this activity of selfing.
    There is just a seeming flow of “arriving” once the sense of “I” finally drops. The “here” is always here no matter what appearances may be suggesting as the mind would have you believe. The mind is strictly focused upon appearances. Every thought is another appearance talking about other appearances, thoughts about more thoughts.
    Once you lose interest in the thoughts and the mind is being turned inward on itself rather than allowing it to go on and on with its endless stories questions begin to arise that shuts the mind up as it has no reference point to latch onto until you let it start thinking again without questioning which the mind is completely believing everything it says. If you think you are uncovering the truth your mind is well at work and the ego is running the show. The spiritual seeker is part of the illusion. When you began to see through the identity of the person, the mind quickly and unconsciously created another identity and was right back to asserting it again. Now it’s a spiritual ego.
    Yet when the “me” falls away everything seems to happen on its own accord but that won’t stop the I from still trying to take all the credit as the so-called experiencer that isn’t never actually here, present with what is. It doesn’t even arise if there is only presence with what is. What is falls away leaving only presence. Despite having seen through the illusion of the ego and it’s falling away is not a single event. It remains an unfolding. The I will still persist but you begin ignoring it consciously, and it dies.

  • @unbrokenspine
    @unbrokenspine Před rokem +3

    Where were you? We miss.

  • @user-bx2xl7ex7r
    @user-bx2xl7ex7r Před rokem +1

    Hi Susan. I'm a Kristopher. Hi people. I was used as the unwitting author of 911 and other world events while being abused by the Worldwide Gangstalking Program. Needless to say I felt pretty angry and guilty and scared. I studied Zen in early life and found a relationship with Great Spirit. I've been thru it all and what you are saying is true. I subscribed before you even spoke. I like the Louis Armstrong song What a Wonderful World. Rather it is or not I like the song. May you all enjoy the unfolding of Great Spirit and abide in the Way. Peace.

    • @abhikumari6113
      @abhikumari6113 Před rokem +1

      I see trees of green
      Red roses too
      I see them bloom
      For me and you
      And I think to myself
      What a wonderful world
      I see skies of blue
      And clouds of white
      The bright blessed day
      The dark sacred night
      And I think to myself
      What a wonderful world
      The colors of the rainbow
      So pretty in the sky
      Are also on the faces
      Of people going by
      I see friends shaking hands
      Saying, "How do you do?"
      They're really saying
      I love you
      I hear babies cry
      I watch them grow
      They'll learn much more
      Than I'll ever know
      And I think to myself
      What a wonderful world
      Yes, I think to myself
      What a wonderful world
      Ooh, yes
      Muwah love U and take care

  • @robertoignacio2245
    @robertoignacio2245 Před rokem +2

    ❤🙏

  • @InertiaFloatStudio
    @InertiaFloatStudio Před rokem

    Love it Suzanne ❤

  • @dewidavies7995
    @dewidavies7995 Před rokem

    Thanks 😊

  • @DivinityAligned
    @DivinityAligned Před 9 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @spmgijsbers339
    @spmgijsbers339 Před rokem

    Title is amazing
    My dad committed suicide none years ago. Now I'm almost twenty one and still so hurtike a heavy pain body like Eckhart likes to call it. Not sure it's (soly) cos of my dad's passing, the pain body is as it is. But when you listen to non dual teachings, it's hard to understand hoe to heal cos apparently its imaginary. It's weird af.

  • @ItApproaches
    @ItApproaches Před rokem +1

    All characters are the protagonist of their own story. All characters have challenges otherwise the character growth or characters journey isn't there. Whether the human character is a hobo, a rapist, doctor, murderer, baker or whatever, doesn't matter. All humans are exactly the same. Nothingness. A phantom character playing out a story. I see all humans as the same. I don't hate a killer, or a rapist. They are the character that Fate created. Stories play out. There's always experiences, whether you call it good or bad is based off the ego.

  • @HamishSoupofSound5186

    love it

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk Před rokem

    Seeing Impermanance 😉

  • @MK7of7of7of7
    @MK7of7of7of7 Před 23 dny +1

    Funny "parade around". Truth Awakening is the only "job" that you can have where you can't show off. Out loud anyway. Covert only. Don't show off. If you do, you no longer qualify for awakened status. Wait! There is no status. Ha Ha just tossing some light to laugh with. Appreciate you, Susanne.

  • @nurpinner8502
    @nurpinner8502 Před rokem

    🙏❤️

  • @Jordan_C777
    @Jordan_C777 Před 10 měsíci

    So this process you’re speaking of; it’s all from self inquiry?

  • @FRED-gx2qk
    @FRED-gx2qk Před rokem

    Have you experienced Nothingness

  • @jasonb.3902
    @jasonb.3902 Před rokem

    I read and reread the title of this video multiple times. What.....does it mean? I don't follow.

    • @alladukova9050
      @alladukova9050 Před rokem +2

      It's part of a long series where she describes her own experience of exploring a certain philosophy called radical non-duality.

    • @jasonb.3902
      @jasonb.3902 Před rokem

      @@alladukova9050 sounds like BS to me.

    • @macparker3549
      @macparker3549 Před rokem +1

      Lone Druid,
      It’s a scam…yet you keep showing up here?
      🤨😊
      It’s one of the most courageous acts of life to soften disappointment and cynicism. To keep peeking out from behind the defenses to see if it’s safe to come out yet.
      Just from my perspective, I’ve seen no danger or scamming going on here.
      Glad you keep coming back.
      🔥🫥⭕️🙏

  • @PinkyisntReal
    @PinkyisntReal Před rokem

    Just tell the truth. No need to be an apologist.

  • @dewidavies7995
    @dewidavies7995 Před rokem

    Ni hao falun dafa hao, be like water.

  • @judithbreastsler
    @judithbreastsler Před rokem +2

    i call it hype. it's all hype

  • @dr.kenmiller4227
    @dr.kenmiller4227 Před rokem

    ☺️🎨👨‍🎨🎼💫🌟🕯️😎

  • @jhoanosorio
    @jhoanosorio Před rokem +5

    whats this type of philosophy? it is to me confusing at first

    • @ItApproaches
      @ItApproaches Před rokem +1

      This isn't philosophy, she is one who is actually enlightened. Only those who are enlightened really understand what the enlightened say. The asleep will always fail to understand because their ego is in the way. Ego hates truth and will do all it can to keep you away from truth.

    • @jhoanosorio
      @jhoanosorio Před rokem +1

      thank you. let me tell you ego is not a problem to me, im always open to guide my life to the truth even if it means being another way.

    • @ItApproaches
      @ItApproaches Před rokem

      @@jhoanosorio Nice. Always be open to being wrong, a human who wants to be wrong shall be able to see clearly. Stay neutral no matter the experience, how you feel about any experience or situation or event doesn't matter, it's not about "you", always remember "it's not about me, I don't matter." Always be grateful to the experience, no matter what it is. Truth is just sitting there in the open for any to see, most can't see it due to a mountain of egoic crap sitting on top of it. Yet we put that crap there, so to get to truth, grab your shovel and head into your mind and start digging and uprooting all the shit, don't stop digging, don't stop questioning till you hit something solid...the only solid thing you can ever hit, is truth. And you will realize that truth doesn't come from you or a "you", it's just what is. All have the ability to find truth, most never do because most look externally for truth, it's not external, it's internal. The mind has access to ALL truths. Stay frosty.

    • @xstucyedits7917
      @xstucyedits7917 Před rokem +1

      @Lone Druid no such thing as “enlightenment” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @alladukova9050
      @alladukova9050 Před rokem +2

      Advaita vedanta, a type of Hinduism. Aka, radical non-duality, a contemporary take on advaita teachings (from what I can tell).

  • @iCQ_www.SPCL.tk_
    @iCQ_www.SPCL.tk_ Před rokem +1

  • @christineponstherapeute

    Thank you 🙂

  • @creative-emptiness
    @creative-emptiness Před rokem