IN THIS WEEK’S VIDEO: In this video I will discuss ways you can begin to shift your reactions and begin experiencing genuine kindness as your first gut reactions. Before you watch however, I want to make a disclaimer: There will be many times where kindness won’t be your initial reaction, rather, frustration, betrayal, anger, or hurt might flood your emotions first. There is NOTHING wrong with that!! It’s what you choose to do next that ultimately matters. CHECK OUT OUR OTHER VIDEOS: ► Stop Taking Things So Darn Personal! czcams.com/video/cPS9FvFdpl4/video.html ► Why is Everyone else so much happier than me? And How to increase your happiness! czcams.com/video/_WIPVP8vNQQ/video.html ► 3 Tips to Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind czcams.com/video/_N1i2ZYTwI4/video.html ★★★ BEST IDEAS ★★★ (2:48) Tip #1 Knowing your triggers! (4:01) Tip #2 Compassion! Quit pretending you know-it-all Ask questions over assuming. SOCIAL: Twitter ► goo.gl/ZKhK5r Facebook ► goo.gl/TNHpPE Instagram ► goo.gl/p51ZDH iTunes Podcast ► COMING SOON! Vlog ► bonniekelly.me/vblog/ MY PRODUCTS & COURSES: 21 Day Emotional Detox Program (Snag 7-Days Free) ► goo.gl/X1uezj 3-Secrets To Lasting Self-Confidence (FREE 3-Part Video Series) ►goo.gl/e8MtzY True To Your Core: Uncovering the Subconscious Beliefs that Wreak Havoc on Your Life (Book & Kindle) ► goo.gl/6TgzYf WANT TO BE COACHED BY ME? Are you ready to commit to the change you have been searching for? Let’s Talk! To apply for The Over It Academy send us an email: GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me (serious applicants only). SCHEDULE YOUR FREE SESSION NOW: calendly.com/bonniekelly/20-min SEND US YOUR TOPICS: Have a Personal Dev. Questions You would love to see answered? We want to hear them! Email us at GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me - We are here for you every step of the way! XOXO, Bonnie Kelly
I keep finding them in work situations. In personal relationships it is pretty obvious who is worth spending any time on, but when I find myself having to report to one at work it is disappointing when they latch on and can't let go. I try to keep my distance and be a neutrally boring gray rock, but they can be very relentless pursuing opportunities to project their life's frustrations onto others. It is like they had to compete for their parents attention as a child, and they can't let that competition with others go, meanwhile everyone else is walking around being awesome at their jobs, while they are walking around pretending to be better than everyone else. It's boring.
*my mum screams in my face because of something I did earlier that day* Me: what where you meaning by that? I think I herd something dif- *Gets slapped by mum*
I’m so sorry to hear that. In many cases like this the best response might not be one at all. Just remember, though her yelling is directed at you it truly means nothing about you and more about her inability to communicate without emotion. Xoxo
To "Kill them with kindness" just takes too long! Instead, I just shoot them in the head and take all their candy! It's more fun than way! You don't have all that kum-by-ya huggy kissy feely crap! And, there's usually jelly beans!
IN THIS WEEK’S VIDEO:
In this video I will discuss ways you can begin to shift your reactions and begin experiencing genuine kindness as your first gut reactions. Before you watch however, I want to make a disclaimer: There will be many times where kindness won’t be your initial reaction, rather, frustration, betrayal, anger, or hurt might flood your emotions first. There is NOTHING wrong with that!! It’s what you choose to do next that ultimately matters.
CHECK OUT OUR OTHER VIDEOS:
► Stop Taking Things So Darn Personal! czcams.com/video/cPS9FvFdpl4/video.html
► Why is Everyone else so much happier than me? And How to increase your happiness! czcams.com/video/_WIPVP8vNQQ/video.html
► 3 Tips to Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind czcams.com/video/_N1i2ZYTwI4/video.html
★★★ BEST IDEAS ★★★
(2:48) Tip #1 Knowing your triggers!
(4:01) Tip #2 Compassion! Quit pretending you know-it-all
Ask questions over assuming.
SOCIAL:
Twitter ► goo.gl/ZKhK5r
Facebook ► goo.gl/TNHpPE
Instagram ► goo.gl/p51ZDH
iTunes Podcast ► COMING SOON!
Vlog ► bonniekelly.me/vblog/
MY PRODUCTS & COURSES:
21 Day Emotional Detox Program (Snag 7-Days Free) ► goo.gl/X1uezj
3-Secrets To Lasting Self-Confidence (FREE 3-Part Video Series) ►goo.gl/e8MtzY
True To Your Core: Uncovering the Subconscious Beliefs that Wreak Havoc on Your Life (Book & Kindle) ► goo.gl/6TgzYf
WANT TO BE COACHED BY ME?
Are you ready to commit to the change you have been searching for? Let’s Talk! To apply for The Over It Academy send us an email: GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me (serious applicants only).
SCHEDULE YOUR FREE SESSION NOW:
calendly.com/bonniekelly/20-min
SEND US YOUR TOPICS:
Have a Personal Dev. Questions You would love to see answered? We want to hear them! Email us at GetInspired@BonnieKelly.me - We are here for you every step of the way!
XOXO,
Bonnie Kelly
I keep finding them in work situations. In personal relationships it is pretty obvious who is worth spending any time on, but when I find myself having to report to one at work it is disappointing when they latch on and can't let go. I try to keep my distance and be a neutrally boring gray rock, but they can be very relentless pursuing opportunities to project their life's frustrations onto others. It is like they had to compete for their parents attention as a child, and they can't let that competition with others go, meanwhile everyone else is walking around being awesome at their jobs, while they are walking around pretending to be better than everyone else. It's boring.
This is my first time that my comment will be shown to millions of people but bones here to like it
*my mum screams in my face because of something I did earlier that day*
Me: what where you meaning by that? I think I herd something dif-
*Gets slapped by mum*
I’m so sorry to hear that. In many cases like this the best response might not be one at all. Just remember, though her yelling is directed at you it truly means nothing about you and more about her inability to communicate without emotion. Xoxo
I am crying watching this video. I am so sensitive i guess. I feel evrything so quick. But I need to overcome getting hurt. I need help !
I feel your pain honey.
You're soft.
Be mindful. 😲🤞🏻
Yes! Such a powerful reminder :)
So underrated. Thank you!!!♥️
This is awesome. Loved it!
Wish I found this a month ago it woulda helped me
😍🙌🥳
Cringe.
That’s the way ❤
Great advice. Hope I can put it practice
I hope he heard my audio message and everything goes well. 🙏🤞🏻💓
Oooo.. Guess I'll get my revenge by this new method now, called.. *KILL EM WITH KINDNESS*
Am I the only person commenting other than 688 or so people watched this? Yessss
I'm sry, my EQ is quite low so it doesn't really work for me.
To "Kill them with kindness" just takes too long! Instead, I just shoot them in the head and take all their candy! It's more fun than way! You don't have all that kum-by-ya huggy kissy feely crap! And, there's usually jelly beans!
My soon to be ex wife
Hope this video helped! Wishing you well on your journey