Obina is not a nassist they don't take of their children My bro had such kind of a woman he went through hell we felt sorry for him everyday but thank God they separated and now he has peace
The problem I hear is Oga Obinna laying blame on the female being irresponsible by getting pregnant. He should have used protection himself…his advice should be to the boy child.
But if a woman does the same she goes ndio mean wakened mnajukikana kama watu wajinga sana...outside kenya people know having babymums didn't mean yr bad nor being a single mum a hoe if you didn't share a duvet with them ka injection they were both toxic read body language not what people say
Being the best father does not mean he is the best man, this issue of parenting affects the children,he can be the best father but what about the mother picture in their lives, the age difference between the children raises alarm
@@BelieveThat_ exactly.. if the man is truly a narcissistic as most of the people want to make it look like, why are woman quick to open their legs for him and even get pregnant 😏
Only the person that dealt with a narcissist can see through this man. Why do you have 3 baby mamas? That speaks for itself I feel sorry for any woman coming next she will suffer the same wrath. Narcissistic men always see every woman is abusive, they twist everything. For your information no angel 😇 woman on earth
Obina great clarification as a woman we are difficult don’t worry. Children love parents who listen to them and hate parents who make them sad. My children appreciate me more when I allow them to air their views. Obina as you have been doing well keep on staying and being in your children’s life. I personally had an excellent relationship with my father. Mungai Eve and Trevor good work. This is marital awareness tungelipa hela nyingi lakini Obina has schooled us.
Is he trying to say the baby mama got herself pregnant without his knowledge?? 1, 2, 3 and 4.???? shame on him. He is playing the victim. Typical covert narc.
Oga Obina, as your fun allow me to air my opinion. Avoid being on social media too much especially with controversies. You owe nobody explanations especially about your personal drama. Focus on your career that is growing very well for now, otherwise you will dent yourself and you will go down. This lady might be an agent from your enemies. My opinion tu..sina noma.
He met with them when he was not sober imagine and again in pain,I can imagine the feeling Not judging How many men do have more than two children out of wedlock? Seriously May GOD help him to heal as he stands for his children.@@sharonnzuki2747
Relationships can be messy when things go south. What i admire about Obina is that he wants to be in the life of his Children and he is taking care of his responsibilities as a father(this is a BIG plus for majority of the ladies in the same situation are fighting for this). I pray after the healing they will as a family do what is best for children especially the last two. Also i would refrain to label someone a Narcissistic without all the facts, that is character assassination. We are all dealing with our own issues and family dynamics. Let this family BE.
Obina why keep evidences? Everything until now is planned, you are smart, you want you're ex to look bad, you are toxic and you should feature yourself in your own show
Obina keep the evidence, after all its evidence. Whether they say u are a narcissist or not, I don't care. Of they wanna keep their evidence, let them do. The fact that they have no evidence should not be an indication that they are the victims, it means their is no evidence . I know men suffer in silence, and women will always stand by their fellow women in spite of whether they are wrong or not. I will not take sides, but at least you have taken responsibility of your children. Period!
There are always three sides to every story: the oppressed, the oppressor, and the creator. Obinna stop being emotional when Kido asks you a question and responds nicely.
Praying for you Mama Ada (Lillian). Kids will always want to stay with the parent who spoils them, as for you, you are a loving, caring and authoritative parent who puts sense in the children. This is what parenting is. Nobody is perfect when it comes to parenting coz it doesn't come with the right manual. Right now you are the bad parent because you don't earn as much as Obinna, and maybe ,he looks down on you, it's OK, hii ni mapito na itaisha tu! Be strong, do what you think is good and right for your babies and don't be stressed with those attacking you on social media. One day, watachoka na watalala. Be strong Mama and find positive things to distract you from unnecessary dramas. You are a winner, infact ,more than a conquerer. For Ada and Lola, obey your father and Mother so that your days on earth may be long.( This is the only commandment with a promise). As for Mr.Obina, stop exposing your Baby Mama Online for wrong reason. She needs her privacy, infact if I were Lillian, I would have sued you for gross infringement (Recording someone without permission which is a crime).
There are 3 stages of Narcissistic abuse 1.IDEALIZE the victim, 2. DEVALUE the victim and finally 3.DISCARD the victim, this unfortunately seems to be her DISCARDING STAGE. To her everything was fine… and then all of a sudden the dismissing in a cold and hurtful way. In this phase, the victim is labeled the CRAZY or psycho sending her head spinning at these false accusations.Dude target her strengths and calls them her weaknesses. This is called the SMEAR campaign by the abuser and the goal is to ruin her self confidence or make her doubt herself, and not be able to comprehend who the dude was. She will be in endless explanation of who the guy is to anyone who cares to listen to her and non of these people will get her because all these were done covertly to her and now the abuser is playing the victim . It is well kamama just know its not about you. It is what it is, you ain't going to change anything. Build the immune of shrugging some of these things off and moving on.
I like the way Obinna is very real and objective. This things happen to many of us na marriage haina manual. The best you can do is to give your children an environment to thrive and flourish and enjoy life
Brother take my words this is the beginning of life battles it never end, as man don't bring your family issues to the media, Mute battles do your best let the life ahead you bless you. To your children do your best don't worry about what your Mama child does, she leaves her life, those media question avoids them there petty irrelevant, smart guys like you don't go to media for this kind of interview
I don't understand why when things fall apart ,, men are judged /painted as the cause,, I can confidently say that we have very toxic women even to an extended of abusing their own kids,, for that case let every one play their role in kids lives ,, a mother cannever be the dad and viceversa,, the best thing I like with OBINA he is responsible and present dad❤❤
Obinna pole for the tough times you have had to go through, thanks to God they have made evolve, nice lessons to the youths in relationships atleast before talking it to the next level, there are lines to pick from your life
After listening to the Baby Mama's side of the story I think Obinna is saying a lot of BS... Those kids will grow up and hold him answerable for how he treats the mum.
True,I pity how this mother used to leave with this step children coz the way they have been poisoned by this Man they can't respect this lady at all at all.i heard one girl saying the boy used to tell him about the mother.
We sacrifice a lot for the sake of kids, not because we want to look good but for the sake of the young ones who we desire to see growing up well. The dramas may last, but the beauty part of it is that the kids are growing. As long as our lives are spared, the end will justify and crown our efforts.
Oga its okay not to be okay its good to talk out and air the pain you have been going through for years let the boy child speak......after all i admire him he is a responsible dad...and his kid love him too much
The best way to kill negative vibe is not to respond or react to it. A fire no matter how big Eventually dies down. He has fuelled it by talking about it, and this is something he knows - But has let his emotions think for him. In the minds of most people, Perception is Everything - most people don't have time to fact-check, and this can Destroy one's relationships and one's career. The longer this story goes on, the more his brand will deteriorate.
If you've not experienced anything half of what this guy is narrating, please don't judge as he is still healing. Obinna is human and bound to mistakes. I personally appreciate how he is present in his kids life. Nonetheless, he should not publish any negativity about any baby mama he may do it privately instead to avoid triggering fights.
He has been a deadbeat until he realized those kids could make him money on CZcams!! He was absent when the kids were born, didn't help to pay maternity bill, was absent when his child needed a surgery just a foolish deadbeat he should shut up
If you ask me this person for a father of anyones kid, I will prefer send the kids for adoption than have such a kind of father. He has failed terribly
Narcism, gaslighting at its best,blaming the women you got pregnant and at the same time,one is even afraid of you,akichoma nguo anapack ready to go coz anakuogopa. A good father protects his kids well being,peace of mind and that means protecting their mother too from the public trolls and abuse for the sake of her mental health. You are a public figure but want to tarnish the image of the mother of your kids hence your kids reading the abuses online of there mother . shame on you.
Only we who are enlightened understand what narcissism is. He is a classic textbook example of a narc. 🚩🚩🚩 You should see some of the women in this comment section congratulating him. They have no idea what a narcissistic is and what they're capable of.
Obina..sshh..don't explain too much..it is what it is..I feel you. Kids are much more intelligent than what they seem..educate Kenyans.. by not talking to the kids and finding out their emotions does not mean that they think or feel nothing..kids are the most affected by parents separation and unfortunately they are the keenest observers and the most affected..talking to them helps them and you heal..I love your intelligent conversations and honesty with your kids coz you are in it together ❤️
I support this man...the children said it clearly, that she even throw shoes at him. Such a foolish woman. You should learn to respect your husbands. Kids don't lie. I imagine what this guy went through for over five years. Women please respect us pliiiiz🙏. A man can't stay where he is not respected
The society has conditioned us, women can go to all t.v stations crying and talking about their abusive husbands. The men are then, asked to be the bigger person and never talk about what actually happens.
I concur with you Lately l interfered where a lady wanted to jump over the balcony because the young man told her he's revising for exams and he needs his time,thank God they were about three revising,may God help this generation gene
if narcissistic was a person??? This is the real definition!!!!. His ego is thru the roof he is not a good human. God never ever let me meet such or have such individuals in my life Amen. waaaaaaah disgusting
Obina, polygamist life is too hard. Only God can fight for the just. If that baby mama did such things to you & yr other children. Just be yourself. Live a peaceful life happy & free. Stress kills youve choosed a good path. Above all, teach them word of God. Take them to church and you and your family will be highly protected and children too will live a perfect life. Long live Oga Obina
Obina, please protect your children, do not give permission to interrogate your children in the name of being open you will regret what you will exposing your children to bullying and questions you will regret why youleft it open. Please please protect your children from the outside world, your videos are ok, becuse as a parent you know your boundaries
Obina,why did you have children with 3different women,you are a young man now!!!you can still fix that problem with your baby mama,she seems to be very bitter,you can apologize to her and re unite again,yeees OBINA!!!you can,you are not a bad dad,she is not a bad mom.
Stop giving people the tea, especially about your family, we all have problems in our homes but we solve them privately, I have listened to Mama Ada on Ali's chanel and that Lady is telling the truth.
WHEN A MAN DIVORCE 1ST WIFE,THEN 2ND,THEN 3RD.....LIKELY 4TH,That is a psychiatric Man....a sick man....but just keep urlife and ur children off social media till they reach 18 and let them take themselves..that is mental torture.........
Obina besides every drama i just owe you a pat at the back that you have stood by your kids and i love how you aare raising them and showing them the teal world with the little you get.every marriage iko na drama and most fathers huwa hawafuatilii maisha ya watoto kama wewe
Obinna is a narcissist period. He's too proud and looks down on the women in his life. He can say whatever he wants but we can see through him. May God provide for and protect mama Ada so she doesn't have to put up with BS
🤣🤣🤣 True. He is also trying to blame the woman for getting baby number 2 it's like he was ejaculating "wora" Guy is full of himself and the type that gives ultimatums on when the relationship should start and end.
The way a Narcissist can make a woman look crazy wueh😳😳😳..
The woman is crazy for sure
Aki...
Obina is not a nassist they don't take of their children
My bro had such kind of a woman he went through hell we felt sorry for him everyday but thank God they separated and now he has peace
Exactly a narcissist he is
Obinna is not a nassist,I admire how he love his kids
You are a gentle man who learns from his mistakes.keep up the wisdom
The fact that Obinna has three baby mama's talks volume about his character.
Once bitten thrice shy🤣
Unajaza baby mommas kama ujinga
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probably a narc who runs from one supplier to the next and playing victim all through.
But why are women quick to get pregnant for men of “bad character “?
Very true he must be the problem
The problem I hear is Oga Obinna laying blame on the female being irresponsible by getting pregnant. He should have used protection himself…his advice should be to the boy child.
But if a woman does the same she goes ndio mean wakened mnajukikana kama watu wajinga sana...outside kenya people know having babymums didn't mean yr bad nor being a single mum a hoe if you didn't share a duvet with them ka injection they were both toxic read body language not what people say
The best gift you can give to your children is to love their mother.....
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!!!! MOST MEN DON’T UNDERSTAND THAT!!!!
HEEEY LADIES 🥰🥰🥰🥰 DID I HEAR THAT GETTING PREGNANT DOES NOT KEEP A MAN...
Ladies are we together get that right 🥱🥱
😢😢
That's a mere truth
That's where I am bt can't regret she is a blessing
Obi, you are the best father. Let those who want to talk increase their volume 👍👍🤣🤣🤣
Being the best father does not mean he is the best man, this issue of parenting affects the children,he can be the best father but what about the mother picture in their lives, the age difference between the children raises alarm
This is true Obinna, women are envious but some ignore their responsibility and then they don't like seeing men did it. This is great Obinna.....
He is just hiding under the father and kids thing ... narcissist 💯
Like you are
True,,
@@BelieveThat_ exactly.. if the man is truly a narcissistic as most of the people want to make it look like, why are woman quick to open their legs for him and even get pregnant 😏
don't think so
true. i hate it.
Take it easy brother obina. You own none explain of your life I just pray God to intervene in your situation. We all know you are the best daddy ever.
No need to fight your baby mama. Make parenting much enjoyable and smoother. Avoid any negativity
Exactly
Only the person that dealt with a narcissist can see through this man.
Why do you have 3 baby mamas?
That speaks for itself
I feel sorry for any woman coming next she will suffer the same wrath.
Narcissistic men always see every woman is abusive, they twist everything.
For your information no angel 😇 woman on earth
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Word
Gas lighters kabisaaaa..very charming
Exactly he's just a down ade down not top ade top😆
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Obina great clarification as a woman we are difficult don’t worry. Children love parents who listen to them and hate parents who make them sad. My children appreciate me more when I allow them to air their views. Obina as you have been doing well keep on staying and being in your children’s life. I personally had an excellent relationship with my father. Mungai Eve and Trevor good work. This is marital awareness tungelipa hela nyingi lakini Obina has schooled us.
Obinna you are the best dad continue fighting for your kids ❤ you are strong
Is he trying to say the baby mama got herself pregnant without his knowledge?? 1, 2, 3 and 4.???? shame on him. He is playing the victim. Typical covert narc.
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And he has 3 bby mamas
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When he said the lady should ask first if he wants children 😏😏
One child is for one baby mama, 2nd another baby mama and 3rd and 4th another baby mama🥱
Oga Obina, as your fun allow me to air my opinion. Avoid being on social media too much especially with controversies. You owe nobody explanations especially about your personal drama. Focus on your career that is growing very well for now, otherwise you will dent yourself and you will go down. This lady might be an agent from your enemies. My opinion tu..sina noma.
Good advice 👏🏾
Hujui drama ndio ulipa? This how they get views! Put yours in private! You think he doesn't know that?🙄🙄🙄
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Nancy I surport you fully,let him keep off from social media
The fact that he has 3 baby mamas speaks volume
Did any of them get pregnant at gun point?
@@sharonnzuki2747 are you even understanding the point
He met with them when he was not sober imagine and again in pain,I can imagine the feeling
Not judging
How many men do have more than two children out of wedlock? Seriously
May GOD help him to heal as he stands for his children.@@sharonnzuki2747
3or 4
@@sharonnzuki2747 no. and it still speak volumes
Am a mother with grown up children like you keep up
Oga you've reaally encouraged me I swear I'll watch this now and then 💙💙💙
Relationships can be messy when things go south. What i admire about Obina is that he wants to be in the life of his Children and he is taking care of his responsibilities as a father(this is a BIG plus for majority of the ladies in the same situation are fighting for this). I pray after the healing they will as a family do what is best for children especially the last two. Also i would refrain to label someone a Narcissistic without all the facts, that is character assassination. We are all dealing with our own issues and family dynamics. Let this family BE.
Obina why keep evidences? Everything until now is planned, you are smart, you want you're ex to look bad, you are toxic and you should feature yourself in your own show
🤣🤣🤣 najua inauma juu akona evidence. Unataka adelete ndio amalizwe kabisa.
Obina keep the evidence, after all its evidence. Whether they say u are a narcissist or not, I don't care. Of they wanna keep their evidence, let them do. The fact that they have no evidence should not be an indication that they are the victims, it means their is no evidence . I know men suffer in silence, and women will always stand by their fellow women in spite of whether they are wrong or not. I will not take sides, but at least you have taken responsibility of your children. Period!
If he's a good dad to his kids them that settles it wachemi ujimga
There are always three sides to every story: the oppressed, the oppressor, and the creator. Obinna stop being emotional when Kido asks you a question and responds nicely.
Kido was asking something that obinna has already explained........follow it clearly
Praying for you Mama Ada (Lillian). Kids will always want to stay with the parent who spoils them, as for you, you are a loving, caring and authoritative parent who puts sense in the children. This is what parenting is. Nobody is perfect when it comes to parenting coz it doesn't come with the right manual. Right now you are the bad parent because you don't earn as much as Obinna, and maybe ,he looks down on you, it's OK, hii ni mapito na itaisha tu! Be strong, do what you think is good and right for your babies and don't be stressed with those attacking you on social media. One day, watachoka na watalala. Be strong Mama and find positive things to distract you from unnecessary dramas. You are a winner, infact ,more than a conquerer.
For Ada and Lola, obey your father and Mother so that your days on earth may be long.( This is the only commandment with a promise).
As for Mr.Obina, stop exposing your Baby Mama Online for wrong reason. She needs her privacy, infact if I were Lillian, I would have sued you for gross infringement (Recording someone without permission which is a crime).
There are 3 stages of Narcissistic abuse 1.IDEALIZE the victim, 2. DEVALUE the victim and finally 3.DISCARD the victim, this unfortunately seems to be her DISCARDING STAGE.
To her everything was fine… and then all of a sudden the dismissing in a cold and hurtful way. In this phase, the victim is labeled the CRAZY or psycho sending her head spinning at these false accusations.Dude target her strengths and calls them her weaknesses. This is called the SMEAR campaign by the abuser and the goal is to ruin her self confidence or make her doubt herself, and not be able to comprehend who the dude was. She will be in endless explanation of who the guy is to anyone who cares to listen to her and non of these people will get her because all these were done covertly to her and now the abuser is playing the victim . It is well kamama just know its not about you. It is what it is, you ain't going to change anything. Build the immune of shrugging some of these things off and moving on.
its a matter of sence ......think twice obina is a vibe with the kid i will choose obinah over 10000 times
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wait until those kids outgrow your coaching .let them mature and get into their senses. kwanza the girls.hautaamini
Obina congratulations I like your advice 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I'm not to judge,but having 3baby mamas speak it all.
Those are few
I think so too
I know this guy... He is a player., and his attitude sucks
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@@carolinemurugi5803 really ? He looks like a nice guy
😂😂😂😂I like how he’s pretending to be good….. that’s why he has 3 different baby mamas wow 🤩
I like the way Obinna is very real and objective. This things happen to many of us na marriage haina manual. The best you can do is to give your children an environment to thrive and flourish and enjoy life
Obina is a cool guy, i love the way you keep it real. You are a great father its so obvious
Your just a toxic father. Let the other 2 baby mama talk. And your just jealous over this beautiful lady. Leave her alone.
😂😂😂😂 Obina blaming the baby mama for getting pregnant as if he was ejaculating holy water.
🤣🤣
imagine. the audacity
It should never be about one parent vs the other Obinna!!! Children need both and should never feel like they have to pick!
I love that
Most cases people who grew without father figures have difficulty staying with a woman.
So true!!!
Brother take my words this is the beginning of life battles it never end, as man don't bring your family issues to the media, Mute battles do your best let the life ahead you bless you. To your children do your best don't worry about what your Mama child does, she leaves her life, those media question avoids them there petty irrelevant, smart guys like you don't go to media for this kind of interview
Obina you are old enough to know that getting pregnant is both of your responsibility!
I don't understand why when things fall apart ,, men are judged /painted as the cause,, I can confidently say that we have very toxic women even to an extended of abusing their own kids,, for that case let every one play their role in kids lives ,, a mother cannever be the dad and viceversa,, the best thing I like with OBINA he is responsible and present dad❤❤
How toxic when someone is married more than 3 times at 32.this is not normal but unfortunate.
Wow you are full of wisdom keep on standing for your kids
There is nothing as dangerous as a narcissist with enough money and English😢😢...
Weeeh!.....I tell you.......he will always appear as the angle from above.😂
Obinna pole for the tough times you have had to go through, thanks to God they have made evolve, nice lessons to the youths in relationships atleast before talking it to the next level, there are lines to pick from your life
After listening to the Baby Mama's side of the story I think Obinna is saying a lot of BS... Those kids will grow up and hold him answerable for how he treats the mum.
agreed!! I trust the lady.
True,I pity how this mother used to leave with this step children coz the way they have been poisoned by this Man they can't respect this lady at all at all.i heard one girl saying the boy used to tell him about the mother.
That baby boy has been poisoned and picked some bad characters@@gracekamau4716
Hapo kwa getting pregnant does not keep a man is true...Obinna am always your fan n follow always,continue loving your children
so he had no business getting the woman preganant
Sometimes it's better to keep quiet for the sake of peace n the kids...
I love your advice on leaving an abusive relationship.Yes that's what we should all do before things go south
We sacrifice a lot for the sake of kids, not because we want to look good but for the sake of the young ones who we desire to see growing up well. The dramas may last, but the beauty part of it is that the kids are growing. As long as our lives are spared, the end will justify and crown our efforts.
the moment u watch obinas tv and how he interacts with kids,keep it up obina
its good he is taking care of the kid but not all good fathers make good husbands
@@carolineondula3633 You can't be a good father and less a husband and vice versa applies
Oga its okay not to be okay its good to talk out and air the pain you have been going through for years let the boy child speak......after all i admire him he is a responsible dad...and his kid love him too much
The fact that you can call a woman a name says alot,so rude!!!!just a bad man !
I love you obina with a love of our God may he bless I believe you
Very true young man with a lot of wisdom
I appreciate you for being present in your kid's life
The best way to kill negative vibe is not to respond or react to it. A fire no matter how big Eventually dies down. He has fuelled it by talking about it, and this is something he knows - But has let his emotions think for him.
In the minds of most people, Perception is Everything - most people don't have time to fact-check, and this can Destroy one's relationships and one's career. The longer this story goes on, the more his brand will deteriorate.
Better get out with your kids kwa socks 🤣🤣🤣well said
Remember you fathered girls
A few years to come , someone will bad mouth them after a broken relationship
It will haunt you obinna
I love what you have said....her girls will not live with him forever....they will one day get into relationships....they will hate their father
Many reasons I’ll keep marriage out of my mind until further notice.
I know same here
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The moment he says evidence says it all
May the Lord bless you for been there for you children
If you've not experienced anything half of what this guy is narrating, please don't judge as he is still healing. Obinna is human and bound to mistakes. I personally appreciate how he is present in his kids life. Nonetheless, he should not publish any negativity about any baby mama he may do it privately instead to avoid triggering fights.
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Oga Obinna!!!! My latest obsession!! I LOVE the way you interact with the kids
Its fake, all for the camera, they should also show behind the scenes and the edited parts!!
I personally I admire Obinna for being a wonderful Dad ,He's true and he is always there to shape up the future of his kids 👏👏
Go and listen the other side of Mama.....ndio hutajua mama ni genuine kabisa......
there is no wonderful father here! i.listened to the kids mother n I believed her side of the story.
He has been a deadbeat until he realized those kids could make him money on CZcams!! He was absent when the kids were born, didn't help to pay maternity bill, was absent when his child needed a surgery just a foolish deadbeat he should shut up
You should listen to the other side of story.mambo ni mengi
If you ask me this person for a father of anyones kid, I will prefer send the kids for adoption than have such a kind of father. He has failed terribly
Narcism, gaslighting at its best,blaming the women you got pregnant and at the same time,one is even afraid of you,akichoma nguo anapack ready to go coz anakuogopa.
A good father protects his kids well being,peace of mind and that means protecting their mother too from the public trolls and abuse for the sake of her mental health.
You are a public figure but want to tarnish the image of the mother of your kids hence your kids reading the abuses online of there mother . shame on you.
Only we who are enlightened understand what narcissism is. He is a classic textbook example of a narc. 🚩🚩🚩
You should see some of the women in this comment section congratulating him. They have no idea what a narcissistic is and what they're capable of.
Obina..sshh..don't explain too much..it is what it is..I feel you. Kids are much more intelligent than what they seem..educate Kenyans.. by not talking to the kids and finding out their emotions does not mean that they think or feel nothing..kids are the most affected by parents separation and unfortunately they are the keenest observers and the most affected..talking to them helps them and you heal..I love your intelligent conversations and honesty with your kids coz you are in it together ❤️
I support this man...the children said it clearly, that she even throw shoes at him. Such a foolish woman. You should learn to respect your husbands. Kids don't lie. I imagine what this guy went through for over five years. Women please respect us pliiiiz🙏. A man can't stay where he is not respected
😂😂😂😂😂Obina is just funny.
The society has conditioned us, women can go to all t.v stations crying and talking about their abusive husbands. The men are then, asked to be the bigger person and never talk about what actually happens.
A man who thinks cheating is ok, no thank you 😢
The way he talks speak volumes. So full of himself!
When a woman speaks in the same manner, you all say she is confident qnd independent 🤣🤣
He's a narcissist.
Finally Mama Ada has come out, spoke the truth. Now we know who Obinna is, very toxic.
This is a honest talk.... Boychild go through a lot.... Opening up is good
I concur with you
Lately l interfered where a lady wanted to jump over the balcony because the young man told her he's revising for exams and he needs his time,thank God they were about three revising,may God help this generation gene
and so do wemen whom you throw away with kids
Obinna i just love you n vile tu watasema don't try to justify yourself from the look of things you're a good person
Me I can't hate, I love you so much continue taking care of your children.
Congratulations eve good 👍 job,first to comment wapi likes
Obinna you owe no one an explanation...what i know you might not be a husband but you are the best dad.
I just love how obinna takes care of his kids,
Am super proud of him too
if narcissistic was a person??? This is the real definition!!!!. His ego is thru the roof he is not a good human. God never ever let me meet such or have such individuals in my life Amen. waaaaaaah disgusting
Ameen!! A man with arrogance coz he has money. Nonsense!!!
Was waiting for this thanks eve♥️
Oga obinna likes ACTING so mature,just acting!!!
He is!!!
He is very mature VERY mark that word
Go and watch that video for Ada birthday
@@damariskinanu8239 💯💯
True ,I saw the screenshot his baby mama posted
Ik he starts drama alafu anaanza kuact holier tha thou ,just like aliingililia Eric Omondi alafu akaanza kuongea as if he is mature smh
Women who are here please don’t point fingers at your fellow woman,just listen to the other side of the story.
True
You're the best dad to your kids 👌
I love how he explains anything lovely Dad
Having babies does not fix a relationship well done
Kabisa
Despite everything don't abandon your children oga you're trying
Truth be told...You are trying.. may the Almighty God bless you🙏
Obina, polygamist life is too hard. Only God can fight for the just. If that baby mama did such things to you & yr other children. Just be yourself. Live a peaceful life happy & free. Stress kills youve choosed a good path. Above all, teach them word of God. Take them to church and you and your family will be highly protected and children too will live a perfect life. Long live Oga Obina
Oga Dtop..my G🥂
Obinna you need to mature up! bear the consequences of your loose zip & learn to face your issues off social media
Obina, please protect your children, do not give permission to interrogate your children in the name of being open you will regret what you will exposing your children to bullying and questions you will regret why youleft it open. Please please protect your children from the outside world, your videos are ok, becuse as a parent you know your boundaries
know what to record and what not to...si ati mtoto akiongea ushainua camera...some things are better off camera.
Obina,why did you have children with 3different women,you are a young man now!!!you can still fix that problem with your baby mama,she seems to be very bitter,you can apologize to her and re unite again,yeees OBINA!!!you can,you are not a bad dad,she is not a bad mom.
I got my blood pressure from this kind of situation and keeping quite so don't keep quite and don't rest until your children from that toxic parent.
The maturity is on another level.. congrats obinna
Umekalia maskio cheki huyu msee🤣🤣🤣🤣
Avoid social media with your private life. And anywhere kids are involved, avoid avoid avoid cz you will affect their lives.
Stop giving people the tea, especially about your family, we all have problems in our homes but we solve them privately, I have listened to Mama Ada on Ali's chanel and that Lady is telling the truth.
Oh yes she is. This guy is narcissistic.
True,,kabisa,, hii ni punda ya mtu tu
He is a pretender
Patholigical liar...traits of a narc
One hunnid...we don't need all that
Obina social media give it a break..
You are such an insipation to me obinna. Luku manenos
WHEN A MAN DIVORCE 1ST WIFE,THEN 2ND,THEN 3RD.....LIKELY 4TH,That is a psychiatric Man....a sick man....but just keep urlife and ur children off social media till they reach 18 and let them take themselves..that is mental torture.........
I can relate with hao I woz brought up n Ur doing a gud thing try to be near your kids
Obina besides every drama i just owe you a pat at the back that you have stood by your kids and i love how you aare raising them and showing them the teal world with the little you get.every marriage iko na drama and most fathers huwa hawafuatilii maisha ya watoto kama wewe
Obinna is a narcissist period. He's too proud and looks down on the women in his life. He can say whatever he wants but we can see through him. May God provide for and protect mama Ada so she doesn't have to put up with BS
Co parenting is not easy......
He should do toxic baby daddy on himself 🤣🤣🤣
The way he said. Sitamuanika thn start narrating ati drinking driving etc
🤣🤣🤣 True. He is also trying to blame the woman for getting baby number 2 it's like he was ejaculating "wora" Guy is full of himself and the type that gives ultimatums on when the relationship should start and end.