ENNEAGRAM Type 6 | Annoying Things Sixes Do in Romantic Relationships

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Komentáře • 98

  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe  Před 3 lety +17

    Hello Type 6s (and people who love 6s)! The first 1000 people to use the link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership: skl.sh/abbeyhowe05211

  • @coconutcat1280
    @coconutcat1280 Před 3 lety +169

    “I want you to tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts” 😂 Yep, that’s me

    • @amandamcwilliams8470
      @amandamcwilliams8470 Před 3 lety

      Yep, so true haha!

    • @kellyf2301
      @kellyf2301 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes, she put it into words for me finally! Haha

    • @nelsonmaam
      @nelsonmaam Před rokem +1

      Did she read my personal journal or have a spy cam in my house??

  • @juliesalcido4458
    @juliesalcido4458 Před 3 lety +49

    Im a six and the one where we’re worried about the house burning down or something bad happened is sooo true even outside a relationship I used to sit in class and think about if a school shooter was to come in what would I do lol

  • @juls_krsslr7908
    @juls_krsslr7908 Před 3 lety +41

    This is very accurate. I'm glad you are able to see the humor in these things. As a 6 myself, it has really helped me to laugh at myself when I catch myself doing stereotypical 6 things. I've been in therapy for years and I've worked a lot on not projecting, not making negative interpretations, and believing that I can trust my gut and abilities on most things, but I still find myself doing these annoying things in new ways. If I can laugh at myself when I discover it, it's easier to stop and change my behavior.

  • @LexaLite
    @LexaLite Před 2 lety +23

    I'm 5 dating a 6 and I've just laughed through all of this especially the coffee bit. "I am never not thinking of you when you I run errands" my six has said stuff like this.

  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones Před 3 lety +42

    I’m married to a 6. And examples #6-#7 are VERY accurate. Like... very.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  Před 3 lety +1

      😂 amazing

    • @JortsMcGee
      @JortsMcGee Před 3 lety +2

      Yep. Newly realized 6 here. Spot on 😂 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @Mahogany_Wellness
    @Mahogany_Wellness Před 3 lety +19

    “You underestimate my love for thoughtfulness and caffeination” I feel seen 😂

  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones Před 3 lety +32

    I know this is obvious, but CLEARLY she should have gone with the basic cottage core dress.

  • @raluca88798
    @raluca88798 Před 2 lety +6

    "tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts" 😂Wow, now I truly understand my boyfriend, thanks

  • @digithuman
    @digithuman Před 3 lety +6

    "I just want you to tell me your thoughts so I feel better about my thoughts" accurate

  • @danielleybelly411
    @danielleybelly411 Před rokem +8

    Your content is FANTASTIC, Abbey. I'm constantly looking for proof that I am not truly a 6 - but gosh some of this stuff, like it or not, is totally ME. Thank you for your humor - honestly laughter is the best, it's my favorite! and you are HILARIOUS 🤣

  • @ashleighprice3492
    @ashleighprice3492 Před 3 lety +16

    Sooo me! Fearing fear itself is an everyday reality! I know I drive my husband crazy.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  Před 3 lety

      It's a hard fear to have, but something that can be worked through!!

  • @wiegraf9009
    @wiegraf9009 Před 10 měsíci +3

    To all the sixes out there, we appreciate your loyalty, even though we see it's motivated by fear. When you do find loving and secure environments you can live beyond the fear and become shining stars we all admire!

  • @the_real_littlepinkhousefly

    Dang, girl, you just totally nailed my life. Add in ADHD and OCD (actual, diagnosed OCD, not "oh, everybody's a little OCD" -- no, they are not), and you can imagine the fun times my husband has. (He won't even watch this, he says it sounds too depressing.)
    I wonder if more Sixes have OCD than other types ...?

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  Před 3 lety +3

      I'm happy to hear you feel seen. I don't know about the OCD and Type 6s. There definitely isn't any data out there (that I've seen) about Enneagram Types and Mental Health. But regardless, I hope your husband does watch the video because I don't think it's depressing!!

    • @the_real_littlepinkhousefly
      @the_real_littlepinkhousefly Před 3 lety +2

      @@AbbeyHowe I'll try to get him to! I thought it was great!

  • @auntbeast9640
    @auntbeast9640 Před 3 lety +5

    i'm a type 7 with a mom who's a type 6 and BOY is this accurate!

  • @hasamahikaru
    @hasamahikaru Před rokem +1

    I FEEL SO CALLED OUT

  • @denicabishop
    @denicabishop Před rokem +4

    "Where's your wallet? I told the pastor I would buy $200 worth of donuts." And then "The pastor was caught stealing the tithes. I'm never going to another church ever again". I'm dying from laughter and freaking out at the accuracy!!! This is bananas how spot on this is for me. Like somebody had a freaking camera in my house! Wait... what if somebody had a camera in my house? Just kidding. Sort of😅

  • @emmalengel9146
    @emmalengel9146 Před rokem +1

    Subscribed within 50 sec. You have an amazing energy

  • @noopinionslikeswitzerland6966

    I’m a 9w1, but I sometimes have irrational 6 fears like “gee I hope that power line doesn’t fall on my car and fry me like deep fried chicken”

    • @morxsine
      @morxsine Před 3 lety +3

      probably because 9s can disintegrate into 6 anxieties but idk lol

  • @MichelleMod1
    @MichelleMod1 Před 2 lety +1

    Omg when she brought out the journal…
    😳 SO TRUE

  • @julieknight3534
    @julieknight3534 Před 2 lety +2

    I love your humor in discussing the types!

  • @DariusLong
    @DariusLong Před 2 lety +1

    A cottage core basic moment, that made me laugh out loud

  • @lucaspit8
    @lucaspit8 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm a 6... this video had me laughing at how accurate the reinactments were

  • @marishaten7399
    @marishaten7399 Před 3 lety +11

    I was waiting for the type 6 wings video, but this gem came along first. Thank you so much, I understand my Type 6 sister so much better now!
    By the way, I switched from Type 5 to 8 to 9 and now have settled on 7. Is it possible to be an introverted 7? I read Riso, and found out that it doesn't specifically say 'extrovert' for 7. Will you consider making a video on introvert 7s?

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  Před 3 lety +3

      It is absolutely possible to be an introverted 7! They often appear more extroverted in examples (like my videos!), but you will find introverts and extroverts in every single type!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  Před 3 lety +2

      Oh, and yes! I will put introversion and the enneagram in my Trello!

    • @marishaten7399
      @marishaten7399 Před 3 lety

      @@AbbeyHowe Aww thank you so much!!! ❤❤❤

  • @monabime
    @monabime Před 2 lety +1

    I'm isfp 6w7 and i really do this OFTEN like being a nervous, awkward and easygoing storm
    it's painful cause I'm SO introverted and is a hard style to be

  • @lindawebster7877
    @lindawebster7877 Před měsícem

    You are HILARIOUS!! I love this!!

  • @meganbeach9932
    @meganbeach9932 Před 3 lety +4

    lmao. I have had that exact Starbucks arguement with my husband. Why would you only get one coffee when you know I'm at home, and I love coffee?!!

  • @gerrygarcia6247
    @gerrygarcia6247 Před 2 lety +4

    Haha 😂 I feel deeply offended by underestimating my caffeination!! 😆 thank you! This video helps a lot to be aware when I’m an unhealthy 6. By the way, I saw your other video and I’m clear now that I’m a 6w7. Can you make a video about the enneagram tritype and how we move on it? 🙏🏼 thanks

  • @elenaharris6021
    @elenaharris6021 Před 2 lety +3

    I know it's not great to assume someone's type... but every single one of these is TOTALLY my new boyfriend. Can't wait for him to take the test and get back to me (I want to be right... haha, I am such a type 1).

  • @seven5900
    @seven5900 Před 3 lety +3

    i love your channel ! i hope you continue to make content

  • @luandthelion
    @luandthelion Před 3 lety +3

    There are several people in my family this reminds me of!! So, can habits like that rub off on people regardless of type? And how do you know what’s “you” and what’s like a learned communication style from your family? Also, can being a counter subtype, like a sunny four, or shifting in levels of health change how you communicate?

  • @heyitskatey
    @heyitskatey Před 2 lety

    The IRA thing had me laughing out loud for a good minute. So freakin funnyyyyyy.

  • @joshuaselesnick7614
    @joshuaselesnick7614 Před 10 měsíci

    You NAILED my partner. Nailed her

  • @kellyf2301
    @kellyf2301 Před 3 lety +4

    Sending this to my husband... (I'm a 6)

  • @Lia_Scott
    @Lia_Scott Před rokem

    OMG #5 😂😂😂 💯💯💯💯💯💯 especially over following the rules thing. 😂 Oh man and #7 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @maunamars968
    @maunamars968 Před 3 lety

    I'm so like this sometimes except for the image part...but the last part is especially true.

  • @grimkitten8254
    @grimkitten8254 Před 11 měsíci +1

    if ya dont laugh at yourself as a 6 your going to be one huge wreck with all that anxiety xD

  • @sandyzuniga1
    @sandyzuniga1 Před 2 lety +1

    Omg! I am a 6, and this was On Point!

  • @MikeJ122o
    @MikeJ122o Před rokem

    1:50 yes as an INTJ-A 6w7.
    Okay I agree with the whole video XD

  • @morningglory.213
    @morningglory.213 Před 6 měsíci

    as a 6w5 i feel like i also detach in an UNHEALTHY WAY if after constant need of validation, i dont get it

  • @medstudent1613
    @medstudent1613 Před 3 lety +1

    8:08 Can

  • @ravindrabej2584
    @ravindrabej2584 Před 2 lety +1

    No 6 is amazing

  • @christinehallfeldt4280
    @christinehallfeldt4280 Před 5 měsíci

    I always don't trust my own decisions lmao

  • @BSingh-on4qr
    @BSingh-on4qr Před rokem

    Perfect, 6 is the centre of my tritype

  • @ambica.n3476
    @ambica.n3476 Před rokem

    U r soo much fun❤️..love ur vibe!haha

  • @joshuabaines6991
    @joshuabaines6991 Před 2 lety +2

    There’s no video for 3, 7, or 8 of this series. Do they just not fall in love?

  • @KendrixTermina
    @KendrixTermina Před 2 lety

    7:23 That is... my father, 1:1.
    Unfortunately for him & his holy ambitions, all the other family members were are night owls/late risers. There has got to be some church that is not at 6 in the morning... Now im not forgiving him if he was the last human on earth, but still, looking back he must've been pretty sad that no one was as enthusiastic about this as him.

  • @refuoecarolina7898
    @refuoecarolina7898 Před rokem

    #1 is sooo me. Now I understand why it's hard for me to forgive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣my baby daddy hurt me countless times then he came back and wanted us to work things out and we couldn't because I have a long list of what he's done and nope I'm not experiencing it again in future, so I'm gonna run🤣👍🏿

  • @axielotl2645
    @axielotl2645 Před 3 lety

    HI THIS VIDEO HURTS ❤️ I’m a 6 with BPD so like. All of this especially applies to me

    • @lh1125
      @lh1125 Před rokem

      I love your username btw!

  • @Vitaminb666
    @Vitaminb666 Před rokem

    Seems like I'm a very stable 6, because I do not relate to most of it but I see where such behavior can come from

  • @mya9042
    @mya9042 Před 2 lety

    How accurate this is...lol

  • @amritagitikam.7922
    @amritagitikam.7922 Před 3 lety +2

    I want to know abt ennegram 5 and 6 relationship. If you could make a video on this topic then it will be a grt help.
    ~ INTJ 5w6~4

  • @julia.vasilkova
    @julia.vasilkova Před 3 lety +1

    I was typed as sx9w1 but this video is sooooo me! Oh my!!! 🙈🙉🙊

  • @pointerdogmarketing2197

    Would a 6w5 be a blend of the 6 video and 5 video?

  • @honeymoney23
    @honeymoney23 Před 3 lety +1

    Jesus!! You read me 🙈

  • @whenyousmileismiletoo5419

    what a hard person i am to love

  • @medstudent1613
    @medstudent1613 Před 3 lety +1

    9:19 Not have to

  • @tellaphon6718
    @tellaphon6718 Před rokem

    People who forgive dont need to forget the lessons. People do change but not really quickly so i need to know whats coming lol.

  • @jonathanskeens79
    @jonathanskeens79 Před 3 lety

    you're exactly right! My wife is a saint!

  • @dkdndhjscdhsbdhsjjakqhw6244

    Noice, I'm a 6w7 inlove with a 6w5 😎

  • @user-vj9qz3br6l
    @user-vj9qz3br6l Před rokem

    It sounds like 6s are high maintenance and annoying 😢 - I am primarily a 6/2

    • @wiegraf9009
      @wiegraf9009 Před 10 měsíci

      Very characteristic of a 6 to be disappointed about being a six.

  • @tellaphon6718
    @tellaphon6718 Před rokem

    Except we who are good at mercy dont get the mercy inside of things.

  • @Undisputedkingdom24
    @Undisputedkingdom24 Před 3 lety +1

    Ellooooo👋🏻

  • @sarahaharper
    @sarahaharper Před 3 lety

    I definitely came to have a good time but I’m feeling a little attacked right now

  • @glendamcgee1779
    @glendamcgee1779 Před 9 měsíci

    Whoever it is in skillshare who has green hair.....avoid.

  • @danimationstudios9289

    ….read to filth

  • @TheBoyOnTheBlueMoon
    @TheBoyOnTheBlueMoon Před 7 měsíci

    This is all too real and I'm not sure how to take it