People are saying Zipho is the only victim here but even the boy is. Zipho used money to lure the boy into the relationship. If the tables were turned and she was a man, people would say this but because she's a woman, she's a victim. She's hurt and it's valid but never use your place of betterment to corner someone into a relationship with you and expect the relationship to be a normal one.
But she didn't use money to lure the guy,,,the guy was just lured by her money. As the guy said, he was only there bcoz of zipho thought they're in a relationship, not knowing it was all about her money. And Zipho seems like she's not stingy with her money that's why she even took in a child from next door. We can't say the boy is a victim, it was his choice, zipho never forced him,she didn't corner him,,,he's just the one who played with Zipho's feelings and time...not being honest about what he was really after. We also don't hear the guy saying he turned the offer down but zipho kept pestering.....he didn't turn it down......and as Zipho says, she doesn't force things that's why when he left, she didn't bother him. Maybe if he had declined the relationship offer, Zipho wouldn't force herself where she's not wanted. ##if someone decides to prostitute,even if it's bcoz of the situation at home, we can't really call you a victim...it's a matter of your choices and decisions
@@bossmindzo6539It's quite like that actually, this woman is a Pervert and an abuser.... She used that Boy as an adult imagine if it was a man bekuzothiwani, raise a girl child then sleep her ngoba umenzela izinto
hearing this boy saying he regrets being in the relationship with the older lady shows that he doesnt understand that had he continued look for jobs on the street that girl would not have taken a second look at him
I completely agree, she doesn’t deserve it! just to see what people are like. very ungrateful people use it mercilessly and make you look like a ladder and your feet are covered in mud! Ho, I'm calmer about everything that happened to me and I learned a lot and I have a calm heart
the fact that Zipho keeps mentioning that she "raised" both of them like shes their mother but was in a relationship with the boy just doesnt sit right with me lol. She should just move on, im pretty sure she can find someone closer to her age that would want her for her.
To think she was there for him all along and he left her when she needed him the most is very painful hle yho🥺😔and from him talking nje,it sounds like he was using her.
Lento yokuthandana ngemali nayi imiphumela wuye owazishelela wafuna ukuzilobola bethi kuyokwenzakalani this teaches elders to stick to their age mates u cant say ukhulise umntwana ubulala naye that is totally wrong in many ways this boy was vulnerable n Zipho took advantage of that n the boy saw an opportunity n used it which it was wrong on both sides stop dating iyingane ukhumulele ingane nje ngeke ikuhloniphe vele n the girl iyasho she ddnt know ukuthi they were dating n naye azange acabange ukuthi umamakhe angajola nontangayakhe weee zihlonipheni bakwethu kubuhlungu kunjalo zihlonipheni
This is so painful, I havent watched the full episode however she sounds like a kindhearted qnd selfless person. Betrayal from 2 people she's taken care of 😢
In all honesty According 2 me...they all in the wrong🤞🏾 It's a good thing dat they won't b friends anymore nokuthi lentwana iThandane no ntanga wakhe genuinely. I hst hope the cougar heals 4rm the pain of losing a baby and may she find her type sumwhere esontweni or espanini angaz.
@@KotsirlekDing her name was mentioned multiple times, it's kind of mean to call her that considering ubuhlungu aphuma kubo - kwaphuphuma isisu, bamkhaphela and then bamuhlaza publicly. Have some compassion.
Ohk guys plz help me. How to contuct this show. I want this ppl to trace Zipho for me ngizomenza umfazi wesbili. Ngithanda nje inhliziyo yakhe, unomoya omuhle. Engaba umama oqotho eynganen zam lo. "Ngithanda ukubona abantu abasondelene nam be happy, ngithanda ukbona abanye abantu beya phambili ngempili" ngivele nje ngafa dead. Ngenzelen ipln bafethu plz ❤❤❤❤
The older woman did everything, based on consent. The guy knew he didn't love her, but deciding to do it for the money & comfort & still slept with her. That's crazy, now she can't have children no more, cause of it.
I'm increasingly worried about the people we help, trust and do good for their well-being! In fact, betrayal comes from where we least expect it and is difficult to believe and you are always inattentive because you don't expect it to come from the other side. I will die without ever trusting anyone
Kodwa uZipho nguye owashela ingane encane and bekafuna kukunikeza umfana imali ayomlobola so ukhalelani yekela izingane zithandane ufune izintanga zakho uzogcina cc because unemali 😂😂
People are saying Zipho is the only victim here but even the boy is. Zipho used money to lure the boy into the relationship. If the tables were turned and she was a man, people would say this but because she's a woman, she's a victim. She's hurt and it's valid but never use your place of betterment to corner someone into a relationship with you and expect the relationship to be a normal one.
But she didn't use money to lure the guy,,,the guy was just lured by her money.
As the guy said, he was only there bcoz of zipho thought they're in a relationship, not knowing it was all about her money.
And Zipho seems like she's not stingy with her money that's why she even took in a child from next door.
We can't say the boy is a victim, it was his choice, zipho never forced him,she didn't corner him,,,he's just the one who played with Zipho's feelings and time...not being honest about what he was really after.
We also don't hear the guy saying he turned the offer down but zipho kept pestering.....he didn't turn it down......and as Zipho says, she doesn't force things that's why when he left, she didn't bother him.
Maybe if he had declined the relationship offer, Zipho wouldn't force herself where she's not wanted.
##if someone decides to prostitute,even if it's bcoz of the situation at home, we can't really call you a victim...it's a matter of your choices and decisions
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This thing of playing provider as a man is a trap coz of exactly this reasoning 😢 there's no winning.
Mantombazane yekani ukunika bafana bancane imali nithenga uthando
@@mercymathe1207Well said, agree 💯
She gave him a job only to use him cause she knew he had no one then ask him to marry her.... Hay makayeke ingane lo sisi hau
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Exactly ! She even said “ ngaba khulisa”! Wayizwaphi nje! Raising your own partner ? Bathong 😂😂
it's not quite like that. There are people who can marry her as she is. she did it for love, that's all
@@bossmindzo6539It's quite like that actually, this woman is a Pervert and an abuser.... She used that Boy as an adult imagine if it was a man bekuzothiwani, raise a girl child then sleep her ngoba umenzela izinto
Why we always say i can't live without you kanti seza nabo yin 😂😂😂yoh uthando liskhulumisa amanga
hearing this boy saying he regrets being in the relationship with the older lady shows that he doesnt understand that had he continued look for jobs on the street that girl would not have taken a second look at him
He knows that😂He just doesn't care...Most guys don't tbh.
Uthando lungavutha malangabi manje ngoba basalintshontsha vele into yokuntshontshwa imnandi, sebezobhekana bobabili manje bazoqala babhorane babenezinkinga baqale bacheatelane balwe basazojeza izinyembezi zakho zophendulwa ungabusakhala cc healer kubuhlungu kuzolunga
Why is no talking about how she pryed on a child?
Lets hold all three accountable for all they've done
How old was the "child"?
You're reaching
Zipho doesn’t deserve this, she has a pure heart 😢
I completely agree, she doesn’t deserve it! just to see what people are like. very ungrateful people use it mercilessly and make you look like a ladder and your feet are covered in mud! Ho, I'm calmer about everything that happened to me and I learned a lot and I have a calm heart
Eugine's Comments are everything and more😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He is so spicy 😂😂
Zipho don’t look down on you. You are beautiful and successful. Qhubeka nempilo
Oh yes she will get someone who loves her for her not for what she can provide.
But Zipho used this boy😂😂😂
Mhle kodwa Zipho kwa skin sakhe siclean❤❤
Best presenter🔥ay amacomments ka Eugene😂❤
I was with this lady yazi at the hospital and she Is a nice lady I was thee when she miscarriage Shem I also cried Shem be strong girl
The good heart always gets hurt the most 😢
This is so painful... I can feel her pain... Breaks my heart
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This show must be called KZN I am with EX
Exactly.
But Zipho looks like they are the same age
I can't believe my age mates sebe ngo sugar mama😂😂😂
I sooo wish i was the one saying 5 years done so that my boyfriend comes back to me...this long distance thing it's not for the weak 😢😊
😢ouch askies I only wish you the best kuphela in your relationship
Sorry mtasekhaya❤
Dairies of Ben 10. This is so complicated and hurt breaking.
She admitted to grooming this guy ! What did she really expect to build out of a relationship based on financial manipulation
Shame zipho askies love Nami ngibuya lapho
Zipho is beautiful 😍 ❤ I wish she could heal 😊
the fact that Zipho keeps mentioning that she "raised" both of them like shes their mother but was in a relationship with the boy just doesnt sit right with me lol. She should just move on, im pretty sure she can find someone closer to her age that would want her for her.
Eish kubuhlung cc into eyenziwee yintombazan ngikufiselaaa inhlanhla noma kungekho lulaa 😢😢😢❤❤
Money can never ever buy love
To think she was there for him all along and he left her when she needed him the most is very painful hle yho🥺😔and from him talking nje,it sounds like he was using her.
Lento yokuthandana ngemali nayi imiphumela wuye owazishelela wafuna ukuzilobola bethi kuyokwenzakalani this teaches elders to stick to their age mates u cant say ukhulise umntwana ubulala naye that is totally wrong in many ways this boy was vulnerable n Zipho took advantage of that n the boy saw an opportunity n used it which it was wrong on both sides stop dating iyingane ukhumulele ingane nje ngeke ikuhloniphe vele n the girl iyasho she ddnt know ukuthi they were dating n naye azange acabange ukuthi umamakhe angajola nontangayakhe weee zihlonipheni bakwethu kubuhlungu kunjalo zihlonipheni
Mina nje umama angajola nontanga wami uzongithola embhedeni wakhe naye untanga. Coz angeke athenge i purity snack bese sidliwa nguye kusho ukuthi uphathele nina ngane yakhe😅😅😅
Waze walikhuluma iqiniso xem i wrong lento kakhulu futhi
Yoo baqinisile ukuthi ungamthembi umuntu askies Cc uphole emoyeni 😢
Ayy ngeke naye losisi... Athi ngikhulise abantu ababili... Uyikhulisa kanjani boyfriend... Zincane lezingane, buka uthethisa lomfana engathi ingane yakhe😂
Umuhle we Zipho i love you girl uphole cc....
❤zipho
Trust no 1...kwaze kwabuhlung heal Zipho zomthola soul mate oryt haii lenja😢
This is so painful, I havent watched the full episode however she sounds like a kindhearted qnd selfless person. Betrayal from 2 people she's taken care of 😢
No wonder people dont help strangers anymore
lol Zipho akazigeze yena phela akashadile😂
In all honesty According 2 me...they all in the wrong🤞🏾
It's a good thing dat they won't b friends anymore nokuthi lentwana iThandane no ntanga wakhe genuinely.
I hst hope the cougar heals 4rm the pain of losing a baby and may she find her type sumwhere esontweni or espanini angaz.
She was blindsided by two people and you're going to reduce her existence by labelling her as a cougar? You're mean 😢
@@queenflippy ok correct me then... what's another word 4 older women who date young boys intentionally?
@@KotsirlekDing her name was mentioned multiple times, it's kind of mean to call her that considering ubuhlungu aphuma kubo - kwaphuphuma isisu, bamkhaphela and then bamuhlaza publicly. Have some compassion.
@@KotsirlekDing as for finding her type esontweni or espanini 🤣those are the worst places to go looking for love.
Umuhle wena sisi bakubukela phansi ngoba ungustufuza,kanti futhi awubazali niyalamana shiya.
Qinisile and muhle
Ncese Ziphoh cc❤️I hope uthole ukuphola enhlizweni
Admin ngiyacela ungixhumanise noZipho Gumbi
Usufuna ukumqedela 🤣🤣
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I love this show❤❤❤❤
Singamajida siyafloba sometimes ngyamzwela ustufuza😢
Kumanzi phantsi natsika😂😂😂😂
Waze wamuhle weZipho❤❤❤
Muhlimpela❤
bayafanela this young couple
Le ngane ivuma umfana engene phakathi kwabo uze u betray umuntu ofana no mama kuye
ayinguye nomama kuye ngu cc but uzenza mncinci lo
This two will face the worst karma yoo 😢😢
Hhay booo Zipho 😢😢😢 dlan mali yakho cc phume mfaneni please mncane njeeeee
Cha sikhohlakele kodwa sabantu besfazane Mmmm ai kuqinsiwe makthiwa sofa sazi
Yhoo Zipho u must be going through a lot now kodwa kuzodlula bt I hope ubakhiphile empilweni yakho
Kkkkk iyhooooh ayi nizinyoka mina nje angifuni muntu kwami rubish
iqiniso mabethi umuntu yincwadi engafundeki 😢
Le relationship ngekhe ize iphumelele bayeke cc wm😢
Zipho baleka gal. This situation is above you
Hlukanani namabhencane bodadewe2😅😅😅
Ohk guys plz help me. How to contuct this show. I want this ppl to trace Zipho for me ngizomenza umfazi wesbili. Ngithanda nje inhliziyo yakhe, unomoya omuhle. Engaba umama oqotho eynganen zam lo. "Ngithanda ukubona abantu abasondelene nam be happy, ngithanda ukbona abanye abantu beya phambili ngempili" ngivele nje ngafa dead. Ngenzelen ipln bafethu plz ❤❤❤❤
Shada mina!
@@kamomodule3947 😄😂🤣 kodwa mama, uthin manje. Nginengoduso nje mina. Uyolungan esthenjin?
@@thembacebo-zd6gi zama phela😂
Unamanga lomfana uma ethi imphatha kabi indaba ye miscarriage 😮😮😮😮😮
Waze wayiqola umfana😮 whuuu sies
lomama akayeke iingane
Ayi mdala kakhulu
The older woman did everything, based on consent. The guy knew he didn't love her, but deciding to do it for the money & comfort & still slept with her. That's crazy, now she can't have children no more, cause of it.
I'm increasingly worried about the people we help, trust and do good for their well-being! In fact, betrayal comes from where we least expect it and is difficult to believe and you are always inattentive because you don't expect it to come from the other side. I will die without ever trusting anyone
Mara Zipho nawe umdala yekela ingane
Lengane ithi UZipho uneconsi,ungreatfull soul.u never disappoint a person who stood by u in ur lowest!!!that relationship will neva be successful
😢Never
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Baby face Zipho gal🧡
Zipho go on with ur life umhle cc❤❤
This lady is a predator, she preyed on that boy 💔
I feel for zipho iyooo
😢😢😢😢 this is painful when people take advantage
Zipho was betrayed this couple is disgusting 🤮sine should be ashamed of herself
Lonto mhle nalo ben😂😂😂
Ahw ziho😩heal my baby ❤️
Shame Zipho sorry Cc sometimes inhliziyo yakho enhle ekgcineni ilimaza Wena mnikazi wayo uphole Cc umuhle bakithi love you darling ❤❤
Lo wandile uyinkinga
Uyabakhulisa bese ufuna kutidlela hhay booo
Zipho nawe mfethu askis koda muncane lomfana
Ngaze Ngamthanda Zipho
Lenzani lapho kwaZulu 😂
😄😀awusiyeke ziyakhala ziku loud speaker
Uyagwaza umkhonto 😂😂😂ndawo zonke
Indoda ayishelwa. The lady is older shame and manipulated the young man into a relationship cos he was poor.
Mhmh I'm so sorry 😢😢😢😢😢ziphokuhle you don't deserve this 💔💔💔💔
Yhoo ngaze ngabhlungu for uZipho😥😥
Zipho ngazeh ngakuzwela darl
Zipho yeka izingane umdala Wena
Zipho yiba strong cc a know yho pain darl
I feel for you Zipho
Awu kodwa nawe Sisi
Manje umenza kanjani umuntu okuthande kangaka engakwazi into enje.......hai man
Umuntu... Ujulile, ungabothi uyamazi and women don't live each other shem..... It's sad
Phephisa Zipho😢
Mmm ma Gumbi yooo ishlobo sam
Ziphi umuhle grl uzomthola umuntu oryt for wena okubuhlungu shemu
U warmed two snakes under your own bed
It shows how childish you both are, how do you say someone is your beginning and end
How do you say you don’t see life without another human being🙈🙈🙈
wabona ge oratana le bana gotlodirega tsona tse kepatela ya ngwana 😢
Yerrr 💔😥
Kub hlungu kuyazwela 😒
Zipho is a predator
Ufuna uboniswa abantu lo😢usezobaseNgxakin
Oooo yini uthando Zipho
Zipho uyen owaziletgela izinkinga by using imali cz futh uyen owashela
Kodwa why must she ask a man to marry her, even if he is older.
Zipho can we be friends
Bewuli Ben ten kahle kahle😂😂😂😂😂
Yoh this is so unsettling 😢
Kodwa uZipho nguye owashela ingane encane and bekafuna kukunikeza umfana imali ayomlobola so ukhalelani yekela izingane zithandane ufune izintanga zakho uzogcina cc because unemali 😂😂
Cc dnt frustrate le couple le.uz shelele lomfana.wamnikeza nwmali yokuku lobola.umncane kuwe.dnt blame him.usemtholile wakhe pls
Hes young vele wena boyfunaniingane.an wazishelela cc.mcabangele u Wandile.bo rong vele ukuthandana nomntwana
Mncane u Andile realy.bt cc nawe cabanga nje.bengeke lomfana akushade mncinci nje
I feel like ngibuka iMovie yoh😮😮😮😮