Is Shani’s Autism a Deal-Breaker? 😬 | First Dates New Zealand
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- Romeo likes strong-built women, so is wrestler Shani his match made in heaven?
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Two wonderfully un-usual people who were destined to meet and show us something about being authentically yourself. Thank you.
I thought what a romantic date 🌹 He picked up the bill like a true gentleman.
He was great she seriously confused. He would have treated her like gold .
There's nothing wrong with him, her or their interaction. They didn't have chemistry is all 😊
Lol I can't get over that she said, you don't do that in a restaurant! Lol then bangs on glasses, burns plastic eyelashes and licks the bill😂🤢
:D
LOL!!!
Lol
😂😂😂😂
Did she friend zone him? I was not expecting that.
Exactly the chemistry was 💯 percent there lol ' surprised at that 😮
@@Ladybirdtaj - Just MHO, but it appears that she thinks fireworks = soulmate. Doesn't typically happen that way. He's a perfect match for her and she seems blinded by some romantic notion that doesn't exist. Even if it were to exist, it'd probably be short lived once the fireworks blew out. This guy's the real deal.
What a shame. They could have been a good couple.
This show does a magnificent job of matching people! I am always blown away. I love how unique and true to themselves they both are.
I thought they made a lovely couple. He may have pushed it too far when he picked her up but the rest of what was shown was unusually funny.
They seemed perfect for each other.
She wasn't feeling the chemistry.
She was so drunk by the end 😂Also she’s gorgeous!
That and a combination of being on the spectrum probably.
She’s learned over time to adapt to people’s behaviors even though it makes her uncomfortable
My 15 year old autistic son does this
She acted cool with him but really wanted to get away
He was intense
Which is fine he’s just being himself
Both great unique individuals
Yeah she looked trapped. No wonder so many autistic people suffer from claustrophobia. She was masking. But yeah I actually think he was sweet. Just not her thing. I love she did say no at the end 🤘
She's a wrestler...not like she's not used to being physical...she just hadn't given him permission as he's a stranger.
yes, this.
@@dani-elle-au9935 That would have turned me off him forever. Even though he got better through the date, I wouldn't have got over the alarm of it.
Sometimes couples don't start out with that "spark". Their friendshio might lead to something deeper.
Sweeping a girl of her feet literally on the first meeting...I don't think is a good idea 😂
I agree there
I personally wouldn’t try that but to each his own 😂
Only figuratively not literally LMAO!
😂 hes name is romeo
Agree
at first i was like nah this guy is a tool, ended with me saying wow hes a top guy
FINALLY. AN ACTUAL REAL DATE WITH REAL PEOPLE . WHO ACTTTTUALLY GET ALONG❤
So you have to have Autism to be real? I've seen hundreds of real dates
I wonder what is the update about him. So sad, he is friend-zoned. He deserves so much better.
I thought they matched so well strange she didn’t want him
She was much taller i think that was it
So it’s all about physical appearance doesn’t matter that they connect so well
She wasn't feeling the chemistry.
Her little reactionsounds were so funny 😅
It could absolutely have been a great date if Romeo hadn’t picked Shani up without her permission! He really ruined his chances. One hopes he could recover after seeing her a few more times & being normal. They could be quite a good match.
I thought it was dope.
@@aron.gortmanLet’s not touch people without consent especially in classy public places where it adds additional humiliation
They have sexual tension and that’s all we can gleam from this clip
@@ProdavackaDivuLighten up KAREN
@@ProdavackaDivu Agree, but dont touch people without consent in public or private.
She has a terrific personality
I hope they are together man this is too cute my gosh
Heh as the husband of an autistic wife I could tell from the moment she said hello! Lovely couple
What did I just watch..
That was brilliant 😂
Can’t believe this guy first action to he is picking her up she look terrified by it haha.
I hope he will continue to pursue her. They seem perfect for each other. It may take a few tries before something takes off.
No he should not, No means no, and she obviously knows what she is looking for and it's not him. Being "perfect for each other" does not exist, it's only in fairy tales.
@@degrotekoningwouter what
@@melinmove Ooh thats so sad. 😢
"Do you wanna lick it as I paid for the bill" A line I'm sure all men have wanted to say at least once, but he actually said it the mad man xDDDDD
People fail to comment on The young man physically picking up a woman he has just met. Brazenly unacceptable!!!!
i thought the same, disrespectful of personal boundaries
They are perfect for each other. I hope he doesn't give up
Of course he gives up, so he should. There's no escaping the friend zone. And in the rare event it happens: it's a terrible idea. Besides... There's plenty of fish in the sea. No point chasing one that doesn't want you.
I feel like he may be on the spectrum too
That's what I thought as well... ADHD perhaps. Nothing wrong with either btw ☺
They are adorable 🥰🥰🥰
That’s a real shame…they could have been such a great couple!
Yeah. Are we sure they're not both autistic?
That's what I was wondering.
Thought it was both until I seen this comment
I think men are more forgiving of autism in women than women are of dating an autistic man.
Likely because women with autism are better at masking and men are quite visual so if she's autistic they will look past the social shortcomings
My wife has autism and she’s literally the best thing that’s ever happened to me. ❤
Everyone has something.
Knowing a man has autism wouldn’t put me off of giving him a chance. I think people sometimes assume that if they’ve met a few autistic people, they’ve met them all. Like anyone else, they are all unique individuals.
I think that might be due to the fact that women are naturally more clingy, affectionate and like to be close while people on the spectrum really appreciate their independence and naturally express the same things differently while men are ok with being naturally more distant. I don`t know if I worded this correctly but that was my initial thought.
There is something so punk rock about them ❤️
I love this lady I pray my son grows to be as confident as her thank you ❤❤❤❤
I don't think she was saying she just wanted to be friends. She was saying she wanted to try again without all of the weirdness.
What was going through this guys mind that he thought it be a good idea to pick up this woman the very first encounter he has with her 😳🤔😆😂
That is something someone does typically when people are more comfortable with each other, that made me uncomfortable just to watch and her reaction was understandable 😅
His parents are from two really weird cultures.
I think it was the fear of rejection, which made him do that unexpected thing. I think he tried to separate him self from the pack in order to make her see him more unique than the others. In the end her judgment is the final the one which counts.
@@PROVOCATEURSK And your culture would be?!
I think the producers gave him a little whisper to do it because of the wrestling thing. These dates are mostly staged.
she reminds me of girl in clueless
What an incredible young woman.
I hope they both meet up again.
These two are awesome together!!
He only drinks water cuz he's cheap ! And why on earth are you picking her up like that ? The music playing was funny lol
Lmao theyre both so funny and looney i quite like itttt
I like his hair in the interview portion
It is as if I just saw a scene from a romantic comedy. I thought they were totally for each other. I guess she was masking and mirroring his behavior, not really vibing with him.
I have been watch first dates episodes and just laughing and giggling at some of the episodes. It's fun to watch this show.
Both rather wild and lovely 😂
This was so sweet ❤
This is so bloody cute I’m in ore with the both of them 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
Licking a menu???? Ughhh 🤢🤮
I got second hand embarrassment from watching that. It was unique and unexpected, but if that floats her boat I don't judge. Sometimes opposites attract each other very well.
I've been married 49 years to my opposite. Yes, it can work out well.
I don’t know which part I liked the most…Romeo’s rogue too-soon stranger scoop, ripping off false eyelashes to then burn at the table candle or leave in the water glass for the restaurant staff to deal with , orally assaulting the check presenter that is likely teeming with germs, or the shameless flex and pec reveal. Then her calling it really weird when she contributed to half of the weirdness. You can be a little goofy on a date but this was just…unusual and bad mannered.
I felt secondhand embarrassment whilst watching this. Eep! No thank youuuuu. Goodness gracious. I think your recap was so perfect and you gave me a chuckle. 😂😂 Thanks! 😊😂
Rogue too soon stranger scoop 😂
Yeah, I think both of them did weird things. It wasn’t only him she was part of it. Either she was doing those crazing things to feel connected to him or she’s just like him. So if she was faking her crazy stuff then she isn’t comfortable with herself. Also, I notice he is a very deep thinker and in touch with his emotions and others. Maybe, his feelings were too strong for her.
He is a nice guy but I would also be freaked out by being physically picked up by someone I just met. Save that for the second date bro 😅
now that's how you seal the deal: licking the tab. 😅
quite a nice match !!
Yessss he said it from the start. A lot of girls can’t put up with reality omg
This is awesome
Less pressure these guys are smitten. I love them!
I know this fool did not just pick up this girl in a restaurant off the first meet up 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ My lord!!!! Creep vibes
Ikr?
Good match, both weird but still compelling
It grossed me out when she licked the checkbook 🤢
they are so cute and unique😊
My fav couple
What a pair of cuties 🥰
They definitely have the best friends vibe but since the guy is interested in more....it's better to part ways!
This is beautiful date
The ending was the weirdest part about the 😮😅
There are red flags all over this guy!
He’s perfect
The menu licking was a bit grotesque for me😅
Why just not give it a go he is a realy good match for her understanding ect
OMG so much funny one 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉❤
I knew they played the goofy music for a reason.
They're gorgeous especially him👀
l love dem both
She friend zoned him. 🫤
All of that and bro ended up in the friend zone 🥲
The ending was a shocker for me 😂 i thought it was a match. It definitely was a weird date.
I don’t think she got over him lifting her up at first sight lol
I have two boys on the spectrum. My oldest 16 yr old acts so much like her minus the alcohol
I think theres room for growth there.
I thought sharing the fact that she was diagnosed with autism (On the first date) this was not necessary as it was not evident in any shape or form at that stage, coupled with her licking the menu and then pulling off her lashes, were all signs that she was not going to take this relationship any further, I am convinced that if she was smitten with her date, these behaviours would not have materialised. She is a bit too goofy and at times talks too much without listening to her partner.
two cool people Xx
UMMM ok?
This was v hard to watch. Cringe.
She does look better without the false lashes!
"alot of girls can't put up with reality" 😂😂😂😂😂 Tell em
He struggles with depression and anxiety then goes to talk about “reality” as if he’s superior. YIKES
@@Lizbeth36961Classic PUA vibes, including the weird dress style.
@@Lizbeth36961 It's an odd thing to say, and probably true, most women are looking for the perfect guy, but that doesn't mean he thinks he's superior. Maybe to direct and honest.
Weirdness Rules.....
This was the weirdest date I’ve ever seen , hands down 😊
She miss a great opportunity to find a man like that
Ahh a man knows it better than the actual person.... Lovely
She speaks like Kat Dennings from 2 Broke Girls 🤔
I agree , I was thinking the same thing.
This was one of the oddest First Dates I've ever watched! They're both oddballs in their own way. He is way too cocky - his picking her up right upon meeting was bizarre. I have to admit that I was entertained, and maybe that's all First Dates is about. I thought that she was warming up to him and was actually going to say Yes to a second date. (He obviously was into her.) But I was caught off guard when she just wanted to be "friends" - a smart choice by her but I thought that seeing all his big muscles was clouding her good judgement.
Update?
The title of the video is a bit unfair when he mad3 it a "weird" date (her words!)
I think she was judging him for his weirdness. 😅
...but shes the same. Lol
He's Italian ?
Half Russian half Italian.
He's hot af with the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen. Seems like a good guy really. Just that he needs to brush his teeth, look a bit yellow 😅
Tbh, pretty sure they are both in the autistic spectrum.
Both cool, though. Thumbs-up for both.
They will marry! 👌
he just needs to calm down a bit. like don't invade her space. i hear that's a big thing with people on the spectrum. otherwise, i still see some potential. she just has to be blunt about her boundaries. and he has to respect them.
Typical in today’s dating….
The date goes GREAT like Tony the Tiger!
And then gets friend zoned!
Wow
The music ruins this.