"This Is Why You're STILL SINGLE In Life!"| Jay Shetty

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Komentáře • 420

  • @shalu_fact_6596
    @shalu_fact_6596 Před 3 lety +100

    Single life might be boring but it's peacefull ❤️

  • @sara_208
    @sara_208 Před 3 lety +208

    Be patient, know your worth and the universe will reward you with someone perfect for you. ✨

    • @alphabeta3735
      @alphabeta3735 Před 3 lety +5

      💯% true.....just don't get this concept of chasing🧐🧐

    • @user-sm1cy3ss3y
      @user-sm1cy3ss3y Před 2 lety +1

      *That is false idea*

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 Před 2 lety

      There's no such thing as someone perfect for you that is utter bullshit

    • @slidermix9224
      @slidermix9224 Před 2 lety

      @@user-sm1cy3ss3y no really

    • @Chris-fb8jg
      @Chris-fb8jg Před 2 lety

      Yes I'm waiting for you

  • @prokurbah
    @prokurbah Před 3 lety +122

    The one who is reading this,
    You are PHENOMENAL my friend.
    Work hard for your PURPOSE!
    I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT DAY.

  • @LulaS
    @LulaS Před 3 lety +529

    Develop a great relationship with your own self first. Then, finding a partner becomes a choice, not an obsession.

    • @tineeew
      @tineeew Před 3 lety +4

      Nice

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +6

      Right, who truly knows themselves? As a certified life coach, this is exactly what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      This is what I teach, 1st find yourself, then you will attract the right people 😄
      Let’s connect to see if we can collaborate? I see we are in similar line of work 😄

    • @LulaS
      @LulaS Před 3 lety +1

      @@NidaJawedLife Thanks for your comment, awesome to connect with you, sure, let’s keep in touch and all the best with the coaching job 👍🏽

    • @katyp5914
      @katyp5914 Před 3 lety +1

      💯🙋🏽‍♀️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +1

      @@LulaS Thank you! I look forward to working with you soon

  • @ShaunHolden
    @ShaunHolden Před 3 lety +223

    We spend 24 hours a day with ourselves, but who truly knows themselves. We must first love ourselves before we can love anyone else.

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety

      Right, who truly knows themselves? As a certified life coach, this is exactly what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      Many sought validation from the others and try to fond the right person; what about loving yourself 1st and be the one who is found instead?
      And this is what I teach, 1st find yourself, then you will attract the right people 😄

    • @ShaunHolden
      @ShaunHolden Před 3 lety

      @Brian thank you very much, can I ask if you can spare a few minutes to check my channel out, I’ve been creating videos and Jay actually inspired me to start up!

    • @ShaunHolden
      @ShaunHolden Před 3 lety

      @Brian thank you my friend if I can ask you to watch one in particular please check out the one about discipline! As I think it’s one of the better produced ones

    • @ShaunHolden
      @ShaunHolden Před 3 lety

      @Brian thank you my friend

    • @roberthowell2502
      @roberthowell2502 Před 3 lety

      Too many online are masquerading and unable to be transparent and genuine.
      Narcissist everywhere, and dating info only works when the person is Truthful
      Not Deceptive which eliminates 85% of folks easily....
      Married to God🛡️

  • @alskup8249
    @alskup8249 Před 3 lety +27

    I feel like many people on dating apps don't know themselves and what they need. They focus on superficial things although the focus should be on compatibility. Don't expect someone to make you happy. Heal your past, love yourself and grow as a person, so when you will finally meet the right person, you will recognize them and you're ready to welcome them into your life.

  • @likeaboss516
    @likeaboss516 Před 3 lety +291

    Nothing wrong with bein single.

  • @TheTAMMY97
    @TheTAMMY97 Před 3 lety +58

    I am still single and not dating. Because I dont want to feel the pain and heartbroken again.

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +2

      Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is exactly what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, know how to be positive and mindful through the process.

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too....it was a rough ride.

    • @angelstarxo
      @angelstarxo Před 3 lety +1

      I feel u

    • @brendagonna6592
      @brendagonna6592 Před 3 lety +3

      Same here :(

  • @ilovegoddoyou7003
    @ilovegoddoyou7003 Před 3 lety +114

    Let's pray together! DEAR GOD, If I am wrong, right me, If I am lost, guide me. If I start to give up, please keep me going Lead me in light and love. Amen.💕

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan Před 3 lety +49

    *"It doesn't matter what your background is or where you come from; if you have dreams and goals, that's what matters."*

  • @vimilatv6957
    @vimilatv6957 Před 3 lety +41

    Single is freedom, which I love the most..! And love is end when we create boundaries for her/him

  • @afeefa304
    @afeefa304 Před 3 lety +73

    ❤ Stay single ! Don't mingle and the life is Jingle Jingle !!! 😛

  • @kc270352
    @kc270352 Před 3 lety +160

    if you're not happy being single, you will never be happy in a relationship, be happy with who you are and the way you are, your Single not Sorry💯

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety

      Right, who truly knows themselves? As a certified life coach, this is exactly what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      This is what I teach, 1st find yourself, then you will attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow not break us down

    • @marshmallowcat4983
      @marshmallowcat4983 Před 2 lety +4

      Not really. Some people find love and it drives them to be better.

  • @monz
    @monz Před 3 lety +210

    Actually, I’m single because I choose to be. Not everyone is desperate to be in a relationship. 🙄

    • @rajatsoni3763
      @rajatsoni3763 Před 3 lety +10

      Yea same but society will never understand (truth)😶

    • @babyhamisi5331
      @babyhamisi5331 Před 3 lety +4

      Same here single and happppppppppy

    • @jrtekking
      @jrtekking Před 3 lety +1

      Depression everywhere 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety +5

      same here I won't waste my time or change my priorities anymore just for a relationship

    • @DeepVerma728
      @DeepVerma728 Před 3 lety +2

      @@rajatsoni3763 You mean Indian society? India has 45 million more men then women.

  • @katherineliriano6164
    @katherineliriano6164 Před 3 lety +26

    I can’t stand the idea of meeting people with the sole purpose of seeing if we like each other or not 😅 it is too much pressure

  • @AlexFehrTheLoneWolf
    @AlexFehrTheLoneWolf Před 3 lety +18

    I'm still single cause I refuse to dump hours into dating apps hoping for my lottery ticket to finally be pulled. I'll wait, because I dont need anything and honestly being single while you're young is a last dance with freedom, a final chance to allow yourself to find yourself and not rely on others to "let you know who you are"

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +1

      Do you know who you are indeed? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +1

      Very well said, nothing but truth.

  • @buzz2573
    @buzz2573 Před rokem +14

    I'm 26 and single! Never experienced what love is! 🙂 but I know every wait has a worth.

  • @kteeshibambu-spokenword6896

    Finding love, finding that one compatible person is a great gift for anyone out there and I believe each one of us has that one person out there, and truth is, no one is perfect, but when we understand that we are also a work in progress, we will be able to love unconditionally!

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety +3

      unfortunately for some people their love depends on what they need from you

    • @AnkitSharma-sugarbrown
      @AnkitSharma-sugarbrown Před 3 lety +1

      But when you can say that it is unconstitutional 🤔

    • @keiron.4612
      @keiron.4612 Před 3 lety +1

      So true if you have a good heart that's all I care about flaws and all

    • @kteeshibambu-spokenword6896
      @kteeshibambu-spokenword6896 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BibaontheWay90 So true, that is why its very important to walk away as soon as you realize that...

    • @kteeshibambu-spokenword6896
      @kteeshibambu-spokenword6896 Před 3 lety

      @@AnkitSharma-sugarbrown You know the saying, "You will always get out what you put in", I believe if we can always love unconditionally, the same love will be given back...

  • @loveopenlynet
    @loveopenlynet Před 3 lety +53

    Despite popular belief, you CAN enter into a relationship now and keep working on yourself while you work on your relationship :) You don't have to work on yourself for 10 years first.

    • @babyhamisi5331
      @babyhamisi5331 Před 3 lety

      Thank you soo much

    • @tallspicy
      @tallspicy Před 3 lety

      Yes, working on yourself and working on yourself in a relationship are totally different things. They are way different skills!

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +3

      Working on yourself first, prior to entering a relationships sets a good base for it... but yes, I do agree.

    • @sharajackson2129
      @sharajackson2129 Před 2 lety +1

      Agree,being in a loving relationship still teaches us what we need to heal etc.. it never stops.

  • @natashax7157
    @natashax7157 Před 3 lety +3

    Single since 2018 and honestly I have been cool with it ....after being in a relationship for 17 Years........but Now its time , praying for GOOD HONEST AND GENUINE LOVE FOR 2021...even with pandemic going on.

  • @palakwanchoo9748
    @palakwanchoo9748 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you so much Jay Sir, I have come to know so much about life and living from you. Thanks a lot Jay Sir. You are my idol. Stay Safe and blessed always. LOVE U Sir

  • @BCS_HebaShakeel
    @BCS_HebaShakeel Před 3 lety +3

    Your thumbnails are so attractive.
    They look great and serve the purpose well

  • @LagunaLeonhart
    @LagunaLeonhart Před 3 lety +1

    Congrats for uploading a video of your own that actually leans into your expertise and strengths. I like it

  • @eashwarmurthy
    @eashwarmurthy Před 3 lety +24

    We can't find someone without finding ourselves first.

  • @winter8646
    @winter8646 Před 3 lety +34

    Almost 25 in two weeks, never had a boyfriend not even an “talking stage” but I’ve had crushes which turned out not the best and there were a few guys that would hit on me but it just never felt right. Sometimes I do feel like having a relationship or love is just not for me because I’m afraid of truly opening up myself but I’m praying as I try to focus more on myself and completely love and heal that maybe something will come along but until then I just honestly wanna focus on myself 🌻

    • @no-name1025
      @no-name1025 Před 3 lety +2

      i can feel you :") and we are also at the same age! happy early birthday~ all the best wishes for you🎉

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +3

      Right, who truly knows themselves? As a certified life coach, this is exactly what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      This is what I teach, 1st find yourself, then you will attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow not break us down

    • @missfraser9828
      @missfraser9828 Před 3 lety

      feel you

    • @tanisha8197
      @tanisha8197 Před 3 lety

      U seem more likely to be of Avoidant attachment style!

    • @winter8646
      @winter8646 Před 3 lety

      @@tanisha8197 Maybe. Probably why I’m currently in therapy, my parents didn’t do the emotional thing as much when I was a kid. I’m a work in progress, I’m definitely not giving up on myself because when I have kids one day and I want to be there emotionally as much as I can for them.

  • @AmandaGr
    @AmandaGr Před 3 lety +1

    I met my current boyfriend on Tinder. We are toguether for 2 years now. I kind of did this you mentioned. Took the app as an instrument to meet people that were not on my routine and got to know them from there. Didn't know I was being cientific at the time, just being critical abaout people.

  • @BibaontheWay90
    @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety +15

    It takes a strong person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with anything just to say they have something
    I am Single and Proud of that

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +1

      Strong is the keyword 👏🏼. Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and then, attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +1

      Well said!

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety

      @@NidaJawedLife well said 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @mariechardone2493
    @mariechardone2493 Před 3 lety +5

    Let God bring the right people to your life, trust His word and promise

  • @gauravbhan
    @gauravbhan Před 3 lety +14

    I am too tired of starting over again and again. 😁😌

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety

      Do you know who you are indeed? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

  • @jamesonhills266
    @jamesonhills266 Před 2 lety +2

    finding yourself focus on yourself and look at it think of things where you want to be who you want to be and what goals do you want to accomplish out of it. once you do all that everything falls into place naturally👍

  • @venkateshayappan9256
    @venkateshayappan9256 Před 3 lety

    Superb analysis. I love this part, writing complete sentences with proper grammar, about the person that is not obscene.

  • @irmabronder
    @irmabronder Před 3 lety +1

    In your Vedic Astrology horoscope it says if you get a partner, how you will find it, how your partner will be and what your partner will mean for you. Your partner is already somewhere. Improve yourself and say hello to everyone. Your partner might be the one you say hello to one day. People you meet are meant to come into your life to improve your soul. You are a spiritual being. I found my partner and I love him so much. He will make me a better person and I will make him a better person. The time you spend together must be fun. The universe has already planned out your life. Whatever you do keep your heart open for love. Much love. Xx

  • @adventureseeker310
    @adventureseeker310 Před 3 lety +5

    I am happy for being single and now i have a enough time to study.

  • @innerpeacemeditations1613

    Personal growth and self love first 🙏🙏💗💗🦋🦋

  • @angellie_jolie
    @angellie_jolie Před 2 lety +1

    Always looking out jay.. thank you.

  • @GabrielTobing
    @GabrielTobing Před 3 lety

    2:05 BOOM!
    EXACTLY!!!
    I've been saying this for a while now, most of the time, the imperfect is perfect.

  • @glanzastarletman
    @glanzastarletman Před 3 lety

    Thanks Jay, needed this.

  • @Chamseibnmasood
    @Chamseibnmasood Před 3 lety +1

    REAL TALK FROM A REAL G.

  • @christinanelson7081
    @christinanelson7081 Před 3 lety +3

    I would rather meet someone in person, and do it on my own, without pressure from others, because then it's more genuine and real. But in today's world, everyone thinks your odd or crazy if you CHOOSE to be alone. It's not a bad thing to be single for a while, I've realized that I have to learn to love myself, first, before I can love somebody. Its respect for others, and its respect for myself. The ones I love, didnt love me, I can't make them, and I refuse too. I say "them" because my first and only husband, didnt love me, or wasn't happy being with me, so I let him go. Maybe I was wrong, but he definitely told me that almost daily. Then, my second relationship, was a total sham! Like, I dont even think that guy ever loved me! It was more about getting even with someone, or using me. It's all good, because I am stronger now from it, and he taught me so much of what I won't accept in a man, and run from that person, immediately!! Another thing is, I won't be living with a guy, for quite sometime, due to being too clingy, too loving, and too smothering. I fall too hard, especially when the guy love bombs the crap out of me! Only to find out, he was manipulating me, and playing games! I've even come to realize, my last lover, was likely homosexual!! He likely was the entire relationship, but kept it from me! So next lover will definitely be cut off, if he starts giving signs of homosexuality. I have nothing against anyone that is LGBTQ, I just think it's really low, and a horrible thing to do to someone if you tell them you are straight, and he made sure to tell me he was 100% straight!! He left no clues out! But when he got caught being a big liar to me, and causing me so much pain & hurt, he must have found him another lover, but this time, it was with a man!! I think he honestly goes both ways now, and I don't care anymore. I dont want to ever accept what he put me through these last 5 or 6 years! I cant believe I stayed as long as I did! I felt like the biggest fool! All his lies, cheating, and stealing! Then, he brought others over to my home and they stole from me! I bet, he was even in on the stuff that happened to someone else I know? I bet he was in on that! Even though we moved, cause he constantly was moving me and my children state to state, which made no sense at all, and it was evil what he done to me. I have had to move so many times, be mistreated, kicked and spit on, and hit with things, and still I would come back for more?! Its because I have noone else. Or that is how these men, especially the last one, made me feel. I'm done with being threatened and lied too, by the liars and the fakes. If you dont think people dont already know what you done to me, and how you set me up? Your out of your mind!! I even know they know the lady, where my stuff is at! Now, unless I am told what is going on, than you have no rights to do me this way!! Spell it out, write a book like me, and then I'll know. Because I don't shit on people, they do me, and that is their double edged sword, because they manipulate the situation like 100% of the time, 24/7, to be that way! They are doing this, because of money. Most likely some type of insurance or inheritance or something they did. They tried to change the policy and make it look not in my favor, but everyone knows, and everyone is onto the fakes and lames as I am! I am done being beat down, degraded, and mistreated by anyone who doesn't want to respect me! I am so sick of people who act cocky & rude, and inconsiderate, thinking their cool. I always think of the golden rule when I meet new people, treat others how you want to be treated. So if I want to be treated with respect and kindness, than I have to give it! I always have, but for some reason, I always have a team of haters doing evil stuff to me.

    • @pollackmorgan3149
      @pollackmorgan3149 Před 2 lety

      Hello how are you doing hope you're safe over there👋👏

  • @miftahulislam426
    @miftahulislam426 Před 3 lety +53

    No im not single . My parents are with me ❤️❤️

    • @Lishkabro
      @Lishkabro Před 3 lety +2

      Family will always be #1 , there for you. Eventually you'll want to have kids , though, so then slowly look around for partner.

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +2

      Blessing indeed, but do you know who you are truly? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is exactly what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. I am glad you have parents by your side, but you will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset.

    • @tommyknokerbutterfly2733
      @tommyknokerbutterfly2733 Před 3 lety

      I totally agree with the concept of first knowing and loving myself, handling my own issues, learning to stay alone, developing and keeping an abundance mindset before being able to love and to be in a relationship. Learned it in the hard way... And i follow the path of making self improvement a passion and self awareness a habit. But: There may be a big misconception while saying "my parents are with me" or "spend time with family" as overseeing, that while not having a own family (in terms of relationship or at least kids) you eventually *will* end up being alone - whether you like it or not, bc somedays *you* are your one and lonely "family"... No reason for chasing anyone or anything, but ignoring that fact may misslead you in the long run. Keep strong!

    • @markuchiha7737
      @markuchiha7737 Před rokem

      That's the problem

    • @markuchiha7737
      @markuchiha7737 Před rokem

      Especially if your parents have no money for themselves, that's a problem. How can you get into this if you cannot leave them. How can you be yourself if you're living with your parents. It'll not help you grow. Believe me I experienced that. Parents have no money for themselves, and they're dependent on us.

  • @Jess-wb1sg
    @Jess-wb1sg Před 3 lety

    The research you talked about is very interesting!

  • @firenzeong317
    @firenzeong317 Před 3 lety

    What a great advice!!!

  • @desireenunez7824
    @desireenunez7824 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks Jay ♥️

  • @sabitashrestha8355
    @sabitashrestha8355 Před 3 lety +2

    I feel like you literally made this video for me lol.. I really needed this❤️

    • @itscandelight1766
      @itscandelight1766 Před 3 lety

      Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay

    • @itscandelight1766
      @itscandelight1766 Před 3 lety

      Trust me he is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay

  • @NsIX3
    @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +1

    I've spent a few years total on dating apps, and I can honestly say that they're full of shallow women. There's one specific "type" that seem to be plaguing the dating apps, which I won't get into. You'll find yourself wasting a ton of time swiping with little success, and this is coming from a good looking guy. Meeting people organically through a friends circle, or just out doing your thing is the best way to meet someone who's genuine.

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee Před 3 lety +1

    After like a decade of online dating and now these all too accessible apps instead of the paid stuff, I agree with filtering a lot. I worked on myself a lot too and have switched my thinking to: I'm the prize. I ain't got time to chase, that's a red flag! If your opening message is non existant or generic, next. If your profile is emtpy and half assed, next. If you show little effort to chat with me from the start, next.

  • @preranapatel9160
    @preranapatel9160 Před 3 lety +6

    Be yourself ❣️ Love yourself ❣️🇮🇳🙏

  • @kawtarniza3694
    @kawtarniza3694 Před 3 lety +3

    A big fan from Morocco ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sanprovictory3513
    @sanprovictory3513 Před 3 lety

    Cant find the match one.. stay healthy stay happy everybody.. tq so mucb Jay.. GBU

  • @Chamseibnmasood
    @Chamseibnmasood Před 3 lety

    VERY HELPFUL , TOP MAN.

  • @uzmarehman2419
    @uzmarehman2419 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for sharing

  • @ashabelwit740
    @ashabelwit740 Před 3 lety

    Thanks Jay

  • @danielleb6072
    @danielleb6072 Před 3 lety

    Love the 1 drink 1 hour method!

  • @kritikasewag292
    @kritikasewag292 Před 3 lety

    Uh r the best jay, whan an analysis and i bet its helpful to everyone..

  • @alphabeta3735
    @alphabeta3735 Před 3 lety +1

    People these days really need to be patient ...they do need to involve in understanding and analysing themselves first instead of chasing others.

  • @PrithihshaRavi
    @PrithihshaRavi Před 3 lety +5

    Hey Jay❤💥

  • @user-ns2rj8wu3d
    @user-ns2rj8wu3d Před 3 lety +1

    Nice!
    Thank you :)

  • @BeeReports444
    @BeeReports444 Před 3 lety +32

    """ Whoever is reading this, God bless you and your family """.....

  • @gurudra
    @gurudra Před 3 lety +25

    The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety

      Also loving yourself is the gratest love I think you can have in this life

    • @martaolivia5213
      @martaolivia5213 Před 2 lety

      Sometimes we learn to love ourselves through loving others ...

    • @shiddhantgaming7958
      @shiddhantgaming7958 Před rokem

      wow new way of making idiot out of anyone

  • @sonalisingh4771
    @sonalisingh4771 Před 3 lety +1

    Coz u are blessed

  • @brendagonna6592
    @brendagonna6592 Před 3 lety +2

    Omg i get tired of my mom complaining about me being single and my sister already married with 1 daughter and other girl on the way. Its better be single than be in abusive relationship or desperate have boyfriend or girlfriend

  • @funnygang5412
    @funnygang5412 Před 3 lety +10

    __♥️ You Are My Inspiration ❤️

  • @trishajoyceodal5169
    @trishajoyceodal5169 Před 3 lety

    Great Content Jay! ❤️

    • @itscandelight1766
      @itscandelight1766 Před 3 lety

      Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay

    • @itscandelight1766
      @itscandelight1766 Před 3 lety

      Trust me he is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol Před 3 lety +18

    If you read this, I hope you have an amazing day!!!

  • @talenttania5868
    @talenttania5868 Před 2 lety +1

    Never be desperate for love or to enter into a relationship it's very dangerous...love urself first and know what you want

  • @idontcare1983
    @idontcare1983 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm in love and happy 😘
    But sometimes i miss been single🤣

  • @linoversity
    @linoversity Před 3 lety +1

    I don't know man. If i ever have children and they ask me: "how did mom and you met?" I don't want to tell them, i swiped right. If live isn't about creating history worth telling, what else is it about? A friend of mine at work told me how he met his girlfriend. He was supposed to meet his future wife across the atlantic in a few weeks. Meanwhile he was needed for a big project and was irreplaceable. He went to the office of his boss and told him: "If i can't have vacation next week, I'll quit my job". It wasn't a thread, he promised to work all day if it's necessary, as soon as he's back and he did. The project went well and he met his wife. This is a live worth living for, in my opinion :)

  • @r.vindanithilakarathne7769

    I am ok with being single. I love if I can forever 😊

  • @Melly16yr10
    @Melly16yr10 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm just to stressed with life & have to many inscruties i'm dealing with not to mention a lot of anxiety 😣

  • @dinahassan4320
    @dinahassan4320 Před 3 lety +3

    Because I’m introvert person 😊

  • @mr.vengeance5083
    @mr.vengeance5083 Před 3 lety +3

    Recently, but first time a girl asked to become boyfriend of her to me & I said NO.... sounds crazy to me too...😄

  • @himanshidadheech5179
    @himanshidadheech5179 Před 3 lety +1

    U r so amazing

  • @sumanadak2077
    @sumanadak2077 Před 3 lety +23

    I m single frm past 20 years bro 😂❤️ and I don't regret 😂

  • @prernasalunke4126
    @prernasalunke4126 Před 3 lety

    Heard the podcast with the Gottmanns....It was great

  • @harshithadevib263
    @harshithadevib263 Před 3 lety

    U do added more reactions which spoiling or diverting me to listen to you or listen to the main content.

  • @Mitchpert
    @Mitchpert Před 3 lety +2

    First you gotta love yourself

  • @reganhill5510
    @reganhill5510 Před 2 lety +2

    Ive given up on dating. Im in mid-40s and would rather live with my cat.

  • @soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860

    Hello Jay shetty I am 25 from Australia my parents have hated each other I am survivor of domestic violence from my father I have strong trust issues I have been single for five years people tell me my standards are too high but I don't want to settle I am on my healing process right now I learnt that vulnerability is dangerous I have had high walls up to protect myself so now iam allowing myself to feel again. So I am committed to my own healing right now I do wanna get married own day but iam not in a rush I love freedom and I don't wanna lose my strong sense of Independence

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety +2

      when people say your standards are too high it reflects their low self esteem , don't let their words get in to you just ignore them

    • @soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860
      @soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BibaontheWay90 no I don't no one can hurt me more than my father did he broke my heart before any other guy could

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety +1

      @@soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860 I am sorry to hear this but it is okay we don't get to choose our parents in the end . Best of luck to you :)

    • @soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860
      @soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860 Před 3 lety +2

      @Bibaontheway but iam grateful to be alive and that iam working on my healing. I know now that I can Survive on my own that's a powerful lessons I went through hell with my father alone I had friends but no one knew at the time. And now iam healing myself with the help of my friends and praying to God and Listening to Jay shetty and podcasts and Russell brand I also love I hope both of these legends do some online work together in this new year

    • @BibaontheWay90
      @BibaontheWay90 Před 3 lety +1

      @@soulsearchermusicsavedmyli3860 glad to hear this ; keep working on your healing and again best of luck to you :))

  • @zuesos29
    @zuesos29 Před 3 lety +1

    43, happily single, focusing on me this year

  • @rahulbhavsar5077
    @rahulbhavsar5077 Před 2 lety

    Proud to be single 🥰

  • @allygirls1
    @allygirls1 Před 2 lety

    It is not that simple as they make it to be. There are hundreds of fake profiles on every single dating app that gets taken down every minute. It is about opportunity and how often do you get that opportunity?

  • @jayshreeparanjpe6582
    @jayshreeparanjpe6582 Před 3 lety +1

    Be happy on being single.to be single is not wrong.lts own.. decision...after landing and bumping up around with wrong person...learn from past experience and learn from it...Yes... you should be happy...love and respect. Your self..lf it is written in destiny...sure you will not be single...you..will get married soon 🙏💯🇮🇳. namaste 🙏

  • @rolsonvas7122
    @rolsonvas7122 Před 3 lety

    Thanks man ...
    I was being too picky, before i watched this video ...

  • @H351gbgone
    @H351gbgone Před 3 lety

    oh really i always thought must have the same interest then it will be much easy to connect ?

  • @SachinYadav-cj1kr
    @SachinYadav-cj1kr Před 2 lety

    After this, "See things not need to be complicated I am fine being single"

  • @micahactive8272
    @micahactive8272 Před 3 lety +2

    I'm 32 and i'm not pressured of being single.

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety

      Do you know who you are indeed? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and then, attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

  • @kalasatwater2224
    @kalasatwater2224 Před 10 měsíci

    Single and peaceful, no stress

  • @dreamerguy96
    @dreamerguy96 Před rokem +1

    I just have a tendency of attracting girls who really aren't that attractive and the girls I do find attractive don't find me attractive. Which leads to me thinking I'm just ugly 🙃

  • @friendship9904
    @friendship9904 Před 3 lety

    I been single for 14 yrs I just released how happy I am i done the stuff that I wanted to like travel overseas study go out were i want and who I want to go with 20 yrs ago is different than now. Now days U see people in relationship for wrong reason or not happy in relationship or even we trying to find someone who looks like them or looks. I say there's 5 things r missing in realtio ship
    1been urself
    2 feeling safe
    3 relax
    4 enjoying each other company
    5 some one U can chat with and be open to

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm Před 3 lety

      hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm Před 3 lety

      there is a love specialist who helped me get my ex back after 2years of divorce

    • @friendship9904
      @friendship9904 Před 3 lety

      @@LoveLife-ry5mm nah I am happy just been friends because there's things I just released that it will never work out because his a player

    • @friendship9904
      @friendship9904 Před 3 lety

      @@LoveLife-ry5mm I wish many happyness and hope Ur ex makes U happy

    • @babalecus6138
      @babalecus6138 Před 3 lety

      contact her via WhatsApp if you have a problem and if you want your ex to come back💔💓💓💓💓

  • @swethavinayshankar8657

    First impression is the besties and partners

  • @marivicangiwan4291
    @marivicangiwan4291 Před 3 lety +1

    Self love♥♥♥♥

  • @victory9015
    @victory9015 Před 3 lety

    I spent day or even years thinking whats wrong with me why women don't like me and when women was very friendly to me i was thinking whole day "was she interested in me" then later no way that kind women can be interested about me. When women looked at me i was thinking "was she interested" etc. This may sound very crazy but finding a girl to my life was very important to me. I had somehow kind a pressure to find a girl to my life.I had pressure because i have been told that without women there's no life and i to be liked from all to fit in with all. Later in life i learned that i can't please everyone.
    This happened when i was early 20's. Now im 31 years old and i already gave up on women and went my own way and im trying to develop myself.

    • @lilyskitchen2102
      @lilyskitchen2102 Před 3 lety

      Try keeping the conversation flowing when any woman approaches you or you approach her. Talk about why you are in that particular place you are at and if you like her ask her number. It's easy as that.

    • @victory9015
      @victory9015 Před 3 lety

      @@lilyskitchen2102 I already gave up, It doesn't matter anymore. But thanks for advice.

    • @omegadragoon1544
      @omegadragoon1544 Před 2 lety

      @@victory9015 I don't even trust other women.. besides my siblings have their significant other and I'm devoted to my mother

    • @victory9015
      @victory9015 Před 2 lety +1

      @@omegadragoon1544 You sound like a smart man. Continue not trusting women.

    • @omegadragoon1544
      @omegadragoon1544 Před 2 lety

      @@victory9015 thanks. I always think they're lying to me...or I'm not good enough for them

  • @LagunaLeonhart
    @LagunaLeonhart Před 3 lety

    7 mins in. My messages to women ALWAYS tick all 3 of Christina's boxes but it doesn't help in most cases. I either get ignored or unmatched by those I fancy.

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety

      Do you know who you are indeed? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and then, attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

  • @siddhantsingh9071
    @siddhantsingh9071 Před 3 lety +2

    I been single from last 1 year but each day I was struggling to be single

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety

      Do you know who you are indeed? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

  • @JohnMortonIV
    @JohnMortonIV Před 3 lety +1

    I stopped doing the dating sites because they would NEVER work for me. I would talk to some women on them and the conversations would never last long. Most of them would never reply to any of my messages.

    • @NidaJawedLife
      @NidaJawedLife Před 3 lety +1

      Do you know who you are indeed? Growth happens when we are out of our comfort zone-As a certified life coach; this is precisely what I teach people to do, discover themselves.
      I teach, 1st find yourself and then, attract the right people 😄 whether for a relation or friendship. Each one of us needs those that help us grow, not break us down. You will be on your life’s journey with your decisions and mindset, develop a beautiful thought process to build a beautiful life.

    • @NsIX3
      @NsIX3 Před 3 lety +1

      When it comes to dating apps, people are disposable. The average women has a ton of guys in the dm's, so the odds of keeping them interested long enough to get anywhere is very slim.

  • @armass631
    @armass631 Před 3 lety

    This is interesting..

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer1245 Před 3 lety

    Me: *not even thinking of dating anytime soon!*
    CZcams: ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE MYSELF!
    Anyway... If you're here for dating advise from Jay, here's the nutshell:
    1. Are they listening and interested to know you more?
    2. Are they playing games? (RED FLAGS!).
    3. Honest and Sincere?
    4. Attentive?
    5. Kind or Critical?
    6. Generous?
    7. Respectful, substance and character?
    8. Does it feel good to be with them?
    I used to try understand women for a while in my life. It doesn't matter to much anymore, but I totally agree with Jay. Dating sites are crap! - be a man, approach girls in the real world (they won't bite you, promise!) and go talk to someone you like. I promise you won't regret it!

  • @davidallen5776
    @davidallen5776 Před 3 lety

    I'm kind of gun-shy about a lot of things these days. I want to play it safe and smart.

  • @malathydolly04
    @malathydolly04 Před 3 lety +1

    I would better be single 🤭 relationship is not my kind 😀thanks alot for ur video ...

  • @tallktolhooralydia5910

    This video makes mi subscribe 😭😭😭😭 yesterday l was abt to give up bt deeply my hrt deeply his hrt we truly loves each other and we decided to forgive and forget and moves on with our love some prayers pliz 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @itscandelight1766
      @itscandelight1766 Před 3 lety

      Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay

    • @itscandelight1766
      @itscandelight1766 Před 3 lety

      Trust me he is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay